Libra Asc. MC Cancer. Sun/Moon/Mercury in Capricorn. Mother and homemaker. I don't care what people think of me not working, not having my own income and not having an education, but I'm hypersenitive to criticism of my parenting. It's been nearly 20 years since I worked (not that I don't do anything now, but you know what I mean) and all of my work experience was in the service or care to others; restauration, supermarket, nursing home. I mainly worked in the kitchen of restaurants as an assistant and in the kitchen of the nursing home and I love to cook for my family - I'm also sensitive to criticism of my cooking! The nursing home job was the most fulfilling. As a kid I did a lot of environmental, wild protection and human rights advocating - not coming home on time and walking in bad parts of town carrying signs with outrage and trying to get attention to issues.:D Issues with my parents; Moon sq. Pluto/12th house, Libra takes up most of my 12th house. Mom has Sun/Neptune Libra and both of my parents having Aries rising and Moon (Aries is in general one of my favorite signs) which was hard and draining in my younger years when I wasn't good at asserting myself and I experienced even good intentions from them, as draining and judgmental. It's true and hard to admit, but it's hard and conscious work as an adult, not to be or become that person. Yes, I'm very self protective, I'm probably going to regret this comment, lol!
Please do not say that you have not worked in 20 years..Being a home maker is work...Your work is just as valuable ( if not more) than work outside the home..♥️
@@miroslavkozik987 This is the strangest coincidence! I wrote the comment 3 years ago. I'd completely forgotten until you replied. It wasn't until this Spring 2021 that I got my act together and applied to the nearest school for social and healthcare here in Denmark and this June I got confirmation that I was admitted on a full scholarship (or whatever you call it when it's a vocational school). My old school papers were outdated and some were from the U.S. so last year in 2020, I took 5 courses at an adult learning center to meet admissions requirements. I was a homemaker between mid Dec.1998-mid Jan.2020.
@@momof3plusdsg Wow, You made such a large step! To move to another country, from USA to Europe. I have graduated geography, but Its not my ''dream job''. Its not about taking care of others, nor face-to-face working position. I dont know till this day, why I have chosen to study that... I wish you all the best in Denmark. They are very polite people, a little bit cold and unapproachable, but You will get used to it. Greetings from Serbia! What does it mean homemaker? You mean housewife? And btw, coincidence doesnt exist :)
Oh yes, I definitely get more attention than I like, especially at work. Cancer MC and Libra ASC, but also the Sun and Venus in 10th house, with Venus conjunct the MC. And Pluto in 1st house. It always seems as if my co-workers have much more leeway. It often bothered me if my bosses critisized me for minor stuff that paled in comparision to some of my co-workers' rule-breaking, not to mention that people often think I'm flirting when I'm just being my nice Libra/Cancer combo. Funny enough, IF I'm flirting, I challenge you. Must be that airy Libra and that Aries in 7th that is looking for an equal partner. :) No banter, no romance. With growing self-esteem and self-awareness (therapy + astrology) I learned to set healthy boundaries and recognized my strengths... and it does help to have kind bosses who actually prefer you to be honest and authentic. I never did well at brown-nosing and hierarchies (Uranus dominant). I found the best way to handle this attention is to actually be kind, strong and honest in a way that makes people appreciate you. To care. I mean, it's really nice when you get to work and customers' faces light up and you even get that grumpy guy to smile. :)
Wow i have similar placements to you, ive never met anyone having that much of a similar placements in chart and i completely understand what you are saying lol
You just give me the vibe that you are kind of sorry for us for having a Capricorn IC (or however it is called). And I don't like people to feel sorry for me. But anyway I like you, I truly do.
A very Capricorn ic thing to say. We don't enjoy ppl feeling bad for us because we work hard to be where we are and would rather have recognition for our effort than pity for what we came from.
