How to Create the Life You Want (And Find Your North Star)

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  • @beatrizviula
    @beatrizviula 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2467

    *How to have a North Star*:
    - ask “where do I want to be 10 years from now?” in both personal and work dimensions
    - have an important support system
    - get to know yourself more:
    * inputs: listen, read, talk, experiment
    * reflection: turn stimulus down and look inwards. Meditation, journaling, time alone. Take time to piece things together. “What did you do as a little kid before you applied pressure/expectations” “what can I NOT live without?”
    - honour the KID IN YOU
    Hope this helps anyone :)

    • @Screechez
      @Screechez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      thank you for this actually writing this in my notes.

    • @MauryExplorer_
      @MauryExplorer_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Where do I want to be 10 years from now?" - uh in the here and now!? :P for the rest yes.. i listen, read, talk and honor the kid in me :) thank you

    • @Go_Won_Hee
      @Go_Won_Hee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This should be taken as screen shot ..thanks💕

    • @user-by4gp2wj8l
      @user-by4gp2wj8l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you🙏

    • @Avaaaw
      @Avaaaw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you, I took a screenshot of this 💖

  • @remylebae3395
    @remylebae3395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1563

    Slow travel is underrated. It 's so much more enriching and fulfilling!

    • @fernandososa6507
      @fernandososa6507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      That's true. But I don't think it's possible if you have a job

    • @-9_9.-6_6.
      @-9_9.-6_6. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally

    • @-9_9.-6_6.
      @-9_9.-6_6. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@fernandososa6507 I guess you need to change/upgrade your job

    • @fernandososa6507
      @fernandososa6507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@-9_9.-6_6. I mean not everyone hates their job. I would love to slow travel myself, I just don't see it possible when I have a stable job. Changing jobs every, let's say 6 months, ain't a good idea, since no one would hire a person that can't stay for a long time

    • @dankuash
      @dankuash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@fernandososa6507 There's people that works for a year or two (or more) saving money, and go to a sabbatical year (travelling to know new places, people, study, voluntaring or temporary job)

  • @Thejadyn
    @Thejadyn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    "The things that I want to accomplish today, might not be possible. But if I plant the seeds to day they might be possible tomorrow."
    - Nathaniel Drew

    • @markyu2216
      @markyu2216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have so many quotes from Nathaniel in my journal you have no idea xD

    • @renaissarenaissa9515
      @renaissarenaissa9515 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      =) moving line

    • @ataberdi2064
      @ataberdi2064 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏👏👏👌

  • @monpetson
    @monpetson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I found myself crying while watching this. But it wasn't sadness, I just felt my soul leaping, screaming YES! YES! YES! I'm 45 years old still finding my north star. After surviving cancer I have dived into figuring this out and the number one thing for me is to be myself. Accept myself and unapologetically be myself just as I am. Your videos are stunning, deep, eye opening and inspirational. I would love to hang out with you, I wish I had friends like you. Thank you.

  • @JazminBautista
    @JazminBautista 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1087

    Designing our lives doesn't cross our minds until we realize we are not happy in the present moment.

    • @tejasshetty2109
      @tejasshetty2109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its not necessary that things will work out the way it is supposed to

    • @Senad023
      @Senad023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is very much true.

    • @MauryExplorer_
      @MauryExplorer_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes, but the opposite is also true. if we're happy, let's stop designing our lives

    • @serinadelmar6012
      @serinadelmar6012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Completely disagree, based on my own experience that is.

    • @sandjvj911
      @sandjvj911 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MauryExplorer_ yes

  • @eRoTiCCrEaTiOnS
    @eRoTiCCrEaTiOnS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2820

    I would love a video on how to find “the right people”, I love this online community and would love to meet people irl who share this passion of personal growth. I just have no idea where to start 😅

    • @danielgisborne3469
      @danielgisborne3469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Same for me. So sick of not being on the same page as the people around me.

    • @christinabellerose2290
      @christinabellerose2290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      You and me both

    • @TheRandomperson1016
      @TheRandomperson1016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Christina Bellerose and me

    • @Daniela-sm5jb
      @Daniela-sm5jb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      PsYcHoTiCcReAtIoNs yes yes yes! I need to surround myself with people who motivate me

    • @larissareyna131
      @larissareyna131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same

  • @rozware1295
    @rozware1295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    If only I was as self aware as you when I was 22! Your maturity is beautiful!

