There is a problem that is often abused. People say that bullies are like this because they have problems of their own. This is often followed by a call to have sympathy or understanding for the bullies. At this point, attempts are made to make the perpetrator into the victim and the victim into the perpetrator. If you want to do the real victims a favor, don't fall for it. When someone mentally wreaks havoc on another person for months or years, "but he called me a jerk" is no justification. Defend the victims and try to defuse the situation. The perpetrator will always try to take advantage of the victim's weakened state and force them to take the blame.
I agree, many bullies are generally sadistic and enjoy inflicting pain on others. They must be held accountable for their actions and feel the full severity of the consequences of their actions.
forgiveness does not equal a removal of consequences for bullying. bullying has its consequences. forgive them in your own journey, but be sure to hold their feet to the fire for what they have done.
So true. My adult brother used me as a whipping boy. If he was upset at anyone else on earth, he would come to my house and call me vile names and ridicule my looks. My mother let him get away with horrid behavior all his life. I never called him out because it would have meant losing important people in my life.
So glad you talked about this. Here in the UK it's a huge issue in schools but people seriously forget about adult bullying. My friend is going through a very stressful time because of her boss at work. Bullies come in all shapes, sizes, and ages.
yeh it just gets stealthier as you get older. I started a job and there was a woman who made a song and dance about her voluntary work for an anti-bullying campaign. Same woman blanked me. She didn't do anything that would have sounded too bad in isolation if I'd confronted her. But if I ever said anything in a group setting, she either ignored me completely or reacted AS THOUGH I'd said something 1) obvious, 2) ridiculous 3) offensive. It made me wither and withdraw from the entire group. But her self-perception is that she's LOVELY
I (female) was bullied by a female colleage years ago. She broke me in 2-3 months, I was alone in a foreign country and nobody was here to help me. No friends, no boss, not even my boyfried at the time. It took me years to become "normal" again and to regain my social skills completely, I even had to leave the region as her gossip not only damaged me, but also my career. I'm not a hateful person but I can't avoid to wish her all pain and suffering possible, I just can't forgive her. I never knew you could become to fragile, tiny and defenceless, it's a horrible feeling
Sorry that happens to you 🙂I hope all is well with you now. Some people will never grow up 🤨they choose to cause pain to others just to make themselves feel better.
So sorry to hear that happened to you, you did not deserve it. Hope life will bring you better persons and situations in the future. It's very possible ☺️ take care
Yes, as a person trained in all thing forensic mental health and holistic psychology; this clinical population is quite interesting to observe but obviously from a safe distance ☝️
I’m 72 years old. I’m living in an apartment building of 19 apartments. I am shocked at the behaviors in this building. 85% of them are bullies. We are all over 62 years old and over. For some time now I actually allowed these people here bully me up until the past couple weeks. I’ve lived here 4 years now and I finally got a grip on myself. It’s ALL on them!!! It’s not me. I knew this yet since I am not in the working world my mindset is no longer as big as it used to be. I owned my own business. I had self esteem. I dealt with people most of my life. Thanks to videos like yours I have pulled myself up again. I’m not better than them, I have a different mindset than them. I’m okay and they are okay. I know my boundaries. I’m not going to confront them. If the ‘beatings’ continue I will tell one lady that she has been harassing me enough. And she has. It is so juvenile. I’ve actually written everything down how she has treated me, I will let her know this, I’m ready for it if need be. Thanks for the refresher course 😊
I work with young people (between 18 and 24) who experience problems with substance abuse and - more often than not - psychological problems like anxiety and depression. Many of them have been bullied as a kid at school, so that's by other kids. I understand what you're saying here, it is still a bit shocking to find out that adults still do this. The impact of being bullied is really devestating for a lot of people. I am happy to hear you did not feel affected by it.
So sorry you found those comments. That sounds terrible, but I love your positive way to deal with it. Not many can do that. People forget that, bullying can lead to depression and sometimes far worse...so sad.
