Met Todd on Lincoln Road Mall in South Beach over the weekend. What a great dude! Was probably the most nervous I’ve been since I did my first ever approach several years ago, lol. Hope he didn’t think I was a complete chode!
I did. But since the Toddfather is a dude and I’m not gay, I didn’t show any intent, lol. It was “man to man,” rather than “man to woman.” I just found it funny that I was more nervous talking to him than I was talking to 9s and 10s in the Fountainbleau.
Yeah man. Those guys must’ve never approached before. You can do a perfect approach and the number still flakes. We gotta remember that good looking girls are being pursued by dozens of guys at any given time (esp with the advent of social media)
The only other piece of advice I would give is, don’t be afraid of the no, especially if you think she wants to say no. ask a question that lets her say no. It seems counterintuitive but it is very powerful.
I want to talk about the lost art of "phone game"... notice I said "phone" not "text"... that's because the phone can make calls, and should be used accordingly. Find out when and how to pick up the phone and get a girl on a date. www.toddvdating.com
Todd PLEASE make a video about instagram . I'm not trying to cause trouble with you and RSD . But they just released a video hyping social media game , mainly INSTAGRAM , AND INSTAGRAM STORIES. AS you are a person I admire and know that you have integrity I beg you to make a video with your opinion on the topic.
Todd what is your opinion on using social media and curating it to keep a funnel a girl's interested in you for a long time instead of texting them periodically
Hey todd i love your content you really helped me alot with success in general here is my question Whats the reason girls stop replying stop texting stop investing?
Absolutely love The System. Created the clarity I needed in the plethora of game "advice" there is out there. Question: How does Premise change after having sex (a number of times), when it is a girl you want to keep around. The "I am not so sure about you, but you are slowly winning me over"-frame does not hold up anymore in this case. Thanks in advance Todd!
Todd, a lot of talk about social media lately. I don't recall you talking about this, what's your opinion on it for game? Many say that it's better to do Instagram close than number close, especially if short interaction, so she can see what cool guy you are through your profile, and she can follow your life through stories and get more comfortable with you that way. If you have a good profile of course.
Flipside of this is you're feeding into the parasitic nature of social media just to get your dick wet. It's a waste of time and plays largely into the female frame. Plus the type of girl who will be all-in on social media may or may not be hot, but there's most likely nothing else of substance there.
What advice can you give when you "push" (verbally) a girl away as a tease, but she does in fact take this as an opportunity to leave the interaction? Apologising after her negative response obviously isn't going to help you any further.
Im not master at game but here is my advice. Get her to react to you emotionally first by teasing/flirting and once you get the vibe that she lokes you then you should push her away so she doesnt actually leave. You propably pushed her away before she liked you.
I love love loveee sending hand written letters, but I have been pretty busy and been traveling a lot lately. Good thing I came across an app where you send a text and they turn it into a pretty letter…. Let me know if you want to know what app I used :)
How do I deal with Amogging? Recently I have struggled a lot with random people jumping into my sets to screw me over. It has gotten to a point were I got amogged by a grandma
@@renegadezen7841 I was at a three set with my wing and everything was going great. We had passed most shit tests, and bambie eyes were appearing. I locked eye contact with my target, and she was very into it. Next thing you know a grandma beggar walks into the set and opens with "He is looking at you like he likes you". Then she keeps going over how I like her asks for money and leaves. The girl just stands up says "I'm not down for that" and leaves. My wing and I left laughing like crazy, but the set just collapsed in the blink of an eye
@@typeg3n135 Your game looks too much like "game". Be more subtle and intimate. You ideally want it to look from outside the set like you're a couple. When someone imposes their frame, there's a lot you can do but unless you're advanced it's best to just focus on the girl and relaxing your body. Ignore him and spike the girl and if you think you have enough social capital and the girl seems really into him, lead her away. Your beggar granny story confirms it. Too thirsty which leads to reactivity once the validation is cut. Structurally I'd say be more playful and aloof. PUSH HER AWAY. Search "disqualification" on the Todd V channel.
