Reacting to PRIDE ace memes
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ธ.ค. 2024
- To celebrate Pride month, I'm reacting to some ace memes that demonstrate pride in aceness.
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Don't fall into the trap of binary thinking. It's a fallacy. I vote for both garlic bread AND cake. There's no reason not to have both! BOTH!
Yes! :3
The one true answer
Agree
BEST ANSWER
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One time I had garlic bread and cake in the same meal, they were both great, it was great, best day of my goddamn life
A bounty!
Celebrated my Aro-Ace anniversary with lasagna, garlic bread, and cake. It seemed apropos.
:D
Goals
Tell me about the cake 😲🔫😚 👉🎂
I officially came out as ace this weekend and it was like a ton of bricks were lifted off of my shoulders. I couldn't have done it without my ace dad advice ❤️❤️❤️
ayy, that’s great, im so proud of you
@@spookyho5994 thank you so much ❤️❤️
Hey... fill me in. How's it going?
6:55 This man literallly just waked up in a beautiful morning and decided to start a WAR between ace-ssins
I’m asexual. I’m allergic to garlic. This begs the question: am I _really_ ace?
Yes I am. Even people with stupid genetic mutations like a garlic allergy can be ace :)
I just simply hate garlic, and I don't think we should make symbols from food in general, the asexual spectrum diverse enough without associating more unnecessarily dividing stuff with it.
one day we will make faux garlic bread for you. if it doesn’t exist we will make it.
@@hirandompeopled4968 It’s just really buttery bread, right?
@@anayaweick7964 well no it has more taste to it and it’s not as dry… idk it’s hard to explain… you could try making a version of it without the garlic
Well I hate cake so you can have my cake and I'll eat your garlic bread for you
I'd choose cake, but only because there is a cake called "Better Than Sex Cake" and since, generally speaking, aces seem to agree that ALL cakes are better than sex, it feels like a fun inside joke. ☺
Love it
I have a really long list for things 'Better than sex'... ;)
Happy father's day to my favourite Ace dad (also happy pride)
Thank you so much!!
I just wanted to share I just walked on my first Pride March as an out and proud ace. I went by myself, and was terrified at first.
But people were incredibly nice and kind to me.
So if youre on the fence; GO!
Even if youre by yourself and not sure.
GO!
"Be who you needed when you were younger"
Love this! Congratulations on the step and Happy Pride.
@@AceDadAdvice thank you! You too!
I hope I can be brave like you in the future!
@@zebbin6152 You already are! Trust me, I wasnt feeling brave at all. I just did it :)
my favorite part of LGBTQIA+ is that each part is like a class in a game, with each having subclasses(sex negative/neutral/positive, trans fem/masc, top/bottom)
why not both? one during dinner, one for dessert!
This is the real answer right
The "But why are you asexual?" got me scratching my head like "Can you explain why you're allosexual??" That's just such a weird question.
I would just say "So you'd ask!", but I'm a smart aleck.🤭
I definitely would choose garlic bread over cake. I like cake, but it’s more of a sometimes treat.
I’ve always preferred savory food over sweet things, and I’ve never really craved cake. However, I would eat garlic bread all day every day if I could! It’s sooo good!!! 🤤😁
Yeah, cake is a treat, but garlic bread is life
Valid reasoning.
Same
Garlic bread and Cake are not adversaries. They are kindred spirits, cut from the same cloth (Bread). One sweet, one savory, yet both delicious and comforting.
Also, I think the quintessential ace symbol should be a unicorn
I so needed a visual asexual. So thank you for being there for me :)
My pleasure. I am glad you’re here.
Check out overly sarcastic productions it’s run by aces
Hey your handle has “7494” after it btw if you need help to change it I can help
All of my dnd characters are on the aroace spec and i love that i have a group /i/ can be out and open with
That’s amazing!
