**Staying silent can be a powerful tool. It can be used to protect yourself, to avoid conflict, or to simply let your actions speak louder than your words. But it's important to use staying silent wisely. If you stay silent when you should speak up, you could be doing yourself or others a disservice.**
That in itself is an important trait. Before you say anything make sure you yourself understand the situation and have thoroughly considered your answer.
Because thats cowardice, not wisdom. Introvert is another word for shy. and shy is another word for something like "easy frightened" Stand straight with your shoulders back! annopinion from another introvert , peace!
The more people there are in a room the quieter I get haha But also I've been told I'm a great listener, and when the person I'm having a conversation with finishes their train of thought and even asks me what I think I'm usually good at answering because, well, I listened :) But also if you enjoy being somewhere, and being "too quiet", that's just you man. Enjoy yourself. Sometimes people might comment on it but as long as they accept and get you, it's worth to keep working on that relationship in your own ways. If they don't appreciate you, however, and continue using "too quiet" as mockery, you can always find someone more accepting!
@@Kal-El207 Then teach me how to socialise properly with people. Teach me how to not have language barrier issues. Teach me how to not have the fear of being judged. Teach me how to not be afraid of the crowd. I'm not saying that I'm different or I have mental issues or have severe traumas or anything sort, but I'm just saying that I'm not good with people, and I'm fully aware that what I think are "negative thoughts" are just stress. I don't hate my life, and I will never do. I love my life, and I love the one true God the most. I possess emotional, religious and moral restrictions. Y'all keep saying this, and I'm tired of it. It's not that I don't want to. I'm trying to, but all I get from ever talking to people was them judging me even further, saying things that hurt me personally as an introvert who really is trying really hard to change. I know that there are people who actually helped or accepted for who I am, but I am just here to tell the other side of the story.
I'M so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever, hoping to retire next year... Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.
@nicklassrensen8721Yeah!! It would be more beneficial and yield more profit if you actually trade on cryptocurrency, I've been trading since the dip, I've made so much profit trading.
it was a testimony like this that introduced me to her and although at first I thought she was not real but I can now boldly testify...her strategies were awesome and her trading last week was boooom!!!
A trick leaders often use is to remain silent in a meeting where there are conflicting points of view. Just listening to everyone and their points and making sure everyone feels heard is important. Once everyone has had their say and made their arguments you can then come in at the end and summarise the different opinions as you understood them and make your decision. This way you are not in conflict with your subordinates and you have let everyone's opinion be heard without forcing through your own opinion. It's a very effective approach but you must refrain from the urge to speak until the end.
As someone who barely speaks in general, i agree that silence can be a powerful tool but the biggest struggle i have is expressing my thoughts and emotions to others as i tend to stay silent (Edit: it's both sad and comforting seeing everyone relate. I hope yall do better in life)
Being silent is not passive, its concentrated strength. It is a form of control. Controlling impulses and emotions instead of them controlling you. Its easy to control people who are controlled by emotion. Meditation will reverse this and give you great power over yourself. Thats why you see all these Monks doing superhuman things.
True submission is certainty, and certainty is the affirmation of the truth, and affirmation of the truth is acknowledgement, and acknowledgement is performance of what is obligatory, and performance of what is obligatory is appropriate action. Watch your thoughts for they become words Watch your words for they become actions Watch your actions for they become habits Watch your habits for they become character Watch your character for you become your destiny. Ali ibn abu taleb
The power of Silence why? They must respect while you know nothing... Or They must respect you really you know a lot... The power of Silence... 💯❤️🙆♂️
This cannot be more true. Im a silent person in general and I agree you really do see other povs way better when you're silent aka, thats when youre actually trying to understand other peoples perspectives because all you're doing is listening. When you're talking its always talking over other people aka youre too busy trying to get your own point across rather than actually listening to what others around you are truly saying. I see it all the time. That stage of comprehending and taking time to understand what others are saying gets replaced by your talking.
