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I Chose To Love You And What Did You Choose?
Magically, you pulled me into your world and I couldn’t run away from you.
I fell for you hard. The only things I saw were your eyes and your contagious smile.
I wasn’t ready to love. I had just gone through a breakup, so I made a promise to myself that I would dedicate some time to healing.
“It was time to put me as a priority.” (At least, that’s what I said.)
You seemed different from all the other guys. There was something special in your eyes that made me feel calm when I looked at them.
They were like a lullaby for my heart and my soul.
When I was with you, everything felt at peace. I felt like I was in a safe harbor where no one else was allowed to be.
You didn’t choose to be serious with me either. Instead, you chose to play with my feelings and let me think that no one would ever truly love me.
I was just a game that you would put aside when you got bored.
You didn’t choose to help me rebuild myself from pieces that others had left behind. Instead, you chose to ruin me even more.
After you, I felt like a million-piece-puzzle that no one would ever be able to assemble.
No one had ever hurt me like you. It’s like you pulled every piece of hope out of me and you let me drown in my sadness.
You walked away like I was an object that you accidentally broke and hid under the table.
There were no consequences for you, as I was just a casualty.
All those sweet words of, “I love you,” and all those hugs that put life back into me were just a part of your plan.
They were never real. You used them to manipulate me, and then you disappeared.
All those plans you had for our future…
How could you pretend that they were honest? They sounded so genuine.
So, you made sure to give me all of that to win my heart.
Once you achieved it, I wasn’t good enough anymore so you simply walked away, like I never meant anything to you.
I chose to love you and you chose to hurt me. You made the scars on my heart deeper than they were before and you casually moved on with your life.
But then I realized that I was the one who gave you love while you were the one who gave me pain.
Nothing was my fault (except the fact that I trusted you).
Everything else was caused by you - the pain, the suffering, and the sadness. I blame it all on you!
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Timestamps ⏰
0:00 Intro
0:40 I chose to fall for you
1:40 Good things don't last forever
2:30 You chose to hurt me
3:58 You knew what I needed the most
4:43 Was it my fault?
I fell for you hard. The only things I saw were your eyes and your contagious smile.
I wasn’t ready to love. I had just gone through a breakup, so I made a promise to myself that I would dedicate some time to healing.
“It was time to put me as a priority.” (At least, that’s what I said.)
You seemed different from all the other guys. There was something special in your eyes that made me feel calm when I looked at them.
They were like a lullaby for my heart and my soul.
When I was with you, everything felt at peace. I felt like I was in a safe harbor where no one else was allowed to be.
You didn’t choose to be serious with me either. Instead, you chose to play with my feelings and let me think that no one would ever truly love me.
I was just a game that you would put aside when you got bored.
You didn’t choose to help me rebuild myself from pieces that others had left behind. Instead, you chose to ruin me even more.
After you, I felt like a million-piece-puzzle that no one would ever be able to assemble.
No one had ever hurt me like you. It’s like you pulled every piece of hope out of me and you let me drown in my sadness.
You walked away like I was an object that you accidentally broke and hid under the table.
There were no consequences for you, as I was just a casualty.
All those sweet words of, “I love you,” and all those hugs that put life back into me were just a part of your plan.
They were never real. You used them to manipulate me, and then you disappeared.
All those plans you had for our future…
How could you pretend that they were honest? They sounded so genuine.
So, you made sure to give me all of that to win my heart.
Once you achieved it, I wasn’t good enough anymore so you simply walked away, like I never meant anything to you.
I chose to love you and you chose to hurt me. You made the scars on my heart deeper than they were before and you casually moved on with your life.
But then I realized that I was the one who gave you love while you were the one who gave me pain.
Nothing was my fault (except the fact that I trusted you).
Everything else was caused by you - the pain, the suffering, and the sadness. I blame it all on you!
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🌐 thinkaloud.net/
👥 thinkaloudjournal/
📌 www.pinterest.com/thinkaloudmagazine/_created/
======================================
#thinkaloud #ChoseToLove #choice #option #love #relationships #breakup #NotTheOne #SecondOption #HurtMe #hurting
Timestamps ⏰
0:00 Intro
0:40 I chose to fall for you
1:40 Good things don't last forever
2:30 You chose to hurt me
3:58 You knew what I needed the most
4:43 Was it my fault?
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I guess I'm responsible for me for my child I was married and taking care of the kids if you're not hurt my responsibly on others
He’s got lusting, self-entitled behavior and I will make him feel ashamed so he knows how little I think of someone who does that behavior. I would leave him.
Please stop saying it’s normal. It’s not okay.
I think this is really good. To me, the hardest part of a good marriage is time and keeping up with the jones. If your spouse is constantly looking at what others have materially, then it makes things hard. I pray for all families, as when it goes wrong, its the children that loses the most. And yes, I agree women have the hardest job, which is to protect her family, same as men too I guess.
