I fully integrated and healed C-PTSD after 37 long years of inner work and therapy through 9 months of group somatics. It was so truly, wholly uncomfortable, but all of my relational trauma is gone now. Please do more of that for those who can tolerate it.
The greatest barrier I have to full participation in life & being my best self is my nervous system. My fight / freeze & hyper vigilance has affected my career & personal relationships so much. Slowly slowly getting closer to healing.
I’m watching this, and started getting worried, anxious, and stressed about a lot of things, this might be because I’m overanalyzing because of my eagerness to get out of this situation… thankfully, I just remembered that ‘You don’t have to understand everything, you just have to be more understanding…’ then suddenly my brain kind of realize I gotta calm down and accept the fact that I’ll be able to heal this wound inside of me only if I have some enough compassion on myself…
I resonate so deeply with all of this. I’ve lived this shifting experience and learned to tolerate my feelings and sensations. I made peace with tight, numb, constricted, neglected places in my body. I’ve released muscles that have been frozen in place and even built those muscles stronger. I’ve learned how to regulate myself through breathing, stretching, yoga, music, crying, singing, writing, speaking, and just overall expressing. I’ve gotten in touch with my senses and made peace with my inner critic. I’ve learned to discern between helpful and unhelpful thoughts without invalidating myself as I process my wounds and trauma. I’ve learned to name my emotions and accept them as they come, and allow them to go when they don’t serve me. I’ve come so far and none of that would have been possible without bridging my mind-body disconnection and learning about the nervous system’s integral involvement in the processing of trauma. I continue to learn and practice this in my own life on a daily basis. Sometimes as a practitioner I feel like I fall short of helping my clients to go where I’ve gone. How im going to incorporate this into my work… im really going to remember those 2 options when clients become aware of a “process memory” pattern in their body, or pickup on and identify a particular sensation. Im going to either help them to exaggerate and sit with it, and see what comes up in terms of sensation, memory, feeling, or thought. And/Or, im going to help them soften it through mindfulness/relaxation training. What im really going to remember about that second option is the need to revisit the sensation or the process memory. The language of having those two “parts” integrate with each other is helpful, and also something I have not done enough of. On top of all of this… im going to remember that I am not an expert on this from just a few books, this TH-cam video, or my own experiences. So im going to become more intentional with getting further training and knowledge and use that to further my ability to provide trauma treatment the best I can.
It seems like moving from one extreme to the other - telling us that the traumatic events need not be vocalized. I found vocalization necessary to understanding and even to recovering my memory.
I think it’s both good and bad, and therapists need to recognize that. Talking about traumatic events for me brought everything to the surface so much that a therapy session would ruin the whole day and the next day. I wish my therapist then would have realized the toll it was having on me. There was little gain week after week for all that suffering. But I also think it’s important for a therapist to understand what happened and I think it can be healing to talk about some of it maybe in longer sessions where you reach conclusions by the end of the session, rather than the typical hour session that leaves you totally raw. I’ve thought about this a lot and decided that it would be best for me to just write it all out, a sort of history, so I don’t have to tell it every time I start with a new therapist. Also, I think some therapists have this idea that if you’re sobbing your eyes out in their office it means you’re opening up or getting something out, and I really disagree with this. These therapists can be just idiots. So, you kind of have to watch out for that and I think that’s why for a lot of people in therapy, vocalizing it all can be really detrimental if your therapist isn’t helping you deal with all that pain and especially if the therapist isn’t even checking if you’re able to function after sessions. A lot of therapists don’t get trauma and shouldn’t be allowed to have patients that have experienced trauma. They can do more damage.
Thats why they say first u need to build the resources with a client..a scaffolding so to speak..that if a client gets into stormy waters he ll have capacity to withstand them without being retraumatised again. Lots of psychoeducation and grounding practices before and only if a client want to unpack what happened. The issues are in the tissues.