I too have practiced this ancient technique. I've been silent just about my entire life, so silent that I completely forgot how to speak. I no longer have control of my mouth so I have to write everything down or spell it out through keyboard text. Thank you, wise old man, I am now wise like you.
I have been practicing silent time almost daily for the last fifteen years... It's results are amazing ... It has helped me to overcome big struggles in my life with a relaxed mind
The most relaxed person is the most dangerous. When you are relaxed, your energy flows naturally and undisturbed. You can think clear, focus and execute
Yeahhh I have a problem with being silent I tend to always want to talk & say how I feel … but sometimes it is best to stay quiet & only speak wise words …. Silence helps you listen more & just be at peace forreal . It all makes sense but it is gonna be hard because I love to have my point proven … :/ imma work on it today !!!
When I started my first Job, I was pretty silent and the Ladies were outright confused and scared and angry by it. Realized none of them were judgemental as the Gals from my School Days and were accepting of someone like me, I slowly began to speak up and still am slowly. Of course I am glad I am getting along with 96% of my Coworkers and hopefully I will be on the goodside of 100% of my People I meet as well. I’m glad I was able to use my Mimic Skill to just observe the Best People in action and I hope to be like them one day honestly.😊
@@karen0110 it's better for it not considered illness because it's really not. These first world countries are so fragile they consider every little thing as illnesses.
There are countless times I wanted to say things to people that hurt me, I wanted to fight back, but I stayed silence and I am glad I did because it could have been worse
It is powerful,I have sat there in silence and ppl will go on with secrets, exposing deep secrets and exposing themselves if they really ur friend, they not!!!
This story beautifully illustrates the transformative power of silence! I appreciate how it encourages us to embrace quiet moments instead of filling every silence with chatter. The journey of Zen reminds us that sometimes the most impactful thing we can do is to listen. In a world where everyone is eager to express their opinions, it’s refreshing to hear that silence can be a source of strength and wisdom. The seven truths about silence listed at the end provide such valuable insights-especially the idea that it can enhance creativity and help us be more mindful. I’m definitely going to try to incorporate more silence into my life, whether it’s through daily meditation or simply taking a few moments during my day to pause and breathe. Thank you for sharing this powerful story; it’s a great reminder to cherish the quiet moments!
To anyone who's watching this video and reading the comments, my wish for you is that any troubles or anxieties that have been weighing you down will begin to lift. May your mind be cleared of negative thoughts, incessant overthinking, and any doubts that have been holding you back. May clarity replace your confusion, and may your life be filled with peace and calmness. Take the wisdom from this video and empower yourself to achieve all that you seek. 🙏✨
great story, it's good when you are all alone, silence doesn't;t help always, the best moral is that one should wait till what extent he should be silent and when and where the person should break his silence. In this era, people will kill you physically or mentally if you remain silent always.....
i actually knew this when i was younger. but in my years, i've forgotten the wisdom of my youth and i've listened to the chaos of the world. i will try to get back to the enlightenment i knew before.
Sometimes I like to be silent and just be. For me it's good to be silent for a little while in Meditative states or reading a book. However, your throat chakra will block where you repressed voice which may not get much use will start to manifest into throat infections. Thyroiditis and can in some instances throat cancer. When it's our time to powerfully speak our truth w must do so. During my health issues I had to understand why my throat was always itchy until I had a foot massage and alot that I didn't know I came to know and understand. The body likes cycles where it likes to communicate and sometimes it won't depending on the person. We live in technology age where we have forgotten the power of silence is definitely golden to bring our minds and body back into harmony and bliss back to centre.
@@inertboi : yes, all your pressure points under your foot, tells you problems that are occurring in the rest of your body. There are books on this subject as well.
I was also given advice not to always be quite because it caused medical issues, but I now pray about my things and God helps me to control all the issues. Amen. 🙏 🙌
Not always so...my silence disconnected me with a family member. I felt if I was silent about what happened I was protecting them. But when the time came to tell them, they were furious as why I didn't tell them sooner. In protecting them as a mother, I did the wrong thing in their eyes. So silence doesn't always hold true. Your damed if you do and your damed if you don't.
