pillow talk | couple things with shawn and andrew

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  • @mdbtptblw
    @mdbtptblw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "I said your name 22 times... at increasing volumes..." oh snap Andrew. You will never live that one down. 🤣

    • @tinamarie2121
      @tinamarie2121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Went through the same situation with my husband the first night in the hospital with our son. I wound up calling the nurse to help me (LOL, I had nothing in reach to throw). She came in and helped me, laughed because he wasn't the first dad to sleep through a mom desperately calling for help.

  • @poorvishah2146
    @poorvishah2146 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to this is fun . It’s 12 am when I am listening this.

  • @annettebannon9497
    @annettebannon9497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Becoming parents, sadly no longer about you and your sleep for about 18 years!! Watching this you can tell Shawn is an only child. It gets better!! Stay strong.

  • @samanthaL2824
    @samanthaL2824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just watched your "I should be playing in the superbowl" vlog and just wanted to thank you for what you said, I really needed to hear that! I know God has a plan for us all, it's just hard to trust and be patient and not scared of the new path. Thank you for being so inspiring. Xx

  • @debdeguire8566
    @debdeguire8566 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My sleep is all over the place and the bed covers are so twisted! I wake up often and I am trying to sleep and my goal is 7 hours of sleep! I love you guys! ❤️❤️❤️🤗😎🌹 Lets talk about forgiveness before you go to bed. You should not go to bed when you are angry!

  • @26mandys
    @26mandys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I used to get so annoyed at my husband, when we had a kid emergency at night. I would jump out of bed to deal with a puking kid and he wouldn’t come to help until he put his glasses on. I didn’t worry bout putting my glasses on, there was a puking kid!!!! It was an ongoing criticism that I had. Then, at one point, we both had eye dr appointments the same week. My husband had his appointment first. During my eye appointment the doctor flipped the lenses in front of my eyes and said, “tell me what you see?” I said, “nothing. Just a bunch of blurry colors.” He said, “that’s what your husband sees without his glasses.” I never criticized my husband in the middle of the night again.

  • @ngayanc10
    @ngayanc10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Andrew : "you snore too!" SHAWN: "NO, I BREATHE" - so relatable!!

  • @elliepierce5178
    @elliepierce5178 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I laughed through the entire video, you guys have the best dynamic!! Awesome content, can't wait for more :)

  • @leslie-reagan5219
    @leslie-reagan5219 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I laughed thru so much of this! Our first baby had colic...would wake up several times a night. We were both working full time jobs, traveling and trying to adjust to being parents. We would take turns getting up with our daughter. One night, when it was my turn I was so exhausted I offered my husband $100 to get up with her- his response was “it’s not enough”. I then offered $500...he laughed and said “you can’t afford that!” You make it thru..sometimes just one foot in front of the other. 🌻

  • @ascorpio888
    @ascorpio888 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My daughter use to have night terrors, which are not the same as nightmares. Every night between 11pm-1130pm, she would start screaming but she wasn't actually awake. She was about 4 y/o. I would have to pick her up, sit her on the toilet and as soon as she pee'd, she'd wake up and I could comfort her. It was awful cause there was nothing we could do to stop this happening. She finally out grew it.
    I myself have sleep issues where I can only sleep for an hour at a time. It sucks, I'm tired 😴

  • @lhenkle6039
    @lhenkle6039 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I was a kid I would sit up and scream bloody murder waking up my mom which would cause her to panic. However, I was dead asleep, so I had no idea it had even happened when I woke up.

  • @deveryshaddy4881
    @deveryshaddy4881 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys! This is great! Love the raw footage and stories you share! GOOOOO CHIIIIIEEEEFFFFSSSS!