@@woofmeow4273 Actually I believe it was that the granny made her feel like a slut. Most of my game is very lighthearted and I don't really do gamey stuff. It consists of passing shittests, making jokes, and just letting my mind be free. So what you point out could be an issue, but I don't believe so
@@typeg3n135 Srangers crash your sets when they know you're not normal people hanging out. You might not notice it but to everyone else it is very obvious because it is sub-communicated. Now for more advanced guys this normally doesn't happen because it's clear that even though someone figures out that it's a cold approach, they know they'd be immediately ignored and humiliated. I'd take this sticking point to heart since it's actually causing you problems. Oh and lift some weights, it helps!
You said you used to try to play perfect game. And sometimes I get in trouble for over gaming a girl because I'm trying to be perfect to increase my odds. So my question is what are your odds of succes as a pro?. How often are you successful at one night stands at bars/clubs vs daygame? I think it's important because we try to get ALL of them, which I'm sure is not possible even for you. Thanks!
Been following a lot of your work recently. I agree getting her on the phone is your best bet, however some women will immediately want to move things to text. Had it happened to me. Took some time to build that personal connection via text, but still ended in 2 great nights & 1 morning. Have two controversial questions for ya. What's your take on married women & women that have kids? Move on, or worth pursuing?
Little offtopic, but I'm curious how "Women" looks compared to "The System". I mean is it outdated compared to the new product, and due to you leaving rsd, having more freedom in speaking ideas?
It is a female psychology in Todd's experience. Not the whole picture. Just a niche for advanced guys to progress. That is what Todd said in AMA on Reddit.
Ive read an article on your site and I do not fully grasp the concept. It is about objections.In a lot of cold approaches I do, the girl will say this line: "I don’t know you that well yet." This is an objection and you state that one should solve this emotionally. What does this mean? Can anyone help out with an example. Sorry for the weird word sentence structure, English aint my first language.
I have a question: You recommend, that if a girl doesn't text you back, you should throw some small content into the conversation, that doesn't require an answer, like something you would post in Facebook, but ideally with something, that relates to your prior conversations with that girl. If she does't answer to this as well, how long should I wait, until I try that again and throw in some other/different content? How often can I repeat that, before it appears needy or creepy?
Soft close: lead in gradually, It's not that bad talking to you, maybe we'll meet up sometimes, what's your plans this week. Let's get to this area after work and follow up with a location
I'm afraid of creeping girls out, and being the creepy guy. One of my biggest issue in game, is not expressing sexual interest. I always expect the girls to be creeped out. As someone who deals with social anxiety, negative reactions from people especially women frighten me. It means I'm doing something wrong, so I end up losing confidence. Any advice?
Know your pain, bro. It's hard to give solid method to bypass it, my only solution for that problem was therapy through hypnosis with good therapist. Now this shit is gone, and, i hope, will never show up again. You can try to reframe, but, for my expirience, it doesnt work for long. Sorry for misspelling, not native. Peace
I think we all had this problem, that's why we're always walking on broken glass whenever we're talking with women. All I can advice is, talk to her like you're talking with a homie. When you talk with your guy friends, it will always turn into something dirty. The difference is, it was just a natural flow of the convo. If you want to sexualize a convo with a girl, they must be comfortable with you first. When they are, you won't look like a creep, because they know you're simply just fooling around. Never force or start it with blatant sex stuff. I think most of the sexual convos I have with women is through misinterpretation. I never got a bad reaction from it, because I just simply jokingly misinterpreted what they were saying. Not all girls will be tagging along with it, some girls will say "out of all everything that comes out your head...." And never forget touching them. They enjoy it. Lastly, if you think you're creeping girls out, then most likely you will really creep them out.
Ask them out on a date. That implies sexual/romantic interest then when on the date you have to escalate by seeing how comfortable she is with normal touching like a hug when you see her etc
Todd, what do you do when there are women that you want to stop seeing, but they are still interested? How do you manage the obsessives, or do you somehow evoke a self-responsibility in women that they can deal with not seeing you?
Hey Todd, great content as always! Question: if a girl didn’t respond to your text (after what seemed like a good conversation), how do you know when to re-engage her or when to quit and just delete her contact? Thanks!
Hi Todd! Love your channel! How about a really hard topic: I already got together with a girl, she got rid of her boyfriend because of me, but after 2 months she told me she needs time to get over him (been together for 1.5 years), so she ended the relationship and just stays alone. I would like to know your opinion, how can I get her back? Is there a chance? Or this just won't work? Thanks, Steve
Nice vid. I noticed something for a wile: a lot of guys just go for 9s and 10s. But there re so mane 8s and 7s that are so fun and interesting thet you even star seeing her as a 10 mid game lol. What I'm trying to say is: give those girls a chance sometimes. Some of the best sex I had in life (even the top 1) was with girls that weren't the best looking ones.