Recently, trying to remain silent has helped me in understanding various things mentioned in the video within past 10 months. I have learnt many things as exactly mentioned. Being wisely silent actually helps! Nice video sir! Thanks for it.
ive stayed silent almost my whole life i know and witnessed a lot of things, ive seen the beauty of the world arround me that ive never seen before, i know so much about the people arround me *but* something grew inside me has time moved on ... i found myself feeling alone and detatched from the world arround me, no one knew who i was or that i even existed even tho i was with them for a long time, i wasnt a part of anyone's life. I felt detatched from the world arround me like if i was nothing but a ghost. you must learn to be silent but if you stay too silent then there is no difference between you and a dead man.
I have taught skills to many people. Hands down, without any doubt, the ones that speak, the ones that ask questions, the ones that push the boundaries, have always been the best (and occasionally the worst). The silent ones, on average, are good, rarely the worst, but never the best. They don't make mistakes, but they don't learn from them either. The moral shouldn't be "know when to be silent" the moral should be "try, and if you fail, learn, try again."
God give us two ears and one mouth. That means we should listen more than we talk. Silent and listen have the same letters. Meditate on this and maybe we can all learn from it. I myself will try to do this more and more each day. God bless you all
Silence has its merits, but sometimes can be wrong. If we do not speak up for the oppressed, are we not enabling the oppression to continue. Atrocities have continued when people have failed to speak up. Dennis R.
As an autistic, I already struggle with verbal communication by default. So I'm usually quiet because I prefer to only speak up if I actually have to say anything important. I see no point in talking just for the sake of talking. When people noticed that I actually listened and dont just let them speak, they opened up to me more and more, some even revealing their deepest secrets to me. They know I won't tell anyone, and they value the advice I give them, because I don't believe in telling people what they should to. I just give suggestions that perhaps they don't see the whole picture. Usually, they come to the conclusions all on their own. But they need to talk to someone about their feelings and problems to reflect themselves. And if they want my honest opinion, I always warn them beforehand that I'm not the kind of person to sugarcoat. Beating around the bush just to spare a person's feelings can do more harm than good
Prophet Sulaiman (A:) said, "If the talking is like silver than the silence is like gold." Hazrat Luqman Hakim (R:) said, "Silence is the half of knowledge and speaking is another half."
Being silent is only powerful if you plant a seed for others to talk around. Then you observe them. Then you know who to trust and who not to. You can map out the social networks of who talks to who, and what values they hold. Particularly if the seed is polarizing. Just yesterday, I reminded a coworker of a funny divorce situation, then I just watch two women talk. I now know to stay away from those two at all costs. I only say hello, and adios. A person can become a fool by trusting everyone, and by trusting no one. Stay wise.
I learned to be silent most of the time, because I understood that in a great portion of circumstances, there's no need to speak,, as it is mostly a stupid game of people's ego and unresolved issues. In almost all the events, aknowledging the situation and controlling your emotions is tbe right choice. People already know what they're doing and thinking, there's no need of time wasting discussions. Only speak when it makes a difference. Obviously this requires a great strenght of character l, because you can't project your insecurities on others. You take it all for yourself, deep inside and continue.
I'm silent...bec i have been constantly blamed by saying that i have broken their trust....they eft me abandoned without saying what trust did i break..... listening to people's crap your person starts blaming you... without even listening your side of the story or understanding what trauma you went through
As a silent person I can say that it has many benefits, but I can also say that it gave me and others problems because I didn't take action and spoke out. It usually ended okay but it could have ended better if I took action and wasn't silent. I'm still a silent person but I've stopped being too silent? (If you know what I mean) and I'm doing much better. So I guess I'm trying to say it's fine to be silent and it has it's benefits but I recomend to be able to take actions once in a while. Thank you for listening to my podcast lol
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This is a compelling commentary. A book I read with a similar bent was soul-stirring. "The Silent Bridge: Echoes of the Unspoken Past" by Emma Wick
**Staying silent can be a powerful tool. It can be used to protect yourself, to avoid conflict, or to simply let your actions speak louder than your words. But it's important to use staying silent wisely. If you stay silent when you should speak up, you could be doing yourself or others a disservice.**
Beautiful explanation ❤
Thanks very much for your comments.
