This Karen is literally an abuser to her husband. Its disgusting how open she is about it and how she's teaching her daughter to be a horrible, abusive, bully, just like mommy.
@@redtarka I’m pretty sure that the majority or countries fall in favour of women and it’s just easier to round it to all, instead of making a list of ones that dont
@@redtarka yeah it was meant hyperbole. of course there are still countries with middle age legal systems... but how does that extreme invalidate the other problem?
I just don't think such sweeping generalizations help anyone. And even in non "middle age" systems I doubt women constantly get the upper hand or get favoured.
@@Armageddon_71 I feel that you're both right. For instance, if it was a parent-child relationship then they are a doormat by your definition. If it's a situation like this then Jonatan's definition fits. I guess what I'm saying is there are multiple ways a "doormat" personality happens.
@@BloodThirstyAvengers No, vampires have a sense of decorum about them. They don't just needlessly suck the life out of anyone and everyone around them until they burst. Karens are more like genetically enhanced Mosquitos that get their "Full" sensor turned off.
I feel awful for poor Hank not winning his case of emotional cruelty, courts are terribly in favor of women. I'm glad he managed to get help and leave tho, and that Pat finally got the punishment she deserved.
The only time I ever saw a man win anything in court was a felon getting custody of his kids because his ex-wife was just too obviously strung out on drugs and had the most horribly questionable responses in court.
While legal laws are changing, the people's attitudes are that women are inherently better caretakers than men. So in divorce cases involving children, the people sitting in the courtroom will more often favor the woman
When I first started listening I thought to ruin someone's wedding was cruel, but as it progressed it became more and more justified. Unfortunately "Pat" understood how the community really felt after her wedding. A sad but satisfying story.
Personally, I don't think Pat suffered enough. A bad vow renewal does not make up for raising 5 spoiled brats, Abusing your husband to the point of contemplating suicide, and manipulating an entire community for her own personal gain. She deserves to die alone in an old folks home.
@@mrmarioscatman I’m glad Hank left her though. And that she realizes Casey is just like her and they’ll never be there for each other. Hopefully the younger ones learn better
The woman in this story sounds just like my aunt. My grandma used to say that she would do anything to get pregnant to avoid going to work. She got nine kids
I'm one of 5 on my mother's side, and she'd do anything to avoid getting pregnant, but all she had to do was shake hands with someone. Hell, she was menopausal when she had me, and had has her ovaries removed due to cancer. God knows how she splits herself between us
there are channel about a brithish nanny helping americans disfonctionnal family one of them was 11 or 12 kids the parents were doormats to them and expected there oldest to take care of the youngest(the eldest might have got a panic attackt by stress and me unable to have a social life) the mom expected to have more kids and need a big wakeup call truly we don't need to have more kids if there are an excuse for lazy off or impossble utopia familly of everyone getting along perfectly by being many kids
Pat's eldest can be arrested if the op decided to call the cops bc technically that's theft and depending of where op was/is Casey is old enough to be arrested if not then Pat can be sued.
I wished the term "doormat" wasn't used. What "Pat-ren's" husband is going through is the purest form of emotional abuse. I think people will take that term the wrong way even though an explanation was provided.
@@oraphans Ah yes. Grabbing someone's hand, peeling their fist open forcefully and removing a ring from it. What else is it if not assault, unwanted physical contact? I didn't say battery. We have nothing but a child's word vs another child's word to go on. There was no discussion, just the forced removal of the ring. That's a fucking Karen. If the roles were reversed and it was OP's daughter in that position would you say Pat was in the right?
I feel bad for poor Hank. Everyone pay respects to Hank. I hope the poor man gets better. I feel so bad for him, because of all the abuse he suffered. Pat should burn in hell. Or somewhere that's really bad. Safe Hank!
I feel like that is such a petty and childish way to handle the situation though. Makes for a good story but also kinda feel like Lenah and OP were acting like a child. I was bullied and had my phone and iPod (pre iPhone days) stolen from me by these two girls in elementary school. I notified the principal and got them back, even though there was no proof it was them. Bullying also stopped after that. Peace is an option and the mature one.
Yeah, I know relationships are complicated and it wouldn't have solved everything, but I can't believe OP didn't block Pat on facebook as soon as Pat tried to guilt her into doing free babysitting.
I'll never understand how some people can't say no. My mom used to be like that and got walked on a lot, ever since she had back surgery she's learned the value of NO. I've had people call me all kinds of names because I wouldn't help them for free.
Ikr, the op of this story is an enabler which is why her daughter refused to open up to her about the ring. She knew her mother would most likely push it aside if it meant keeping pat happy. People like that are also responsible for the abusive nature of others
@@f687sNFM Ya op got whatever its called on not dealing with the issue before it affected the daughter. People always stand up and you'll be happy not dealing with them later.
