Her losing that ring,, if that is truly what happened to it, was God's way of giving her a WARNING SIGN, BEFORE SHE BECOMES BABY MOM (# 4) , SHE SHOULD PAY ATTENTION TO THE WARNING SIGN, SMH 😡💯
This dude is completely trash he told me he would have my family and I killed after he proposed and I said no. He was the most ratchet person I’ve ever dated.
5 kids already is a red flag! Under 8 and hopefully all under child support orders! And you don't need to get involved with that kind of financial obligations!
This kind of ignorance isn't generational. There have always been uncles in peoples' families who have nowhere to live but always have nice clothes and jewelry. No child support to their kids but always spending money on a new hussy. His ignorance is not representative of a generation; it's representative of his personal poor choices and confused priorities. Y'all need to stop acting like idiots never existed until yesterday. 😂
Materialism and foolishness has existed thru all generations. somebody in the 1950s spent the last dime getting a baby blue Cadillac they couldn’t afford.
@@marciablack6904 at least that was a car. you can at least DRIVE the car. you can at least SLEEP in the car. you can at least SELL the car. you can at least MAKE MONEY with the car. you can't do any of that with shoes.
Child support….is going to tear that man clean up!!!! Are you sure ma’am you want all this baggage? That’s too many baby mamas. Your decision. I hope it’s a good one.
I was listening to this episode in the background because I was doing something else but my ears perked right up when he started going on about pasta. Girl...run from this tool.
to be fair, everyone doesn't like their spaghetti made the same way. true italians absolutely despise the way most people make spaghetti by adding oil to the water during boiling. are you going to tell them they're wrong? it's also up to the way you were raised to eat it. you get used to it. telling someone they're wrong because a restaurant may not make that way is also wrong. it's all spoiled behavior to me. learn how to make it yourself, then tailor it to how you want it and avoid all of this.
@@latauvia6254 I dated this man for right before he was being kicked out of the military and he was a complete bum. I remember crying and hiding in the closet to get away from him. He threatened to have my family and I killed because I rejected his proposal. Then he bought another man to my place and was harassing me
She went back looking for him and when she found him on social media he was involved wit someone else and she still did it. She brought this shit to herself!
Personally, I would not want a ring 💍 that was meant for another woman. If you bought me a ring from a pawnshop, I would take it instantly because I don’t know the previous owner. It’s a respect thing for me 💯‼️
Not even trying to be funny but she may need to examine her relationship with her father. Because a woman that had a positive demonstration of a real man from her father would never put up with this trifling mess! I say this as someone who had to examine that relationship myself and once she gets to the root of why she allows him to treat her this way she will have clarity and drop this loser.
There's a part 2? That man is selfish, why we need a part II? If you have children and you find someone that's willing to accept you and them, the last thing you need to be is ungrateful.
SELFISH AF! Whenever he said, she is there for me and not my kids. HUGE RED FLAG!!! And probably think his kids need to treat him like the king he is in his own head
6:30- y’all heard what judge Starr said… the first date she and her husband ever had, he told her about his son. That’s grown folks…. If you’re not shamed of your kids and how many you got, say it with your chest… first date in…
Girl, why invest in someone that constantly criticizes you AND he thinks she's poisoning him?! He's complaining about spaghetti?!? This is easy: drop him!
This dude is really ratchet ignorant and disrespectful. He threatened to have me and my family killed because I rejected his proposal and if I remember correctly he was kicked out of the military.
When she knew about the big lie of how many kids he had, she should have left him. That incident clearly show her his lack of character and honesty. Hope she moves on. She is wasting her life and energy.
Heyyyy!!! The comment l was looking for!!! That was the first sign. Magic Johnson did this to Cookie in her book at a certain point. That means you not worth speaking to. Cookie was done wrong multiple times. Had she not continued anything with him, she would have dodged a lot of hurt.
