Use This Script Tonight: The 3 Minute Phone Call
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- 59 Secret Scripts to Melt His Heart, Unlock What He’s Thinking, And Make Him Want to Be With You Forever”
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How do you keep in touch with a new guy in between dates? If you're relying solely on
texting, you're missing out on your chance to create a real connection.
In this week's
LOVELife I'll show you the magic of the 3 Minute Phone Call and hand you the script
of exactly what to say...
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I just used this on my grandma, she felt so happy that I called her, how lovely. What I love about your advice is its for all kinds of relationships, not just dating relationships. Xxxx
Gals this definitely works! Works magic. I was seriously in between meetings . So the call was literally one minute and I know he wanted to speak longer but that gives him space to make a move. Also I know he appreciated the fact I remembered him. My advice is to keep your schedule busy. Live your life. Get off the phone and don’t text all day! If he is the one he will come to you. Don’t chase a man.
love this idea to show a new guy you care :) phoning instead of texting is so much more intimate!
I've never been a fan of long phone conversations. No wonder I never liked phone calls. Working on it. This quick talk right here is helpful to check in, talk about what's going on, play a compliment, then get going. I like.
There's this guy who really likes me and keeps on persisting that we should talk on the phone and I told him I'm not a phone person and I know he wants to talk on the phone to build that connection with me. This gives me some great tips. Thanks!
ok I'm a phone despising introvert and even i can do this. Whew! Loved this advice! I don't like surface chit chat and I feel so trapped by the phone when it exceeds a short limit like this. This is doable.
I re, re, re, re, re ,re...... replay this video just to hear his voice. There go my 3 hours.
Gat dammit you handsome genius, you.
Hey Matt, I’m on my way to my badass productive day, bettering myself & the world around me.. but I was thinking about you & just wanted to drop this comment to tell you that I just really appreciate your infinite unbridled wisdom & easy demeanor in which you share your insights. I’ve got to hit the books before I get to work now so I’ll comment again soon! Have the very best rest of your day!
-Mandi
Love this 3 minute phone call idea, Matthew! :)
My best friend did the exact same thing for friends! I need to tell her about your video! She really is making people feel awesome.
I just did this but he didn't pick up😒
+Gillian Wong Same :/
Wondering what happened since then...
Did he pick up next day? Or call u back
Yeah... Did he call u back?
I called too and no answer, but I left a quick voicemail, it worked he felt special instantly
my trust issues would never: they’d be like “ they’re using you for time pass 😂
You just gave me the pep talk I needed. Now to go make the call! Thank you!
i tried this and what happen?he's in the mids of a meeting😁
😂
🤣😂 I’m so sorry
Probably he's still there after 5 yrs
Maybe try it early evening, not during prime work hours.
Same, she was in the middle of something and then I stuttered and broke the script.
👍😍I do this all of the time with different people on my life, not just a new person or when dating. 💞
Such great advice and you have given me the confidence to make that 3-minute phone call :-)
WOW!! the second I listened to this I made the 3mins phone call Immediately cos i was battling weather or not to text him cos i wanted to hear from him. Loove this advice!!
And!? How did it work out for you?
+jozina1 He called me fat
This video is one I've never forgotten such good advice
Thanks for this Matthew, I am a text addict and this approach will enable me to get back into phoning up a guy I like xx
Your tips somehow intertwines with sherry agrov's book! Love your advices!
I like that term. "Phone moment"
Great advice! Thanks Matt!
This is a good one 🧘🏽♀️🙏🏾
this was excellent, thank you so much!!
Your freaking AMAZING 🤩 THIS WORKS!!!!
Wow this does reflects in my way of talking to someone. Hahahhaha. I'll keep in mind of your advice there. Thanks a lot.
Matt you are a genius! x
This is indeed beautiful
Wish there was more
Nice advice!! Thank you 🙏
Lol you so down to earth...love the video .
do you know what admire in men determination and dedication , loyalty the face of fear
Sat down on a bench on a station platform earlier and the guy two seats from me turned to me and said "that seat is taken." I turned to him and said "what?" and then he said with a nice smile and giggle that he was joking. I had an "opening" there to say or ask something but I just "oh ok, yea" and laughed a bit. Hesitation, shyness took over. Few minutes later someone I knew walked up an started speaking to me. Maybe I missed an opportunity, even if it was just to converse with someone new. Next Time I
need to be less hesitant and just "go for it."
I'm exactly the same! I don't even have the guts to smile back at a guy. Planning to change that by the end of this month! :)
You can do it!!
You lost the moment😬
this totally worked for me!
I in love this boy
Wow, this is some really awesome advice!
I love this 👏🏽
This is gold
Love it thanks!!!