So are my all of my DnD characters! Though the thing is, I was unconsciously making my characters ace spec before I recognized myself as being ace 😅 didn’t even realize until I told one of my bi friends and they laughed and told me that they did the same thing before they came out as well 😄
Me too! I didn't realize it until a few sessions ago when I realized we hadn't done any excursions in a while (I don't remember what it's called, but dm rolls I think a d100 for each party member to see what they did that night). A lot of the things could be sexual in nature, so I never actually participated and just had my character go to bed. But I was thinking about that and if any of my characters would go out if there was the chance of sexual happenings. No, no they would not. Not a single one.
omg you made me tear up with your monologue at the end..I came out to only like 4 people and it was always such a long process because people know so little about asexuality, so that whole explaining-process mostly scares me off to come out to new people (plus the uncomfortable questions and possible aphobia are no fun)..but even though i may not be loud about my asexuality, i still am proud and would not change it with anything
also its cake for me too, even though i do appreciate a good slice of garlic bread once in a while
Cake over garlic bread in a heartbeat. Red velvet cake to rule them all!
Thanks for this fun video! Totally needed the pick me up today. ^_^
Go cake!! And I’m glad it lifted your spirits!
Garlic bread is better than most cake tbh,,,,
@@cyan.cephalopod I can't taste garlic, so maybe if I could I'd agree. Haha!
I'd have to choose garlic bread as I am allergic to red velvet
German chocolate cake is good.
You won, cake wins and red velvet on top of that. Red velvet is literally the best cake in the whole world!! Garlic bread is also delicious a very very close second.
YAY CAKE
cake or garlic bread? as said the kid from polar express, “why not both?”
Cake! In the shape of a dragon! In the Ace flag colours!
I'm not asexual, but I have friends on the ace spectrum and I always, especially during Pride Month, do my best to be in solidarity with everyone in our LGBTQIA+ community. Thanks for an interesting video, I look forward to checking out more of your work!
I'm aro (still not sure about the ace) but I can relate to the experience... I came out to a number of people and they flat out told me I'm wrong,that they know me best and I'm a romantic person. it hurt so much to hear ppl invalidate my experience. yes I enjoy consuming romance media but it's like the idea of magic to me. I think it can be cool and enjoy reading stories about it but irl it's fiction for me,sth I can't have... well anyway since they isn't alot of aro stuff I really enjoy watching ace content because it's the closest thing to my experience.
happy pride everyone and have a fantastic day 😊
i feel like any thing that would be baked by a baker is an ace symbol(cookies, cake, pie, bread, etc)
The whole garlic bread/ cake bit was a ace (or Demi) person’s response to ‘how can you say you don’t like sex, have you tried it’ type of question that Allos like to ask. The response was something like ‘Sex is probably great but have you tried cake?’ As something that a lot of people also agree is “good“ or nice but not everyone likes or wants. We all want and like whatever it is we want. Let us live in our own bubble of carbs. Also, cake - hands down.
Now the Flight Rising dragon completely shook me
I didn’t know garlic bread was a symbol so I have to say cake but also??? Garlic bread being a symbol makes so much sense and I love it, garlic bread is fantastic and I’ve always been obsessed.
Also consider: both. There may be times you’re not in the mood for something sweet like cake, and for those times you have garlic bread, and when you’re not in the mood for garlic bread then you are probably in the mood for cake. Just got your bases covered.
I noticed the intro music is startling 'cause it's rather loud compared to your mic audio. Your advice is very reassuring and helps me feel good about who I am, so I just wanted to make sure you were aware of the volume thing so viewers have a more comforting experience when they come to this channel.
I noticed that other lgbt+ youtubers also have the same issue. Maybe for shy or questioning people listening around others? IDK
I once had a really bad experience where I threw up after eating garlic bread. It was a pretty hot day, I was already not feeling too well and I had to take almost an hour long bus drive home. This experience detoured me from garlic bread for a while but now I'd say it's on the same level as cake for me. The real redemption story
Team Garlic Bread! I could eat it for every meal. Or just constantly, without stopping.
Cake wins for me, I don't like garlic bread at all..._gasp! _ lol. Red velvet is good but I also really love a good lemon drizzle cake. But most cake is gonna be a win with me.
"Are you a garlic bread or a cake ace?" is like the "are you a finger guns or thumbs up type of bi" lol
Hahah that last comment slayed me
And in both cases I am both lmao
I'm more a savory loving gal, but I like cake too. Red velvet's my favorite, but I also like Tiramisu and different types of chocolate layer cake. And cheesecake. And...
Happy pride month and thanks for your videos! I am not close to my birth father and can only imagine how he would argue me down if I ever came out to him as anything other than straight. Nice to have you as an ace dad presence! Listening to you always boosts my pride and confidence of my ace identity.