I disagree.Bullies don’t deserve sympathy at all.They don’t know what sympathy is in the first place.I would not justify their wrong behaviors at all specially if they’re an adult,there’s no excuse to be a bully.We all gone through different challenges in life and some made the right choices but we don’t bully others ,we know how it feels like being mistreated but these bullies don’t have feelings at all.I don’t care what they’re gone through ….their bad behaviors still an unjustifiable!
Just because studies have shown that you need 7 good things to perpetuate one bad one: You are gorgeous! I love how open you are! You being so open amazes me! I love the sound of your voice! Your videos are a stabile part of my TH-cam consumtion! You are a huge idol for a lot of people! ❤🖤❤
Physical age does not necessarily shows the emotional age of the person. aMany people don’t know how to deal with emotions; maybe they learned it at home , but they only know how to lash out & bully others - it’s almost always a deeply unhappy, insecure, traumatized human; sad.
That's all fine and dandy to "understand," why bullies, bully others. However, their behavior if not put in check immediately gets worse over time. Ignoring and being "understanding," does no one any good including the bully themselves. Bullying has always happened and will continue to happen throughout the world. Therefore , checking a bully is essential when dealing with one. Meaning, if you have issues with physical or verbal confrontation then you need to ask your self why and get rid of your "fears." Or else you give the bully a non-spoken agreement to continue due to your "fears," silence and tolerance of said bullies behavior. Checking a bully is what people like that understand. A show of potential force and repercussion for their behavior is what they respect. Not kindness, silence, or worse tolerance. To a bully this is a sign of weakness.
Bullying is - as far as I know - a worldwide issue. It is committed by people who were being bullied by family, guardians, teachers, bosses and so on and they find and use scapegoats for the pressure they feel and usually they choose their victims among "weaker", more vulnerable and less protected ones like children, older people, women, employees and so on. It is actually about mental health. Even parents don't realize that they are breaking down their child's personality, because they think they are only preparing their child for life. They couldn't be more wrong."Living your life to the fullest" is not what most children experience or are being taught; in fact it is the exact opposite.
So sorry, Jay, you have hate comments! I don‘t know why, you make wonderful and meaningful content. My Mama told me : if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. I try to teach this to my 5 year old boy, but I start to see, that even at this age boys don‘t like him for not taking sides
Jay, great job in making them aware of their weaknesses and issues. I've been victim of bullying so I know even more what does it mean. Anyway, just ignore them, you have all my support and we really appeeciate and enjoy your videos. Cheers
There a bullies who had negative experiences, but there are bullies who are deeply evil and are what they are nothing else then evil. Unfortunately not all people are born innocent. But as you said, do not react to it, so the society should react in the same way. Never give them a platform, never! Bad thing is, internet gives them a platform...
Thanks for this. I added your video to my play list on Bullies. It is becoming Shocking to witness bullying from adult YT channel owners against other adults. I actually had a woman who has a channel called HUCKLEBERRY stalk me at my home. She also said heinous things about my Native American heritage in chats, whom she doesn’t know and NOBY confronts her about her bullying people. It is Shockng.
Thank you for posting this! No one wants to stop an adult bully. So they get away with leaving psychological, financial, and spiritual damage. It's hard to shake that kind of stuff off because adults dont want to talk about it. How do people who get bullied as adults get over it then?
