I want to salute this pakistani american girl. She is supergirl. I love her. Please if you are watching this take my grand salute. I will pray for you. Everything will be ok very soon.
For the first MBA girl : I feel you girl. This is a kind of bit hard to go through. One thing I would like to say do not share your intimacy stuff with any of the females from your husband's family. Women are weird they don't keep secrets they might leak out your intimacy related expectations and you will feel terrible (you are right but people are judgy). You are pregnant with your first child try to focus on your health. Do meditation deep breathing exercises and you can do light walking it will help you to stay calm and busy. Bring some books work on your hobbies, solve mathematical problems read and watch pretty rational stuff, play games that involve problem solving, talk to your best friend, start journaling. There is so much that you can do. All you need is motivation. And I would highly encourage you to talk to your man about all this issue (not a casual discussion but a proper table talk). Take immediate action to save your mental peace. You deserve love but remember girl never beg for love ❤️ lots of prayers and best wishes for you
37:41 (this took almost an hour to write 😭) Respected Sister, First of all I pray to Allah Ta'ala & hope that all of your sufferings may come to an end. I want to share something with you & this is just my humble opinion. It's been almost two years, hmaray ghr mein construction horhi thi, ek new kitchen aur living room, ghr ki roof py bann rha tha. It was a long process & daily labors ka aana jaana rehta tha. Ye hamaray ghr mein after three decades ek major development thi. Idk if someone opted out and did cast black magic upon us. What happened was, after construction, my mother used to see shadows in the new living room. But we didn't use to take this very seriously & had always presumed it to be due to weakness as she always wanted (& still wants 😂) to lose weight & every now and then she's on diet. Anyway, one morning, me & my siblings were sleeping downstairs, my father was having a shower downstairs while my mother was upstairs alone in the newly constructed portion. She was going to press clothes for my father and after that she had to prepare breakfast for him, like any normal working day. When my father came up, he found my mother upsidedown on the ground. Mere father ny mama ko seedha kiya, unnki aankhon sy aansu girr rae the but she was highly traumatized & was unable to talk. Itni dyr mein hum behn bhai bhi upr aagae the. Boht dyr baad meri mama ny barri mushkil sy btaya ky unnko kisi ny dhakka diya hy. Note: This major one incident & the little paranormal activities before it, were all experienced by my mother alone. Another note: Meri life religiously boht off thi but around 6 years ago I read the last sermon of our Beloved Prophet ﷺ & cried a lot. Phir mene beard bhi rakhi & still gunah hojatay hyn but I try my best to be a better muslim. Coming back to the topic, meri mother ko jb dhakka diya gaya, usskay baad sy hum log uss room mein kisi ko bhi akela janay nhi detay thy. & itna darr lgta tha ky I cannot explain. But me being a molvi 😂 used to go alone & behave in a funny gutsy way to cheer up my family, but deep down I was so afraid. Meri condition ye thi ky jb mene daily ky zikar wghera apnay kiye hotay the tou mei himmat krke akela chala jaata tha (darr lgta tha but still chala jaata tha), lekin jb zikar nhi kiya hota tha kbhi tou bilkul nhi jaata tha because I used to feel that my connection with Allah Ta'ala is very weak. One day, sblog daawat py gae huay the and being an introvert, I was alone at home. Mujhe bahar sy doodh bhi laana tha aur laaky fridge mein rkhna tha taakay khraab na ho. & this was an off day, infact mei kaafi dinon sy zikar wghera nhi kr paa rha tha, namazyn bhi bss casual wali ja rhi thein, Allah Ta'ala ky saath connection boht hee weak chal rha tha. Anyway, mei doodh laaya aur jb le aaya tou realize hua ky issko fridge mein rkhnay tou upr jaana parray ga aur ghr pr koi bhi nhi hy. Muje boht darr lg rha tha ky mei upr kese jaaun. Tou mei nichay hee kharra sochta rha aur preshaan hota rha. Phir khud ba khud hee mere dil mein ye baat aai ky uss wqt jb mujhe itna darr lg rha tha, mene khud sy kaha ky, "Allah Ta'ala ny hifazat kya sirf apne nayk banndon ki hee krni hy?" Bss ye baat aai & my eyes teared up, the next moment, mei upr gaya doodh fridge mein rakha & didn't even run, just came back normally. (Yahan tk baatyn sirf iss liye share ki hyn ky shayad it may give you strength.) We didn't opt for any aamil. We did consult an "Aalim" & then humnay khud hee azkaar kiye & we are free from the evil that was there AlhamduLillah. Now my suggestion: First of all, aamilon ky paas jana chorr dyn, mostly fake hyn. Secondly, aap namazen tou parrh hee rhi hyn, Surah Baqarah ki tilawat start krden aur awaz ky saath (in normal pitch) daily kuch portion tilawat zrur kiya kren. Subah aur shaam mein 3 3 mrtba Surah Ikhlas, Surah Falaq aur Surah Naas parrha kren. Aur sonay sy pehle iss trha sy parrhna Sunnat hy ky 1 1 mrtba teeno Suratyn parrhyn aur haathon py phoonk maar ky apni body py pher lyn & do this for three times (takay 3 dafa sbki tilawat complete hojae). Subah aur shaam ki Masnoon Duayn zrur parrha kren. Ye just wazifa ky torr pr (not Sunnah) subah shaam agr Manzil (by Shaykh Zakaria) parrh lyn tou it'll be very beneficial as well. Aapko eventually in sha Allah zrur faida hoga. I'm sorry ek chotti cee suggestion aur hy: (Please complete read kijiye ga.) Aap apni love life sy break ly lyn. Dekhen if someone follows Islamic teachings of modesty, phir tou ussko kisi sy love wghera ho hee nhi skta. But agr hogya tou it can't be helped & there's nothing wrong in love marriage. If only aap apne aap ko aur apne partner ko convince krlen ky jb tk nikah nhi hota aap log baat nhi kren gy & ek dusray ka wait kren gy, it would be very amazing. Nikah sy pehle jitni mrzi achi baaten krlen, it's not likeable in terms of Islam. In my opinion, this can be a hurdle in the acceptance of your prayers. Unclean bartann mein kbhi koi achi saaf cheez nhi aati. Similarly, if you'll have this