Why EVERY Woman Should SOLO TRAVEL

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  • Solo traveling made me the braver, more confident, smarter woman I am today. I would not be who I am without having seen the Milky Way on the other side of the world, alone and enchanted.
    I was a shy child, without much confidence. I wasn’t born the person who now solo hikes and has hitchhiked all around the world, I grew into her. Solo traveling is what empowered me, and it can do the same for you.
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  • @TheBarbaraHorvat
    @TheBarbaraHorvat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I plan on doing my first big solo travel with my backpack and on feet. (I've done smaller ones around one state before)
    I plan to travel through the states and I am so terrified yet excited yet anxious yet happy yet butterfly-filled :)

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's totally how I felt before I went!

    • @stpatrickcentre7694
      @stpatrickcentre7694 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to Kenya we show you around and it's safe

  • @suzi-c
    @suzi-c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I'm 46 and 2 days ago I booked flights for Rome in March, it will be my first time ever going on a trip solo, im on a bit of a journey with myself at the moment so I want to experience this 😊

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Woohoo! Have the best time.

    • @anacarvalho2833
      @anacarvalho2833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I so wanna do that. I am planning as well

    • @eddie918
      @eddie918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How was it?!

    • @swisdom9117
      @swisdom9117 ปีที่แล้ว

      How was it?

    • @c.uni2370
      @c.uni2370 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looking for updates 👀😁

  • @teacherg922
    @teacherg922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I woke up from a really deep anxiety. I want to go out of my comfort zone and now preparing myself to go on solo backpacking. Thank you! 🤍🍃

  • @anastasiaklein4674
    @anastasiaklein4674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I am solo traveling in Greece atm. And I am absolutely loving it! Highly recommended to everybody needing a time out from an everyday stress/routine/unsolved problems/unanswered questions 😬

  • @cikanyoro
    @cikanyoro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It's crazy how people find it hard to imagine solo travel

    • @swisdom9117
      @swisdom9117 ปีที่แล้ว

      It sorta is crazy, especially for someone like me. I'm 22 with no close friends, living with parents, never lived on my own, work from home

    • @cherylwade264
      @cherylwade264 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@swisdom9117
      Try visiting a middle sized city .
      If you like living museums or art museums, botanical gardens or
      outdoor activities then pick something
      you would enjoy and go

  • @anniesshenanigans3815
    @anniesshenanigans3815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    my hope is to slow travel, single. I am not after the wild adventure, I am in my late 50's. Yours is the first channel that I have found with women, single, traveling and not rushing through it.

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Slow travel is the best. you really get to know a place!

  • @simplysunshine9868
    @simplysunshine9868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    OMG - YES 🤗 I am planning my 1st solo travel in January 2022 for my 50th BDAY 🥳

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMAZING!

    • @islandkeymermaid9094
      @islandkeymermaid9094 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You go girl!!! I'm doing my 1st in 2 weeks...I'm 54!!! Have the time of ur life!

    • @suzi-c
      @suzi-c 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is fabulous, please keep us updated on how it went 😊, this makes me so happy and feel so much better about my own trip im taking in March, im 46, I hope you have the most fabulous time 😊

  • @Uniquemiles143
    @Uniquemiles143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My first solo trip was to NYC! unfortunately it took my grandma passing for me to finally have the courage to face my fear of flying long distances, and solo traveling. NYC was cool because in my Airb&b everyone that stayed in the 3 bedroom brownstone were solo travelers from Poland and Australia and we got along great! I haven’t looked back since!

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There are so many people I have met on the road who started traveling because of difficult things they had experienced. But it’s amazing you got out there and had this awesome trip!

  • @ellarae7575
    @ellarae7575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So empowering... So emotional. Thank you girl!!!💪🏾

  • @college12545
    @college12545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love solo travelling and it’s not just for women it’s for everyone ! I’m a male early 40s travel from Canada and i love it ! Some countries I’m still a little Leary on going too( South America and some parts of Africa and Middle East ) but I’m thinking of trying !

  • @YaritzaBetancourt
    @YaritzaBetancourt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In a couple of weeks, I will be going on my first ever solo trip. Yes I was terrified when I booked the flights but I'm so excited and I can't wait to go.

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yay let us know how it goes for you!

