Why Do People Bully?

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  • @SageLMK
    @SageLMK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    bullies may have traumatic pasts but doesn’t mean they have to be huge jerks.

    • @Verified10
      @Verified10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yah 💯

    • @snowviix
      @snowviix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Verified10 "Well"??

    • @lowbackthrowbacks9985
      @lowbackthrowbacks9985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I wasn't really a bully, I was friends with cool blonde chicks and other boys when I was 14. They would bully and I would laugh and point at them and put my hand on my mouth. I was desperately trying to be cool.

    • @snowviix
      @snowviix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lowbackthrowbacks9985 :I

    • @caitthegreat6186
      @caitthegreat6186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @katieward7181
    @katieward7181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I got bullied and it never stopped and I done nothing to make a person bully me or others at all

    • @443MoneyTrees
      @443MoneyTrees 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s what a lot of bullies do

    • @AirYan5iveZer0
      @AirYan5iveZer0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah I also got bullied. I don't know why everyone targets me. Some people are even more insecure and silly than me but they get less bullied.

    • @kinddemontwist180
      @kinddemontwist180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, i got bullied a lot there was this girl that never left me alone , i was very talkative back then when she came I stopped talking i started being quite and give my bully what she wanted and i didnt say a word.
      And as a child i had a pretty traumatising childhood 😔 but i never felt like that effected me much it was her she would always make me insecure, i tried being friends with her but she’d say i was a nerd for wearing glasses but she also said I was dumb ( I MEAN COME ON I DIDNT CHOOSE MY EYE SIGHT TO BE WEAK)
      As a child my parents usually thought a cry for attention They would say would” you are emotional” “ stop looking for attention” that really did effect me
      So next time you say smth mean to A CHILD think about there situation and feelings 😑
      Ik this is long T-T

    • @roseanngalvez9568
      @roseanngalvez9568 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They are wounded and angry they can't process it.

  • @ross3986
    @ross3986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When it comes to me, to me bully's bully people because they are very insecure, unhappy and also jealous of you, most likely because you have a life they want and so they pick on you to make themselves feel better but they are only hurting themselves even more.

  • @per-don
    @per-don 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    A note for bully’s
    People are different
    Bully’s are bad
    I’d teach them a lesson
    If I can
    Here’s a note for people who get
    You are awesome
    You are great
    Words are just words
    So they aren’t real

    • @RobertMan268
      @RobertMan268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great poem man, really well done.

    • @RobertMan268
      @RobertMan268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @SoryIHasLag [Engineer Gamings 1# hoe] did you mean jimi 2020?

    • @minamina2286
      @minamina2286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like you all guys😇😊☺😀😁

    • @si_haikal6277
      @si_haikal6277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what if the victim of bullying has been through it for years and no one has helped her

  • @SWilde-ws9qg
    @SWilde-ws9qg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I bullied people in primary school because I was a weird kid and didn't want to be targeted so I bullied other "weird" kids. For me it was about fitting in with the group.
    There was also a fat kid who was a big bully, nobody would even dare to make fat jokes about him, even if they made fun of other fat kids. Now that's interesting because he was liked for being mean and making fun of others, kids would laugh at the jokes he made about others. I found out that laughter is another great bullying tactic as it gives people reason to bully others, they wish to entertain themselves and when a group thinks that the joke is funny it's usually hard to disagree . In a way making mean jokes about someone takes away from that cruel aspect, it turns bullying into something that is seen as more acceptable somehow.

  • @user-tc2wv4ue7y
    @user-tc2wv4ue7y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much. I really needed to understand this better. After being bully and insulted.

  • @grenadierbeetroot3235
    @grenadierbeetroot3235 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    there are as many bullies that are women than ones that are men, but physical violence is more common with male bullies because they are stronger than women. For women it's more social

  • @shadowcat1_
    @shadowcat1_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I need some help, I am trying to stick up for someone being bullied but it’s not working...

    • @RuiRavaela
      @RuiRavaela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry for what you've experienced. I feel so bad for you, but you can't seek help in internet. Please tell an adult or just stand up for yourself!

    • @shadowcat1_
      @shadowcat1_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not the one getting bullied it’s my friend, and thanks for your advice

  • @PiaLoveBSNRNCCBTP
    @PiaLoveBSNRNCCBTP 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There is no good reason for harassment or bullying. I pray for all hurt to the point of being proud of bullying.

  • @r011ing_thunder6
    @r011ing_thunder6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why are some bullies nice to you and then go back to being a bully? I’ve had bullies but to this day I feel so weird to say that because they were nice to me and made me feel good but then just make me feel like killing my self other times

    • @Pentamicle
      @Pentamicle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's one of two reasons I think; either the bully only does it for attention, and when there's no audience they see no reason to be bully, which is why they're nice when alone, or alternatively they use it as a deliberate tactic to get your guard down so that they can keep bullying you with less resistance for longer.

  • @katieward7181
    @katieward7181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't make people feel bad and I don't blame anyone for what I done and I don't have low self esteem and I'm not a bad person at all and i don't bully anyone

  • @Maxedddoout5871
    @Maxedddoout5871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks im writing a diss track for bullies

  • @urbansetter1
    @urbansetter1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who cares if they had teauma tons of ppl have had trauma and there are plenty of female bullies

  • @ericjiang7986
    @ericjiang7986 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t feel like picking on ppl is bullying necessarily

  • @minamina2286
    @minamina2286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know why do other bully you bully are being bully in past so they decided to bully others to in their mind they are kind I knew how does it feel like other always bully in my school but I keep it sekret

  • @Me.330
    @Me.330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I swear I’m tired of this bull crap Bullies are not good people! They should not be treated as human

  • @kaylagammon6768
    @kaylagammon6768 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can change time stamps too?
    Who are you?

  • @killfile4894
    @killfile4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am all of these things

  • @ashangamage69
    @ashangamage69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some people bullying me 😞

  • @kaylagammon6768
    @kaylagammon6768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know you have an army of civilians and the whole world in on this. And I do at times deserve to be bullied. But YOU tried to kill me MULTIPLE times. Am I supposed to hug you afterwards?

  • @akopujuey5965
    @akopujuey5965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    we human are free thinker
    they are crazy thinker and choose to be bad guy
    once is enough
    they are not victim

  • @minamina2286
    @minamina2286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always wrote on my dairy

  • @lemon1321
    @lemon1321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is unrated

  • @iraqnewzealand
    @iraqnewzealand 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m first

  • @cjh10
    @cjh10 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not to be that guy, but the video would be heaps better if the narrator sounded less depressed...

    • @printedpixels6214
      @printedpixels6214 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      am gonna be honest i think she sounds amazing

  • @andrefelipe2643
    @andrefelipe2643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Third

    • @56juicee
      @56juicee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fourth

  • @JosiahBlackstock-zn3cf
    @JosiahBlackstock-zn3cf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Believe in Jesus. Repent of your sins and forgive others. Jesus loves you! He is coming very soon!

  • @Victor-f7n3x
    @Victor-f7n3x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bullies are actually good people, because they’ve been bullied themselves at home. They bully other people.

  • @Vran4743
    @Vran4743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Because feels good
    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You're selfish

  • @tigerkinghinch1364
    @tigerkinghinch1364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ima bully