Men fall in love with function!! Wow! I'm now understanding why I attract the type of men that I do. The men that typically fall in love with me need help getting their life/career together. I'm an accountant and business owner and can help them achieve whatever goals they have faster. Even if there is physical chemistry and common core values, I usually end up of feeling like a mentor, a life coach or the mother of an adult child instead of a girlfriend or partner. I lose all attraction and desire to date them. I find myself being more attracted to men that are already "high functioning" and probably don't need a woman outside of physical needs. Those men never want to be in relationships let alone fall in love.
1) You can't help who you fall in love with. You can't help who you love but you can help HOW you love. Men fall in love with FUNCTION. The men basis it on function: how we works/lives/function/operate together meaning if it is pleasing to him. 2) Physically attracted to you. That opens the door for him. Excensuate what you have as a woman because it's what gonna make YOU like you more/you will have Confidence and he will like your CONFIDENCE, that's contagious. Your vibrational energy 3) Chemistry, after we had sex does the conversation flow, do we talk and we laugh together ? Have fun together? Show them the corky side of you !! The men wants someone REAL !!! 4) Are you strustworthy ? Are you going to cheat on him ? Do you tell the truth even if it hurts ? Are you dishonest ? Can I trust you with my heart ? A man will commit to you only if he trusts you with his heart. A man will fall in love with you if he can trust his heart in his hands. 5) Long term compatibility. Core values are similar to his and that will keep you together. Only when you can have deeper conversations with him you can achieve that. 6) Do you know his love language and do you speak it? His love language is an act of service, hers is giving gifts and recognition. 7) With the woman that has the ability to inspire and encourage him to be more than he is!! He will fall in love with you if you can do that: to want him to be better !!!
I'm an older woman who gets hit on by younger men constantly. And I'm overweight. I asked one of these young gentlemen why they chase after older women and this was his response. Because older women don't hide their natural beauty , we're easier to talk to , we're not afraid to eat , and we like to have fun. So younger ladies, listen to what this man is saying, get rid of the super long eyelashes and nails , tone it down with bitchy attitudes, and stop wearing those super short shorts that hooter girls wouldn't even wear. All that stuff is a major turn off for any man , it sends out the wrong message and it looks bad.
If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you? I’m about to be 40 & a bigger girl & I’ve had younger guys interested in me for years. When I’ve asked why they just say they like older women. But I want to know why! I always assume they think I’m gonna be their sugar mama lol and that’s a big nope
I’m 42 and average size and I’ve been having younger men hit on me since my late 20s and still getting men in their 20s and 30s hitting on me. I’ve asked them why they like older women and a huge reason why is a lot of older women are more old fashioned and monogamous.
Nah, while I don’t doubt your attractive you know these males lie more often then not. Now you know a young male will put up with a Baddie with a bitchy attitudes if he can land what he considers his preference…The ones going after older women means he just ain’t got the money, game, nor sexual experience and that is where you the older easy going fun woman come into the picture…
When he said “everyone is faking out here” i had no choice but to laugh !!! It’s so true It’s so hard to be yourself when people hate who you are. But hate comes with greatness.
Just found your channel, you speak the truth. I will watch and learn.. I agree with your 6 reasons .. I would add personality type, compatibility and emotional maturity, as well as conflict resolution skills to that list for long term success.
I think men get into relationships based on function, but that does not necessitate love or a marriage proposal. If this were the case, then they would be marrying more rather than leading women into "comfortable"/ dead-end relationships.
Coach Ken, your videos have just started appearing on my page… Every video that I’ve watched so far has been very informative. I will continue to watch your content.
Thank you Coach Canion. I received and I am willing to apply these gems of wisdom. Great Job in driving home these overlooked and understated points of view for your female audience, with a jovial yet stern demeanor. Best wishes to you and your family and loved ones.💚
This was incredibly insightful. It answered every question on why this person has been chasing for a whole year. I think I may just let him in, because it makes sense now.
