Thank you for this video! I've been questioning "should I reach out to my mother & siblings" because it's the holidays. You confirmed that my NOT contacting them was the right choice. Thank you, thank you, thank you❤
I'm in the same situation! A sibling - a chronic fire-breathing monster. Taken me FAR too long to accept reality - avoid whenever possible - even during holiday time.
💯👍🙂❤️ Good on you!! If it helps,in my experience have done the "no contact" with all the narcissitic people who were in my life. Best thing I ever did & keep doing? Over time I've noticed it's the most positive thing to stick to within & throughout my life.
I've been binge watching your videos and thank you so much Danish for making me finally have the courage to go no contact with my narcissistic mother. Its been nearly 2 months now and there's no going back for me. I've been a victim of her abuse all my life and now I'm a survivor. I finally feel free and my life feels like it's just beginning. It all came to a head when I told her that me and my husband wanted christmas day in our new home this year (she wont put herself out to come to us) She went full on verbal abusive, I was a disappointment, a let down, my late father would be ashamed of me, she should be put before my husband and adult children. She went on, she didn't want to see me at all over christmas if we weren't prepared to go to her, how could I do this to her and what a selfish daughter I am. I was in tears, so I told her I was going to hang up. I left it an hour, text her to say that she was out of order, I would never speak to or treat my sons the way does me and how upset and hurt I felt. My father always said that my mother would never admit she's ever wrong or apologise and he was right, I've heard nothing since. Through the loving support of my husband and adult sons I now know that I'm worth more than being my narcissistic mothers scapegoat. Its not been an easy 2 months, old habits die hard. However, to anyone else going through the same, keep strong, know your worth and know when to walk away and break free.
Stay strong please,don 't fall in the trap again.she will try-out,beleave me. It is unbeleavebell that a mother can be like this but it is the sad true
the more educated you become, the more you understand, the more you understand you fully understand just how TOXIC they are. she would never admit she's ever wrong, or apologize for the very simple fact, she has gotten away w acting like a idiot forever.
100% well said!! In my experience,the same type of scenario panned out for me. My narcissitic "parents" well-cut the long & painful story short-no contact best thing I ever did. Stayed strong & true to myself. Now 1 of them only is still alive but as despite I was always the dutiful daughter & behaved too compliantly when they should've given me mutual respect & everything but never did!! Constantly out for their own way all the time & telling me I was this that & everything else when they couldn't get their evil needs meet.. Sadly no positive from them until I lived my own life my way without their negative interference & bullying. Thank you for sharing ❤ you're inspiring & I'm happy as it was for the best cutting off toes with them as I worked so hard but they never compromised or supported me anything good I needed so "their loss is my gain"
@@lilfairycupcakeas I was in this situation too,💯!! They never validated or apologized nothing so best thing I ever did was go no contact. No turning back & I'm loving my life alone that's healthy & positive
I'm graduating graduate's school as summa cum laude and with Latin Honors for having a GPA over 4.12. I'm a Psychology major and History minor and i'm also pre-law! My school even elected me to act as a Regent for the school's board working directly with the governor in a one year contract and my boyfriend sat there at Thanksgiving glorifying his son instead of mentioning my good news! I felt disrespected! My son even was accepted to an Ivy League University-Columbia!!! He never mentioned my son and he never even mentioned any of my accelerated accomplishments and it made me feel de-valued. My accomplishments, to me, are SPECTACULAR given that I have Multiple Sclerosis and suffer from pain on a daily basis and I still got my butt up for school and not only do I graduate in a week but made a name for myself! Yet, he sat there glorifying his hay days fighting in grade school and talking about his son being a chef instead. Which I mentioned I was proud of his son but he never even gave me any props for my achievements... Not even my son's achievements!!! Narcissists are jealous freaks. lol
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV “Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
The best comment i ever heard from a therapist who was addressing a patient who pushed himself in front of other patients, "I know, I know, you are special. Just like everybody else!" 😂
Omg! Danish…the way you just described your grandfather…”old age hit him hard”! This is my father. He is 79 now, was a firefighter and did physical work his whole life. Was obviously proud of being so strong. Now, he can hardly balance himself. He is angry all the time because he can no longer do the things he used to.
