Postpartum Depression is REAL
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Husband will never understand our feelings.. They simply say that we say these to avoid household works...
Husband's understand sometimes...These MIL are the pple taunt these girls create dramas...
Omg how rude it is v need to ask them to do it
Please get a job and stop doing household chores alone. Change starts with you
Yes
yesss
I too experienced this.... I feel like crying all the time and not at all feeling hungry....but my husband and my mom helped me to overcome this .my husband is an sub inspector of police , he took a 20 days of leave after my delivery .he spent more time with me , understood my feelings and encouraged me to overcome these kind of depression .
Superbb
@@timepassguru7915 😊
Your soo blessed stay happy always ❤️
Salute to him
It's really good to hear that we have such men in our society.. kudos!!
This is so real. I thought i will be rushed with joyful emotions right after baby’s birth but instead i felt so numb. I watched baby from far and wondered why I can’t bond with my baby. I always questioned if i love my baby or not. My heart wept all the time. I wanted to become a mom my whole life and i now I couldn’t figure out how to open up my heart with the baby, my mind felt clouded. My heart flickered with joy every now and then when baby smiled and that was it. I feel super guilty all the time. Sadly, even the women who didn’t go through Postpartum depression will not understand you (they will shame you for everything) and men are far from understanding PPD. Tons of hugs to all the moms going through PPD.
Aree recovery kaise ho ye btao yr
I had an emergency csec and I was in depression I didn't sleep I cried so much bcoz I couldn't feed my baby and I couldn't takecare of my baby,everyone around me was saying that it's just csec u gave birth without any pain but the pain behind the csection nothing less than the normal delivery pain but my husband helped me to overcome this whenever he comes to see me he says the things that I wanted to hear. Ur husband is the only person who can help u in this.
Am currently going through this, and i think al loose my mind
No she never praise her husband even if TH-cam gives extra 1 million subscribers
So relatable but its been 6 years and i am still feeling the same
I got all these feelings after marriage itself without even having a kid.
Same here
Me also
Mee too
you must be missing how your ex bfs treat you, but he was behaving so because he wants something for free. forgot him
Same here
Hey ladies.. Just keep in mind that when u feel that u are giving ur best in every relationship u need not feel guilty.. Even if u don't receive love in return u need not feel for that.. We were born alone and are gng to die alone.. Just be happy
Wow... Well said dear
Thanks dear 🙏👍
That's called niravana😂😂😂
@@nirupamasharma4389 I never knew it has a name. I would have said just follow Nirvana 🤣
Exactly...don't feel ...see your babies smiling...that is god gift...expectation gives lots of pain...don't expect anything from any one...only expect from god....
A caring husband can relieve postpartum depression. I too experienced the same.
Nonsense.. What about single moms and divorced ones.. Never hope for any support from others..
It's true. I still feel that I'm not good enough.
Mee too
It okay your child is very lucky to have you ❤️
Don't be sad
I suffered this . It is horrible when you don't have someone to understand and comfort you .
This is real. I have gone through it. It was a very dark phase... I would cry for slightest of things.
I would always cry. Could not drink water from bottle thinking I would suffocate.
Could not sleep alone in a room thinking something would happen..
Extremely tough time.. But Thank God... It was only for four months... Then it was normal again..
How it got cured?😊
How you overcome pls reply
Dan saat ini setelah hampir 2 tahun melahirkan, saya bahkan merasa suamiku lebih menyayangi anak perempuan kami, daripada aku.
Struggle too much😢
I too experienced it with my in laws . only my parents stood for me and support me. Even my husband don't understand me he was always critise me that I not a good mother only his mother knows everything.
Ye ghr ghr ki kahani hy , husband k liye unki ma sabse samjhdar,sabse achi , best of the best hy,baki sab bekar . One' s love should not harm others in a relationship
Yes me also overcame through this depression☹️ it was so hard 😬it's not just few days it's took almost 2 month's to take my baby in my arms with full of smile without any hard feelings in my heart and mind as well😟😒. Through out the days I took my baby only to feed that's it💁 rest of time I used to cry cry cry louder than louder😭😭 and it's just equal to being in hell🔥🔥🔥. Not enjoying the happiness of the beautiful moments nd loveing my girl 😑 but the prayers and my jesus words and Grace helps me to get over this🤩 now my girl trun 2 nd I love her beyond the universe 💕💕💕💕💕💕love you ra chittithalli Princy 😘😍
I toooo suffering mam please tell me what to do 😭😭🙏
@@chinavathlalitha2039 stop using youtube and go to a good psycatrist
Same feeling.... Na mattum than ipdi yosikirenu ninaichen ☹️
No one will ever believe that post partum depression is real untill they experience it. Men can never understand becoz they dont go thru it. I have been thru it and it was so horrible. Thank God i came out of it all alone even though i dint have any emotional support from anyone. Its been 3 yrs ..still i dont know why tears roll down my cheeks uncontrolably when ever i remember my delivery and postpartum phase. God please bless all the nursing moms with enough strength to deal with all the odds.