disliked connection with someone, how will you be able to connect with Allah Ta'ala the way one should be connecting. Now I know when one's in a relationship, ibadat mein bhi maza aata hy spiritually bhi eysy lgta hy ky hum Allah Ta'ala ky boht close hyn. Lekin trust me, eysa nhi hota, just shaytan ka dhoka hy. (I've also been in a very deep relationship before I reverted, so I'm just writing what I experienced. There's no such thing as a paak relationship before Nikah no matter how paak it seems.) So if you guys be patient with each other & refrain from each other until your marriage, Allah Ta'ala boht khush hongy. This was all it, thank you so much agr aapne ya aur comments read krne walon mein sy kisi ny yahan tk parrha. Jazak Allah Summarizing the points just one more time & briefly adding a few more: 1. Kisi ky paas bhi mt jaaen spiritual therapy ky liye. 2. Jo azkaar Ahadees mein aae hyn unnko parrhne ka ehtmaam kren. 3. Please apni relationship sy thorra sa break ly lyn. 4. Apni studies py focus kren. 5. There's also a possibility ky koi bhi kaala jaadu na ho, so just iss waja sy ky aapko uss group mein ek pakistani aurat ny keh diya ky ussko ye disease jadu ki wja sy hui, aap apne sarr pr issko sawaar mt kren. Believe me, koi bilkul theek bhi ho, most of the aamil type people would still say ky jaadu hy because unnka ye business hota hy. 6. Therefore, have a little materialistic approach towards your disease. Ask the other non muslim women, how did they get cured. 7. It's totally up to you, as we all have our differences so again I'm only suggesting; Mufti Tariq Masood shb ky black magic pr bayanaat zrur sunniye gaa, they'll affect you in a therapeutic way (I used to share them with my family & we felt better) & agr aap chahen tou (as you're in Lahore) Jamia Ashrafia visit krke guidance ly skti hyn (by going to the Darul Ifta there). Allah Ta'ala aapki boht boht madad frmaen aur aapko khushiyan aur kamiyabiyan dyn. Jald az jald sehet dyn aur aapki saari nayk wishes poori frmaen. Ameen
For the writer concerned about Sir junaid's mental well being : dear writer what sir junaid is doing is a form of psychotherapy ( listening to people and helping them to figure out an appropriate solution for their problems, in professional settings it's called catharsis). Mental health professional tackle such situations every other day. They really need to relate to the person they are listening to (transference) which is a good thing. But when the problems of other people start affecting your own mental well being (counter transference) then the problem arises that can be handled by coping mechanisms that he does very well, he is a matured and well composed person (hardly and rarely found in Pakistan). And one thing is that sensitive people can't sit in a corner when they see people around them in pain. Thank you so much for acknowledging. I really wish one day the contributions of all the therapists will be acknowledged and cherished the same way by this society ✌️
Best AskGanjiswag podcast so far! It ranged from a whirlpool of social emotions, people facing sickness, blackmagic to people unwilling to marry and so on. Especially that Indian guy Made Junaid question his mathematics - 😂 Left Junaid impressed with his writeup and wordplay so much that Junaid actually picked up "all that jazz" line and used it many times 😁 Actually made me laugh out loud at JCB part since JCB in India is earth caving machine used to dig sand, dirt in large quantity - equated it to gold diggers 🤣🤣 LEGEND! No wonder he aims to be a scriptwriter, I am sure he is going to nail the script! Very impressive!
Hey Junaid Sir, I am a 21 year old student from Agra, India, working in a Corporate from 4 months. I save for my family and bear my expenses, so cannot support you financially on patron or Facebook but I do watch every ad on your videos till end. I try to never skip an ad on your video, like there's an ad every 5 minutes on every video, I watch it so that you may earn something from that. Thanks for all these education and learnings. :))
its hard to be intimate in a relationship if there is no love in between the two. Instead you get on with life with this person and you have more children, I suggest do a fair assessment of your relationship whether you guys love each other? this is the time when you can part your ways (with less damage) and i think it is totally ok to part if you guys don't feel for each other, it might get worse with the passage of time and you might have more children, then there will be no way back, this is the decision that should not be delayed because this could ruin his life, your life and the kids who might come from this marriage. I know I am talking extreme but think about the whole life, partners company should be the most desirable thing in this life, if its not the case then its time to think
Junaid bhai please do video on indian startups , especially which have become unicorn and now become whole company ,ideas are quite relatable to Pakistan For eg : flipkart, BYJU, zomato, OLA,etc
For the second writer: am so sorry to hear that you are going through this family stress. I learnt this thing after my specialisation in clinical psychology (nobody told me before) the concept of boundaries. Girl you need to make strong boundaries around yourself to stop this cycle of abuse approaching you. Stay calm and make peace for yourself. You have already done a lot for people who will never acknowledge you so now it's your time to start living for yourself with dignity ✌️ good luck 👍
For the evil spell problem, please recite Surah Baqarah as per verified hadith of beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. “Verily, Satan flees from the house in which is recited Surat Al-Baqarah”
About Black Magic and Jealousy. Try to keep your life as personal as possible. You never know who you think is your friend is jealous of you aur Hasad zindagi khraab kardeta hun. So keep your successes and achievements to yourself dont share with anyone and recite Surah Naas and Falak
Junaid bhai if you're planning on coming to Lahore, then I recommend you to come this week since this week will be pleasant, 30-35C according to the Weather Forcast.