My upstairs neighbour is very smiley and polite and I used to think the favours I did her would be returned because she was so friendly but turns out her smile was an act. So one day she comes knocking at my door for yet another favour (some paperwork she wanted to borrow so she could copy it) and I blew up at her and told her she didn't need a friend she needed an employee and then I said "just f- off". I was so angry. The fake tears began to fall and she literally ran up the stairs like an old Hollywood actress wailing and crying. It's tough sometimes but you have to stand your ground or they walk all over you because they see you as a pushover.
Girl:*steals a ring* Mother : she's just being asserti Girl : *robs a bank killing two innocents and four police officers * Mother :that's my assertive little girl.
My parents renewed their wedding vows while Mom was on a trip in Jerusalem with her friends. They were at a special church, can't remember which, but they were given the opportunity to call their husbands and renew their vows over the phone. Now THAT'S romantic. No one needed to go crazy over another expensive ceremony. That Hank should've taken advantage of the "speak now or forever hold your peace."
Domestic violence isn't just against women. That poor man. And high five to Leana and OP for fixing that dress!! Sounds like she received everything she deserved! To bad there is 5 kids of hers though, I just hope they don't turn out anything like her!
As a low-income Mexican-American, most of the weddings I’ve gone to are sort of potluck. Usually all the aunts or women family members help out in some way and then people can either serve themselves or they get served from what the family members made. I didn’t realize weddings could be so expensive until I saw bridezilla videos. Lol I’ve also only been to like two weddings that ever made me rsvp so when my white ex asked me to be a plus one, I was excited bc we don’t really limit who comes because of the potluck style food.
@@disneygirl8694 AND you can MAKE what YOU want instead of ordering a catering thing. That and it's good for people with allergies...since you can make food everyone enjoys but still have stuff you can eat and not get sick.
I legit think that Karen from that last story believed that all the people around her that she was abusing and manipulating were her friends and that they cared about her, and her ruined wedding made her realize that wasn't the case
My dream is to meet a karen and get footage of her, im actually lucky i havent yet but i want these shitty people out there, id love to be yelled at by a maskless karen for some stupid ass reason
I think this beautiful revenge was ABSOLUTELY DESERVED!! So proud of Lenah for taking charge also GREAT to hear Hank got out. Poor guy. He deserves a good woman who would appreciate his hard work. HANK if for some reason you see this, YOUR LIFE ISN'T OVER. There is a woman out there with a beautiful heart who will adore you! Work on yourself and you will find her when you least expect it!
I love that this one ends with the explanation of the Circle of a Karen's Life. I feel like that would be a hilarious project for my freshman literature students.
I assume Pat had mastered the art of wearing people down until they agreed to her demands to make her shut up faster. That or "oops, I'm coincidentally unavailable to take accountability for my actions so you handle everything for me"
Karmic retribution. I'm here like... it's not hard to be a nice person? Pay your friends back, say thank you, take responsibility. The more you demand and connive and lie, the more people will hate you. It wasn't that hard for her to be a better person... she just didn't want to be.
Karen: *raises her kid to be a thief and defends her when she refuses to return her friend's ring* Karen: i have no dress can i borrow yours Kid: no Karen: *surprised pikachu face* That is karma at its finest
My mom was a Karen. I can confirm this is the loop. When she passed in 2013, most of her siblings (she had 5) didn't want to attend the funeral. They decided to go in the end to support her children. None of her "friends" were there, just people she loosely associated with at the VFW bingo night. To this day, nobody speaks of her fondly, except my dad who is an overly kind and generous man who went through way too much abuse from her. I think my one half-sister still thinks of her fondly but she was the eldest golden child who could do no wrong. She had me at 38. But I saw how in her late 40's and early 50's, she was very vibrant and very social. But none of this lasted. I saw how she rarely had any friends, and watched as people would leave. She'd dump me off at friends as a child so she could go out. Those friendships would dissolve pretty quickly. I wasn't a bad kid. I just liked to quietly read and draw. But I'm pretty sure she wasn't compensating or just doing things to piss them off. One of these people dropped the relationship with my mom but always let me come over to stay however long I needed when I wasn't in school. She was a great lady, an artist, and just an overall cool person. In retrospect, I think she saw the abuse I was going through and wanted to give me someplace safe. If there were family gatherings at our house (and sometimes others) there would often be shouting matches at best. As her health was declining, everyone kind of left. The only ones who were there with her at the end were myself, my dad, my siblings and one aunt. My mom did have a small turning point in 2005, when years of smoking and working herself into rages landed her with a stroke. She mellowed out a little bit, (to the point we could have a somewhat decent relationship) but was still full of backhanded comments. She became less controlling and demanding at least. But she was still generally unpleasant.
