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Ryan Serhant began his first day in the real estate business on September 15, 2008 - the same day that Lehman Brothers filed for bankruptcy in the wake of the subprime mortgage collapse. While the real estate sector has steadily recovered, Serhant himself has quickly become one of the most successful brokers in the world, with agents under his leadership in New York City, Los Angeles, Miami and the Hamptons. The Serhant Team has been named by WSJ Real Trends as the #1 real estate team in New York for two years in a row, and the #2 team in the country, selling close to $1 billion in real estate last year. Ryan is consistently the youngest broker to make the Journal’s top ten list each year.
Ryan stars in the popular Bravo series “Million Dollar Listing New York,” which just wrapped its seventh season. On September 18, 2018 - the week of his 10-year anniversary in real estate - he debuted his first book, Sell It Like Serhant. When pre-sales were announced, Ryan was #1 on Amazon’s daily list of “Movers and Shakers.” As star and producer, he also debuted his new Bravo show, "Sell It Like Serhant," started a successful vlog ( / ryanserhant ) and launched an app (Agent Empire: NYC). There is nothing Ryan can't do. His motto communicates his professional and personal philosophy, "Expansion. Always. In all ways."
I love how real Emilia is and how brave was Ryan to include that real conversation moment at the car in the vlog. LOVE when a vlog style video comes out in this channel, the motivational ones are fine, but I LOVE the vlogs.
Pray this prayer to go to heaven and pray it from the bottom of your heart plzzz
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner. I believe You died for my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life. I confess You as my personal Lord and Savior
Agree 100%
Wives are very honest... "don't try to sell this dream, that's not real"
Lol
Yep he was caught w his pants down. He films want he wants and then hears the truth, ha
Exactly. Glad he included this! He can take it because honesty is important.
Yea, but we don't go on youtube for facts okay, we want to be inspired even if it's fairy tales
And husbands need to not dismiss that honesty or the wife ‘checks out’.
If this man was a lawyer he would be the real life Harvey spectre.
Truth!
Lol
Hah so true
he would like Chuck from Bettet Call Saul
I think if Harvey specter were real ...Ryan would sell him an apartment.
Emilia is honest af, she says what she feels which is awesome and the most imp thing in relationship
You can only enjoy yourself and feel comfortable if you're being honest to your partner
I think Ryan genuinely thinks he can give a 100% to everything, and that was an eye opening for him.
Certainty 100% self importance.
Tbh yeah, although not everything he does is 100% perfect, I think he should still have that mindset, self confidence will get you far in life.
honestly your like the deadpool of real estate! So much fun but at the same time! super educational!
He looks like ryan Reynolds also
Jamal agreed
Well said
Pray this prayer to go to heaven and pray it from the bottom of your heart plzzz
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner. I believe You died for my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life. I confess You as my personal Lord and Savior
Love the clip where Emilia tells you how it is and acknowledges seasons of life. You taught me a long time ago communicate and appreciate and the rest falls into place. Thanks for the video was a great candid convo with you and her!
Emilia is the BEST. Glad you enjoyed the conversation we had ❤️
I was going to comment about phases of life and she put it wonderfully. I'm glad Ryan has someone who helps keep him grounded and keeps it 100 with him
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Pray this prayer to go to heaven and pray it from the bottom of your heart plzzz
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner. I believe You died for my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life. I confess You as my personal Lord and Savior
I love that she called him out on his reality from her perspective. It gave Ryan the chance to better his work/life balance.
Emilia is right. You can't have it all. You cannot give 100% to everything.
I also think it´s not healthy to put 100% in one thing (if that is even possible). You gotta have time off and time with friends/Family and doing something you like besides Work. You know if people go too fast they burnout or get stressed and that slows them even more down or even prevent them from working. Better find your own balance and pace.
john air Tell that to med students 💀
Yea but then what are you doing in New York then.
I'm good at that (not giving 100%) :D
And why is that ?
I've been married for 10 years and I've NEVER been able to have a conversation like that. It was an honest genuine conversation. Wish I had that.
Speak up
That's really sad.
well that kind of sounds troubling
:(
You married the wrong person.
Emilia needs to start vlogging. She is saying meaningful things so effortlessly. Really enjoyable to look at and listen to.
I love how honest Ryan is with Emilia the conversation they had in the car was very honest and real
I've had people tell me I'm crazy for scheduling life, but its the only way I can keep my sanity and make sure I dedicate the time I should to the things that matter
“Discipline equals freedom” -Jocko Willink
I schedule life as well. Keeps me organized. It’s a smart thing
After watching this vlog, I know my grandfather’s advice was more true than ever. The most important thing in life is to “marry well”. That’s what makes easy all the other things.