The best home date night ever for me. When I get home from work, she hugs me when I walk in and she lets me go and read a book for half an hour or an hour. Then after I go to her and hug her again. The second hug is just as important as the first as it’s the one I connect the most with. Then after, we enjoy my favourite meal she cooked for me, with a couple Jack daniels and coke. Then after, we have some freshly baked gingerbread when watching a movie. Then she gives me a head and shoulder massage. Finally a make out session to end ❤
My soulmate is a woman❤ And I love her dearly
He should marry both so nobody dies alone
The truth. Women become baggage. Like a car a job.
Bollocks 100% AI spam or moron spam.
Beautiful info, however it mixes a bit what a Soulmate and a Twin Flame is. Thanks for sharing! 😊🙏
Thank you this was truly helpful
Matka mojego synka to całkowite zaprzeczenie tych 10 rzeczy - totalne kurwa zaprzeczenie. Zanim zdąże wypowiedzieć pierwsze słowo to już drze morde, że jestem egoistą i że myśle tylko o sobie, a potem nie wie czemu kurwa ciężko mi iść do sypiali przed 3:00 w nocy.... Ale jak już tam dojde to drze morde, że budze dziecko, że jestem egoistą, że przeze mnie dziecko będzie nie wyspane, że tylko ją budzę. A potem bierze telefon i pisze wszędzie, że "tata" niedobry i cały świat musi o tym wiedzieć. Kto takie kobiety wypuszcza z domu przd nauczeniem chociaż jednej zasady. Wystarczy miłość i szacunek, aż kurwa 2 rzeczy z domu wynieść było za ciężko. Dla nich to kurwa za trudne muszą drzeć swoje mordy jak by to miało dodawać im pieniędzy na koncie... Jak słysze, że mężczyzna wchodzi do domu a kobieta go bezinteresownie przytula.... Ja zawsze zastanawiam się czy mam jeszcze pamięć w telefonie, żeby dyktafon nagrał całe wejście do domu, aż zdąże wejść do kibla.
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Iam in this kind of situation now
We are in the last of last days, repent an give your life to Jesus. Come to Jesus ! Come to Jesus we don't have time left 🙏
This is so true . They’ll repeat it . They’re just looking for fun . Especially the wealthy men. To : Any young single woman , who’s thinking of “ waiting for that man to divorce and marry you “ . Listen to me : RUN !! Far far away from these piece of shit men . They’re cheaters and always will be, sooner or later. They don’t love you , they love themselves!! Been there done it when i was still too innocent. He was 20 yrs elder. Used your best years with a single man in your age and build a family. Because when you’re after 35 and up , you’ll realize that you’re aging . Gaining weight , wrinkles , dry vagina , don’t enjoy sex anymore , low sex drive until almost nothing at all at late 40s. .. Then you’ll really regret that you should’ve used those fresh youthful years with someone in your age , tried something new together. Explore the world with your friends or besties . Etc .. 😢
You’re lucky . My hubby was more like , : IT’S nothing wrong with it . Don’t be so insecure! He’s over 60 and like to likes to stare at teens . Watching Areana Grande MVs. His youtube recommendations are young women half naked . About “how do you know the woman “ is attracted to you . About “ Dating for old men . Etc .. His phone is always in his hands , if i ask something about who text you ? Or who are you texting? He be like ; Mad ! And snaps at me . Yelling that it’s his privacy. ! His porn search is also Teens . I’ve checked so much , he doesn’t know that i know . I feel disappointed and disgusted at the same time. Don’t want him to even touch me . I don’t even look at him anymore. I want to just get away but I can’t. I have nobody. I can’t even get a rental lease because of my low paying job . I would have to work 3 weeks to be able to pay a rent . Don’t know if i should stay unhappily married or be a homeless and probably get deported because he will just not guarantee my visa anymore.😢
Not always
The problem with not giving ultimatum is that your partner will continue to disrespect you. You got to the point where you are ready to burn everything to ashes if the boudary will be crossed again.
Is this an AI voice? Sounds like it sigh.
He also get drunk and starts being mean to me then disappear for weeks . He also has scratch marks on the bottom of his back
I found a picture on his phone of a girl he sent to his best friend that said "found me a fatty" that day he didn't call or text me the whole day he never did that ever. What's more messed up is right before I checked his phone he was acting weird did a full body naked check on me and looked thru my phone all crazy. He still denies it to this day
Women play hot/cold too and either way it's wrong. Men are generally simple, if they ignore you they are probably no longer interested
Baby don't worry I am coming home to you soon because I know that God wants us to be together I love you I am ready to start this journey with you and it's going to be magic yes see you soon baby
Tammy when I looked in your eyes I got lost in your soul I feel in love right then I no that God let us cross paths for a reason I know you are my soulmate
Its amazing to me how incredibly wrong this video is on so many issues.
@glamOrOus I'm glad that you mentioned Our Heavenly Father. All is according to HIS WILL!!! Even our chat. You are Not alone; Trust Me! Whew, if only you knew. I wish I had someone to talk to. I didn't see my Life becoming this..... It, well, I pray it gets better. Tired of crying. Tired of sleepless nights. Tired of the heart pain. Just tired
I started being friends with my soulmate on November 22nd of 2023 , it was the best day of my life because I had finally met someone that I actually had a genuine connection with for the first time in 6 years. So I’m so grateful to god for this life changing experience.❤
I have been friends my soulmate in the past 8 months. At age 15. It was the best day ever. Thank you God.