    • @Corrans
      @Corrans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was thinking the same! At 22 I was deep thinking g but way too insecure to put it all into such articulate words like he does.

    • @MrBluntNose
      @MrBluntNose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed. This guy is wise beyond his years

    • @majRFan
      @majRFan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's never too late for anything.. Today matters..
      " Yesterday is History,
      Tomorrow is a Mystery,
      But Today is a Gift, That's why it is Called 'Present'.. " - Kung Fu Panda

    • @kahalghafri
      @kahalghafri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      majR like for the kung fu panda my favourite animated movie growing up quote😁

    • @sararichardson737
      @sararichardson737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you met his Mother? Their relationship was key, as most parent, child relationships are.

  • @milah344
    @milah344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I'm attracted to your soul. I often feel alienated and even insane when I can't articulate something clearly as if it doesn't exist. Your conviction and vulnerability speak directly to my soul. Your videos are inspiring.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    When you feel contentment with a rut, you start to stagnate. Being a forever student is really the way towards fulfilment.
    *To live is to wonder and grow*

    • @osse1n
      @osse1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @Kristof Alexy Amen brother. Just don't forget to enjoy the current life as much as you can. Enjoying the small things fills up the gas tank to keep pushing.

    • @ThePodcastStudioMiltonKeynes
      @ThePodcastStudioMiltonKeynes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Perfect explanation!

    • @saralinakui
      @saralinakui 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

    • @jonathanramirez3109
      @jonathanramirez3109 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I kinda feel this way, I'm stuck and I have no idea how to get out and idk it's so frustrating cuz seriously it just gets worse and worse idk what to do

  • @blumen9724
    @blumen9724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    This is so deep. I lost myself in middle school trying to fit in with others around me. Now at 23 I'm still trying to find that creative girl that I once used to be. You can become discouraged when all you have around you are lost and low self-esteem people. You have to have strength to push pass the limit others put on you. It's saddening, but it took me watching this video to realize to what extent I've lost myself and why I want to find it again. 😢

    • @alondragabaldon1484
      @alondragabaldon1484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I feel you, (I'm 23 too) I've been feeling so lost, and it seems that the further I go the more I loose myself, like if I was underwater trying to go to the surface but I keep drowning, it's even harder when you don't have any hope on you, you just feel numb; the only thing that I've learned it's to be kind to myself and stop thinking in who I used to be, because that hurts me more than anything, remembering the things that I used to do, to think and feel, I stopped trying to find that past self that I lost a time ago, because I'm not her anymore and instead I'm trying to understand the direction that I'm taking, I'm trying to be.

    • @GabrielDoesTypology
      @GabrielDoesTypology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      blumen well said... Better to be alone than to be in bad company is something I strive to live by. The moment I notice someone is a bit too toxic for me to handle, I cut them out. It’s so important to get good at this while we’re young because old habits die hard.

    • @chrismarciano8687
      @chrismarciano8687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      The good news is...23 is young. This is exactly what this part of your life is for. The mistake I made at your age (I’m 33) is that I had no intention or direction at that age. I’m getting a late start, but I AM starting. Keep attacking your journey with intention. Be mindful. Be present. You’ve got this.

    • @ird4489
      @ird4489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I am almost in that age. I am 22 y.o now and feeling so lost. Every single thing scares me and I somehow tired of surrounded by people. While it is true that 22 or 23 is young, some societies already see it as a failure because you lost and your peers mostly not lost in that age so, it is very depresing. This guy gives an insight toward what should I do though so, thanks for sharing.

    • @GabrielDoesTypology
      @GabrielDoesTypology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I RD think about which belief serves you in your current culture and go with that one... if you believe that a 22 year old with a child’s mentality is a failure, you’re only hurting yourself. Insult to injury so to speak.

  • @HigherSelfKorea
    @HigherSelfKorea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    I love the authenticity and realness, especially at your young age! Chapeau!

  • @pm5930
    @pm5930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    TL DR SUMMARY
    -"Design : do or plan something with a specific purpose or action in mind."
    We should design our own lifestyle, focusing on what matters to us.
    -Lifestyle design is a messy process, our priorities and dreams change constantly. We're learning as we go.
    -Ask "where do I want to be in 10 years, personally and professionally?"
    Tools to know yourself better :
    -Input : learning, opening new doors, experimenting.
    -Reflection : Meditation, journalling, connect dots together.
    -Ask :"What can I not live without?" (Expressing myself? Traveling?)
    -It's not an easy process, so treating things like experiments or games help to reduce the pressure of it.