Adult bullies often display profound developmental disabilities. It can even be the Grandfather, second stage of life, pathetic & filled with self loathing. The thing is they know this & vicariously try to fight the battle & discontent with their lives through other. Stay unbothered, it drives them crazy. 🙏
Thank you. My bullies include my mother, my father, ( when he was alive), and currently my ex-employer. I can tell they have all been bullied, they have really evil souls. It shows. The abuse they put me through made me feel like I had no value to this earth. I even attempted to take my life. It took me a long time to find my self-worth, thanks to co-workers and friends who saw the light in me - I have regained my soul back. It's sad, because each of them has held immense power in my community. They all have used control over my finances and attempted to slander my name by spreading false rumors. They've told anyone who listens that I am "mentally ill", but it's not true. I struggle with depression, anxiety and ADHD... but I am not ill. It's difficult when you are the young person in the power-dynamic, as they often tell me "I have no clue what I'm doing". It hurts not having any parents, but I've found that you can create your own family within your friends and mentors in other avenues. Bullies stink! I'm glad people are talking about it, because they still exist. But we can defeat them, with true community, power & love. Keep spreading true love and support each other through this battle called life. We all struggle, but if we can try to help others through the struggle - we all win. #LoveWillPrevail #LoveWins
I hate when people do it so secretly that when you are trying to get to the root of qhy you are mad you feel like you are the crazy one and the people bullying you have such a loving group.
I come from an unusual background circumstance and I can tell you that although especially in America (US) we don’t like to think in terms of class and yet we are the most class oriented society on earth, bullying usually doesn’t exist or doesn’t survive in a smaller and educated strata. All countries should copy this pattern and apply it to the rest. A bully doesn’t have a chance in those societies. This applied in a bigger society by the institutions would help. Making laws and procedures to tackle bullying at work, apartment buildings, partisan groups, hate groups developing now will not have a chance. We need to consider the new digital technologies are making domestic violence and bullying have an even bigger imbalance of power tilted even more heavily toward the bully or group bullying.
They might have gone through stressful situations themselves but not everyone become a bully. I have gone through very traumatic snd stressful situations in my life and yet I have not become a bully. Becoming a bully is a choice and yes, as you say, they have a diminished sense of self. I find this is strictly related to THEIR upbringing. Upbringing is most everything. It depends how one grew up and how one was raised. People who have a lack in integrity and lived in a environment lacking certain principles and inner motivation as opposed to an outward collective motivation do the worse.
They don't just use the game of echolalia. I wanted a better life. But I know I'll never escape my problems and the bullying. So I thought assistant dying is the only answer but I'm not allowed. I don't enjoy life.
SIR well i am german old 63 And I dont talk to Nazies anymore , its just ignorant hate no brain but just hate. And it hurts my german soul big time. I am just a random german not knowing about the USA: why are these hate exist? my best girlfriend likes girls, so what? She is my best friend ever,period. I do love her from the bottom of my heart. She is my friend , my harbour, I can talk, cry, be myself. I am so happy to have her in my life. Nothing can hammer this friendship down. We are much stronger but you might imagine 😍😍
Yes, they are Coward to face and solve their own problems. So they just throw their problems to other persons. They could be less distressed when they see people around also got problems. It is just a Lie for themselves. Making troubles to other peoples make them feel better about themselves. If they just have courage to face and solve their own problems head on. they don't have to torture others.
I think (maybe 🤔) that most of the people don't even realise they are bullying someone. They are just very unhappy inside, and they take it, in an unconscious manner, on somebody else. This is no excuse for bullying behaviour whatsoever.
That's rather easy on the internet. But in real life, bullies come in flocks. They rarely attack you alone. They know that you are defenseless and revel in it. They want you to react to them, to provoke you in any way, and they will make sure that other people see you while they're cutting you open. And whatever you do, whether you react or not, you have lost: any reaction from your part is interpreted by them as weakness and laughed at. Bullies are people who were abused, yes, but they chose to take it on others, therefore they're bad people. Your video makes it sound like that attitude is human and therefore excusable. But bullies have often pushed people to suicide, particularly among young people.
Hi Jay, love your channel and your perspective on things. Bullying is bad, but look at the political atmosphere in America, right now. If certain people are not persecuting someone, they are not doing anything, at all. Political and religious leaders are the biggest bullies around. They give these horrible people permission to be so bad. That is the saddest part, to me. They have normalized this behavior.
