Mourning is a painful and long process.My dad passed away 10 years ago and I found this saying that is conforting: " When we lose someone we love,we must learn not to live without them but to live with the love they left behind"
I heard Valerie Bertinelli say something like “how beautiful to have loved someone so much that you grieve them.” I lost my mom over 37 years ago and still have a hard time some days. But, I talk to hear, feel her presence and think about her everyday. Regarding your room, I wonder if your clothes rack will fit in the elevator? Of course if it is not being used, and making sure it doesn’t shift around while moving up and down. It will give you that extra space it’s occupying now. You can fill the rack with what you will be showing on your video and then send it down. That is, if the rack isn’t already on the spot the elevator comes up on. No space is really saved then. Unless you put something there that can be easily moved when you need the elevator with the clothes rack in it. Just a thought.
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. We do not talk about it enough. I lost my mom in 2019 and we got a break until 2021 when we lost 9 others through this year, the most recent being my husband a month ago. He was only 70 years old. Both of my parents were 92. We were just getting to the point of enjoying our later years and then cancer strikes. You are so right about being a caregiver. Hospice was helpful but I was doing everything 24/7. It was exhausting but I’d do it forever if only he were here. I wish you and your family a smooth transition to the Philadelphia area and may you blessed with many new memories in your family home while savoring your past memories. Cool elevator. Just so you’ll know, I still miss your knitting videos! They were awesome!😉😉
No matter how long we've had our parents with us, losing them is a cosmic shift in life role/stage. Adjusting to their absence in your life is terribly hard. My sympathies. I lost my 90 year old parents, one with Alzheimers, within 10 days of each other. It took a long time (and some days, just like it was yesterday) to adjust to a world without them in it. My deepest sympathies. Thanks for bringing it forward and helping others.
You’re right-we don’t talk about taking care of aging parents enough. I am so glad you are. I completely understand why you’re taking a breath for yourself. Sending you positive thoughts. ❤
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. 4 years ago I was in similar circumstances and my father was sick and I left my comfort home in Atlanta to care for him. May God continue to comfort and keep you ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤🌺🌺🌺
My condolences, I’m so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away last year, and my mom is now in memory care, so I understand. There’s no roadmap for this part of the journey. Praying peace and comfort to you and your family 🙏🙏
Wow Nancy. You lost your father at the same time that I lost my mother. She was 88 and it was sudden. She had a cold, that's all she thought it was. Turns out it was RSV. She was gone within a week. She died on March 9. It's been horrible. I miss her so much. I hope you are doing much better. Newport Beach to PA?? What a transition. Not only dealing with the death of your father but the change of leaving CA too.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is a journey, and when you think you're doing fine, something will take you back to missing them and wishing they were nearby to talk to. This move has been surprisingly cathartic. In fact, being in my parents' home has brought me very close to them. I'm out in my mother's garden talking to her about what she wants me to do with it or admiring my dad's woodworking skills inside the home. I've been taking one day at a time and trying to honor them by turning their house into a home my family will enjoy. I hope the best for you during your grieving process. 🥰
So sorry for your loss, Nancy. I went through this 19 years ago with my Dad and 26 years ago with my Mom. I totally understand what you are going through. Take the time you need. You are the only one that can determine that. We will always be here for you.
Nancy, I have been where you are in life and you are so right, no one prepares you. I lost my parents 6 months apart. I am an only child so finding out that my dad's caregiver, after my mother was gone , was trying to get his house and bank accounts, I did so much scrambling, you can't imagine. I had my dad in my home for 3 months because there were no available places to handle his dementia. He finally got a place, and 3 days later he passed. God bless you and your family. It will get easier.
So sorry for you loss, Nancy how fortunate you were to be there on his last day. I was the caregiver for my sister with stage four lung cancer.it was very hard but it was also a privilege. Peace be with you.
When your videos didn't arrive, I thought something big must have happened. I am so sorry. Grief is a terrible thing... it washes over one and then you think you're ok, but then the next wave comes. Both my darling parents have gone and I miss them. No doubt your Mum and Dad would be so pleased that you're in the house. Very special. Hugs.
Thank you for sharing this personal, vulnerable side. You have the double whammy of going through your parents belongings AND making a family home into your own space. You’ve started with the easiest tool: a coat of paint. I hope you find joy in the process. I’m particularly looking forward to videos of how you change out your wardrobe seasonally. Now that you’ll also have more actual seasons 😊
My husband and I have lost all of our parents for several years now, so I can sympathize with what you are going through. It is a blessing to be able to spend time with your loved ones. Take care of yourself now.
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in 2018 to pancreatic cancer. My mom passed in 2020. We were able to have them both home through their illnesses and when they passed. My husband and I bought their home. I have done the cleaning out and it is a process.
I’m so glad you addressing this I’m on a similar situation with my husband he is quite ill, he had a stroke and many of other issues that came along while he was in the hospital in a coma, I’m now his full time caregiver they don’t know how long he will be with us and our children still live at home but we are exhausted and stressed, much love to you for sharing your story, and helping us know we are not alone thank you And I’m so sorry for your loss.❤
Nancy, such heartfelt, beautiful words….. so many of us in our age group become caregivers…. and, yes, even in the hospital / assisted living and especially home care, WE are the caregivers. So much deeper I could go but your post is so relatable. How fortunate your dad was to have all of you and to be able to spend his last days at home.
