Yes, I would want my partner to make more money than me and knows how to handle his money well. I have dated guys who made less and more than me, and the ones that made more did have horrible character, and the ones that made less didn't have the best mindset (MJ, I learned nothing, in fact, I was teaching them) and I felt very limited. I need an equal balance. I need someone to push me forward!
It is important but what is more important to me is being able to provide for myself and be independent. It's nice to have someone wanting to take care of me but more important to not be dependent
yes, I want a partner that can enrich my life & that i can build a partnership w. a levying system where he shares his resources so that i can make us more resources so that he can make more resources etc etc. 50/50 is real stagnant if you ask me. i’m trying to progress & elevate.
HEY MJ,.. IS IT, ANYWAY,.. THAT I CAN CONTACT U, BECAUSE,.. I REALLY NEED TO SPEAK WITH U,.. ABOUT YOUR INSURANCE COMPANY!???! I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS,.. URGENT MATTER!!! PLEASE, RESPOND!!!🙏🙏♥♥♥♥😁😁😁
Miyakemp106 but remember he is not speaking from a woman’s point of view he is not a woman. Women goes deep by nature. I am not hating on him but he is speaking to a different audience. Women is and always will be.👠🛍️🙂🎂🧚🏼♂️🥰❤️💃🎉💯🌹🍑🦄
I think it’s important to be with someone who has a good relationship with money and is generous. Can be the richest person but have a poor relationship with money, causing all kinds of issues….❤
I’ve dated broke and rich men and I honestly I prefer men that are generous. Generosity is what I desire. Society got these women trying to get a rich man & im here to say just because a man has money doesn’t mean he is going to spend it on you. A generous partner though? Goes even BEYOND money. He will be generous with his time, his resources, his efforts everything including the MONEY.
I am dating a rich man that owns a magazine. He is so busy I often wonder if he ever sleeps, he never has time for me. I can do without Tiffany jewelry, designer clothes, yachts, and private jets! I don't want to deal with that kind of ego for the rest of my life. He is not there for me but wants me to always be available to him. I am out enjoying my juicy life and he hates my full calendar and that I am always busy living my best life.
All FACTS! The novelty does wear off after a while. I focused on the money for a while but grew disgruntled not having his affection and time! Worst is he believed the money should be enough to keep me happy and couldn’t understand why I became unhappy not being able to spend quality time with him. We would go days and barely speak. When he came home at night he didn’t have any energy left for me. It’s a lonely existence unless you do your own thing and don’t care much for their time… and trust me, they won’t like not having access to you when they want your time.
This is very true a man with money barely has the time for the woman he wants to be with i dealt with this and am considering my options. Is nice but money doesn’t buy happiness. The best gift a man can gift you is his time because why be in a relationship to feel lonely!
I've been with a broke man that was always busy and I was lonely and broke. Also, some "poor" men can be there physically but not emotionally. Bottom line, I think if he wanted to he would, regardless of being rich or not
This really made me think. It also brought back childhood memories. I know I claim I want a lifestyle that’s elevated from the standard I had growing up, but this also reminded me of how my father was hardly home. He was always on business trips, and as much as i want a man that can provide a better life for me and our children, I can’t imagine having a life that’s worse in aspects where he’s always unavailable or with a man that is possibly busier and more unavailable than he was. I genuinely want someone who desires- not just being present- but in being active in parenthood. I’m starting to think dating wealthy might resurrect childhood traumas and feelings of emotional abandonment 😵💫😭😭😬
I've dated both rich & not rich. Both can be trifling, however it has been my personal experience with the wealthy men that they didn't seem to have much regard for boundries, not much regard for the value of family ties or morals. Seriously. They had an entitled, decadent attitude that even exclusive relationships were simply "items" that could be baught, used, discarded and they could just go get a new one. Investing myheart, energy and time into something empty at it's core wasn't fullfilling for me and I left each time when I realized they were only in it for "the thrill of the moment" so to speak. I tried dating 3 different wealthy indeviduals *at different times in my life. All were very similar experiences. I've been told that I am too nice by family & friends because I don't behave like a deva. I tend to like a masculine man energy in a man, but not too domineering. However I definitely have standards and strong boundaries. Finding love is definitely a challenge that I haven't been successful at.