Thanks Matt I'm glad you agree in regards to the phone call dating contact. I'm in the process of dating someone but I don't want to do it all through social media. I have a FB profile so he knows who I am and can see what I'm doing. I think social media has its negative points because you don't actually build a connection online like you do over the phone and in person. I'm from the old school I only joined FB because I had family overseas and now interstate to keep in contact with them. How can you use social media to its best advantage when dating a guy? The phone call videos tips are working for me so thanks.
Great advice
Love that so much 😊
We need to disconnect from a our phones a bit more and reconnect with people! To me phoning or talking in person is much better as it does create the connection you can't get from text! I am more likely to remember the conversation in person/phone call then I would a text!
It’s such a good one . And I’m going to try this one tonight ♥️cuz atm I feel like we are pen pals . We are dating since April. Thanks Matthew u are awesome 👏 and I try to implement ur advise every single time 🤩🙌🙏
perfect! cheers mate
Could this be used when the relationship is good friends? He and I have been kinda flirty in the past and it's been a while since we've seen each other and we recently started talking again and making a little time to hang out. Would using this 3 minute call have the same effect?
wonderful !
absolutely brillant idea
What time and on what timezone can someone call into Matthew's show? Can't find that information anywhere.
what a lovely man !
yea , you can do that in person too, it works , i just had to see you.
I wish Matt was my friend so I could ask him emergency dating questions. I just got a missed call from this guy I matched with online after I texted him and I don't know what to do now. :D
If Im a dude, could I still apply this? I dont have a problem calling, but how would you girls like the "I wanted to call and hear your voice"?
+Rene Gonzalez
If we've had a few great dates, and I like you, I would love the "I wanted to call and hear your voice". ;) Otherwise, this would sound pesty.
Obviously, this tactic should be done, *NOT* at the very beginning of it (ie, not having just one date) but after a few good dates where it has been established that there is some possibility between the two people. Otherwise, it would seem weird or needy.
Rene Gonzalez I love it. Also leave a voicemail message to the girl.
Rene Gonzalez this is better than a long convo or a bunch of texts!!
I would love it, too bad my boyfriend is never the one to call me out of the blue.
ExtraordinaryLiving What if we don’t live close, have only had one date but have been texting non-stop since our first meeting two weeks ago. I won’t get to see him in person again until January. Would it be weird to call?
I am going to give this a try..
i should've found and watched this video earlier so i can try this when i wanna hear his voice :(
i recommend using this once every five months be sure to switch it up tho
I love it. I should've watched this video last week.. whoops
That's great and all but doing this more than a couple times would become annoying to the other person. They'll start wondering why you always call for such a short time all the time. And if you keep saying you have to go they'll wonder if its worth their time talking to you if you're always busy. I may be wrong but thats how i feel about this advice is all :/
MyMessyMind I'm guessing this is something you do when you are first meeting someone. Kind of just to break the ice about calling them, also as a sweat gesture, but then you can just call them like you would normally call someone. I agree doing it more than once would become annoying and repetitive.
+MyMessyMind Like he said, doing this *kind* of stuff every now and then in small doses is the key. So just think of this as *one* of those 1 % things you should do. And then use a different technique that he suggests on his channel later. So the way I see it is a one, tops two, time thing.
did u not hear when he said 1% and once in a while ??
I go into my old work and hug my boyfriend then leave...I think it's a positive thing, he works at a gas station so it's not like i'm interrupting paper work lol
Mathew can you please make video on how to talk with guy for the first time in phone call
Hey how's it going!
I'm just between meetings now and wanted to do a quick call u to see how u were doing. Doing anything fun?
Well after I'm done with this meeting I'm going to this really cool theatre thing... Anyway I have to run but it's so good to hear your voice/ I didn't have much timr but I just wanted to hear ur voice
Wow your good,your realy good
What if i said ..like that i wanted to hear yr voice ...and then gets with no respond.after call..hurts:'(
I knew this guy. We started from comments to inbox and then the exchange of emails. Our connection went deeper, we progress to exchanging of numbers. We constantly texted each other whenever we can and years on, we leap to calling. Every call lasted hours. But somehow i don't know why, we stopped. Everything we build from years back seems collapsing now.
Maybe it collapsed because you were not able to meer each other in real life? Curious to know how you are doing now.
Salesperson here, hoping to use this in my job
Woow! Must be nice for this to happen to you. It hasn't happened to me but must be nice :)
@Matthew Hussey how about we both married but have a feeling to each other like you found the right person but wrong time?
I used this, thanks so much! If any cares to know how it went let me know...:)
Adoring adjore ~ Details, please :)
I don't even really understand phone calls anymore. People don't answer their phone now that there are text messages availabe.