I guess we are all here because we were all lucky enough to have this jerk in our lives and try to destroy us when we didn't do a thing to hurt them, they know what they did. We need to let it go. God said vengeance is mine you strp aside you will mess this up I got this❤
Thank you, Doc. Interesting to hear about your own personal experience with a narcissist. They sure get pleasure out of screaming and yelling and trying to scare and intimidate their loved ones.😢
They never properly detached from their parents. So they keep attaching and detaching from people to try to complete this but they can't because it's not their parents it's just a random person.
Thank you, Danish, for these essential truths! You are the savior of nearly-lost and forgotten souls, including yourself, but manage to pull us back into the center, so we can understand and heal our trauma. It's painfully relieving. 😣
# 4 THE TRUTH IS!… this hits home, the part wort with no identity also, I wanted dreads in my hair, now he has dreads, period he literally stole tattoos and got the exact same. He called From jail haven’t heard from him in six months and was telling me how much he thought about me every day and that this is different and he’s never thought about somebody every day…. Obviously he needs me more than I need him . The moment he was locked up. My family could breathe easily. I could breathe easily and my healing began.
Thank you much, Danish! I intend to your vids everyday, and I've been learning everyday; even though I'm 64 yr old grandma, I'm still learning and now understanding more about my own traumatized life!
Exactly my point to, they can't even see why they are hated so much which is the biggest problem. They don't even see that they are a problem they just have automated responses which are usually triggers they say and a lot of wicked things to say
Im 1 yr free from such abusive marriage, and my former spouse was somatic. He took more time in the mirror than i did as a woman. Your understanding of things has been a blessing to me. I listen to 1 other person on TH-cam, Shaneen who also deals with narcissistic relationships/people. I thank you for this sir. Thank you.
Watching your videos is a major inspiration to me and it let's me know that healing is possible. I used to think I would never be able to survive on my own but life experiences put me in that position and I realized I was totally capable of it and that life is so much more peaceful and easier without him. Your videos continue to help me find more and more strength within myself that I never knew I had before.
The Third One is So Sad Danish I relate your description to that of a professional fighter fighting beyond the age of 50 . Most of We can accept Age and the fact we don't heal as fast after injury . For ladies it's their looks... CarryON Champion 🏆 Danish 🦅🏆😎
Oh my God! That thing when he was an angel with everyone and a cruel sadist with me, at my 45 I had never seen it before. I couldn't imagine that such a thing existed ! This transgression is still confusing to my naive mind! They all see the person I fell in love with.😢
I'm very content in my own company, because not everyone's energy is safe to exchange with and I get drained so fast especially around the wrong people. Solitude, teaches me to strengthen my discernment
Thank you for this content. Many of us have been subject to narcissism or have these tendencies but we never know until someone highlights it. The one thing I have learned through personal experience is; that such characters hate constructive criticism.
You have excellent insight. I have suffered a vicious malignant narcissist mother and a weak father who let me suffer her abuse. Now I have a cruel narcissist adult son who allowed his narcissist gf to disrespect me while I was allowing her to live with us and supporting them both off of my little savings, while they refused both employment and even chores, Thank you.
a Good Heart, even if they do something against their conscience will feel badly and not want to repeat the error,. Causing harm deeply disturbs their conscience... .A Narcissist actually enjoys being a "bad heart"....they feed on the power over others and the intoxication of deceiving others what my mother enjoyed: she called it "conquering" people. Thank you Danish, for your exposing not just your pain and experience with such people but it gives those of us who have suffered, the hope and healing we all deserve.