Question, what to do, if a girl that you cold approached giving you resistance but still she is investing and trying to keep the conversation going. By resistance I mean she’s not down for an instant date and even giving you shit when you try to number close.
Sup Todd, my problem is text game. When i get the number or social media handle im not exactly sure what do next. i try to implement the tech quines used for in person interactions but as we all know talking on text doesn't come off as nice as if was in person. Is there a way to make a girl chase over text or should texting just be strictly for setting up dates. Same goes for online dating how does one build attraction with high value girls over text from the start or is my mentally wrong and need to be patient and take my time with the girl over text, to eventually get them off the site > get their number >phone call > date..?
@AskToddV Hey man, Very interested in your stuff. Have you by any chance heard of the idea of information rich communication? The idea represents what you were talking about in the first 30 seconds of this video when you said that you can communicate more effectively over the phone than you can over text.
how do you approach women on social media? i cold approached (DM'd) a woman over social media, i contacted her back and forth for 5-6 days. Not all day but throughtout the day when i had time. Just to build that report and set up premise and impliment the man to woman connection. After all of that i asked her when she was available to meet up next week and she told me " im a really busy person and don thave free time till mid august. . Dont take this the wrong way though even my friends make fun of me for trying to get into my schedule." I proceeded to say "ok great, well let me know when youa are available and more free and we can possibly set something up then. " She responded "for sure" and proceeded to continuing conversating with me. I was confused. i messed back and forth 4 times more over the span of about 8 hours and then i closed the convo by saying "hey was great chatting. Would be great to see you so when you free up let me know and maybe i can plan something with you then. keep in touch. " and she responded with "for sure great talking to you" So what do you guys think of this? i know that if a wouldnt have ended the convo wed probably STILL be messaging back and forth. i dont got that kind of time. fuck that. Was she interested? just an attention whore? Should i hold out and wait for her to come to me? Not really sure what to think about this interaction. the fact that she stayed messagin me throws me off.
Long story short, I was with a girl today and I could have had sex with absolutely no risk of getting rejected. She was as direct as directly saying "I want to have sex" and I still was unable to do it, I mumbled something along the lines of "I cant relax" and it didnt happen. There was absolutely no risk of getting rejected, I could have done whatever I wanted with her, but I didnt do it?! Even if I go out and it just so happens that I go home with a girl, I am afraid that the same thing will happen, I just cant "take what I want" even when its at my hands with no risk. Why is that happening? I feel very indecisive, probably even afraid, but of what?!
Stop forcing attraction that doesn't exist and move on. If she found you slightly hot she would've answered you, regardless of what you say. Not every women likes you, deal with it.
How does one pass compliance tests (if you don't want to say no)? I understand how to tease back when being teased (congruence tests), but I struggle to understand how to hold my frame when a girl asks for something, especially when there's no real reason or desire to say no. I have heard that "only if you will..." tends to work as a response, but is it better to meet your end of that deal or keep things spontaneous? On a similar note, is it ok to comply after teasing the request followed by "I'm kidding" or is it best to just not meet it? If a girl with no attraction to you asks for a favor and you treat it as a compliance test (even though it probably isn't), will she become more attracted to you?
All comes down to whether you think the request is unreasonable or it conveys that she is obviously trying to DHV. There's a lot of simple factors, you could look at like the overall vibe of the situation, do you like her for something deeper than just appearance and she knows that and that would support you being nice to her. Also for your inner game, the concept of the value of your time, you are important person, you value deep convos, fun and your interests etc. I'm assuming you want the best for people yet, because of your importance (which is really the case) you only let certain girls come into your life romantically that meet your standards of decency, respect and value and traits that you favor. Yeah tease, and don't oversell being sarcastic or reluctant to do the request because then it makes obvious that your just trying to hard. "Fine, I'll buy you drink, but you barely deserve it." That's a general example of a bad push haha. Women are smart socially. Honestly if it's not a huge request that really has any actual effort and sacrifice according to your preference, then it shouldn't even matter. You would just be teasing naturally and then saying yes naturally.