I was wondering why your posts are an hour later (10pm not 9pm) then I remembered your times changed an hour. Damn, was always at the perfect time for diner. Oh well, after diner drinks now is where it’s at Edit: Forgot to say “Australian time” after 9-10pm. Guess those after dinner drinks really got to me haha
This story is just...Wow. I'm glad she had the wind sucked out of her sails. She needed to get knocked down quite a peg. This is my favorite story behind the Karen that called her manager Mutley
This story scares me to death, because I think my daughter might be an up and comming Karen. I try desperately to teach her humility, and being kind to others, but just know that Karens create themselves, I think from poor self image, and the thrill of getting what they don't deserve, and not from poor parenting.
You can make her take a psychological evaluation in order to have a professional opinion on the matter. Depending on the age of your daughter, a lack of empathy can be a symptom of many mental disorders
When a toxic narcissist like her always ends up alone, bitter, and hated by everyone in the community. My sister was married to one, and he left her thinking it would destroy her, but it freed her instead. Now, and is happy, successful with tons of friends. While he is alone, broke, and hated by everyone. He lost his job, but he's so toxic, nobody will hire him in his field. So he works two menial minimum wage jobs just to scrape by. He's in not so great health, having survived a heart attack, and needs a third back surgery, and he just turned 55. Even his kids refuse to associate with him, and he has not even seen any of his grandkids since his kids don't want him around them. It's truly sad, but as much hatred he spews to anyone around him, I don't feel sorry for him. He did this to himself.
They’re even trying for a 6th.... with 4 teen boys and 1 almost teen girl who all have to share rooms still except for the girl (some of the rooms are so tiny) so i hope that kid #6 doesn’t happen.
Dang, why did OP keep that monstrosity in their life all this time? I would have cut ties at the first offense. She's obviously crazy. Worst yet is that she thought her kids to be as crazy as her. If you got people like that around you, just push them away. Don't keep them around, WTF.
19:02 I'd honestly like to meet this woman, so I can tell her the words everyone wants to say "you want everything to revolve around you and your happiness, but the truth is, you're living a fantasy. You lie, you steal, and you hurt the people who love you and they thought that you'd love them too, and the only way you get the attention of everyone, is if you're dead and buried, and the one you hurt the most, Hank will only come back to piss on your grave, to return the kindness you gave him."
Technically, nobody "deserves" to be miserable, and actually can often "deserve" our pity instead. But pity from afar. Let them marinate in their own misery juice.
Pat says she was trying to raise an "assertive young woman" ... basically saying it will be okay if my daughter grows up to outright steal from people and bully them into silence all the time.
Oh my God! I knew you were gonna do this prorevenge!! I found it some time ago at it was way too epic. So I've been praying that you'd pick this up. Thank youuu!!
Poor Hank. He probably stuck around so long for the kids, not Pat. Hank probably had zero self esteem, so he was an easy target for someone like Pat. I'm glad he finally got the help he desperately needed and divorced the psychopath. I'm so upset that he lost his case, though. Did they allow ANY witnesses? There would be more than enough people that would testify against her. Those 5 kids are gonna grow up to be Karens and I'm terrified of that reality. We don't need more Karens.
I know the feeling of being innocent and believing someone who I thought was a friend. When I was elementary school, I led borrow a “friend” something I had and they promised they would return it the next day. Unfortunately I never saw the item I lend them ever again. I am still upset about it to this day
I have never understood having a wedding renewal. Have an awsome anniversary party, sure. But why a 2nd wedding? Unless perhaps the couple had seperated and was getting back together. I guess I could comprehend that. Is that what they are for? Genuinely asking.
Yo rslash! Longtime enjoyer of your content. 1st time commenter....I think. Anywhoo, I really got pulled into the long detailed story on this one. I had so much empathy built up by the time we got to the end, I was that much more satisfied hearing the revenge. Wouldn't mind seeing more full length single story vids. Keep doing your thing man. Love the channel!
While I do appreciate the long stories and long videos, I prefer the short stories with quick laughs and funnies! Either way, keep it up and keep having fun RSlash!!
what would have been better was to ALMOST unstictch some crucial parts of the dress so that they would give as soon as she hit the aisle. OOOPS.. you pulled a janet jackson, wardrobe malfunction...LOL
It sounds like the whole community is full of jerks. Instead of a group of adult women confronting Pat and giving her a chance to redeem herself, or asking her to leave their community until she can be respectful, they cut out her dress and pretend they don't know what happened. Is OP 10 years old?
She had to "wear him down" and "force him to get her pregnant?" Marital rape is a thing. Coerced consent is not consent.
sadly, since it's the wife doing it to the husband, no reports or anything would be taken seriously. Even the courts see it as "women can't rape men"
@@biggusdickus1234 and it's rediculous that they won't see it as rape, when that's exactly what it is.
@@ZakBaganslover4ever9 the whole system is just fucked for men.
Rent, don't own.
@@glennstanton4822 what???
This Karen is literally an abuser to her husband. Its disgusting how open she is about it and how she's teaching her daughter to be a horrible, abusive, bully, just like mommy.
and there is nearly nothing the husband can do. because the legal system in every country around the globe is biased in favor of women.