Nancy, I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in January and I was able to spend his last days with him. I feel so blessed to have this time. Loss is exhausting. Please make time for you and your self care. Hugs to you.
I am so sorry for your loss. I took care of my Mother the last 14 1/2 yrs of her life. She refused to go to a nursing home or outside help. I got no help from my siblings. She lived until she was almost 100. And I am also the caregiver of my daughter who is a 2 stroke survivor (both in the same day) Both living/lived with me. I lost my husband over it. He couldn't deal with it but I had no choice. My life has changed in a split second but trust God is taking care of me. You can do this!! We are much stronger than we think when we are given no choice in certain things. There will be an adjustment but just stop, breathe and bloom where you are planted. Embrace your semi new surroundings. Your outlook is great. Keep it positive. That is the key. ❤
Sending love you during this time of profound loss. I lost my father and was his caretaker/ hospice assisting me. It is hard. You have taken on a huge lifestyle change as well. This is wonderful but it is alot. I have missed you. Prayers ❤ peace and blessings to you and yours.
I’m so sorry for your loss . I just lost my dad too. It’s so hard. Take your time getting back to work. I look forward to future videos from you. The house looks amazing.
Dear Nancy, I'm deeply sorry to hear about your dad. Take the time you need to mourn and heal. It's wonderful that you've found the strength to immerse yourself in this new project. Your new studio looks amazing, and I'm confident that your videos will reflect your newfound creativity. Please take care, and my warmest wishes are with you. P.S. I've also lost both my parents, so I understand what you're going through.
It really is difficult to lose a parent and I found a real sense of being orphaned when both parents passed. It’s real but what a gift to have been with your parents in their final hours. So sorry for your loss thanks for talking about the subject. It is necessary.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Your video is touching and so true. My husband of 53 years died in 2021 at home hospice. Your comments hit home. It was awful seeing my husband deteriorate. My heart broke💔. As you mentioned, YOU are the caregiver, and it is exhausting physically, but mostly emotionally. Sometimes life is really hard, but we must go on.🤗❤️
Thank you for your kind words, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. Carrying on in a home my parents loved and cared for has brought me so much peace and encouraged me to move on. 🥰 Wishing you peace as well.
You are so right that we need to talk. It does ease the burden for everyone. My mum said 'I am going to die.' People couldn't believe, some appalled, my reply was 'I know mum.' I felt it was the way to be, open and truthful. We then talked and talked. I feel for you as I lost both my parents in fourteen weeks. Look after yourself and 'do' TH-cam whenever you feel ready.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father. I'm so glad for you that you're with family and undertaking this happy move. xoxo
Hard times. One thing we can rely on in life is change even when it's a change we didn't want. I think it's great that you've decided to keep the childhood home and making it yours. And even though going through your parents' things deciding what to keep and what to donate is an ordeal, it is also a catharsis and part of the grieving process. In my experience you never get over the loss of people you truly loved. You just come to a place of acceptance. Best wishes to you and your family in this difficult time.
Do you have room in your family home for a puzzle room? I know you love puzzles! 🧩 Your parents raised an amazing daughter, Nancy, and I can tell how much you love them. What a beautiful story. ❤
Awe bless you So happy that your family house brings more joy with the on going memories of your dad! So happy you had time to be there for him. And yay we are looking forward to 4 seasons wardrobe fresh ideas from you! Looking to the future. And God Bless your husband!
I’m so sorry for your loss … I think living in your parents home will bring you much comfort …. Thank you for sharing about hospice …my husband has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer so this is in my future … I’m very stressed with how this will all go . I’m glad I found your channel…I’m looking forward to your videos.
You are so right-being in my parents' home has brought me so much comfort, especially when I'm out in my mother's gardens, ripping out weeds and returning the garden to its former beauty. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Take one day at a time, don't forget to breathe, take some time for yourself, and remember that you are stronger than you think! Hugs 🥰
My deepest condolences. Losing a loved one is heartbreaking. We lost my children's day 16 months ago today. It was sudden; a heart attack. Saying goodbye wasn't possible. Grief takes a toll...I'm so sorry for your loss. Letting go of all the possessions is a huge task. That house has closure and a new beginning. Xoxo😘
It's lovely to see you again Nancy...although so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. A very sad time for you and your family...its very good of you to share your story and feelings with others , because you're right -- we don't talk enough of these difficult periods of our lives..thank you. Xx
I'm so sorry about your dad. I too have an aging parent with pancreatic cancer. And caregiving is a MAJOR responsibility. Even with care professionals. The care taker sacrifices so much. Praying for you and your family.
