I find it very disappointing that so many people in the lgbt community are unaccepting of us. There is literally no excuse for a queer person to tell an ace person that they can “fix them”. Yuck. I’m very grateful for our allies though 💕
I agree, it really sucks.. I'm biromantic, arospec, and ace, so I hear a LOT of people saying stuff like "pick a side" and "you just don't know what you want yet," so it makes me really happy to see representation and support.
@@purplebean7 I believe it's called S3x Education (not censored ofc lol but I don't want my comment to be flagged haha). I haven't watched it, let me know what you think if you do
I kinda wonder how much the cishet men's response about wanting to be seen as sexually attractive to their partners is rooted in the insecurity caused by society telling them they can't be seen as attractive without being inherently sexualized... Honestly its really sad how they're treated like they're not allowed to be anything other than strong, stoic, emotionally stunted sex symbols :/
I was pretty bummed out when i heard the responses. I'm a bi girl and i was upset when some of the queer people said they could "fix it" like no you aren't Fix it Felix you don't fix nothin'
There’s a really good story in DCs 2022 pride comic about an ace character where he describes asexuality as the silence in the symphony. It’s often overlooked but it’s just as important as the rest of the music. I highly recommend that everyone here check it out. I got so excited when I read it because I was not expecting an ace character and yes I cried
I thought I was Demisexual for a while but then I started researching and found out that I was confusing sexual attraction with being aroused. Finally realized I am Asexual. And now I think I might also be biromantic which is a new term for me... I thought I was bisexual before but I didn't want to have seggs with anyone. Strange new world for me.
3:40 imagine though - a restaurant filled with OWLS just hanging around. I don't know about you, but I'd happily go into debt to spend time with those adorable apex predators
6:38 true, I literally got in to an argument about someone about my sexuality(aroace) and they cept saying that those things are only in women. Like bruh.
Excellent! It's nice to see more ace people especially when those of us that aren't sex repulsed are represented. Mainstream media thinks that's the only kind that exists outside of the robot person that "just needs a good time" 💀
That last one omg. I have been asked out so many times by friends because I couldn't read their signals of "I like you". I lost my best friend of two years because of it (before I knew that I was ace). It started loads of things that I don't wanna go into depth about on here but I hate how people just hint and don't actually say when they like someone. This might just be a me thing cause I'm possibly on the autism spectrum but idk.
8:52 That seems more like demiromantic to me since it isn't really taking about sexuality, but romantic attraction. Lmk if I'm wrong or missing something
8:58 if anyone is getting confused with this one this is more of a demiromantic situation since it never talked on the subject - a once demiromantic, (asexual now)
that date/not date one happened to me lol I went to eat brunch with a co-worker bc ✨food✨ and then later all my friends were telling me that it was obviously a date and I denied it saying that it was never stated that it's a date and that we're only co-workers funny thing is, during said brunch it came up in conversation that I'm ace and the dude's reaction was to tell me that he could wait even 2 years to have the freaky freaky with a partner yes. I can be incredibly oblivious.
It’s ironic that the show Sex Education has good ace representation when I didn’t want to watch it because it has the word sex in it so has an ace person I refused to watch it.
I can't read it 100% (the print is quite small and blurry) but this is what the Hooters menu at 3:41 reads under the menu section. when cut into (something) and played backwards through a tape recorder, this menu will reveal the secret meaning of hooters. so that's a thing that apparently exists for some reason.
Isaac is ace? **Spoiler alert** In the comics, the equivalent character, Aled, is dating a guy I think Edit: Ok I googled it and apparently Isaac was confirmed aroace by Alice Osman and Aled is gay and demisexual
Ace representation in media is almost non existent. People think we're just prudes or ashamed of our bodies. Some people don't even acknowledge our existence. it's awful.
I loved the video and how there were trigger warnings throughout but also just… I don’t pay much attention to people who make the compilations I watch at 3 am most of the time but I saw ur pronouns and it made me happy, maybe I’ll put my pronouns in my name, too, though I’m genderfluid through xenogenders so I have like five fucktillion of them idk, that just made me feel so seen, so few people put it/its and neopronouns in their name because of the hate it can bring but now I just saw someone else do it… so I might… so like defintiely subscribing lol thx bro
I relate to 9:23. One time, I made friends with the new girl and on her first week at school she said she had a crush on 5 guys in our school. I was just like, but what if they're really mean? I think it proves asexual people rock that one of the dudes was a perverted ass.