@@mahe4 Have you never heard of Saudi Arabia, Iran, Afghanistan etc...?
@@redtarka I’m pretty sure that the majority or countries fall in favour of women and it’s just easier to round it to all, instead of making a list of ones that dont
@@redtarka yeah it was meant hyperbole.
of course there are still countries with middle age legal systems...
but how does that extreme invalidate the other problem?
I just don't think such sweeping generalizations help anyone. And even in non "middle age" systems I doubt women constantly get the upper hand or get favoured.
What the person calls being a "doormat" isn't that. That's being abused over years and having your life sucked out.
To me that is exactly what 'Being a Doormat' indicates... You have been stepped on so much that you don't feel like you have another purpose.
@@natanoj16 That's true but many people think a doormat is someone who is extremely submissive from the start. That doesn't really fit to the dude.
@@Armageddon_71 I feel that you're both right. For instance, if it was a parent-child relationship then they are a doormat by your definition. If it's a situation like this then Jonatan's definition fits. I guess what I'm saying is there are multiple ways a "doormat" personality happens.
@ReboundSpirit You know leech and parasite is synonymous with vampires. Wait, ARE KARENS VAMPIRES?! O_O'
@@BloodThirstyAvengers No, vampires have a sense of decorum about them. They don't just needlessly suck the life out of anyone and everyone around them until they burst. Karens are more like genetically enhanced Mosquitos that get their "Full" sensor turned off.
I feel so terrible for Hank he spent decades suffering emotionally and financially because of Pat
Fr during the whole story I was wishing he would just say fxck and quit her
@@devilsadvocate7474 he probably doesnt wanna do that to his kids
I did as well, I am glad he stood up for himself and tried to make better of his life.
Emotional and economic abuse.
Same
I'm so glad that Hank got help and left that awful woman.
Same. Poor Hank went through a lot of shit; Good thing he escaped that evil woman.
REDDIT, STOP UNDERREACTING ALL THE TIME!
When OP described the husband, I got worried things wouldn’t end well for him. I’m glad he got somewhat of a happy ending.
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I feel awful for poor Hank not winning his case of emotional cruelty, courts are terribly in favor of women. I'm glad he managed to get help and leave tho, and that Pat finally got the punishment she deserved.
yea ikr?! courts will do anything to let women like pat win all the time!
@@adumbo3531 now that society is practically made of simps and feminists its kinda unavoidable
@@fionnnellis2117 that is not the reason tho
The only time I ever saw a man win anything in court was a felon getting custody of his kids because his ex-wife was just too obviously strung out on drugs and had the most horribly questionable responses in court.
While legal laws are changing, the people's attitudes are that women are inherently better caretakers than men. So in divorce cases involving children, the people sitting in the courtroom will more often favor the woman
When I first started listening I thought to ruin someone's wedding was cruel, but as it progressed it became more and more justified. Unfortunately "Pat" understood how the community really felt after her wedding.
A sad but satisfying story.
To be honest it was amazing how she can manage to burn the entire bridges until nothing left. It's like she's trying for Karenlympics
Personally, I don't think Pat suffered enough. A bad vow renewal does not make up for raising 5 spoiled brats, Abusing your husband to the point of contemplating suicide, and manipulating an entire community for her own personal gain. She deserves to die alone in an old folks home.
@@mrmarioscatman I’m glad Hank left her though. And that she realizes Casey is just like her and they’ll never be there for each other. Hopefully the younger ones learn better
@@terra_the_nightingale135 Me too she didn't deserve him.
@Amy Sternheim she's not a true Christian, the old couple who turned their farmland into community center is far more Christian than her.
These Karen stories get progressively worse overtime
Not you again
@MUHAMMAD DANISH BIN ROZIMI Moe no probs
The word you’re probably looking for is “Evolved” which means “develop” in most contexts.
Because more Karens grow overtime.
I'd that even possible?
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The woman in this story sounds just like my aunt. My grandma used to say that she would do anything to get pregnant to avoid going to work. She got nine kids
I am so sorry
I'm one of 5 on my mother's side, and she'd do anything to avoid getting pregnant, but all she had to do was shake hands with someone. Hell, she was menopausal when she had me, and had has her ovaries removed due to cancer. God knows how she splits herself between us
there are channel about a brithish nanny helping americans disfonctionnal family one of them was 11 or 12 kids the parents were doormats to them and expected there oldest to take care of the youngest(the eldest might have got a panic attackt by stress and me unable to have a social life) the mom expected to have more kids and need a big wakeup call truly we don't need to have more kids if there are an excuse for lazy off or impossble utopia familly of everyone getting along perfectly by being many kids
@@yohishi1221 I heard that after that episode the mom gave birth to 2 more children and the older ones moved out
@@yohishi1221 what episode was it? Im curious
Pat's eldest can be arrested if the op decided to call the cops bc technically that's theft and depending of where op was/is Casey is old enough to be arrested if not then Pat can be sued.