In my experience, this is 100% spot on!! For example, earlier this year my narcissitic "mother" passed on. They tried all their life to look & feel good despite age wasn't kind to them either. They'd many supplies & of course as I saw through them as they treated me badly but they tried to keep using me as their main supply given their gossiping "coffee club committee" style with family/friends.. Their health suffered with old age creeping up on them too but in the end it caught up to them & was what I believe in the most as in ☯️ karma ☯️ They didn't believe in it as they only believed being so narcissitic that they were invincible & nothing no matter how bad what they did & said * alot in my case especially * would ever come back "to haunt them"? They're just lucky I didn't play into their manipulative games as I wasn't buying into it despite at their service I wasn't there & they were trying to make themselves sound good & make me look bad at their expense but it backfired as if your adult child isn't at cremation /service what type of person did that make you 😢
This was a brilliant video Danish. Perfect description of these monsters.. I can only thank God he saved me from marrying this creature, they or rather she isn't human and a dark spirit lays beneath.
It must have been so difficult to live with such narcissistic parents. Thanks so much for sharing your words of wisdom after having been through such pain.
I learned, from this video, that my narcissist ia a Altruistic Narcissist. I also learned about the existence of "intermittent reinforcement". You've answered some very crucial elements of my relationship. I'm a subscriber, for sure !
Thank you Danish. I'm watching your videos for long time. It's a eye opener for me. I got struck in my life with narcissist as parents and friends. Now I got some points about how to make a boundry and contact less with them. Meantime I want learn more about how to step away from their financial traps
If he's being honest, he gave you quite the compliment. Most narcs don't compliment unless they are trying to get their hooks into you, get something from you.
The biggest sign is that narcissist cannot stand with the truthtellers as i have experienced this with my crazy partner i was fooled by love bombing 😢 but woman is gifted by divine vibes which i got and then i decide to disclose them like u i was divorced by my this action and they made me to go through this severe punishment although i did not deserve this. My hair has fallen due to traumatized body and brain as i am tying to heal but could not be able to do so.Pray for me as i am trying my best i want to become like u to disclose these monsters😊
The gifts they give are always STOLEN... They know their going to he'll, they wanna take us with them...repentance is not in their DNA...I REALLY DONT CARE, I PRAY THEY GO AWAY.
When I had a big quarrel with my mother's big farmers' family to survive, when I was studying, my grandmother said to me: "Your mother, your aunts, and I have never done anything wrong." Her death at 95 was my fault and before her death, she said she forgave me everything? Sometimes I wonder if I am a narcissist as a whole of my mother's family is. But then I stopped being the most obedient relative and giving all my strength and knowledge to them hoping somebody would love me. Until they destroyed me after all the abuses. I realized with professional help who they are and they proclaimed me mad and destroyed me totally. My grandmother said I am worthless, like my father was. My father's family were eternal victims who died sooner or committed suicide, which I feel about myself, too. Sometimes I hope our knowledge with make some changes and sometimes I do not, when those scary abuses are driving me.
My ex (not divorced) husband who was such an evil man with demon baby tattos on his stomach..contacted me (after 4 years didn't respond)to tell me hes a minister now!!!!How on earth?????i am so upset ...i have been watching all your videos because they really help even though I thought i was healed
My dad is a.narcissist, and as he ages it seems like his intelligence is leaving him. He basically believes any conspiracy theory he comes across. He holds a PhD in chemistry, but he never applies any real discernment when looking into these things. It's really frustrating
I mean, most of the conspiracy theories have been proven true in recent years. So, his intelligence may not be slipping. You may just not be able to connect the dots that he can due to his experience living longer in this world... What we see and are told is mostly lies.