Heya Todd, I am recently wondering if it is a good idea to ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. Based on the idea that I am not gonna game a girl who does, should I ask a girl on that explicitly or is it better not to? Much obliged.
You want to disqualify youself. Every girl has "boyfriend". She may sleep with him, she may not, but having a boyfriend is important for her social status. Ask youself a question: why you want to throw away a good girl for premise of "keeping morals". Is being moraly right for you more important than being succesful with women?
I do not know what you did or what I did. I did not see the red thing when your video came out. Do you mind asking around? Anyone in the comment is welcomed to respond.
Hey Todd. I had a girl that I was gonna meet up with from tinder. She cancelled on me twice. She said she was sick so I asked if she ate too many pancakes ya fatty? She cancelled on me twice so I was done with her. So should I have been done with her or was that some test?
Build up your value by Making statements, not asking her questions. Be nonchalant. Be entitled. She needs to know that hanging out with you is a win for her. She's replying to you which is a good step towards landing a date. All what You need to do is make some minor adjustments in your game. You got this
I wish I was see this Video before 6 months , I met beautiful famous girl , she ask my number , and I give her my Instagram account, then she didn’t follow me back until now ! Yes , I know I’m stupid
I am good in game but it's work sometime but sometimes it's won't in long term it's sucks for long term relationship, because you can't hold for long as you play in and out all the time as she had been bad through relationship she don't want to another player so I bracketed her and started bumbarding her with this and that but she don't want that she what to escalate her emotions and if you only play high status you never build a emotional connection it's not fucking more girl its about owning them for lifetime at your will sometimes everything works from being child to gentleman to bad boy. every frame have it's own dynamic I want you to tech me more brain washing kind stuff. And add long term game mid term game game with an agenda like you want to make you do something for you that's what I am talking about. You are good but I want Todd to be best
what if the girl replies, "I don't live in __state_____ anymore." I feel like that's a shit test./lies I want to tell her … ohh so you live in the moon now. by the way never met her in person just has mutal friends on her fb
Beside all that pick up think, It's obvious that you're very smart.
thanks bro
Met Todd on Lincoln Road Mall in South Beach over the weekend. What a great dude! Was probably the most nervous I’ve been since I did my first ever approach several years ago, lol. Hope he didn’t think I was a complete chode!
So you tried to cold approach todd??
@@cybertu7114 Don't ever go fishing to catch a fisherman..lol
I did. But since the Toddfather is a dude and I’m not gay, I didn’t show any intent, lol. It was “man to man,” rather than “man to woman.” I just found it funny that I was more nervous talking to him than I was talking to 9s and 10s in the Fountainbleau.
@@SuperSymbiote1 true that
@@Frederick0220 u are bound to get nervous after all he is the goat
Calling is a game changer. Thanks for teaching us how to use it properly, Todd. #ToddTheGod
Thanks for keeping it real about the ratio of success you can expect Todd. I think most pickup coaches are just full of it in that regard.
Todd thanks for keeping it real, by saying you have a 50% text to date ratio
It’s funny cuz he’s not kidding. That’s actually extremely high.
@@Frederick0220 Right but some people think he has a %100 ratio
Yeah man. Those guys must’ve never approached before. You can do a perfect approach and the number still flakes. We gotta remember that good looking girls are being pursued by dozens of guys at any given time (esp with the advent of social media)
The only other piece of advice I would give is, don’t be afraid of the no, especially if you think she wants to say no. ask a question that lets her say no. It seems counterintuitive but it is very powerful.
I want to talk about the lost art of "phone game"... notice I said "phone" not "text"... that's because the phone can make calls, and should be used accordingly. Find out when and how to pick up the phone and get a girl on a date. www.toddvdating.com
Sir Todd, really amazing solid info. Thank so much for your time and effort to make this vid. 😎👍
This is exactly what needed to be clarified.
Another great video Todd.
I have leveled up thanks to this channel.
Todd PLEASE make a video about instagram . I'm not trying to cause trouble with you and RSD . But they just released a video hyping social media game , mainly INSTAGRAM , AND INSTAGRAM STORIES. AS you are a person I admire and know that you have integrity I beg you to make a video with your opinion on the topic.
Holy shit, this is the phone game video I needed.