  • @AB-ul9pd
    @AB-ul9pd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is sooo funny! I threw a coke can at my husband to wake him up after my c-section 😂

  • @CarolineLoves1D
    @CarolineLoves1D 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    One time I slept walk into the shower half naked. The cold water woke me up. Low-key convinced that if the water was warm I wouldn't have woken up🤣 also... Shawn banging her head on the wall made me laugh so hard 🤣🤣

  • @katlynnoltmann4946
    @katlynnoltmann4946 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk how I’m just seeing this video! Lol but one of my sleep walking stories, I believe I was like 10/11 but I woke up with all the condiments from the fridge placed all around my bedroom. So dang weird! Lol

  • @melissagreen1117
    @melissagreen1117 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good guys. I don't have any sleep stories. Luv Yas Hope ur havinga good nite. 🌕

  • @nicolabrummage72
    @nicolabrummage72 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ironically I'm watching this because I can't sleep. I went through a stage where I sat up and stared at the people still awake while I was completely asleep. My aunt once walked around waking everyone up to put their shoes outside 😂

  • @TheMrKristens
    @TheMrKristens 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣 I'm dying!! I can completely relate!!! But I am also a SEVERE insomniac (ok--I get sleep, just not at typical hours for someone who doesn't have shift work...).
    Funny Story -- 1998, yes -- we are going back...my older brother is asleep on the couch in the living room, I am playing a board game on the floor with my friend (blocking the hall, this is an important detail). My parents are out at a function. (Brother and I are teens) All of a sudden my brother gets up, navigates around our game and us, walks down the hall and into the kitchen, grabs a Tupperware bowl, walks around the corner grabs the Cheerios (overflowing from the Tupperware), pours like 15 Cheerios into this bowl, opens the microwave and places the bowl inside, turns around and says 'popcorn'. My friend and I are just in shock. My brother then navigates back to the couch and tucks himself all in... My friend and I burst out laughing ...we are in tears and full fits of laughter by the time my parents walk in the door about 2 minutes later. At this point my brother gets up and goes 'finally, you're home' and goes up to bed. The friend and I lose it even more! My parents are trying to figure out why we are laughing so much, but we can't speak...and that's when my Mom notices the microwave with the Cheerios! We could only manage to say popcorn and die laughing again! 🤣🤣🤣 Took us a long time to tell the story through all the bouts of laughter!!

  • @bluoctlvr
    @bluoctlvr 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I sleep walk. I once told my niece, “ if you kick the dog, the electricity will go off.” She was so confused. I got frustrated and went back to bed. Five minutes later, I went back to her room and apologized to her and then proceeded to tell her, “ if you kick the dog the electricity will go off.” I was asleep the whole time. I knew I was doing it, but couldn’t stop myself.
    Once I tried to run my phone outside thinking it was a bomb. Lol

  • @tamikins8990
    @tamikins8990 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I sleep walk on a pretty regular basis. It freaks my husband out and used to freak out my mom. Much of the time when I do this, I run into walls and try to use doors for the closet to get out of the room and have to be lead back to the bed. I think it's hilarious! 🤣

  • @isahofbauer204
    @isahofbauer204 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a friend who used to sleep walk when she was little, and she would take all the bedding off her bed fold it up and put it in the hallway. Her mom would put the bedding back on, but she would just take it back off and fold it up. She would also take other objects out of her room and put it in the hallway. I think it's the funniest thing

  • @natashac.boorom8189
    @natashac.boorom8189 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is a reason sleep deprivation is used as a form of torture. Sleep deprivation can cause hallucinations along with a lot of other mental health problems.

  • @meganolin5072
    @meganolin5072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    All I can say is HILARIOUS!!😂😅

  • @endybeanzplayz4701
    @endybeanzplayz4701 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My brother is a sleep walker. As a child he would go to the neighbors in the middle of the night asking if their son could play, he peed on the TV while my parents were hanging out with friends, and on his wedding night in Vegas, security woke him up, naked, in the hallway of Mandalay Bay hotel and he had no idea which room he was supposed to be in.

  • @harleyjarzombek5074
    @harleyjarzombek5074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Andrew don’t worry I sleep walk and sleep talk 😂😂. I gave done it since I was 7. I am 15 now and still doing it. Once in our two story house, I went down stairs and started flickers the lights on and off in my parents room and I creeped them out. Another time, I was at my cousins house and their Grandmal woke up because I was “baking and cooking” in my sleep😂. This stuff is so weird and I don’t know why we sleep walk and talk

  • @candiceadkins8852
    @candiceadkins8852 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My daughter was a sleep Walker. One time she was taking a shower completely a sleep, scared me to death.

