My husband is an unbeliever. He loves me a lot and cares for me. I was a Christian before marriage but I became a born again Christian only after 3 years post marriage. My relatives have almost boycotted me after i married him. But I didn't care, coz if it was not God's will, we would certainly not have had the love joy and peace in our relationship despite all the other challenges we face. Our relationship with God is totally personal,. I know God will fulfill what he has planned
I hope and pray your husband comes to Christ, but you married him because of the hardness of your heart not because it was Gods will for you to marry an unbeliever, and believe me, I don’t say this in judgement because I too feel in love with an unbeliever and it derailed my life and my relationship with God, I know how much you want to see the good in people and want them to know and love Christ and that was my hope with this relationship too, but being bound to an unbeliever causes so much pain and struggle in your walk with Christ, I’m glad to hear you have found peace in your marriage and pray that by the strength and power of God your husband will come to know Christ, but I cannot in good faith recommend to other believers that marrying an unbeliever is wise.
Went through the same thing but 6 year relationship. Amazing women but the fact she didn't believe in the Lord meant her whole way of looking at life was diametrically opposed to mine. Less than two weeks ago I broke things off. I am heart broken but I will pray and trust God.
I'm an atheist incarnation shaman married to a very Christ believer. We just respect each other's view points. It basically boils down to whatever floats your boat.
I don't understand why believers say marrying an unbeliever will drift you away from God? Is this God we serve not big enough for you to draw the unbeliever closer to God? Jesus did not shy away from being around non-believers and I'm pretty sure he wasn't afraid that they'll make him drift away from the love of God. Maybe we need to check how deeply rooted is our love for Christ if we are easily drifted away by a mere mortal.
My dad is covert atheist but pretended to be godly because his relatives are. My mom was a believer. He made our family living hell, because this is the problem with non believers. They go around to explore the world with wide eyes open, they see harsh realities of life and now they want to live according to the world. Then these non- believer significant other starts hating their believer spouse and destroys everything to proof a point. You can marry a non believer; but most of the time the outcome is your significant other will try their best to take the worst out of you just to deny Christ. No marriage can withstand if one partner is doing everything to ruin it. Believer is left to leave marriage or to leave Christ or to die suffering 💔
The only time a Christian will marry a non believer is if he/she isn’t serious with their spiritual life. An unbeliever can’t relate with you when it comes to things of God. An unbeliever does things logically while a believer submits completely to God and his ways. Also, if God is your core value and not your partner’s core value, he will not appreciate that value like you’d expect which can lead to frustration. It’s better to marry someone who understands you on the spiritual level and then you can grow your faith in Christ till the end
Exactly ! God does and will use unbelievers to in our life’s. I’ve witnessed it with my own eyes. Keep praying for them. And please don’t leave your unbelieving partner our spouse unless God gives you a clear Word!!
This was a question I had on my mind, and I'm so glad it was answered. So I am a Christian, and I have started dating this girl that's about an hour away from me. We met in VRChat. We both have so much in common, as if she is a mirror reflection of me. She is not Christian of course, as my family would like me to date a Christian Girl that goes to church. I don't go to church often as I am introverted at times, even though I know it is nice to have fellowship with other believers in real-life. I do go to a VRChat church service, as I think its nice to meet fellow believers from around the world. Ever since I started dating this girl, I asked her if I could introduce her to my lord & savior, Jesus. I stated that she didn't have to go to church with me or do anything religious. I also told her that I wouldn't force her in any way, and that if she had questions, I would do my best to answer them. Luckily, she replied that she didn't mind going to church with me, and stated that it was something she was thinking about. However, she said that she wont be changing herself or her beliefs to be molded to my family’s liking. Knowing my parents, they would probably not accept her. But I believe she is the one. The fact that she said she is wanting to go to church shows that God is currently working on her. All I got to do is have faith and trust in him that everything will go according to him and his will.
Hi @tommydoezvidz7366! Thank you for sharing. Praying that God will open her eyes to God's truth in His time. Continue to entrust her to the Lord and trust God's plan and will for you. -Life Without Limbs Team
My husband is introverted as well and doesn't go to church very often but has an incredible relationship with Jesus - I definitely understand what you mean. In the video, Nick addressed a Christian who is already married to a non-Christian, but for your situation I would recommend watching this short video: th-cam.com/video/PX3Vg7F-b0w/w-d-xo.html God bless you!