Yes those are all true facts sir, well said. Yet the catalyst of Love is also you have forgot to recognize that Love is Patient and Kind, nor self seeking as well - God's wisdom from the Bible
Yes, coach Canion, find out the person's love language! And inspiring or sowing into your future mate's life is key too! That's my plan and thank you! ♥️
i disagree. @12:46 most men , especially BM, out here want the fake, they fall inlove with the representative! when you show who you really are, they label you "hard to get along with, or having an attitude"
I don't have a big Booty I'm a small frame and I'm glad that my man likes me because many man don't like small women like yourself they like big women my son like big girls it's okay but I'm just a little woman I was born in that way And we function very well together He has his own love language to me And I have my own love Thanks for the video
I be feeling like we have chemistry 🧪 like we known each other forever and laughed a lot 😂 . But then he still ghosted me 😮 he didn’t put me out ever and told me to start bringing clothes and stop leaving so early. So why he ghost me I’m confused. We communicated real well.
The last reason was the most Important Reason! In the Black community, Black men are now challenged with Black Women wanting to compete with them in the world and in careers. Women are not willing to step back and Inspire their man and Allow him to grow and lead! It’s not that he can’t! It’s that he does not have a confident strong woman backing him up!
I get so frustrated. I have tried everything. Don't talk a lot. I hide my figure. Don't tell them I have a Motorcycle. Don't tell him about your past; ur ex's, ur messed up childhood etc. Don't talk about my independence. I enjoy my own company. but in the end they good back to there ex's or just go away.
Every man has his own cup of tea ..women with injection transplant well i can name alot that are married and with kids ..Love is a very strange thing that nobody can interpretate..even the Freakest woman on earth will get a man that loves who she is ..if tom is not attracted to the woman fair play ..Roy will be attracted..and Sex is not a bad thing as it is being analysed..its beautiful thing given to us by God to procreate..Adam and Eve were not married but they had kids ..how is that possible they had sex ofcourse and thats how humanity come to be ..when are we going to stop condemning each other and judging..thats how Jesus was crucified..mans judgement. A man can marry any kind of woman so long as its his cup of tea..
Sir, you left the most elusive and abstract skill till last and then didn't explain it at all. How do you inspire a man? The reason why women build men and (also their resentment) is because were trying to get the end result of inspiring but have no clue how to do it the man's way.
Thanks for watching but that's who I am. My language is part of what makes me authentic. I definitely understand if you don't want to listen because I use profanity occasionally
Men fall in love with function!! Wow! I'm now understanding why I attract the type of men that I do. The men that typically fall in love with me need help getting their life/career together. I'm an accountant and business owner and can help them achieve whatever goals they have faster. Even if there is physical chemistry and common core values, I usually end up of feeling like a mentor, a life coach or the mother of an adult child instead of a girlfriend or partner. I lose all attraction and desire to date them. I find myself being more attracted to men that are already "high functioning" and probably don't need a woman outside of physical needs. Those men never want to be in relationships let alone fall in love.
Same, I go through the same thing. So is it that we give too much to make us seem too functional in the beginning?
I can relate. That gets so old so fast for a woman.
1) You can't help who you fall in love with. You can't help who you love but you can help HOW you love. Men fall in love with FUNCTION. The men basis it on function: how we works/lives/function/operate together meaning if it is pleasing to him. 2) Physically attracted to you. That opens the door for him. Excensuate what you have as a woman because it's what gonna make YOU like you more/you will have Confidence and he will like your CONFIDENCE, that's contagious. Your vibrational energy 3) Chemistry, after we had sex does the conversation flow, do we talk and we laugh together ? Have fun together? Show them the corky side of you !! The men wants someone REAL !!! 4) Are you strustworthy ? Are you going to cheat on him ? Do you tell the truth even if it hurts ? Are you dishonest ? Can I trust you with my heart ? A man will commit to you only if he trusts you with his heart. A man will fall in love with you if he can trust his heart in his hands. 5) Long term compatibility. Core values are similar to his and that will keep you together. Only when you can have deeper conversations with him you can achieve that. 6) Do you know his love language and do you speak it? His love language is an act of service, hers is giving gifts and recognition. 7) With the woman that has the ability to inspire and encourage him to be more than he is!! He will fall in love with you if you can do that: to want him to be better !!!
Thank you!!!!!!