Nancy, so sorry for your loss. Losing anyone you love and care about is difficult, especially parents and family members. I hope loving memories bring you and your family comfort and peace. Wishing you God's blessings. 🙏🏼
I feel so sad for your loss but I feel you are so grateful that you spent valuable time with your Dad. It's such a tough time clearing out parents homes, we have done both parents homes & somehow it seems disrespectful 😢 Things settle in time Absolutely love the lift in your new studio👏 Take time to grieve 🫂
It’s so heartbreaking to lose our parents. I know some of what you’re going through because I was in very similar situations in 2010 and 2014. You’re NOT alone! Again, very sorry for your loss. However, the changes that are coming up for you and your husband are on such a positive note for the days and years ahead.
I’m sorry for your loss. There are so many emotions. And then the work of sorting through memories and another person’s life. It’s a lot. Be easy on yourself. Take your time.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family! I know how hard it is to be a caregiver. We lost my dad and my father-in-law and now have my mom and MIL living with us. I work full time from home which thankfully allows me to look after them. It is exhausting though and we lose track of our own self care. Please take care of yourself as you go through the process of grieving and moving! P.S. - I think the desk area would make a lovely vanity area to store your makeup and display any perfumes, jewelry & accessories in one place.
So sorry for your loss. It’s so very hard losing our parents. It’s nice that you can move back to a home that’s filled with such wonderful memories. Welcome back to Phillies/Eagles territory. I’m about 20 minutes outside of Philly on the Jersey side. We’re practically neighbors. 😂 ❤️
Your channel just popped up in my feed and I'm glad it did. I am so sorry about your father. I lost mine in January of 2020 very unexpectedly. He was my only parent since I was 8. I'm now 59. I'm so happy you have used your platform to discuss this. It is important. I'm still struggling 4 years later. I have no other family and my so called friends have fallen by the way side. It's been difficult to say the least. Thank you so much for this and, I look forward to your future videos on fashion and, whatever else you want to discuss! God bless you ❤
So sorry for your loss, Nancy. It’s certainly a very difficult time in life to nurse your sick parent , let them go and carry on with your life. It’s been six years since I lost my Mom and it’s still difficult. Grieving your parents takes a long, long time. Take care! 💙
So sorry for your loss. I truly believe that we need to be more open about life events! How do we learn if we don't talk! I lost my parents both in 1999! Wow can't believe it's been that long. I just found out this morning that a family friend/doctor has passed away. It is all part of life. That is why we must enjoy every step of the way. Looking forward to your new content when your ready.
So sorry for your loss 😢 my heart goes out to you. Lost both parents and brother over last 9 years. I was carer for my parents, but am thankful I was with them throughout their illness. Take care and time to mourn ❤
Thank you for sharing. I’m praying for you and your family. I’ve missed you, but you take all the time you need. We will be here for you. Much love, Nancy.
Nancy. I am so glad you made this video. You need to grieve. And talking about it, crying about it, and laughing about the memories is theraputic. Hugs, and he will always be with you.
Oh you are sharing the story of so many. I dropped everything and moved to Dallas to care for my Mother while on hospice for 5 months. It wasn't easy. It was an honor.
I am so sorry for you Nancy. I completely understand the “nothing left in the tank” feeling. My husband is in longterm care. We could not manage him at home as he is bedbound. We are dealing with a combination of physical and dementia issues. I love him to bits, but visiting him daily is tough. He does not really talk, sometimes depending on his mood he-will answer some questions. You are physically, emotionally drained, and you are always trying to out on a brave face. Take care and allow yourself to grieve. If you don’t it will come back to bite you.🤪. Take care. And good luck with the move.
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your Dad and hope you know that all your viewers want the best for you and we know that there are things more pressing than style! I am currently cleaning out the house of my husband's cousin after caring for her and it is work to find the "right" disposition for everything. Fashion is fun, but we can wait while you deal with the true essentials of life. I live in Philadelphia; welcome back to the neighborhood. Our daughter went to grad school at UC Irvine and we loved going to Newport Beach, Balboa Island, etc., and while you are leaving a beautiful area, preservation of your family home is an opportunity many of us would like to have had. I saw the radiator behind you - you will need heat again! The elevator is cool - we have neighbors with one in their older home. The closets were very small in our house from the 1920s - interesting that even homes of well-to-do folks did not have very large closets, making me wonder if they did not have that much clothing because they bought fewer, better quality items, a "capsule wardrobe?" Thank you for trusting your viewers with your difficult news and I pray you will have peace, which is what your parents would want for you.
Very sad news. Both of my parents have passed and it's a blessing to have spent time with them before the end. Wonderful that you are keeping the family home and the silver lining is a beautiful new wardrobe room ❤!
I am so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for talking about it. I agree. I wish people would be more open and be able to talk about these phases of life and death. So difficult.
You and your family were blessed to be able to be with your dad in his last days. I've been in the same situation over several years. I was fortunate to be a nurse so the caregiving was something I was comfortable with. Even so, it is truly exhausting, as you said. Be good to yourself, and we will enjoy your videos whenever you are able to get back into the groove again.