Todd V is a scientific wrestler.
Can you make a video about vibing / maintain a good vibe in the conversation
Yea, I suck at text game. Good to hear many others do too 😅
Hey Todd can you do a video on this question: "In this age of me-too what is the best way to ask out a girl at your workplace"
Yes always have back up stories or questions to get The conversation starting. But only as last resort.
Todd what is your opinion on using social media and curating it to keep a funnel a girl's interested in you for a long time instead of texting them periodically
Hey todd i love your content you really helped me alot with success in general here is my question
Whats the reason girls stop replying stop texting stop investing?
Its simple .They got bored of you .
@@svetlinsofiev6729 Or they found another guy
Bro dropped so much fire 🔥
Absolutely love The System. Created the clarity I needed in the plethora of game "advice" there is out there. Question: How does Premise change after having sex (a number of times), when it is a girl you want to keep around. The "I am not so sure about you, but you are slowly winning me over"-frame does not hold up anymore in this case. Thanks in advance Todd!
Todd, a lot of talk about social media lately. I don't recall you talking about this, what's your opinion on it for game? Many say that it's better to do Instagram close than number close, especially if short interaction, so she can see what cool guy you are through your profile, and she can follow your life through stories and get more comfortable with you that way. If you have a good profile of course.
EXACTLY DUDE . I TRUST TODD AND I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR HIS OPINION ON THE TOPIC. I KNOW RSD IS OVER HYPING THIS , SO THEY CAN SELL A PRODUCT LATER.
Flipside of this is you're feeding into the parasitic nature of social media just to get your dick wet. It's a waste of time and plays largely into the female frame. Plus the type of girl who will be all-in on social media may or may not be hot, but there's most likely nothing else of substance there.
Agreed. Social media is a waste of time and just feeds into her frame
Also the sheer amount of penis' in a hot girls insta dm's is astronomical and your message is very well going to get lost in the dm abyss.
Pedro Melo defo agree with that
What advice can you give when you "push" (verbally) a girl away as a tease, but she does in fact take this as an opportunity to leave the interaction?
Apologising after her negative response obviously isn't going to help you any further.
Im not master at game but here is my advice. Get her to react to you emotionally first by teasing/flirting and once you get the vibe that she lokes you then you should push her away so she doesnt actually leave. You propably pushed her away before she liked you.
Dude, just push pull
Todd can you make a video for approaching girls in your high school
I love love loveee sending hand written letters, but I have been pretty busy and been traveling a lot lately. Good thing I came across an app where you send a text and they turn it into a pretty letter…. Let me know if you want to know what app I used :)
How do I deal with Amogging? Recently I have struggled a lot with random people jumping into my sets to screw me over. It has gotten to a point were I got amogged by a grandma
Haha wow i am curious where a grandma rolled in at where were u?
@@renegadezen7841 I was at a three set with my wing and everything was going great. We had passed most shit tests, and bambie eyes were appearing. I locked eye contact with my target, and she was very into it. Next thing you know a grandma beggar walks into the set and opens with "He is looking at you like he likes you". Then she keeps going over how I like her asks for money and leaves. The girl just stands up says "I'm not down for that" and leaves. My wing and I left laughing like crazy, but the set just collapsed in the blink of an eye
@@typeg3n135 Your game looks too much like "game". Be more subtle and intimate. You ideally want it to look from outside the set like you're a couple. When someone imposes their frame, there's a lot you can do but unless you're advanced it's best to just focus on the girl and relaxing your body. Ignore him and spike the girl and if you think you have enough social capital and the girl seems really into him, lead her away.
Your beggar granny story confirms it. Too thirsty which leads to reactivity once the validation is cut. Structurally I'd say be more playful and aloof. PUSH HER AWAY. Search "disqualification" on the Todd V channel.
@@woofmeow4273 Actually I believe it was that the granny made her feel like a slut. Most of my game is very lighthearted and I don't really do gamey stuff. It consists of passing shittests, making jokes, and just letting my mind be free. So what you point out could be an issue, but I don't believe so
@@typeg3n135 Srangers crash your sets when they know you're not normal people hanging out. You might not notice it but to everyone else it is very obvious because it is sub-communicated. Now for more advanced guys this normally doesn't happen because it's clear that even though someone figures out that it's a cold approach, they know they'd be immediately ignored and humiliated. I'd take this sticking point to heart since it's actually causing you problems. Oh and lift some weights, it helps!