@@tnijoo5109 Its the bean counters I think, who set the clocks. I do bodywork and nearly everyone in my office comes in for between 2-5hrs. This includes non-trauma patients and clients. I would love our capitalistic society to recognize that the body has its own time frame and we should be respecting it. In body work, be comfortable with oneself such that one has the ability to be still, even many minutes if necessary, until the body 'thaws' and tissues begin to move and invite in. I suspect the same in the mind/brain work: waiting until the patient or client feels safe enough to open up the doors, and be relaxed enough to let the patient close those same doors when they choose, as opposed to the 'authority' of a therapist to ask questions that force spaces open and then slam them shut due to a clock. Just my thoughts...
I feel this channel comforts and guides me because of the life strategies and understandings from these amazing stranger who lovingly and gently share their wisdom. This includes the host, and all the wonderful speakers like this lady, from such a wide array of psychology disciplines. Thank you
I'm from iraq, and I have PTSD, I feel hypervigilant, and that affected all my life. I'm looking for treatment, but in iraq there is no therapy...just psychiatric doctors who give medication... I'm truly looking for your help to get me healed from my trauma through your advice or recommendation. Thank you very much.
Be careful I'm from Maine and that's all the psychiatrists and psychologists do is try to get you on drugs and the medical marijuana laws in Maine took advantage of that now we have half a state full of dispensaries and everybody knows that it's worse than smoking tobacco, if you become suicidal or homicidal ,you can self admit your self go nearest emergency room in Maine we can call crisis they will come to our residents, IAM studying the scripture , I submitted federal civil rights tort on stalkers who are causing my C-PTSD head , spinal injuries,❤️🦋🎗️
For PTSD you need to work on body. Anyone who use Somatic Expirience, Somatic Practice, EMDR, Safe and Sound protocol.. Do not use meditation or spiritual practice. Because you can get worse from my expirience. Mindfullness is something other than meditation. Talking therapy is not good, also from expirience. It is a slow gradual practice, so you must have patience. If you have safety only in that circumstances the emotions and events will come up and you need to be ready, because it is terror and horror. If you go threw this expirience fully present with everything the emotional charge will go away. Sitting with discomfort, no other way around. I tried for two years to skip body processing and got even worse. But I work with therapist EMDR and Somatic or body oriented therapy. And she helped me a lot, but it is still long lifetime working. You also have online working with this kind of stuff. You can search for Irene Lyon on youtube, she has some online courses and you can apply on this. I hope that this information helped you.
Dr. Ogden always has such valuable information! I’m bummed that most of her audio recordings appear to be of low quality and make it challenging to fully understand her.
The one part they talk about the voice going high or low monotonous happens to me. What am I supposed to do? How do I know when I am with my real voice?
I wish someone would have warned me when I began to heal that the changes in those around me could in itself be a traumatic experience whether they reacted aggressively or wanted to be closer before I was ready to let anyone in. I've reached a point where I've needed to stay away from people as much as possible while I feel and release the decades of trauma from my body whilst not in a safe environment as my home is currently under threat by a neighbour abusing a structural issue that she knows has caused me further damage to my nervous system and a housing provider that is useless when it comes to dealing with anything but I feel safe at least in myself as I've become confident in telling people what I need from them without feeling responsibility for their upset whether I say I need them to keep their distance and provide consequences if they don't respect this or for them to inform me of what's going on. All the talking with counsellors and medical practitioners did nothing for my healing, that and medication | realise now merely prolonged my agony. I learned to identify how I felt and could talk about it fluently whilst simply scratching the surface of how I was feeling. People believed I'd moved on from my past because I could talk about it without breaking down but I was containing how I felt so well because to let anyone see how I felt left me feeling vulnerable having been used to being taken advantage of in life threatening ways. My life has still been threatened and still is but I never let them see how much trauma I experience as a result. And now finally I know how to release this I'm gaining much confidence in dealing with their abuse, they can do what they will and I'll confront them with their behaviour without feeling frightened about the repercussions. Mostly I've discovered when abusers are confronted and know they will continue to be confronted they back off after their initial reactions have failed to silence me or prevent me from speaking out confidently about what they do and do what I can to ensure they stop abusing me in situations where I'm unable to leave. When I reacted to their abuse they kept doing it. I've never tolerated physical abuse since the beatings from my mother and as a result this only happened once during adulthood and that was the end of that relationship. It never happened again with anyone else, I was never attracted to physical abusers, just the emotional and psychological ones which in many ways can be worse as they leave little evidence of their abuse and many people don't believe me when I speak about it. Their enablers/rescuers in particular who I often find worse than the abusers themselves. I speak out about them too these days. Having had all those I love taken away one way or another I've got little left to lose, there are advantages to this! We don't have to be healed to be confident, we just need to feel the love that comes from accepting how we feel whatever that is and respecting what we need to heal. It's difficult to heal in an oppressive culture and for me so far been the loneliest time as people, family and those I thought close in particular would rather I didn't heal it would appear. It doesn't sit well with them but that's theirs to deal with!