My condolences. Losing loved ones is very hard, no matter their age. We just lost my (last) grandmother at the age of 97. We’re sad, yet VERY thankful that we had her with us for so long and that she passed away of just being so old. No terrible diseases fortunately. It’s so wonderful that you got to spend so much time with your father and was able to take care of him. What a way to say goodbye and show your love❤
I’m so very sorry for your loss and agree that caring for and then losing your parents is one of the greatest challenges that some people will face. Ironically, it’s bittersweet in that some people who end up losing their loved ones suddenly would want to being able to spend the time to say everything they needed to. I cared for both of my parents for 3 years as they each fought terminal cancers- mom had lung cancer and my dad, like yours, had pancreatic cancer. No one asks if you will be the caregiver, nor are you asked if you are even qualified. You are swept into the role, uncompensated, unequipped and terrified. But I can assure you that, while that was almost 9 years ago now, there is no where else I’d rather have been and I am profoundly grateful for the opportunity to help them in their passing. As hard as it was, it was equally wonderful. The memories I have of that time are very precious. I am so glad for you to be able to help your dad and your family through this. The next part will be difficult also, as you navigate a new normal. Be sure to care for yourself, and to go at your own pace. May the time ahead provide you with the sweet memories of your dad, and provide you and your family strength and peace knowing he is sticking with you. ❤
Oh hun, I'm so sorry ❤ I understand I lost my dad nearly 3 years ago for the same reason 🫂 I had the blessing to take care of my dad in his last week at home 😢 praying for you and your family 🌹
Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your loss and, I agree, I don’t think we talk about how challenging this time of life can be with caring for elderly parents and going through loss. My father passed away from pancreatic cancer two years ago and the sadness, stress, and exhaustion (cleaning the house) was a lot! I am happy for your move back to the family house; it sounds like you and your husband are glad to be back in PA. Much love and good luck with recreating your own “home” there. 😊
May God grant you peace and a sense of accomplishment. You are right you had the privilege that you could be there for your parents. When my mother died I put in jewelry boxes different earrings and pins and gave them to all her friends. I am going to be 65 this year, and am making sure I have less for my own peace, and for my family if anything happens. Great to have you back!
You have a rough couple of months! It is hard to lose a parent but i am so glad that you could be there for him. I lost my parents about 20 years ago and within 2 years of each other. I am an only child and was very close to both of them. As hard as it was i have so many wonderful memories since they were wonderful parents who loved me dearly . It looks like you are going to have a fun time fixing up your new wardrobe room. And how cool is that elevator!!!! We love your videos but also understand if the come less often as you move and just recover from all you have been through!
Sending you lots of love and virtual hugs. You are quite right that nothing prepares you for this time of caring for ageing parents in the final stage of life, it's very hard. I lost both my parents just over a year ago, only 3 months apart. I was on my own as my brother lives overseas and my 30 year marriage had recently ended - I found it completely overwhelming. Take care and look after yourself
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Mourning is a painful and long process.My dad passed away 10 years ago and I found this saying that is conforting:
" When we lose someone we love,we must learn not to live without them but to live with the love they left behind"
THEY may have died, but not our love for them - this love has no longer a place to go to....😥.
I heard Valerie Bertinelli say something like “how beautiful to have loved someone so much that you grieve them.”
I lost my mom over 37 years ago and still have a hard time some days. But, I talk to hear, feel her presence and think about her everyday.
Regarding your room, I wonder if your clothes rack will fit in the elevator? Of course if it is not being used, and making sure it doesn’t shift around while moving up and down. It will give you that extra space it’s occupying now. You can fill the rack with what you will be showing on your video and then send it down. That is, if the rack isn’t already on the spot the elevator comes up on. No space is really saved then. Unless you put something there that can be easily moved when you need the elevator with the clothes rack in it. Just a thought.
I am really sorry for your loss. Take your time and do what you need to do. We (your viewers) won't be going anywhere
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I am so sorry, Dads are so special. The Irish say "I'm standing with you."
Your community here are standing with you and your family. Hugs
That's so beautiful - thanks for your thoughts 🥰
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. We do not talk about it enough. I lost my mom in 2019 and we got a break until 2021 when we lost 9 others through this year, the most recent being my husband a month ago. He was only 70 years old. Both of my parents were 92. We were just getting to the point of enjoying our later years and then cancer strikes. You are so right about being a caregiver. Hospice was helpful but I was doing everything 24/7. It was exhausting but I’d do it forever if only he were here. I wish you and your family a smooth transition to the Philadelphia area and may you blessed with many new memories in your family home while savoring your past memories. Cool elevator. Just so you’ll know, I still miss your knitting videos! They were awesome!😉😉
Sorry for your loss. 😢
So sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you find comfort in your memories.
No matter how long we've had our parents with us, losing them is a cosmic shift in life role/stage. Adjusting to their absence in your life is terribly hard. My sympathies. I lost my 90 year old parents, one with Alzheimers, within 10 days of each other. It took a long time (and some days, just like it was yesterday) to adjust to a world without them in it. My deepest sympathies. Thanks for bringing it forward and helping others.