I always say the Libra rising can do anything stocks, psychic stuff even being a celebrity were you have to pick up on the vibe for the movie or song your putting out. All the work houses are in water signs so a lucky guess can pay off well. So many Libra rising tarot readers.
Cancer Midheaven here! My Moon is in Aries and Saturn in Sagittarius, they are in strong Trine with each other. The Moon is square the Midheaven, no aspect from Saturn to Midheaven. My dad was the more serious one, more like quiet and stoic and just worked, came home, paid the bills and was a homebody. And mom was a stay-at-home mom as a kid, she brought us out of the house and explored. She’s got a Cancer Sun with Capricorn Moon, dad with a Taurus Sun and Aries Moon. No birth times yet, so no Rising signs. My whole family placed a large emphasis on college, and I felt a lack of direction. I’ve been drawn to more nurturing professions though. Also... I was always drawn to the more creative areas of life, like writing poetry, writing in general (stellium in the 3rd), my favorite classes were foreign languages, art and music as well as “Home Ec” where we learned about cooking and sewing. My family wanted me to be an accountant or a nurse (weak stomach, couldn’t follow through). Something with more stability and a better salary. But now I want to go back to school, but for graphic design. I loved interior design too. And since I was 8 I wanted to write a book. And I remember my first book idea was literally around the theme of finding healing. When I was around 8 or 10 years old. 😂 And I do cook well, and whenever I have a guest, I go into “uber-host” mode, making sure everyone feels comfortable, fed, watered, entertained... my s/o’s sister stayed with us a week and even said it “felt like staying in a bed and breakfast.” 😂 Spot on.
Emelie Jönsson I am also a libra AC with saturn in capricorn in 4th conjunct the IC in capricorn. Chiron is in cancer conjunct my sun in cancer in 10th house both conjunct the MC. My moon is in 8th opposite pluto in scorpio. I grew up with a severely narcissistic mother and an enabling narcissistic father which left me devastated emotionally. How did you experience your home?
AlexanderWachsmann Not so well my parents got divorced when i was little they argued every day mom allways worked hard she is a Taurus and my father is a Virgo my dad also worked and traveld alot with his job. And when my little brother died when he was born so that was really a sad thing to go trow. And i got bullied in school so much shit that people go trow is just heart breaking. I am really sad to hear. you are a strong person as well and you allways have i guess. And i am also very emotional person i can be very sensitive when people arguing. Sorry i am from Sweden i am not so good to write in English. And i felt unloved by my parents and i honestly feel the same today 28 years old. My Mother allways says that she loves me but i feel that she is not. i also feel left out from my family members.
AlexanderWachsmann We all struggle with something very hard in life but we also are very strong in heart and in our minds we all have ups and downs all we have to try is to balance things out that is tuff. We are all humans and we all struggle we are strong more strong then we know and that i so powerful and beautiful light and dark. We humans are so powerful we can heal that is hurting inside and make it little bit better. How can we take care of others when we not take care of ourselfs first then we can help others.
AlexanderWachsmann You are very very sensitive and you can pick up how people are. You are very very intuitive and warm hearted. Sometimes i wish i was born in Cancer they have a heart of gold wow. My two Childhood friends are Cancer sun and Pisces sun and my cousin are also Pisces all waters signs have warm selfless hearts they care so so much for others that they sometimes forget to take care of them self and that is a beautiful personality to have. So don't forget your self. I dont know if you do work with people but i can guess that you do.