Oh, and happy father's day! I took a while to say it to my dad because he's out of town and I took advantage of my parents not being here to take care of some long overdue cleaning stuff that I can't do while they're home and my mom thought I had forgotten.
Glad you got to tell him and thanks for the good wishes!
@@AceDadAdvice You're welcome. You are such a light of hope in my life that it will be easier to explain my orientation to others in the future as more people like us speak up about the fact that we are here, we always have been, and we are here to stay, so you may as well acknowledge that we actually exist. I'm glad I found your channel, and later your Tumblr.
It's hard to choose between garlic bread and cake. I definitely have cake more often as of late, but I also have some unpopular opinions on cake. Like I don't like cheesecake but literally everyone I know loves it and is appalled that I don't and it's isolating over the dumbest thing,and while I love red velvet, I don't like cream cheese frosting. I love so many other cake flavors, though. And there's a cake place near my home that sells four layer butter cakes by the slice and it's amazing. They usually have buttercream frosting, which is what I prefer, so it all comes together. Though a lot of people ignore the instructions of both signs and the workers there and think the cakes are bad. But they think that because they eat the cakes cold, and butter cakes (cakes where the main source of fat are butter rather than oil) are meant to be eaten at room temperature. So eating them cold leaves them dry and rather flavorless. But eating them at room temp like they're supposed to be makes them flavorful and moist and delicious. But people just don't listen and it sucks. Even my cousin and his girlfriend ignored the signs they have put up and what the lady who sold them the cake told them to do.
Don't make me choose! Hear me out; a dinner of garlic bread followed by cake for dessert.
I can live with this compromise
I was cleaning my gallery on my phone a little bit. The number of photos of cakes and other sweet treats I had there...
Yup. Ace. I'm definitely ace.
Also, either soft chocolate cake or something with salted caramel for me, please 🍰
Knowing that awareness and acceptance is growing for ace people and young aces have better resources to discover who they are makes the pain of my own experiences easier. A caring and supportive ace community is something I needed a decade ago, but the happiness I have that young ace people are thriving outweighs the loss I feel. I also feel like we get far less awareness or acceptance outside of our community and I truly hope that changes in the future. It is frustrating to be treated like being ace is not as valid as other queer identities and not worth discussing in our friendships, families, and relationships. There is still so much room for improvement, but seeing the ace community thrive is a wonderful start.
I love it: ironclad softness!
Regarding cake versus garlic bread, I would say both, but garlic cake doesn’t sound that great… :)
I tried garlic ice cream once at our local garlic festival, and it really wasn't like I expected. It was actually pretty good!🧄🍦
2:48 honestly you remind me of that one fun math teacher that everyone is friends with 🖤😎
I’d love to be that teacher
Im going to be controversial here and say i prefer pie over cake.
Thank you for being our publicly out ace dad. I sort of came out to my mom recently and, well, it may be a little bit of a bumpy ride ahead.
But im reminded that there are others like me, we are not sick, confused, in need of a cure, or less than in any way, and we are not alone 💜💜
I also prefer pie to cake.
I would personally choose garlic bread because I’ve made so much cake that the thought of actually eating it is borderline nauseating. But it is very tempting to make an ace cake for kicks and giggles
Garlic bread through and through. It takes a really good cake for me to truly enjoy it, but pretty much all garlic bread is good
Solid reason
Cake over garlic bread, but dragons over all! 🐉
Love your videos as always. Could you do a video on demisexuality? I have a lot of trouble explaining it to allo ppl and Im not demi myself (aego & loved your video on it!) but Id love a quick resource for demi to share with folks. Again love your content & thanks for being the ace dad I needed
Yes pls! I second this request!!
Slight edge to Team Cake (red velvet is good but most cakes pair great w/ cream cheese frosting - yum!), but honestly the correct answer is both, esp. if it's cheesy garlic bread. I wear the ring too & we should probably lean harder into the Dragons imho 🐲
As a diabetic i can only have garlic bread Maybe monthly and abstain from cake. Would eat cake every meal if I could.