  • @madetobeasaint
    @madetobeasaint 4 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    I was so surprised to realize you’re 22. So much wisdom beyond your years, my friend. I feel like we’d be great friends if we ever met :)

    • @ConradoEv
      @ConradoEv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sarah McDowell he looks like a 26 year-old boy..

    • @Seolhwaneul
      @Seolhwaneul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      damn, he has so much wisdom for a 22-year old!! while I'm 22 and is as lost as ever ;;

    • @pruthvirajsinhm.jadeja4730
      @pruthvirajsinhm.jadeja4730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Seolhwaneul yah, I can relate 😅😁

    • @jojjeboy
      @jojjeboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow, crazy!

    • @graceclara3696
      @graceclara3696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      He said he skipped college, so that's probably one reason. To me it means he has had time to reflect and figure out what he wanted out of life. Time spent alone enables people to grow. I have seen this in myself. Whenever I spend time reflecting and reducing input, I become more mature.

  • @mantasvilcinskas
    @mantasvilcinskas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    AHH you’re shining
    everything is so crisp, beautiful, cute, other adjectives, etc.

    • @DavidLindgren89
      @DavidLindgren89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I realised what perfection was when I found Nathaniel. 👌

    • @soltanialbir4380
      @soltanialbir4380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Help me please i'm sick help me help you god i need you to bless god in your health help me this account number if you want to help me 003280000002022

    • @serinadelmar6012
      @serinadelmar6012 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a beautiful comment ❤️

  • @hikazayanikushi9086
    @hikazayanikushi9086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    16 year old here, I really thank you and the TH-cam algorithm for this. I feel like watching these video will set me a kickstart in life. A lot of things have been taking a toll on me lately especially during quarantine. I decided to take a week break from social media and focus on improving myself. This is really helpful, I’d definitely try this out.

  • @maanappelman6692
    @maanappelman6692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love that he’s reflecting on his reflection to teach us to reflect

  • @korean6706
    @korean6706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +613

    I love how you're editing skill is getting better and better, it was almost like a short documentary made by a huge production team!
    keep up the great work and thank you for making me try to be a better version of myself.

  • @caxpermalum5466
    @caxpermalum5466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    The childhood reflection thing is really important.

    • @caxpermalum5466
      @caxpermalum5466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That must be really shit. Cant Imagine what that does to a person. I don't have a solution exactly, but try to look back into more recent memory and see what you were drawn to. Write them down on a list and see what they have in common. Then you can find a pattern that might help you make your north star.

    • @giulia1361
      @giulia1361 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@soupey same same

  • @chelliemoggie7176
    @chelliemoggie7176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “If it isn’t enjoyable, …you’re playing the long game. This is your LIFE!”
    I love it! Keep speaking the truth Nathaniel! Thank you for sharing your gift of intuitiveness.🙏🏽💕

  • @InsertUserNameHar
    @InsertUserNameHar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "This is your life".
    That statement reached my core.

    • @relicofgold
      @relicofgold 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good gawd. It's obvious. It's a cliche. It's nothing new. You must live under a rock.

  • @nickschmitt8594
    @nickschmitt8594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Man, I am truly, deeply exhausted of living a life I do not want to live.

    • @imaneelmohalil5335
      @imaneelmohalil5335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same..

    • @WNCHSTR
      @WNCHSTR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @michaellaferl7476
      @michaellaferl7476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel you...

    • @rbkbala30
      @rbkbala30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Maybe you should ask yourself: "Why do I do it? Can I live the life I want and still have the benefits of this otherwise exhausting life I'm leading right now?"

    • @sunray_surfer
      @sunray_surfer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rbkbala30 thanks for this comment 🙏🏻

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It's hard to believe you're only 22 and have such a great grasp and awareness of what is important. You're a compassionate wonderful human being.

  • @BlessedOne-jp1cy
    @BlessedOne-jp1cy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is in his 20s & abundantly wise beyond his years! I expect more great things from this young man!