    • @nieceythorpe2708
      @nieceythorpe2708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol yes, I just booked my flight and hotel and got that terrified feeling as well. but im glad I did it , I need this

    • @YaritzaBetancourt
      @YaritzaBetancourt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nieceythorpe2708 Came back from my solo trip and it was magical ✨ Would absolutely do it again. I hope you have the time of your life!

  • @andreaalgeri3199
    @andreaalgeri3199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'll be honest, I'm not a girl so things may be somehow easiest for me (unluckly...), but I decided to go on my first solo trip last month and it honestly was one of the best decision and experiences of my life. It was a short trip in London, so it was pretty close to my culture (Italian), but I still decided to have the "solo-travel" experience and forced myself into sleeping at hostels even though I could afford an hotel. Travelling alone really gives you some feelings which are hard to describe, it really "empowers" you and make you feel like the world is at the palm of your hand. It it weren't for covid and restrictions, I could have made the same decision you made years ago.

  • @amandabria9469
    @amandabria9469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for all the inspirational and helpful content. I'm super excited to travel to new places solo that I would've never thought possible before. Can't wait to get out there soon 🙂

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yayyyy that makes me so happy!

  • @Pooji732
    @Pooji732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I absolutely Love you 💛 Thanks for sharing this with us, It's so so inspiring 🙂

  • @juanita3812
    @juanita3812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your channel is soo informative! I loved this vid. I’ve been thinking about driving across the country & this made me more pushed to do so 💗

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw I'm so glad! Are there other topics you'd like to see videos on?

  • @margiesvanmori
    @margiesvanmori 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so inspiring! I am moving into my van this year and have a lot of fears about doing so but you inspire me so much! I am so excited for solo travel! Thank you for making these beautiful videos!

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay I’m so glad you’re feeling inspired and encouraged!

  • @chameleongirl
    @chameleongirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sooo motivated! Thank you

  • @louise7382
    @louise7382 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video. You capture the true beauty of what can happen when we let go of our fears and identities back home.

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is really inspirational thank you. I’m hoping to take my first ever solo trip next year. It feels scary but exciting too! I’ve always travelled with a group or family so the idea of eating alone, doing activities alone etc. seems strange but also intriguing 😊

  • @zubin3107
    @zubin3107 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your vlogs❤

  • @finetraveling7762
    @finetraveling7762 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing!! This was very inspiring! I have a solo trip to Hawaiii coming up soon and I'm oh so excited!!

  • @hbf108
    @hbf108 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so motivating. I love your genuineness that comes through in your voice. I started and stop because funds ran out but hoping to head back out soon - working on a way to fund my dream. thank you.

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words, and all the best to you!

  • @deborahtaylor7902
    @deborahtaylor7902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So proud of u. Keep at it. I am going to try it after covid is over

  • @marsielajones5646
    @marsielajones5646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m 22 and I want to solo travel but I’m so scared I’ve done my research planned my trip and thought every step last thing to do is save money buy gear and then go but it seems so scary but I want to have those experiences it’s like when your on the ledge and your ready to jump but your body won’t move lol thus gives me courage to go !

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is such a common feeling. It is scary! I was so scared before I traveled alone for the first time. Just know it's normal to feel that way and you can do it!

  • @samwang1115
    @samwang1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    beautiful, thks for sharing

  • @treasurethetime2463
    @treasurethetime2463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Travel rules. Women solo travelers tend to be working through something usually and are pretty adventurous in my experience.

  • @SKYBDG
    @SKYBDG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are awesome 👏

  • @audrinasylvia
    @audrinasylvia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing! My dream!

  • @saleemkhanbest7396
    @saleemkhanbest7396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love traveling

  • @margiesvanmori
    @margiesvanmori 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great! I am building out a 1988 chevy van home to travel and work in film and tv and I have been worried bc I am a solo female traveler so I really want to make sure I take extra safety precautions. Thank you for making a video for fellow women. It can be a battle to be a woman in this world but we are so much safer if we have each other's backs

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay glad you feel encouraged! I solo truck camp all the time I love it.