My Second month after delivery.. delivered twin babies through c section...
Every body around me hit me with words which I don't forget for my whole life. It was painful.. But slowly I understood what others think about me is not important than my babies...This video made me cry .. hold on.. trust me the pain will fade away...
I too experienced this... Always crying... Constant fear.... After 6 weeks slowly recover....
Thank u mam...to post this video as per my Instagram request..more than society ...as a new mom we should understand that this is normal and we will over come from that...thank u once again
Same here... I miss my mother a lot and cry as she's not here... 😢
I passed this phase without knowing it's postpartum depression
You made me cry..😭😭
I remember telling my husband that I don't feel connected with our child just 6 days after birth. The moment he heard this he called me a cruel person. I had this constant fear of something, I don't know what it was. Everyone around me kept saying I am bad, I am cruel which later made me doubt myself. It is much much later that I realised what i was going through is called PPD. It definitely isn't a joke. Drastic changes in hormones, blood loss etc. are some of the causes contributing to this condition. PPD is real.
Yes. Its true. I too have experienced this. Because of the people around you, you will hate yourself and even the new born. One of the hardest part in every women’s life but no one can understand. If you do not have enough support in this time, then it would definitely be a hell in your lifetime. Its only my mom helped me all time during those days.
Exactly
There is a difference between postpartum or baby blues n postpartum* depression *... I initially tot I had baby blues but even after 6 months I couldn't overcome n started throwing tantrums only then I realised I need to visit psychiatrist n now on medication n I could see a huge difference n there were many mom's for postpartum depression
Hi, where do you take treatment and how long..i am currently going thro this
Please help
Hw much time it tuk to cure sis. Pl reply pl
My wife is suffering from depression
After taking medication it took 6 months for complete recovery
@@poornisham1300 hw many months u tuk tablet sis . 6 months ?
It is already 4 th month fr my wife now.
Im getting tears while watching this video. So relatable
Postpartum depression is real. Especially for first delivery. U feel like u must do it but u can't. And u feel guilty for not doing it
I felt the same but i overcomed by myself no one understood neither helped me to overcome not even my husband infact he stressed me more...
Same here
Me too
Sorry to say if a husband is causing more trouble to his wife as a new mom instead of helping her, he is a terrible husband
@@shruthihj719 pls try to talk online with a doctor /psychologist . Online due to covid situation . They will help .
Same here
Ha i too experienced the same, we never understand what's happening with us, we feel like something is going to happen with our child , we feel like we should always b very careful ,but nobody understands us
I too experienced this, now my girl baby is one. Im in Canada, my husband torchured me a lot by not allowing me to talk with my parents , he didn't understood my post partum depression. I am mom of two girls. I thought about my kids future, I struggled a lot and for my kids I myself came out of those tough situations. Otherwise i can't even imagine that situations, not even moral support. Eventhough I was a slave in my husband hand i feels happy when i will be with my kids. Praying for all those faces this depression to overcome from that for our kids.
Hope you have a beautiful and Peaceful life ahead with your two angels .
Hey hope you are fine now. I live in Canada too and I know it can get lonely sometimes. I am not a mom but i can phantom your struggle.
I am facing the same and in Canada don’t have anyone to talk can’t even describe what i am feeling or what i want don’t know how to overcome its been only 17 days
Amen you shall overcome,be strong for our babies
Jis per guzarti hai usko pata chalta hai. Baki sab ko ye mazak lagta hai.... Very difficult time... Bohot time lagta hai after delivery lady ko normal hone ke liye 😢😢😢😢😢
Me too no one was there to help, after lots of struggling finally God took me out of all depressions, faith in God 🙏
Yes mam I too expperienced this on my second post pregnancy..it was my worst days..but I over come with my hubby's care..
I too suffered this. I get tears without any reason. I often keep few works to overcome it.
