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NB: I wrote my in initial comment ....**before..and I repeat ***BEFORE I saw what the female said at 3mins; 25seconds. So, I'll say it again for the men at the ''back'' or who simply don't get it. If she finds you physically attractive she wouldn't give a damn where /how a man approaches her but . However if she doesn't , as far as she is concerned you're ''harassing'' her, you're a ''creep'' she's got a ''boyfriend'', she can't ''talk'' because she's ''busy''.
His side profile is actually rlly good and then u see him up to face, and still he manages to pull. I respect maximizing ur stats in talking to girls even without that good genetics.
@@dragan176 I sympathise with it because I had such a black and white/blackpill view in the past as well. I'd listen to hours of F&F everyday, and it corrupted my mind!
@@BartekSocial Yes, I also have a lot of sympathy for them. But it's going to take an honest 1 on 1 conversation with them. It's too easy to ignore comments and run away
The problem is girls will tell, just be nice to her/just be yourself - and if u apply that advice, girls will literally reject/ghost u constantly, and u will be left wondering why. It's because the guy that the girl is referring to when she says those things is a guy that she is ALREADY ATTRACTED to. Not a complete stranger.
Well sometimes the opinions are biased and they lie to you to make you feel happy and some of them are honest opinions. So filter through the biased opinions and apply the honest ones to get better results
come on flirting in UK or in northern europe is like ice hockEY...cold and boring..poeple dont smile and have no vibe their ..without alcohol no fun.. look at italy spain turkey...latin space..everybody is smiling and flirting and enjoying life
You’re not wrong mate, it’s definitely one of the harder regions of the world to cold approach. In the girls’ defence, I was filming this video on a uni campus and it’s exam season, so all the girls were pretty stressed I think haha. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s to do with the weather tbh. The regions you mentioned have a much warmer climate than Northern Europe, and from my own experience, I’m much happier when it’s warm and sunny!
@@jay-xx definitely! Having said that though, you shouldn't be put off approaching a girl just because she lives in a certain country. Just be positive, and you never know who you'll connect with :)
Those places won't necessarily be easier, I would say they're less atomized than Northern Europe, and have more of an ingroup preference. But sure, you may get more smiling.
I Never understood this 5:22 - ... So let me get this straight; you don't give your number out... Something that's only tied to messaging / calling your phone / that you can always change. But you'll give out a social media profile with your details and network of friends / contacts with pictures and videos. What the actual fuck 😂 it's like anyone who parrots that has never had one critical thought in their life.
Yeah that’s a very good point mate. For some reason, social media seems to be the less intrusive contact to swap, although as you quite rightly say, you overall find out much more about a person through their social media compared to their number…
Improve your appearance, that's my advice, this man was getting rejected left, right and center because he was dressed like he didn't have a care in the world. Different story here, he's been hitting the gym, would love his barber's number, very nice t-shirt and a very clean pair of jeans on, could've put in some more effort with the shoes but in the end that's a really nice jacket.
But I agree, appearance is important, and how you dress is a contributing factor to that. Doesn’t have to be expensive clothing, but it should look good on you
Hey bartek if you do get the number do you "text message" them or ask other social media from text and how long do u speak to the girl before asking her out
I usually just message the girl using the contact info that she gave me. If she gave me her number, I’ll text her. If she gave me her Instagram, I’ll message her on there. This video answers your question perfectly: th-cam.com/video/Z-wl4mM7ppI/w-d-xo.html
The woman in the white top probably wouldnt entertain a guy who wasnt in her university probably because she does not want to date anybody outside of her social class and social circle, this is a Southern middle to upper middle class woman who already has a plethora of options to begin with. I see this with a lot of posh southern students that move to my home city of Manchester, they tend to only have friendships and date within their social class and status, which she is already in the upper echelons of by default. Most men will try and have a genuine conversation with this woman but the vast majority of times she isnt going to be interested and doesnt have to invest. Ive seen this dynamic play out with these types of women, which is why I am happy when I the woman isnt a posh Southern English girl, they just seem to have an air of snobbery and coldness/aloofness, which to be honest just turns me off.
Bartek I am 17 years old, how would I approach a girl on a bus station waiting for the same bus as me? Idk how to start a convo... should I say hey and then ask for her name and then ask some other questions or should I say how are you and continue from there? Id appreciate any tips for a teenager who is tryna improve on this field and not tryna get to know someone online but in real lifee. btw awesome content mate!