I'd like to disagree: Words have power. Not sure about looking into that protected section (DE Giftschrank) to inform yourself about people that obviously loove to hate you. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. Your freedom to Not participate. Pick your fights. But not get numb to maybe posts you dislike but maybe offer a different perspective, a chance to learn.
Hallo Jay unfort. You are right...its the old Story of Kain and Abel..Ressentiment and envy.See Ukraine now. The Dalai Lama wrote a small book.. we dont need Religion and similar we only need Ethik and Empathy.. Hans
There is a problem that is often abused.
People say that bullies are like this because they have problems of their own. This is often followed by a call to have sympathy or understanding for the bullies.
At this point, attempts are made to make the perpetrator into the victim and the victim into the perpetrator. If you want to do the real victims a favor, don't fall for it.
When someone mentally wreaks havoc on another person for months or years, "but he called me a jerk" is no justification.
Defend the victims and try to defuse the situation. The perpetrator will always try to take advantage of the victim's weakened state and force them to take the blame.
Fits perfectly under NPD
I agree, many bullies are generally sadistic and enjoy inflicting pain on others. They must be held accountable for their actions and feel the full severity of the consequences of their actions.
@@mariafundi8347 it's sad how the saints always hope to change these people but in fact, it's all gonna be temporary and a waste of efforts
forgiveness does not equal a removal of consequences for bullying. bullying has its consequences. forgive them in your own journey, but be sure to hold their feet to the fire for what they have done.
So true. My adult brother used me as a whipping boy. If he was upset at anyone else on earth, he would come to my house and call me vile names and ridicule my looks. My mother let him get away with horrid behavior all his life. I never called him out because it would have meant losing important people in my life.
👍 Dont let the evil deeds of others, influence your conduct or character. Dont let it change your character or conduct.
So glad you talked about this. Here in the UK it's a huge issue in schools but people seriously forget about adult bullying. My friend is going through a very stressful time because of her boss at work. Bullies come in all shapes, sizes, and ages.
I agree, people seem to forget that adults can be bullies too.
yeh it just gets stealthier as you get older. I started a job and there was a woman who made a song and dance about her voluntary work for an anti-bullying campaign. Same woman blanked me. She didn't do anything that would have sounded too bad in isolation if I'd confronted her. But if I ever said anything in a group setting, she either ignored me completely or reacted AS THOUGH I'd said something 1) obvious, 2) ridiculous 3) offensive. It made me wither and withdraw from the entire group. But her self-perception is that she's LOVELY
I (female) was bullied by a female colleage years ago. She broke me in 2-3 months, I was alone in a foreign country and nobody was here to help me. No friends, no boss, not even my boyfried at the time. It took me years to become "normal" again and to regain my social skills completely, I even had to leave the region as her gossip not only damaged me, but also my career. I'm not a hateful person but I can't avoid to wish her all pain and suffering possible, I just can't forgive her. I never knew you could become to fragile, tiny and defenceless, it's a horrible feeling
Sorry that happens to you 🙂I hope all is well with you now. Some people will never grow up 🤨they choose to cause pain to others just to make themselves feel better.
@leyrotis It’s not your job to forgive her..
Your job is to nurture and recover and educate yourself on these type of people.
So sorry to hear that happened to you, you did not deserve it. Hope life will bring you better persons and situations in the future. It's very possible ☺️ take care
I am so sorry.
Not only are you spot on, but calmly and dispassionately analysing their behaviour is probably the best comeback at a bully possible.
Yes, as a person trained in all thing forensic mental health and holistic psychology; this clinical population is quite interesting to observe but obviously from a safe distance ☝️
I am so speechless, shocked. Mobbing exists everywhere, but I Just can't understand why. Never understood....ich werde das nie verstehen!