@Amy Sternheim fair but i meant if she was out for blood after
@Amy Sternheim lol
Honestly. How pathetic that a 17 YEAR OLD is bullying a young girl. Sad.
if she's older than op's girl than she is over 18, meaning that they could get her into a lawsuit
@@Kaimax_ Op's girl was 13/14.
I wished the term "doormat" wasn't used. What "Pat-ren's" husband is going through is the purest form of emotional abuse. I think people will take that term the wrong way even though an explanation was provided.
OP was honestly a Karen too. Emotional abuse? "Doormat." Child not returning a stolen ring? *Assault the child*
Madra the so called child was 17 and should know better anyway you donut
@@oraphans Right. So you assault them, not use your words like an adult. We also don't know if OP's daughter was honest about the situation.
Madra ah yes, pulling a ring of someones fingers, assault.
@@oraphans Ah yes. Grabbing someone's hand, peeling their fist open forcefully and removing a ring from it. What else is it if not assault, unwanted physical contact? I didn't say battery. We have nothing but a child's word vs another child's word to go on. There was no discussion, just the forced removal of the ring. That's a fucking Karen.
If the roles were reversed and it was OP's daughter in that position would you say Pat was in the right?
I feel bad for poor Hank. Everyone pay respects to Hank. I hope the poor man gets better. I feel so bad for him, because of all the abuse he suffered. Pat should burn in hell. Or somewhere that's really bad. Safe Hank!
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Lenah and OP: *"Peace was never an option."*
Their spiritanimals are definetly Canadian Geese
Goose in human form
stealing grandmas ring and then bulling a kid. Yup, she got whats comming
I feel like that is such a petty and childish way to handle the situation though. Makes for a good story but also kinda feel like Lenah and OP were acting like a child. I was bullied and had my phone and iPod (pre iPhone days) stolen from me by these two girls in elementary school. I notified the principal and got them back, even though there was no proof it was them. Bullying also stopped after that. Peace is an option and the mature one.
@@plebasaurus2970 this is the best burn I've ever read LMAO
Rslash I know it’s late now but the world needs a video of you dressing as a Karen for Halloween
Rkaren
@@rainorld2493 r/Karen*
@@moami1031 more perfect than what I wrote
Kslash
A real Karen would walk up to him and say "wHY aRe yOu iMPerSoNAtinG a wOMaN!!!!"
Man, i think the true victim of this is the poor Hank. I hope he puts himself together and tries to live a better life
Yeah, I know relationships are complicated and it wouldn't have solved everything, but I can't believe OP didn't block Pat on facebook as soon as Pat tried to guilt her into doing free babysitting.
I'll never understand how some people can't say no. My mom used to be like that and got walked on a lot, ever since she had back surgery she's learned the value of NO. I've had people call me all kinds of names because I wouldn't help them for free.
Ikr, the op of this story is an enabler which is why her daughter refused to open up to her about the ring. She knew her mother would most likely push it aside if it meant keeping pat happy. People like that are also responsible for the abusive nature of others
@@f687sNFM Ya op got whatever its called on not dealing with the issue before it affected the daughter. People always stand up and you'll be happy not dealing with them later.
Well, my good sir or ma'am, it's called people having different world views and/or emotional manipulation!~
I had a friend who was like that, yet she was so desperate for approval she knew she was being taken advantage of, but did nothing to stop it.
My upstairs neighbour is very smiley and polite and I used to think the favours I did her would be returned because she was so friendly but turns out her smile was an act. So one day she comes knocking at my door for yet another favour (some paperwork she wanted to borrow so she could copy it) and I blew up at her and told her she didn't need a friend she needed an employee and then I said "just f- off". I was so angry. The fake tears began to fall and she literally ran up the stairs like an old Hollywood actress wailing and crying. It's tough sometimes but you have to stand your ground or they walk all over you because they see you as a pushover.
Girl:*steals a ring*
Mother : she's just being asserti
Girl : *robs a bank killing two innocents and four police officers *
Mother :that's my assertive little girl.
*ikr*
Judge: understandable have a great day.
REDDIT, STOP UNDERREACTING ALL THE TIME!
My parents renewed their wedding vows while Mom was on a trip in Jerusalem with her friends. They were at a special church, can't remember which, but they were given the opportunity to call their husbands and renew their vows over the phone.
Now THAT'S romantic. No one needed to go crazy over another expensive ceremony. That Hank should've taken advantage of the "speak now or forever hold your peace."
What would've made this wedding all the more wrecked is if OP and her friends somehow convinced Hank to say "I don't." at it.
Domestic violence isn't just against women. That poor man. And high five to Leana and OP for fixing that dress!! Sounds like she received everything she deserved! To bad there is 5 kids of hers though, I just hope they don't turn out anything like her!