Emelie Jönsson I am soo soo sorry to hear about what you had to endure. Loosing your brother and then having no one to help you process through the trauma thats more than one can handle. It is such a tragedy and a desaster when parents are immature themselves and are unable to provide for the needs of their children. This is a thing I found with saturn/moon-contacts that the roles of parent and child get reversed. The parents are immature and the children need to grow up and are left to take care of themselves emotionally which is a really really challenging energy to deal with. Your parents are the ones who should have owned their responsibility and they should provide you with a safe and secure home and they should nurture your emotional world. Think about it: They are the grown ups (at least they are a couple of decades older than you) and you are the child. They decided to have you so they should take responsibility for your wellbeing and make you feel loved and secure. It is not your fault and it does not say anything about you as a person that you didn't get love. It's your parents who failed you! I have had similar experiences with my parents. My mum is a full blown narcissist. She has full blown narcissistic personality disorder. What that means is she views me and my brother as mere extensions of herself and objects to fuel her agenda. My mom got severely abused in her own family which was massively dysfunctional and now she uses her own children (me and my brother) to get the self-esteem and selfworth she couldn't develop in her own childhood. She defines the worth of a human being purely via achievements and wether someone makes something out of him/herself and earns a lot of money and has gained status/prestige etc. Thats all that matters in a person according to her. From what I get her own family was all about status and prestige and money and now she continues the cycle. The way this showed was that she would only be interested in how I perform at school and wether I have good grades. She forced me to play the piano and she didn't want me to socialise because she feared I would neglect school and get bad grades. I once had trouble with a narcissistic-girlfriend (who shared quite a lot of similarities with my mom) and I was very down and depressed and the only thing my mom did was rage and scream at me that if I dared to have bad grades because of this she'll kick me out of the house. Thats how sick my mom is. she also is extremely critical and would shame/blame /yell and critise me all the time for the slightest mistakes. Dropping a glass of water would send her into rage. Me getting a cold would send her into rage etc. What was worst was that the left-side of my body is spastic. So my left hand and my left leg are spastic. however it is not a severe spasm. It is mild to moderate. I am not bound to a wheel-chair and I did travel to other countries on my own so I am perfectly able to do that but when you see me you will notice my condition. The problem is my mum would abuse me and critisise me because of my spasms. She would say "Don't be so good damn spastic and walk properly instead !!" in a very harsh and critical tone. she would instill the belief in me that people automatically assume that I am of no use and don't get anything done because of my spasms and that i need to compensate for that by having good grades. The world isn't going to wait for a spastic like me (my worth as a person being purely measured on what I achieve and wether I am of any use or not). If you remember my mother views me as her mirror-image and the image better not reflect bad on her. So me having these spasms is a trigger to her self-image hence why i got criticised and shamed for having this condition this did wreck havoc on my self-concept more than anything else but I have become aware of that now and I am processing it. My parents would also constantly fight and rage at each other from my early childhood on with no regard to how it affects my brother and me. My brother he started to behave the same way my parents did when he was at school which made it so he got send to an institution for difficult children at the age of 9 where he stayed for four years. My parents instead of seeing the error in their ways and owning responsibility for setting a shit-example what they did they blamed it all on him. My mother played the victim-card and my brother was the difficult child, the ass-hole for being such a burden and it was all his fault! This has gotten very lenghty but maybe it shows how with saturn-moon signatures the responsibility is often shifted from parents to children. By viewing me as merely an extension I need to carry all the responsibility for my mum to be able to see meaning in her life. My parents never took responsibility for anything instead it was all the childrens fault. My mum made us be responsible for her behaviour. Whilst me and my brothers needs were left unmet. My mum would also use me as emotional mailbox by telling me all about her childhood-abuse when I was still a child or by complaining to me about what a fuck-up my father was. When i had emotional problems I was an inconvenience to her and made to feel like an asshole for causing her trouble. she would have absolutely no regard as to how she treated me