For the doctor to be insha Allah: I can understand you must be going through a lot of physical pain and mental stress. Ruqya has been found very useful for this exorcism. Keep doing that and meanwhile learn some coping techniques both Islamic and psychological. You can search on Google and for your help I mention a few here. Offer your prayers learn azkaar both of morning and evening (very precise dua's taught by holy prophet saw) When you are traveling or doing some random stuff put your headphone and listen to recitation of quran. It heals you it's proven. Surah rehman does wonders try this it will work insha Allah Have faith it will take time but this shall too pass Practice deep breathing and PMR Progressive muscles relaxation. Plan and organize your study hours. You can do this and you will make your way through this with the help of Allah insha Allah Lots of best wishes for you
Completed it in a single go, amazing series. I wanna meet up in person some day. I have lots of things to share but an email would be too long for your series
It's compulsory here to know high level English if we wanna get jobs in govt, Varsity and private jobs in India. It all depends on having a motive to do something and you can too be great at it. You gotta be studious. You cannot circumvent.
@@lastera..2520 I'm not talking about politicians. I'm talking about IAS, Bank exams, upsc and ssc. I bet you do labour job in govt. That's why you saying it to me. I'm talking employer, not a govt employee like you. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I felt such a humongous amount of sympathy for the first two girls that it brought me to tears, shutting it for now will come back to listen to the rest of the podcast later ❤️🩹
58:51 first time I'm commenting here. Junaid Bhai, you're right. Nobody can understand the vision as you see people they work it's like robots, not humans.
1:17:41 This reminds me of when I rejected a rishta of a guy who couldn't make a conversation during the entire meeting, despite of being aged 30+ and working at a great position in a well reputed firm.
Did you got a better person afterwards? I mean I'm this kinda person that's because na college humara co na humari femals cousins na koi friends na even uni mein classes co. Tu it would be hard for people like us because of this conservative environment tu batay how can you justify all this and then one day expect k hum unknown girl se achi conversation bana le
Junaid bhai kindly make a separate video about marriages which we can show to our parents as it will be much easier for them to understand. I know u have made a lot of them but i think a separate specific video will be better addressing the parents. @Ask Ganjiswag
Shukar junaid bhai shaadi ka ziada ni tha..theek hy i get it ye b masla hota life may lekin bc pakistaniyon ka b kasur hy zindagi ka maqsad sirf shadi hatu ye sab hona he hy
I love listening to these helpful and genuine answers laced with humour! I cam't help but to disagree with the comment of hiding one's salary from one's wife... whereas I understand not revealing such details to family (parents and siblings) but hiding from spouse is a little extra. I understand in situations, where you have spouse you dont trust and who takes advantage of you but to generalize all spouses especially wives is not good advice. Financial decisions should be made as a team in a marriage, and both parties should play a responsible role in managing expenses and savings.
Thanks Junaid bhai Whilst jogging I listen to your podcast, which charge me to do an extra 2 kms And I learnt a lot from this specially, while answering your shared a lot of knowledge and experience I pray for you Junaid bhai
Salam Junaid Bhai, this is Arslan. I received your eid card. I'm from San antonio, Texas. That is one of the most beautiful card I have ever received I must say that it was very thoughtful of you it made me feel like I have a personalized level relationship with you sir.
7 din Surat Rehman Sumy Amkhn bnd kr k , pyaar c suny jysa Allah apka samna hu , din m 3 brr Suni h Surat Qari Basit ki awaz m , hrr brr suny k bd Dill m ankhn bnd kr k hee 3 br Dill hee dill m pyaar c Allah Allah Allah bolna h . inshallah you will be cured .
For question 2 American girl, I would say all family members has to take financial responsibility in order to strive together. It's not your responsibility to take care of your parents and siblings according to Islam. Even though you are not rewarded in this world, you will definitely get rewarded in the next world. I remember when I came to US at 18, I worked a year to pay my father debt which he took for immigration. Even though, I had to take classes and worked together for 4 days and have weekend off still I was very exhausted for that 4 months. This lady is absolutely legend. Some brown people are amazing who work hard and support their family.
The Delhi guy's email was fun and the vocab used was epic!! And the last email was pure truth Everybody is after everyone's money and how to beat him instead we should focus on developing ourselves We have to fight ourselves in life as life is all about how better are you Agar ek din aap 3 ghante kaam krke ya workout krke thak gaye aur next 5 ghante kiya tou you have improved and are going above in life! This is how the cycle works and not like Ayy isko kese giraun aur ye tou bht kama raha hai wagera Bhai work on yourself!! 💯
Dear junaid bhai we love you. You are a spiritual hero, but bro bhabhi has a huge role in it. She is raising kids almost alone. She is sacrificing for you and you are sacrificing for us. Salute to you brother 👍
I am truly addicted to your channels. I used to listen music previously while working, as I am a Freelancer. I love your Ask Ganjiswag channel this much that I now listen & watch your videos to learn from them about life. Huge respect and Big Love from your true fan. Love you!
to the girl with intimacy with issues: behan aaap please apnay husband say baat karti raha larian iss issue pe pyaar pyaar se, unhain smjhaen i know its not that easy but koshish karti rahain haaar na manain... unn say baat karti rahain unnko apni traf dehan dilaaen... it will take time but eventually kuch to behtari hogi... basically unhain apna useto banaen... abhi unnkacsara focus apnay parents ki traf hai wo focus aap ko apni traf shift karna hai.... and yess surah trhreem parhain wo miya biwi me mohabbat qaaem karnay k lea bohat effective hai. ❤️
I totally understand your frustration on the Eid Card part. All the talented people are leaving the country meanwhile the lazy people are left to run the country.
