If You Run Out Of Things To Say, Play This Simple Game
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ต.ค. 2024
- How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
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We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to.
That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation
0:20 Play Reminds Me of
0:54 Ask open-ended questions
1:40 Use revival questions
2:37 Make a complimentary cold read
3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk
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I told my first date „You look like you enjoy McDonalds quite a lot!“
She really opened up, even raised her voice. It brought so much energy to the conversation.
😂😂bruh lol
😩😂
you really down bad 😭
🤣
Man this made me smile so hard XD
I haven't laughed/cried this hard in ages. Love this comment section
Made my day!
Mine too!
Same!!
What's your age?
Same, this comment section is hilarious..
Bold of you to assume that I engage in conversation.
James Hickok I have aids :)
Swear bro I ain’t never starting a convo
@@treblinka9530 so.., what do you enjoy most about having aids?
noo i feel bad for liking your comment and making the number iLlUmInAtI
@@bl8d5uck3r dw i changed it :)
- What are you doing?
- Drinking
- Why?
- Because I want to forget
- What?
- The shame I feel for drinking
(Awkward silence)
- This reminds me of that time I was in Toranto
Family guy ahh conversation
Little prince
"You look like the type who would be great with kids"
What do you like about Toranto?
little princess
me at his house-
“so do you come here often?”
That is a nice way to talk to a thief he'd peacefully leave.
@@FBWUniverseMode"and that's how me and your mom met son"
Maybe we should just be friends
Mind: She's insane, just distance yourself, man.
That will Bring more Awkwardness
Why
One of the best feelings is when you're so close to someone that even the awkward silences aren't awkward anymore and you're just enjoying one another's company.
Bro I feel that.. I'd love my date to be just like me, to enjoy and embrace the silence, exchanging smiles and eye contact, that kinda something
Nice name
🗿🗿
2 bros being bros in silent peace
It's so rare. If you meet someone that vibes with you like that never let them go, whether they're a lover or a friend.
pulp fiction
“The weather nice today huh?”
"Thanks, you too"
I’m dead 😂
Well someone could be called Carl Weathers somewhere
Hahahaha
y-you too
Relatable
1. Say ‘this reminds me of..’
2. Ask open ended questions.
3. Ask ‘why?’
3. Use revival questions - like ‘How do you guys know each other?’
5. Ask them about their future plans
6. Compliment them
7. Allow the other person to move the conversation by maintaining eye contact, or repeat the last words they said to encourage them to continue
Thank you,this reminds me about that radom guy who used to give these
Cool...So how do you like Toronto
Why?
8. Ask them where is point no. 4.
What are your future plans?
Flirting with the bartender: “you come here often?”
😂
😂😂😂
Bro, why.
I swear, if she’s that type of cool girl, she’ll laugh and that’s the spot where you want to be! Now order a se+ on the beach and she’ll be all yours 😏
"You, come here often."
My fav question to ask when convo goes quiet is “how do u think chairs would work if our Knees bent backwards” I’ve had some wild convos from it
That question is so random lol
Lmaoo
You’re a saint Audrey
Having read this comment yesterday and asked this question today I can confirm the results are legendary
Or something like "have you ever asked yourself if hippos think that rhinos are unicorns?"
-So, how do you like Toronto?
-I've never mentioned Toronto...
- ... Why?
Underrated comment lmao
only he spelled it toranto
Lol
Lmao
Why what?
Erm…
You remind me of Toronto…
I was wondering why this video was recommended to me until I saw the comments section. It all makes sense now.
“I had a good time yesterday at the party.”
“So you had a good time yesterday?”
“Um yeah like I just said...
“Why?”
“...Because I went to the party...”
so anyways, how do you like toronto?
😂
What’s your story?
@Doggo 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
*The gods have given us this outstanding comment section.*
Yess
More than we could ever wish for.
So what's Ur story
*Why?*
God tier comment section
1. Maintain an unblinking stare
2. Randomly and substantially change the tone of your voice.
3. Respond to all of their responses with "As was foretold in the prophecy"
Socklips and then follow up with “Bring me the child!”