Thanks a lot for your valuable feedback.really appreciated for that.
@@toakasi6425 thanks ❤️
@@StoryPath-sc2pq welcome dear
I have never regretted my silence. As for my speech, I have regretted it over and over again. ~ Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RA
Thanks for your valuable comments really appreciated for that.
Then stop talking. Jk.
@@FlyyKaRizZmA😂😂nice one
Lies. Everyone regrets not speaking up
@@yuh2220not all people are the same
You are silent because you are wise.
I am silent because I don’t know what to say.
*We are not the same*
Thanks for that kind comment.Most of the people knows how to say nothing few of us knows when.thankz for supporting.
Silence is great. I love it. Always felt it was critical...
Same here 👍
That in itself is an important trait. Before you say anything make sure you yourself understand the situation and have thoroughly considered your answer.
As long as you are listening...
I love how Zen was able to resolve conflicts just by listening. It shows that silence can be just as effective in communication as words.
Thanks for comments.
As an introvert with a decent social skill, this somewhat hurts me because people would often criticise me for being "too quiet".
Same except social skills are slightly worse + i have a language i NEED to learn
Because thats cowardice, not wisdom.
Introvert is another word for shy. and shy is another word for something like "easy frightened"
Stand straight with your shoulders back!
annopinion from another introvert , peace!
You’re not introverted. Stop with this label. It’s overused.
The more people there are in a room the quieter I get haha
But also I've been told I'm a great listener, and when the person I'm having a conversation with finishes their train of thought and even asks me what I think I'm usually good at answering because, well, I listened :)
But also if you enjoy being somewhere, and being "too quiet", that's just you man. Enjoy yourself.
Sometimes people might comment on it but as long as they accept and get you, it's worth to keep working on that relationship in your own ways. If they don't appreciate you, however, and continue using "too quiet" as mockery, you can always find someone more accepting!
@@Kal-El207 Then teach me how to socialise properly with people. Teach me how to not have language barrier issues. Teach me how to not have the fear of being judged. Teach me how to not be afraid of the crowd.
I'm not saying that I'm different or I have mental issues or have severe traumas or anything sort, but I'm just saying that I'm not good with people, and I'm fully aware that what I think are "negative thoughts" are just stress.
I don't hate my life, and I will never do. I love my life, and I love the one true God the most. I possess emotional, religious and moral restrictions.
Y'all keep saying this, and I'm tired of it. It's not that I don't want to. I'm trying to, but all I get from ever talking to people was them judging me even further, saying things that hurt me personally as an introvert who really is trying really hard to change.
I know that there are people who actually helped or accepted for who I am, but I am just here to tell the other side of the story.
I'M so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever, hoping to retire next year... Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.
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Training your body and your mind to be silent as a very strong and powerful tool. To use in this crazy world.
shut up then😂
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
A trick leaders often use is to remain silent in a meeting where there are conflicting points of view. Just listening to everyone and their points and making sure everyone feels heard is important. Once everyone has had their say and made their arguments you can then come in at the end and summarise the different opinions as you understood them and make your decision. This way you are not in conflict with your subordinates and you have let everyone's opinion be heard without forcing through your own opinion. It's a very effective approach but you must refrain from the urge to speak until the end.
Thanks a lot.silence is a source of great strength.
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
As someone who barely speaks in general, i agree that silence can be a powerful tool but the biggest struggle i have is expressing my thoughts and emotions to others as i tend to stay silent
(Edit: it's both sad and comforting seeing everyone relate. I hope yall do better in life)
that's what happened recently nd I realized I fked up
as do I, but usually for a purpose. as in life, as in gaming. when one waits, gains wisdom, more opportunity presents itself.
Journal my guy
Same
@@AC-hf3gm Yh I started to journal at a very young age, maybe 7 or a little less. It has helped me to express my thoughts so to speak on them later.