affected me emotionally but she herself would go crazy over the slighest critisism. So the parents expect their children to take responsibility for them whilst the childrens emotions are rejected and shit all-over. From what I get your parents are being crazy and immature and your emotional needs were completely neglected. Please know that you are not alone in this as I am dealing with this energy myself. It is a tremendously challenging life-path to be on and what whe need to learn is that whe have a birth-right for our emotional needs to be nurtured and cared for. That would have been our parents job but they were completely incapable of doing that. This is not your fault! You would have deserved a safe and stable home that provides you with care and affection. You have a right to not be exposed to your parents yelling and screaming at each other because this isn't a safe environment to be in and it is your parents job to provide that for you. Also you have the right to be treated in a way that makes you feel safe and secure emotionally which means you have a right to not be yelled at, shamed or critisised in a hurtful way. I am also trying to wrap my head around this as my rights were mercylessly violated by my parents and I have been conditioned into thinking that it is my fault whenever someone yells at me (me being responsible for other peoples behaviour instead of them owning it). I am literally like: Whaaaat? I am not responsible for my parents behaviour?? I have a right to not be yelled at or critisised harshly? Whaaaat? My parents should have nurtured my emotional world ? Whaaaat?? It is a matter of looking at the truth of the situation and then access your emotions. I found that grieving and crying helps a lot. It is difficult because you most likely numb out emotionally to be able to cope with it all and it is very very very hard to realise that you have never been loved but I feel when you go through the pain you will eventually come home to yourself. This post has gotten very lenghty but I hope it helped you to know that you are not alone in this and I wish for you from the bottom of my heart that you come home to yourself! It is immensely challenging but you are not alone in your experience! Again I am deeply sorry to hear about the loss of your brother and that you didn't have anyone to help you process through your emotions. That must be a terrible terrible pain you are in :,-( P.S. I am also 28 years of age. Is it possible that whe share many house-placements since whe are both libra-risings? And yes I am a cancer sun in 10th house conjunct chiron which are both conjunct the MC
This was so cool! I feel amazing after this LOL. It also makes me know that I need to just go for it because everything is ready and waiting for me. Thank you!
Am a Libra Sun Sagittarius Rising, I have been checking how both signs are affecting my mid heaven with my Virgo Midheaven I am a Cleaner with a cleaning business but I can see how Cancer because of Libra affects my work. I am very strict on Safety & Security in my business and my mother is a clean freak leading me to start a cleaning business. Mind blown! I am very sensitive and caring to my cleaners and I really nurture them and I ensure they are happy. plus for my reputation am so cautious I left all social media. I conduct the first training sessions for all my cleaners and I am a great business person. I get things done. I think we are a cocktail of so many astrological influences am glad I checked this out. It helps me gain more clarity about myself
moon is also on my 10th house; i became a vet and it resonated with me for a while until it didn't because it's such a sad profession. Now i'm trying to find myself again, yet the things i've tried haven't been able to captivate me, except for music, but i'm no musician.
This is my placement. Yes i love history, geography, culture and antiques. That's why I took up tourism because I believe this is my passion and wallah! Im working in tne tourim industry and very happy.
My ex has a cancer MC. In contrast, I have a Capricorn MC. I never understood why he treated every single person who entered his life like they had the right to ask so much of him from the get go. I would get so mad because I felt the complete opposite. But I get it now.
Gemini With Cancer MC Libra Rising here. And I do love to cook and bake 😀 my career is in tech, but my true passion is being an artist. My moon is also in Cancer conjunct my midheaven.
SagiCorn Sun, Lilith Sagi Cap Moon, Merc(3H), Uranus(3H), Neptune(3H), Saturn (4H) , Venus(3H), South Node R (4H) Libra Rising, MC, Chiron- Cancer Mostly accurate except I hate cookingg
,always felt like I am meant to just heal things, looking at star sign stuff wise, aswell though, jee. Virgo moon and sun, libra rising and cancer midheaven, haha. Enjoying your videos though :)
My son has this aspect and his midheaven is conjunct his cancer sun.. I am definatley a strong influence in my his life. I love all of my children but Im closest to my son.(My girls tend to be closer to their dad.) I think maybe because his father died and Im all he has but yes hes is a cancer so he is def a mamas boy..LOL He is a nurturer but ironically he doesnt want kids. He is also the leader at his job.. Right on the money with this one..