Yep OP sure “fixed” the dress
Pat: NOOOOO YOU CANT RIP MY WEDDING DRESS
Narrator: Haha Scissors go brrrr
This is what I think of you.
*Folds dress in half, then carefully cuts it, so the hole is a middle finger.*
You're welcome.
On a serious note, I think a potluck wedding is honestly cute especially if it’s just close friends and family
As a low-income Mexican-American, most of the weddings I’ve gone to are sort of potluck. Usually all the aunts or women family members help out in some way and then people can either serve themselves or they get served from what the family members made. I didn’t realize weddings could be so expensive until I saw bridezilla videos. Lol I’ve also only been to like two weddings that ever made me rsvp so when my white ex asked me to be a plus one, I was excited bc we don’t really limit who comes because of the potluck style food.
@@disneygirl8694 AND you can MAKE what YOU want instead of ordering a catering thing. That and it's good for people with allergies...since you can make food everyone enjoys but still have stuff you can eat and not get sick.
I'm so pleased I learned how to say "NO" at a very early age.
It's easier than you think, it's no and that's it.
I didn’t 😅 I’m still learning that it’s okay to say no.
@@f687sNFM for some people they have reasons on why it’s harder,
@@KazzleTheDazzle it's powerful stuff. Just remember, you don't owe anything to anyone other than basic politeness.
@Matricx700 last time I did that I got a death threat 😅
Wherever Hank is at I hope he's doing well. Poor guy went through some shit with that woman and deserves to be happy for once.
I legit think that Karen from that last story believed that all the people around her that she was abusing and manipulating were her friends and that they cared about her, and her ruined wedding made her realize that wasn't the case
It is genuinely my dream to ruin a Karen’s wedding
The opportunity for that is rare. You’ll have to work hard for that dream
Get one of the Karen's who have been divorced multiple times to marry one of your uncles or something. then accidentally invite the ex hubbies 😳😳
Simple, just ensure everyone don't attend her wedding. Nothing say "you're unloved" like rows of empty seat and uneaten catering.
My dream is to meet a karen and get footage of her, im actually lucky i havent yet but i want these shitty people out there, id love to be yelled at by a maskless karen for some stupid ass reason
@@marurei143 it’s a foolproof plan
I love the prorevenge episodes with one story, because then you know its a good story.
I think this beautiful revenge was ABSOLUTELY DESERVED!! So proud of Lenah for taking charge also GREAT to hear Hank got out. Poor guy. He deserves a good woman who would appreciate his hard work. HANK if for some reason you see this, YOUR LIFE ISN'T OVER. There is a woman out there with a beautiful heart who will adore you! Work on yourself and you will find her when you least expect it!
I'd love to see a video of this Karen waddling down the Isle crying 😂😂
*aisle*
An _isle_ is something very different.
I love that this one ends with the explanation of the Circle of a Karen's Life. I feel like that would be a hilarious project for my freshman literature students.
We need the back story of how Karen's are made.
I love the smell of emotionally scarred Karen's in the evening. Smells like... Karma.
I don’t understand, why did op and everyone else put up with her for as long as they did?
Politeness mostly. Some people don't want to be "that person" and accidentally making an even bigger scene than the Karen.
@@danielbrant6740 that is not politeness. Everyone was a spineless coward that just enabled Pat. They deserve her.
I assume Pat had mastered the art of wearing people down until they agreed to her demands to make her shut up faster. That or "oops, I'm coincidentally unavailable to take accountability for my actions so you handle everything for me"
That was satisfying but even more so that Hank got the help he needed and was able to get out of that awful relationship
Anyone else imagining a female tim burton penguin villian being a bridezilla 😂😂😂😂
Karmic retribution. I'm here like... it's not hard to be a nice person? Pay your friends back, say thank you, take responsibility. The more you demand and connive and lie, the more people will hate you. It wasn't that hard for her to be a better person... she just didn't want to be.
I don't have patience for people like Pat and I would've lost my 💩 when the situation with the daughter getting her ring stolen happened
Ah yes, a straight out of the oven, Kentucky Fried, finger lickin good rSlash video
Karen: *raises her kid to be a thief and defends her when she refuses to return her friend's ring*
Karen: i have no dress can i borrow yours
Kid: no
Karen: *surprised pikachu face*
That is karma at its finest
My mom was a Karen. I can confirm this is the loop. When she passed in 2013, most of her siblings (she had 5) didn't want to attend the funeral. They decided to go in the end to support her children. None of her "friends" were there, just people she loosely associated with at the VFW bingo night. To this day, nobody speaks of her fondly, except my dad who is an overly kind and generous man who went through way too much abuse from her. I think my one half-sister still thinks of her fondly but she was the eldest golden child who could do no wrong.