The best way to start a conversation with a stranger in any situation is to really put yourself in the present moment and focus on the present moment only. What is she wearing? What is she doing? What’s your environment like? Use these things to make observations. Eg. Start a convo by making an observation about her outfit and what you like about it. Make an assumption about where you think she’s taking the bus to. Whether it’s the right assumption or not, she’ll be curious why you made that particular assumption. Even as simple as commenting on the weather can be a good convo starter. Let me know how the conversation goes with her! 🙂
Top class mate good job for the edit too... It would be cool if you ask a girl to tell you how would she be wanted to get cold aproached and after 1-2 minutes come back and do what she told you to her to see how would she react... Maybe an idea for another video
Thanks a lot mate! I think for me it is around 1 in 3, but it can vary a lot. Some days you may get the number of every girl you approach, and other days you may approach 10 girls and get zero numbers. It’s all about perseverance 👊🏻
The women want the guy to have social proof and status with said environment, this is even more pronounced with English women, the issue is is that with dating being online more and more, it is even harder for men to meet women today than ever before. How often are the women Bartek interviews ever breaking the ice with men, hardly ever. I genuinely feel sorry for so many young men these days, because I can see how little connection, validation and attention most men get. You are far better dating outside of the UK in my opinion, although I don't mind Scotland as much. The American girl talking about whether men care or not, I mean do most of these women care about the mental health of men who are treated as though they don't even exist and are not even worth a conversation, I remember being at University when I was younger and feeling invisible, it wasn't until my late 20s that I started to get success with women, these women get attention, connection and validation from men by default.
its always easier when away from home becasue noone knows you and you will never see those people again @@rjflores438 but british women are the easiest of any i have come accross, they actually appraoch the men
Mate, you never listen to girls about stuff like this. What they say they respond to and what they actually respond are usually the complete opposite. You don't ask a turkey how it wants to be cooked.
guys, dont waste life doing this nonsense. you will never get a quality girlfriend. when i was in uni, i just experimented and approached over 200 girls. luckily, i did not waste much time and did all of that during my 2nd year. max you will get, is few lays which you can easily get anyway(if you pay). Its totally useless whoever gives you the advice, whether girl or guy. focus on earning money, throwing parties, going to social events or if you really wanna approach, do it in social places, not on the streets , grocery or any random public place.
@@tonyadams8812 no, thats not how it works. men fall for attractiveness and women fall for personality. go and ask 100 women, you will see either they did not want to date their bf in the beginning or only dated people who were friends initially. thats because they must know your personality. also, they must trust you and feel safe with you. when these 3 match, only then they agree to date. and none of these is present in cold approach. she doesnt know your personality, and even if you talk for some time, she does not trust you or feel safe around you. cheers
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If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
NB: I wrote my in initial comment ....**before..and I repeat ***BEFORE I saw what the female said at 3mins; 25seconds. So, I'll say it again for the men at the ''back'' or who simply don't get it. If she finds you physically attractive she wouldn't give a damn where /how a man approaches her but . However if she doesn't , as far as she is concerned you're ''harassing'' her, you're a ''creep'' she's got a ''boyfriend'', she can't ''talk'' because she's ''busy''.
His side profile is actually rlly good and then u see him up to face, and still he manages to pull. I respect maximizing ur stats in talking to girls even without that good genetics.
Never ask a fish how to a fish ask the fisher man😅
I don’t think it’s as black and white as that.
And as the video proved, the girls’ advice was pretty good 🤷🏼♂️
@@BartekSocial Incel black pillers listening to others and having nuance? What world are you living in?
@@dragan176 I sympathise with it because I had such a black and white/blackpill view in the past as well. I'd listen to hours of F&F everyday, and it corrupted my mind!
@@BartekSocial Yes, I also have a lot of sympathy for them. But it's going to take an honest 1 on 1 conversation with them. It's too easy to ignore comments and run away
@@dragan176 definitely
The problem is girls will tell, just be nice to her/just be yourself - and if u apply that advice, girls will literally reject/ghost u constantly, and u will be left wondering why. It's because the guy that the girl is referring to when she says those things is a guy that she is ALREADY ATTRACTED to. Not a complete stranger.
If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
@@tonyadams8812 girls hate nice guys
Approching London girls is mad bruv
No! If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
Camera man understood the assignment 13:33
Was looking for this comment😂😂
This man's gonna blow up soon trust me 🔥
Appreciate your support mate 🙏🏻
He’s actually the most raw one I’ve seen, it’s crazy.
Well sometimes the opinions are biased and they lie to you to make you feel happy and some of them are honest opinions. So filter through the biased opinions and apply the honest ones to get better results
i need some advice on how to approach and talk to a girl
My boy getting better with each video.
Appreciate that brother 🙏🏻
I can see the production value rising Bartek! keep it up mate
Thanks a lot Abu! 🙂
come on flirting in UK or in northern europe is like ice hockEY...cold and boring..poeple dont smile and have no vibe their ..without alcohol no fun..
look at italy spain turkey...latin space..everybody is smiling and flirting and enjoying life
You’re not wrong mate, it’s definitely one of the harder regions of the world to cold approach. In the girls’ defence, I was filming this video on a uni campus and it’s exam season, so all the girls were pretty stressed I think haha.