  • @amberlin8668
    @amberlin8668 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sorry, but it’s just not fair how men can sleep through most anything and once you become a mother you obsess over every noise and movement and when they cry we jump in to action. Especially in the first year. My daughter just turned 2 and she’s been fighting her sleep schedule tooth and nail and I just gave her a bath from 11:45-12:30am, it does help them sleep but now I’m awake at 1am watching this. I wish I could be as positive and joke about the feelings I’m having about the fact my husband has been sleeping for hours while I’ve done everything. I enjoyed this video immensely just due to the relatability.

  • @joankgillette
    @joankgillette 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My son is almost 9 months old and he still wakes up during the night (usually just for his bink, he only ever has to be fed if he had a bottle too early before bedtime). You guys have to luxury or both being able to stay home/work from home. I stay home during the week (while my husband works) and I work the weekends. I get up every single time my baby needs something so my husband can get sleep. Being a mom is my favorite thing in the world and I always want to be the one to get up with him. In my personal opinion I think Shawn should be getting up with Drew OR you need to take turns. Andrew takes over tonight and then Shawn takes over tomorrow night. That way you are both getting a full nights sleep. I personally don’t get a whole lot of sleep but my husband has to get up and physically go to work so I feel it’s my obligation to always take the baby.

  • @lisbethpierce2189
    @lisbethpierce2189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shawn, are you talking about my story? Happened to me too. Also, having a child is like be in a jail. Freedom is not longer a part of your life.

  • @lisab7922
    @lisab7922 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t know if you’ll ever read this. But boy oh boy do I have some sleep stories.
    I have grown up as a sleep walker. I only stop sleepwalking once I became a parent.
    One time I opened a window to our house while sleeping. The house alarm went off. And I slept through the alarm. This means that the police were dispatched to my house. I didn’t snap out of my sleepwalking state until a police officer was at my door. He was banging on my door. It was super embarrassing.
    I have had full on conversations with my husband while sleepwalking. And sometimes these conversations resulted in a fight the next day🤷🏼‍♀️
    My husband also has his own sleep issues. He will do workouts while he’s sleeping and he will fight in his sleep. This has resulted in a sleep divorce... which the divorce would’ve happened anyway because he works nights and I work days. But on the off chance that we get to sleep at the same time we sleep in separate rooms.
    One time in his sleep, he punched me in the ribs. Because he was fighting in his sleep. He then told me “ that’s what you get. That’s what you get. So next time don’t mess with me.” That was the last time we slept in bed together 😂
    No our three-year-old daughter is a sleep walker as well. And our 10-month-old son has nightmares🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ Not as funny as one might think.
    Sleep is an issue.
    Note: I do not sleep walk anymore. Husband is a restless sleeper
    Daughter only sleep walks when OVER tired or sick. Son is the same.

  • @katwhaley793
    @katwhaley793 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I have slept walk and slept talk for as long as I can remember. One night my friend was spending the night and she said that out of no where in the middle of the night I started freaking out throwing my blankets off the bed yelling there are rabbits in the bed 😂 I jumped up and turned the lights on and my friend was like what the heck there isn’t anything in the bed go back to sleep! So I did. I don’t remember any of this only what she told me.

  • @oliviaquintero8020
    @oliviaquintero8020 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same thing happened to me with my husband in the hospital I threw everything at him that I could and he didn’t wake up lol not even the remote woke him up

  • @lisbethpierce2189
    @lisbethpierce2189 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I decided no more babies, one is more than enough. I have insomnia and all kind of sleeping problems you couldn’t imagine. My husband sleeps like a baby and I am envious that I just want to kick him out from our bed. My baby is 16 years old btw.

  • @54auzzie54
    @54auzzie54 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife was working at chipotle while going to school and quite often i would wake up to her sleeping talking and she would be taking people’s orders, saying things like “Can i get a side of queso?” And telling me the price of my order 😂

  • @taylorclark6563
    @taylorclark6563 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just a heads up Drew will hit sleep regression at 4 months. A few weeks oh hell. 😂 Read about baby leaps. It’s truly interesting and always spot on.

    • @mikaeylabrooks2721
      @mikaeylabrooks2721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      taylor clark literally in the middle of it 😴😫

    • @taylorclark6563
      @taylorclark6563 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mikaeyla Brooks It’s rough mama! Hang in there!

  • @GG-ob2uf
    @GG-ob2uf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When our kids were babies, my husband and I would switch every other night with the baby. One night I would be total OFF duty and free to sleep away and then I would take over all of it the next. Something to try or think about. You two are cute!