Keep up Ryan, love these kind of vlogs!
What we can take from this is that ryan hasn't cooked in a while
Well I love Emelia. She’s amazing. Congrats Ryan on marrying a real jewel. ❤️. It is clear she is queen and the balance.
I like Ryans way of thinking....after 54 years of marriage....I agree with his philosophy of balance. I was a stay at home mom of 3 for 13 years and when I asked my husband about his work he used to just say it was crazy and I wouldn't understand. He also used to travel a lot and I was jealous. Later in life I graduated from collage at age 47, went into the medical field and understood what he went through. Good luck Ryan and hope you guys are able to grow your family. You both have a lot of love to give. I have watched you from your first TV show.
Ryan's wife is very understanding, and Ryan tries very hard. I'd love to see a vacation vlog, where he takes it easy. See him hang with his family and add a little vacation house touring with the fam.
This last section should be called "Cook it like Serhant"
Serhant Cooking Lesson 1: How to make the worlds GREATEST omelettes
The omlettes dod look pretty good
Ryan Serhant Serhant is tall, handsome and humble 😂😂❤️
Just remember, in the end, she won't care about tall buildings or shiny toys.....she wants "daddy" ❤🙏🏽
thats the kinda shit tv shows lie to you about. The children of these insanely rich people on tv constantly want their dad to be with them, but its not that they prefer their dad over their get anything they want lifestyle, they want both
Until they reach their teens, then they want a different kind of "daddy"....
@@australianpatriot lol
@@australianpatriot lmao....Bro....
That’s why he makes time for them
The absolute worst thing you could ever say to someone that works their ass off "You have it easy". Ryan low key got pissed lol 5:42
Lmao. nothing more triggering than being told you have it easy when you work 80 hours a week.
I saw that! Hahaha but I’m sure he understood she meant he has it easy when he comes home..
he didnt seem angry he seemed to accept that having a meal at the end of the day makes all his hard work worth it, because hes coming home to ease. When you love someone you don't look for criticism in their words, you feel for truth.
Well in other words she said you have a good wife at home
Unless you’re a Mum, you really don’t understand the depth of ‘you have it easy.’
Keep in mind... Emilia had a work life identity... then you become a Mum.... and it is relentless... and you miss the ‘old you’. You miss being able to do what you want, when you want. Even when Mums go back to work, they have to plan for the baby and then themselves.... while Daddy can just cruise to the gym and work and not even consider if the baby needs anything, because they KNOW it’s taken care of.
It is the Mental Load of being a Mum.
I hear you Emilia. I hear you.
I’m so glad you said what you did, Ive watched these blogs, heard your story of infertility, and then watched these vlogs wondering how your days are, and if you’re doing ok xoxo
Sending love from a Mumma in New Zealand xoxo
I believe that Ryan is this successful because of his ""wise"" supportive wife.
He was succesful before meeting her but still it helps
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Without her he would be.......successful.
I LOVE that Ryan gives 100% to everything he does and by giving a lot of time to work now he is building an empire for his family....WHAT IS YOUR LEGACY??? Ryan knows what his is, and his wife and kids do as well!! I love this family such a great example to everyone, fantastic, motivating, and fun. All the best to them and I applaud the effort to make a difference in this world instead of passing the buck. Thanks for the gift of your precious time Ryan and family!! BAM!!!
LOVE UR VLOGS.
THIS ONE IS ONE OF THE BEST ONES. Taking a peep in your life
Thanks for all the videos.
You have been a major drive in my life
Definitely, totally agree, huge inspiration!
OMG Ryan Liked this. OMGGG.
LOVE FROM SINGAPORE.
Ill meet u one day for sure!
@@JohanFitFoodie yes. Ran 3mils for 37 days straight encounting. Thanks to Ryans Ready Set Go. Lost 4kg so far. THANKS Ryan
@@hakim9973 that's fantastic, epic progress! running and walking are key. I also lost 10 kg in 4 months and documented on my channel 💪😊🌆
I'm stuck in an endless loop of serhant's vlogs and I can't get out of it
I'm at the point where I even rewatch them multiple times 😅they are just so good
@@Yes2LifeShowsameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
That sounds like an AWESOME endless loop to be in!
I just watch them because i wish i were as sexy as he is 🥺
right??? tell me about it!!
This is one of the best videos I ever watched, and no 1 of your vlogs!! The fact that you include your life partner in your work is absolutely amazing and definitely helps with life and work balance considering your extremely busy schedule. You are by far one of the greatest examples for me, and probably for others too, from all the successful people out there. Your energy, your passion, your excitement is absolutely amazing!!