My categorically told his father when we sent him States do studies, that I'm not going to marry a Pakistani and Hyderabadi girl. He got married at the age of twenty one with his gori girl friend. They are happy MA.😊
Junaid bhai. Behtareen video as always. Bas ek darkhoast hay kay apnay editor say bolen kay woh jo sensor karne kay liye tone daalta hay...woh ambient sound say bohat taiz hoti hay...Headphone say video suno aur woh tone ajay tu banda uchal parhta hay. Best of luck!
i watched the whole which is very Inspiring. I really enjoy your videos these topic's should be discussed and all things said in the mails and by you i totally agree with them.
Bhai jaan you are doing wonderful job....ye tu sub chalta hi rahe ga puri life but apni life main sirf aik kaam ker lain anay wali naslain sudher jaien gi aur yaad bhi rakhaien gi wo hai Education.Start a compain for education system and keep it. Everything belongs to education.
I want to salute this pakistani american girl. She is supergirl. I love her. Please if you are watching this take my grand salute. I will pray for you. Everything will be ok very soon.
For the first MBA girl : I feel you girl. This is a kind of bit hard to go through. One thing I would like to say do not share your intimacy stuff with any of the females from your husband's family. Women are weird they don't keep secrets they might leak out your intimacy related expectations and you will feel terrible (you are right but people are judgy). You are pregnant with your first child try to focus on your health. Do meditation deep breathing exercises and you can do light walking it will help you to stay calm and busy. Bring some books work on your hobbies, solve mathematical problems read and watch pretty rational stuff, play games that involve problem solving, talk to your best friend, start journaling. There is so much that you can do. All you need is motivation. And I would highly encourage you to talk to your man about all this issue (not a casual discussion but a proper table talk). Take immediate action to save your mental peace. You deserve love but remember girl never beg for love ❤️ lots of prayers and best wishes for you
37:41 (this took almost an hour to write 😭)
Respected Sister,
First of all I pray to Allah Ta'ala & hope that all of your sufferings may come to an end. I want to share something with you & this is just my humble opinion.
It's been almost two years, hmaray ghr mein construction horhi thi, ek new kitchen aur living room, ghr ki roof py bann rha tha. It was a long process & daily labors ka aana jaana rehta tha. Ye hamaray ghr mein after three decades ek major development thi. Idk if someone opted out and did cast black magic upon us.
What happened was, after construction, my mother used to see shadows in the new living room. But we didn't use to take this very seriously & had always presumed it to be due to weakness as she always wanted (& still wants 😂) to lose weight & every now and then she's on diet.
Anyway, one morning, me & my siblings were sleeping downstairs, my father was having a shower downstairs while my mother was upstairs alone in the newly constructed portion.
She was going to press clothes for my father and after that she had to prepare breakfast for him, like any normal working day.
When my father came up, he found my mother upsidedown on the ground. Mere father ny mama ko seedha kiya, unnki aankhon sy aansu girr rae the but she was highly traumatized & was unable to talk. Itni dyr mein hum behn bhai bhi upr aagae the. Boht dyr baad meri mama ny barri mushkil sy btaya ky unnko kisi ny dhakka diya hy.
Note: This major one incident & the little paranormal activities before it, were all experienced by my mother alone.
Another note: Meri life religiously boht off thi but around 6 years ago I read the last sermon of our Beloved Prophet ﷺ & cried a lot. Phir mene beard bhi rakhi & still gunah hojatay hyn but I try my best to be a better muslim.
Coming back to the topic, meri mother ko jb dhakka diya gaya, usskay baad sy hum log uss room mein kisi ko bhi akela janay nhi detay thy. & itna darr lgta tha ky I cannot explain.
But me being a molvi 😂 used to go alone & behave in a funny gutsy way to cheer up my family, but deep down I was so afraid.
Meri condition ye thi ky jb mene daily ky zikar wghera apnay kiye hotay the tou mei himmat krke akela chala jaata tha (darr lgta tha but still chala jaata tha), lekin jb zikar nhi kiya hota tha kbhi tou bilkul nhi jaata tha because I used to feel that my connection with Allah Ta'ala is very weak.
One day, sblog daawat py gae huay the and being an introvert, I was alone at home. Mujhe bahar sy doodh bhi laana tha aur laaky fridge mein rkhna tha taakay khraab na ho. & this was an off day, infact mei kaafi dinon sy zikar wghera nhi kr paa rha tha, namazyn bhi bss casual wali ja rhi thein, Allah Ta'ala ky saath connection boht hee weak chal rha tha. Anyway, mei doodh laaya aur jb le aaya tou realize hua ky issko fridge mein rkhnay tou upr jaana parray ga aur ghr pr koi bhi nhi hy. Muje boht darr lg rha tha ky mei upr kese jaaun. Tou mei nichay hee kharra sochta rha aur preshaan hota rha. Phir khud ba khud hee mere dil mein ye baat aai ky uss wqt jb mujhe itna darr lg rha tha, mene khud sy kaha ky, "Allah Ta'ala ny hifazat kya sirf apne nayk banndon ki hee krni hy?" Bss ye baat aai & my eyes teared up, the next moment, mei upr gaya doodh fridge mein rakha & didn't even run, just came back normally.
(Yahan tk baatyn sirf iss liye share ki hyn ky shayad it may give you strength.)