    • @symphie5493
      @symphie5493 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gina Guthrie We did this too. Worked really well for us.

  • @kaylasheldon4441
    @kaylasheldon4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    In college my sophomore year, my roommate loved to stay up very, very late and study with the light on. I learned very quickly how to fall asleep with her having the light on. And that is when weird stuff started to happen. I started to sleep walk a lot more that year. One time, while I was asleep, I "woke up" and sat straight up in bed and just stared at my roommate. She finally started asking why I was awake. I got out of bed and started looking under the bed, looked in both closets, looked to the door and then looked at my roommate. I did this a few times before my roommate asked me what I was doing. Apparently I said, "Where is the boy?" Granted, I lived in an all girls dorm. No guys allowed. She asked me, "What boy?" I kept looking. After a little bit, my roommate told me to go back to bed. So I did. I still have no memory of that. But when she was telling me that, she was laughing so hard she couldn't breathe. Several times when I was asleep, I would sit up and just stare at her. She learned very quickly that if she told me to go back to sleep, I would. I only sleepwalk if the light is on.

    • @sabrina.natalie
      @sabrina.natalie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kayla Sheldon - Whatttt, no way! That’s pretty intriguing. I wonder why the light triggers that for you. Do you happen to know who you were looking for during that time?

    • @kaylasheldon4441
      @kaylasheldon4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabrina.natalie I have no clue who I was looking for. My roommate tried to ask me who, but I would only say "the boy". It was a very funny story she said the next morning. But it did freak her out.

  • @fletcherchambliss1590
    @fletcherchambliss1590 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Check out Mike Birbiglio’s sleep issues. It’s funny and horrifying

  • @susanschroeder9553
    @susanschroeder9553 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually hate sleep number beds. Feels like a pillow topper on top of an air mattress. Mine sucked. Sorry. Glad they are sponsoring you though.

  • @BingBong007
    @BingBong007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why are you guys not taking turns sleeping in? You both don't need to get up every time Drew gets up. It's about balance, share the awake time with Drew. No need for both of you to be tired, that's silly. Y'all act like if one is sleeping good the envy takes over. Let them sleep and the next time it'll be your turn.

  • @taraf1819
    @taraf1819 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ha i love this. Real couple stuff
    Oh having a baby, lack of sleep and watching my husband sleep deeply night after night. I wanted to smother him with his pillow .... men can go to bed angry and forget it happened in the morning... women cannot ...because we need it delt with and resolved. ♡

  • @bonnieguisewhite9657
    @bonnieguisewhite9657 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ;

  • @musichugsguitar1d
    @musichugsguitar1d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "You snore to"
    "No, I BREATHE"
    Love this podcast, so many good moments

  • @bridgetcallaghan822
    @bridgetcallaghan822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love the podcast !! Here’s a sleep story ... I’m a waitress and I used to work late and one night I had a server dream and I slept walked into my parents bedroom trying to take their order 😂😂😂

  • @teammandy6521
    @teammandy6521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Omg my husband does the same exact thing. When we were in the hospital he slept through everything and I was literally about to throw something at him. He was holding our child in bed and literally fell asleep. I was about to kill him. Lol we’re about to have our second child, wish me luck.

  • @annmorando3105
    @annmorando3105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "I don't want to sleep like a baby, I want to sleep like my husband" 😉😀

  • @trishradloff8817
    @trishradloff8817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    “You’re digging your grave” cracking up now. Thanks for the Morning giggle.

  • @andreasueashful
    @andreasueashful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When I had my first child I would be so upset with having to do the nightly duty etc because my hubby just couldn't function etc. That hospital story was us with the first. I literally threw water at him to get him up. The 2nd child I had a whole new mindset which is this too shall pass. I didnt fight it and just said one day I will sleep again. We just divided the household duties more where I did nightly duty for the baby and co slept with her. My husband slept in the guest room and did all the laundry/more chores around the house. The mind shift change made all the difference with the second child. We were so much happier. Babies don't sleep well consistently and the sooner you surrender to it the better your life will be.

  • @ashleyscheel9032
    @ashleyscheel9032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    And to be fair, women’s hormones shift to where they are hardwired to wake up to their kids and respond to them on a very deep level. Dad’s don’t have that hormone triggered response system. But women also have hormones that help carry them through those first for months of sleep deprivation. You still struggle, but it is on a different plain them men.