You said you used to try to play perfect game. And sometimes I get in trouble for over gaming a girl because I'm trying to be perfect to increase my odds. So my question is what are your odds of succes as a pro?. How often are you successful at one night stands at bars/clubs vs daygame? I think it's important because we try to get ALL of them, which I'm sure is not possible even for you. Thanks!
Todd what is the best way to build a social circle?
Been following a lot of your work recently. I agree getting her on the phone is your best bet, however some women will immediately want to move things to text. Had it happened to me. Took some time to build that personal connection via text, but still ended in 2 great nights & 1 morning.
Have two controversial questions for ya. What's your take on married women & women that have kids? Move on, or worth pursuing?
Little offtopic, but I'm curious how "Women" looks compared to "The System". I mean is it outdated compared to the new product, and due to you leaving rsd, having more freedom in speaking ideas?
It is a female psychology in Todd's experience. Not the whole picture. Just a niche for advanced guys to progress. That is what Todd said in AMA on Reddit.
Ive read an article on your site and I do not fully grasp the concept. It is about objections.In a lot of cold approaches I do, the girl will say this line: "I don’t know you that well yet." This is an objection and you state that one should solve this emotionally. What does this mean? Can anyone help out with an example. Sorry for the weird word sentence structure, English aint my first language.
I'm applying this now and I have to say... Todd is the fuckin G.O.A.T!!
I have a question: You recommend, that if a girl doesn't text you back, you should throw some small content into the conversation, that doesn't require an answer, like something you would post in Facebook, but ideally with something, that relates to your prior conversations with that girl. If she does't answer to this as well, how long should I wait, until I try that again and throw in some other/different content? How often can I repeat that, before it appears needy or creepy?
Soft close: lead in gradually, It's not that bad talking to you, maybe we'll meet up sometimes, what's your plans this week. Let's get to this area after work and follow up with a location
I'm afraid of creeping girls out, and being the creepy guy.
One of my biggest issue in game, is not expressing sexual interest. I always expect the girls to be creeped out. As someone who deals with social anxiety, negative reactions from people especially women frighten me. It means I'm doing something wrong, so I end up losing confidence. Any advice?
Know your pain, bro. It's hard to give solid method to bypass it, my only solution for that problem was therapy through hypnosis with good therapist. Now this shit is gone, and, i hope, will never show up again.
You can try to reframe, but, for my expirience, it doesnt work for long.
Sorry for misspelling, not native. Peace
I think we all had this problem, that's why we're always walking on broken glass whenever we're talking with women. All I can advice is, talk to her like you're talking with a homie. When you talk with your guy friends, it will always turn into something dirty. The difference is, it was just a natural flow of the convo. If you want to sexualize a convo with a girl, they must be comfortable with you first. When they are, you won't look like a creep, because they know you're simply just fooling around. Never force or start it with blatant sex stuff. I think most of the sexual convos I have with women is through misinterpretation. I never got a bad reaction from it, because I just simply jokingly misinterpreted what they were saying. Not all girls will be tagging along with it, some girls will say "out of all everything that comes out your head...." And never forget touching them. They enjoy it. Lastly, if you think you're creeping girls out, then most likely you will really creep them out.
Ask them out on a date. That implies sexual/romantic interest then when on the date you have to escalate by seeing how comfortable she is with normal touching like a hug when you see her etc
Hey todd, who to pick a girl from gym...
How much does 90-day online coaching cost with Todd V ??
How do you get hold of todd?
How do you text game a girl that is overseas and you have no chance of seeing her anytime soon?
what is the best narrative/ premise to establish for a one night stand?
How would you open girls waiting at the bar in a pub? Would you try to do something involving their drink order/drinking with them not?
I'm 27 and have zero social media. I dont do dating apps either. Does not having social media impact negatively?
Everything is what you make of it.
I'm in the same boat, but I'm in my 30's. Just work on your cold approach game. That's all I do.
Would you ( or have you) do a video like this but opposite age . young men attracting older women?
Todd, what do you do when there are women that you want to stop seeing, but they are still interested? How do you manage the obsessives, or do you somehow evoke a self-responsibility in women that they can deal with not seeing you?