We didn't opt for any aamil. We did consult an "Aalim" & then humnay khud hee azkaar kiye & we are free from the evil that was there AlhamduLillah.
Now my suggestion:
First of all, aamilon ky paas jana chorr dyn, mostly fake hyn.
Secondly, aap namazen tou parrh hee rhi hyn, Surah Baqarah ki tilawat start krden aur awaz ky saath (in normal pitch) daily kuch portion tilawat zrur kiya kren.
Subah aur shaam mein 3 3 mrtba Surah Ikhlas, Surah Falaq aur Surah Naas parrha kren. Aur sonay sy pehle iss trha sy parrhna Sunnat hy ky 1 1 mrtba teeno Suratyn parrhyn aur haathon py phoonk maar ky apni body py pher lyn & do this for three times (takay 3 dafa sbki tilawat complete hojae).
Subah aur shaam ki Masnoon Duayn zrur parrha kren.
Ye just wazifa ky torr pr (not Sunnah) subah shaam agr Manzil (by Shaykh Zakaria) parrh lyn tou it'll be very beneficial as well.
Aapko eventually in sha Allah zrur faida hoga.
I'm sorry ek chotti cee suggestion aur hy:
(Please complete read kijiye ga.) Aap apni love life sy break ly lyn. Dekhen if someone follows Islamic teachings of modesty, phir tou ussko kisi sy love wghera ho hee nhi skta. But agr hogya tou it can't be helped & there's nothing wrong in love marriage. If only aap apne aap ko aur apne partner ko convince krlen ky jb tk nikah nhi hota aap log baat nhi kren gy & ek dusray ka wait kren gy, it would be very amazing. Nikah sy pehle jitni mrzi achi baaten krlen, it's not likeable in terms of Islam.
In my opinion, this can be a hurdle in the acceptance of your prayers. Unclean bartann mein kbhi koi achi saaf cheez nhi aati. Similarly, if you'll have this disliked connection with someone, how will you be able to connect with Allah Ta'ala the way one should be connecting.
Now I know when one's in a relationship, ibadat mein bhi maza aata hy spiritually bhi eysy lgta hy ky hum Allah Ta'ala ky boht close hyn. Lekin trust me, eysa nhi hota, just shaytan ka dhoka hy. (I've also been in a very deep relationship before I reverted, so I'm just writing what I experienced. There's no such thing as a paak relationship before Nikah no matter how paak it seems.)
So if you guys be patient with each other & refrain from each other until your marriage, Allah Ta'ala boht khush hongy.
This was all it, thank you so much agr aapne ya aur comments read krne walon mein sy kisi ny yahan tk parrha. Jazak Allah
Summarizing the points just one more time & briefly adding a few more:
1. Kisi ky paas bhi mt jaaen spiritual therapy ky liye.
2. Jo azkaar Ahadees mein aae hyn unnko parrhne ka ehtmaam kren.
3. Please apni relationship sy thorra sa break ly lyn.
4. Apni studies py focus kren.
5. There's also a possibility ky koi bhi kaala jaadu na ho, so just iss waja sy ky aapko uss group mein ek pakistani aurat ny keh diya ky ussko ye disease jadu ki wja sy hui, aap apne sarr pr issko sawaar mt kren. Believe me, koi bilkul theek bhi ho, most of the aamil type people would still say ky jaadu hy because unnka ye business hota hy.
6. Therefore, have a little materialistic approach towards your disease. Ask the other non muslim women, how did they get cured.
7. It's totally up to you, as we all have our differences so again I'm only suggesting; Mufti Tariq Masood shb ky black magic pr bayanaat zrur sunniye gaa, they'll affect you in a therapeutic way (I used to share them with my family & we felt better) & agr aap chahen tou (as you're in Lahore) Jamia Ashrafia visit krke guidance ly skti hyn (by going to the Darul Ifta there).
Allah Ta'ala aapki boht boht madad frmaen aur aapko khushiyan aur kamiyabiyan dyn. Jald az jald sehet dyn aur aapki saari nayk wishes poori frmaen. Ameen
Damn watermelon 🍉 you nailed it
Well explained
سبحان اللہ ! ♥︎
Did you mention Ayatul Kursi? That's what I try to read every night.
He really gave all the knowledge he had✨💜 jazakallah
"Men bohot peechhe reh gaya hon, mujhe bohot aage hona chahiye tha, I'm f****** frustrated".
Felt that 💘
This Ask Ganjiswag had a different vibe to it - the quality of your answers and the frank discussion you had were amazing to hear!
For the writer concerned about Sir junaid's mental well being : dear writer what sir junaid is doing is a form of psychotherapy ( listening to people and helping them to figure out an appropriate solution for their problems, in professional settings it's called catharsis). Mental health professional tackle such situations every other day. They really need to relate to the person they are listening to (transference) which is a good thing. But when the problems of other people start affecting your own mental well being (counter transference) then the problem arises that can be handled by coping mechanisms that he does very well, he is a matured and well composed person (hardly and rarely found in Pakistan). And one thing is that sensitive people can't sit in a corner when they see people around them in pain. Thank you so much for acknowledging. I really wish one day the contributions of all the therapists will be acknowledged and cherished the same way by this society ✌️
Best AskGanjiswag podcast so far!
It ranged from a whirlpool of social emotions, people facing sickness, blackmagic to people unwilling to marry and so on.
Especially that Indian guy
Made Junaid question his mathematics - 😂
Left Junaid impressed with his writeup and wordplay so much that Junaid actually picked up "all that jazz" line and used it many times 😁
Actually made me laugh out loud at JCB part since JCB in India is earth caving machine used to dig sand, dirt in large quantity - equated it to gold diggers 🤣🤣 LEGEND!