He lied about 4 of his children. Once I found out, I'd be gone. That was the first sign that she should run. He has 3 BMs, women cooking for him at work, he complains about stuff, he has a nasty attitude and mood swings, gave you a ring that he gave to someone else before. What else does she need to find out about this man.
The way I was taught, cooking for someone is a sign of affection and the fact that he says he got an issue with HOW the food is prepared is just insane to me. First off, she didn't have to cook for you but she chose to and if you cant appreciate that fact alone, then you don't deserve a home-cooked meal. If it were me, you sir can STARVE for all I care if that's how you feel.
No, that’s not how it’s done. 1. Boil the pasta 2. Fry the meat 3. When the meat is brown and the drained, pour the meat in to the pot 4. Add the spaghetti sauce 5. Stir the mixture together 6. Serve 7. Enjoy. That’s how it is done!!!
My wife doesn't have to do anything for my children. I handle them. We do our thing and everything fine. Your partner doesn't have to pick up the pieces for you.
@@michealtyler9702 i understand that but as long as she lives with you your wife has to interact with your kids, have a bond with them at least that's what I expect.
@@michealtyler9702 I feel like he's saying his kids are not her business cause they are not with him. Its easy to seperate his wife from his baby mothers
It's CRINGY to watch how much he can't stand this woman. He should have broken up with her BEFORE they aired their dirty laundry on National TV, and just made things work with one of his Baby Mamas.
My thing is how is it that the guy had used the money that was supposed to be used to pay rent uses it to buy shoes hes unbelievably irresponsible she should leave him and not look back!
Him: I was bouncing from bed to bed trying to figure out where I belonged I beg your pardon! WTF? Young lady a man should be in college, trade school, or building a career and life for himself, finding himself and his own path before you attach your life to his. Why? Because if you’re planning to marry him, your future and your future children’s lives are tied to his vision and actions. You need to know where he’s going before you can decide if that destination is ok with you. This dude has no vision in mind, no future planned. Still he’s making babies and bouncing from bed to bed looking for someone to latch on to, AND YOU STILL WANT HIM. Young lady WAKE TF UP!
14:25 He really showing that he a hood ninja!!!! He doesn't even know there are thousands of people that plate the pasta and then the meat sauce for the person to mix together. Talk about seeing nothing but the bottom of the barrel!!! She is learning upscale cooking and he's like no let me forever live in the ghetto!!!😂😂😂
Ya’ll when she said he got food in the fridge from OTHER WOMEN FROM WORK!!!! My mouth dropped open. ITS LIKE HOW NANY TIMES THIS MAN GOTTA TELL YOU HE DONT REALLY WANT YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s ALL her fault except not knowing about the babies he lied about. Other than that, him ignoring her at the bus stop, him lying about the other children, him giving her a ring that he gave to one of the baby moms, him not eating her food because “he don’t trust her”…….all the signs were there and SHE CHOSE to continue to be with him.
Nope, Star is WRONG in regard to the ring! No man should ever give his woman a ring intended for AND GIVEN to another woman! If he can't return it, he needs to sell it.
Omg! Just get rid of this ridiculous dude. Why are people so afraid of being alone? I love it. No drama, no trauma.
You must have no choice....
I agree. What would she even lose if he wasn't with her?
OKAY!!!
Leave, girl. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200.00. Leave.
@@michealtyler9702we all have a choice…. This is what a lot of women going through with their kings 😂
You know its some bullshit when there is two parts 😂😂
TOTALLY 😂
Facts! 💯
😂😂😂😂
on God😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Always is something when it’s a two part episode. But it be juicy though.
Her losing that ring,, if that is truly what happened to it, was God's way of giving her a WARNING SIGN, BEFORE SHE BECOMES BABY MOM (# 4) , SHE SHOULD PAY ATTENTION TO THE WARNING SIGN, SMH 😡💯
Amen
Real Talk 💯💯💯💯
Agreed!! She should run and don't look back!
Amen
Girl...signs could be slapping u in the face and they still don't wake up and 👀the 🕯️🙄
People treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.