Someone said if we compile the stories of suffering from those who married unbeliever, we dont need anymore sermon on this topic. Honestly i’m interested to pull out all such stories and make a warning video to believers. A non believer guy is chasing me now, i’m still seeking the Lord’s and church guidance to bring him to Christ. Ready to let go if he is not open to the gospel, i treasure Christ and the church more than anything else. May the Lord preserve my heart and all those who are facing such challenge.
Thanks for sharing, Heloisa. May you continue to treasure Christ more than anything or anyone. For encouragement, spiritual advice, and prayer, chat with someone who cares at groundwire.echoglobal.org/chat/Life_Without_Limbs. It's joy to pray with you and for you! -Life Without Limbs Team
True My dad is covert atheist but pretended to be godly because his relatives are. My mom was a believer. He made our family living hell, because this is the problem with non believers. They go around to explore the world with wide eyes open, they see harsh realities of life and now they want to live according to the world. Then these non- believer significant other starts hating their believer spouse and destroys everything to proof a point. You can marry a non believer; but most of the time the outcome is your significant other will try their best to take the worst out of you just to deny Christ. No marriage can withstand if one partner is doing everything to ruin it. Believer is left to leave marriage or to leave Christ or to die suffering 💔
I got saved after marriage. Its a battle. I'm still trusting God. But honestly, if u have a choice, wait til he's saved. 'Do not be unequally yoked' (unless u already married). Trust God
Am facing the same thing right, he's so loving, doesn't act like ppl in the world, no smoking, no drinking, no clubbing, he'd just a cool guy, and am keeping my heart from falling so deeply for him, he asking to marry him😢😢 but I still waiting if God would allow. I like him so much but I let the will of God to be done
This. I find it really odd sometimes. Like exactly why is there such a battle over this when really there should be nothing to fight about and we legit have everything good. Don’t marry an unbeliever, they’re obsessed with you before marriage and hate you after. It’s totally satan’s work.
My wife passed away last month. She was a dialysis patient for over six years and she also had complications with a heart. She had two leaky mitral valves that needed to be replaced. She passed away on the eighth and she was supposed to go on the 16th to schedule surgery. I saw My Wife say her last words and take her last breath she has she passed away in our bedroom and on the bed I couldn’t sleep in the room after she passed. I’ve been asking God for a supernatural encounter, but I have been saved. Need to ask My Wife How can I have a presence with God and a counter? I have so many questions. The guilt that I feel and the grief that I feel is so overwhelming sometimes I don’t even feel like getting up to eat to bathe to talk is like I shut myself away from everybody. It’s like I exclude myself My Wife Jessica that has passed on my name is Anthony. I’m my husband I’m going to a deep deep depression since her passing. Please say a prayer for me and my wife. Thank you so much for everything that you do. God bless amen.🙏 👩🏻❤️💋👨🏻💔😭
You can pray for someone you would love to marry but you do not marry them until they are fully surrendered to Christ. If you do marry them before they are fully surrendered you have now become one flesh and shall endure unnecessary trials because Christ is not fully worshipped by both partners leaving an open door for demons to enter and corrupt your marriage!!!!
One question, I am divorced and so is my wife, but we got together 5 years ago and we are living together. I met Christ two years ago. I was born again. the question to the ministry am I in adultery with her and can I fix things with God by getting married
Hi @rafaelernesto9812. Our coaches are open to chatting with you for spiritual advice at groundwire.echoglobal.org/chat/Life_Without_Limbs. -NickV Ministries Team
Not a sin. Read Romans 10. If you are dating someone in the beginning please pray for God's will who knows God may change her or him . Don't delay in praying. Keep praying from Day1
My husband is an unbeliever. He loves me a lot and cares for me. I was a Christian before marriage but I became a born again Christian only after 3 years post marriage. My relatives have almost boycotted me after i married him. But I didn't care, coz if it was not God's will, we would certainly not have had the love joy and peace in our relationship despite all the other challenges we face.
Our relationship with God is totally personal,. I know God will fulfill what he has planned
Christiana so your husband is converting in christianity or not
I hope and pray your husband comes to Christ, but you married him because of the hardness of your heart not because it was Gods will for you to marry an unbeliever, and believe me, I don’t say this in judgement because I too feel in love with an unbeliever and it derailed my life and my relationship with God, I know how much you want to see the good in people and want them to know and love Christ and that was my hope with this relationship too, but being bound to an unbeliever causes so much pain and struggle in your walk with Christ, I’m glad to hear you have found peace in your marriage and pray that by the strength and power of God your husband will come to know Christ, but I cannot in good faith recommend to other believers that marrying an unbeliever is wise.