I love you guys
@@martinprince7773 bonus points if you point to a pregnant lady
I’m so glad I had your advice
LMFAOO
"Great weather today!"
"Thanks, you too."
😂
Plot twist: You are at a convention for weather wizards. 😂
@@ZrJiri damn
“Do you like Toronto?”
“Yes” *awkward silence*
“How do you like Toronto?” 😌
“It’s good.” *awkward silence*
Why
So much for an open-ended question lol
That’s when you ask then what they like about it
Yes
i’m from toronto and i can confirm it is good
[ awkward silence ]
Me: [ sees glass of water ] “heh, reminds me of how humans need to stay hydrated”
🤣 🤣 🤣
lmao
Lolll
hahahahaha
10/10
Me meeting my friend standing with his father
Me:So how do you guys know each other?
dead😂😂
Saad Anwar 😂😂😂
I have done that one before
@@frankievaldez6816 what was their resonse?😂
😂😂
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Why do I see this exact comment everywhere?
@@ethanoyston9326 its an advertisement
@@ethanoyston9326 it’s a marketing scam
It's a spam comment @@ethanoyston9326
@@ethanoyston9326I think it might be a spam comment like that one on shrooms
Awkward silence:
Why and Toronto: I'm about to end this man's whole career
Lmao 💀
Why dpes this only have 66 likes. Lmaoo
Hahahaha
I woke my sister up laughing at this😂😂😂
Bahahaha 😂😂😂
“you look like you would be great with kids“
“Oh actually not really“
“well I had the impression because you look like my mom“
"why?"
“toronto?!”
This reminds me of..
HAHAHAHAHA
Underrated comment lmao 😂
Me with my girlfriend at their place meeting her family: So how do you all know each other?
Lookl
lolololol
bwahhahaa i would probably do this and not notice
😄😄
I dying man. 🤣
Sometimes it’s worth watching a video just to read the comments. Gold mine!!
Why?
@@yafi6214 It's true.
@@turtleburger200Toronto
Laughed my lungs out!!
This comment section is on fire!!
why?
Ryo Hilmi how do you like Toronto?
ikr😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Me flirting in class -
"So which school are you from?"
Why?
@@Kuza01
Just Asking
@@mandystop1077 how do you like Toronto?
@@AlexandruRadu96 Toronto? isn't that a city? that reminds me of where I'm from. which is kind of like a city but much smaller.
@@AlexandruRadu96 yes
I tried to make my crush laugh by extra saying “Why” “Toronto” etc.
But she just watched me awkwardly.
Then I remembered that not everyone knows this comment section.
Hahaga
@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga
@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga
@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga
@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga
Cool video, your channel is really an inspiration. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Person: "So where are you from?"
Me: "Why?"
..............*awkward silence*
Me: "That reminds me of all the other awkward social interactions".
Pure gold
The funny thing is that could actually be a really hilarious conversation😂
I'm screaming laughing at this
@@Zgtsu 😂😂
I laughed so fucking hard at this. You are a legend
I'd like to believe a couple out there having a casual conversation. When they got to the silence part, they recalled this video vividly and knew every tip from it. It'd be so funny for them to start talking about Toronto or "that thing reminds me off" and slowly realise that they've both seen the video. From there on, they watched the video again together just to laugh their asses off reading the comment section.
That might be the start of a long lasting relationship
Let’s do it raffi, next month we both travel to Toronto? You in? If not.... why ?
Very wholesome
That's the start of a great relationship
Hahaha
*me flirting at a funeral
"So, do you come here often?"
Who you trying to flirt with at a funeral?
@@nicktokar2459 the widow
That funeral comment made cry bc my grandma died not to long ago and now im sad
@@Nexusstorie why? Did you flirt with someone there?
@@Nexusstorie Why...
I've never wanted to meet someone who's been to Toronto this much in my life.
Why?
Do you go there often?