It's really true
I had the same feeling akka.. felt like crying all the time.. I never smiled at my baby for nearly 2 months.. It was really a very bad time.. after 2 months slowly I started to recover, it was only then I saw a video of yours on postpartum. Only then I realised that it's something which is common. Else I used to think that I am not at all a good mother. Now my daughter is 3.5months & I am slowly recovering from my depression. Thank you akka.. you are really doing a good job 👏
Can you sleep at that time
Hw did you recover pl reply sis.
My wife is suffering frm depression and noone is caring for her frm her family.
Am also faced this post partum depression.. my husband helps me a lottt understood my feelings and emotions he helped me a lottt after 6month I overcome and come back..
My son is 10 years old but same feel i have still it makes me cry without any reason.
You are absolutely correct currently I'm facing this situation by the God grace I'm overcome this but it's very hard to every mother no one will understand except few😌😌😌
Yes 😔 mujhe ho rhi h ye problem
24 days hue h delivery ko
Rona Sara din
Gussa
Na sona
Na khana
Mr Jane ko mn kra
It's really horrible situation of mind😢
Baby se b gussa ata h kabhi to😭
I don't have words to appreciate you. Most of your videos are 200 percent correct.
This is real feeling. I too felt the same.
Yes this thing is very much true, all u need is someone to tell everything is gonna be okay soon and some one to care for new born baby and mother
I too experienced this lot of time...
I too feel the same thing but no one understands me
Hi..every mother having this experience it never lost dont worry everything will be good only
I went through this 3 months back I cried a lot for little things but my husband helped me soo much I wish every women need their husband support ❤ it means a lot to a new mother....😊
I experienced bt no body helped me.i suffered a lot
Me too
Y nobody help u
Me to 😢😢
My baby is 1 year 3 months. I feel you spoke my mind.. feels like crying all the time. None to support 😢
Me too experienced this after my delivery that time I didn't know about postpartum depression but now I know what was that....
So true.. didn't believe it until I actually went through it.
This breaks my heart! Kudos to all mothers out there, trying their best! Keep going❤
Mam can you pin this comment. I had this depression very severe. I don't have a family to look after me. I just throwed my ten days baby to my husband and said kill this I don't want. I was staying I'm a new construction building where still some construction work was going on I always thought of throwing baby down from balcony and terrace.. Then I just studied myself hold myself.first I thought i was possesed by something. Till baby was 5months I was going thru all this. That time no much of whats app Or other social media. Butsomehow came to know about this postpartum depression and spoke tomy gynae she suggested me some medicines and therapies. I helped myself. But it was a like a war to myself. But hold on parents that was slowly going and I was becoming normal. Now my daughter Is 9yr old. She is my mother in law sister in law my granny and she is the law in my house. I was blessed a son second now when they play happily i feel very happy. So don't worry new moms. It's ok. This too shall pass. Talk to ur friends. There is no one except u who help urself. Just get up dress up nicely that will create a good day.. Just keep going. All the best new moms and mom to be.
Did u felt this only about ur baby only or every one else.bcoz I'm facing it right now nd I don't love anyone like all the people I used to love even my mom and husband who r so supportive actually.its like there is a barrier between me nd the things I love.... Still I'm trying to take interest in things it's been one month ...
I had tooo... but thankfully overcame within 10 days... till then i cried for everything
Exactly. I too suffered PPD. But didnt knew about that time. Unfortunately my family also didnt knew the fact and thought me as a rude person.
really really really 😣😣😣😣😣😭😭😭😭😭
.... and that's one of the reasons why I'm childfree,ladies .....
Right this the one
Literally going through this phase rn!
Its very much true
😢😢😢😢😢I am feeling same😢now please pray for me and my baby🙏
Yeah i felt the same. when my husband passed away the next day when my son was born, i was not able to bear his loss and manage my preterm baby born in 7 months . i couldnt handle both and i sometimes hate the world around me when my whole husband family blamed my child for his loss and neglected us cheating us and not having any guilt. Jus feel like loser sometimes.
that postpartum depression is too dangerous it going to ruine your life .but stay with those people who comforts in you that depression takes you out take care of yourself all moms love your self that you have given birth to beautiful upcoming genuine babies into this world thanx to yourself that you have capability you can fight against anything❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This opened my eyes I am undergoing the same
This is the same I have experienced!!
I too have this,I was crying a lot and didn't sleep for even 5 mins upto 2 weeks, those days are like I have lived in hell of hell...then slowly by getting motivation from my mother and my husband im healing now...be open talk with your hubby and try to get support...