  • @luvluvclaniT25-furbabe
    @luvluvclaniT25-furbabe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will do this too hopefully sooner

  • @saleemkhanbest7396
    @saleemkhanbest7396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    very nice

  • @Alaska_Gal
    @Alaska_Gal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have solo traveled alone, but next weekend I will be solo backpacking! My first time & I’m starting off easy (just 1 night), but I have been trying to push myself out of my comfort zone w/ the hopes that it will lead to even more amazing experiences! I will be hiking/camping in one of our forests located at over 8k. Yes, we have bear & mountain lion, so I’m a bit nervous, but I have solo hiked through grizzly country in Alaska, so I think I’ll be OK. 😊

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg I am so excited for you! Have fun! And yes I think you will most definitely be okay

    • @Alaska_Gal
      @Alaska_Gal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bemytravelmuse 😊✌🏼

  • @mellistown
    @mellistown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great inspiring video ! 🔥❤️ I‘m going on my first solo trip in a few weeks ! I travel to rome 🇮🇹

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woohoo!!

    • @wild_childofthe80s
      @wild_childofthe80s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow - Rome is beautiful :) Enjoy x.x

    • @suzi-c
      @suzi-c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg im going mine to Rome in March 😊

  • @elifklc5606
    @elifklc5606 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to come too

  • @elicardus
    @elicardus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for your inspiring talks! one of my biggest concerns, especially hiking alone on those amazing places is safety...have you ever lived an extreme situation, scary for a woman alone! do you practice any self-defense?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes and yes, but I think the biggest thing is listening to your intuition, not walking alone at night and really watching your alcohol intake. That takes care of a lot on its own!

    • @elicardus
      @elicardus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bemytravelmuse thank you! I will definitely follow your tips close, I love you sharing all those! Thank you!

  • @rameshfatji1524
    @rameshfatji1524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Come to Goa it's totally safe place

  • @snehai7142
    @snehai7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m at work the only job I have had for more than 2+ years & when you said people want this world to be a good place I started crying and now I know my next move is to travel or even just start working for myself through insta or something to travel. Cause Growing up I thought I was a hinata type(naruto) or I was more Bruce banners cousin before she became the she hulk.
    I reallyyhink an office has limited my 20’s and at 29 an unmarried Indian American I have a privilege most in my position do not.
    Alone with kick A parents who are traditional but understand individuality. I’m my culture that is truly rare.
    My next move is going to be to travel.

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you! Have the best adventures!

  • @stormtraders
    @stormtraders 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crazy how a simple thing like running a flat tire can have such an interesting and surprising experience. Compare that exact same scenario to the west and people will honk and look you off the road for bothering them.

  • @steambunlicious
    @steambunlicious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Been debating whether to go solo or find someone to go with, and I guess this answers my question. One thing I'm afraid of is people judging me for traveling solo and since I have little ones at home, they'll label me as selfish. of course I'm planning on having family trips but Ive always wanted to travel the world since I was a little girl. And I think I found my passion. But I also know my priorities. Any advice?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, make a very short list of people whose opinion matters, and if they have concerns, listen to them and decide if you agree. Everyone else’s opinion doesn’t matter!

  • @tiffanysoriano7097
    @tiffanysoriano7097 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to do a solo trip to Svalbard but can’t find if it’s safe or not 😞

  • @Pal5777
    @Pal5777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to have the life , all i need to figure out my finances as I m just student from Asia. I 'm totally dependent on my parents now..
    finance and yes one step closer ❤‍🔥

  • @rimdro1569
    @rimdro1569 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting

  • @kalsummuhammad4769
    @kalsummuhammad4769 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi sis.. I will travel solo start disember.. so how your tips for the beginner like me..love from Malaysia

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This blog post should help! www.bemytravelmuse.com/how-to-travel-alone-for-the-first-time/

  • @smartsavvyandloved2095
    @smartsavvyandloved2095 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💕💕💕💕

  • @karanras5517
    @karanras5517 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Welcome to Caribbean travel group join

  • @user-lo9vu8ok1m
    @user-lo9vu8ok1m 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    do you have any tips on how to fund your travels through online work?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wrote about it all here: www.bemytravelmuse.com/kristin-addis-bio/

  • @sherryderrywade7712
    @sherryderrywade7712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am planning a solo trip to several countries in Africa, 54 yrs young…any suggestions?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you're doing a safari anywhere can be great. If you're solo driving and navigating, then South Africa will be the easiest, but make sure you're comfortable with the dangers before you go, as they do have a high crime rate. That said I love it so much there.

  • @thunder956
    @thunder956 ปีที่แล้ว

    i don't understand how you get around without having a car in these places. how do you find all these resources???