  • @letsfindsomepeace9207
    @letsfindsomepeace9207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You made me tear up. I am going to through an existential crisis right now as I try to finish my senior year of college. This came in at the right time.

  • @zaneunderthesun
    @zaneunderthesun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    A question comes to mind, this guy has the answer, thank god he shares it

  • @sanjanazaman5745
    @sanjanazaman5745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    that dark room example is literally the best way to express life

  • @Fatima-gp7hr
    @Fatima-gp7hr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think your life is exquisite, it looks like you are in an sacred journey to solve the puzzle of your life , that’s actually amazing.

  • @100Jim
    @100Jim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm 42 and I still don't know what I want to do with my life. Just know its something creative and that helps people.

    • @johnmattox9261
      @johnmattox9261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can relate! I started teaching high school right before I turned 44, and it wasn't until then that I found my passion and my career. Until then, I was pretty clueless and wondering what I should do in life. At least you know the direction you want to go in. Hang in there and best wishes to you!

  • @accipigna2311
    @accipigna2311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    "Honor the child that lives in you"
    Thank you! Have a good time in Italy ❤

  • @russ-asmr3615
    @russ-asmr3615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This man knows how to set standards. Keep up the good work men.. Im rooting for you.

  • @pbea7185
    @pbea7185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every single thing you say here, has been true for me too. Except that I am 55 years old. I've had a 30- year career in healthcare, and retired 4 months before there was covid. I just didn't believe in what I was doing anymore. I've been living in a cabin in the woods ever since. The first time in my life I've been alone. I've been trying to find who I was before the "smash" of other people's expectations. I've been writing and painting and loving every minute of being alone. Meditating, praying, resting, letting the whole of my life dissolve away so I can find the authentic self within. My psychology is so light now, that unless I actually focus on it, I cannot even feel my body anymore. I'm happy, joyful, thankful, unburdened, ready for the next season.
    Change never stops. Thank God. Your message is timely, and many will be blessed and benefited by it, Nathaniel. Soldier On!!!!!

  • @HeyJesseJ
    @HeyJesseJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video. This video... I swear, almost brought me to tears. Thank you for this, Nathaniel. Just amazing.

  • @TimeFliesTimeManagement
    @TimeFliesTimeManagement 4 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    *If you aren’t grateful for what you already have, what makes you think you would be happy with more?*
    Read again 🔁

    • @thecozykinoshow
      @thecozykinoshow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I agree with this sentiment, but I also think it's easy to see this as a reason to not strive for more. Maybe not in terms of material things, but just to improve oneself.

    • @ryanmwanza5439
      @ryanmwanza5439 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I felt that.

    • @ryanmwanza5439
      @ryanmwanza5439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thecozykinoshowWhy not do both? 😊

    • @voyelle2223
      @voyelle2223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'd certainly be happier with less. Less stress and problems in life 🤔

    • @harrymears1623
      @harrymears1623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thecozykinoshow If you aren't happy with yourself now, what makes you think you will be happy when you have improved?

  • @sofia_depa9048
    @sofia_depa9048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    I’m from Milan, it’s so strange seeing all of the places I go daily in your video 🙆🏻‍♀️

    • @korean6706
      @korean6706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      are these places shown in this video located in Milan? I honestly thought it is a city filled with buildings and skyscrapers,like ny.

    • @andreafavini3065
      @andreafavini3065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sofi vero? È così strano ahaha

    • @SirVib
      @SirVib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      you should go and meet him sometime. He regularly sets up a day to meet people. Checkout his IG.

    • @FreeminderXIII
      @FreeminderXIII 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is the name of that lake? It looks beautiful

    • @eduardaoliveira4072
      @eduardaoliveira4072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      G.P. Kim milan IS a city filled with buildings and stuff lol

  • @GrowthMindsetProductions
    @GrowthMindsetProductions 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    *Such* *a* *meaningful* *message* *here* . It all starts with finding your *WHY* *in* *life* , then and then figuring out *HOW* *you* *can* *make* *it* *happen* . Love it!

  • @kiyoi4152
    @kiyoi4152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    " you cannot learn everything from others. Sometimes that just means experimenting." I can't get over this sentence. Well said !!.

  • @MondoLoops
    @MondoLoops 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    The advert before this was someone trying to sell me "having it all" by setting up a facebook ad marketing company..