My husband hates me. It makes me sad.
You can tell this is a woman’s channel. A man shares “ everything? “. Came looking for clarity, only see more one sided hs that fuels this gender war. Crazy man.
Sux feeling like the loneliest woman in the world. He would laugh at my insecurities and poke fun at me with his family and friends. My oldes fam specifically the grandma laughed me away from one of the few people i knew in this world. I hope my absence is felt, most certainly i felt their presence. I pray they will never feel the amt of hurt i did as i considered them all my family.
@glamOrOus I know exactly how you feel. Are you going through this alone? Because I tell you, wicked evildoers do not care about your suffering at all. I'm sorry you allowed yourself to stay Hopeful when you knew there was none. Did you find your belongings missing? Did you go through hot/cold from him like a light switch? All I have is GOD. I can't see HIM but I Know he loves and values all women
@aquiliaringwood6532 yes my Lord guides me. I think about those words "they don't care," it deters me from interaction but not from adding them all in my daily prayers.
The big one HE IS YHETE FO MEEEE😂 😂😂😂😂😂
He’s a great person God will reveal this when he thinks is the right time
This is feminism. Walk away.
None of the above Im the last option in his mind 😂good hints for the future thanks
I'm pretty sure I have met mine tonight. I swear I'm going to marry this man.
Someone did it when I was 20 I may have an idea that it could be possible guys are unpredictable and women too. So nothing is impossible
Marriage is the main cause of divorce lol!!
Mine had someone for a year but I’m just afraid he ll do the same to me 8 yrs in we r still not married. I found out the hard way. I was soo broken.. but she never fought for him. I struggle wt trust Becuz I feel he will do it to me too once he gets bored. I have to kids from prior n no one knows anything about my story!
It is devastating, they give you a call after they cheated and say I want you to know how much I love you… while they are crying.
This is an interesting video. However, it seems like you are only holding the man responsible for the issue but not the woman (the mistress). Both parties played a role. The mistress was aware that the man was married. Yet, she chose to engage in him. Who knows, maybe she initiated this affair. Some would even accuse her of trying to steal another woman's husband. Probably, the man wanted to leave the wife but the time was not correct. Yet, the mistress was pressuring him to do that. If the man had been married for many years and even had children, it was not easy for him to just "disappear" from their lives. There is even a high risk that a relationship with the mistress after a divorce may not last long. Some people recommend that a man should not chose a woman who try to enforce commitment at the wrong time. It seems like the mistress just wanted to get things easier for her own benefit and not mutual interest. An exception is, if the mistress has been awaiting for many years. Then, it was understandable without any big doubt. Regarding the husband and the wife, there is a say: "men cheat to keep a marriage ongoing, whilst women cheat to get divorce. Maybe, he didn't betray the wife. He might have done her a favor by not leaving her before he involved himself in the relationship with the mistress. By that way, the wife would still have him. Some people says, it is better to get divorced and get single and reached up to other women. Many of us know that if a man divorce a woman to do that, the wife also get sad and might feel betrayed. So, whatever choice the man takes, there is a "trouble". In this specific case, the man offered himself for the wife and not the mistress and became the "looser" and hurt himself. Yes, he can have the right to be angry. It is natural to get disappointed. The mistress was also responsible and not only him. He can love the wife without being in love with her. Maybe, the mistress did him a favor. It shows that, she might run away from him quickly in case of any future problems when they are together. What comes easy might gone easy. The mistress can also likely missing him as well. There is also a possibility, he forgets her with time. There are a lot more I can say but will stop here.
My mind need to stay off of other men because my kingdom already jealous.
My soulmate girlfriend which he shouldn't have had didn't want him to love me but she realized that it's nothing she could do about it. She really played herself and got played how do you tell someone wife how to have sex with them. How do you tell a woman husband how to have sex? He just manipulated her into something that's not god's will and she got upset with me about it. I didn't get him to do or say anything wrong. He didn't get me to do anything wrong she just know he a user and a player.
My soulmate still was concerned about other men.
I met mine twice.
All men will glance or look. Not all men seek out however. Why are you making excuses for inappropriate behavior. Men need to grow up and act right, as well as any women that do this
I am sure I have found my soulmate, turn out that she is my crush at work , there a indescribable feeling of happiness and butterflies when I see her , and we do encourage and motivate each other at work and do talk , it feel like a strong attraction force pulling us together and we really match in hobbies and food and all! Hoping for the best and we will blossom into a romantic and beautiful relationship for us!❤ thank you!
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This video: “Can’t compromise means consider divorce”, Women Relationship Expert videos: “men who compromise and don’t dominate are so unattractive”
Bisexual women dont mind about the 3way thing and i see lots of content about the other woman wanting the married man all to herself but what about straight selfish women that want to keep men all to themselves because their insecure..a pair gets more done than one but 3 is a better team than a pair..it's not like anyone has to leave anyone if both women like each other..there is a bunch of insecure women in the world that need to be center of attention which is pathetic in itself.. not only are you shorting yourself but you drag the team down..sharing is caring
i met mine at 63