You teach people how to treat you.
Here here! I tell my daughter the same thing. And she's 11
Does that include children of terrible parents?
I hate to call ppl stupid, but when he spoke on that pasta. Giiiirrrrllllllllll please RUN
This dude is completely trash he told me he would have my family and I killed after he proposed and I said no. He was the most ratchet person I’ve ever dated.
This man is a traveler, he's 28 years old, 5 kids from 3 different women 🙄
This dude is trash. He’s a Gemini and he threatened to have my family and I killed after I told him no to his proposal
@@dexteranthony3069 🤯I'm glad you got out of that toxic situation.
Exactly hell no
And still doesn't know how to make pasta...
If he ignored her the first time they met then what kind of treatment does this woman expect?
She’s obviously desperate
Come on, she was 12!
I’m hear to tell you… loosing that ring is a true sign. Run
💯
Absolutely!!!!
Funniest thing I heard all day "am I supposed to put the spaghetti all together mySELF?" 😂
😮😂😊
I almost passed out listening to him talk about the sauce and pasta being separate 😂
I had to rewind it to make make sure I really was hearing the argument SMH
I tell you all this-- the dating pool has turned into a sesspool🤣. Thank you Lord that I no longer need to go fishing 🤣🤣🙋🏽♀️
Judge said he's used to pasta from a can🤣
5 kids already is a red flag! Under 8 and hopefully all under child support orders! And you don't need to get involved with that kind of financial obligations!
When he didn't speak at the bus stop that should have told her enough!!! It's these small things that tell you a lot.
So he's just giving the same ring out to everybody
Unbelievable
@@mmmfun77 Gross and awful
Recycled Ring.
Yep. The pass around ring..😅
A woman will NEVER be able to throw up in my face that the ring 💍 I’m wearing was intended for her. I don’t agree with judge on that one.
NEVER!
judge is TRIPPIN!!! bc WHO would???!
Exactly!!!! I don't see how Judge Star was okay with that!
Yes, he should've sold it and bought her something else
@@quitabrewer4561 Problem solved!
Are you serious?? He's made a ruckus over pasta and meat sauce? Sir just leave this woman alone. This is a trifling MESS.
That was very tellin. It told me his momma didn’t do much so he didn’t know better. He still silly though
That's disrespectful to give you the same ring 💍 that he gave his baby mama.😮
Right! That not something to be proud of just because she ended up with the Ring. Judge dropped the ball on that one.
Judge Toler would have thrown him out 😂
And would have dropped some gems to explain why she needs to move on
Judge Star nailed it...Ms Thomas has low self esteem 😢 so sorry she doesn't see how beautiful she is.
🤣
Sis you gotta pick yourself up off the floor this man is running all over you girl!
That “separate pastas and separate Sauce” speech was outlandish 😂… like what!?
This episode didn’t need a part 2, this brotha is trifling!!!!
He chose to buy shoes instead of paying rent, THIS GENERATION 😮
This kind of ignorance isn't generational. There have always been uncles in peoples' families who have nowhere to live but always have nice clothes and jewelry. No child support to their kids but always spending money on a new hussy. His ignorance is not representative of a generation; it's representative of his personal poor choices and confused priorities. Y'all need to stop acting like idiots never existed until yesterday. 😂
Materialism and foolishness has existed thru all generations. somebody in the 1950s spent the last dime getting a baby blue Cadillac they couldn’t afford.
Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 @@marciablack6904
@@marciablack6904 at least that was a car. you can at least DRIVE the car. you can at least SLEEP in the car. you can at least SELL the car. you can at least MAKE MONEY with the car. you can't do any of that with shoes.
Why is she here making a case against him? He doesn’t care for her.She knew he is so sorry.Worse than 2 dead flies.
Not two DEAD flys… 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
One man have all those women involved with him pathetic
Smashed!
Child support….is going to tear that man clean up!!!! Are you sure ma’am you want all this baggage? That’s too many baby mamas. Your decision. I hope it’s a good one.