  • @dasuniudugama9175
    @dasuniudugama9175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Who else is loving this marathon of East fam videos?!❤️💚🙃

  • @pequenabutterfly1668
    @pequenabutterfly1668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You guys sleep on the floor of the nursery .... I think the lack of sleep is taking a toll on thinking logically - why not just get a co sleeper ?! And put it next to your bed ?....
    and having long times of insonia is a huge factor in bipolar disorder - see a psychologist-
    Good luck in this stage - hopefully you all make it

  • @wall4him
    @wall4him 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My husband and I understand sleep deprivation. One night around 3AM my infant son (1983) woke up crying. It startled me awake, so as I was walking towards his room to feed him for some reason I felt the right side of my hip and thought, "O NO, I forgot to put a diaper on Josh!" It finally dawned on me that I hadn't even gotten to him yet and that I was feeling my own body that didn't have a diaper on. And that's when we had him in cloth diapers, but I wasn't feeling the plastic diaper pants, so I pictured everything sopping wet. Another night he woke up crying and my husband said, "Aren't you going to go feed Josh?" I said, "he's here nursing." David replied, "No he's not. You're not awake."
    Around 25 years ago Josh was playing a lot of a Mario game on Nintendo. One night around 11:30 or so I heard something in the hallway and then heard the creaking of the stairs. I got up and saw Josh going downstairs. I asked him where he was going. He said, "I'm going down to Level 3." I thought he was playing the game way too much, so I had him take about a week break from it. He was not happy.

  • @ccbrey4533
    @ccbrey4533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You two are freakin adorable, couple GOALS

  • @lovelyr9773
    @lovelyr9773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    LOL😭wife: Drew I called you name 22 times and diffrent pitches and had to throw water bottle at you😭😭😁Drew was knocked out😭😭😭

  • @majcherj1
    @majcherj1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys need to alternate nights. Seriously. If you’re not both fatigued on the same day, things go much easier. It’s the only way I survived three babies.
    I sleep walked into the kitchen, took a pee in the trash can, then tried to climb into the fridge to go to bed. Kept saying, “it’s too cold, too cold.” My sisters were at the kitchen table playing cards. I haven’t lived it down, and I’m 63.
    I often woke up in the morning with no bedding. I’d have to go look for it. The farthest place I ever found it was in the downstairs hall closet. I actually woke up in there one morning with, of course, no memory of getting there. I guess I had a thing for that closet.
    Our next door neighbors got up one morning to my brother sleeping on their living room sofa. He was a sleep walker too.

  • @NightOwlCrochetYYJ
    @NightOwlCrochetYYJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Back in the day of Tickle Me Elmo.... I was at a friend's birthday party, and it was a sleepover. That night, we happened to watch The Bride of Chucky. Fast forward to when all 7 of us girls were trying to fall asleep, I, being a little evil, squeezed my Elmo, it laughed, and all the girls screamed haha. Her dad came downstairs to the basement where we were to see what all the screaming was about, but by that point the girls had figured out what happened and we were all laughing hysterically.

  • @annmariethomas9968
    @annmariethomas9968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Welcome to parenthood...goodbye sleep! It’s really hard, but hang in there. You can do this😊. Help each other get better sleep. Since Drew will take a bottle, take turns sleeping longer stretches. Two parents awake at the same time is not a good economy here. From a mom of three adult children who wouldn’t sleep all night forever and lived to tell the tale.

  • @jitterbug38
    @jitterbug38 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg, i am dying of laughter listening to this whole video...made me spit my coffee once..i couldn't wait to hear shawns answer on the sleep divorce 🤣🤣🤣

  • @dasuniudugama9175
    @dasuniudugama9175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok banging your head against the wall is straight out of the conjuring! Shawn just creeped me out big time👀

  • @quiltbugj
    @quiltbugj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I´m a really deep sleeper. When our kids got up sick, they would have to call for their Dad and say ¨Dad, wake Mom up, I´m sick¨ No Mother of the Year awards here.