I healed by myself using Buddhist meditation with the right steps and Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk suggestions Stay present start from awearness of surrounding and my body. In order for the body to feel safe when see hear touch the surrounding with trust and relax the mind will feel safe . The mind don't leave the body tgis stage. If there's past emotion raise up, the monk advised to look at the emotions without judge not react. Like the mind stay calm in the middle way within without fear the fealling. Keep on doing this all day the whole day. Sometimes I take a walk take a pleasure to feel the environment with with calm in the nature. My anxiety attack gone now. I still feel a mind stress. Big trigger gine too realising what trigger me why I get trigger. Trigger get me back to pain like the incidence occurre again. My CPTSD pain have to do with fear the emotion of shame. I disgust the shame and stay right with myself.
Read "The Neurobiology of Traumatic Dissociation" by Lantus, Corrigan, and Paulsen. The current information about neurobiology is far more complex than what is presented in this video, or anywhere else. You will learn about how the hippocampus and amygdala are NOT the only parts of the brain that matter in trauma, and why the polyvagal theory doesn't go nearly far enough to explain dissociation. If you are thinking that the average psychologist is going to explain neurobiology to you, you are mistaken.
@@AmanSharma-jy7lw Because it is written for clinicians, not for patients, it speaks about how to treat trauma. For more information that isn't fully focused on clinicians, read "Healing The Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors" by Janina Fisher. Her intended audience is both survivors and clinicians. She even includes exercises to do!
Please do more videos for those who can't afford therapy in how they can heal after realising there childhood abuse caused them to believe unconsciously that abuse was normal and went on to experience more abuse and a partner who was an abuser who turned her kids against her for no reason only he was evil
Reg I’m so sorry that happened if you’re speaking about your own experience. I really recommend watching The Crappy Childhood Fairy and Irene Lyons’ videos on TH-cam.
While our products are intended for mental health and healthcare professionals, we often have non-professionals that purchase our program out of their own interest for personal growth and development. While the experts do get into scientific research and share concrete strategies to apply in clinical practice, the material is still presented in a way that it is accessible by non-practitioners. So it’s definitely possible that you could benefit from this program - and I’d encourage you to make the purchase if you are interested. Of course, we do have a 30-day money-back guarantee; so if you purchase the course and find out it is not suited to your needs at this time, you can request a refund within 30-days to have all your money returned to you. All said, I lastly want to say, we do not advise these programs be used in place of therapy; though they may prove to be helpful in addition to your work with a professional. So if you are looking for help, I can direct you to this database through Psychology Today: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists Through this site, you’re able to search for therapists and support groups based on location, and filter through the results based on a variety of factors - specialties, approaches, and methods. If you have other questions about our programs, please do not hesitate to ask.
My boyfriend is going through this. He is unable to move from bed, he is always in Pain. It's his nervous system. But I believe that it's because of trauma from his family issues. He's been taking lots of medicines but no improvements. I really want to help him. Please suggest the best possible way to make him come out of it. He has given hope on life. It's really difficult to see him like that. We need help please
Hello and thanks for the video. I have experienced trauma like car accidents as a kid. I have struggled with my mental/emotional health as a adult and think it's related. Can SSRI medication help with these types of issues. Thanks.
as I watch this video, what arises in me, is longing and desire and an immense and intense ache inside my soul... I pray magical blessings in the lives of myself and my true love (that I am yet to meet). may him and I, both experience magical transformation and new levels of enlightenment and bliss... and may that lead us to each other, very-very soon! and may you, as well, beloved reader, be blessed, too...