I’m 72 years old. I’m living in an apartment building of 19 apartments. I am shocked at the behaviors in this building. 85% of them are bullies. We are all over 62 years old and over. For some time now I actually allowed these people here bully me up until the past couple weeks. I’ve lived here 4 years now and I finally got a grip on myself. It’s ALL on them!!! It’s not me. I knew this yet since I am not in the working world my mindset is no longer as big as it used to be. I owned my own business. I had self esteem. I dealt with people most of my life. Thanks to videos like yours I have pulled myself up again. I’m not better than them, I have a different mindset than them. I’m okay and they are okay. I know my boundaries. I’m not going to confront them. If the ‘beatings’ continue I will tell one lady that she has been harassing me enough. And she has. It is so juvenile. I’ve actually written everything down how she has treated me, I will let her know this, I’m ready for it if need be. Thanks for the refresher course 😊
I work with young people (between 18 and 24) who experience problems with substance abuse and - more often than not - psychological problems like anxiety and depression. Many of them have been bullied as a kid at school, so that's by other kids. I understand what you're saying here, it is still a bit shocking to find out that adults still do this. The impact of being bullied is really devestating for a lot of people. I am happy to hear you did not feel affected by it.
Yur spot on, Jay! Been watching Yur videos quite awhile now and there’s NOTHING I disagree with u on. World needs more like u.
Ugh, this topic is so important. I don’t get why bullying still exists.
I have a neighbour who’s bullying me. Its difficult to handle. But I distance myself completely , since he’s so irrational.
one thing is , how people can "discredit you"
figure out how to discredit them .
So sorry you found those comments. That sounds terrible, but I love your positive way to deal with it. Not many can do that. People forget that, bullying can lead to depression and sometimes far worse...so sad.
I disagree.Bullies don’t deserve sympathy at all.They don’t know what sympathy is in the first place.I would not justify their wrong behaviors at all specially if they’re an adult,there’s no excuse to be a bully.We all gone through different challenges in life and some made the right choices but we don’t bully others ,we know how it feels like being mistreated but these bullies don’t have feelings at all.I don’t care what they’re gone through ….their bad behaviors still an unjustifiable!
i agree, well said
👏
Just because studies have shown that you need 7 good things to perpetuate one bad one:
You are gorgeous!
I love how open you are!
You being so open amazes me!
I love the sound of your voice!
Your videos are a stabile part of my TH-cam consumtion!
You are a huge idol for a lot of people!
❤🖤❤
Physical age does not necessarily shows the emotional age of the person. aMany people don’t know how to deal with emotions; maybe they learned it at home , but they only know how to lash out & bully others - it’s almost always a deeply unhappy, insecure, traumatized human; sad.
Some people are so evil nowadays.Alot different than in the past.
Wow, you speak 4 languages, I am impressed!
That's all fine and dandy to "understand," why bullies, bully others. However, their behavior if not put in check immediately gets worse over time. Ignoring and being "understanding," does no one any good including the bully themselves. Bullying has always happened and will continue to happen throughout the world. Therefore , checking a bully is essential when dealing with one. Meaning, if you have issues with physical or verbal confrontation then you need to ask your self why and get rid of your "fears." Or else you give the bully a non-spoken agreement to continue due to your "fears," silence and tolerance of said bullies behavior. Checking a bully is what people like that understand. A show of potential force and repercussion for their behavior is what they respect. Not kindness, silence, or worse tolerance. To a bully this is a sign of weakness.
That's fair! But what about the bullies who, when confronted, say "Oh you're mad 🤣" and take great pride and joy in being able to get under your skin?
@@judeperks6612 That’s when you have an emotionally-dysregulated individual, known to many as: A Narcissist
Bullying is - as far as I know - a worldwide issue. It is committed by people who were being bullied by family, guardians, teachers, bosses and so on and they find and use scapegoats for the pressure they feel and usually they choose their victims among "weaker", more vulnerable and less protected ones like children, older people, women, employees and so on. It is actually about mental health. Even parents don't realize that they are breaking down their child's personality, because they think they are only preparing their child for life. They couldn't be more wrong."Living your life to the fullest" is not what most children experience or are being taught; in fact it is the exact opposite.