  • @shay1955
    @shay1955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Shawn definitely “wears the pants” in the relationship 😂

  • @leonacac
    @leonacac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was sleep walking trying to make a margarita in my bedroom (wasn't actually making a margarita) and "spilt" it everywhere and put on fuzzy socks to clean it up by stomping my feet around my bedroom 🤣🤣

  • @SomeOne-zw6kh
    @SomeOne-zw6kh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My dad used to be the HARDEST sleeper. He's not anymore luckily. You couldn't wake his ass up for anything. My aint and uncle did the sleep divorce thing cuz my uncle had such bad snoring.

  • @carmenanaporrata5022
    @carmenanaporrata5022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never go to bed or wake up angry, that is not good for your marriage. Talk about it before you go to bed. I know you are not getting enough sleep, but that is part of being parents. Sleep in the same bed no matter what. If you're to tired try to have naps when the baby is sleeping. My husband had to work, so I tried to let him sleep while I was feeding the baby. We have to compromise and help each other. When he came home he help me, order food so I didn't have to cook ect. Please don't argue so much, be happy that you have a healthy baby, you will have a good night sleep soon. It is a stage in your life, and you will have more. So guys take a deep breath and keep on going. Life with a child changed everything. God blessed you always.

  • @Stinkaboo62
    @Stinkaboo62 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I suggest that you have a sleep study to insure that you do not have apnea....Shawn I am still an anxiety sleeper. As a young girl, I would set three alarm clocks, then wonder if they were set right to go off. So I would pull them off of my headboard and check volume, see if wound enough etc... it wasn’t until I was diagnosed with apnea, that I am able to feel rested in the day. However at 57 years old, I have to use medications for the past twenty years to make me so tired that I can grab my sleep apnea mask and put it on before I crash. It’s horrible... also that sleep cuddle item you want is called a “ Dock a tot”. Here’s a thought, a friend and her hubby set up a twin bed in the nursery. The traded off every other night, to be fully responsible for their dinner and caring for the baby...then whether they got sleep or not, they had to take baby to daycare, and go to work. The next night they switch up...they were free to do anything at all for themselves! Bubble baths, read, sleep, bowling, etc...once babies slept through the night they met up in the marriage bed. Their daughters were eleven months apart. They are turning 29 and 30 this year, and are college educated. The parents plan kept them healthy and now the money goes to their retirement. Kiss lil Drew from me...TERE in KY

  • @tiffanymackey2382
    @tiffanymackey2382 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get uncomfortable watching couples fight publicly, but I also get it. I tried to take too much on myself after having a baby because I felt like I should be able to handle it. Turns out I couldn't and it severely affected my mental and emotional health, not to mention my physical well-being. If I had stood up for myself like this more early on, things might not have gotten so bad. I don't like to play gender wars or disparage either sex, but I think it's hard for some men to understand just how much a woman's life changes when she has given birth and is taking care of a baby full-time.

  • @christysdeals4u
    @christysdeals4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate being woken up in the middle of the night, but....having 5 kids I just got used to it and I know it eventually ends...praise God!

  • @juliebraden
    @juliebraden 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    sleep walking is pretty serious. people have died b/c of it. being out in traffic while literally asleep.
    it is said to be triggered by too much stress or not a consistent schedule. if Drew does inherent it there are things u can do to mitigate it but u need to wrk w/ a Dr.
    people CAN drive while they are technically asleep. that is y it is so dangerous as well

  • @bellavita3097
    @bellavita3097 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some people do sleep in separate bedrooms the number one DJ in Detroit him and his wife sleep in separate rooms Monday through Friday because he has to get up so early and she snores like a freight train and then they come together whenever they come together and they’re completely in love in the relationship my one set of grandparents slept in separate bedrooms and they had four healthy happy boys so it just depends but you should always work out sleep arrangements with a baby before night time who’s going to get up who’s going to feed so there is no arguments just like a child getting dress you pick out their clothes the night before so there’s no drama no meltdowns in the morning no surprises no drama

  • @stacym88
    @stacym88 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love sleeping with a sound machine, I will not sleep without a sound machine again! It has definitely improved our sleep.

  • @thatgrltabi
    @thatgrltabi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After birth they came into my room with portable X-ray machine to make sure there were scissors left in me and they could not wake my husband they wound up just covering him with the X-ray blanket ran the machine and everything he never woke up .... he was a football player to

  • @janetw7828
    @janetw7828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Too much bickering and poking holes in what each other is saying.😟

  • @frsouth27
    @frsouth27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Andrew your fixing to be in the dog house with Nash if you say Shawn looks tired 😴 one more time lol 😂
    I don’t sleep but 2 hours at a time. I have a bad back and arthritis. Always looking for a comfortable position.