Toranto
Could you make a video on how to end conversations effectively without being rude? Especially if the other person is too chatty and can't understand regular cues that you need to leave for another matter?
pkmaniac Just say something like "It was pleasure to meet you, but unfortunately I have to go". That's what I do.
pkmaniac what I do and works fine, is to answer their last question, start leading the conversation and show interest in what the other person says, then without letting them say anything else I just say something like "so yeah that's what I think (or something like this depending on the situation), anyway it was nice talking to you, gotta go now". Basically, interrupt yourself to end the conversation, not the other person
Key to is start off the conversation with a disclaimers saying "I'm on my way to ____" or "I've got some work/something to do" to let them know that you could leave at any moment with good reason. Then, when you actually want to end the convo, interrupt yourself after you finish your thought and mention that you have to leave for ______ that you already mentioned at the start. It makes exiting the convo a lot less awkward.
pkmaniac, just say "good bye"
Yell "SHUT THE F UP" and punch him/her
- This place reminds me of my grandma's death.
- Maybe that's because it's my mum's funeral.
- How did she die?
- I don't want to talk about it, please.
- Ok. How did you meet each other?
*Akward silence*
- How's your mum doing?
🤣🤣
This one's underrated
That sounds like something that Oversimplified would write for his videos😂
Ouch 😂
I'd love to like thus comment vut really dont wanna ruin the fine like counts 420
This is the most legendary comment section ever
Agreed “Star Lord”
Why?
This comment section is making me cry. Cry of laughter.
Why?
Moist critical reference
Most important thing imo - make yourself genuinely interested in the person. A lot of the conversation will just fall into place by itself instead of trying to come up with the next best thing to say 🙂 This helped me so much in life
this. ☝️
This! ☝️
Great advice
@@tuananh1440 glad you found it useful 🙂
This advice reminds me of Toronto.
me in an airplane: “so, where you going?”
On a plane
@@joaquin991 to Toronto?
I did do that once actually
somehow that's what I get ask all the time
Is this directed at someone or just a question out of nowhere hoping someone replies?
We all lack social skills , don't we?
D. Lastbreath no just had that a few hours ago.. damn that was the most awkward thing. long story short she turned me off with one sentence and then i had to change my sentence i wanted to say and then i left..
@@kblc7952 thats what you get for being a oldhead
Apree i’m 15 lmao
@@kblc7952 you can be 15 and an oldhead tf
Apree yeah aight u a oldhead too?
"I see you have a big mouth, do you like to talk a lot?"
😂
Toronto?
@@xavierblitz5647 Why
@@topeque6993 that reminds me of...
Why?
I tried that complimentary cold read technique at a work event - "What do you like to do for fun" and "You look like you're pretty into fitness" after introducing myself. The woman (a complete stranger) thought I was flirting with her and I ended up in a disciplinary with HR for inappropriate behaviour. Be very careful who you use this advice with.
"It seems you were hitting on that female coworker. What are your thoughts?"
"Don't worry, I have learned the lesson. So you all look like you enjoy eating a lot?"
@@danny.ray101 Not really. I had been talking shop all day and was looking for common ground. If it hadn't been a networking event and I wasn't already supposed to chat to people I didn't know I might have seen it that way.
@@JetBlackJester Then it's even more ridiculous...
Don't trust women.
@JetBlackJester
I think that talking about fitness to a woman brings up different connotations than if you talk about fitness to a man, quite simply because a man talking to a woman about her body is considered flirting or at least borderline usually, while guys are not as sensitive on the topic.
That said, at a setting where people are supposed to interact, and given the information I am aware of, I feel like she could have cut you a little more slack and tried to guage your intentions before coming to a conclusion.
In summary, I believe all parties involved could have done better, its just a little unfortunate that the learning experience for you was rather awkward.
Me, talking to my cousin at her mum’s funeral
Me: this reminds me of that time my aunt died
John McKenvil r/woooooosh
John McKenvil LMAO
@John McKenvil But you didn't give any signs that u understood.