I'm tired of the hell after having a Narrissist mother 47 plus years of trauma then last year I got out a lesser to mid range Narrissist, now I'm living with someone I thought cared about me, to realizing, they are manipulative, lieing, having come in stealing my meds and turning my kids and grandkids away telling them I took my meds, now again I have to go anywhere from a week to two weeks without my anxiety meds, and I'm also taking pain pills but I have belbuca which you don't feel the high from it it just takes the pain away. I just want to go home to be with the Lord, why I'm going through this I would never take my life in my right mind. But I can't handle anymore. Should I go in paitant for long term? For mY meds don't get stolen and maybe I can get better if not I'm 51 and feel I don't have the strength to fight time anymore?, They say I'm bipolar 1 szyo effected CPTSD, anoxea,or belimic I'm not sure if I'm delusional or if I have losted hope. (Forgotten Tears)
Yes! My teen daughter presents "f. You" body language and dress. My son is puffed up and frowning , closed off wall. We left abuse 8 months ago after all their lives being in hypervigilance. They're in touch with feelings and good at talking but the physiological is still a struggle. Panic attacks etc.
Nothing about this helps someone heal from trauma. Witnessing, comforting, diffusing, and redirecting the energy of past anger and grief is what addresses trauma. This is just scratching the surface. Most therapists don’t do any of this.
@@imwritingapoemaboutit if you think about it- it’s literally common sense and true openness of humanity and heart. It’s not a cure that is “for sale”. But this is what I do, and it’s real and it works. Also, if there is an abuser connect with the reality of the abuser’s actions and how truly damaged they were-TRULY damaged- they were to do these things.
I could be completely wrong but isn't it a lot harder to actually process the trauma when you're using CBT techniques to avoid addressing it directly? To me that seems like the wrong way to approach it
I had a therapist put me through 7 years of reliving it to peel the onions so to speak. I ended up severely ill what's fibromyalgia and my back going out. How do I heal from all of this and the original trauma I was in therapy for over 30 years and I'm still stuck in the fight and flight
@@kathb1683 I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter one thing I have had help me is the 4 7-8 breathing. If you check out TED Talk with Max Strom it will teach you how to do it unfortunately it's really hard to stay in that rest and digest state! Hope it can help!
I fully integrated and healed C-PTSD after 37 long years of inner work and therapy through 9 months of group somatics. It was so truly, wholly uncomfortable, but all of my relational trauma is gone now. Please do more of that for those who can tolerate it.
Jessica Waddell Really glad for you! I’m sure it’s been simply transformative. What kind of somatic work did you do?
I healed in 8 months 😈
Would love to know more about how you healed! Congrats!❤
Wonderful, Godspeed❤🙏
Wow. I would love to hear more!!
The greatest barrier I have to full participation in life & being my best self is my nervous system. My fight / freeze & hyper vigilance has affected my career & personal relationships so much. Slowly slowly getting closer to healing.
I’m watching this, and started getting worried, anxious, and stressed about a lot of things, this might be because I’m overanalyzing because of my eagerness to get out of this situation… thankfully, I just remembered that ‘You don’t have to understand everything, you just have to be more understanding…’ then suddenly my brain kind of realize I gotta calm down and accept the fact that I’ll be able to heal this wound inside of me only if I have some enough compassion on myself…
understanding is everything
I love the closing statement - that every time someone heals from trauma, it changes the course of civilisation.
This has reaffirmed for me the importance of safety and choice for trauma sufferers. Valuable information. Thank you.
Hi Jessica, I want to connect with you abiut CPTSD issue.