She had me at 38. But I saw how in her late 40's and early 50's, she was very vibrant and very social. But none of this lasted. I saw how she rarely had any friends, and watched as people would leave. She'd dump me off at friends as a child so she could go out. Those friendships would dissolve pretty quickly. I wasn't a bad kid. I just liked to quietly read and draw. But I'm pretty sure she wasn't compensating or just doing things to piss them off. One of these people dropped the relationship with my mom but always let me come over to stay however long I needed when I wasn't in school. She was a great lady, an artist, and just an overall cool person. In retrospect, I think she saw the abuse I was going through and wanted to give me someplace safe.
If there were family gatherings at our house (and sometimes others) there would often be shouting matches at best. As her health was declining, everyone kind of left. The only ones who were there with her at the end were myself, my dad, my siblings and one aunt. My mom did have a small turning point in 2005, when years of smoking and working herself into rages landed her with a stroke. She mellowed out a little bit, (to the point we could have a somewhat decent relationship) but was still full of backhanded comments. She became less controlling and demanding at least. But she was still generally unpleasant.
Damn Lenah and OP actually broke a Karen. You love to see it
Ooh, that last story OP and Leah broke a Karen! We must learn from them!
I was watching an old prorevenge story when this bad boy poped up
I was wondering why your posts are an hour later (10pm not 9pm) then I remembered your times changed an hour. Damn, was always at the perfect time for diner. Oh well, after diner drinks now is where it’s at
Edit: Forgot to say “Australian time” after 9-10pm. Guess those after dinner drinks really got to me haha
Haha I got confused last week as well because I thought he had posted an hour early but then remembered the clocks changed 😂😂
I have a relative named "Karen" but not a karen. Yeeeeee
Same she always tells the funniest stories
you could call entitled people "walking mannequins" if you dont want to insult your relative by calling entitled people Karen
My Moms friend name is Karen Not a Karen
I fell bad for normal people named Karen
@@The_guy_who_asked tru
That karen is the epitome of an evil person.
And the op is the epitome of an enabler
Is it bad that RSlash's video has always been the highlight of my day?
You're not alone in that. 😁
Lol
Hold on. Husband 3 jobs. Still has to clean the house, and cook... This is why you gotta teach people to have self esteem. This is no way to live
Yes, this is perfect for my holiday
Same
This story is just...Wow. I'm glad she had the wind sucked out of her sails. She needed to get knocked down quite a peg.
This is my favorite story behind the Karen that called her manager Mutley
This story scares me to death, because I think my daughter might be an up and comming Karen. I try desperately to teach her humility, and being kind to others, but just know that Karens create themselves, I think from poor self image, and the thrill of getting what they don't deserve, and not from poor parenting.
You can make her take a psychological evaluation in order to have a professional opinion on the matter. Depending on the age of your daughter, a lack of empathy can be a symptom of many mental disorders
I have met some Karens and Kevins, some of them had done me some harm. Well, all I can say that revenge is sweeter when served cold.
Wow
19 minutes for one single storie?
....
Well It was worth it.
When a toxic narcissist like her always ends up alone, bitter, and hated by everyone in the community. My sister was married to one, and he left her thinking it would destroy her, but it freed her instead. Now, and is happy, successful with tons of friends. While he is alone, broke, and hated by everyone. He lost his job, but he's so toxic, nobody will hire him in his field. So he works two menial minimum wage jobs just to scrape by. He's in not so great health, having survived a heart attack, and needs a third back surgery, and he just turned 55. Even his kids refuse to associate with him, and he has not even seen any of his grandkids since his kids don't want him around them. It's truly sad, but as much hatred he spews to anyone around him, I don't feel sorry for him. He did this to himself.
5 kids? I live in a house with 5 kids and it suuuuuuuucks...
They’re even trying for a 6th.... with 4 teen boys and 1 almost teen girl who all have to share rooms still except for the girl (some of the rooms are so tiny) so i hope that kid #6 doesn’t happen.
As #2 out of 5, I feel your pain kid. My spawn point did it just to remain home, but really I was more of a parent to them than their Karen of a mom.
@@izzyizv_v good on you for sticking by your siblings
"But then i remember they deserve to be miserable"
Damn Rslash coming in with the brutality
I legitimately hope that Hank, whenever he is now, has gotten the needed help for himself and is leading a happy life that he deserves
Pat is the perfect definition of the Garfunkel & Oates song Pregnant Women Are Smug
Only legends know that the first story is repeated.
I had so much money when i was a kid, saving to like a dollar? Then it went missing.
i did too
if i had a paypal i could give you 2 dollar
but i am not old enough
That Karen my god did she get what was coming to her
Dang, why did OP keep that monstrosity in their life all this time? I would have cut ties at the first offense. She's obviously crazy. Worst yet is that she thought her kids to be as crazy as her. If you got people like that around you, just push them away. Don't keep them around, WTF.