Rich Men don't believe in Family...but they can take care of you and give you a Secure economic life. Poor Men are Family oriented ...so you think. But what kind of Economic security will they give you?? Find yourself a successful Family oriented Man...he's out there!
that’s not true. My multibillionaire husband is not only scrupulously faithful to me but took my children, from a previous marriage as his own, and is an amazing father to the children from his previous marriage.
I agree, you must be personally ready for someone 1st. Have your own money to at less take of care of you, yours bills and an occasional fun that is fun for you. Physically appealing. Mentally capable to hold a conversation and be sexy and sensual all at the same time.
Once I had things established I mostly wanted true unconditional love and anyone who couldn't do that was a waist of my time because everything else can be purchased.
Generosity is what I like and desire. Rich does not mean generous, and working class doesn't mean he's stingy. I like men who take pride in taking care of their wives financially and emotionally. Also, cheating is a character flaw found in people of all socio-economic positions. Men will cheat if they're broke and emasculated, and if they are wealthy with options - you have to pick your poison. If a man cheats on me, he needs to accept that we are in an open relationship as I would never be faithful or loyal to a cheater.
Peace of mind and TRUE happiness is the new currency...never again... I walked away with my peace and my sanity...Its hard, I have career so that will work for now.
Those men have worked hard to be rich, even if you’re born into a rich house hold you still have to earn your way into society, hard work opens doors for you.
23:41 Thank you for keeping it real. Some are delusional and not acknowledging that the “glow up” is actually necessary if you want to deal with certain men.
Nothing i hate more than a partner that is not meeting you financially,and spends without consideration expecting the other person to pick up their slack
I wanna know where do these gay men with money hang out. Ha ha. I have just subscribed you. You are direct and just damn right. I am loving it, please keep ‘me coming.
Thank u best friend for breaking it down how to deal with the rich and the nonrich. It helps and i will take head to exactly what u spoke. Thanks again. We ❤u
Great video. Not all wealthy men are interested in just sex or sex at all and the offer of sex to him is a turn off. Be a class act, they can see through a gold digger. I met my billionaire husband while minding my business, doing my work (attorney), in a relationship with another man - not rich. Not looking, but he was. He had to chase me and convince me that he was sincere. Warning, a very rich man can “buy” you without marriage. Just make certain he helps you to level up financially before he dumps you for a newer model. Face the fact that you are in a business transaction. When your looks fade, so will he. Wealthy athletes are usually more liberal with money, a business man will be reinvesting his money and usually more conservative. Yes, these men stay busy, you must be on board with their goals. Especially if the man is black, remember that he is working 10 times harder than a white man to get to the same place. And Yep, you were being bought.
Your mom and dad very wise individuals, my dad always said never borrow and lend money to anyone because very likely they won’t pay it back, so if you’re giving money to someone consider that a gift.
Absolutely you can’t and should not base your future on someone else’s fortune because at any given time you can be on the street by your choice or theirs and you don’t have a backup plan or a leg to stand on Omg You are the best you keep it so real thank you for giving me a genuine smile and a tear streaking laugh
i have viewed a few of your videos but this one right is the truth * I too have had a few of these experiences under my belt and EVERYTHING you passed on to your viewers is nothing short of 100% Facts!!!
Love this video. Very good advice. I would couple with a man now in my 50s rather than 20s. Raising children is hard when doing it by yourself with busy hubby. Been there before.
That’s a normal individual, no one likes unnecessary drama and non sense, I am one who loves my peace and quiet, this brings balance and happiness to your life.
The way you’re always a whole mood, vibe, get it together affirmation of love , baybeee! I ain’t listened to nan bit of music exercising listening to you several videos in a row. 😂🤣 Smootches 😘😘
This is so true! I watch the show marrying millions. There was a couple on their bill and Bree. Bree went through all of these things. Then on top of that Bill ended up with a route rape charge with under age girl. 🤷🏽♀️😬 not sure if they’re still together after that, but she went from living in the projects to living in several mansions. I hope she somehow made some connections.