@@Steve_T14 Preach sir
Tq PS, I'll do just that. Planting seeds in my marriage, & let Almighty God do the rest. Hallelujah! 😄🕊️🙌
Keep praying, Jeane. Trust God in every area of your life! -Life Without Limbs Team
Amen. It means keep praying and God will fulfill his plans in our life🙌🏻
Thanks I'm struggling with this right now
Me too
Me three
Not married but me four
Went through the same thing but 6 year relationship. Amazing women but the fact she didn't believe in the Lord meant her whole way of looking at life was diametrically opposed to mine. Less than two weeks ago I broke things off. I am heart broken but I will pray and trust God.
Yes, sometimes I feel curse of getting married to non believers, I am going through that trauma
I'm an atheist incarnation shaman married to a very Christ believer. We just respect each other's view points. It basically boils down to whatever floats your boat.
Thank you for this , because I needed to hear this today .
Bless you .
Praise God, Dee. May you continue to seek the Lord everyday. God bless you! -Life Without Limbs Team
I don't understand why believers say marrying an unbeliever will drift you away from God? Is this God we serve not big enough for you to draw the unbeliever closer to God? Jesus did not shy away from being around non-believers and I'm pretty sure he wasn't afraid that they'll make him drift away from the love of God. Maybe we need to check how deeply rooted is our love for Christ if we are easily drifted away by a mere mortal.
My dad is covert atheist but pretended to be godly because his relatives are.
My mom was a believer. He made our family living hell, because this is the problem with non believers. They go around to explore the world with wide eyes open, they see harsh realities of life and now they want to live according to the world. Then these non- believer significant other starts hating their believer spouse and destroys everything to proof a point.
You can marry a non believer; but most of the time the outcome is your significant other will try their best to take the worst out of you just to deny Christ.
No marriage can withstand if one partner is doing everything to ruin it.
Believer is left to leave marriage or to leave Christ or to die suffering 💔
@@akankshae That was your father not anyone else.
@@kresivarivkah612 most of the time this happens 😏 marrying a non believer. Then go on and try and taste it for yourself 😉
The only time a Christian will marry a non believer is if he/she isn’t serious with their spiritual life. An unbeliever can’t relate with you when it comes to things of God. An unbeliever does things logically while a believer submits completely to God and his ways. Also, if God is your core value and not your partner’s core value, he will not appreciate that value like you’d expect which can lead to frustration. It’s better to marry someone who understands you on the spiritual level and then you can grow your faith in Christ till the end
Exactly ! God does and will use unbelievers to in our life’s. I’ve witnessed it with my own eyes. Keep praying for them. And please don’t leave your unbelieving partner our spouse unless God gives you a clear Word!!
Thanks Nick!
I Know Its Hard To Follow This But I Will Always Try❤🙏
Amen. I was blessed by this video. Thank you and God Bless 🙏🏽
Praise God. You can also watch more videos here on our TH-cam Channel. God bless you too, @dorapatricia2303! -Life Without Limbs Team
This was a question I had on my mind, and I'm so glad it was answered. So I am a Christian, and I have started dating this girl that's about an hour away from me. We met in VRChat. We both have so much in common, as if she is a mirror reflection of me. She is not Christian of course, as my family would like me to date a Christian Girl that goes to church.
I don't go to church often as I am introverted at times, even though I know it is nice to have fellowship with other believers in real-life. I do go to a VRChat church service, as I think its nice to meet fellow believers from around the world.
Ever since I started dating this girl, I asked her if I could introduce her to my lord & savior, Jesus. I stated that she didn't have to go to church with me or do anything religious. I also told her that I wouldn't force her in any way, and that if she had questions, I would do my best to answer them.
Luckily, she replied that she didn't mind going to church with me, and stated that it was something she was thinking about. However, she said that she wont be changing herself or her beliefs to be molded to my family’s liking.
Knowing my parents, they would probably not accept her. But I believe she is the one. The fact that she said she is wanting to go to church shows that God is currently working on her. All I got to do is have faith and trust in him that everything will go according to him and his will.
Hi @tommydoezvidz7366! Thank you for sharing. Praying that God will open her eyes to God's truth in His time. Continue to entrust her to the Lord and trust God's plan and will for you. -Life Without Limbs Team
My husband is introverted as well and doesn't go to church very often but has an incredible relationship with Jesus - I definitely understand what you mean. In the video, Nick addressed a Christian who is already married to a non-Christian, but for your situation I would recommend watching this short video: th-cam.com/video/PX3Vg7F-b0w/w-d-xo.html
God bless you!