8:00
Honestly if someone asks me that question and they're annoying I tell them something along the lines of
"Because you're ugly, will you leave"
It leaves them misinformed but they leave and they are normally extraordinarily annoying
I felt so at home when I first went to the ace reddits and realized many of y'all love garlic bread just as much as I do
Hi Ace Dad! Like you, I spent most of my life not knowing that I was Ace, I didn't even asexuality existed until recently and I'm over 50!! After learning the word and the definition, I immediately realized it described me and my personal experience. I'm still adjusting, I've only come out to a few close friends and family members, but it's a start! Much love to you and all of my fellow Aces 🥰🥰
I'm late to the party, but I have to weigh in on the cake v garlic bread debate: sourdough.
Hear me out - I worked at an artisinal bakery for a handful of years that was relatively famous for their sourdough made from a 30+ year old starter. Sure, the cake they made was pretty good. Sure, garlic bread is great and there's no such thing as too much garlic. But the sourdough. THE SOURDOUGH!
all these videos sitting in front on these beautiful shelves and no book videos!? book videos please :) happy pride!
I have been planning that :)
As a newly minted Ace, I would like to petition Soup to be the ultimate asexual symbol. Not just because I love soup, and I would eat it every day if I could. But also because, like asexuality, soup is a spectrum. Soup is an umbrella term. There are so many things that can be soup. Plain broth is soup, but so is chowder. You can have hot or cold soup; meaty or vegetarian soup; cream soup or chunky soup. It's all soup.
For me, cake over garlic bread, but I also really like garlic bread. My favorite is homemade new york cheesecake, don't know if that counts 😄
Also, I have to say, hearing you say you only came out as Ace when you were 42 as made me feel a lot better about how old I was (I was 31 when I finally figured it out lol). Btw, I'm new so HELLO 👋😃
Layer cake in the colors of the ace flag, then garlic bread cut into the shape of a dragon. Best of both.
Garlic bread vs cake? Por qué no los dos?
BOTH
Definitely garlic bread (although I am quite fond of cake)! Besides being delicious, maybe the garlic smell will keep people a couple steps away. 😆 🤣
Identifying a 65 proud to have the validation, the vocabulary and the community…voting cake!
So glad you’re here!
"Ironclad softness" 😮😍🙌
3 days a week garlic braed, 3 days a week a cake and one day with 🍕. Next week only vegetables. Best ace diet, I think.
thinking about which symbol for ace community is better cake or garlic bread is better when you r an ace with an ed is hilarious
I think cake is a better choice aesthetically for a symbol, but garlic bread is my preference for flavor. For other symbols I also like playing cards, and dragons quite a bit.
I agree with red velvet cake, especially with cream cheese frosting!
I saw a Nocturne from Flight Rising in the thumbnail and clicked immediately!! I'm not ace but I do like dragons!
Critter cake. Mostly icing and shaped like an animal or a monster.
You could make all three...a purple dragon cake with a black ring around its tail.
Garlic bread and cake are both great. But man, a good pie can sweep me off my feet any day.
Deffinetly cake, also red velvet, and profiterol, or berry chocolate muse
Cake over garlic bread. funny story I didn't used to like garlic bread, a few years ago that dramatically changed, not too long after I found out I was ace lol
Never had I felt I fit in with the rest of the Ace community more than when I heard the garlic bread memes. My two favorite spices are garlic and cinnamon. If my stomach could tolerate a 100% bread diet, I'd just have cinnamon toast and garlic toast every day.
Garlic bread with every meal. Excellent defense against vampires....
If my life depended on it and I had to pick one, I would have to pick cake. Every year around Christmas my mother and I make a cake from my grandmother's recipe called Applesauce Jam Cake, and it is the best cake I have ever put in my mouth. That would be the cake for me. But I also love garlic bread and wouldn't want to give it up unless I absolutely had to. :)
I guess I'd pick cake but I made a little face when I realized that. I'm much more into savory and salty flavors, but I have sensory issues regarding bread. Which means that I pick cake by default.
I love both cake and garlic so much that I probably should’ve known I’m ace just because of that 🤣
Whenever there’s cake somewhere I usually eat around 5 pieces (more if there’s enough time). I made cake for myself a while ago and ate it within two days.
And I made tomato butter with a ton of garlic in it a while back and then ate so much of it that I got light-headed and dizzy cause garlic lowers your blood pressure 🤣
It's garlic bread for me, but that's partly because I'm diabetic. I know neither is particularly good for me, but cake is worse. But even before I was diagnosed, I tended to prefer savoury to sweet most of the time.