Being silent is not passive, its concentrated strength. It is a form of control. Controlling impulses and emotions instead of them controlling you. Its easy to control people who are controlled by emotion. Meditation will reverse this and give you great power over yourself. Thats why you see all these Monks doing superhuman things.
Thanks for your valuable and meaningful comments .
Being silent is always good😂 you got a mouth for Reason
@@fartzhapy4165always no one said that..
Idk but I read this as Yoda would say it
Excellence point of summary
2:45 exactly! Silence can help us to focus 🌱🧘
True submission is certainty, and certainty is the affirmation of the truth, and affirmation of the truth is acknowledgement, and acknowledgement is performance of what is obligatory, and performance of what is obligatory is appropriate action.
Watch your thoughts for they become words
Watch your words for they become actions
Watch your actions for they become habits
Watch your habits for they become character
Watch your character for you become your destiny. Ali ibn abu taleb
Thanks for watching and supporting really appreciated for that.
Most indeed 🧡
Powerful words of wisdom.
..... My. C .. 😂 . G. F. 😂. .v. 😂😂😂😂😂
The power of Silence why?
They must respect while you know nothing...
Or
They must respect you really you know a lot...
The power of Silence... 💯❤️🙆♂️
Silence is power being quiet is the best way to win
This cannot be more true. Im a silent person in general and I agree you really do see other povs way better when you're silent aka, thats when youre actually trying to understand other peoples perspectives because all you're doing is listening. When you're talking its always talking over other people aka youre too busy trying to get your own point across rather than actually listening to what others around you are truly saying. I see it all the time. That stage of comprehending and taking time to understand what others are saying gets replaced by your talking.
Silence helps us hear our inner messages. Thanks for your valuable lesson. ☺🙋♂
Thanks a lot.
zen slience is on repeat 😄😆😁
The saddest thing is when you have no choice but to be silent because nobody really cares what you have to say anyway
Facts...
God always cares, I used to feel that way too. But God is always there for us. 🙏🙏🙌🙌
@@wilmaconradie8382 thank you i hope you have a good day i needed it
Thanks a lot for your time and giving comments God bless to all.
thank you for not being silent about this matter 🤲
I too have practiced this ancient technique. I've been silent just about my entire life, so silent that I completely forgot how to speak. I no longer have control of my mouth so I have to write everything down or spell it out through keyboard text. Thank you, wise old man, I am now wise like you.
pretty nice and long way of telling someone to shut up, sending this to them when they annoy me, thank you~
Yup. I've been telling people to "shut up" for years...
I'm proud to say that I'm a listener more than the speaker... 😊
Silent conversation is the most powerful conversation..❣️
I feel so much calmer after listening to this. Thank you! 🌿
Good point
I'm gonna send this everytime I want someone to shut up
Just listening is a gift for anyone.
🇨🇦 Indeed, and one needs *silence* to do full justice to *listening.*
Silence is great. I love it. Always felt it was critical...
Silent is the best answer for all question
I have been practicing silent time almost daily for the last fifteen years... It's results are amazing ... It has helped me to overcome big struggles in my life with a relaxed mind
The most relaxed person is the most dangerous. When you are relaxed, your energy flows naturally and undisturbed. You can think clear, focus and execute
Silent also makes some people think its weaknesses. Also it can be very powerful. So it depends how and when you do it as I learned.
God bless ❤
Thanks a lot. Please keep supporting subscriber like share thanks again.
Honestly....there is no such thing as winning.
A combative mind creates this enemy of true inner peace. Let that idea go. 🙏
Yeahhh I have a problem with being silent I tend to always want to talk & say how I feel … but sometimes it is best to stay quiet & only speak wise words …. Silence helps you listen more & just be at peace forreal . It all makes sense but it is gonna be hard because I love to have my point proven … :/ imma work on it today !!!
Awesome A highly articulate and meaningful message.thanks
I am just like U with this
Same!!
Yes it is absolutely right and in my own life I will try it .Silence is a powerful tool for achieving the success.
