Man nothing but respect and admiration for you - such a heavy burden for an innocent kid to bear and my heart weeps for you. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you for what you survived, endured and now for having the bravery and strength to speak about your story and potentially help so many other kids in your position. God bless you bro
As you know, you are not alone. Some of us are still dealing with these traumas as much as you are. Later as an educator I had developed a sixth sense for victims around me just as a tracker dog sniffs a trail. Self-defence courses from the age of twelve helped with the anger, extreme sports balanced with classical dancing, studying continuously. Eventually we find balance in life at our pace. 👍
I was molested for years by my dad's cousin while my dad was fighting a war in yougoslavia aka kosovo. He would stay with us to help my mom out. His brother also stayed with us. Ironically while the one molested me the other one stole over 10,000$ back in 1996. I was 10 years old. It ruined my life. It confused my sexual attraction and my trust in people. I'm now 37 but have no relationship and dark depression. I've had thoughts of ending it all but the last two years have been better. I moved to Germany to help my ailing grandmother . It has helped alot. I found a job after giving up my dream career in a level one pediatric and adult trauma center working in the emergency department.
Thank you so much for this, it's very hard to find any male abuse stories. My two boys disclosed to me, my ex is denying it, police are investigating it. The court case have still said he can have supervised visits because he is the dad. I'm not in the UK and my 7 year old had so many symptoms that I was bringing him to the doctor about for 18 months. My lawyer said so many cases get thrown out for lack of evidence. I found you as I was desperately trying to find out your symptoms etc and characteristics of your step dad. Please keep up the channel, I was abused but there is so little male survivor abuse stories.
Thank you so much. I’ve never felt more seen even tho this is YOUR story. I have such a complicated relationship with wanting to tell my mother and being scared of her reaction. Hearing you speak makes me want to tell her. Not for her reaction but because like you I need to tell my story and believe myself. You are incredible, we all have our struggles like you said. But this can affect our whole lives and the intimate happy aspects of it. I can’t express how helpful this is for me but for others too who you may never know. I’m sorry you had to experience this in life. No matter what people say. Nothing makes it okay and you don’t need something like this to be stronger. We are survivors. 💜
What a lovely comment. Made my day Thankyou so much. Sometimes I wonder if the things I post help. So Thankyou for this 😊 sending love to you and I wish you all the best with everything!!
My mother didn't believe me I was sexually abused from the age of 5 until I was 10 yrs old. I didn't have any relationship with my parents after that & left when I was 17. The abuse set me up for a lifetime a failure with relationships I went from one abusive situation to another. I've been dealing with it now honestly for the last 12 yrs I am now 69 still not free but working on it. I admire your bravery
I finally told my mum about my sexual abuse 4 months ago after keeping it to myself for 25 years. It felt so strange, so relieving but the sudden realisation that what happened to you is not normal is hard to grasp. You grow thinking it’s normal and you are in survivor mode your whole life. Sometimes it’s very hard to manage because everyday is a struggle. Thanks for doing what you do Ryan. After my therapy I hope to do the same one day
So glad you have trained in teaching, we need more people like you within the education system. These videos are invaluable, no doubt your mother is very proud ❤
Mothers have an innate sense of feeling something is "off" when it relates to their kids, unless they are sociopaths. They look at their kids and notice when a cold is coming on, predict when a growth spurt is going to happen, and they know when their kid is upset about something because there is a change in their behavior. My mother and step-mother are the queens of denial despite knowing full well the abuse my siblings and I endured, even in their presence. Sexual predators CHOOSE partners who are easily manipulated and conned so they will easily turn a blind eye or keep their mouths shut. They are complicit in the abuse because they don't stop it from continuing. The signs are always there. Always.
I'm sorry but I cannot believe that she didn't know. If anyone had to lock the door while my kids were in the bathroom, even if it was their biological father, that door will be coming off the hinges. I'm their mother. So I'm sorry I know you don't want to hold her accountable for his crimes but she is guilty too.
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Man nothing but respect and admiration for you - such a heavy burden for an innocent kid to bear and my heart weeps for you. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you for what you survived, endured and now for having the bravery and strength to speak about your story and potentially help so many other kids in your position. God bless you bro
As you know, you are not alone. Some of us are still dealing with these traumas as much as you are.