  • @peggybaggenstoss3817
    @peggybaggenstoss3817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m in process of selling my house. I’m considering renting a camper van for a few months and traveling the USA. I’ve been to most of it as a trucker but at age 68 I want to be able to stop and smell the roses. What are your thoughts on van rental?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will probably be pretty expensive. What a lot of people do is buy and then sell after. This is really common in New Zealand. You could of course get a lemon.

  • @JordanDayTourAndMore
    @JordanDayTourAndMore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi From Amman Jordan - Petra , Nise work . i loved . Travel alone good idea and meet interesting People . best wishes , and i hope you Travel to my garden

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to visit Jordan soon! Looks so beautiful

  • @fahanie9944
    @fahanie9944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How much is your budget when travelling in each country?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really depends on the country. I have a comprehensive blog post on the cost to travel pretty much everywhere in the world here! www.bemytravelmuse.com/how-much-does-it-cost-travel-the-world/

  • @ozany18
    @ozany18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to travel alone do you think its bad ? also you think it better do a tours to trips ? but I always fell nervous and scared too but watch this video it help me so much to have confidence to travel now . my friend say the same thing to me like I don't know language I get lost they think something go have to me. I always stop not doing it . I stop my dream going to south Korea always list to them.

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think it's bad! You can start small first and travel solo closer to home to get comfortable.

  • @deenadanielle
    @deenadanielle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a badass!

  • @bconni2
    @bconni2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i can't imagine any normal guy being ok with his wife , girlfriend travelling solo. if she's single that's different. but if she's in a relationship that's a major red flag.

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Major red flag if I guy is so controlling he can’t let his partner have interests outside of him

  • @deboraz455
    @deboraz455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did you ever feel like you were in danger? Were you ever confronted in an uncomfortable way by a man or men?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only once in my 9 years of solo travels, when I was groped in Nepal. I was walking alone in a dark street late at night - broke my own rule right there.

  • @TheGracefacekiller
    @TheGracefacekiller 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is 10,000 enough to travel with starting out

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Depending on where you're going and how long is your trip.

  • @schokokuchen2194
    @schokokuchen2194 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am an 18 year old german Girl and I really want to go backpacking when COVID is under control. I was thinking of going to New Sealand but my family is talking me out of it, saying it is way to dangerous to travel alone as a young woman. I have no experience traveling alone but I really want to make that step. What should I do?

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's so hard when your family isn't supportive, but I just try to show them that I have thought it out and planned well, and at the end of the day, you're an adult and your life is yours, and NZ is very safe, which is a plus! You'll meet lots of people your age out there.

    • @schokokuchen2194
      @schokokuchen2194 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your words! They really helped me :)

  • @paramhitakaari3864
    @paramhitakaari3864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi happy women's day. i am single and people of india hate me just because i am single. Please help me to come out this situation. i am seeking a rescue

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well that sucks! I think traveling will feel empowering for you!

    • @shelots
      @shelots 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LMFAOOO

  • @iwatchyoutubevideos7311
    @iwatchyoutubevideos7311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey it’s alliyah dd you need a diploma to get that job? I need to meet amazing people as well

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have my diploma and bachelors but nope I’m self employed so none of that is required to do what I do 😊

  • @marieantoniettewilson9774
    @marieantoniettewilson9774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't understand what you worked at 🤔

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A company that helps private equity (investment on the behalf of very high net-worth individuals) find investment opportunities. Basically buying and selling small companies.

  • @tournamentgaming1975
    @tournamentgaming1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Still you didn't visit India 🇮🇳 😭
    Waiting for you I watch your all videos

  • @MiaHessMusic
    @MiaHessMusic ปีที่แล้ว

    Solo travel for female seniors?? Over 65?

  • @bams6862
    @bams6862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like you...

    • @Bemytravelmuse
      @Bemytravelmuse  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You, you're great.

    • @bams6862
      @bams6862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bemytravelmuse thanks..

  • @seven1873
    @seven1873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha "changed my life"

  • @saleemkhanbest7396
    @saleemkhanbest7396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    if you come my country my stay my house

  • @zubin3107
    @zubin3107 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can i join you? Nobody to live for just alone i want to travel and thats how I would want to die. Please let me know if i can join and travel with you

  • @12gmkk29
    @12gmkk29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where’s your husband?