I am a new born mother
Super ya.......u r u r really great ........no words to express abt this video
That's why elders should be there in the family.
I have a 2month baby. I still feel like the same situation day and night 😭😭😭😭😭
This video shows how it
feels, it was same for me 😥
I too go through this.its really a very hard tym but my mother and my brother especially helped me to come out of all those fears they are the people who understood me and be with at those tyms Love u tamm and mummy ❤ u r the people who stood by my side
I too had the same feeling after delivery it really makes sense of this video ….
Thanks for sharing this feeling with us by this I understand this feeling is normal for many women’s….
Yes... this is real feeling. I too experiencing now a days with my baby
Yes really true
Yeah it's really true I totally changed after marriage always fear about my child
I too experienced it is tooo bad feeling my family will help me to recover from that
Its a damn true fact. Thank you for posting this video mam. This can only be overcome with the help of husband and the new moms mother
Omg ...exact my situation...even i cried like that as no one is there to take care of
Exact my situation...
Very true
I am new mother
I am always feeling like something is happenens to my baby
Please help me how to over come
I am getting more fear
Even I have this fear
It's been 5 years after baby I still feel the same emotion till date.. And my parents say I'm weak..
God bless you, Kusuma. How are you today??
You are not weak. Don't take that from nobody... people sometimes don't understand what one is going through because they haven't gone through it or because they are not mature enough to understand, I went through it with all three of my pregnancies, and it was terrible.
But I found peace, and my answer was Jesus Christ. He will help you, Kusuma. The Lord can and will direct you to come out of any problem that you may have. How do I know you may ask?? Well, I am a witness of His beautiful work and seen what He has done for me, Don't lose hope He cares a lot about you then what you can imagine just come as you are to Him surrender to Him and let Him in your heart and life, God bless you.
@@saraiolivas861 thank you mam.. I still am fighting depression.. I want to keep my spirits up but some days depression takes over... Currently I'm searching for new things to overcome depression.. I appreciate your concern and took time for me.. and I feel happy for ur kind words God bless all.. Amen
@kusuma thygarajan no problem. You can always reach me if you need advice or need someone to talk to. God bless you today and the days to come. Remember, He is ALWAYS THE ANSWER Believe me when I say it. My sister is going through depression because she lost her husband recently, and I'm doing my best to be there for her cause i know it's hard, I understand how you feel one because I went through it and two because I understand ans seeing my sister going through it hurts.... I also have talked to her about God and let her know that He is the only one that can help us..
@kusuma thygarajan no problem. You can always reach me if you need advice or need someone to talk to. God bless you today and the days to come. Remember, He is ALWAYS THE ANSWER Believe me when I say it. My sister is going through depression because she lost her husband recently, and I'm doing my best to be there for her cause i know it's hard, I understand how you feel one because I went through it and two because I understand ans seeing my sister going through it hurts.... I also have talked to her about God and let her know that He is the only one that can help us..
Me too experienced this feeling sooo sooo much I will overcome by the help my husband and my mother it is not easy to overcome but we tried this we overcome this situation
I suffered as u said... I didn't seek anybody's help.. cause all are more sleepy than me... I thought..and thanked God... That they are even getting enough sleep..😢😢😢
I remember after my lscs , i was so frustrated with my relatives who came to meet me.. i felt like so crowded .also my father in law and husband sitting continuously close to my baby irritated me
Really dr
True mam
Still there are many who are not aware of this especially both parents
I'm also feeling like that...I think more than this... nobody will understand this situation... they have their own mindset... only god will understand us...
Really I have gone through
Me too
How did u overcome this sis? Pls help
I too experienced this situation 😢 it's very horrible
Chala baga cheparu
Struggle is too real... I m better now!
I Experienced when my daughter born i cried out for unknown reason now years gone i am mother of two grownup children
Yes ! Even i experienced the same.
Exactly I experienced the same ... Don't know how come out of it
Yes it's true
I also feel same
Yes.... Postpartum dep.... Is true.... I too experienced.... Feeling insecured, crying all the time..... 😕
Yes it's true my postpartum is very very bad
Yes you are true...
Am also suffering this problem
enaku 1 month baby iruku...enaku romba depressiona iruku...aluhaya varuthu...ena pnrathunay terila...babya pathuka pudkala...yathuvumay pudkala ...ypo ithu sari aahum...enala control pnavay mudla...yaravathu ena pnrathunu sollungalay
Going through exactly the same