It only works if he likes you. If not, you'll probably just annoy him
This guy I was barely talking to couldn’t b bothered to call when he said he would and he just wanted to meet when he was working in my area. I took the lack of communication to mean he wasn’t really that invested and he is now blocked
I disagree on that one. My brother does that and this "I will call you when I have a few minutes nothing to do" between meetings always sounds like "I have nothing to do for the next few minutes, I'm bored, please entertain me". In German, we call this a "Lückenbüßer" (to be used as a stopgap..?) and this is exactly how I feel everytime when this happens. When somebody calls me, I actually expect that this person has time to talk and is not rushing between events, because for me, these kind of calls are just not doing anything, even if this person would use the suggested phrases. I would still feel like a Lückenbüßer.
du lebst mit deiner interpretation eines solchen anrufes in einer etwas kranken welt. so war matthews rat nicht gemeint... ?? *smh*
Na wenn du das so sagst, wird das wohl stimmen - aber hey, ich fühle mich hier wohl :)
The way I see it is, this is for calling guys. This is for YOU calling a HIM. It may not work the other way around, a guy calling a girl. I think a guy would be surprised and pleased if a girl he is newly dating called out of the blue to say hi quickly.
greeeneyes91
na gut, es gibt solche menschen, sorry, in dem von dir geschilderten fall würde ich das auch unterbinden, aber es gibt eben auch die netten fälle, in denen dich jemand aus aufmerksamkeit heraus kurz anruft :) lg und sorry für meinen comment, matthews rat war ja nicht so gemeint ;)
Thinking of using this on my crush in just a minute-
Gonna update after
Update?
Snenhlanhla Khoza oh, he flat out rejected me lmao. The conversation was nice. We talked about a lot of other stuff, but it was kinda awkward. But I may use this when I find someone else🤫
I was on the early vird list but didn't get an email.
I love this advice, but what if he doesn't pick up the phone?
He wont call back, he has been murdered
how do I call in to ask a question?
Would this work too if I'm a guy texting a girl and didn't communicate with her for like 3 days?
Aaaaaa🤗🤭 I asked if I could call and he said yeah then I did 1 min and it was amazing 😋😋 thanks for the tips
What happens if you only get voice mail?
This is really cute.
this is so sweet but only if the guy does it, otherwise it's chasing a man and thats a turn off
ahah if I do that to a new guy they just freak out and never call again - I don't know why I make everyone run away
I' tried this
I read lots of people keep on talking about Episoketren System. But Im not sure if it is good. Have you ever tried this popular training course?
I love you boo
Can this kind call be used with someone you've talked to so far only through text and haven't met yet?
😮 same situation
If you haven't met yet, you shouldn't be even thinking about this person.
@@s0nyashnyk why not? Pandemic dating means we can't meet yet, but we can still chat by text and phone.
Could this also work on guys?
He’s so cute
Hey how's it going and hey yk I js wanted to give you a quick call I'm doing this and going to go do this and js wanted to see how you were doing let them talk for a bit and tell them what's your gonna be doing anything and at the end of tht anyway I have to run it's so good to hear your voice I didn't have much time but I js wanted to give you a call and say hi
I want to do it, but I don't know him that well
Not everday text message between yardies, sometimes pick the phone up innit?
but the problem is I'm really bad at phoning in general... :( everybody tells me they don't feel comfortable phoning with me xD
Omg but waiting for a call in LDR. I wish he called me everyday. Me slight needy.
I'm gonna try this for my ldr boyfriend
what if you call and they don't pick up...then they see the missed call on their phone and call you back thinking it was an emergency??
When he/she calles you back, thinking there was an emergency. You can say you wanted to talk to them in between meetings or something else you were doing. And then you could follow the same "script" he's sharing here. And why would it ve a problem when they think there was an emergency, you can tell them there wasn't can't you? Or are you worried because they'll call back on a moment you're not prepared for them to call?
What if he doesn't call back and just acts like he didn't even realise you called?
Question, does anyone know how I can cancel my free trial of fast track to Mr. Right before I get billed, greatly appreciated!
Kimberly Rocca I *think* you can cancel it by contacting his staff (the "support" e-mail they list when you make the initial purchase) or if you used PayPal, by canceling the subscription. They should make it clearer, it's not that straightforward.
hervanitytable ah okay, thank you!
Just go on PayPal and cancel the recurring payment!
N If they'didnt Pick Up cuz they were in a voice room!!
U Texted him that N Said good Things i felt,i really felt that but now im beating myself for it
Magdalena Guevara Aguilera I don't have any access either...
i will try this.. i met this guy a month ago in my city (he lives 4 hrs from mine) he returned to visit me 2 weeks later, and we had awesome chemistry, perfect date, he lives in another city we text daily and this is getting a bit boring !!!!!! hope this works
MsPili1 send him a voicemail message. It breaks the texting monotony.
I went out on a date with a guy whom I'm really into but he seems really laud back. but anyways I dropped him off at his house n he told me to call him to still talk. so I said yeah thts fine. so I got home like 5 mins later n i called him but he didn't answer. so I texted him like I guess goodnight then. he said sorry I was taking a shower so I was like oh thts fine, do you still wanna talk on the phone. but his response was no I'm too tired so what should I do next?.