DITTO ❤❤❤
THE NERVOUS SYSTEM IN P.T.S.D. & C-P.T.S.D ARE REACTING TO THE TRAGEDY/TRAUMA
I resonate so deeply with all of this. I’ve lived this shifting experience and learned to tolerate my feelings and sensations. I made peace with tight, numb, constricted, neglected places in my body. I’ve released muscles that have been frozen in place and even built those muscles stronger. I’ve learned how to regulate myself through breathing, stretching, yoga, music, crying, singing, writing, speaking, and just overall expressing. I’ve gotten in touch with my senses and made peace with my inner critic. I’ve learned to discern between helpful and unhelpful thoughts without invalidating myself as I process my wounds and trauma. I’ve learned to name my emotions and accept them as they come, and allow them to go when they don’t serve me. I’ve come so far and none of that would have been possible without bridging my mind-body disconnection and learning about the nervous system’s integral involvement in the processing of trauma. I continue to learn and practice this in my own life on a daily basis.
Sometimes as a practitioner I feel like I fall short of helping my clients to go where I’ve gone. How im going to incorporate this into my work… im really going to remember those 2 options when clients become aware of a “process memory” pattern in their body, or pickup on and identify a particular sensation. Im going to either help them to exaggerate and sit with it, and see what comes up in terms of sensation, memory, feeling, or thought. And/Or, im going to help them soften it through mindfulness/relaxation training. What im really going to remember about that second option is the need to revisit the sensation or the process memory. The language of having those two “parts” integrate with each other is helpful, and also something I have not done enough of. On top of all of this… im going to remember that I am not an expert on this from just a few books, this TH-cam video, or my own experiences. So im going to become more intentional with getting further training and knowledge and use that to further my ability to provide trauma treatment the best I can.
It seems like moving from one extreme to the other - telling us that the traumatic events need not be vocalized. I found vocalization necessary to understanding and even to recovering my memory.
What helped you the most
I think it’s both good and bad, and therapists need to recognize that. Talking about traumatic events for me brought everything to the surface so much that a therapy session would ruin the whole day and the next day. I wish my therapist then would have realized the toll it was having on me. There was little gain week after week for all that suffering. But I also think it’s important for a therapist to understand what happened and I think it can be healing to talk about some of it maybe in longer sessions where you reach conclusions by the end of the session, rather than the typical hour session that leaves you totally raw.
I’ve thought about this a lot and decided that it would be best for me to just write it all out, a sort of history, so I don’t have to tell it every time I start with a new therapist. Also, I think some therapists have this idea that if you’re sobbing your eyes out in their office it means you’re opening up or getting something out, and I really disagree with this. These therapists can be just idiots. So, you kind of have to watch out for that and I think that’s why for a lot of people in therapy, vocalizing it all can be really detrimental if your therapist isn’t helping you deal with all that pain and especially if the therapist isn’t even checking if you’re able to function after sessions. A lot of therapists don’t get trauma and shouldn’t be allowed to have patients that have experienced trauma. They can do more damage.
Thats why they say first u need to build the resources with a client..a scaffolding so to speak..that if a client gets into stormy waters he ll have capacity to withstand them without being retraumatised again. Lots of psychoeducation and grounding practices before and only if a client want to unpack what happened. The issues are in the tissues.
@@tnijoo5109 Its the bean counters I think, who set the clocks. I do bodywork and nearly everyone in my office comes in for between 2-5hrs. This includes non-trauma patients and clients. I would love our capitalistic society to recognize that the body has its own time frame and we should be respecting it. In body work, be comfortable with oneself such that one has the ability to be still, even many minutes if necessary, until the body 'thaws' and tissues begin to move and invite in. I suspect the same in the mind/brain work: waiting until the patient or client feels safe enough to open up the doors, and be relaxed enough to let the patient close those same doors when they choose, as opposed to the 'authority' of a therapist to ask questions that force spaces open and then slam them shut due to a clock. Just my thoughts...
When healing occurs, many lives are touched, even entire communities saved
I feel this channel comforts and guides me because of the life strategies and understandings from these amazing stranger who lovingly and gently share their wisdom. This includes the host, and all the wonderful speakers like this lady, from such a wide array of psychology disciplines. Thank you
What Dr. Ogden is describing was called ‘body armoring’ by Wilhelm Reich for those who might be interested
yes, it's nothing new like a lot of this.