How many signs and how much disrespect does it take ? Choose yourself young lady . This will only get worse.
LMBAO, so the dude is used to being served Chef BOYARDEE🤣
He sounds so illiterate
😂
And ignorant
I dated this bastard in the past and he is very ratchet and ignorant. He threatened to have my family and I killed after I rejected his proposal.
He is just there for shelter
I was listening to this episode in the background because I was doing something else but my ears perked right up when he started going on about pasta. Girl...run from this tool.
I agree😂. DON'T LOOK BACK
Arguing about some pasta really make it make sense 😂
He could just Google spaghetti recipes & see how wrong he is. 🤨
to be fair, everyone doesn't like their spaghetti made the same way. true italians absolutely despise the way most people make spaghetti by adding oil to the water during boiling. are you going to tell them they're wrong? it's also up to the way you were raised to eat it. you get used to it. telling someone they're wrong because a restaurant may not make that way is also wrong. it's all spoiled behavior to me. learn how to make it yourself, then tailor it to how you want it and avoid all of this.
3 baby mommas and 5 kids, RUNNNNN!!!! 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️💨 💨 💨
I watch this show because it keeps me single 😂
Did Judge Star really make it seem like this young lady should be appreciative of the ring no matter who had it first?!? I know I didn’t hear that
Yes maam she sure did.
It might sound crazy to someone, but that wouldn't work for me. 😩
@@82laina Yea, its a hard pass for me. Don’t give me no second hand ring
@@latauvia6254 I dated this man for right before he was being kicked out of the military and he was a complete bum. I remember crying and hiding in the closet to get away from him. He threatened to have my family and I killed because I rejected his proposal. Then he bought another man to my place and was harassing me
He lucky that any women would want to deal with him with his 3 baby mama trifling behind.
I need a reenactment of the spaghetti dinner scene..."AND ACTION 🎬 🤣
How do y'all be attracted to people whose elevators don't reach the top floor?
She went back looking for him and when she found him on social media he was involved wit someone else and she still did it. She brought this shit to herself!
@@michealtyler9702 you typed all that for no reason.
@michealtyler9702 Totally agree with you😊 Some people seem to trive on drama.
loi
That's what I wanna know! Because every man can't just step to me...I come off with the shits!!!
Personally, I would not want a ring 💍 that was meant for another woman. If you bought me a ring from a pawnshop, I would take it instantly because I don’t know the previous owner. It’s a respect thing for me 💯‼️
This is so sad….. they really need to go their separate ways.
He just likes to complain. She needs to leave his sorry ass. I dont understand why women get attached to people who aren't even treating them right.
Not even trying to be funny but she may need to examine her relationship with her father. Because a woman that had a positive demonstration of a real man from her father would never put up with this trifling mess! I say this as someone who had to examine that relationship myself and once she gets to the root of why she allows him to treat her this way she will have clarity and drop this loser.
I haven’t seen any qualities about this man that are worth fighting for ! Bye ✌🏽
Except them military benefits. He definitely should’ve extended his higher education because he seems so oblivious to the obvious
@@mrs.poised9820..free higher education....they do not always take advantage.
@dexteranthony3069....this guy?
He is so ignorant....leave him alone.
That ring was meant for someone else at the time that's why when u took it off it bounced in that air duct the way it did 😆
That was a clear sign she was about to make a big mistake 💯👀
This is so good can’t wait for part 2…
...man that headline! AND its a two-parter..! 😅😅😅
All kinds of rhyming words‼️ 🤷🏽♀️
He stole the ring back. Gell everybody slow😂😂😂
They have a mother and father 🙄 girl let him and them 5 kids and 3 baby mamas be. This man should not be past the friend zone if he in there!
I'm speechless from beginning to end and it kept getting worse and worseeeee!!!
I watch this show because it keeps me married. 😅.
Facts! 😂
how many times this man gotta show her he don’t wanna be with her
"We gonna come together. Can't be having separate sauces and pasta."