I mean same, I totally agree and can relate so hard. But on the other hand, your story also sounds like my aro-spec ace ass back when I was a kid and I confused aesthetic attraction for sexual and romantic attraction. I literally said at one point that there were 10 ppl I had crushes on at once. Bc I didn’t know that just wanting to stare at ppl to appreciate how pretty they are is not the same as a crush
Just because we're ace doesn't mean we're all ok with any partner we have, being intimate with someone else. So no we shouldn't just "date polyamourous or consensual non monogamous people" as if that's the only people for us...... Like yeah some of us are cool with it, but we're all different. Some allos are ok with not being intimate, some of us aces are ok with being intimate sometimes, not all of us are s*x repulsed. There are also other aces we can be with!
ofc you're allowed to be disappointed, i completely understand if someone doesn't want to date me because i'm ace. i just find it a little strange, that's all
ace dude here, dissapointment is one thing but the attitude of "I can change you" is not. a lot of cisallo guys have a weird thing for partners who are virgins, which might play into that too.
I meannnnn everything fine but shaking people just because they want sex in their relationship is kinda crazy. I think that no one should be shamed no matter if you have relationship without sex and don't care about that stuff or when you really care about having sex life
Asexual means a lack of attraction to any gender/sex NOT a lack of desire to have intercourse!! As an Ace myself who also does alot of research on my community i can tell you this first hand 🤍🖤💜
I was shamed for being ace and I am crocheting an ace flag in the living room as a subtle "f you"
Heck yeah!!
Now that's what I call revenge
Hell yeah, friend!
Reminds me of a passive agressive grandma and i fucking love it, such a power move
I find it very disappointing that so many people in the lgbt community are unaccepting of us. There is literally no excuse for a queer person to tell an ace person that they can “fix them”. Yuck. I’m very grateful for our allies though 💕
I agree, it really sucks.. I'm biromantic, arospec, and ace, so I hear a LOT of people saying stuff like "pick a side" and "you just don't know what you want yet," so it makes me really happy to see representation and support.
So dissapointed.
but you shouldnt be part of the lgbtq+ community. why are people so desperate to be queer?
literally all the acephobia i have ever experienced in my life has come from a member of the community. it's so upsetting
We are pretty resent so they may be trying to understand us😊
5:17 "Sex doesn't make us whole. And so...how could you ever be broken?"
I think I might cry-
Why can't people understand this???
Excuse my ignorance, but what show is that clip from? I really want to watch it now
@@purplebean7 I believe it's called S3x Education (not censored ofc lol but I don't want my comment to be flagged haha). I haven't watched it, let me know what you think if you do
@@tesoroofall8499 Thanks!!
@@purplebean7 Of course! Glad to help
Sex is the root of all evil
I kinda wonder how much the cishet men's response about wanting to be seen as sexually attractive to their partners is rooted in the insecurity caused by society telling them they can't be seen as attractive without being inherently sexualized... Honestly its really sad how they're treated like they're not allowed to be anything other than strong, stoic, emotionally stunted sex symbols :/
Yeah, it is sad. Imagine if asexual people ruled the world. Men wouldn’t have that problem lol.
@@molly_parker_1847 SHHHH DON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT THE PLANS, WE'VE BEEN OVER THIS A MILLION TIMES!!!!
it isnt all society a lot of men just have a very fragile masculinity
yeah......which is influenced BY society@@the.silly.lizard
I was pretty bummed out when i heard the responses. I'm a bi girl and i was upset when some of the queer people said they could "fix it" like no you aren't Fix it Felix you don't fix nothin'
There’s a really good story in DCs 2022 pride comic about an ace character where he describes asexuality as the silence in the symphony. It’s often overlooked but it’s just as important as the rest of the music. I highly recommend that everyone here check it out. I got so excited when I read it because I was not expecting an ace character and yes I cried
I wasn't aware it was ace awareness week! Yay! ACE TIME!!💜
YASSSS
I thought I was Demisexual for a while but then I started researching and found out that I was confusing sexual attraction with being aroused.
Finally realized I am Asexual. And now I think I might also be biromantic which is a new term for me... I thought I was bisexual before but I didn't want to have seggs with anyone.