Thank you beloved!🙏🏾💜
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You the best!!🙌🏽
Thank u
I'm an older woman who gets hit on by younger men constantly. And I'm overweight. I asked one of these young gentlemen why they chase after older women and this was his response. Because older women don't hide their natural beauty , we're easier to talk to , we're not afraid to eat , and we like to have fun. So younger ladies, listen to what this man is saying, get rid of the super long eyelashes and nails , tone it down with bitchy attitudes, and stop wearing those super short shorts that hooter girls wouldn't even wear. All that stuff is a major turn off for any man , it sends out the wrong message and it looks bad.
If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you? I’m about to be 40 & a bigger girl & I’ve had younger guys interested in me for years. When I’ve asked why they just say they like older women. But I want to know why! I always assume they think I’m gonna be their sugar mama lol and that’s a big nope
He want your money😂
I’m 42 and average size and I’ve been having younger men hit on me since my late 20s and still getting men in their 20s and 30s hitting on me. I’ve asked them why they like older women and a huge reason why is a lot of older women are more old fashioned and monogamous.
Nah, while I don’t doubt your attractive you know these males lie more often then not. Now you know a young male will put up with a Baddie with a bitchy attitudes if he can land what he considers his preference…The ones going after older women means he just ain’t got the money, game, nor sexual experience and that is where you the older easy going fun woman come into the picture…
Majority, they need that cosigner or a place to stay.
Your stories definitely inspire me. Thank you . Peace and Bliss 🤲🏾
Enjoyed your video...Chemistry and knowing your partner's love language are key!!
Thank you for watching. Please share
That's precious. Your wife is very blessed.
Yes we are
When he said “everyone is faking out here” i had no choice but to laugh !!! It’s so true It’s so hard to be yourself when people hate who you are. But hate comes with greatness.
Just found your channel, you speak the truth. I will watch and learn.. I agree with your 6 reasons .. I would add personality type, compatibility and emotional maturity, as well as conflict resolution skills to that list for long term success.
I think men get into relationships based on function, but that does not necessitate love or a marriage proposal. If this were the case, then they would be marrying more rather than leading women into "comfortable"/ dead-end relationships.
Coach Ken, your videos have just started appearing on my page… Every video that I’ve watched so far has been very informative. I will continue to watch your content.
Glad you like them! I appreciate you. I trigger people positively and negatively. I love it. lol
Thank you sooo much!!! This video has taught me where I kept dropping the ball w/ men. Much appreciation and blessings to you and your wife!!!
Thanks for Tips
Same
I appreciate your truth about relationships. Listening too you increases my knowledge of what people want LOVE
I appreciate that
Thank you Coach Canion. I received and I am willing to apply these gems of wisdom. Great Job in driving home these overlooked and understated points of view for your female audience, with a jovial yet stern demeanor. Best wishes to you and your family and loved ones.💚
You are so welcome
This was incredibly insightful. It answered every question on why this person has been chasing for a whole year. I think I may just let him in, because it makes sense now.
Yes those are all true facts sir, well said. Yet the catalyst of Love is also you have forgot to recognize that Love is Patient and Kind, nor self seeking as well - God's wisdom from the Bible
Your a breath of fresh air
Thank you. I appreciate you
You are awesome!! I’ve been watching your vlogs for a wk now
I appreciate you
Coach Thanks for making it plain. I love the way you break all the way down in layman’s terms 🙌🏾🙏🏾
omg my name is Sade and you said my name exactly when i was in full attention lol 😂
Thanks Ken, I’m doing it right. We’re doing it right!!
Yesss because I just love Shamar he Is so confident
Thank you 🙏🏽
I was definitely taking notes 😊
Noted 😊😊😊,im loving this ,thank you 🎉🎉🎉❤❤
You’re welcome 😊
Wow !!! Interesting video I learned a lot from this video
I loves watching your videos
Thanks for the tips Ken
So nice of you
Awesome information on relationships. Thank you for the awesome advice.
You are so welcome!
Bless up dude
Yes, coach Canion, find out the person's love language! And inspiring or sowing into your future mate's life is key too! That's my plan and thank you! ♥️
Well said!
Potential can get a girl no-where! What can we get done together as we are right now? !! Vibration!!
Thanks coach Wow how insightful 😁
Real priceless information ❤
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Thank you for an enlightening session.
Thanks for listening
this video was amazing 😊💚
Core values are very important for me and I'm a woman. Thank you for breaking it down and expressing it.