After reading your book, this topic was on my mind and gave me some introspection into balance in my own life, once again, thank you! You are awesome!
“She grows up and she’s like my dad worked hard”
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Ryan, your wife is incredible!
12:37 fire extinguisher
What made this video was Emilia telling you what you could work on. We see you on TH-cam,TV, Insta, Facebook, etc.. So we see you as someone with very little to no flaws. It was refreshing to see that you might make mistakes like that with the rest of us haha. Keep being an inspiration to us all!
Ryan's wife should be part of his Vlog way more often.
Wise woman!
Everybody’s definition of work life balance is different. And if you love what you do for work, it becomes a lot easier to spend more hours per week ‘working’
Whoooo! She is growing! Keep feeding her, stay happy little one and stay blessed! Your wife has a great point! You can have it all, just not at one time and there will areas that might not get 100% and don't let it be your families well being! BALANCE is the key.... 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
“You will never feel truly satisfied by work until you are satisfied by life.”
You know if there was a “love” button that would definitely complement this video so much better then a “like” ! Serhant STRIKES AGAIN!
He is not some kid, his name is Jack. The house is lovely, materials things are not everything but it's very nice to have a comfortable life thanks to having a hard working, loving, productive and honest husband to provide for his family, it gives you the freedom to do whatever you want to do in your spare / alone time.
This vlog (watching while I am doing working !) , I will watch many times . Ryan has courage to work hard when he really wants to be with his family - it hits you like someone has hit you across the face with a wet fish ! He is prepared to make sacrifices!
The moment when Ryan asks his daughter "Do you want to see more of me?" and she nods her head yes 😩💔
And I love that his wife Emilia kept it a buck: "He doesn't have a work-life balance....You don't know how to balance work and life."
She says he puts work first, and I 100% believe her. But props to her for being so honest (and to Ryan for not editing that out).
lol Ryan with the mask on but under his chin 🤣 Doing great Ryan !
LOLOL
Who else thinks Ryan is the most productive guy out here?
He’s gotta be lol.
I believe he is!
Casey Neistat was, until he realized it is not working and his relationship almost broke. Now he turned 180 degrees. Just look at Casey’s old vlogs... and the last ones. Ryan will see this eventually... A doctor once told me, why run 100% all the time, if you run at 75% sometimes your still ahead the rest...
Not only did I love this episode but I just finished listening to your book 'Sell It Like Serhant' on a total POWER through because it was SOOOO good!! I truly got so much out of it and will use the concepts my business for SURE. Thank you for taking the time to read it yourself - what a difference to have your personal flair as part of the audio. Well Done!! #inspired
These two are great together! He works very hard for his family and Emilia understands that. She’s right no one can “have it all” it’s about percentages! BCC is a great idea! Scheduling is brilliant. Team work!!! Good job Ryan well done!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Totally love what you said about saturdays being for family but still keeping your phone on you to take calls- also love the honesty here🥰🥰beautiful family - thanks for sharing!!
Ryan...when are you coming to BALI to shoot some luxury beachfront villas with us?
Ryan man you really help me so much to push forward especially when I think shit is falling your videos inspire me and make me realize that I can just get up and stop complaining and keep on going. I showed all your videos to my previous sales staff and it movitated them to sell more . Please keep up the great work always looking forward to the next video !
that ending though!!
He is amazzzinnngg. " and thje best part about having a healthy work life is being super successful and not having to clean it." hahaah yessssss
6:35 - 8:11 :
Wow, Ryan, this really impressed me. Your explanation about how you structure your life and the rules you and Emilia have set up make total sense!
So much prefer this style of vlog (like your early ones) rather than the constant motivational twaddle you’ve churned out lately. More of this real life stuff 👍
I really love how honest this couple is, that's the main key to maintaining a healthy relationship. Ryan, you are an inspiration to me, also makes me laugh a lot, thanks man!
For a person that doesn’t cook much you did a great job. Love the life illustration. My job is to make my husband an omelet every single morning. (I cook/brown the veggies in the pan first to add flavor, then dumped the eggs, cheese and seasonings in (tip: add a teaspoon of water per 2 eggs to make them fluffy) Don’t cook eggs on a high heat or they will be tough and rubbery.
I've always liked Emilia's down to earth, practical, straightforward thinking and actions. You lucked out with her, Serhant. You'd be wise to never forget it.
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Hi Ryan, love your vlog and books. Could you please ask your team to gather all “Ready,set,GO!” Quotes which you did in your Vlogs and make a short clip? so i can save it and watch when i am down on energy :) you are true inspiration. Thank you and keep making more vlogs.