  • @HelenKertland
    @HelenKertland 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ God bless you! I really enjoy our talks, and your visitors brings joy to my day

  • @wendymathews1030
    @wendymathews1030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember those early days/weeks/months when my girls were babies, and just being SOOO tired! It was all on me; I never had help. But that’s a whole other story! I love watching you two, and you’re so funny; but it seems like you fight a lot. Every couple has their own unique way of working out issues, so maybe I have the wrong impression:) I really love you two, and your baby girl is truly the prettiest baby ♥️ Thank you for sharing your lives with us!

  • @bland3282
    @bland3282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds like you guys spend to much time together. Couples need to give each other space during the day so they can enjoy the time they have together. I assume it happens a lot with couples that work together

    • @pequenabutterfly1668
      @pequenabutterfly1668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think it’s a maturity level and sleep deprivation.... Because I see other you tube couples who work together and are together all day - yet don’t argue and disagree like this - it was so awkward at times watching them fight basically- I hope Andrew watches all this every time he asks for another baby - if you are not mature enough to stay up all night without complaining of one child , how immature is it to ask for another ?! Lol

    • @memoirsdenny0552
      @memoirsdenny0552 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pequenabutterfly1668 those couple you see on youtube who don't fight may be having worse fights behind the camera. These people right here are very real and down to earth. This is a natural relationship, for some others, it is much more worse. Anyone who clains not to fight with their better halves may be faking it big time.

  • @michellebush2039
    @michellebush2039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Andrew is the one who looks sleepy... Just saying...

  • @harleyjarzombek5074
    @harleyjarzombek5074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shawn you need to take melatonin, a low dose, to put to to sleep at night. That’s what I do sometimes and holy cow it works. Also I just got this new vitamin that helps with focus, concentration, memory, and more. But there is a sleep one as well I think. Ask me here what’s it called if you want to know!!

  • @samanthamiller2941
    @samanthamiller2941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shawn I feel you my husband was the same way when we had our son.

  • @AmberleeMueller
    @AmberleeMueller ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband will sleep through anything like that too.

  • @marykayreese1883
    @marykayreese1883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Go Chiefs, I’ll be working atPizza Hut. Won’t see the game.

  • @davidsanderson6410
    @davidsanderson6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I normally prefer my sleep number to be 50, but after having some back pain I had to put it at 100, which significantly reduced the pain. Without a doubt this is one of the best purchases I've ever made.
    As far as sleepwalking the only time someone else saw me was as a kid. My parents said I came downstairs, unlocked the backdoor, then went back to bed. But there were also times I've woken up and the light in my room was on. I have no recollection of turning it on, nor do I have any idea about what else I may have done.

  • @alexisburke778
    @alexisburke778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I carry on full conversations with people in my sleep including on the phone. I don’t have any recollection of it when I wake up.

  • @dianetully5629
    @dianetully5629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think that when you do things in your sleep that your subconscious takes over and keeps you safe. I have had times where I went to bed while my husband was not yet home (I had young children), and in the morning I realized that I never even knew he came home or got in bed. I would wonder if a stranger came into the house would I not wake up? But it was explained to me that my subconscious knew that everything and everyone was safe. Shawn, I think that is why you could not open the windows on the second floor and Andrew only ran around the house and not down the street. Also why Ghost Rider was able to do the things he did.

  • @rosiecheeks710
    @rosiecheeks710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The first sleepover I had with my husband we were sleeping in a twin sized bed. In the middle of the night he pushed me off! Shortly after he bought a king sized bed. I'll never forget waking up on the ground and yelling "'WTF you pushed me off the bed!"

  • @11Windermere
    @11Windermere 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talk about your height difference!

  • @jennylynne4414
    @jennylynne4414 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol .. Shawn is snarky when she's tired.