I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s to do with the weather tbh. The regions you mentioned have a much warmer climate than Northern Europe, and from my own experience, I’m much happier when it’s warm and sunny!
@@BartekSocial yes i Think the wheather is a important factor
@@jay-xx definitely!
Having said that though, you shouldn't be put off approaching a girl just because she lives in a certain country. Just be positive, and you never know who you'll connect with :)
Those places won't necessarily be easier, I would say they're less atomized than Northern Europe, and have more of an ingroup preference. But sure, you may get more smiling.
I Never understood this 5:22 - ... So let me get this straight; you don't give your number out... Something that's only tied to messaging / calling your phone / that you can always change.
But you'll give out a social media profile with your details and network of friends / contacts with pictures and videos. What the actual fuck 😂 it's like anyone who parrots that has never had one critical thought in their life.
Yeah that’s a very good point mate.
For some reason, social media seems to be the less intrusive contact to swap, although as you quite rightly say, you overall find out much more about a person through their social media compared to their number…
What do you do with all those numbers
bro, ur game is top notch! The girls just have too high standards these days
next time go upto girls and say 'can i be your sugar daddy' I think that ll get you lotsa views
cheers for the content Bartek, see you soon mate
Rizz king
What is ivy the 2 girls said?
I don’t understand?
6:30 dude this girl is uncomfortable and not into talking with u. She’s not interested at all. Just see her body language
Think you missed the mark with this one aha. I asked her if she was happy to be in the video before I started to film
Improve your appearance, that's my advice, this man was getting rejected left, right and center because he was dressed like he didn't have a care in the world. Different story here, he's been hitting the gym, would love his barber's number, very nice t-shirt and a very clean pair of jeans on, could've put in some more effort with the shoes but in the end that's a really nice jacket.
Do you mean I was getting rejected left right and centre before?
But I agree, appearance is important, and how you dress is a contributing factor to that.
Doesn’t have to be expensive clothing, but it should look good on you
No!If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
sound is terrible...please do something about it in the futur
didnt mean to be harsh, i was probably having a bad day i guess...anyways you are much loved and respected...your biggest fan ✌
Manchester!!!
Some women are just so closed off to new opportunities
If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
I really don't know why your channel hasn't blow up yet bro, keep making these videos
Thank you bro 🙏🏻
Great videos! Thanks for show to a Mexican how to approach English girls
Let's go boys! New Bartek video
My guy 👊🏻 hope you enjoy this one!
dude please use compressor or something cause audio is not loud enough. good shit tho keep it up.
Thanks bro
Dope channel im subscribed, pls never do fake approachs I can tell n I'll block U
bro where did you get that jean? I like it
They’re actually my friends. He let me borrow them haha
I think he just got them in a thrift store
Another banger. Super entertaining brother.🙌
Thanks Gabriel, really appreciate it mate 🙏🏻
Hey bartek if you do get the number do you "text message" them or ask other social media from text and how long do u speak to the girl before asking her out
I usually just message the girl using the contact info that she gave me. If she gave me her number, I’ll text her. If she gave me her Instagram, I’ll message her on there.
This video answers your question perfectly: th-cam.com/video/Z-wl4mM7ppI/w-d-xo.html
Going viral with this one bro 🔥📈
Thanks mate 👊🏻
The graph has pretty much levelled off, hopefully it goes back up though! 😆
Where was this bro?
Manchester
Great video mate
Cheers bro!
Knew it was gonna be a good video based on the title
Appreciate it brother 🙏🏻
Also, well done on 900 subs!
Amazing video bro thanks a lot👌🔥❤❤❤❤🥰🥰🙏🤗🤗just please 🙏 can you put for us which country and which city in every video?
This was Manchester, UK
@@BartekSocial thanks bro ,you can write it down in every vidéo ❤🥰
The woman in the white top probably wouldnt entertain a guy who wasnt in her university probably because she does not want to date anybody outside of her social class and social circle, this is a Southern middle to upper middle class woman who already has a plethora of options to begin with. I see this with a lot of posh southern students that move to my home city of Manchester, they tend to only have friendships and date within their social class and status, which she is already in the upper echelons of by default. Most men will try and have a genuine conversation with this woman but the vast majority of times she isnt going to be interested and doesnt have to invest. Ive seen this dynamic play out with these types of women, which is why I am happy when I the woman isnt a posh Southern English girl, they just seem to have an air of snobbery and coldness/aloofness, which to be honest just turns me off.
If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
Very good vid bro
Thanks a lot bro 👊🏻
It's all about the voice and the look. I have a friend who is a good looking guy but his voice is annoying.
Bartek I am 17 years old, how would I approach a girl on a bus station waiting for the same bus as me? Idk how to start a convo... should I say hey and then ask for her name and then ask some other questions or should I say how are you and continue from there? Id appreciate any tips for a teenager who is tryna improve on this field and not tryna get to know someone online but in real lifee. btw awesome content mate!