I am 57 years , narc brother 18 months younger than me. His whole life is based lies,,he lied to immigration he lied about his education and qualifications he’s told tiberrible lies about me. I completely cut him I out of my life seven years ago, along with many flying monkeys 5all automatically blocked). Particularly now when legally everything is gonna start crumbling down. I used to so scared of my brother with bellowing voice! Now, I’m not so scared even though I stand alone
i dont believe we have to be impaired by age... i dont believe it has to be a long term process of decline...i think we should think of death as a short term process which at most lasts only a few days....and we should not think that there is an aging process which must happen before the onset of death
Are narcissists uncapable of offering or giving help? I only ask because neither of my parents have done this, even when i was suicidal and practically begging for help. I got told to get a grip and deal with it... i was actually suicidal after this. still recovering
I need help. My life was turned upside down and inside out. He has entered a rehab program that is faith based. I fear for those who are in close contact with him. He has already turned a priest against the church. I need help to warn them or at the very least prepare those close to him for the inevitable consequences of his actions
nobody likes them is the truth. one thing i remember, after kicking my narc to the curb was "she never mentioned childhood friends"? reason being, even as a child nobody liked her, no more than nobody liked her as a adult. what a absolutely sh it life to live.
They're mostly created but there may be some genetic predisposition. In my opinion they can be created due to abuse/neglect and or having one parent abuse/neglect and another over compensate by making them think they're gods gift to the world and never holding them accountable for anything. It's like their brains never developed past the stage of young childhood where one cannot imagine other people's perspectives.
They can be a self aware narcissist but they can never stop being a narcissist. Narcissists are created from neglect or golden child. They have attachment issues from improper parenting. Either the parent smothered them or ignored them. No balance. So they have lifelong issues with attachment.
How long does it take,ore how many contacts/interactions do the y have to have with extended family members and friends outside their homes, before they are 'found out' by those people who they really are.
@4514rooster i asked my bf what he loves about me and he went on like "the thing i love about you the most is how you put my mind at ease, my mind can rest, and how you understand things from my pov" Basically all about himself? Is this supposed to tell me something about the person that i'm dating? Is this a narsicistic behaviour?
Good day Swth,u look too worried is there any thing u want me to know? or something ur are not telling me? My narcissistic wife send me this. What do you think
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Thank you ❤ for answering my question
Everything you said is true. Narcisists do not change and get worse with age.
Well, he's really mad about being bald - on top of everything else he's always mad about. 🤣
Thank you for this video! I've been questioning "should I reach out to my mother & siblings" because it's the holidays. You confirmed that my NOT contacting them was the right choice. Thank you, thank you, thank you❤
I will send my mother a card. That will be it. I love myself too much
Stay no contact girl. Please. It's your life over theirs.
@@thehotcoffeehouse6081 you're right. The peace is worth it. I guess I just get sentimental at times. It's a challenge, for sure.
I'm in the same situation! A sibling - a chronic fire-breathing monster. Taken me FAR too long to accept reality - avoid whenever possible - even during holiday time.
💯👍🙂❤️ Good on you!! If it helps,in my experience have done the "no contact" with all the narcissitic people who were in my life. Best thing I ever did & keep doing? Over time I've noticed it's the most positive thing to stick to within & throughout my life.
I've been binge watching your videos and thank you so much Danish for making me finally have the courage to go no contact with my narcissistic mother. Its been nearly 2 months now and there's no going back for me. I've been a victim of her abuse all my life and now I'm a survivor. I finally feel free and my life feels like it's just beginning. It all came to a head when I told her that me and my husband wanted christmas day in our new home this year (she wont put herself out to come to us) She went full on verbal abusive, I was a disappointment, a let down, my late father would be ashamed of me, she should be put before my husband and adult children. She went on, she didn't want to see me at all over christmas if we weren't prepared to go to her, how could I do this to her and what a selfish daughter I am. I was in tears, so I told her I was going to hang up. I left it an hour, text her to say that she was out of order, I would never speak to or treat my sons the way does me and how upset and hurt I felt. My father always said that my mother would never admit she's ever wrong or apologise and he was right, I've heard nothing since. Through the loving support of my husband and adult sons I now know that I'm worth more than being my narcissistic mothers scapegoat. Its not been an easy 2 months, old habits die hard. However, to anyone else going through the same, keep strong, know your worth and know when to walk away and break free.
Stay strong please,don 't fall in the trap again.she will try-out,beleave me.