@@FantasyRapp He definitely does that..He does HVAC for a living and he's a team leader..He teaches guys who are in their 40s and he's only 26..Whenever there's a really big project his boss chooses him..Not only that but he's a comedic genius..You can't be around him without laughing. He lights up a room..Now my youngest, she's a Capricorn with a Pisces Ascendent..She's miserable..LOL..
OMG!! I’m a triple Libra and your friends spirit as well as her situations sound just like mine!! Thank you VERY MUCH!!! I’m tripping because your so on point!♥️♥️♥️
I'm a Gemini sun, Cap moon, Libra rising and Cancer midheaven. I don't really seem to relate with my Cancer midheaven as I have always cared more about my own establishments than other people. I don't nurture people and take care of them. Could that be because of my other placements? P.s COOKING SUCKS.
wait no offense but i thought that capricorn is the ruler of the 10th house. so having cancer in your 10th sort of brings more of a watery unstable public life, if that makes sense?
Yes, but that doesn't oppose what she's said. Idk why she didn't mention this tho. A good example is Brittney Spears, very popular and loved by the public but also had a very public breakdown and has been criticized a lot by the public previously as well.
☀️♒, 🌕♊, asc♎, MC♋ But I don't apply to my MC ♋ at all Maybe I'm gonna develop in this detection but at the moment I am literally the opposite of what you said😂 I hate emotions, I'm not emotional at all, I don't like children and I don't want to have kinds when I'm merried I just wanna be free and live my life without any boundaries and limitations #air
@@CindyAAvery i watched an indian astrologer. He says sidereal anf tropical both accurate. The only difference, sidereal base on constellations while tropical base on planets.
Libra rising and cancer mc , I actually want to be an artist and practicing acting, idk but I think I'm so passionate about it ;-;;;;;;
Hey libra rising and cancer midheaven here. I'm a Theatre major ^_^ !
Im the same and also want to become an artist :3
Same here. I’m doing print in art school ෆ
Oh, me too!
Holy moly macaroli me too! God I'm so glad ❤️🐞❤️
I always thought I was meant to be a musician but I need to try a lot of different things before I go back to it.
Libra Asc. MC Cancer. Sun/Moon/Mercury in Capricorn. Mother and homemaker. I don't care what people think of me not working, not having my own income and not having an education, but I'm hypersenitive to criticism of my parenting. It's been nearly 20 years since I worked (not that I don't do anything now, but you know what I mean) and all of my work experience was in the service or care to others; restauration, supermarket, nursing home.
I mainly worked in the kitchen of restaurants as an assistant and in the kitchen of the nursing home and I love to cook for my family - I'm also sensitive to criticism of my cooking! The nursing home job was the most fulfilling. As a kid I did a lot of environmental, wild protection and human rights advocating - not coming home on time and walking in bad parts of town carrying signs with outrage and trying to get attention to issues.:D
Issues with my parents; Moon sq. Pluto/12th house, Libra takes up most of my 12th house. Mom has Sun/Neptune Libra and both of my parents having Aries rising and Moon (Aries is in general one of my favorite signs) which was hard and draining in my younger years when I wasn't good at asserting myself and I experienced even good intentions from them, as draining and judgmental.
It's true and hard to admit, but it's hard and conscious work as an adult, not to be or become that person. Yes, I'm very self protective, I'm probably going to regret this comment, lol!
Please do not say that you have not worked in 20 years..Being a home maker is work...Your work is just as valuable ( if not more) than work outside the home..♥️
@@robinlynn898 Facts
I have sun in capricorn, libra rising, cancer midheaven too :-). And I love taking care of others!
@@miroslavkozik987 This is the strangest coincidence! I wrote the comment 3 years ago. I'd completely forgotten until you replied. It wasn't until this Spring 2021 that I got my act together and applied to the nearest school for social and healthcare here in Denmark and this June I got confirmation that I was admitted on a full scholarship (or whatever you call it when it's a vocational school). My old school papers were outdated and some were from the U.S. so last year in 2020, I took 5 courses at an adult learning center to meet admissions requirements. I was a homemaker between mid Dec.1998-mid Jan.2020.