Thank you for watching
I love your teaching
Thank you! 😃
Great
Telling truth resonate that one.great show.
Thanks for listening
I love myself
After you hit, if you don't quit and forget, you can tell jokes after the strokes, you going to love❤❤💖👍🏾
Good job 👏🏾
This video almost had me in tears, Awh shit. I know who it is.
Thank you coach ♥️♥️
Listening from Cayman 🇰🇾
Amen Coach Ken 💚💚💚
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i disagree. @12:46 most men , especially BM, out here want the fake, they fall inlove with the representative! when you show who you really are, they label you "hard to get along with, or having an attitude"
This is good. Thank you 😊 💓
Thank you for telling it like it is !!;!!
Lol! Yeah, you're still that dude! Thanks for this lesson.
I don't have a big Booty I'm a small frame and I'm glad that my man likes me because many man don't like small women like yourself they like big women my son like big girls it's okay but I'm just a little woman I was born in that way And we function very well together He has his own love language to me And I have my own love Thanks for the video
I be feeling like we have chemistry 🧪 like we known each other forever and laughed a lot 😂 . But then he still ghosted me 😮 he didn’t put me out ever and told me to start bringing clothes and stop leaving so early. So why he ghost me I’m confused. We communicated real well.
The last reason was the most Important Reason!
In the Black community, Black men are now challenged with Black Women wanting to compete with them in the world and in careers. Women are not willing to step back and Inspire their man and Allow him to grow and lead! It’s not that he can’t! It’s that he does not have a confident strong woman backing him up!
Awesome thanks coach 👍
Any time!
This video is very interesting! Super awesome! Do you got any video in how to discover the love language?
Coming soon!
Where have you been. You are so right. I pray that God blesses you. You are better than Steve Harvey.
I’m not a wizard 🧙♀️ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow! I'm A full figured woman and had so called friends tell me NO man will want to marry me because of my weight.
Whatever you said is correct
No baby you're not a wizard you just have common sense. That's why I like your channel.
I get so frustrated. I have tried everything. Don't talk a lot. I hide my figure. Don't tell them I have a Motorcycle. Don't tell him about your past; ur ex's, ur messed up childhood etc. Don't talk about my independence. I enjoy my own company. but in the end they good back to there ex's or just go away.
keep being yourself. falling & staying in love w/ yourself. going out & enjoying life...im sure he'll find u!
Well said!
I wish u broke down functioning examples
Yep!
Amen
Doesn’t it still come down to him picking a woman who is easy for him to to control and manipulate.
This is so true!!!
Hello. Do you still have discovery sessions?
Hello, go to Coachkencanion.com to book one
What’s functioning together?
How do you inspire a man that already loves his career?
thos guy I was seeing said I didn't know how to act. I don't understand why he always say that to me. hurt my feelings all the time.
I want a discovery session
Here is the link
kencaniongroup.kartra.com/page/hSn162
I enjoyed the list but why do men believe they Fall in love after you leave them alone and are no longer interested in them?
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This is good
Every man has his own cup of tea ..women with injection transplant well i can name alot that are married and with kids ..Love is a very strange thing that nobody can interpretate..even the Freakest woman on earth will get a man that loves who she is ..if tom is not attracted to the woman fair play ..Roy will be attracted..and Sex is not a bad thing as it is being analysed..its beautiful thing given to us by God to procreate..Adam and Eve were not married but they had kids ..how is that possible they had sex ofcourse and thats how humanity come to be ..when are we going to stop condemning each other and judging..thats how Jesus was crucified..mans judgement. A man can marry any kind of woman so long as its his cup of tea..
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Next time can you get to the point, you said the same thing over and over again before breaking number 1 down. Video was on point though!!!
Sir, you left the most elusive and abstract skill till last and then didn't explain it at all.
How do you inspire a man? The reason why women build men and (also their resentment) is because were trying to get the end result of inspiring but have no clue how to do it the man's way.
He said by encouraging him to be his best the best he can be….
@@donnachoice3286 you mean "nagging"? Doesn't work.
I want her number 😂😂😂
Blaa bla
What kind of man? Just males
I love your show but you need to wash your mouth out with soap. 🥰
Thanks for watching but that's who I am. My language is part of what makes me authentic. I definitely understand if you don't want to listen because I use profanity occasionally
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