You’re right-we don’t talk about taking care of aging parents enough. I am so glad you are. I completely understand why you’re taking a breath for yourself. Sending you positive thoughts. ❤
May God bless you and comfort all your family and other viewers now.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. 4 years ago I was in similar circumstances and my father was sick and I left my comfort home in Atlanta to care for him. May God continue to comfort and keep you ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤🌺🌺🌺
My condolences on your loss. You are right we don’t talk about all that is entailed in caring for our aging parents.
So sorry on your Dads passing, happy you were able to spend time with him!!
Your new studio looks great !
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My condolences, I’m so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away last year, and my mom is now in memory care, so I understand. There’s no roadmap for this part of the journey. Praying peace and comfort to you and your family 🙏🙏
Wow Nancy. You lost your father at the same time that I lost my mother. She was 88 and it was sudden. She had a cold, that's all she thought it was. Turns out it was RSV. She was gone within a week. She died on March 9. It's been horrible. I miss her so much. I hope you are doing much better. Newport Beach to PA?? What a transition. Not only dealing with the death of your father but the change of leaving CA too.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is a journey, and when you think you're doing fine, something will take you back to missing them and wishing they were nearby to talk to. This move has been surprisingly cathartic. In fact, being in my parents' home has brought me very close to them. I'm out in my mother's garden talking to her about what she wants me to do with it or admiring my dad's woodworking skills inside the home. I've been taking one day at a time and trying to honor them by turning their house into a home my family will enjoy. I hope the best for you during your grieving process. 🥰
So sorry for your loss, Nancy. I went through this 19 years ago with my Dad and 26 years ago with my Mom. I totally understand what you are going through. Take the time you need. You are the only one that can determine that. We will always be here for you.
Nancy, I have been where you are in life and you are so right, no one prepares you. I lost my parents 6 months apart. I am an only child so finding out that my dad's caregiver, after my mother was gone , was trying to get his house and bank accounts, I did so much scrambling, you can't imagine. I had my dad in my home for 3 months because there were no available places to handle his dementia. He finally got a place, and 3 days later he passed. God bless you and your family. It will get easier.
So sorry for you loss, Nancy how fortunate you were to be there on his last day. I was the caregiver for my sister with stage four lung cancer.it was very hard but it was also a privilege. Peace be with you.
Prayers! And caregiving is totally worth it! Difficult too! 🌹
Thank you so much, Yolanda! I couldn't agree more - those days were difficult yet so meaningful and rewarding. 🥰
When your videos didn't arrive, I thought something big must have happened. I am so sorry. Grief is a terrible thing... it washes over one and then you think you're ok, but then the next wave comes. Both my darling parents have gone and I miss them. No doubt your Mum and Dad would be so pleased that you're in the house. Very special. Hugs.
Sometimes in your situation the caregiver needs care also. God bless you and your family.
Thanks for your kind words! 🥰
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for talking about this subject. Most of us aren’t prepared to become full time caretakers.
Nancy, no matter how old we are, losing a parent is so very sad. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing this personal, vulnerable side. You have the double whammy of going through your parents belongings AND making a family home into your own space. You’ve started with the easiest tool: a coat of paint. I hope you find joy in the process. I’m particularly looking forward to videos of how you change out your wardrobe seasonally. Now that you’ll also have more actual seasons 😊
My husband and I have lost all of our parents for several years now, so I can sympathize with what you are going through. It is a blessing to be able to spend time with your loved ones. Take care of yourself now.
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in 2018 to pancreatic cancer. My mom passed in 2020. We were able to have them both home through their illnesses and when they passed. My husband and I bought their home. I have done the cleaning out and it is a process.
I’m so glad you addressing this I’m on a similar situation with my husband he is quite ill, he had a stroke and many of other issues that came along while he was in the hospital in a coma, I’m now his full time caregiver they don’t know how long he will be with us and our children still live at home but we are exhausted and stressed, much love to you for sharing your story, and helping us know we are not alone thank you
And I’m so sorry for your loss.❤
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So thankful you had that time with your dad before he passed. Praying for you as you walk this new path.
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Nancy, such heartfelt, beautiful words….. so many of us in our age group become caregivers…. and, yes, even in the hospital / assisted living and especially home care, WE are the caregivers. So much deeper I could go but your post is so relatable. How fortunate your dad was to have all of you and to be able to spend his last days at home.
I am so sorry, thank you for talking about this. I wish you peace.
Nancy, I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in January and I was able to spend his last days with him. I feel so blessed to have this time. Loss is exhausting. Please make time for you and your self care. Hugs to you.
So sorry for your loss, too. I'm glad you were able to spend your father's last days with him. 🤗
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my father almost 20 years ago at the age of 63. Way too young. You and your family are in my thoughts.
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. And you’re right, we don’t talk about this often enough.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is very hard to go through these things when we lose someone.
Thanks for your kind words 😍
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I’m so sorry! You are never prepared for losing our parents. So happy you were able to spend time with your Dad until the end.