😂😂
He needs to eat in Italian food establishments to know,he won't get to Italy anytime soon.😊
There's a part 2? That man is selfish, why we need a part II? If you have children and you find someone that's willing to accept you and them, the last thing you need to be is ungrateful.
SELFISH AF! Whenever he said, she is there for me and not my kids. HUGE RED FLAG!!! And probably think his kids need to treat him like the king he is in his own head
Why did she waste precious time with that loser? One word….desperation!
They both don’t like each other. Idk how relationships like this last long
Please' TELL that Little BOY Bye!❤🙏🏼☝🏼🙌🏼
He's just as bad as the last one. People, when someone shows you who they are, you need to believe them. He does not want you. Go home to your mother.
I could not have stayed with him for 3 DAYS let alone 3 YEARS😳
6:30- y’all heard what judge Starr said… the first date she and her husband ever had, he told her about his son. That’s grown folks…. If you’re not shamed of your kids and how many you got, say it with your chest… first date in…
Omg not over pasta noodles, bruh I would've left wayyyyy b4
Lady move on save yourself
Girl, why invest in someone that constantly criticizes you AND he thinks she's poisoning him?!
He's complaining about spaghetti?!? This is easy: drop him!
This dude is really ratchet ignorant and disrespectful. He threatened to have me and my family killed because I rejected his proposal and if I remember correctly he was kicked out of the military.
When she knew about the big lie of how many kids he had, she should have left him. That incident clearly show her his lack of character and honesty. Hope she moves on. She is wasting her life and energy.
😮😊. Why are you there Girl, run 🏃♂️.
She’s such a sweet, beautiful, well spoken woman.
WHEN HE DIDN'T SPEAK BACK TO ME WHEN I SPOKE, I WOULD HAVE LEFT IT AT THAT & NOT BOTHERED HIM NO MORE!
Heyyyy!!! The comment l was looking for!!! That was the first sign. Magic Johnson did this to Cookie in her book at a certain point. That means you not worth speaking to. Cookie was done wrong multiple times. Had she not continued anything with him, she would have dodged a lot of hurt.
He lied about 4 of his children. Once I found out, I'd be gone. That was the first sign that she should run. He has 3 BMs, women cooking for him at work, he complains about stuff, he has a nasty attitude and mood swings, gave you a ring that he gave to someone else before. What else does she need to find out about this man.
Oh no ma’am not a second hand ring?
Basically, she just wanted some act right out of him because she ended up going back to him after the show .
The way I was taught, cooking for someone is a sign of affection and the fact that he says he got an issue with HOW the food is prepared is just insane to me. First off, she didn't have to cook for you but she chose to and if you cant appreciate that fact alone, then you don't deserve a home-cooked meal. If it were me, you sir can STARVE for all I care if that's how you feel.
Not unless there was cereal in the house.....or peanut butter and jelly🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can't wait to see Part II.
She's in love with whoever she was crushing on in high school but thats not who he is now 🤷🏽♀️
Baby please leave him,he's no good.
Low Self Esteem
Girl run 🏃♀️🏃♀️
His lack of maturity is baffling and have 5 damn kids... the settling ladies is toxic AF. This fella has no "common" sense.
Got 3 bms and multiple kids and complaining and ignorant about some spaghetti? Yeah girl that’s a winner right there…smh 😂
Well damn, we already know it's going to be a MESS!
What Was She Supposed To Do, Boil The Meat With The Pasta Noodles as Well? 🤷🏾🤣😂
No, that’s not how it’s done. 1. Boil the pasta 2. Fry the meat 3. When the meat is brown and the drained, pour the meat in to the pot 4. Add the spaghetti sauce 5. Stir the mixture together 6. Serve 7. Enjoy. That’s how it is done!!!
@@roysanders7245 I Know That, That Was My Point. 🤦🏾
There are many things I don't want to do in my life, but at this moment, there is nothing I want to do LESS than watch part 2 of this episode.