It is unbeleavebell that a mother can be like this but it is the sad true
the more educated you become, the more you understand, the more you understand you fully understand just how TOXIC they are. she would never admit she's ever wrong, or apologize for the very simple fact, she has gotten away w acting like a idiot forever.
100% well said!! In my experience,the same type of scenario panned out for me. My narcissitic "parents" well-cut the long & painful story short-no contact best thing I ever did. Stayed strong & true to myself. Now 1 of them only is still alive but as despite I was always the dutiful daughter & behaved too compliantly when they should've given me mutual respect & everything but never did!! Constantly out for their own way all the time & telling me I was this that & everything else when they couldn't get their evil needs meet.. Sadly no positive from them until I lived my own life my way without their negative interference & bullying. Thank you for sharing ❤ you're inspiring & I'm happy as it was for the best cutting off toes with them as I worked so hard but they never compromised or supported me anything good I needed so "their loss is my gain"
@@tinekespa1190🙂👍💯❤️
@@lilfairycupcakeas I was in this situation too,💯!! They never validated or apologized nothing so best thing I ever did was go no contact. No turning back & I'm loving my life alone that's healthy & positive
I'm graduating graduate's school as summa cum laude and with Latin Honors for having a GPA over 4.12. I'm a Psychology major and History minor and i'm also pre-law! My school even elected me to act as a Regent for the school's board working directly with the governor in a one year contract and my boyfriend sat there at Thanksgiving glorifying his son instead of mentioning my good news! I felt disrespected! My son even was accepted to an Ivy League University-Columbia!!! He never mentioned my son and he never even mentioned any of my accelerated accomplishments and it made me feel de-valued. My accomplishments, to me, are SPECTACULAR given that I have Multiple Sclerosis and suffer from pain on a daily basis and I still got my butt up for school and not only do I graduate in a week but made a name for myself! Yet, he sat there glorifying his hay days fighting in grade school and talking about his son being a chef instead. Which I mentioned I was proud of his son but he never even gave me any props for my achievements... Not even my son's achievements!!! Narcissists are jealous freaks. lol
You are amazing. Be proud of yourself. You have achieved so much more than him so maybe he is jealous of you and your son. We can't change them
As Danish has repeated numerous times: he will never change, he doesn't care, leave him asap! 😪
Get rid of the toxic man before he really ruins your life. DONT fool around. 😠
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV
“Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
I believe the narcissist is full of shame because he knows what he is even if he will never admit it.
Some have no shame!
The best comment i ever heard from a therapist who was addressing a patient who pushed himself in front of other patients, "I know, I know, you are special. Just like everybody else!" 😂
Wow that was a nice comment 👏
Omg! Danish…the way you just described your grandfather…”old age hit him hard”! This is my father. He is 79 now, was a firefighter and did physical work his whole life. Was obviously proud of being so strong. Now, he can hardly balance himself. He is angry all the time because he can no longer do the things he used to.
I guess we are all here because we were all lucky enough to have this jerk in our lives and try to destroy us when we didn't do a thing to hurt them, they know what they did. We need to let it go. God said vengeance is mine you strp aside you will mess this up I got this❤
Thank you, Doc. Interesting to hear about your own personal experience with a narcissist. They sure get pleasure out of screaming and yelling and trying to scare and intimidate their loved ones.😢
He discarded me like a bag of trash with no closure. He is now 72 years old and alone.
If they need you so much why do they push you away?
Because they're stupid.
They never properly detached from their parents. So they keep attaching and detaching from people to try to complete this but they can't because it's not their parents it's just a random person.
Thank you, Danish, for these essential truths! You are the savior of nearly-lost and forgotten souls, including yourself, but manage to pull us back into the center, so we can understand and heal our trauma. It's painfully relieving. 😣
Very well said:).