No wonder he aims to be a scriptwriter, I am sure he is going to nail the script! Very impressive!
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The guy from India, his email was more like a standup 😂😂
😂😂
Bhai ji most probably South Delhi boy hoga 😂
yesssss ... fucking hilarious.
Absolutely. Takes special skills to make such a funny email out of his situation which doesn't seem in favour of him. Wish him luck.
Yar please Indian brother ko kuch na bolo....please let's be good neighbors, plz let's be the change...our generation must change
Hey Junaid Sir, I am a 21 year old student from Agra, India, working in a Corporate from 4 months. I save for my family and bear my expenses, so cannot support you financially on patron or Facebook but I do watch every ad on your videos till end. I try to never skip an ad on your video, like there's an ad every 5 minutes on every video, I watch it so that you may earn something from that.
Thanks for all these education and learnings. :))
kudos to the Pakistani American girl may Allah give you all his blessings and give you a noble status not only in this world but also in the hereafter
its hard to be intimate in a relationship if there is no love in between the two. Instead you get on with life with this person and you have more children, I suggest do a fair assessment of your relationship whether you guys love each other? this is the time when you can part your ways (with less damage) and i think it is totally ok to part if you guys don't feel for each other, it might get worse with the passage of time and you might have more children, then there will be no way back, this is the decision that should not be delayed because this could ruin his life, your life and the kids who might come from this marriage. I know I am talking extreme but think about the whole life, partners company should be the most desirable thing in this life, if its not the case then its time to think
i listen to these while doing my assignments
10/10 would recommend
Same while I do work I listen to him, what u study
@@DD-cf7wm I'm doing bachelor's in electrical engineering
Same bro,while doing my school project
Junaid bhai please do video on indian startups , especially which have become unicorn and now become whole company ,ideas are quite relatable to Pakistan
For eg : flipkart, BYJU, zomato, OLA,etc
swiggy Zeta zerodha etc
@@samirkumar9908 zeta aur zerodha to maine india me reh ke kabhi nahi suna ye ka hai
@@heyyoitsyourboicovid1925 these are stock exchanges ,working in very profit
@@Abhinav-r8 ohh
Paytm too.... Yar
For the second writer: am so sorry to hear that you are going through this family stress. I learnt this thing after my specialisation in clinical psychology (nobody told me before) the concept of boundaries. Girl you need to make strong boundaries around yourself to stop this cycle of abuse approaching you. Stay calm and make peace for yourself. You have already done a lot for people who will never acknowledge you so now it's your time to start living for yourself with dignity ✌️ good luck 👍
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This content may benefit future generations❤
May ni will
Most def❣🔥
I am addictive to Junaid bhai🤝
Addicted*
😂
His intellectual insight and witty humour to be precise. 👌🏽
Junaid Bhai, you're always spot on with your answers. Keep flying high!
For the evil spell problem, please recite Surah Baqarah as per verified hadith of beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. “Verily, Satan flees from the house in which is recited Surat Al-Baqarah”
About Black Magic and Jealousy. Try to keep your life as personal as possible. You never know who you think is your friend is jealous of you aur Hasad zindagi khraab kardeta hun. So keep your successes and achievements to yourself dont share with anyone and recite Surah Naas and Falak
Junaid bhai if you're planning on coming to Lahore, then I recommend you to come this week since this week will be pleasant, 30-35C according to the Weather Forcast.
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@@syedmujahedali9685 I just want to make a decision I can 🥫🥫🥫🥫🥫🥫🥫
@@syedmujahedali9685 the admin is o i
@@syedmujahedali9685 the kitchen
It's just one 🕜🕜 know about that 😂 o
For the doctor to be insha Allah: I can understand you must be going through a lot of physical pain and mental stress. Ruqya has been found very useful for this exorcism. Keep doing that and meanwhile learn some coping techniques both Islamic and psychological. You can search on Google and for your help I mention a few here.
Offer your prayers
learn azkaar both of morning and evening (very precise dua's taught by holy prophet saw)
When you are traveling or doing some random stuff put your headphone and listen to recitation of quran. It heals you it's proven. Surah rehman does wonders try this it will work insha Allah
Have faith it will take time but this shall too pass
Practice deep breathing and PMR Progressive muscles relaxation.
Plan and organize your study hours.
You can do this and you will make your way through this with the help of Allah insha Allah
Lots of best wishes for you
Junaid sir, a huge respect! Keep this series up and be like this! Will meet you IN SHA ALLAH once in life :) ALLAH bless you always !
Completed it in a single go, amazing series. I wanna meet up in person some day. I have lots of things to share but an email would be too long for your series
Never mix with Pakistani or Indian communities. You will grow alot.
Why ?
@@sherazali936 if you live in one type of community you will be narrow minded and you will think your community is the best.
Seconded👍.
Perfect time i was about to clean my room
That indian guy actually wrote whole oxford dictionary. I am impressed by the vocabulary.
It's compulsory here to know high level English if we wanna get jobs in govt, Varsity and private jobs in India.
It all depends on having a motive to do something and you can too be great at it.
You gotta be studious. You cannot circumvent.
@@mayan5600 don't lie you need English in govt job in India.... I am also from India.... Bilkul Desi Hindi bolteh hai... Samjah bhai
@@lastera..2520 I'm not talking about politicians. I'm talking about IAS, Bank exams, upsc and ssc. I bet you do labour job in govt. That's why you saying it to me. I'm talking employer, not a govt employee like you. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
To all impressed by the vocabulary, i would say its totally useless he just used MS WORD synonym feature.