FACTS!!! This was very profound, and you are so right! Always protect your love, power, and sound mind!! Choose wisely. Great content MJ, and nice haircut, too. ☺💭
Ya'll Listen!!!!! I did and I do. My life is happy and filled with joy with or without a partner, although a committed partner is and would be nice to have in my life right now. But it's okay because in the meantime I'm working on myself and actually loving ME so much. Hopefully, the one for me will recognize me and them. Boss up!!!! #self-esteem #healthcare #mentalhealthycare #prettylikemoneyandmoneylikepretty #selflove #love #relationship #bossup
Many men making 45k a year are also unfaithful and can be extremely entitled to having a homemaker to cook and clean for them .. they want the subservient wife and they don’t even make alot it’s like this old fashion simple life little humble family expectation .. so I’m getting my own money and to be honest I love being alone , I love being with my pets and I would rather be alone which is totally enjoyable to me then be viewed as a humble wife man servant … not my thing personally. Never dated a super rich man yet
I can relate to this for sure. Keeping it short, he was in the oil business and he sent for me via flight but once I was there he was always busy. He gave me money and dropped me off at the mall to shop but the intent was to spend time with him but that was not the case. I returned the money and came back home. The end. 😆 I value the time and connection more than the money.
I love everything about you and this topic. Keep the positive analysis coming...you are a beautiful person inside and out. What you have become an expert in is "Emotional Intelligence," which is the key to a successful life. Love, The Rose🌹
Love you MJ! Here's the Deal. Most Men do CHEAT. And of course, you leave them if they do. With that said...Better to cry in a Rolls Royce than a Toyota!
Is it important for your partner to have more money than you?
Absolutely! He needs to be a leader and provider
Yes, I would want my partner to make more money than me and knows how to handle his money well. I have dated guys who made less and more than me, and the ones that made more did have horrible character, and the ones that made less didn't have the best mindset (MJ, I learned nothing, in fact, I was teaching them) and I felt very limited. I need an equal balance. I need someone to push me forward!
It is important but what is more important to me is being able to provide for myself and be independent. It's nice to have someone wanting to take care of me but more important to not be dependent
yes, I want a partner that can enrich my life & that i can build a partnership w.
a levying system where he shares his resources so that i can make us more resources so that he can make more resources etc etc. 50/50 is real stagnant if you ask me. i’m trying to progress & elevate.
HEY MJ,.. IS IT, ANYWAY,.. THAT I CAN CONTACT U, BECAUSE,.. I REALLY NEED TO SPEAK WITH U,.. ABOUT YOUR INSURANCE COMPANY!???!
I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS,.. URGENT MATTER!!!
PLEASE, RESPOND!!!🙏🙏♥♥♥♥😁😁😁
The realest thing you ever said:
“Pretty like money and money like pretty”
That’s a fact!
Miyakemp106 but remember he is not speaking from a woman’s point of view he is not a woman. Women goes deep by nature. I am not hating on him but he is speaking to a different audience. Women is and always will be.👠🛍️🙂🎂🧚🏼♂️🥰❤️💃🎉💯🌹🍑🦄
@@twylashavers4977wtf are you even talking about?
@@twylashavers4977 But he is a feminine man... is there a difference? And we are not talking about the ability to have babies.
Your are a hoot. “Your back bigger than his”. Your advise was perfect in every way.
I think it’s important to be with someone who has a good relationship with money and is generous. Can be the richest person but have a poor relationship with money, causing all kinds of issues….❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂rich and generous
I’ve dated broke and rich men and I honestly I prefer men that are generous. Generosity is what I desire. Society got these women trying to get a rich man & im here to say just because a man has money doesn’t mean he is going to spend it on you. A generous partner though? Goes even BEYOND money. He will be generous with his time, his resources, his efforts everything including the MONEY.
I am dating a rich man that owns a magazine. He is so busy I often wonder if he ever sleeps, he never has time for me. I can do without Tiffany jewelry, designer clothes, yachts, and private jets! I don't want to deal with that kind of ego for the rest of my life. He is not there for me but wants me to always be available to him. I am out enjoying my juicy life and he hates my full calendar and that I am always busy living my best life.