So sorry, Jay, you have hate comments! I don‘t know why, you make wonderful and meaningful content. My Mama told me : if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. I try to teach this to my 5 year old boy, but I start to see, that even at this age boys don‘t like him for not taking sides
Jay, great job in making them aware of their weaknesses and issues. I've been victim of bullying so I know even more what does it mean. Anyway, just ignore them, you have all my support and we really appeeciate and enjoy your videos. Cheers
There a bullies who had negative experiences, but there are bullies who are deeply evil and are what they are nothing else then evil. Unfortunately not all people are born innocent. But as you said, do not react to it, so the society should react in the same way. Never give them a platform, never! Bad thing is, internet gives them a platform...
Thanks for this. I added your video to my play list on Bullies. It is becoming Shocking to witness bullying from adult YT channel owners against other adults. I actually had a woman who has a channel called HUCKLEBERRY stalk me at my home. She also said heinous things about my Native American heritage in chats, whom she doesn’t know and NOBY confronts her about her bullying people. It is Shockng.
Thank you for posting this! No one wants to stop an adult bully. So they get away with leaving psychological, financial, and spiritual damage. It's hard to shake that kind of stuff off because adults dont want to talk about it. How do people who get bullied as adults get over it then?
Adult bullies often display profound developmental disabilities. It can even be the Grandfather, second stage of life, pathetic & filled with self loathing. The thing is they know this & vicariously try to fight the battle & discontent with their lives through other. Stay unbothered, it drives them crazy. 🙏
Thank you so much for this video, Jay. A really important issue.
Thank you. My bullies include my mother, my father, ( when he was alive), and currently my ex-employer. I can tell they have all been bullied, they have really evil souls. It shows. The abuse they put me through made me feel like I had no value to this earth. I even attempted to take my life. It took me a long time to find my self-worth, thanks to co-workers and friends who saw the light in me - I have regained my soul back. It's sad, because each of them has held immense power in my community. They all have used control over my finances and attempted to slander my name by spreading false rumors. They've told anyone who listens that I am "mentally ill", but it's not true. I struggle with depression, anxiety and ADHD... but I am not ill.
It's difficult when you are the young person in the power-dynamic, as they often tell me "I have no clue what I'm doing". It hurts not having any parents, but I've found that you can create your own family within your friends and mentors in other avenues. Bullies stink! I'm glad people are talking about it, because they still exist. But we can defeat them, with true community, power & love. Keep spreading true love and support each other through this battle called life. We all struggle, but if we can try to help others through the struggle - we all win. #LoveWillPrevail #LoveWins
Wise words.
Excellent explanation. Thanks for your good words.
My comment. I love you and your content because your together. Also an xpat living in Germany. Have a wonderful Christmas.
I hate when people do it so secretly that when you are trying to get to the root of qhy you are mad you feel like you are the crazy one and the people bullying you have such a loving group.
I 100% agree with what you say! Thank you for this great Video!💜💚
I'm bullied everyday for the rest of my life since I was in my early 20s and I can't just kill myself or have assistance dying. I don't enjoy life.
Are you still bullied stand up to him tell him to pay his debts with his broke ass
I come from an unusual background circumstance and I can tell you that although especially in America (US) we don’t like to think in terms of class and yet we are the most class oriented society on earth, bullying usually doesn’t exist or doesn’t survive in a smaller and educated strata. All countries should copy this pattern and apply it to the rest. A bully doesn’t have a chance in those societies. This applied in a bigger society by the institutions would help. Making laws and procedures to tackle bullying at work, apartment buildings, partisan groups, hate groups developing now will not have a chance.
We need to consider the new digital technologies are making domestic violence and bullying have an even bigger imbalance of power tilted even more heavily toward the bully or group bullying.
You handled this topic very well! Appreciate you taking the time to research it thoroughly.