Interesting.
I'm from iraq, and I have PTSD, I feel hypervigilant, and that affected all my life.
I'm looking for treatment, but in iraq there is no therapy...just psychiatric doctors who give medication...
I'm truly looking for your help to get me healed from my trauma through your advice or recommendation.
Thank you very much.
Be careful I'm from Maine and that's all the psychiatrists and psychologists do is try to get you on drugs and the medical marijuana laws in Maine took advantage of that now we have half a state full of dispensaries and everybody knows that it's worse than smoking tobacco, if you become suicidal or homicidal ,you can self admit your self go nearest emergency room in Maine we can call crisis they will come to our residents, IAM studying the scripture , I submitted federal civil rights tort on stalkers who are causing my C-PTSD head , spinal injuries,❤️🦋🎗️
For PTSD you need to work on body. Anyone who use Somatic Expirience, Somatic Practice, EMDR, Safe and Sound protocol.. Do not use meditation or spiritual practice. Because you can get worse from my expirience. Mindfullness is something other than meditation. Talking therapy is not good, also from expirience. It is a slow gradual practice, so you must have patience. If you have safety only in that circumstances the emotions and events will come up and you need to be ready, because it is terror and horror. If you go threw this expirience fully present with everything the emotional charge will go away. Sitting with discomfort, no other way around. I tried for two years to skip body processing and got even worse. But I work with therapist EMDR and Somatic or body oriented therapy. And she helped me a lot, but it is still long lifetime working. You also have online working with this kind of stuff. You can search for Irene Lyon on youtube, she has some online courses and you can apply on this. I hope that this information helped you.
Hi Fadilabbas8768, I hope that you have found a non drug inducing way to heal if not, please let me know.
Much appreciated your clear and caring delivery
Dr. Ogden always has such valuable information! I’m bummed that most of her audio recordings appear to be of low quality and make it challenging to fully understand her.
Have u tied putting on auto generated captions
The one part they talk about the voice going high or low monotonous happens to me. What am I supposed to do? How do I know when I am with my real voice?
I wish someone would have warned me when I began to heal that the changes in those around me could in itself be a traumatic experience whether they reacted aggressively or wanted to be closer before I was ready to let anyone in. I've reached a point where I've needed to stay away from people as much as possible while I feel and release the decades of trauma from my body whilst not in a safe environment as my home is currently under threat by a neighbour abusing a structural issue that she knows has caused me further damage to my nervous system and a housing provider that is useless when it comes to dealing with anything but I feel safe at least in myself as I've become confident in telling people what I need from them without feeling responsibility for their upset whether I say I need them to keep their distance and provide consequences if they don't respect this or for them to inform me of what's going on. All the talking with counsellors and medical practitioners did nothing for my healing, that and medication | realise now merely prolonged my agony. I learned to identify how I felt and could talk about it fluently whilst simply scratching the surface of how I was feeling. People believed I'd moved on from my past because I could talk about it without breaking down but I was containing how I felt so well because to let anyone see how I felt left me feeling vulnerable having been used to being taken advantage of in life threatening ways. My life has still been threatened and still is but I never let them see how much trauma I experience as a result. And now finally I know how to release this I'm gaining much confidence in dealing with their abuse, they can do what they will and I'll confront them with their behaviour without feeling frightened about the repercussions. Mostly I've discovered when abusers are confronted and know they will continue to be confronted they back off after their initial reactions have failed to silence me or prevent me from speaking out confidently about what they do and do what I can to ensure they stop abusing me in situations where I'm unable to leave. When I reacted to their abuse they kept doing it. I've never tolerated physical abuse since the beatings from my mother and as a result this only happened once during adulthood and that was the end of that relationship. It never happened again with anyone else, I was never attracted to physical abusers, just the emotional and psychological ones which in many ways can be worse as they leave little evidence of their abuse and many people don't believe me when I speak about it. Their enablers/rescuers in particular who I often find worse than the abusers themselves. I speak out about them too these days. Having had all those I love taken away one way or another I've got little left to lose, there are advantages to this! We don't have to be healed to be confident, we just need to feel the love that comes from accepting how we feel whatever that is and respecting what we need to heal. It's difficult to heal in an oppressive culture and for me so far been the loneliest time as people, family and those I thought close in particular would rather I didn't heal it would appear. It doesn't sit well with them but that's theirs to deal with!