Man Danish you truly lived through hell with your family!!! So glad you survived and are able to help us dealing with these evil people!!!!❤❤❤
# 4 THE TRUTH IS!… this hits home, the part wort with no identity also, I wanted dreads in my hair, now he has dreads, period he literally stole tattoos and got the exact same. He called From jail haven’t heard from him in six months and was telling me how much he thought about me every day and that this is different and he’s never thought about somebody every day…. Obviously he needs me more than I need him . The moment he was locked up. My family could breathe easily. I could breathe easily and my healing began.
Thank you much, Danish! I intend to your vids everyday, and I've been learning everyday; even though I'm 64 yr old grandma, I'm still learning and now understanding more about my own traumatized life!
That was supposed to say, I WATCH your vids everyday.
I really related to you. Your father, my mother, both destroyers. Your calm wise demeanor, my hopes of such progress. Thank you.
Exactly my point to, they can't even see why they are hated so much which is the biggest problem. They don't even see that they are a problem they just have automated responses which are usually triggers they say and a lot of wicked things to say
Thank you, Danish. This was precisely what I needed to hear today. ❤🙏
Your knowledge gives me such comfort. Helps me understand what I'm going through and where to hold the line.
Thank you ❤
Im 1 yr free from such abusive marriage, and my former spouse was somatic. He took more time in the mirror than i did as a woman. Your understanding of things has been a blessing to me. I listen to 1 other person on TH-cam, Shaneen who also deals with narcissistic relationships/people. I thank you for this sir. Thank you.
likes the ending. "every aspect of their life is a lie". so very true.
It's very comforting to know that narcissist will pay for everything they did to innocent loving people.
Hey Danish, thank you for your TH-cam videos, helping many others In similar situations.
Going through a whole life, not knowing yourself sounds like hell.
Thank you, Danish.
Watching your videos is a major inspiration to me and it let's me know that healing is possible. I used to think I would never be able to survive on my own but life experiences put me in that position and I realized I was totally capable of it and that life is so much more peaceful and easier without him. Your videos continue to help me find more and more strength within myself that I never knew I had before.
So true Danish,I notice there not welcome into there company "but" are tolerated with distain, as they put there public charade on show!
From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA
Thanks again
I always watch you. I think you and Little Shaman are the best on youtube on the topic of narcissism.
Thanks for your work
Narcissist theory is like a toxic swamp.....Amazing.
Love you Danish ❤
The Third One is
So Sad Danish
I relate your description to that of a professional fighter fighting beyond the age of 50 . Most of We can accept Age and the fact we don't heal as fast after injury . For ladies it's their looks...
CarryON
Champion 🏆 Danish
🦅🏆😎
Thank you Danish. I will watch this again. There is so much good information here . Have a Lovely Weekend.
Oh my God!
That thing when he was an angel with everyone and a cruel sadist with me, at my 45 I had never seen it before. I couldn't imagine that such a thing existed ! This transgression is still confusing to my naive mind!
They all see the person I fell in love with.😢
I encourage people to be charitable, because after someone helped me, they said to pay it forward, when you are able.
Brilliant… insightful thx Danish
Thank you for good advice.🙏🕊️
Starting a journal was my saving grace!!!!
Blessings to you Danish for having the strength to stand your ground with your family - thank you for your videos 🙏💜 from Ireland 🇮🇪
I'm very content in my own company, because not everyone's energy is safe to exchange with and I get drained so fast especially around the wrong people. Solitude, teaches me to strengthen my discernment
Thank you for this content. Many of us have been subject to narcissism or have these tendencies but we never know until someone highlights it. The one thing I have learned through personal experience is; that such characters hate constructive criticism.
Thank you for the guide!!
Thanks a lot for making the informative video....
I so appreciate your strength and calmness when you teach us in your videos-it gives me courage and hope that healing is real! Thank you!
You have excellent insight. I have suffered a vicious malignant narcissist mother and a weak father who let me suffer her abuse. Now I have a cruel narcissist adult son who allowed his narcissist gf to disrespect me while I was allowing her to live with us and supporting them both off of my little savings, while they refused both employment and even chores, Thank you.