Very interesting information about this topic, i didnt know this. Thanks for sharing ☺️
They might have gone through stressful situations themselves but not everyone become a bully. I have gone through very traumatic snd stressful situations in my life and yet I have not become a bully. Becoming a bully is a choice and yes, as you say, they have a diminished sense of self. I find this is strictly related to THEIR upbringing. Upbringing is most everything. It depends how one grew up and how one was raised. People who have a lack in integrity and lived in a environment lacking certain principles and inner motivation as opposed to an outward collective motivation do the worse.
Most bullies are results of parents who never say no to their children
Thanks. A very useful insight.
Thank you, I needed this today! 😄🤗
Off topic: I love the blue.
Thank you for this video! ❤❤❤
For me, only someone I like and respect can hurt me! All others go me so of the a.s past, sorry.
They don't just use the game of echolalia. I wanted a better life. But I know I'll never escape my problems and the bullying. So I thought assistant dying is the only answer but I'm not allowed. I don't enjoy life.
SIR
well i am german old 63 And I dont talk to Nazies anymore , its just ignorant hate no brain but just hate. And it hurts my german soul big time. I am just a random german not knowing about the USA: why are these hate exist? my best girlfriend likes girls, so what? She is my best friend ever,period. I do love her from the bottom of my heart. She is my friend , my harbour, I can talk, cry, be myself. I am so happy to have her in my life. Nothing can hammer this friendship down. We are much stronger but you might imagine 😍😍
Yes, they are Coward to face and solve their own problems. So they just throw their problems to other persons. They could be less distressed when they see people around also got problems. It is just a Lie for themselves. Making troubles to other peoples make them feel better about themselves. If they just have courage to face and solve their own problems head on. they don't have to torture others.
Great video thank you
I think (maybe 🤔) that most of the people don't even realise they are bullying someone. They are just very unhappy inside, and they take it, in an unconscious manner, on somebody else. This is no excuse for bullying behaviour whatsoever.
They can’t control their own life, but want to control mines 😂
Great Analyse 👍👍
Bullying to mask their pain.
Low self esteem yes
Absolutely
I was just bullied because of my English pronunciation of a word. I felt so little and insecure 😟.
I see you apply the greyrock method
Thank you 🙏🏿
That's rather easy on the internet. But in real life, bullies come in flocks. They rarely attack you alone. They know that you are defenseless and revel in it. They want you to react to them, to provoke you in any way, and they will make sure that other people see you while they're cutting you open. And whatever you do, whether you react or not, you have lost: any reaction from your part is interpreted by them as weakness and laughed at.
Bullies are people who were abused, yes, but they chose to take it on others, therefore they're bad people. Your video makes it sound like that attitude is human and therefore excusable. But bullies have often pushed people to suicide, particularly among young people.
My roommate bullies me.
You’re just telling the pure truth.
Yes
Very interesting. Ich gehe jetzt zum Weihnachtsmarkt.
Definitely
Hi Jay, love your channel and your perspective on things. Bullying is bad, but look at the political atmosphere in America, right now. If certain people are not persecuting someone, they are not doing anything, at all. Political and religious leaders are the biggest bullies around. They give these horrible people permission to be so bad. That is the saddest part, to me. They have normalized this behavior.
Correct.
Jealously and insecurity
I'd like to disagree: Words have power.
Not sure about looking into that protected section (DE Giftschrank) to inform yourself about people that obviously loove to hate you. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. Your freedom to Not participate. Pick your fights. But not get numb to maybe posts you dislike but maybe offer a different perspective, a chance to learn.
There is an unlike button, why not use that?
Bullying is wrong
Hallo Jay unfort. You are right...its the old Story of Kain and Abel..Ressentiment and envy.See Ukraine now.
The Dalai Lama wrote a small book.. we dont need Religion and similar we only need Ethik and Empathy..
Hans
Common sense here.
Tell the bully’s that
I like your style!!! Get the best social marketing with promo sm!
Just take a look at the life's of Chris Chan and Drachenlord.
Donald Trump?
Wise words.