Strange new world for me.
And you made me open my eyes even more😂
I mean ik im both or the aro and ace spectrum but it really is hard to pinpoint the terms for me
3:40 imagine though - a restaurant filled with OWLS just hanging around. I don't know about you, but I'd happily go into debt to spend time with those adorable apex predators
6:38 true, I literally got in to an argument about someone about my sexuality(aroace) and they cept saying that those things are only in women. Like bruh.
Excellent! It's nice to see more ace people especially when those of us that aren't sex repulsed are represented. Mainstream media thinks that's the only kind that exists outside of the robot person that "just needs a good time" 💀
Sex / love Is nothing but a chemical reaction that compels animals
If Aces ruled the world... that was gold! 💗
But could so relate to all of these
We must spread antinatalism /Asexuality everywhere
As a pan oriented aroace and polyam person : I feel hella valid watching theses.
3:24 PLIZ AS ACE ALWAYS THOUGHT IT'S THAT WAY
Thank you for the vfx warnings! They don't mess with me personally too badly, but it's nice to know that they're coming so I can prepare myself ^^
no problem!! :)
Your friendly neighborhood trans aroace guy says thank you for making this!
Huzzah for ace people I love ye guys so much (as an ace person)
Hippity hoppity the cake is our property
dont forget garlic bread
If you’re ever up to it, I’d love to see a specifically aro compilation too!
added it to the list, thanks for the suggestion!! :)
That last one omg. I have been asked out so many times by friends because I couldn't read their signals of "I like you". I lost my best friend of two years because of it (before I knew that I was ace). It started loads of things that I don't wanna go into depth about on here but I hate how people just hint and don't actually say when they like someone.
This might just be a me thing cause I'm possibly on the autism spectrum but idk.
I got a freaking contraceptive ad right before this video-
8:52
That seems more like demiromantic to me since it isn't really taking about sexuality, but romantic attraction. Lmk if I'm wrong or missing something
I think theyre talking about both romantic and sexual attraction :)
Agreed, crushes tend to be more romantic than s*xual.
Thanks for making this comp!! I loved it, please more ace tiktoks!!! Especially inclusive ones thank you ^^
9:17 honey your demiromantic
Agreed
8:58 if anyone is getting confused with this one this is more of a demiromantic situation since it never talked on the subject - a once demiromantic, (asexual now)
5:44
I knew there was something relatable about him!
3:55 "song lyrics would be more wholesome" if most of the other ace's were like me with my f'd up ace brain lyrics in songs would prob be worse-
that date/not date one happened to me lol
I went to eat brunch with a co-worker bc ✨food✨ and then later all my friends were telling me that it was obviously a date and I denied it saying that it was never stated that it's a date and that we're only co-workers
funny thing is, during said brunch it came up in conversation that I'm ace and the dude's reaction was to tell me that he could wait even 2 years to have the freaky freaky with a partner
yes. I can be incredibly oblivious.
These make me seriously so happy.
A c e.
Ace♠️
@@Shady_Boi very much yes.
As an aroace person, yay 👍
I like watching ace comps. Its hard to watch other tiktok comps bc of the...well- s3×... Im just an ace that like my tiktok comps clean :)
Are you on Ace community on fb ?
It’s ironic that the show Sex Education has good ace representation when I didn’t want to watch it because it has the word sex in it so has an ace person I refused to watch it.
I'm pretty sure I'm ace well probably specifically aroace
Lol, my mom wanted grandkids and a son.
Well she got both, an asexual with kittens who's also trans. ✧(｡•̀ᴗ-)✧
10:40 not me forgetting you need two people to play tennis and wanting to play tennis by myself rn
Ngl all of my "crushes" r just ppl who i rly wanna be besties with 🥲👍
Okok ok im all for a hooters thats all owls just a big owl cafe 🦉🥰
8:13 I LOVE SPACE
6:29 you left in an aphobic one :(
I'm not ace but my friend is aro/ace and I'm seeing what its like for other people bc it's probably like that for them:)
8:53
i FEEL this girl so much!!!