Thanks for your kindness, Kathy. 💕
I am so sorry for your loss. I took care of my Mother the last 14 1/2 yrs of her life. She refused to go to a nursing home or outside help. I got no help from my siblings. She lived until she was almost 100. And I am also the caregiver of my daughter who is a 2 stroke survivor (both in the same day) Both living/lived with me. I lost my husband over it. He couldn't deal with it but I had no choice. My life has changed in a split second but trust God is taking care of me. You can do this!! We are much stronger than we think when we are given no choice in certain things. There will be an adjustment but just stop, breathe and bloom where you are planted. Embrace your semi new surroundings. Your outlook is great. Keep it positive. That is the key. ❤
Thanks for your kind words and wisdom, Michelle. Wow, you have been through so much, and I love your positive outlook on life. 🤗
Sending love you during this time of profound loss. I lost my father and was his caretaker/ hospice assisting me. It is hard. You have taken on a huge lifestyle change as well. This is wonderful but it is alot. I have missed you. Prayers ❤ peace and blessings to you and yours.
Thanks so much, Donna. I'm so sorry you lost your father in a similar manner. ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss . I just lost my dad too. It’s so hard. Take your time getting back to work. I look forward to future videos from you. The house looks amazing.
Thanks for taking the time to write the note, and I'm so sorry for your loss as well. 💕
You're doing great!!!!
Thank you so much 😊
How sad for the family. Blessings.
So sorry, Nancy. Cancer is such a stealth disease. Praying for all of you. ♥️
Thanks for your prayers and kind words. ❤
Dear Nancy, I'm deeply sorry to hear about your dad. Take the time you need to mourn and heal.
It's wonderful that you've found the strength to immerse yourself in this new project. Your new studio looks amazing, and I'm confident that your videos will reflect your newfound creativity. Please take care, and my warmest wishes are with you.
P.S. I've also lost both my parents, so I understand what you're going through.
Thanks for all of your kind words, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents.
It really is difficult to lose a parent and I found a real sense of being orphaned when both parents passed. It’s real but what a gift to have been with your parents in their final hours. So sorry for your loss thanks for talking about the subject. It is necessary.
My deepest sympathy 🙏 take your time, we will be here for you when you are ready ❤😢
Thank you so much, Suzette ❤
I’m so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Your video is touching and so true.
My husband of 53 years died in 2021 at home hospice. Your comments hit home. It was awful seeing my husband deteriorate. My heart broke💔. As you mentioned, YOU are the caregiver, and it is exhausting physically, but mostly emotionally.
Sometimes life is really hard, but we must go on.🤗❤️
Thank you for your kind words, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. Carrying on in a home my parents loved and cared for has brought me so much peace and encouraged me to move on. 🥰 Wishing you peace as well.
So sorry for your loss. You absolutely did the right thing by being with your dad. Welcome back to the East Coast
So sorry for your loss. Blessings for the future.
I really appreciate it. Thanks 🥰
Love, hugs and prayers to you Nancy. ❤
I really appreciate it! ❤
You are so right that we need to talk. It does ease the burden for everyone. My mum said 'I am going to die.' People couldn't believe, some appalled, my reply was 'I know mum.' I felt it was the way to be, open and truthful. We then talked and talked.
I feel for you as I lost both my parents in fourteen weeks. Look after yourself and 'do' TH-cam whenever you feel ready.
Sincere condolences, Nancy. You picked the best colour green for healing the heart... you'll feel good in your new creative place..
Thank you so much 😊
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father. I'm so glad for you that you're with family and undertaking this happy move. xoxo
Thanks so much, Diane 😍
Nancy so very sorry to hear about your dad.
Thinking about you
Thanks so much, Lisa 💕
I'm sorry for your loss; looking forward to seeing future videos in your new studio.
Thanks so much - more videos from the new studio are coming soon!
I am so very sorry for your loss. Best of luck with your move.
I appreciate your kind words; thank you! 🥰
Hard times. One thing we can rely on in life is change even when it's a change we didn't want. I think it's great that you've decided to keep the childhood home and making it yours. And even though going through your parents' things deciding what to keep and what to donate is an ordeal, it is also a catharsis and part of the grieving process. In my experience you never get over the loss of people you truly loved. You just come to a place of acceptance. Best wishes to you and your family in this difficult time.
Do you have room in your family home for a puzzle room? I know you love puzzles! 🧩 Your parents raised an amazing daughter, Nancy, and I can tell how much you love them. What a beautiful story. ❤
So sorry, Nancy!
Thanks so much, Linda. It's been a healing journey, and a fun new adventure rolled into one.
Thank you for sharing! Sorry for your loss. 😢 It helps me to connect with you and be more open to the ideas that you share. 😊💕
Thanks so much for your kind words, Jane 💕
Dear Nancy - sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need. That's quite a move for you which can also be stressful. Be kind to yourself. xx
Thanks so much for thinking of me and taking the time to write a kind message. 💕
So sorry to hear this. I think our generation our parents are living longer and many of us are in the same situation.
Awe bless you
So happy that your family house brings more joy with the on going memories of your dad!
So happy you had time to be there for him.
And yay we are looking forward to 4 seasons wardrobe fresh ideas from you!
Looking to the future.
And God Bless your husband!
I’m so sorry for your loss … I think living in your parents home will bring you much comfort …. Thank you for sharing about hospice …my husband has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer so this is in my future … I’m very stressed with how this will all go . I’m glad I found your channel…I’m looking forward to your videos.