Sir jeee tusi great ho!! Bilkul sahi time pe upload kiya
I felt such a humongous amount of sympathy for the first two girls that it brought me to tears, shutting it for now will come back to listen to the rest of the podcast later ❤️🩹
58:51 first time I'm commenting here. Junaid Bhai, you're right. Nobody can understand the vision as you see people they work it's like robots, not humans.
1:12:25, JCB is a heavy equipment manufacturer, makes Excavators. So JCB is an Excavator and referring to Gold Diggers.
Junaid bhai thank you for doing this .Allah apke liye asaniyan paida kerai Ameen
Countless times have I re-visited to hear this ex-editor's trolling at 57:53🤣
Lol funny story. Pk is full of MBAs but no common sense.
Golden words by our beloved Lumber-1 swag 1:05:00 "abay kiya troll karo gey, mein tumhari trolling se paisey kama loon ga"
41:47 Yusuf Estes .. that's the scholar you were talking about...
1:17:41 This reminds me of when I rejected a rishta of a guy who couldn't make a conversation during the entire meeting, despite of being aged 30+ and working at a great position in a well reputed firm.
Did you got a better person afterwards?
I mean I'm this kinda person that's because na college humara co na humari femals cousins na koi friends na even uni mein classes co.
Tu it would be hard for people like us because of this conservative environment tu batay how can you justify all this and then one day expect k hum unknown girl se achi conversation bana le
By far the most informative and interesting video. Allah bless you junaid bhai. Ap jiyein InshAllah
Junaid bhai make podcasts over kalu jadu and its power over the life of the victims. And aur details share karen podcasts main thank you
Dunya mars pe jane ka soch rhi hai yaha kala jadu ka scene samaj ni aya abi tk 🤦♂️
@@jamali99 lol ye bhi reality hai aik aur serious affects hote hain iske
@@jamali99 Mars pe jate waqt agar kisi nay kala jadu kara diya to space ma hi atak jaoge
@@jamali99 Mars pe jate waqt agar kisi nay kala jadu kara diya to space ma hi atak jaoge
Honestly these videos are music to my ears!
There should be a warning at the start for people with empathy, This video got me teary eyed.
Junaid bhai thank you for doing this. You are amazing, your work is amazing.
I hope the prayers you get from people like us who get alot of motivation from this kind of vlogs, will kerp you going and reduce your stress ✌
Sir Apki vedios bohat achi hen or bohat kuxh sekhny ko milta he Thank u so much
This podcast was so informative and different. Loved it 👏
This one was good imo
Since most of it wasnt about marriages
Yes, I purposely kept it that way.
@@AskGanjiswag please tell me your id
@@AskGanjiswag is the caucasian scholar you talked about Sheikh Yusuf Estes?
Junaid bhai kindly make a separate video about marriages which we can show to our parents as it will be much easier for them to understand. I know u have made a lot of them but i think a separate specific video will be better addressing the parents. @Ask Ganjiswag
Shukar junaid bhai shaadi ka ziada ni tha..theek hy i get it ye b masla hota life may lekin bc pakistaniyon ka b kasur hy zindagi ka maqsad sirf shadi hatu ye sab hona he hy
Bro, it’s 1:30 AM in Oman and I’m watching from here and it’s there is a lot of Black a magic here in Oman. I’m low-key scared as fuck!
LOVE YOUR MINDSET ( 1:05:00 )
I love listening to these helpful and genuine answers laced with humour! I cam't help but to disagree with the comment of hiding one's salary from one's wife... whereas I understand not revealing such details to family (parents and siblings) but hiding from spouse is a little extra. I understand in situations, where you have spouse you dont trust and who takes advantage of you but to generalize all spouses especially wives is not good advice. Financial decisions should be made as a team in a marriage, and both parties should play a responsible role in managing expenses and savings.
completely agree with u
Ganjiswag
The uncle you would want in your family
Great content Sir
Thanks Junaid bhai
Whilst jogging I listen to your podcast, which charge me to do an extra 2 kms
And I learnt a lot from this specially, while answering your shared a lot of knowledge and experience
I pray for you Junaid bhai
Salam Junaid Bhai, this is Arslan. I received your eid card. I'm from San antonio, Texas. That is one of the most beautiful card I have ever received I must say that it was very thoughtful of you it made me feel like I have a personalized level relationship with you sir.
7 din Surat Rehman Sumy Amkhn bnd kr k , pyaar c suny jysa Allah apka samna hu ,
din m 3 brr Suni h Surat Qari Basit ki awaz m , hrr brr suny k bd Dill m ankhn bnd kr k hee 3 br Dill hee dill m pyaar c Allah Allah Allah bolna h .
inshallah you will be cured .
This video will be making Junaid’s wife very angry
For question 2 American girl, I would say all family members has to take financial responsibility in order to strive together. It's not your responsibility to take care of your parents and siblings according to Islam. Even though you are not rewarded in this world, you will definitely get rewarded in the next world.
I remember when I came to US at 18, I worked a year to pay my father debt which he took for immigration.
Even though, I had to take classes and worked together for 4 days and have weekend off still I was very exhausted for that 4 months.
This lady is absolutely legend. Some brown people are amazing who work hard and support their family.
Big fan of your thought, content, insightful conversation.
The last bit is hardcore truth ! Bohat hi maza aya sun kar. Sab ko sunaya mene. Everyone loved your video. Keep it up 👍
This is awesome Junaid Bhai. Looking fwd to it 😍
The Delhi guy's email was fun and the vocab used was epic!!