2.1k likes over 4 years isn’t nearly enough. THESE are the type of videos I deem worthy of going viral.
Thank you 🙏🏼
So useful and so true to say ot impacts the community to the direction of healthy patterns of life
Sounds interesting. If someone has developed irritable bower, how are they supposed to know what traumatic event caused that?
I healed by myself
using Buddhist meditation with the right steps and Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk suggestions
Stay present start from awearness of surrounding and my body. In order for the body to feel safe when see hear touch the surrounding with trust and relax the mind will feel safe . The mind don't leave the body tgis stage. If there's past emotion raise up, the monk advised to look at the emotions without judge not react. Like the mind stay calm in the middle way within without fear the fealling. Keep on doing this all day the whole day. Sometimes I take a walk take a pleasure to feel the environment with with calm in the nature. My anxiety attack gone now. I still feel a mind stress. Big trigger gine too realising what trigger me why I get trigger. Trigger get me back to pain like the incidence occurre again. My CPTSD pain have to do with fear the emotion of shame. I disgust the shame and stay right with myself.
Thanks for posting; Gentle release by tapping (Gary Craig ) is very therapeutic.
Very helpful! Thank you.
Read "The Neurobiology of Traumatic Dissociation" by Lantus, Corrigan, and Paulsen. The current information about neurobiology is far more complex than what is presented in this video, or anywhere else. You will learn about how the hippocampus and amygdala are NOT the only parts of the brain that matter in trauma, and why the polyvagal theory doesn't go nearly far enough to explain dissociation. If you are thinking that the average psychologist is going to explain neurobiology to you, you are mistaken.
Thank you!
Does it say anything about how to get out of trauma
@@AmanSharma-jy7lw Because it is written for clinicians, not for patients, it speaks about how to treat trauma. For more information that isn't fully focused on clinicians, read "Healing The Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors" by Janina Fisher. Her intended audience is both survivors and clinicians. She even includes exercises to do!
@@Cathy-xi8cb Thank you so much! 🤗
Thank you.
Please do more videos for those who can't afford therapy in how they can heal after realising there childhood abuse caused them to believe unconsciously that abuse was normal and went on to experience more abuse and a partner who was an abuser who turned her kids against her for no reason only he was evil
Reg I’m so sorry that happened if you’re speaking about your own experience. I really recommend watching The Crappy Childhood Fairy and Irene Lyons’ videos on TH-cam.
@@P-therapy also a great book by Pete Walker, Surviving to thriving!
Thank you so much
are the courses on your web site is directed to the practitioner? or it can benefit regular people who are suffering from Trauma?
While our products are intended for mental health and healthcare professionals, we often have non-professionals that purchase our program out of their own interest for personal growth and development.
While the experts do get into scientific research and share concrete strategies to apply in clinical practice, the material is still presented in a way that it is accessible by non-practitioners. So it’s definitely possible that you could benefit from this program - and I’d encourage you to make the purchase if you are interested.
Of course, we do have a 30-day money-back guarantee; so if you purchase the course and find out it is not suited to your needs at this time, you can request a refund within 30-days to have all your money returned to you.
All said, I lastly want to say, we do not advise these programs be used in place of therapy; though they may prove to be helpful in addition to your work with a professional. So if you are looking for help, I can direct you to this database through Psychology Today: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists Through this site, you’re able to search for therapists and support groups based on location, and filter through the results based on a variety of factors - specialties, approaches, and methods.
If you have other questions about our programs, please do not hesitate to ask.
Please share a suggestion for the instrumental music with human vocal range intonation. That would be so helpful.