You are so right-being in my parents' home has brought me so much comfort, especially when I'm out in my mother's gardens, ripping out weeds and returning the garden to its former beauty. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Take one day at a time, don't forget to breathe, take some time for yourself, and remember that you are stronger than you think! Hugs 🥰
Condolences for the lost of your father❤️
Thanks so much, I really appreciate it!❤
My deepest condolences. Losing a loved one is heartbreaking. We lost my children's day 16 months ago today. It was sudden; a heart attack. Saying goodbye wasn't possible.
Grief takes a toll...I'm so sorry for your loss. Letting go of all the possessions is a huge task.
That house has closure and a new beginning. Xoxo😘
It's lovely to see you again Nancy...although so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. A very sad time for you and your family...its very good of you to share your story and feelings with others , because you're right -- we don't talk enough of these difficult periods of our lives..thank you. Xx
I'm so sorry about your dad. I too have an aging parent with pancreatic cancer. And caregiving is a MAJOR responsibility. Even with care professionals. The care taker sacrifices so much. Praying for you and your family.
I feel you. Father's are so important to their daughters. Sending you prayers and love.
Nancy, so sorry for your loss. Losing anyone you love and care about is difficult, especially parents and family members. I hope loving memories bring you and your family comfort and peace. Wishing you God's blessings. 🙏🏼
Nancy I’m so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. Condolences to you and family at this trying time.
Thank you, Lori
I feel so sad for your loss but I feel you are so grateful that you spent valuable time with your Dad. It's such a tough time clearing out parents homes, we have done both parents homes & somehow it seems disrespectful 😢
Things settle in time
Absolutely love the lift in your new studio👏
Take time to grieve 🫂
It’s so heartbreaking to lose our parents. I know some of what you’re going through because I was in very similar situations in 2010 and 2014. You’re NOT alone! Again, very sorry for your loss. However, the changes that are coming up for you and your husband are on such a positive note for the days and years ahead.
I’m sorry for your loss. There are so many emotions. And then the work of sorting through memories and another person’s life. It’s a lot. Be easy on yourself. Take your time.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family! I know how hard it is to be a caregiver. We lost my dad and my father-in-law and now have my mom and MIL living with us. I work full time from home which thankfully allows me to look after them. It is exhausting though and we lose track of our own self care. Please take care of yourself as you go through the process of grieving and moving! P.S. - I think the desk area would make a lovely vanity area to store your makeup and display any perfumes, jewelry & accessories in one place.
So sorry for your loss. It’s so very hard losing our parents. It’s nice that you can move back to a home that’s filled with such wonderful memories.
Welcome back to Phillies/Eagles territory. I’m about 20 minutes outside of Philly on the Jersey side. We’re practically neighbors. 😂 ❤️
Sorry for your loss. This is tough and lots of big changes ahead. Hang in there.
Your channel just popped up in my feed and I'm glad it did. I am so sorry about your father. I lost mine in January of 2020 very unexpectedly. He was my only parent since I was 8. I'm now 59. I'm so happy you have used your platform to discuss this. It is important. I'm still struggling 4 years later. I have no other family and my so called friends have fallen by the way side. It's been difficult to say the least. Thank you so much for this and, I look forward to your future videos on fashion and, whatever else you want to discuss! God bless you ❤
Hugs to you Nancy
So sorry for your loss, Nancy. It’s certainly a very difficult time in life to nurse your sick parent , let them go and carry on with your life. It’s been six years since I lost my Mom and it’s still difficult. Grieving your parents takes a long, long time. Take care! 💙
So sorry for your loss. I truly believe that we need to be more open about life events! How do we learn if we don't talk! I lost my parents both in 1999! Wow can't believe it's been that long. I just found out this morning that a family friend/doctor has passed away. It is all part of life. That is why we must enjoy every step of the way. Looking forward to your new content when your ready.
So sorry for your loss 😢 my heart goes out to you. Lost both parents and brother over last 9 years. I was carer for my parents, but am thankful I was with them throughout their illness. Take care and time to mourn ❤
Thanks for sharing and showing us your courage and love!
I appreciate your kind words, Christine. 💕
Thank you for sharing. I’m praying for you and your family. I’ve missed you, but you take all the time you need. We will be here for you. Much love, Nancy.
I appreciate your kind words, Kathy. Thanks 💕
My deepest condolences! Losing parents is so hard & it takes time to learn a new way to be without them.
I really like your new hair style. ❤
Nancy. I am so glad you made this video. You need to grieve. And talking about it, crying about it, and laughing about the memories is theraputic. Hugs, and he will always be with you.
Oh you are sharing the story of so many. I dropped everything and moved to Dallas to care for my Mother while on hospice for 5 months. It wasn't easy. It was an honor.
I am so sorry for you Nancy. I completely understand the “nothing left in the tank” feeling. My husband is in longterm care. We could not manage him at home as he is bedbound. We are dealing with a combination of physical and dementia issues. I love him to bits, but visiting him daily is tough. He does not really talk, sometimes depending on his mood he-will answer some questions. You are physically, emotionally drained, and you are always trying to out on a brave face.