Hey Todd, great content as always!
Question: if a girl didn’t respond to your text (after what seemed like a good conversation), how do you know when to re-engage her or when to quit and just delete her contact?
Thanks!
Try with a joke like ' oh so ur giving me the silent treatment, okay girl okay'
Hi Todd!
Love your channel!
How about a really hard topic:
I already got together with a girl, she got rid of her boyfriend because of me, but after 2 months she told me she needs time to get over him (been together for 1.5 years), so she ended the relationship and just stays alone.
I would like to know your opinion, how can I get her back? Is there a chance? Or this just won't work?
Thanks,
Steve
Oh baszki, szerintem hagyd hogy visszajojjon, ne keresd
Nice vid. I noticed something for a wile: a lot of guys just go for 9s and 10s. But there re so mane 8s and 7s that are so fun and interesting thet you even star seeing her as a 10 mid game lol.
What I'm trying to say is: give those girls a chance sometimes. Some of the best sex I had in life (even the top 1) was with girls that weren't the best looking ones.
Hey Todd, what about video calls to girls? Would you recommend it?
Question, what to do, if a girl that you cold approached giving you resistance but still she is investing and trying to keep the conversation going. By resistance I mean she’s not down for an instant date and even giving you shit when you try to number close.
Unconsistancy in game. How do you fix it? Including state, flow etc..
@asktoddv when do you transition from tinder/bumble to the number? (Like how many messages in average, with what reason etc.)
Are you a morning person or nightowl please reply me bro
Sup Todd, my problem is text game. When i get the number or social media handle im not exactly sure what do next. i try to implement the tech quines used for in person interactions but as we all know talking on text doesn't come off as nice as if was in person. Is there a way to make a girl chase over text or should texting just be strictly for setting up dates. Same goes for online dating how does one build attraction with high value girls over text from the start or is my mentally wrong and need to be patient and take my time with the girl over text, to eventually get them off the site > get their number >phone call > date..?
Hey Todd I have a question, how is gaming an 8 different from gaming a 10?
@AskToddV
Hey man, Very interested in your stuff. Have you by any chance
heard of the idea of information rich communication?
The idea represents what you were talking about in the first 30 seconds of this video when you said that you can communicate more effectively over the phone than you can over text.
how do you approach women on social media? i cold approached (DM'd) a woman over social media, i contacted her back and forth for 5-6 days. Not all day but throughtout the day when i had time. Just to build that report and set up premise and impliment the man to woman connection. After all of that i asked her when she was available to meet up next week and she told me " im a really busy person and don thave free time till mid august. . Dont take this the wrong way though even my friends make fun of me for trying to get into my schedule." I proceeded to say "ok great, well let me know when youa are available and more free and we can possibly set something up then. " She responded "for sure" and proceeded to continuing conversating with me. I was confused. i messed back and forth 4 times more over the span of about 8 hours and then i closed the convo by saying "hey was great chatting. Would be great to see you so when you free up let me know and maybe i can plan something with you then. keep in touch. " and she responded with "for sure great talking to you"
So what do you guys think of this? i know that if a wouldnt have ended the convo wed probably STILL be messaging back and forth. i dont got that kind of time. fuck that. Was she interested? just an attention whore? Should i hold out and wait for her to come to me? Not really sure what to think about this interaction. the fact that she stayed messagin me throws me off.
Long story short, I was with a girl today and I could have had sex with absolutely no risk of getting rejected. She was as direct as directly saying "I want to have sex" and I still was unable to do it, I mumbled something along the lines of "I cant relax" and it didnt happen. There was absolutely no risk of getting rejected, I could have done whatever I wanted with her, but I didnt do it?! Even if I go out and it just so happens that I go home with a girl, I am afraid that the same thing will happen, I just cant "take what I want" even when its at my hands with no risk. Why is that happening? I feel very indecisive, probably even afraid, but of what?!
I relate to this hard lol
Sex before a relationship is a bad thing. Chill out bro and get to know her first, say that and she will be more comfortable.
What to do when hot girls in online dating like tinder are not responding a lot even if you set some right moves?
Stop forcing attraction that doesn't exist and move on. If she found you slightly hot she would've answered you, regardless of what you say. Not every women likes you, deal with it.