Dr, thankyou for this video. Will you please provide the name of the last video you referred to, at the end of this video? Thanks
I use pressure points while person feels intense emotion.
My boyfriend is going through this. He is unable to move from bed, he is always in Pain. It's his nervous system. But I believe that it's because of trauma from his family issues. He's been taking lots of medicines but no improvements. I really want to help him. Please suggest the best possible way to make him come out of it. He has given hope on life. It's really difficult to see him like that. We need help please
SE experience is the best way to get relief from trauma it is a long and slow process start with somatic experiencing
Hello and thanks for the video. I have experienced trauma like car accidents as a kid. I have struggled with my mental/emotional health as a adult and think it's related. Can SSRI medication help with these types of issues. Thanks.
Like # 3 here. THANK YOU for great content!
as I watch this video, what arises in me,
is longing and desire
and an immense and intense
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I pray magical blessings
in the lives of myself
and my true love (that I am yet to meet).
may him and I, both experience magical transformation
and new levels of enlightenment and bliss...
and may that lead us to each other, very-very soon!
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I'm tired of the hell after having a Narrissist mother 47 plus years of trauma then last year I got out a lesser to mid range Narrissist, now I'm living with someone I thought cared about me, to realizing, they are manipulative, lieing, having come in stealing my meds and turning my kids and grandkids away telling them I took my meds, now again I have to go anywhere from a week to two weeks without my anxiety meds, and I'm also taking pain pills but I have belbuca which you don't feel the high from it it just takes the pain away. I just want to go home to be with the Lord, why I'm going through this I would never take my life in my right mind. But I can't handle anymore. Should I go in paitant for long term? For mY meds don't get stolen and maybe I can get better if not I'm 51 and feel I don't have the strength to fight time anymore?, They say I'm bipolar 1 szyo effected CPTSD, anoxea,or belimic I'm not sure if I'm delusional or if I have losted hope. (Forgotten Tears)
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There’s a huge difference between tolerating it and being the best version of you.
What if it really is happening right now?
have some points!
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Yes! My teen daughter presents "f. You" body language and dress. My son is puffed up and frowning , closed off wall. We left abuse 8 months ago after all their lives being in hypervigilance. They're in touch with feelings and good at talking but the physiological is still a struggle. Panic attacks etc.
Nothing about this helps someone heal from trauma. Witnessing, comforting, diffusing, and redirecting the energy of past anger and grief is what addresses trauma. This is just scratching the surface. Most therapists don’t do any of this.
Hi. Thanks for sharing. Which practitioners do what you are suggesting?
@@lauriemtz8616 it would be therapists, friends, or family who can connect in this way.
where can one learn more about these strategies?
@@imwritingapoemaboutit if you think about it- it’s literally common sense and true openness of humanity and heart. It’s not a cure that is “for sale”. But this is what I do, and it’s real and it works. Also, if there is an abuser connect with the reality of the abuser’s actions and how truly damaged they were-TRULY damaged- they were to do these things.
I could be completely wrong but isn't it a lot harder to actually process the trauma when you're using CBT techniques to avoid addressing it directly? To me that seems like the wrong way to approach it
I had a therapist put me through 7 years of reliving it to peel the onions so to speak. I ended up severely ill what's fibromyalgia and my back going out. How do I heal from all of this and the original trauma I was in therapy for over 30 years and I'm still stuck in the fight and flight
Tracy Heaslip Omg! My daughters has that stuck fight n flight n it's Aweful and debilitating. I wish I could help her. Medicines are not enough!
But Don't give up!
@@kathb1683 I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter one thing I have had help me is the 4 7-8 breathing. If you check out TED Talk with Max Strom it will teach you how to do it unfortunately it's really hard to stay in that rest and digest state! Hope it can help!
@@kathb1683 you know it's funny I have lung cancer at the moment and I'm not quite sure which one I should be skinning!
Tracy Heaslip Tracy, God bless you. Never give up. Research. Check out Life Extension Magazine. Google it. Has alot of info. Prayers to you!