Later as an educator I had developed a sixth sense for victims around me just as a tracker dog sniffs a trail.
Self-defence courses from the age of twelve helped with the anger, extreme sports balanced with classical dancing, studying continuously. Eventually we find balance in life at our pace. 👍
Im a mother and 14:30 my daughter was abused by my son. I live with the guilt of not seeing what was going on.
I was molested for years by my dad's cousin while my dad was fighting a war in yougoslavia aka kosovo. He would stay with us to help my mom out. His brother also stayed with us. Ironically while the one molested me the other one stole over 10,000$ back in 1996. I was 10 years old. It ruined my life. It confused my sexual attraction and my trust in people. I'm now 37 but have no relationship and dark depression. I've had thoughts of ending it all but the last two years have been better. I moved to Germany to help my ailing grandmother . It has helped alot. I found a job after giving up my dream career in a level one pediatric and adult trauma center working in the emergency department.
You’re resilient and brave🙏🤍thank you for sharing you life and bring awareness..💫
Thank you so much for sharing. ❤ your content and your openness.
This is so important to voice for others and yourself as well .
Thank you so much for this, it's very hard to find any male abuse stories. My two boys disclosed to me, my ex is denying it, police are investigating it. The court case have still said he can have supervised visits because he is the dad. I'm not in the UK and my 7 year old had so many symptoms that I was bringing him to the doctor about for 18 months. My lawyer said so many cases get thrown out for lack of evidence. I found you as I was desperately trying to find out your symptoms etc and characteristics of your step dad. Please keep up the channel, I was abused but there is so little male survivor abuse stories.
Thank you so much. I’ve never felt more seen even tho this is YOUR story. I have such a complicated relationship with wanting to tell my mother and being scared of her reaction. Hearing you speak makes me want to tell her. Not for her reaction but because like you I need to tell my story and believe myself. You are incredible, we all have our struggles like you said. But this can affect our whole lives and the intimate happy aspects of it. I can’t express how helpful this is for me but for others too who you may never know. I’m sorry you had to experience this in life. No matter what people say. Nothing makes it okay and you don’t need something like this to be stronger. We are survivors. 💜
What a lovely comment. Made my day Thankyou so much. Sometimes I wonder if the things I post help. So Thankyou for this 😊 sending love to you and I wish you all the best with everything!!
Thank you for sharing your story. That alone is a lot.❤
My mother didn't believe me I was sexually abused from the age of 5 until I was 10 yrs old. I didn't have any relationship with my parents after that & left when I was 17. The abuse set me up for a lifetime a failure with relationships I went from one abusive situation to another. I've been dealing with it now honestly for the last 12 yrs
I am now 69 still not free but working on it. I admire your bravery
I finally told my mum about my sexual abuse 4 months ago after keeping it to myself for 25 years. It felt so strange, so relieving but the sudden realisation that what happened to you is not normal is hard to grasp. You grow thinking it’s normal and you are in survivor mode your whole life. Sometimes it’s very hard to manage because everyday is a struggle. Thanks for doing what you do Ryan. After my therapy I hope to do the same one day
So glad you have trained in teaching, we need more people like you within the education system. These videos are invaluable, no doubt your mother is very proud ❤
God bless you 😊
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Sorry she knew or had a feeling something was off......
Mothers have an innate sense of feeling something is "off" when it relates to their kids, unless they are sociopaths. They look at their kids and notice when a cold is coming on, predict when a growth spurt is going to happen, and they know when their kid is upset about something because there is a change in their behavior.
My mother and step-mother are the queens of denial despite knowing full well the abuse my siblings and I endured, even in their presence. Sexual predators CHOOSE partners who are easily manipulated and conned so they will easily turn a blind eye or keep their mouths shut. They are complicit in the abuse because they don't stop it from continuing. The signs are always there. Always.
Ooooh Jesus give you a lot love to forgive..
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I'm sorry but I cannot believe that she didn't know. If anyone had to lock the door while my kids were in the bathroom, even if it was their biological father, that door will be coming off the hinges. I'm their mother. So I'm sorry I know you don't want to hold her accountable for his crimes but she is guilty too.
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