One thing about people, we make time for what we want. Also, Men are so simple. If they want to, they will.
@Erika-be9hq yes, if he wanted to he would
All FACTS! The novelty does wear off after a while. I focused on the money for a while but grew disgruntled not having his affection and time! Worst is he believed the money should be enough to keep me happy and couldn’t understand why I became unhappy not being able to spend quality time with him. We would go days and barely speak. When he came home at night he didn’t have any energy left for me. It’s a lonely existence unless you do your own thing and don’t care much for their time… and trust me, they won’t like not having access to you when they want your time.
"occasionally unfaithful" pls don't do this to yourself it's hell when someone cheats / betrays 💀
Exactly!
Yes "occasionally unfaithful" no different to being a little bit pregnant!
This is very true a man with money barely has the time for the woman he wants to be with i dealt with this and am considering my options. Is nice but money doesn’t buy happiness. The best gift a man can gift you is his time because why be in a relationship to feel lonely!
I've been with a broke man that was always busy and I was lonely and broke. Also, some "poor" men can be there physically but not emotionally. Bottom line, I think if he wanted to he would, regardless of being rich or not
This really made me think. It also brought back childhood memories. I know I claim I want a lifestyle that’s elevated from the standard I had growing up, but this also reminded me of how my father was hardly home. He was always on business trips, and as much as i want a man that can provide a better life for me and our children, I can’t imagine having a life that’s worse in aspects where he’s always unavailable or with a man that is possibly busier and more unavailable than he was. I genuinely want someone who desires- not just being present- but in being active in parenthood. I’m starting to think dating wealthy might resurrect childhood traumas and feelings of emotional abandonment 😵💫😭😭😬
Thats why i work so hard and go to school making sure when im dating its not for tge money
NO LIESTOLD!!! You have to have hobbies and a life beyond spending time with him. Rich Men are busy and "in demand" by many.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Until I get married I’m always going to have more than one guy I’m dating. If he’s not around I’m dating someone else until he comes back.
I've dated both rich & not rich. Both can be trifling, however it has been my personal experience with the wealthy men that they didn't seem to have much regard for boundries, not much regard for the value of family ties or morals. Seriously. They had an entitled, decadent attitude that even exclusive relationships were simply "items" that could be baught, used, discarded and they could just go get a new one.
Investing myheart, energy and time into something empty at it's core wasn't fullfilling for me and I left each time when I realized they were only in it for "the thrill of the moment" so to speak. I tried dating 3 different wealthy indeviduals *at different times in my life. All were very similar experiences.
I've been told that I am too nice by family & friends because I don't behave like a deva. I tend to like a masculine man energy in a man, but not too domineering. However I definitely have standards and strong boundaries.
Finding love is definitely a challenge that I haven't been successful at.
Rich Men don't believe in Family...but they can take care of you and give you a Secure economic life. Poor Men are Family oriented ...so you think. But what kind of Economic security will they give you?? Find yourself a successful Family oriented Man...he's out there!
that’s not true. My multibillionaire husband is not only scrupulously faithful to me but took my children, from a previous marriage as his own, and is an amazing father to the children from his previous marriage.
Your story is similar to mine. I am still single by choice. They still want to “ experience “ me. It is soul draining, no thank u
People relax their boundaries with rich men... that's why they can discard you easily,.. you were easy to get
@@Kiki-jx6byright
Well said….these women on social media are only showing y’all the good side not the other….
I agree, you must be personally ready for someone 1st. Have your own money to at less take of care of you, yours bills and an occasional fun that is fun for you. Physically appealing. Mentally capable to hold a conversation and be sexy and sensual all at the same time.
Once I had things established I mostly wanted true unconditional love and anyone who couldn't do that was a waist of my time because everything else can be purchased.
Be careful hanging out alone at the Ritz and such. Don’t get mistaken for a call girl. It happens. 😳
Boils down to vetting and discernment
Generosity is what I like and desire. Rich does not mean generous, and working class doesn't mean he's stingy. I like men who take pride in taking care of their wives financially and emotionally. Also, cheating is a character flaw found in people of all socio-economic positions. Men will cheat if they're broke and emasculated, and if they are wealthy with options - you have to pick your poison. If a man cheats on me, he needs to accept that we are in an open relationship as I would never be faithful or loyal to a cheater.