19:02 I'd honestly like to meet this woman, so I can tell her the words everyone wants to say "you want everything to revolve around you and your happiness, but the truth is, you're living a fantasy. You lie, you steal, and you hurt the people who love you and they thought that you'd love them too, and the only way you get the attention of everyone, is if you're dead and buried, and the one you hurt the most, Hank will only come back to piss on your grave, to return the kindness you gave him."
Bit rich for OP to call Pat’s husband a doormat.
Technically, nobody "deserves" to be miserable, and actually can often "deserve" our pity instead.
But pity from afar.
Let them marinate in their own misery juice.
Pat says she was trying to raise an "assertive young woman" ... basically saying it will be okay if my daughter grows up to outright steal from people and bully them into silence all the time.
no views but 5 likes as always, nice, and 18 comments too
Also have a nice day
yes
Have a great day my friend
Nobody else like this comment. It’s already beautiful (69 likes)
"She strolled around in her wheelchair"
Tf? 😂
"Pat likes to walk like a penguin when she wants to elicit pity,.."
"I feel sorry him, he's obviously autistic or something"
Oh my God! I knew you were gonna do this prorevenge!! I found it some time ago at it was way too epic. So I've been praying that you'd pick this up. Thank youuu!!
5:11 THROWING ROCKS AT KOI?!!?!?$ how shall we hang them?
Hello fellow clash royale player
They shall suffer the wrath of the rock.
Poor Hank.
Please press F for poor Hank.
The first stories mom is like
Kid:*breaks important thing*
Mom: *GASP* *goes back to playing on phone*
The kids will probably end up in prison somewhere because they never learned how to take 'no' for an answer
I came for the love for Hank in the comments. F to pay respects. That man didn't deserve the abuse and r*** he went through.
Poor Hank. He probably stuck around so long for the kids, not Pat. Hank probably had zero self esteem, so he was an easy target for someone like Pat. I'm glad he finally got the help he desperately needed and divorced the psychopath. I'm so upset that he lost his case, though. Did they allow ANY witnesses? There would be more than enough people that would testify against her. Those 5 kids are gonna grow up to be Karens and I'm terrified of that reality. We don't need more Karens.
Mean, vicious, entitled people: *are mean, vicious and entitled.*
Also them: “WhY DOes No oNE LiKE mE?”
Imagine what the poor hank has to go through every single day. I feel so bad for him😥😥
This "Pat" sounds a lot like my brother's crazy gf, who forced him into getting 6 kids. And she still wanted more.
I know the feeling of being innocent and believing someone who I thought was a friend. When I was elementary school, I led borrow a “friend” something I had and they promised they would return it the next day. Unfortunately I never saw the item I lend them ever again. I am still upset about it to this day
A wild joke appeared
*What you we're expecting a joke?*
_Pasta_
Impasta
DIOOOOOO
@@AsianEgg ahah I expected dio too
To all the Karens that are actually sweet and kind and just minding their own business, thank you for not being like these people
I have never understood having a wedding renewal. Have an awsome anniversary party, sure. But why a 2nd wedding? Unless perhaps the couple had seperated and was getting back together. I guess I could comprehend that. Is that what they are for? Genuinely asking.
I've listened to this story at least fifty times (it's my favorite from Rslash) and I still can't comprehend how someone sadly walks like a penguin.
BRUH IM so pissed at pat and I'm not even half way through the video ugh
Yo rslash! Longtime enjoyer of your content. 1st time commenter....I think. Anywhoo, I really got pulled into the long detailed story on this one. I had so much empathy built up by the time we got to the end, I was that much more satisfied hearing the revenge. Wouldn't mind seeing more full length single story vids. Keep doing your thing man. Love the channel!
Uh, the phrase is "worn them down to a nub" op 8:15
This is one of rslash stories that I keep coming back cuz it's just so satisfyingly good
I love these single long stories episode that you've bein doing more lately! Keep up the good work!
We must support Hank. Hank sounds like a good guy IF pat isn't his wife. Hank supremacy! 🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️
While I do appreciate the long stories and long videos, I prefer the short stories with quick laughs and funnies! Either way, keep it up and keep having fun RSlash!!
Good to see you slowing down on the ads, won't skip them anymore.
At first, I thought the title read “Karen stole my child”
Oof me too
If that would have been me with the grandmother's ring I would have gone ballistic over that. Pat is a piece of work.
what would have been better was to ALMOST unstictch some crucial parts of the dress so that they would give as soon as she hit the aisle. OOOPS.. you pulled a janet jackson, wardrobe malfunction...LOL
It sounds like the whole community is full of jerks. Instead of a group of adult women confronting Pat and giving her a chance to redeem herself, or asking her to leave their community until she can be respectful, they cut out her dress and pretend they don't know what happened. Is OP 10 years old?
The cake would have gone missing swear to God
I somehow read this as you stole my child, I ruined your wedding. I was like not enough revenge.
I would’ve called the cops on the girl with the ring
“I don’t know how she paid for the makeshift chapel”
That’s the neat part, she didn’t.
Hank did.