I have something bad to admit. I’m ace and I don’t even like cake 😭😭 like I won’t eat the frosting the most I’ll eat is a cake pop
Don't worry, I'm ace and I don't like garlic bread
Same lol especially chocolate cake 😂
I can't read it 100% (the print is quite small and blurry) but this is what the Hooters menu at 3:41 reads under the menu section.
when cut into (something) and played backwards through a tape recorder, this menu will reveal the secret meaning of hooters.
so that's a thing that apparently exists for some reason.
Tbh if someone I was dating also didn’t want sex I’d be set for life 😂😂.
I know it’s slightly different than just not wanting sex but still
yes, Amy gimme my money back!🤣
i really not surprised by polycommu to!
I am a grayace, I am eating cake
Thank youuuu I love these complationsssss
Could you show more sexualitys on the aro/Ace spectrum
Love your videos BTW ❤😊
added it to the list!! and thank you!!
Isaac is ace?
**Spoiler alert**
In the comics, the equivalent character, Aled, is dating a guy I think
Edit: Ok I googled it and apparently Isaac was confirmed aroace by Alice Osman and Aled is gay and demisexual
Ace representation in media is almost non existent. People think we're just prudes or ashamed of our bodies. Some people don't even acknowledge our existence. it's awful.
damn It's awareness week? I gotta be more careful stealing snacks then :(
I loved the video and how there were trigger warnings throughout but also just… I don’t pay much attention to people who make the compilations I watch at 3 am most of the time but I saw ur pronouns and it made me happy, maybe I’ll put my pronouns in my name, too, though I’m genderfluid through xenogenders so I have like five fucktillion of them
idk, that just made me feel so seen, so few people put it/its and neopronouns in their name because of the hate it can bring but now I just saw someone else do it… so I might…
so like defintiely subscribing lol thx bro
Aww, this comment made me so happy haha :)
I also have TONS of pronouns, but i only put 4 in my name, you could do that maybe??
@@Shady_Boi that is a good idea :D
I relate to 9:23. One time, I made friends with the new girl and on her first week at school she said she had a crush on 5 guys in our school. I was just like, but what if they're really mean? I think it proves asexual people rock that one of the dudes was a perverted ass.
I mean same, I totally agree and can relate so hard. But on the other hand, your story also sounds like my aro-spec ace ass back when I was a kid and I confused aesthetic attraction for sexual and romantic attraction. I literally said at one point that there were 10 ppl I had crushes on at once. Bc I didn’t know that just wanting to stare at ppl to appreciate how pretty they are is not the same as a crush
💜
Can hooters be eating birds with real owls like an owl Cafe but in America especially in FL so I can go.
Omg I'm an ace?
Just because we're ace doesn't mean we're all ok with any partner we have, being intimate with someone else. So no we shouldn't just "date polyamourous or consensual non monogamous people" as if that's the only people for us...... Like yeah some of us are cool with it, but we're all different. Some allos are ok with not being intimate, some of us aces are ok with being intimate sometimes, not all of us are s*x repulsed. There are also other aces we can be with!
9:39 demi-romantist?
whats wrong with a man wanting his partner to have sex ????? you're allowed to be dissapointed xx
ofc you're allowed to be disappointed, i completely understand if someone doesn't want to date me because i'm ace. i just find it a little strange, that's all
@@Shady_Boi ok i understand !! xx personally i would be fine dating an ace person + i have done it before
ace dude here, dissapointment is one thing but the attitude of "I can change you" is not. a lot of cisallo guys have a weird thing for partners who are virgins, which might play into that too.
4:33 Does anyone know what show/movie this is?
5:17 DOES ANYONE KNIW THIS MOVIE. PLEASE I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR IT (Except for any love type things!) PLEASEEEEEEEE
Its a show called 'sex education' :3
@@Shady_Boi alright! Thank you:D
does anyone know of any asexual online groups i can join on discord or something?
I meannnnn everything fine but shaking people just because they want sex in their relationship is kinda crazy. I think that no one should be shamed no matter if you have relationship without sex and don't care about that stuff or when you really care about having sex life
what's the name of the show at 4:15
it's called sex education!! :)
@@Shady_Boi ok thanks!
Asexual means a lack of attraction to any gender/sex
NOT a lack of desire to have intercourse!!
As an Ace myself who also does alot of research on my community i can tell you this first hand 🤍🖤💜
Wait! So if you're asexual, you can still have and enjoy sex? I'm sorry, I am just trying to understand,