The best way to start a conversation with a stranger in any situation is to really put yourself in the present moment and focus on the present moment only. What is she wearing? What is she doing? What’s your environment like?
Use these things to make observations.
Eg. Start a convo by making an observation about her outfit and what you like about it.
Make an assumption about where you think she’s taking the bus to. Whether it’s the right assumption or not, she’ll be curious why you made that particular assumption.
Even as simple as commenting on the weather can be a good convo starter.
Let me know how the conversation goes with her! 🙂
love your vids mate
Thank you mate, really appreciate it 🙂
Top class mate good job for the edit too... It would be cool if you ask a girl to tell you how would she be wanted to get cold aproached and after 1-2 minutes come back and do what she told you to her to see how would she react... Maybe an idea for another video
You’ve actually given me a fantastic idea for a video mate!
Similar to your suggestion, but with an extra twist, so thank you! 👊🏻
Thanks for the video. Do you do boot camps too?;)
Yes I do. If you’re based in the UK, book a free call with me using this link: calendly.com/_bartek_/thiswillchangeyourlife
@@BartekSocial I am based in Ireland. Boot camp in Ibiza or Spain would be great.
@@urbw.688I’m Ireland to u want join and start doing the cold approach?
You should have used that advice on themselves - who gave you. that'd be more fun.
That’s a video that I’ve got planned for the near future, so stay tuned 👀
Love it, meet up in manchester for the northern gang?
Definitely!
I’ll try sort something for June maybe
This video is a banger keep it going 🫡
Thanks a lot Marcus, really appreciate it 🙏🏻
Nice video man, great info!
How many aproaches to get a phone number you think is needed from your expirence (1 in 3, 1 in 5 etc.)?
Thanks a lot mate!
I think for me it is around 1 in 3, but it can vary a lot.
Some days you may get the number of every girl you approach, and other days you may approach 10 girls and get zero numbers.
It’s all about perseverance 👊🏻
maxed rizz
Haha cheers bro 😎
siema Bartek. Pzdr z Polski
Pozdrawiam również 👊🏻
The women want the guy to have social proof and status with said environment, this is even more pronounced with English women, the issue is is that with dating being online more and more, it is even harder for men to meet women today than ever before. How often are the women Bartek interviews ever breaking the ice with men, hardly ever. I genuinely feel sorry for so many young men these days, because I can see how little connection, validation and attention most men get. You are far better dating outside of the UK in my opinion, although I don't mind Scotland as much. The American girl talking about whether men care or not, I mean do most of these women care about the mental health of men who are treated as though they don't even exist and are not even worth a conversation, I remember being at University when I was younger and feeling invisible, it wasn't until my late 20s that I started to get success with women, these women get attention, connection and validation from men by default.
the only people who say uk is harder are foreign people living in the uk, uk is easy for natives
@@piedpiper1201 I am from the UK. I always find it easier to talk to women when I am abroad on holiday.
its always easier when away from home becasue noone knows you and you will never see those people again @@rjflores438 but british women are the easiest of any i have come accross, they actually appraoch the men
If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
3:40 look at the delusional girl who is a 3 out of 10 unrolling the scroll of standards LMAO
All she wants is a guy who’s confident and funny. It’s not exactly that hard aha
Mate, you never listen to girls about stuff like this. What they say they respond to and what they actually respond are usually the complete opposite. You don't ask a turkey how it wants to be cooked.
I don’t think it’s as black and white as that tbh
guys, dont waste life doing this nonsense. you will never get a quality girlfriend. when i was in uni, i just experimented and approached over 200 girls. luckily, i did not waste much time and did all of that during my 2nd year. max you will get, is few lays which you can easily get anyway(if you pay). Its totally useless whoever gives you the advice, whether girl or guy. focus on earning money, throwing parties, going to social events or if you really wanna approach, do it in social places, not on the streets , grocery or any random public place.
True tbf! I got a one night stand approaching on the street sober but she led me on used me and then ghosted me it was a horrible experience
If she finds you physically attractive she won't care if you ''cold'' approach her, if she doesn't , you're a ''creep''!
@@tonyadams8812 no, thats not how it works. men fall for attractiveness and women fall for personality. go and ask 100 women, you will see either they did not want to date their bf in the beginning or only dated people who were friends initially. thats because they must know your personality. also, they must trust you and feel safe with you. when these 3 match, only then they agree to date. and none of these is present in cold approach. she doesnt know your personality, and even if you talk for some time, she does not trust you or feel safe around you. cheers
@tonyadams8812 true I approached an American woman and she said "do you want my number" and we hooked up a few days later
@tonyadams8812 true I cold approached an American woman and she said "do you want my number" and we hooked up a few days later