The Way Someone Treats You Tells You If They Love You

We are all looking for love and some form of affection. Sadly, this desire often leads us to the wrong direction. Sometimes, we are not able to recognize true love and appreciate it enough. There are other times when we are searching for love in places where it doesn’t exist and from the people that can’t or don’t want to give it to us.
There are millions of pieces of advice to help you recognize whether your romantic partner really loves and cares about you. But actually, things couldn’t be simpler. If any person, including your boyfriend or husband, is treating you poorly, they don’t love you enough nor do they consider you to be important enough for them.
On the other hand, if someone is treating you like you are important to them, they really do love you. There is not much philosophy in this: the way someone treats you shows how they really feel about you.
But that time has passed long ago and we are not toddlers any longer. Grown men never express their emotions this way.
Yes, unfortunately, men and women still play games. But now these are mind and psychological games. And because of these games, women are almost never sure of the guy’s real intentions or emotions for them.
If he doesn’t take your opinions and wishes into consideration, it’s because they are not important to them. If he puts himself above you, he doesn’t consider you an equal partner in this relationship.
If he talks to other girls, he doesn’t consider you enough. If he’s rude to you, he doesn’t respect you. If he cheats on you, he doesn’t love you, no matter what he says.
It’s about time us women figure this out. Stop making excuses for him and stop hoping he’ll change. He may be telling you he loves you, but if his behavior is telling you something else, you shouldn’t be in doubt.
There is nothing easier than for a player to sweet talk you into staying by his side. But if you really love someone, you’ll put in an effort to treat this person in that way.
This guy isn’t putting any effort to make you feel loved and wanted, and therefore, he doesn’t love you.
Start from yourself. How do you treat the people you love?
You use every possible opportunity to show them your love, you put them first, listen to them, you never belittle them, you remember all the important dates in their lives, and you are always there for them.
So, why do you accept different treatment for yourself? Why do you put yourself in the situation in which you have to beg for someone’s love and attention?
The same goes not only for romantic relationships, but for every other relationship in your life. If your friends or family members treat you poorly, they don’t care about you enough, and don’t let anyone question you this.
The bottom line is that everyone in your life will eventually show you how much you mean to them and if they love you or not. It doesn’t have to do with words-it’s only connected to the way they treat you.
All you have to do is open your eyes and see it for yourself.
Does your partner mistreat you in any way? Do you make excuses for his behavior all the time? Let us know in the comment section below...
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Timestamps ⏰
0:00 Intro
0:33 love is simple
1:44 if a man treats you badly, he doesn't care about you enough
2:35 don't lie to yourself as there are no hidden signs and messages
3:06 the sooner you accept he doesn't care about you, the sooner you'll heal
4:23 how do you treat the people you love