Take care and allow yourself to grieve. If you don’t it will come back to bite you.🤪.
Take care. And good luck with the move.
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your Dad and hope you know that all your viewers want the best for you and we know that there are things more pressing than style! I am currently cleaning out the house of my husband's cousin after caring for her and it is work to find the "right" disposition for everything. Fashion is fun, but we can wait while you deal with the true essentials of life. I live in Philadelphia; welcome back to the neighborhood. Our daughter went to grad school at UC Irvine and we loved going to Newport Beach, Balboa Island, etc., and while you are leaving a beautiful area, preservation of your family home is an opportunity many of us would like to have had. I saw the radiator behind you - you will need heat again! The elevator is cool - we have neighbors with one in their older home. The closets were very small in our house from the 1920s - interesting that even homes of well-to-do folks did not have very large closets, making me wonder if they did not have that much clothing because they bought fewer, better quality items, a "capsule wardrobe?" Thank you for trusting your viewers with your difficult news and I pray you will have peace, which is what your parents would want for you.
Very sad news. Both of my parents have passed and it's a blessing to have spent time with them before the end. Wonderful that you are keeping the family home and the silver lining is a beautiful new wardrobe room ❤!
I am so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for talking about it. I agree. I wish people would be more open and be able to talk about these phases of life and death. So difficult.
Thank you so much 😊
You and your family were blessed to be able to be with your dad in his last days. I've been in the same situation over several years. I was fortunate to be a nurse so the caregiving was something I was comfortable with. Even so, it is truly exhausting, as you said. Be good to yourself, and we will enjoy your videos whenever you are able to get back into the groove again.
I’m so sorry ❤ for your loss, Nancy, may God bless you and your family. I’m sure that your family will find joy in being together again. 😢
Nancy, Thank you so much for sharing. I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad and all your wonderful choices. May God Bless you and your family.
My condolences. Losing loved ones is very hard, no matter their age. We just lost my (last) grandmother at the age of 97. We’re sad, yet VERY thankful that we had her with us for so long and that she passed away of just being so old. No terrible diseases fortunately. It’s so wonderful that you got to spend so much time with your father and was able to take care of him. What a way to say goodbye and show your love❤
I’m so very sorry for your loss and agree that caring for and then losing your parents is one of the greatest challenges that some people will face. Ironically, it’s bittersweet in that some people who end up losing their loved ones suddenly would want to being able to spend the time to say everything they needed to.
I cared for both of my parents for 3 years as they each fought terminal cancers- mom had lung cancer and my dad, like yours, had pancreatic cancer. No one asks if you will be the caregiver, nor are you asked if you are even qualified. You are swept into the role, uncompensated, unequipped and terrified. But I can assure you that, while that was almost 9 years ago now, there is no where else I’d rather have been and I am profoundly grateful for the opportunity to help them in their passing. As hard as it was, it was equally wonderful. The memories I have of that time are very precious.
I am so glad for you to be able to help your dad and your family through this.
The next part will be difficult also, as you navigate a new normal. Be sure to care for yourself, and to go at your own pace. May the time ahead provide you with the sweet memories of your dad, and provide you and your family strength and peace knowing he is sticking with you. ❤
Oh hun, I'm so sorry ❤ I understand I lost my dad nearly 3 years ago for the same reason 🫂 I had the blessing to take care of my dad in his last week at home 😢 praying for you and your family 🌹
Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your loss and, I agree, I don’t think we talk about how challenging this time of life can be with caring for elderly parents and going through loss. My father passed away from pancreatic cancer two years ago and the sadness, stress, and exhaustion (cleaning the house) was a lot! I am happy for your move back to the family house; it sounds like you and your husband are glad to be back in PA. Much love and good luck with recreating your own “home” there. 😊
Nancy, I'm so sorry for your loss.May God comfort you,and heal you,and give you the strength you'll need in your move.🙏🏻💜🌞🌈🌷
Condolences to you and your family, Nancy. 🙏🏽
Thank you so much, Kristi 💕
May God grant you peace and a sense of accomplishment. You are right you had the privilege that you could be there for your parents. When my mother died I put in jewelry boxes different earrings and pins and gave them to all her friends. I am going to be 65 this year, and am making sure I have less for my own peace, and for my family if anything happens. Great to have you back!
You have a rough couple of months! It is hard to lose a parent but i am so glad that you could be there for him. I lost my parents about 20 years ago and within 2 years of each other. I am an only child and was very close to both of them. As hard as it was i have so many wonderful memories since they were wonderful parents who loved me dearly . It looks like you are going to have a fun time fixing up your new wardrobe room. And how cool is that elevator!!!! We love your videos but also understand if the come less often as you move and just recover from all you have been through!
Sending you lots of love and virtual hugs. You are quite right that nothing prepares you for this time of caring for ageing parents in the final stage of life, it's very hard. I lost both my parents just over a year ago, only 3 months apart. I was on my own as my brother lives overseas and my 30 year marriage had recently ended - I found it completely overwhelming. Take care and look after yourself