All the best
And thanks a million for comments buddy.
Quiet, listen , observe but speak up when necessary- don’t be shy and timid - snap out of that
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
When I started my first Job, I was pretty silent and the Ladies were outright confused and scared and angry by it. Realized none of them were judgemental as the Gals from my School Days and were accepting of someone like me, I slowly began to speak up and still am slowly. Of course I am glad I am getting along with 96% of my Coworkers and hopefully I will be on the goodside of 100% of my People I meet as well. I’m glad I was able to use my Mimic Skill to just observe the Best People in action and I hope to be like them one day honestly.😊
Been the same for me. Been here five years, I speak with confidence half of the time.
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
I am grateful for this lesson of silence
Thanks a million for your likeness.really appreciated for that.
As someone living with A.D.H.D. , I find maintaining silence extremely difficult, but this was a really good reminder of the value in it.
Thanks for your valuable comments.
I got adhd too it's so hard to stay silent 🤣🤣but i still somehow learned being silent
Bro can you prescribe me any medication for ADHD.. I'm from a third world country where it is not considered an illness..
Listen to them while fidgeting or something that gets your attention. Speak only when asked. 🙂
@@karen0110 it's better for it not considered illness because it's really not. These first world countries are so fragile they consider every little thing as illnesses.
There are countless times I wanted to say things to people that hurt me, I wanted to fight back, but I stayed silence and I am glad I did because it could have been worse
We all need love but in this world filled with arrogance, it's hard to find. Silence help bruh ain't gonna cap.
It is powerful,I have sat there in silence and ppl will go on with secrets, exposing deep secrets and exposing themselves if they really ur friend, they not!!!
Maybe learn 2 see the diffrence between people and creatures😉
This story beautifully illustrates the transformative power of silence! I appreciate how it encourages us to embrace quiet moments instead of filling every silence with chatter. The journey of Zen reminds us that sometimes the most impactful thing we can do is to listen. In a world where everyone is eager to express their opinions, it’s refreshing to hear that silence can be a source of strength and wisdom. The seven truths about silence listed at the end provide such valuable insights-especially the idea that it can enhance creativity and help us be more mindful. I’m definitely going to try to incorporate more silence into my life, whether it’s through daily meditation or simply taking a few moments during my day to pause and breathe. Thank you for sharing this powerful story; it’s a great reminder to cherish the quiet moments!
Yes I will start doing this today thanks I need this
Thanks really appreciated for that
To anyone who's watching this video and reading the comments, my wish for you is that any troubles or anxieties that have been weighing you down will begin to lift. May your mind be cleared of negative thoughts, incessant overthinking, and any doubts that have been holding you back. May clarity replace your confusion, and may your life be filled with peace and calmness. Take the wisdom from this video and empower yourself to achieve all that you seek. 🙏✨
thanks very much for such a nice comment.
great story, it's good when you are all alone, silence doesn't;t help always, the best moral is that one should wait till what extent he should be silent and when and where the person should break his silence. In this era, people will kill you physically or mentally if you remain silent always.....
Thanks very much for your thoughtful and valuable comment.
please keep supporting like share and subscribe.thanks again.
Spot on. You can't be silent if someone tries to torment you
This is what I wanted
i actually knew this when i was younger. but in my years, i've forgotten the wisdom of my youth and i've listened to the chaos of the world. i will try to get back to the enlightenment i knew before.
Valuable for young people to learn. I've had many gripes with reality and much of reality that bothers people isn't even worth mentioning.
I think calmness..will be the most appropriate word for this...🙂
Sometimes being silent says everything!
This story really came in my mind that's why today I have to stay silent for the rest of the day
Sometimes I like to be silent and just be. For me it's good to be silent for a little while in Meditative states or reading a book. However, your throat chakra will block where you repressed voice which may not get much use will start to manifest into throat infections. Thyroiditis and can in some instances throat cancer. When it's our time to powerfully speak our truth w must do so. During my health issues I had to understand why my throat was always itchy until I had a foot massage and alot that I didn't know I came to know and understand. The body likes cycles where it likes to communicate and sometimes it won't depending on the person. We live in technology age where we have forgotten the power of silence is definitely golden to bring our minds and body back into harmony and bliss back to centre.