Would love to see you & Emilia switch roles for the day!!!🙌🏻
Shelley Carter she is a lawyer...she works with him
The small conversation between u2 was the bestest part of d video.... A perfectly matched couple.... Where one has passion of achieving & is 💯 dedicated to work for it, sumtimes it works sumtim it dont.... & There comes partner for support; cool & calmly explain its okay life can't be 💯 perfect... imperfections r also prt of it... Which makes life challenging....
Loved Emilia honest thought 😍😍😍
If we’re being honest... the omelettes were 6/10 😉
Ryan you're a huge inspiration. You motivated me to start a TH-cam channel about self development during the pandemic!! Keep inspiring ❤️
I feel you mate, I did the same thing hahaha
And now he’s about to hit 1M subs
Same here, epic inspiration and also started a channel in Hong Kong 💪✌️🌆
@@PhilippeStemberger good times to start new channels for sure after this inspiration!
@@joymae yeah it's totally crazy, but well deserved
Emilia is SO right.. work as hard as you can now! When Zena gets older (~ kindergarten) she will really need you through the rest of her Life.. you don’t want to be the dad in “Cats in the Cradle”..
Thank you for this video. Having a wife and 4 kids while being a small business owner is tough to try and balance. I love my family but it’s my business that supplies them a comfortable lifestyle. Besides my passion is growth and creation. You provided some really good tips.
I'm Greek. Came here as a child from Athens. Been watching you for years now. You do your wonderful family right. You have a great wife and beautiful girl. Stay proud and healthy Ryan. Cheering you all on from Cali'...
A happy wife creates a happy life! Your family deserves every bit of your time.
Best part Ryan doesn’t jumps or talks so enthusiastically in front of Emilia 😂😂😂 so this truth is world wide Husbands do go off in front of their wife 🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ryan: my work-life balance is pretty alright
also Ryan: I work pretty much 24/7
I'm glad to see you guys are wearing seat belts in the back seats finally.
I love his enthousiastic vlogs!! This is real and all of the crazy busy business folks outthere need to learn to spent time with the family and being a great dad
if you need to ever stop..... and get somewhere you can hear and enjoy life at no cost to oneself except time, if you want life, you have got to stop and reflect, sometimes for days to get out of the insanity, i did 40 years ago, i live with nature and the maker, God Bless drop by any time!!!
14:03 Was publicly unnecessary. You could've end the VLOG with "End of VLOG" or anything else. Props to Emilia, She is the Real BOSS.
I thought 14:03 was the best part
Absolutely right. It’s making it work for you and your family. You two are adorable and blessed to each have found your soulmate. Emilia has grown into her ‘mummy’ role so beautifully, and is soo wise. You obviously treasure your family. Thank you for sharing.
#ryanserhant If smart, hard-working, ambitious and entertaining was one word, it would Ryan. You have given me so much courage and energy when I needed it the most. Ryan for President 2024!
Brother your an inspiration . You work for your family . But you’re mindful of quality time . Nothing is perfect but something like this is what I aspire for .
You are a true uplifting aspect on my day. I really do love looking at your vlogs everyday. I'll even watch more than once. I just love your whole entire outlook on life. Definitely an inspiration for me truly. I would seriously love to visit NY to meet you. Just to have a conversation.
a smile, a hug, a word of joy n wisdom, a hug, an adventure, to or from yr family n friends is of greater beauty and value than a $20,000 watch, or a vanity house as monumental as the pyramids
when steve jobs was shifting apple into high gear he lured a pepsico ceo skully by saying, do you want to spend your life changing the world or selling sugar water
do you want to spend your life planting the seeds of a nourished civilization, or do you want to collect and sell monuments and prehistoric pinecones
I was inspired just by how truly driven you are it's another level no doubt when I found your vids on TH-cam a while back you were one of the people who really showed me that you can do what you love. Although it is an amazing amount of effort I used to think it was possible for work life balance It's no secret that family and friends will underpreciate what guys do or partners do I have come to realize like all driven ambitious people we try and do it all I used to think it was possible Im not saying you can't in my experience I have come to realize a hard truth and that is you will never be able to make everyone happy and I became exhausted trying to, what you do for others is amazing keep inspiring !!!
If only some of us had that luxury of coming home being able to tell your significant other what you did at work that day...due to some people’s nature of work, you can’t keep them in the loop, and that’s what makes it even harder with that communication piece in a relationship.