I tho't that he wanted to save his relationship. I haven't heard anything towards that end from him.
Where are they living that rent is due every week? Efficiency lodge?
It's giving, Motel vibes!
because what apartment is evicting someone AND changing the locks after just being 1 week late?
This man ridiculous
I agree 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 percent
So is she for putting up with this mess.
It’s amazing to me how people see what they call red flags but choose to stay 🤔
It is SO scary that this man has children, I was screaming at my screen when he was talking all that spaghetti nonsense OMG
He doesn't understand she is gonna be part of his kids life. She's not only there to service you 😂😂😂
My wife doesn't have to do anything for my children. I handle them. We do our thing and everything fine. Your partner doesn't have to pick up the pieces for you.
@@michealtyler9702 i understand that but as long as she lives with you your wife has to interact with your kids, have a bond with them at least that's what I expect.
@@michealtyler9702 I feel like he's saying his kids are not her business cause they are not with him. Its easy to seperate his wife from his baby mothers
It's CRINGY to watch how much he can't stand this woman. He should have broken up with her BEFORE they aired their dirty laundry on National TV, and just made things work with one of his Baby Mamas.
Yup another reminder on it’s ok to remain SINGLE!
who on this great earth had FIVE babies with him?!
My thing is how is it that the guy had used the money that was supposed to be used to pay rent uses it to buy shoes hes unbelievably irresponsible she should leave him and not look back!
He is ungrateful and entitled! No way!!! I don't how she put up with this, because I could never!!!
If I heard correctly.Then she say he was in a military or was.He has no self discipline if he was in the military wow.
Him: I was bouncing from bed to bed trying to figure out where I belonged
I beg your pardon! WTF? Young lady a man should be in college, trade school, or building a career and life for himself, finding himself and his own path before you attach your life to his. Why? Because if you’re planning to marry him, your future and your future children’s lives are tied to his vision and actions. You need to know where he’s going before you can decide if that destination is ok with you. This dude has no vision in mind, no future planned. Still he’s making babies and bouncing from bed to bed looking for someone to latch on to, AND YOU STILL WANT HIM. Young lady WAKE TF UP!
The pasta took me out
They actually arguing about pasta and spaghetti being mixed or separate???
You get locked into the stupidity. And can’t help yourself.
14:25 He really showing that he a hood ninja!!!! He doesn't even know there are thousands of people that plate the pasta and then the meat sauce for the person to mix together. Talk about seeing nothing but the bottom of the barrel!!! She is learning upscale cooking and he's like no let me forever live in the ghetto!!!😂😂😂
She needs to run far away from this guy. Run fast young lady.
I don't understand these girls staying with these Boys!!!! Get you a Man!!!
I don’t feel bad for her at all. She allows it all smh 🤦🏻♀️
Wow, how far behind was the rent; for them to be changing locks without going to court first?
run girl run
Leave him so he stop draining u beatiful lady❤❤❤
Lil sis, puuhhhhllllleeezzzzz put one foot in front of the other and walk away from him - QUICKLY! You are not who he wants. At. ALL!
Young lady run... Run... run. Ooowe,,,
Ya’ll when she said he got food in the fridge from OTHER WOMEN FROM WORK!!!! My mouth dropped open. ITS LIKE HOW NANY TIMES THIS MAN GOTTA TELL YOU HE DONT REALLY WANT YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s ALL her fault except not knowing about the babies he lied about. Other than that, him ignoring her at the bus stop, him lying about the other children, him giving her a ring that he gave to one of the baby moms, him not eating her food because “he don’t trust her”…….all the signs were there and SHE CHOSE to continue to be with him.
Nope, Star is WRONG in regard to the ring! No man should ever give his woman a ring intended for AND GIVEN to another woman! If he can't return it, he needs to sell it.
u can tell u ain't never been nowhere 😂😂😂😂😂 he serious af about that spaghetti
Right. I mix my spaghetti and alfredo after it's cooked. It sounded like he literally cooks spaghetti whole.