From an itchy throat to a foot massage. What. 🎢
You get throat cancer from eating too much ass
@@inertboi : yes, all your pressure points under your foot, tells you problems that are occurring in the rest of your body. There are books on this subject as well.
I was also given advice not to always be quite because it caused medical issues, but I now pray about my things and God helps me to control all the issues. Amen. 🙏 🙌
Amen God bless you.
I must learn to be silent.
Thanks for watching really appreciated for that.
🇨🇦 There is nothing to learn here, just keep your mouth shut except while eating or drinking.
Not always so...my silence disconnected me with a family member. I felt if I was silent about what happened I was protecting them. But when the time came to tell them, they were furious as why I didn't tell them sooner. In protecting them as a mother, I did the wrong thing in their eyes. So silence doesn't always hold true. Your damed if you do and your damed if you don't.
Jay Shree Siya Ram ❤️ jay shree Krishna ❤️ jay Shree RadheKrishna ❤
And some time being silent is more better than proving your point - according to my experience
Recently, trying to remain silent has helped me in understanding various things mentioned in the video within past 10 months. I have learnt many things as exactly mentioned. Being wisely silent actually helps!
Nice video sir! Thanks for it.
Very interesting, silence is being explained by not being silent…
Thanks for sharing this video ❤
My pleasure 😊
Thanks for watching.
A wise Man once said,... nothing at all and just listened to his surrounding.
I read that some month ago and it sticked to my mind.
Very nice motivational message.thanks a lot for this message.
ive stayed silent almost my whole life i know and witnessed a lot of things, ive seen the beauty of the world arround me that ive never seen before, i know so much about the people arround me *but* something grew inside me has time moved on ... i found myself feeling alone and detatched from the world arround me, no one knew who i was or that i even existed even tho i was with them for a long time, i wasnt a part of anyone's life. I felt detatched from the world arround me like if i was nothing but a ghost.
you must learn to be silent but if you stay too silent then there is no difference between you and a dead man.
Yes now I am more practicing silence and listening skills
Thanks
I have taught skills to many people. Hands down, without any doubt, the ones that speak, the ones that ask questions, the ones that push the boundaries, have always been the best (and occasionally the worst). The silent ones, on average, are good, rarely the worst, but never the best. They don't make mistakes, but they don't learn from them either. The moral shouldn't be "know when to be silent" the moral should be "try, and if you fail, learn, try again."
@shemnetto4128 what the fuck kind of psychotic bullshit is that?
Silence is Golden.
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A great lesson, but not the only lesson. Silence and passivity can be incredibly destructive too, like anything in life it's about moderation.
God give us two ears and one mouth. That means we should listen more than we talk. Silent and listen have the same letters. Meditate on this and maybe we can all learn from it. I myself will try to do this more and more each day. God bless you all
Yes, that's why our mouths can sharp as a razors..
The first thing a❤️🙏❤️ true Master will tell you is learn to listen
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Read Proverbs 10:19, Proverbs 11:12, Proverbs 17: 28. All wisdom about silence.
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Don't set homework for people. That's just a bit obnoxious. Either tell us what it says, or don't.
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Silence has its merits, but sometimes can be wrong. If we do not speak up for the oppressed, are we not enabling the oppression to continue. Atrocities have continued when people have failed to speak up.
Dennis R.
Actions speak louder than words.
What are you doing to help those in need, or protect the ones who cannot protect themselves?
Silence is called violence by those who cannot be silent.
As an autistic, I already struggle with verbal communication by default. So I'm usually quiet because I prefer to only speak up if I actually have to say anything important. I see no point in talking just for the sake of talking.