I wish I saw this video years ago, very informative!
a Good Heart, even if they do something against their conscience will feel badly and not want to repeat the error,. Causing harm deeply disturbs their conscience...
.A Narcissist actually enjoys being a "bad heart"....they feed on the power over others and the intoxication of deceiving others what my mother enjoyed: she called it "conquering" people.
Thank you Danish, for your exposing not just your pain and experience with such people but it gives those of us who have suffered, the hope and healing we all deserve.
In my experience, this is 100% spot on!! For example, earlier this year my narcissitic "mother" passed on. They tried all their life to look & feel good despite age wasn't kind to them either. They'd many supplies & of course as I saw through them as they treated me badly but they tried to keep using me as their main supply given their gossiping "coffee club committee" style with family/friends.. Their health suffered with old age creeping up on them too but in the end it caught up to them & was what I believe in the most as in ☯️ karma ☯️ They didn't believe in it as they only believed being so narcissitic that they were invincible & nothing no matter how bad what they did & said * alot in my case especially * would ever come back "to haunt them"? They're just lucky I didn't play into their manipulative games as I wasn't buying into it despite at their service I wasn't there & they were trying to make themselves sound good & make me look bad at their expense but it backfired as if your adult child isn't at cremation /service what type of person did that make you 😢
Many thanks Danish for such an useful episode..
Your episodes has given me much strength and confidence dealing with nars..
This was a brilliant video Danish. Perfect description of these monsters.. I can only thank God he saved me from marrying this creature, they or rather she isn't human and a dark spirit lays beneath.
😄😄😄😄 I like this description of a narcissist, I am listening ... over and over and over again
You are my favorite coach of all time you’re so right
100% TRUTH
It must have been so difficult to live with such narcissistic parents. Thanks so much for sharing your words of wisdom after having been through such pain.
Thanks!
I learned, from this video, that my narcissist ia a Altruistic Narcissist. I also learned about the existence of "intermittent reinforcement". You've answered some very crucial elements of my relationship. I'm a subscriber, for sure !
Thank you Danish. I'm watching your videos for long time. It's a eye opener for me. I got struck in my life with narcissist as parents and friends. Now I got some points about how to make a boundry and contact less with them. Meantime I want learn more about how to step away from their financial traps
If he's being honest, he gave you quite the compliment. Most narcs don't compliment unless they are trying to get their hooks into you, get something from you.
The biggest sign is that narcissist cannot stand with the truthtellers as i have experienced this with my crazy partner i was fooled by love bombing 😢 but woman is gifted by divine vibes which i got and then i decide to disclose them like u i was divorced by my this action and they made me to go through this severe punishment although i did not deserve this. My hair has fallen due to traumatized body and brain as i am tying to heal but could not be able to do so.Pray for me as i am trying my best i want to become like u to disclose these monsters😊
Brilliant. Just brilliant.
Thank you. This was awesome content.
thank you, Daniş!
The gifts they give are always STOLEN... They know their going to he'll, they wanna take us with them...repentance is not in their DNA...I REALLY DONT CARE, I PRAY THEY GO AWAY.
LOL! Literally! Mine was a major thief and constantly gave me stolen jewelry ... and expected to be rewarded for being so "generous!"
Apparently #4 went out the window with my ex. He ghosted me, bldg a relationship with his new supply, and then discarded me after 23yrs
Your videos Danish are very good.
When I had a big quarrel with my mother's big farmers' family to survive, when I was studying, my grandmother said to me: "Your mother, your aunts, and I have never done anything wrong." Her death at 95 was my fault and before her death, she said she forgave me everything?
Sometimes I wonder if I am a narcissist as a whole of my mother's family is. But then I stopped being the most obedient relative and giving all my strength and knowledge to them hoping somebody would love me. Until they destroyed me after all the abuses. I realized with professional help who they are and they proclaimed me mad and destroyed me totally. My grandmother said I am worthless, like my father was. My father's family were eternal victims who died sooner or committed suicide, which I feel about myself, too. Sometimes I hope our knowledge with make some changes and sometimes I do not, when those scary abuses are driving me.