Sooo how do you like Toronto
@@fade2008 *_Why?_*
@@MushisCow ummmm *_Nice weather, huh?_*
Awkward silence with a single person
“So how do you all know each oth-wait, damnit that’s not it...”
Soooo true lmao
why
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This one cracked me up 😆
*frantically pulls out flash cards and drops all of them*
If someone asked me "so what's your story?" I'd break into a cold sweat
why
@@aligamiles toronto
this reminds me of the time I got -cold- feet and ran out on my wedding.
…
so what’s Toronto like?
@@loot3647 PAHAHAHA YALL LEAVE. IM CRYING
@@linasbubble why?
1. Open ended questions (how do you like ?)
2. Ask about their motivativations with a simple "Why?" (Why did you decide to get into ?)
3. When the conversation stalls, use revival questions:
- "How you guys know one other?"
- "What's your story?". The person might give options on what specifically, then you can read which option was mentioned in a more excited tone of voice
- "What are your plans to the future?"
4. Complimentary cold read (you look like you are pretty into )
5. In a cold silence, deep breath and keep easy eye contact. Alternatively, repeat the last words they've said
Jesus Christ, does anyone else want to write yet another comment stating the exact same thing that was in the video?
how do you like toronto?
@@Prizm44this is called a resume so people remember what they watched. Maybe understand some people might appreciate it??
Me: So what’s your story?
Her: What do you mean by that?
Me: ... Why?
Her: *leaves*
Me: sits to rewatch this video and take notes
Great!
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
practice makes perfect 👌🏻
A depressed person:"sometimes I just feel like this world would be better without me"
....
Me: "so what are ur plans for the future?"
You know the word future reminds me of a state that is my destiny to behold my actions a period of time following the moment of speaking or writing; time regarded as still to come.
"I wanna kill myself"
Me: "Toronto"
why?
Why would be better ;)
damn that went dark quick lmfaoo
“So...tell me a bit about yourself”
My mom at the dinner table: “..what?”
*pointing to vase on table*“This reminds me of a vase I have at home”
“????”
Why?
toronto
😂😂😂
I love these comments
@@tofferooni4972 why?
What I've found is that people looove to talk about themselves! If you want to keep the conversation going, act like everything they say is the most interesting thing you've ever heard and you want to hear every single detail.
You study commerce? What do you do? What job would you pursue in the future? What are the assignments like? Your parents made you study it, what do your parents do? What would you rather be studying instead, why? Every single piece of detail is a prompt that you can keep building on.
And most of all, remember that the other person is a human being too! Chances are they want to keep the conversation going too and they'll want to cooperate with you. While trying to come up with ways to keep it going, remember to actually listen to what the other party is saying as well!
That's the only thing I know how to do, keep a conversation alive ? Yeah, start one, might need to call help on that one.
That's not how it goes sometimes, sometimes if you show too much interest in other's topics, they gain on you and don't even wanna listen to you cz they think only their opinions and topics matter and yours not...
I always show interest in other's topics but as soon as i want to say something about myself or my interests, they don't reciprocate the same
Not everyone. I get really paranoid, irritated and even more closed off when people start asking me personal questions.
Why?
Barber: "So what do you do for work?"
Me: "I'm a cashier, what about you?"
*awkward silence*
lmaoo
😭😭😭
Gold
I actually did this once. Most akward 10 minutes of my life
omg yeah I've actually been there... ooff
No joke I laughed so many times going through the comments. It shows some of us have great humor and personality but we just have social anxiety lol.
Its easier to text what you think than it is to wittingly say it in person.
I love everyone and everything in this comment section. I feel like we are all uniting across the world because of of our non interesting lives and social awkwardness:) its like a weird family.
Yeah I agree with you
*Dom Toretto enter stage right*
so.. how do you like Toronto
that reminds me of the time i didn't watch this video, why ?
Yeah homie
The more I see videos like this, the more I understand that I just have anxiety. I follow this script, I don't do anything incredibly weird. But my mind puts everything under a microscope. And sometimes I just got to accept that I just don't vibe with everyone. Some conversations just arent going to be great.