  • @krislard
    @krislard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One time I woke up in the middle of the night to find my older brother just standing over me... it was terrifying but he was asleep 🤣

  • @trishradloff8817
    @trishradloff8817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being a sleep Zombie is a real thing. A few years ago. I took ILL and fainted, hitting my head, cracked it open, blood everywhere. You get the picture. I literally crawled to the sofa to get my husband to help. He was so deeply asleep he could not hear me. I was hysterical, in and out of it. My dogs were going nuts. Nothing. He would not wake up! Even after the ambulance drivers took me away he didn’t budge. Hours later he called my cell phone to see where I was and why was there blood all over the house?! To this day I’ve never seen anyone sleep as deeply as my Husband. The original Sleep Zombie. Yes, we’re still married.

    • @luciemacpherson
      @luciemacpherson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trish Radloff That’s sooo frustrating! I’m so sorry you went through that! Also glad you are still married. Life! It ain’t for sissies!

  • @LMebert
    @LMebert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ‘No, I don’t. I breathe!’ That is hilarious! I love you guys!

    • @HeatherW72
      @HeatherW72 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually laughed out loud when Shawn said that

  • @TheRealMrsSnodgrass
    @TheRealMrsSnodgrass 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Andrew there’s no setting the tone for pity She automatically gets it when she’s just given birth... after birth, it’s your job to take care of baby. Sorry buddy
    And just a tip from a mom of three, set a schedule for who’s getting up with baby ahead of time. That way each person knows who’s responsibility it is each night and then you can’t argue about it. I suggest every other night for each parent.

  • @greeneyes7427
    @greeneyes7427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When my husband was young he would sleep walk and walked out the door in the middle of winter. There was a big pond and it was frozen. He walked onto the ice and fell trough the ice. He walked back to the door and knocked on the door. It is a miracle that he is here because he came up the same place he fell in. We had two kids and both of them sleep walked. Found our daughter up on the top of our waterbed headboard and she was faced to the wall.

  • @valerieh1619
    @valerieh1619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sleeping separate in a room with door shut has saved our marriage

    • @pslay9324
      @pslay9324 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG YES!!!!!!!! 29 YEARS LATER. Our kids are now 22 and 17 they come and go...I am terrified of getting a call in the middle of the night. I started sleeping with the light on, TV on and my laptop on all night. My husband says he needs quiet and has to have 9 hours as for me I can function without but yes I am tired. I can sleep through just about anything but let on of the kids say, "mom" or mama and I am up wide awake....you will get used to less sleep.

  • @samanthamiller2941
    @samanthamiller2941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband slept walk and my son ended up having sleep terrors til her was like 2. Like he would be sleeping and would just cry but you couldn't wake him up. His episodes would last for secs but you couldn't wake him you just had to let them finish. And then he would just go back to sleep like nothing happened.

  • @lemondrop8685
    @lemondrop8685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girlfriend I don't know why you're always busting your husband's balls?! He seems like a super cool guy and you're lucky to have him as a husband because he seems like he tries really hard. Appreciate the fact that he's giving it his all and just love him where he falls short and pick up where he falls short.🤔😊

    • @ericaj2611
      @ericaj2611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Seriously. She is way too hard on him. It makes me uncomfortable at times. So many women would love to find a man who treats them right.

  • @Gisellej80
    @Gisellej80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Drew is so cute i am seeing yr insta stories. As we get older sleep is great. I did not realise shawn did not sleep before her games wow

  • @christysdeals4u
    @christysdeals4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My grandparents had separate beds!

  • @zmcrater
    @zmcrater 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to sleepwalk as a child. We lived in Detroit and I tried to walk outside at midnight or later, but thank God my grandma would always stay awake late and she quickly got up and guided me to the bathroom (which is what I was actually trying to find). Fast forward years later and my 1st and 2nd daughter both have slept walked and it's always because they're trying to find the bathroom. But they are 4 and 5. So it is very possible for Drew to get it when she's older. 😬

  • @thisfoolserrand
    @thisfoolserrand 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sleep walking/eating episode....I woke up in my kitchen only wearing my bottom underwear eating peanut butter out of the jar with my fingers. Which woke me up because my mouth was glued shut. Also bad because I had a male roommate that was a just a friend. Yikes.

  • @taraf1819
    @taraf1819 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have 3 kids. 16,15, 7. I have sleep anxiety .... as well . I wake up 3-4x a night. 7 year old stil crawls in bed with me. ♡ good luck on the lack of sleep thing and hang on tight .