I just love hearing you talk! You’re just so knowledgeable! I love women but I still watched this just to be informed. 😊
Peace of mind and TRUE happiness is the new currency...never again... I walked away with my peace and my sanity...Its hard, I have career so that will work for now.
Those men have worked hard to be rich, even if you’re born into a rich house hold you still have to earn your way into society, hard work opens doors for you.
Wow, MJ. So many truths spoken here. Thank you for putting all this in perspective for me. It's much appreciated!
23:41 Thank you for keeping it real. Some are delusional and not acknowledging that the “glow up” is actually necessary if you want to deal with certain men.
Absolutely loved this
"Stop hanging out with your bald headed best friend "😂😂😂😂😂😂
That cracks me up every time. Im always solo and it’s still funny 😂
Exactly! He needs PEACE! No drama mama
“Your back is bigger than his!” I’m deceased 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nothing i hate more than a partner that is not meeting you financially,and spends without consideration expecting the other person to pick up their slack
Great advice, people need a reality check. It's important to have your own money and any relationship you enter needs to be genuine.
I wanna know where do these gay men with money hang out. Ha ha. I have just subscribed you. You are direct and just damn right. I am loving it, please keep ‘me coming.
I still can't believe MJ is in South Africa ! Dream 🎉❤🎉❤
MJ ❤ that jacket. It allows your skin and eyes to glow/pop.
Thanks for your videos🎉
I don’t want someone that has no time for me!
I really enjoyed this today! You spoke all facts 💯
Glad you enjoyed!
I love Pretty like money and money like pretty. You said a mouth full.❤
Go for the money ladies! Cuz if he's not at work, you will be.😅
Thank u best friend for breaking it down how to deal with the rich and the nonrich. It helps and i will take head to exactly what u spoke. Thanks again. We ❤u
Great video. Not all wealthy men are interested in just sex or sex at all and the offer of sex to him is a turn off. Be a class act, they can see through a gold digger.
I met my billionaire husband while minding my business, doing my work (attorney), in a relationship with another man - not rich. Not looking, but he was. He had to chase me and convince me that he was sincere.
Warning, a very rich man can “buy” you without marriage. Just make certain he helps you to level up financially before he dumps you for a newer model. Face the fact that you are in a business transaction. When your looks fade, so will he.
Wealthy athletes are usually more liberal with money, a business man will be reinvesting his money and usually more conservative.
Yes, these men stay busy, you must be on board with their goals. Especially if the man is black, remember that he is working 10 times harder than a white man to get to the same place.
And Yep, you were being bought.
I run into you again😭
Teach me your ways
Does your husband have any friends that are looking for wives?
Your mom and dad very wise individuals, my dad always said never borrow and lend money to anyone because very likely they won’t pay it back, so if you’re giving money to someone consider that a gift.
Absolutely you can’t and should not base your future on someone else’s fortune because at any given time you can be on the street by your choice or theirs and you don’t have a backup plan or a leg to stand on Omg You are the best you keep it so real thank you for giving me a genuine smile and a tear streaking laugh
i have viewed a few of your videos but this one right is the truth * I too have had a few of these experiences under my belt and EVERYTHING you passed on to your viewers is nothing short of 100% Facts!!!
Love this video. Very good advice. I would couple with a man now in my 50s rather than 20s. Raising children is hard when doing it by yourself with busy hubby. Been there before.
Love all your advice and insight, MJ! I appreciate you ❤❤❤
This was sooooooo good!!! Great perspective and advice!!! Great gems 💎 👌 👏
Good word. MJ be taking folks to church.
That’s a normal individual, no one likes unnecessary drama and non sense, I am one who loves my peace and quiet, this brings balance and happiness to your life.