It's been 13 years. Did you find out where you got the muffin?
So true, I used to deal with really bad social anxiety and like you I would second guess everything I said or did and felt disappointed when I didn’t vibe with someone or the convo was awkward (which was most of the time lol). Realising that you won’t get along with everybody, just because we’re all different, is so freeing.
Them: How old are you?
Me: Toronto
Them: That’s not an age
Me: Why?
That’s technically a conversation
Why
Lmao
😂😂😂
the perfect conversation killer doesn't exi
“So how do you like Toronto?”
“ I don’t”
“Well that’s *N I c E*
How do you like Toronto?
Yes it’s Nice
Annnddd we're back to square 1 lol
"i don't"
"Is it the traffic or crowd? I've heard it can get crowded?"
(I'm learning so much from this channel)
I always laugh and add "well at least you're honest!"
*WHY?*
Teacher: where’s your homework?
Me: *takes deep breath whilst maintaining eye contact*
Teacher: what are you doing?
Me: so why did you decide to be a teacher?
Teacher: excuse me?
*awkward silence*
Me: How do you like Toronto?
teacher: asks for homework*
student: “but why?
AYEEEE sarchie is heree 😍🤣
RIP bro😂
Epic 👌🏻
@@salmanallam2012 you watch the my videos?😂
I have a friend who asks questions like the ones from this video when trying to hold conversations, and now I think he got the conversation ideas from this video.
ask them how they like toronto and see what they do
@@joanna4500 I'll do that sometime hahah
Why
@@DrownedInGamesis it true?
@@hexmymind I don't know, we unfortunately aren't friends anymore.
Her : So do you like Toronto ?
Me : Hey that's my line !!
Her : Why?
*Awkward Silence*
Man what a hilarious comment section, I wish I cud meet u all and make more jokes about this video, that would be epic! I'm so weak for good humour 😂😂
@@babayaga3064 We are really doing okay in comments section but chances are it will be *severely awkward silence* if we meet in real life.
Uno reverse :D
Underrated comment 😂
😂😂😂😂
Me: You look like you are really into food!
Her: I'm pregnant.
Me: ...Why?
Anything Butme Who the hell says that in the first place?😂 “You look like you are really into food!”
@@FirstnameLastname-es1ko that's why they watch this video! 😂
🤣🤣🤣
She allowed herself to get nasty
Seriously. Why? Smart people stopped having kids in 2008.
My dad, who is really great at socializing, taught me one rule:
Try asking your conversation partner questions about him/her. Not only will it lead to new conversation topics like they mentioned in the video, it also gives you time to think about how to follow up after they finish. As an introvert, this works greatly for me.
Till the person says I'm good you?
@@caramelese8520 usually it does not continue like that, but if it does thennn bruh it's gonna be awkward silence again
@@caramelese8520
after that talk about something that happened to you recently that might continue the conversation (in a good way obviously)
Ohh I got the same tip! He even used it on me without me realizing and after I finished talking he said “see”
Stuck with me since then and as a shy introvert, has helped me a lot
Please gimme some more tips like this I really die during a conversation have nothing to ask or say and the conversation ends right there with awkward silence from both sides
Me: *Looks at flower*
Also me: Woah, That flower reminds me of flowers.
Why?
Bahahah
h o w d o y o u l i k e t o r o n t o ?
Does it look like it would be great with kids?
@@preciousoh705 LOL
friend: i got an A in my maths exam
me:why?
friend: i got an A in my maths exam
you: So how do you like Toranto?
Her: I hung out with my family and i really enjoyed it
me: *getting comfortable with silence*
me: so you enjoyed yourself?
Friend: *I got an A in Maths*
Me: *How do you guys know each other?*
Actually... that wouldn't be too bad a question. "How did you get an A?" That opens up lots of possibilities to start talking about studying, school, how he other one has felt in the past weeks, personal habits, things the other one is or isn't interested in, etc.
This comment thread has me dying.
Me: How old are you?