How does one pass compliance tests (if you don't want to say no)? I understand how to tease back when being teased (congruence tests), but I struggle to understand how to hold my frame when a girl asks for something, especially when there's no real reason or desire to say no. I have heard that "only if you will..." tends to work as a response, but is it better to meet your end of that deal or keep things spontaneous? On a similar note, is it ok to comply after teasing the request followed by "I'm kidding" or is it best to just not meet it? If a girl with no attraction to you asks for a favor and you treat it as a compliance test (even though it probably isn't), will she become more attracted to you?
All comes down to whether you think the request is unreasonable or it conveys that she is obviously trying to DHV. There's a lot of simple factors, you could look at like the overall vibe of the situation, do you like her for something deeper than just appearance and she knows that and that would support you being nice to her. Also for your inner game, the concept of the value of your time, you are important person, you value deep convos, fun and your interests etc. I'm assuming you want the best for people yet, because of your importance (which is really the case) you only let certain girls come into your life romantically that meet your standards of decency, respect and value and traits that you favor.
Yeah tease, and don't oversell being sarcastic or reluctant to do the request because then it makes obvious that your just trying to hard. "Fine, I'll buy you drink, but you barely deserve it." That's a general example of a bad push haha. Women are smart socially. Honestly if it's not a huge request that really has any actual effort and sacrifice according to your preference, then it shouldn't even matter. You would just be teasing naturally and then saying yes naturally.
This is great information for good men. Unscolistted boadcasting advice? talk a bit slower and less "likes" Amazing insight and handsome to boot.
Heya Todd, I am recently wondering if it is a good idea to ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. Based on the idea that I am not gonna game a girl who does, should I ask a girl on that explicitly or is it better not to? Much obliged.
You want to disqualify youself. Every girl has "boyfriend". She may sleep with him, she may not, but having a boyfriend is important for her social status.
Ask youself a question: why you want to throw away a good girl for premise of "keeping morals". Is being moraly right for you more important than being succesful with women?
I do not know what you did or what I did. I did not see the red thing when your video came out. Do you mind asking around? Anyone in the comment is welcomed to respond.
Hey Todd. I had a girl that I was gonna meet up with from tinder. She cancelled on me twice. She said she was sick so I asked if she ate too many pancakes ya fatty? She cancelled on me twice so I was done with her. So should I have been done with her or was that some test?
Build up your value by Making statements, not asking her questions. Be nonchalant. Be entitled. She needs to know that hanging out with you is a win for her. She's replying to you which is a good step towards landing a date. All what You need to do is make some minor adjustments in your game. You got this
After seeing him on penguin I can't stop laughing watching his videos
I wish I was see this Video before 6 months ,
I met beautiful famous girl , she ask my number , and I give her my Instagram account, then she didn’t follow me back until now !
Yes , I know I’m stupid
Todd I fucking love you
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0/7 phone number to day2 haha ima really bad at it
fuck this shit was solid
I am good in game but it's work sometime but sometimes it's won't in long term it's sucks for long term relationship, because you can't hold for long as you play in and out all the time as she had been bad through relationship she don't want to another player so I bracketed her and started bumbarding her with this and that but she don't want that she what to escalate her emotions and if you only play high status you never build a emotional connection it's not fucking more girl its about owning them for lifetime at your will sometimes everything works from being child to gentleman to bad boy. every frame have it's own dynamic
I want you to tech me more brain washing kind stuff. And add long term game mid term game game with an agenda like you want to make you do something for you that's what I am talking about.
You are good but I want Todd to be best
What to say to get her emotionally addicted to you
todd can u please do a video on how to blast through hot girl blazy
*I don't agree with all you said bro on this matter but overall it's a good video topic!*
would be helpful if you can specify which points you disagree with.
What's with the bold?
The Real World: Todd haha
The question is, wtf is up with Todd's eyes in this video
Best shit ever
Fucking GOLD!!
looks like he hasnt slept 5 days in a row
damn it the mistakes im noticing in me!!!!
what if the girl replies, "I don't live in __state_____ anymore." I feel like that's a shit test./lies I want to tell her … ohh so you live in the moon now.
by the way never met her in person just has mutal friends on her fb
Sounds like a rejection
@@KalemStLouis actually rejections dont exist. I figured that it was just the wrong approach thats all hahaha
Dating in college
How to get girl that are younger like 18-24
have money
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