    • @MondoLoops
      @MondoLoops 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@newearthwavegodlove I dont knock him too he has every right to run them, just sucks TH-cam is putting that content on his videos

    • @toughsoftieyogi
      @toughsoftieyogi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@newearthwavegodlove Energy exchange. He puts out quality contents on TH-cam and in exchange, he needs the money to fund his future projects and provide for his daily needs.

    • @supermario111s
      @supermario111s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I could care less about these adverts but I'm glad he's making money and I watch through them just so he can get paid because he def deserves every penny

  • @dizead519
    @dizead519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I really like how thoughtful and introspective your videos are.

  • @mynameisnoneofyourbusiness1686
    @mynameisnoneofyourbusiness1686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since im just 17 living with my familiy in the Philippines currently grade 12 students. The only thing that I can help you is to watch your videos every time you upload. I love your videos. Its really clear and not complicated, very calming.
    Love and support from Philippine.

  • @gregorybown
    @gregorybown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I may not know what to do but I know which direction to be facing" wow! the clarity of these words, so simple yet profound, thank you Nathaniel

  • @wyattt9820
    @wyattt9820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Nathaniel Drew, I can't express enough just how deeply you've impacted my life through your content, and your struggles and journey has inspired me so much. It's provoked me on such a deep level that helped me as I started to ask more intently about who I am, why am I here? What does success really mean for me? I started my own youtube channel which I won't mention but I want to document my experience as well. I just turned 20 about just over two weeks ago, and it made me realize that life will go on whether I pursue what makes me "feel most fulfilled" or not. I hope to meet you someday Nathaniel you've really changed my life.

  • @MikeShake
    @MikeShake 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I think creating the life you want it's all about taking every step in the direction of where you want to go and who you want to become. Great video!
    Edit: 6:50 this is some powerful advice. I used to be creative as a kid, I had to go back to the creativity to be happy now

  • @chittytherobot
    @chittytherobot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:17 - you absolutely nailed it when you said - "I highly suspect that it will forever be the case" ! I have been feeling that even since I graduated from college . I feel like that was the last time I kinda had a sense of what I wanted.

  • @basiawu7
    @basiawu7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm coming back to this video after two years. Two years ago I made notes and since then my goals have changed but I also managed to achieve the main goal I had at that time - to start online work and become a digital nomad. I moved to another country and I travelled a lot which I also wanted to do! I think it's a great success especially when you count pandemic in between.
    I really recommend all of you to take notes and come back to them after some time. It really shows you how far you've come.

  • @jowens197
    @jowens197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Thank you for this. As a guy who's in his mid 20s, I'm now just beginning to piece my life together and I've always felt so behind. Your videos help me remember what it actually takes to succeed and that no one has it together. You are wise beyond your years, and your videos are so helpful.

    • @RainarAngelo
      @RainarAngelo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      James iirc he’s 21?

  • @vlogmusiclibrary-nocopyrig9616
    @vlogmusiclibrary-nocopyrig9616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Real content real words no just giving things for free for TH-cam rankings

  • @katrinaneville5427
    @katrinaneville5427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate how thoughtful your images are placed with your words rather than flashy clips with some beats thrown in. Thank you!

  • @toby________toby
    @toby________toby 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so grateful to have come across your channel. This has been so important for me.

  • @plantkid
    @plantkid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I woke up this morning and i had no plans today, i was a bit worried that i would end up doing nothing. But Thank God for you Nathaniel, this really lifted my brain up & helped my morning Incredibly!
    Thank you guy!! I really agree that nobody has it all Figured out.☆ thanks for sharing these videos with us!!^^

    • @theawantikamishra
      @theawantikamishra 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But it's evening now, tell me what you did, (It's evening in India, 7.18 pm what time it is there )

    • @plantkid
      @plantkid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@theawantikamishra oh hi, it is 6:50 am for me! I got up and went for a jog, which usually i don't do. But it really amazed me and kind of opened my eyes to how much i have to be grateful for. And it makes me realize that i have so much, to be able to walk out and hear birds and watch a sunrise is such a great gift to me, and it makes me incredibly happy!!
      The past is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a Gift. And that's why it's called the present~ :)

    • @theawantikamishra
      @theawantikamishra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@plantkid I have been planning for a week to go for walk in morning, may be I will do tomorrow, good day to you :-)

    • @plantkid
      @plantkid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theawantikamishra aah right on!! Good for you!! :) good day to you as well!☆

    • @ryanmwanza5439
      @ryanmwanza5439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi, i saw your comment and i can feel the happiness and that sensation of satisfaction after achieving something, thru your post 😄👍🏾. And yes, we should enjoy and be grateful for what we have and profit as if it was our last moment on this earth.
      I don't know if what i wrote makes any sense, but i wanted to share this. Have a wonderful day.