4:43 comprehension is more important than communication. Because Ryan can talk all he wants, but if Amelia doesn't get it, then its all talk
One day I’ll watch Ryan speak live. My life has turned upside down ever since I started watching and writing down what he says on these vlogs. 🌈
@Ryan Serhant I have a lot of respect for people that are transparent, authentic, and most of all vulnerable! Thank you for sharing a vulnerable moment with your wife Emilia. I truly believe a balanced life is a lie! The question of balance is a matter of priority. Extraordinary results demand that you set a priority and act on it. When you act on your priority, you'll automatically go out of balance, giving more time to one thing over another. It´s all about counterbalance :D An extraordinary life is a counterbalancing act. This is the reason I follow you...because you DON´T HAVE A BALANCED LIFE! because you inspire me to counterbalance my life to achieve extraordinary results :D GREAT VLOG! Thank you and all your amazing team! Greetings from Los Cabos, Mexico!
My work/life balance is pretty insane too, I work 40-50 hours at a grocery store, I'm growing my business, side hustles, and spend very little with my sister and mom.
The greatest skill is listening and an understanding wife . You are a lovely family
Work life balance is a dream. When you are in real estate and/or mortgage you are at the mercy of your clients and deals in the pipeline. I think the key is being present in the moment when at home.
he forgot the main reason why he can have all the burners on... HE GOT A TEAM THAT DID THE OTHER THINGS, THE PREP WORK. I need a team lol
I believe so, anyone can do a 100% worklife balance, I believe everything is attached and depended on the other, you work on health, keeps you working taking care of the family.
You have a beautiful family...spend time with your wife and baby girl is the most important thing ❤️
I feel like when emilia told ryan he had it easy, he was thinking about the time he flew to (I think) Paris to meet "mr x" lol. Or all the times he felt like giving up and moving back to his parents ranch. Or the time he couldn't afford (i think again) a coffee and he was at rock bottom. IYKYK. I'm an aspiring real estate agent over in Aus, and you've been such an inspiration to me. Thanking God for you👊🏽
Can you be my Mentor Ryan I’m so fascinated with everything you do!!! Everything is amazing and so inspiring.
I love the 4 omelet cooking as balancing work, health, friends, and family! ☺️ Thank you for your videos Ryan they keep me going. We can all be successful and live our dreams🙌🏻 💯
This was real relationship and life venture that is amazingly transparent. Thank you for sharing your intimate world 🌎 with us.🙌🏼🙏🏽❤️🌹👍🏼
Every time I finish one of these videos I always feel like I can do any and everything I set my mind to
🙌 for you wife. First time watching your channel, you are so intelligent and so confident!!! 🙌
The Mrs. is being honest. :)) Loving what you do is priceless! Most of us are not in the "boat". That's why you should do what you really want to do and would love to do. :)) Those omelets look good though. :))
lol Ryan wife spittin the truth. You could take it easier Ryan you have plenty of money selling houses does not really matter. Preparing the next generation is.
It’s not about the money. Think of something you love doing, imagine getting paid to do it.. you wouldn’t want to stop
@@SuteDevices people don't stop doing drugs. It doesn't mean it isn't eating away at their lives.
Great topic, work life balance is something many of us struggle with especially when you have kids and spouse added in the mix. Thanks for the advice and for including Emilia and also for not editing her out 😊
100% AGREE!!!!!! You surround yourself with the right team....communicate with your partner....LIFE IS SO SWEET!!!!
Incredible vlog!! Wow! What's more incredible is that you are married to a strong woman who certainly helps you succeed. Your greatest blessing is going to that event a couple of years ago where you met your wife.
👍 we have to find balance in our lives for everything, not just for the family for everybody. Everyone is different in some kind but by the end of the day, we are all the same!
Great video.
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Ryan is special he has the ability , and is prepared to go for it . The real Ryan was talking today!
USED TO LIVE IN NYC IN THE 60S 70S MY DAD WAS ALWAYS WORKING. VERY RARELY MY DAD HAD TIME OFF .WHEN HE DID WE USED TO WALK THROUGH THE CITY AS A HAPPY FAMILY. MY MOM WAS ALWAYS SMILING.
starting @3:38 your wife is so smart and so right! lol I love this couple.. theyre so humble and powerful
Ryan Serhant puts work first. He is all about expansion in Allways in All Ways.
Ryan, you have an amazing life and tell your wife what you do during your day...but... (at least not that you showed in the video) didn’t show viewers any instance where you ask your wife how her day was and what she’s doing and what she needs during the day to make her life easier. It’s more important to be a husband and dad than a businessman. You’re an amazing businessman, but a tad more life balance to give your daughter the time is something you’ll never regret doing as the great dad you are! You’re amazing at real estate though. Wise woman you got next to you!