Her: 21
Me: *Why*
lol
Because I drink the blood of babies, of course
Well, I was born at an early age and I've been alive ever since.
Her: Because I was born at a very young age.
Have a date in an hour. I’m using this as a pick-up line for sure dude lmao
One thing I learned through my conversations, "some people are boring" don't push it, it they are exciting or excited in you, you'll never stop talking.
And some of those 'boring' people are protecting their peace or moving in silence jsyk! It's wise and safe to keep business to yourself and out of the streets.
Me: What’s up
Her: Hi
Me: Where are you from?
Her: Wiscon....
Me: TORONTO?!...Perfect
Teacher : Where is your homework ?
Me: At home , and yours?
Teacher : what?
Me: why?
Teacher : *confused*
Me: So what do you do for living?
Bruno The Expert thank you for making me actually lol 😂😂
Thats just “how to escape homework”
This made me laugh 😂😂😂
Omg this was awesome hahahaha
😂😂😂😂
Me: So do you like Toronto?
Her: Yes, actually, I went there last year, it's beautiful
Me: How do you like Toronto?
Her: ... I like the landscape I guess?
Me: Why?
Her: Why what?
Me: That reminds me of that time when I went to Toronto
That’s not too bad
Lmfao love this
420 likes yessir
y'all gotta stop this 😭😂😂
Lol
I've come to learn a bit about this, and it took me a while to understand that it's not only me in a conversation that is struggling, it's both sides, (or in a group, all sides). This made me less worried about the responsibility of the conversation failing falling on me.
Girl sitting alone on the bench.
Me: Hi
She: Hi
Me: So how do you guys know each other ?
🤣🤣🤣🤣
That one was on you, if you had replied “why” then you guys would have had a better conversation
@@f.b.iagent3971 hahahah you are right FBI...I'm gonna remember it for the next time.
Thank you ✌
😂😂😂
*runs away*
"how do you like Toronto"
"I've never been there"
"why?"
"because I live in another country"
"this reminds me of the time I didn't have anything to say"
Haha😂
💀💀💀
That reminds me that i live in a different country lol
except he misspelled toranto
Toranto lmao
me: what's your name?
them: Emma
me: why?
them:
me: so how do u like Toronto?
So all of them are named emma
Emma: why?
Her*
that reminds me of Toronto
Plot Twist: Emma has never even been to Toronto.
short, ad straight to the point, no unessecary buildup or intro, love it
Her: Yeah my last five years were pretty rough. I lived in Toronto with my now ex-husband but he was really abusive and manipulative. When we finally divorced he also took my precious children. I don't like to be reminded of that time because I'm trying to move on.
Me:
Her:
Me: So what's your story? How do you like Toronto? I'm sure you'd be great with kids!😀
but why?
underrated comment imo
asking her "why" would be more hilarious
Very very underrated comment 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
me: you look like you're into fitness.
my cat: ...
Shane Dawson, seconds before tragedy
Me: I'm into fitness.
Her: Really?
Me: Yeah - fitness whole pizza in my mouth.
😂😂😂
The people battling with social awkwardness have definitely mastered being funny! Just look at this comment section.
Devanshu Dev tru
big facts
We only know how to be witty online lol
Why?
That's wholesome
2:43 "You look like you're pretty into eating"
Oh
Me: hi
Her: hello
Me: tell me your story
Her: I was born in Switzerland...
Me: so how do you like Toronto?
Her: I said Switzerland
Me: you said Switzerland?
Her: yes
Me: Why?
i thought there was a hair on my screen, Lol
@@masud_1 ibwas blowing it the whole time until i read ur comment😂
I literally thought there was hair on my screen and was blowing on it the whole time until i saw your username lol
oH lol I tHoUghT tHEre wAs A hAiR On mY ScReEN
😂
I *hate* it when I try to break the silence to cope with the awkwardness, but the other person just doesn’t want to “cooperate”. Like I wish people would just say if they are comfortable not talking, because I myself don’t want to talk if i could, but I don’t want to come across as an unfriendly person, y’know-
so how do you like Toronto?