Learning so much from your content. Thank you for your hard work and words of true wisdom ❤🙏👑
My ex (not divorced) husband who was such an evil man with demon baby tattos on his stomach..contacted me (after 4 years didn't respond)to tell me hes a minister now!!!!How on earth?????i am so upset ...i have been watching all your videos because they really help even though I thought i was healed
A Narc is a garbage if the victim discards them ....all victims should understand it ...never be their supply ...without supply they cannot breathe
My dad is a.narcissist, and as he ages it seems like his intelligence is leaving him. He basically believes any conspiracy theory he comes across. He holds a PhD in chemistry, but he never applies any real discernment when looking into these things. It's really frustrating
I mean, most of the conspiracy theories have been proven true in recent years. So, his intelligence may not be slipping. You may just not be able to connect the dots that he can due to his experience living longer in this world... What we see and are told is mostly lies.
So he got the vax?
I am 57 years , narc brother 18 months younger than me. His whole life is based lies,,he lied to immigration he lied about his education and qualifications he’s told tiberrible lies about me.
I completely cut him I out of my life seven years ago, along with many flying monkeys 5all automatically blocked). Particularly now when legally everything is gonna start crumbling down.
I used to so scared of my brother with bellowing voice!
Now, I’m not so scared even though I stand alone
your father knew EXACTLY what he was doing.
Being a Narcisist myself, it is very sad, i would like to change but i cant.
i dont believe we have to be impaired by age... i dont believe it has to be a long term process of decline...i think we should think of death as a short term process which at most lasts only a few days....and we should not think that there is an aging process which must happen before the onset of death
Nope i don't think i'm special,And know i' m not better than nobody.And i don't have the body for that.And i have no money.
Are narcissists uncapable of offering or giving help? I only ask because neither of my parents have done this, even when i was suicidal and practically begging for help. I got told to get a grip and deal with it... i was actually suicidal after this. still recovering
I need help.
My life was turned upside down and inside out. He has entered a rehab program that is faith based. I fear for those who are in close contact with him. He has already turned a priest against the church. I need help to warn them or at the very least prepare those close to him for the inevitable consequences of his actions
nobody likes them is the truth. one thing i remember, after kicking my narc to the curb was "she never mentioned childhood friends"? reason being, even as a child nobody liked her, no more than nobody liked her as a adult. what a absolutely sh it life to live.
So true
My ex husband didn't want to divorce. I was certainly his best "supply"
Narcissists serve sin. Non-narcissists don’t. 😊
The concept of narcissism can get confusing. Can a person with NPD heal and be less narcissistic or its a condition like being born with autism?
They're mostly created but there may be some genetic predisposition. In my opinion they can be created due to abuse/neglect and or having one parent abuse/neglect and another over compensate by making them think they're gods gift to the world and never holding them accountable for anything. It's like their brains never developed past the stage of young childhood where one cannot imagine other people's perspectives.
They can be a self aware narcissist but they can never stop being a narcissist. Narcissists are created from neglect or golden child. They have attachment issues from improper parenting. Either the parent smothered them or ignored them. No balance. So they have lifelong issues with attachment.
How long does it take,ore how many contacts/interactions do the y have to have with extended family members and friends outside their homes, before they are 'found out' by those people who they really are.
@4514rooster i asked my bf what he loves about me and he went on like "the thing i love about you the most is how you put my mind at ease, my mind can rest, and how you understand things from my pov" Basically all about himself?
Is this supposed to tell me something about the person that i'm dating? Is this a narsicistic behaviour?
Yes, run!
Thats my narc husband. A predator.
I cant believe i wasnt the first comment
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❤yes
And dealing with a narcissist, evil spirit, you just have to remember to rebuke it, in the name of Jesus, because it is for real
Good day Swth,u look too worried is there any thing u want me to know? or something ur are not telling me? My narcissistic wife send me this. What do you think
❤❤ hello I am here to get my morning danish
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