  • @xxxjmgxxx
    @xxxjmgxxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just woke up at 4:45 in the morning, and instead of the regular audiobook I listen to, I took your video. I woke up feeling a bit lost today, and your video just managed to help me out. Thank you!
    On another topic, don't miss the audiobook "The Highly Sensitive Person" by Elaine N. Aron.
    As an HSP myself, I found a lot of useful information there. Give it at least 35% into the book to get past the explanations and to some more practical/usable information.
    As always, great content Nathan! Thank you!

  • @transferz
    @transferz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found your channel and this is the 2nd video of yours I have watched. You are a real one my dude I’m really appreciate the honesty.

  • @AverageGabriel
    @AverageGabriel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the honesty and realism you share about these journey styles.

  • @Rose-ng2zp
    @Rose-ng2zp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Cinematography in this video is top-notch! Love the content mate.

  • @jessicaalen3533
    @jessicaalen3533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just recently had a conversation with my best friend about tapping into passions that she had as a child, in order to reconnect & find her true self.

  • @xboricuajennyx
    @xboricuajennyx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your videos. i finally know a youtuber who can relate to what i've been going through with travel, language, and slow travel. thank you for your content

  • @timsp1733
    @timsp1733 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your essays are like therapy. Thank you!

  • @PinkpiscesASMR
    @PinkpiscesASMR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    PLEASE make a video on how to find the right people!!! I’ve been going through a bit of depression lately bcuz I have no friends bcuz finding people my age that I can relate to and connect with is extremely hard

  • @imposingmedicine1925
    @imposingmedicine1925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    just watching your videos from 1 month and now when i see myself in the mirror ... i am a different person ... now i havw more better designed personailty.. i have to learn to build up confidence .. and your videos are helping me do so... thanks nathy love you bro .. high five🤗

  • @lamyaeaf9212
    @lamyaeaf9212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you're editing ,this is sooo deep and I hope to find my North Star sooon

  • @LaurentCormier195
    @LaurentCormier195 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your video. The quality is mesmerizing. The shots you use give so much depth to what you say and it's keep us captivated.

  • @s9738919e
    @s9738919e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    this is the most attracted to someone online i've ever been

    • @hibak8196
      @hibak8196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol I feel your pain

    • @laragutierrez8033
      @laragutierrez8033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      omg same, the way his eyes literally sparkle

    • @ofvictimsandvillains
      @ofvictimsandvillains 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      the letters of his name can be rearranged in the following manner:
      Nathaniel Drew -> White Anal Nerd
      Note: This is simply a fact, not an opinion (and therefore not an insult).

    • @luizaribeirodemagalhaes9232
      @luizaribeirodemagalhaes9232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg I wish I find someone like him

    • @patrik6872
      @patrik6872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ofvictimsandvillains SHDHJKSFSJ

  • @sargasso08
    @sargasso08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just wanted to say thanks. Thank you so much, i am also making ~20¢ a day in my youtube channel. I put so much effort and sometimes i feel like going nowhere but now after seeing your video it motivated me and also gained some mental clarity. Its a long road and it WILL pay offf. Thank you and great video :)

  • @lucasjohnnn
    @lucasjohnnn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely learning a lot from your videos! Your content is so relatable to everyone especially to people who may be suffering deep inside but doesn’t know how to solve it emotionally and where we should be starting.

  • @shivangichaturvedi1543
    @shivangichaturvedi1543 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am honestly so thankful to you for making these videos. Filming, editing etc takes time, effort, heart and soul. All that is so clearly evident in your videos. Thank you for sharing your journey and letting us know that we’re all in a dark room looking for that light switch. ❤️

  • @auag19
    @auag19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the happiness and sparkle in people's eyes when they talk about what excites them, am open to various paths but my North Star is to end up somewhere that allows me to both get excited about what I talk about and engage with others who feel this way too, but I know that to get there I need to develop more discipline in all aspects of my life, especially my finances & procrastination habits

  • @bandri1897
    @bandri1897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    u really opened my eyes on some aspects i missed when i was designing my life, very informative vid, what i liked the most about your way is that you support each point with an example. Thank u so much.