And the last email was pure truth
Everybody is after everyone's money and how to beat him instead we should focus on developing ourselves
We have to fight ourselves in life as life is all about how better are you
Agar ek din aap 3 ghante kaam krke ya workout krke thak gaye aur next 5 ghante kiya tou you have improved and are going above in life! This is how the cycle works and not like
Ayy isko kese giraun aur ye tou bht kama raha hai wagera
Bhai work on yourself!! 💯
Thank you for another amazing episode
love you junaid bhai. may you grow more strong .
I wish I could like this video a million times. Such great advice
Jani is back.....
Or jani....🤭
Lulla
@@khizriyaat..5423 and the second time se phle bolna packing and
Very Good Epi like always..
I forget my Problems to some extent after hearing About others ..GOD BLESS YOU.
56.00. Our house used to get red blood spatters every day on walls and carpets in front of us many years back.
Dear junaid bhai we love you. You are a spiritual hero, but bro bhabhi has a huge role in it. She is raising kids almost alone. She is sacrificing for you and you are sacrificing for us. Salute to you brother 👍
1:22 Sooo pumped up for this!
*12:50 , After this, I hope we can get the next episode of asking Ganji Swag! 🙂
I want to spend 1 hours every day while listening ur episode, lots of prayers
Junaid bhai I'm your big fan... Korangi 5no wali karahi khai thi maza a gya white karahi❤️
Thank you Junaid bhai... For liking my comment 😊❤️
@@storyvilla7638 😄
Imam Ali ka quol ha" apni bivi ki har khwahish pori krna par usy kabhi apni aamdni k bary me na btana"
Fenty ka highlighter!! Respect mr ganjiswag 😂😂
I am truly addicted to your channels. I used to listen music previously while working, as I am a Freelancer. I love your Ask Ganjiswag channel this much that I now listen & watch your videos to learn from them about life.
Huge respect and Big Love from your true fan. Love you!
Thank you sir for ur time plz aap apna buhat sara khayaal rakhrin
Yrr Apki Podcastes dekh dekh ke 22 ki age mein mera mind kafi meture hogya hai.. BTW Love from Hyderabad sindh,
Great Work!
Watching in Ramadan 2024😅
Can someone please give a link to the Islamic scholar video he talked about (during the black magic question)?
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I have seen all your podcasts. I am your biggest fan.
to the girl with intimacy with issues:
behan aaap please apnay husband say baat karti raha larian iss issue pe pyaar pyaar se, unhain smjhaen i know its not that easy but koshish karti rahain haaar na manain... unn say baat karti rahain unnko apni traf dehan dilaaen... it will take time but eventually kuch to behtari hogi... basically unhain apna useto banaen... abhi unnkacsara focus apnay parents ki traf hai wo focus aap ko apni traf shift karna hai.... and yess surah trhreem parhain wo miya biwi me mohabbat qaaem karnay k lea bohat effective hai. ❤️
BHAI DUNYA MAI LOGO KAY KITNAY OR KIS KIS TRHA KAY maslay hain JUNAID SIR SALUTE TO U 👍🏻👍🏻👊
You are Right at black magic topic government should take strict actions about then
I have saw multiple adds on Facebook related to black magic
Because you are into it , social media pe sirf wo ads aty hain jis mein apka already interest ho
@@muhammadakash2804 are bhai mai sirf ek am gamer hoon phir bhi ye ads ate hain bhai bina saboot ke ilzam na lagao
Junaid bhai recently ap ka content dekhna shoro kia. Boht heavy scenes hain ap ke.
Allah pak app aur ap ki team ko kamiyabian de
I totally understand your frustration on the Eid Card part. All the talented people are leaving the country meanwhile the lazy people are left to run the country.
Because there is no benefit in staying here i pay tax what do i get? ass fcked by inflation.
@@naicguybawb1465 I totally agree with you. I left Pakistan for the same reason.
My categorically told his father when we sent him States do studies, that I'm not going to marry a Pakistani and Hyderabadi girl. He got married at the age of twenty one with his gori girl friend. They are happy MA.😊
Son
That delhite actually just showed off his English skills which even 99% indians don't even speak like that
Thanks for longest podcast Junaid bhai !
Love from Punjab India
For The Indian Man,
Have you seen Netflix Series "A Suitable Boy"?
Just a suggestion to relax and related to your situation.
Thanks God Bless you.🇵🇰💝🌹👍
To be honest in my opinion, without offending anyone or being condescending, and without triggering anyone, i just wanna say i got nothing to say....
Just awesome work 💯❤
You're awesome junaid sir!! Lots of love💕💕
Junaid bhai. Behtareen video as always. Bas ek darkhoast hay kay apnay editor say bolen kay woh jo sensor karne kay liye tone daalta hay...woh ambient sound say bohat taiz hoti hay...Headphone say video suno aur woh tone ajay tu banda uchal parhta hay.
Best of luck!
1:05:00 Kya bat hai sir
Maza Aaagaya
i watched the whole which is very Inspiring. I really enjoy your videos these topic's should be discussed and all things said in the mails and by you i totally agree with them.
Bhai jaan you are doing wonderful job....ye tu sub chalta hi rahe ga puri life but apni life main sirf aik kaam ker lain anay wali naslain sudher jaien gi aur yaad bhi rakhaien gi wo hai Education.Start a compain for education system and keep it. Everything belongs to education.
For the first one maybe unhe Macron yaad ajata hoga French kiss ka soch ke. Just kidding.
Comidi
It’s very painful to listen people stories. I am incapable to understand why we hurt and harm others.
HIS ADVICE FROM LIMITED KNOWLEDGE IS FAR BETTER THAN A THERAPIST
does not mean he should not get the relevant qualifications
@@meryama4066 what's the problem with you
Yeh kale jadu wale sar e aam zindagiya barbaad karte phir rahe hai Allah puchega aise logo se..💔