@@juleslefumiste9204 why?
@@juleslefumiste9204 yea.
Remain calm, be positive when you do talk. A lot of girls like quieter guys
Yeeees😬. These are the experiences that really demotivate me to try again
Her: I had a fight with my sister
Me: How do you two know one another?
Her:..... She's my sister
Me: *why?*
Augustus Caesar her: because we’re related
Me: because you’re related?
@@IsaiahReitanFilm Me: Actually that reminds me of a friend who, just recently, got into a fight with her sister
@@IsaiahReitanFilm Her: uh..yes
Me: *_why?_*
Augustus Caesar Well her parents did the big f*ck twice.
Her: Toronto
Complimentary cold reads are brilliant! Whether you're right or wrong, it keeps the chat flowing. Love the creativity here!
Love Charlie’s videos, but as someone who talks to others for a living (as a therapist) I’ve always been taught to ask “what” instead of “why”...so in the example in the video “why did you get into consulting” would be “what made you get into consulting?”
Why questions feel interrogative, what questions feel more curious. Food for thought.
William Summers GET OUT OF MY HEAD 😜
So how do you like Toronto, you look like you’d be good with kids
So what brings you to Toronto? Therapy stuff?
Exactly what I was thinking.
True. All of the tips gradually sound like test questions you find in exams imo x') If I was put on the spot I would feel like being pressed to answer personal questions instead of sharing personal thoughts or experience
Awkward silence
Me: the table reminds me of... Um, the tv reminds me of...
Friend: don't force yourself
Me: why?
ahahah this made me laugh out loud
priceless 😂👌🏽
HAHAHAAHA
This made me laugh pretty good
😂😂
As someone who always has been more reserved, you’ll definitely run into those people who love to talk and will do most of the work of the conversation for you. Depending on what you like in people that you consider as friends, I like having more energetic and talkative people around me to offset my more quietness and it’s works more as a yin yang type of relationship.
Okay but like....are they from Toronto?
@@Gamesnolames why?
the only serious comment here
@@hughmungous you look like you would be great with kids
Thats the same with me, Im a bit quiet myself but I don't like talking to quiet people and I always feel like a hypocrite😅
If one runs out of things to say, then that's perfectly ok. Just remain silent. Such is natural. Afterall, the person needs to get used to you when you're speaking and when you're not speaking to keep everything natural. There's a natural flow to everything. There's no need to force the conversation. If the conversation is forced, then it would appear that way too.
As the saying goes, Silence is golden!
*at a bar*
Me: you look like you come here often
Her: What, I look like an alcoholic??
Me: what’s your story
Her: I don’t have a drinking problem!
Me: Tell me why
*Her, starts to get drunk and proceeds to loosen up:* ain't nothin but a heartache
@@nelmae6026 glad I wasn't the only person who though BSB lol
🎵Ain't nothing but a heartache🎵
@@sarahgebhardt404 TELL ME WHY
@@fiipknife3830 ain't nothin' but a mistake
Me: How old are you?
Girl: 19
Me: when I was your age I was 21
why?
Kovels because 19=10+9=9+10=21
69
XD Old memes
This situation is as confusing as king crimson's timeskip
Person: hello
Me: *is awkwardly silent for 10 seconds*
Me: why?
this is so me im gonna cry
Why?
Jake Hagin how do you like Toronto?
Dude 🤣🤣🤣
@@sabes44 why?
seeing that this video has so many views makes me feel less alone. we just all have some problems with social skills but hey, nothing that we can't overcome
I'm autistic and this will help me so much in social situations. Thank you so much.
Timothy Crowther no it wont
Thank you so much... why?
Kalecgos why?
Why wouldn't it? it's straightforward advice that generally works if you try it. Those saying 'no it wont' likely haven't even given it a second thought.
this is a confusing thread, are they referencing 'why' tactic or replying to Kalecgos?
Brain: don't worry guys
Brain: I got a plan
Brain: has left the game
So anyways... How do you like Toronto?!
Tahiti?
@@youmakenosense7437 mangoes?