  • @pauladollenart7614
    @pauladollenart7614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ok, this video it's so good that it made me ugly cry for the whole of it. It really hit me and it's not even made in my natural language. I'm going through a hard time on my life and I'm feeling so lost I don't know what to do with myself. I really feel like somehow the universe send me this video to make me feel I'm not alone and it's completely normal. thank you so much Nathaniel Drew for this video, you are a great youtuber and an even better person

  • @Norhameed
    @Norhameed 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You expand my mind and way of thinking. I'm so grateful I stumbled upon your channel.
    One word. Inspiring

  • @remylebae3395
    @remylebae3395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos are truly amazing. I hope you accomplish everything you dream of in both your story-telling and your self-discovery.

  • @MaryJenevieve
    @MaryJenevieve 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This has been on my mind lately and I agree with the point you made about it not being possible to learn everything from others. Experimenting is soo crucial and will get anyone far in their journey. When I’m in doubt with where I wanna go, that’s one thing I constantly remind myself of. To just keep experimenting and see what feels right, and I definitely have come a long way in terms of knowing what I want and where I want to be. Awesome video as always!

  • @jessicasthul6774
    @jessicasthul6774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you saved my day, and made me realize certain things today and thanku for this motivation...truly grateful to you! thanks a lot and by the way brilliant content.

  • @marianaflores8483
    @marianaflores8483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you thank you thank you. That’s all I can think about whenever I watch any of your videos. You’re light.

  • @timothynathan1233
    @timothynathan1233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I check in on your videos every once and a while, and I've found your digital storytelling techniques are very distinguished. This was a very motivating piece. Excited to see where you take us on the next video. Cheers!

  • @HistoryTime
    @HistoryTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Thanks for sharing this advice Nathaniel. These are incredibly well made. All the best.

  • @11BethLizzy
    @11BethLizzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, your such a beautiful and curious person! Your really just going for it and having the most open mind about how to live, there’s not a lot of people like you out there and I’m happy to see people create such a wonderful experience and share it with others.
    I wish you all the best in the future.

  • @brendhaoliveirabre
    @brendhaoliveirabre 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    wooow this video is incredible!! it opened up my eyes to many things i had already experienced but hadn’t reflected them in such an organized way like you just did here. this is gonna change my life, i mean it. thank you, fr!

  • @pursueexcellence7737
    @pursueexcellence7737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I would like to share something - "If a design takes an unreasonably long time to develope, its the wrong design" - Elon musk.
    I think this applies to life aswell.

    • @lorenzoignat6024
      @lorenzoignat6024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How do I get over a tough period and start redesigning my life, because as of right now that seems impossbile. I feel like I need to almost restart my brain.

    • @pursueexcellence7737
      @pursueexcellence7737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lorenzoignat6024 You are not alone:
      facebook.com/groups/179287156102224/

  • @NatureFreak1127
    @NatureFreak1127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes! I need a video on how to find the right people. The loneliness brings me down. It is hard to refocus on present and appreciate all the good things in my life. I have been searching for so long for fulfilling relationships. Me falling ill for 5 years did not help. I feel like all the good men are taken and i missed the deadline. .... And this video is amazing in every way. Designing my life has been on my mind a lot lately. I am actually a designer, so... :)

  • @christopherhocker
    @christopherhocker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro, you're channel is straight heat, keep it up! Genuinely glad it's working out for you. Way to stay the course!

  • @JosiahLeonmusic
    @JosiahLeonmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I haven't seen one of your videos for a while, and man, your videos are on a higher level! I mean, they were always great, but now, the transitions, the story, the music, the incredible 4k footage, your dialogue, everything has so much more value. Incredible work Nathan! Very happy for your success now and in the future!

  • @willowwright8526
    @willowwright8526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every time you post a video, I know that I am getting an honest reflection of a human going towards something better. The way you present your stories welcomes me immediately. From your tender editing to casual cadence, you glow with honesty. As one of the few people in my community as tenacious about growth as you, I know I am finding someone I relate with when I watch your videos. Thank you for being a leader of growth by sharing your thoughts and experiences with the process.