Thanks again for everything 🤠
The way you’re always a whole mood, vibe, get it together affirmation of love , baybeee! I ain’t listened to nan bit of music exercising listening to you several videos in a row. 😂🤣 Smootches 😘😘
Hello MJ! That's right get your own. I enjoyed watching ❤
Excellent MJ a lot of people need to hear this knowledge ❤❤❤ Thanks
Thank you MJ , love you 🙏🏽🙏🏽
MJ always keeps it real😂😂😂😂
This is so true! I watch the show marrying millions. There was a couple on their bill and Bree. Bree went through all of these things. Then on top of that Bill ended up with a route rape charge with under age girl. 🤷🏽♀️😬 not sure if they’re still together after that, but she went from living in the projects to living in several mansions. I hope she somehow made some connections.
I LOVE YOU MJ❤️.
I love you too!! ❤❤❤
OMG YOU REPLIED! 🌞🤩. MY YEAR IS MADE😌!
This is great advice. Money is not everything. Intentions matter.
Excellent video content!! Thank you, MJ. Love you so much
I love that jacket btw MJ it’s a beautiful color love the detail ❤
FACTS!!! This was very profound, and you are so right! Always protect your love, power, and sound mind!! Choose wisely. Great content MJ, and nice haircut, too. ☺💭
Ya'll Listen!!!!! I did and I do. My life is happy and filled with joy with or without a partner, although a committed partner is and would be nice to have in my life right now. But it's okay because in the meantime I'm working on myself and actually loving ME so much. Hopefully, the one for me will recognize me and them. Boss up!!!! #self-esteem #healthcare #mentalhealthycare #prettylikemoneyandmoneylikepretty #selflove #love #relationship #bossup
Thank you ❤️
100% facts.. everything he is saying
Great topic.
Facts! Thank you so much, MJ!
Speaking truth MJ 😊
Money like Pretty...Pretty Like Money!!!!
Great job 👍
Sending you love, hugs and kisses. 🤗🤗🤗
Ty for the video and have a wonderful and blessed day. 🤲
Dropping science as usual !!!
This was very informative, thank you MJ
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Your message is so true 💯💯💜
This resonates with me! :) Thank you MJ for sharing! :)
Great Video and Love the Conversations😮😮😅😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
Very good video and the truth. 5 stars
Many men making 45k a year are also unfaithful and can be extremely entitled to having a homemaker to cook and clean for them .. they want the subservient wife and they don’t even make alot it’s like this old fashion simple life little humble family expectation .. so I’m getting my own money and to be honest I love being alone , I love being with my pets and I would rather be alone which is totally enjoyable to me then be viewed as a humble wife man servant … not my thing personally. Never dated a super rich man yet
Straight up facts 👌
❤ this thanks for sharing
Love from Chicago ❤️
I can relate to this for sure. Keeping it short, he was in the oil business and he sent for me via flight but once I was there he was always busy. He gave me money and dropped me off at the mall to shop but the intent was to spend time with him but that was not the case. I returned the money and came back home. The end. 😆 I value the time and connection more than the money.
Thank you MJ for that advise.
This was so good. Thanks MJ
Glad you enjoyed it!!!
Lovelove the vid, truths👌
Hello Sir I'm new to your channel have a blessed day 🙏
Thanks for coming!!!
@@MJHarrisSpeaks You're most welcome Sir have a blessed day 🙏
I love this podcast format.
Thank you so much!!!
Ok! Come through with the podcast!
Yesss Gawd PEACE !!!!! So important
Loved this video you tell it like it is and I love that!
Love U MJ❤
Amen. Right on point. 😊👍🏾🙏🏾❤️
I love everything about you and this topic. Keep the positive analysis coming...you are a beautiful person inside and out. What you have become an expert in is "Emotional Intelligence," which is the key to a successful life. Love, The Rose🌹
Thank you so much!!
Thanks MJ. You be talking that talk❤️❤️🌹🌹👍🏽
Good advice 👍 ❤
I Clicked too fast😂
😂😂😂😂
Me too 😂😂😂
Thanks again 👍
pure fire! I love you
I love this topic, get your own. ❤❤❤❤❤
Real talk. Bottom line get your own.
Love you MJ! Here's the Deal. Most Men do CHEAT. And of course, you leave them if they do. With that said...Better to cry in a Rolls Royce than a Toyota!
Well said MJ
Lay on her back and fry a piece of chicken 😂😂😂 I’m dead