"I have a plan... This is a good one".
*literally fall off a cliff
I’m an alien from another universe and this video really helped thank you
This video is a fake and doesn't accurately describe how homo sapiens sapiens operate.
Facebook is not working zuckerberg
Same dude
Your comment made me laugh thanks haha
not funny idk how 558 lunatics liked this comment. Feminists
There’s nothing cooler than curating a vibe where you sit confidently with a dash of aloofness during those “awkward silences”
I do that practically all the time by accident bc of not often starting convos (unless with already established friends)
I disagree. I've been practicing this my entire life because I enjoy silence. But it hasn't made me "cool" or curate any kind of vibe that anyone else notices. Mainly it makes me forgettable, which is good. I don't want boring people to remember me, only the ones worth talking to.
I like to channel the Oz character from Buffy. Only ever say a few words at any one time, and only ever say a sentence or chime in now and then. Otherwise just sit quietly and impassive, chilling with a neutral smile or deadpan look.
1) ______ reminds me of
2) Use open questions
3) Why?
4) Revival questions? (e.g. tell me your story)
5) Flip the conversation to them
poppy rose so what’s your story?
Thanks
How do you guys know each other?
Why?
how do you like it in toronto?
her: yeah i’ve been to toronto a few times
me internally: finally someone who’s actually been there, ok don’t mess this up again. just say “how do you like toronto?”
me externally: how do you why toronto. you seem good with kids. why? have plans any exciting for the fut-
her: *frantically getting up to leave*
me: evael t’nod esaelp !tiaw
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
U messed up the "wait" bro
I laughed
OMG SUCH AN UNDERRATED COMMENT HAHAHAHAHFJWMJDKQKD
Best comment in the world so Far lol
(I laughed so hard ty)
Bruh everyone, even the ones who used to carry the convos, are gonna need to re-learn social skills once we come back from quarantine.
Why? 😂😂😂i kidding but really i must to rewatch at least once
By the way, where are you from? Im from SouthEast Europe, Montengro country
@@sokipoki6185 so how are u liking Toronto
@@cdc_pacochill3479 it's great. You look like you would be good with kids
@@willrgamer791 why?
@@crazymangoz9583 That reminds me of questions
Me: "as an introvert, I've had a lot of experience with awkward silence."
Therapist: "and what have you learned?"
Me: "How to weaponize it against my enemies."
Therapist: ......
Me: .... "So how do you know Toronto?"
There is something wrong with my mind… TheRapist is how I read Therapist.
I lived there once but I had to get out there u know because of the dream killing and the boring silence and the bloody hippies smoking weed
@@Twowheelsandadream4 💀💀
@@Twowheelsandadream4 nawh same
To pack even more tips into there: *So why do you know Toranto?*
Man.. Conversations are tough!
jaha out nice nickname 😂
jaha out 😂😂
Mikkelwolf- You're telling me 😰
esp with women..
so you're saying you think conversations are tough?
*Talking to a girl by her lonesome
Me: "So how do you know each other?"
Her: " Im here by myself."
Me : "Why?"
Her: "..."
Me: "..."
Me: "So how do you like Toronto?"
These comments are killing me😂😂😂😂😂
@@theEmperor66 you're not alone bro! 🥰😂
😂😂 what a knowledge mashup in the comments
As someone with Autism, I struggle with maintaining conversations and there’s tone of awkward silences. It’s mostly due to the only questions I can think of in the moment being closed ended ones. I’m starting a new job this week and I’m gonna try and use some of these tips to help me.
I'd recommend gauging the tone of the comments section before implementing any of the suggestions from this video.
whenever i am in a situation of awkward silence, i bring up an argument from the past and she never shuts up again 😀
lol
Tell Me This doesn't help I have asbergers
LOL :)))
Best comment ever
@sami S he was telling a joke about how his wife likes to fight a lot.
Person: My son died last week!
Me: You look like the type who would be great with kids.
🤣🤣🤣
Nah, better response "why?"
Why?
lmao! 😃😃
NO!