Someone said if we compile the stories of suffering from those who married unbeliever, we dont need anymore sermon on this topic.
Honestly i’m interested to pull out all such stories and make a warning video to believers.
A non believer guy is chasing me now, i’m still seeking the Lord’s and church guidance to bring him to Christ. Ready to let go if he is not open to the gospel, i treasure Christ and the church more than anything else. May the Lord preserve my heart and all those who are facing such challenge.
Thanks for sharing, Heloisa. May you continue to treasure Christ more than anything or anyone. For encouragement, spiritual advice, and prayer, chat with someone who cares at groundwire.echoglobal.org/chat/Life_Without_Limbs. It's joy to pray with you and for you! -Life Without Limbs Team
True
My dad is covert atheist but pretended to be godly because his relatives are.
My mom was a believer. He made our family living hell, because this is the problem with non believers. They go around to explore the world with wide eyes open, they see harsh realities of life and now they want to live according to the world. Then these non- believer significant other starts hating their believer spouse and destroys everything to proof a point.
You can marry a non believer; but most of the time the outcome is your significant other will try their best to take the worst out of you just to deny Christ.
No marriage can withstand if one partner is doing everything to ruin it.
Believer is left to leave marriage or to leave Christ or to die suffering 💔
I got saved after marriage. Its a battle. I'm still trusting God. But honestly, if u have a choice, wait til he's saved. 'Do not be unequally yoked' (unless u already married). Trust God
Am facing the same thing right, he's so loving, doesn't act like ppl in the world, no smoking, no drinking, no clubbing, he'd just a cool guy, and am keeping my heart from falling so deeply for him, he asking to marry him😢😢 but I still waiting if God would allow. I like him so much but I let the will of God to be done
This. I find it really odd sometimes. Like exactly why is there such a battle over this when really there should be nothing to fight about and we legit have everything good. Don’t marry an unbeliever, they’re obsessed with you before marriage and hate you after. It’s totally satan’s work.
My wife passed away last month. She was a dialysis patient for over six years and she also had complications with a heart. She had two leaky mitral valves that needed to be replaced. She passed away on the eighth and she was supposed to go on the 16th to schedule surgery. I saw My Wife say her last words and take her last breath she has she passed away in our bedroom and on the bed I couldn’t sleep in the room after she passed. I’ve been asking God for a supernatural encounter, but I have been saved. Need to ask My Wife How can I have a presence with God and a counter? I have so many questions. The guilt that I feel and the grief that I feel is so overwhelming sometimes I don’t even feel like getting up to eat to bathe to talk is like I shut myself away from everybody. It’s like I exclude myself My Wife Jessica that has passed on my name is Anthony. I’m my husband I’m going to a deep deep depression since her passing. Please say a prayer for me and my wife. Thank you so much for everything that you do. God bless amen.🙏 👩🏻❤️💋👨🏻💔😭
Amen. Needed this
Amen. TY. 🙏
You can pray for someone you would love to marry but you do not marry them until they are fully surrendered to Christ. If you do marry them before they are fully surrendered you have now become one flesh and shall endure unnecessary trials because Christ is not fully worshipped by both partners leaving an open door for demons to enter and corrupt your marriage!!!!
Thank you❤️🔥
My place surrounded everyone non believers how I finding my Christian life partner!
Wait until you find one, never never marry non believers, belive me it's a hell no matter how good they are in person.
One question, I am divorced and so is my wife, but we got together 5 years ago and we are living together. I met Christ two years ago. I was born again. the question to the ministry am I in adultery with her and can I fix things with God by getting married
Hi @rafaelernesto9812. Our coaches are open to chatting with you for spiritual advice at groundwire.echoglobal.org/chat/Life_Without_Limbs. -NickV Ministries Team
God bless u
Hi Hibil! God bless you too! -Life Without Limbs Team
Where is the scripture behind this?
what the bible says you could ave your husband through your behavior not by constantly shaving the gospel at them, you don't need any counseling
Very well said 👍
Great to hear from you, Lisa! God bless you! -Life Without Limbs Team
Is it a sin for a Christian to marry a non believer?
Not a sin. Read Romans 10. If you are dating someone in the beginning please pray for God's will who knows God may change her or him . Don't delay in praying. Keep praying from Day1
What if were not married and have kids
Its sin before marriage child born .also you can't marry to him first get converting to him then u can marry to him
Married in the worlds system not in God. Unbelievers have no use for God. Dark and light can’t live together.