When people noticed that I actually listened and dont just let them speak, they opened up to me more and more, some even revealing their deepest secrets to me. They know I won't tell anyone, and they value the advice I give them, because I don't believe in telling people what they should to. I just give suggestions that perhaps they don't see the whole picture. Usually, they come to the conclusions all on their own. But they need to talk to someone about their feelings and problems to reflect themselves. And if they want my honest opinion, I always warn them beforehand that I'm not the kind of person to sugarcoat. Beating around the bush just to spare a person's feelings can do more harm than good
Great. Was there a reason for repeating the story lines? Maybe to stay silent and listen.
I wondered if I actually heard it twice, then realized I did. I experienced Silence within.
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Thank you sir.i am a talkative girl. But I will try my best to stay silent after this video. thank you
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☀️☀️☀️☀️A fool and a wise man both appear the same when in silence☀️☀️☀️☀️
Well then silence is only beneficial to fools.
100% True wisdom from the old man. In my life people tell me all the time that I have the right to remain silent👮🏻♂️
Amen Jesus Amen 🔥🙏💝 Thank you Jesus 💕🙏💝
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Silence is always better than having a last word
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Good story ❤
great video. 👏👏👏
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🇨🇦 We can express our viewpoint in *writing* and still maintain our silence.
Stupid comment and stupid video
Thank you and I am as silent as The old man and I always learned Alot. Kudos to your channel👏
The more silent you are, the more you are able to hear...
I love this!
thanks buddy.
I'm a silent observer and people always come and talk to me.... I hate it but not mean to people.
I think silence makes people uncomfortable.
I can relate. listening to people sometimes sucks because people can be self centered
@@lifesahobby. people definitely tell on themselves.
I love this a lot of people don’t like that I don’t talk that much but it’s just who I am
Prophet Sulaiman (A:) said, "If the talking is like silver than the silence is like gold."
Hazrat Luqman Hakim (R:) said, "Silence is the half of knowledge and speaking is another half."
Silence is better than being vocal without substance..
Being silent is only powerful if you plant a seed for others to talk around.
Then you observe them.
Then you know who to trust and who not to. You can map out the social networks of who talks to who, and what values they hold. Particularly if the seed is polarizing.
Just yesterday, I reminded a coworker of a funny divorce situation, then I just watch two women talk.
I now know to stay away from those two at all costs. I only say hello, and adios.
A person can become a fool by trusting everyone, and by trusting no one. Stay wise.
I had already considered doing this for the entireity of 2024. Speaking only to my dogs❤❤❤❤
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I hate when people talk too much. Because it starts feeling like they’re wasting my time after a few long minutes. Unless they’re cool like that.
Silence is a good answer to someone's hurting question
This video is very meaningful
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I learned to be silent most of the time, because I understood that in a great portion of circumstances, there's no need to speak,, as it is mostly a stupid game of people's ego and unresolved issues. In almost all the events, aknowledging the situation and controlling your emotions is tbe right choice. People already know what they're doing and thinking, there's no need of time wasting discussions. Only speak when it makes a difference. Obviously this requires a great strenght of character l, because you can't project your insecurities on others. You take it all for yourself, deep inside and continue.
You can hurt someone's feelings with thoughts and emotions alone. Even if you don't speak it, there's still power in that.
I am Zen. The Words of the Wide old man... are true. I absolutly agree.
Then again , we live in a different time and stuff but yeah being silent iis a good thing
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the world needs to collectively relearn this lesson
I'm silent...bec i have been constantly blamed by saying that i have broken their trust....they eft me abandoned without saying what trust did i break..... listening to people's crap your person starts blaming you... without even listening your side of the story or understanding what trauma you went through
Putting words in jars for the time they are needed most is wise indeed.
Many people don't like my chatty, expressive, passionate personality an that's to darn bad!!!😒
As a silent person I can say that it has many benefits, but I can also say that it gave me and others problems because I didn't take action and spoke out. It usually ended okay but it could have ended better if I took action and wasn't silent. I'm still a silent person but I've stopped being too silent? (If you know what I mean) and I'm doing much better. So I guess I'm trying to say it's fine to be silent and it has it's benefits but I recomend to be able to take actions once in a while. Thank you for listening to my podcast lol