Savoury squad! 💪
The garlic bread folks have great reasons why
Eyy another red velvet lover! Though I think a black forest gateaux is my favourite cake of all. I'm definitely a cake guy but garlic bread is also nice.
Also as a cupiosexual I'm stealing 'I simply do not vibe with sexual attraction'.
Cake wins
Cake wins! (With a side of garlic ice cream)
Hahahah okay but savory ice creams are a thing.
Not just garlic bread, but CHEESY garlic bread. With marinara dipping sauce on the side. Though I do love my red velvet cream cheese frosted cupcakes for dessert. I know! Insert the "Both? Both. BOTH! Both is good," meme from El Dorado here.
I know we're talking about asexuality here, but, alternatively
7:20 "why are you trans?" "I simply do not vibe with my assigned sex at birth"
okay, back to ace memes
It’s hard to compare a desert and a part of a meal but I would rather never eat cake because it is similar to other desserts but garlic bread is unique and fantastic
I love garlic bread, but I have a definite sweet tooth and my fellow ace queer platonic life partner *does* make the best cake, so...
I know I'm like a year late but just...work with me here.
The question of garlic bread vs cake, I'd say it depends how I feel on the day & also what kind of cake is in the offering, for example, if it was either garlic bread or...say carrot cake, I'd go with the garlic bread every time & carrot cake can go & get wrecked. But if it was something like...I dunno, chocolate caramel cheesecake, then I'm definitely going with cake.
Can someone explain to me what is with the dragon and the d&d?
Cake over garlic bread for me as a symbol, and it has to be impossibly decadent chocolate cake, like the cake in Matilda. 🧁
Haha I love it
I’m a dark chocolate junkie. 85% cocoa Lindt bars. To be fair, I’d love chocolate cake (and garlic bread) if I didn’t suffer chronic illness that limits my diet. But my joy is my own. 🍫🍫🍫
Pie! esp. Marionberry Pie. And if there's no pie, then garlic bread (or, even is there is pie--garlic bread :) )
A write in opponent!
Cake--bday with buttercream icing (whipped is 🤢).
Caaaake
i probably like garlic bread and cake equally.
unfortunately i cant eat red velvet cake, it makes me very sick.
my favorite cake must be prinsess cake.
cakes also have the bonus of having such a wide variety of kinds of cake.
i also love dragons, dragons are awesome.
Cake; not least for red velvet cake, but for the many other delicious cakes out there too! Garlic bread, though great, has its limits..... now, never make us choose again!
now I want to try garlic cake, just to see if it'd work.
Bold.
What is better than garlic bread? Cheesy garlic bread! But also, I think I'd choose a dragon as my favourite symbol.
Garlic bread
Haha it’s running behind cake tho
Tbh I prefer garlic bread over cake and I want more garlic representation in the media!
And I don't get why cats are not considered as an ace symbol. They're purrfect. They are not sexual, they can give you companionship and love, they crave for food and cuddling and you can make pussy puns.
garlic bread shaped cake 🧄🍞🍰
On the cake versus garlic bread debate, I'd say cake, because that the first one I saw back as a baby ace... I feel like garlic bread is newer in the community, I think any food really is better than sex, weather it be savoury, sweet, bitter or whatever else, as long as it's not a common allergy thing I'll be happy with it! I think cheese and potatoes, together or separately, are better than sex BY FAR!
Yay Cake and garlic bread!
Four layer ace flag cake 🍰 🖤🤍💜
I don't like cake or garlic bread, so I offer cookies as the new symbol of aceness.
The only pride I like besides escanor.
I like Both, But what I really go for is Rice or Potatos
Let's make potatos the next Ace thing lol
A new icon enters the ring
Garlic cheesey potatoes ;)
We gotta get Jacksepticeye or Jammidodger in on this
To me it's 🍰. Just because it's a nice and recognizable 🎂picture/icon and because it's only one letter different. In my head that makes sense..
Greetings from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
Love it. And glad you’re here.
I definitely prefer cake bc I have one hell of a sweet tooth
Cake!
10:07 ok but that's not just a dragon, that's a dragon from a browser game called flight rising and I recommend it 100%
also I prefer garlic bread, I'm honestly not a huge fan of cake. I prefer muffins or cheesecake