  • @zaphyyy
    @zaphyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so glad this was on my recommended.

  • @brunette5121
    @brunette5121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're one of my fav channels on youtube just for the sheer authenticity of your content and your personality. It is so relaxing to hear you takes on different things, it is like hearing a friend speak. Pure pleasure, kudos!

  • @jordanfifehunt
    @jordanfifehunt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are wise. I’m grateful to have found your work.

  • @marouiita
    @marouiita 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really feel like we're the same person in different bodies. Would love to meet people like you!

  • @user-ej7gc5my8e
    @user-ej7gc5my8e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Playing the long isn’t easy during hard times. Honoring the child in me is my ultimate goal.

  • @daisysilva1817
    @daisysilva1817 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nathan's videos are soo interesting I forget to like them and simply move to the next, and the next and the next. Then I go back and like all the videos I just watched.
    I love your work Nathaniel!

  • @missrelaxed3872
    @missrelaxed3872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I feel lost , I browse your content and watch something! I came back to this video for the third time and it instantly gives me positivity

  • @nycnow811
    @nycnow811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm someone that is addicted to beating myself down, I get to points where I'm happy and feel as if I have everything figured out, thoughts are clear, confident, life feels easier then bam one day everything goes down and then the obsession of beating myself down comes back and it's as if I forgot every tool, like someone training for a fight for months then during the fight completely forget how to defend. Also I'm a really good cheerleader, my priority is all messed up, it's as if I care for others more than myself its affected my negatively.

    • @edithrubio5453
      @edithrubio5453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I paused the video bc I had to read your comment again, bc this is exactly how I feel. I’ll be good for a couple weeks even months sometimes and than one day I’m not.. & it leads me down a dark road bc I feel like the progress I made those weeks or months wasn’t enough bc I’m back to that place and it’s really hard to get out of it again..

    • @EmoZix
      @EmoZix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel like the same way you are and I understand. For me , how I view it is that nothing in life stays in constant. Not even happiness or struggle. But we can atleast be consistent on what were working on.

    • @edithrubio5453
      @edithrubio5453 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      crimsonv0s that is very true. It was nice talking to you/ Sending positive vibes. 💜

  • @mcoreotims2509
    @mcoreotims2509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you... I needed this

  • @thefullspektrum9571
    @thefullspektrum9571 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this content. It's honest. It's deep and conversational. I feel like I'm listening to one of my friends.

  • @zurima2012
    @zurima2012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes! How to find the right people is key!
    Do a video on that

    • @JazminBautista
      @JazminBautista 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with Marcela, networking and finding the person who can fit is essential.

  • @gabrielslima
    @gabrielslima 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've been through a "internal battle" these last days...I feel I can't fail...at the same time I noticed that I don't wanna go to college, I don't wanna work in a toxic work anymore, I just wanna live...
    Hope that I can find my way soon...
    Thank you for your content, it really helps...

  • @Maybeahh
    @Maybeahh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just discovered your channel and I'm mesmerized by the work you put on your videos.
    I will keep on having a look of your videos, I think you are a very talented film maker.
    And also a deep individual, with an insightful approach to modern problems...
    You made my day, thank you!

  • @valentino1646
    @valentino1646 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos make me very emotional, your own journey is such an inspiration to me and the little childhood clips and pictures are adorable🥺

  • @maxkurant1470
    @maxkurant1470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ahh I haven’t even watched yet but this looks like a great video! I feel like you always post exactly what I need to see haha

    • @JazminBautista
      @JazminBautista 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you Max, it's crazy how they can create a video we need

  • @ibtihalgamal8197
    @ibtihalgamal8197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    u make me feel like u r coming from the future or smthing....or u r taking me there...and i like that....away of world mess.

  • @esmeraldahawkins278
    @esmeraldahawkins278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really admire your wisdom. It's taken me a little while longer but finally am at a point in life where I get everything you say and share almost exact thoughts like you about life.

  • @maximus1847
    @maximus1847 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey man just wanna say your videos are beautiful, your storytelling is definitely on the right track!

  • @abbieamavi
    @abbieamavi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *3:44** has been my whole life lately!!! and as always, love this video!! I couldn't agree more! I also prefer short term goals too* :)

    • @alexbodger967
      @alexbodger967 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you see that number everywhere to lol