@@momof3plusdsg Wow, You made such a large step! To move to another country, from USA to Europe. I have graduated geography, but Its not my ''dream job''. Its not about taking care of others, nor face-to-face working position. I dont know till this day, why I have chosen to study that...
I wish you all the best in Denmark. They are very polite people, a little bit cold and unapproachable, but You will get used to it. Greetings from Serbia!
What does it mean homemaker? You mean housewife? And btw, coincidence doesnt exist :)
Oh yes, I definitely get more attention than I like, especially at work. Cancer MC and Libra ASC, but also the Sun and Venus in 10th house, with Venus conjunct the MC. And Pluto in 1st house. It always seems as if my co-workers have much more leeway. It often bothered me if my bosses critisized me for minor stuff that paled in comparision to some of my co-workers' rule-breaking, not to mention that people often think I'm flirting when I'm just being my nice Libra/Cancer combo. Funny enough, IF I'm flirting, I challenge you. Must be that airy Libra and that Aries in 7th that is looking for an equal partner. :) No banter, no romance.
With growing self-esteem and self-awareness (therapy + astrology) I learned to set healthy boundaries and recognized my strengths... and it does help to have kind bosses who actually prefer you to be honest and authentic. I never did well at brown-nosing and hierarchies (Uranus dominant). I found the best way to handle this attention is to actually be kind, strong and honest in a way that makes people appreciate you. To care.
I mean, it's really nice when you get to work and customers' faces light up and you even get that grumpy guy to smile. :)
Wow i have similar placements to you, ive never met anyone having that much of a similar placements in chart and i completely understand what you are saying lol
I have similar placements! Pluto on my first as well. Thanks for your insight
You described it perfectly 🥰
Wow i relate to this soo much, we have the same placements i think!
This is the most accurate interpretation I’ve heard of the Cancer midheaven, ever. This is coming from a Cancer moon conjunct Midheaven!
Omg same..
So funny you said trinkets and antiques . I collect trinket boxes and love finding antiques .
This made me cry, THANK YOU FOR THIS
You just give me the vibe that you are kind of sorry for us for having a Capricorn IC (or however it is called). And I don't like people to feel sorry for me. But anyway I like you, I truly do.
A very Capricorn ic thing to say. We don't enjoy ppl feeling bad for us because we work hard to be where we are and would rather have recognition for our effort than pity for what we came from.
Thanks for this! Cancer MC here. Was very insightful, and totally love the sound of your voice!!
I always say the Libra rising can do anything stocks, psychic stuff even being a celebrity were you have to pick up on the vibe for the movie or song your putting out. All the work houses are in water signs so a lucky guess can pay off well. So many Libra rising tarot readers.
Cancer Midheaven here! My Moon is in Aries and Saturn in Sagittarius, they are in strong Trine with each other. The Moon is square the Midheaven, no aspect from Saturn to Midheaven.
My dad was the more serious one, more like quiet and stoic and just worked, came home, paid the bills and was a homebody. And mom was a stay-at-home mom as a kid, she brought us out of the house and explored. She’s got a Cancer Sun with Capricorn Moon, dad with a Taurus Sun and Aries Moon. No birth times yet, so no Rising signs. My whole family placed a large emphasis on college, and I felt a lack of direction. I’ve been drawn to more nurturing professions though.
Also... I was always drawn to the more creative areas of life, like writing poetry, writing in general (stellium in the 3rd), my favorite classes were foreign languages, art and music as well as “Home Ec” where we learned about cooking and sewing. My family wanted me to be an accountant or a nurse (weak stomach, couldn’t follow through). Something with more stability and a better salary.
But now I want to go back to school, but for graphic design. I loved interior design too. And since I was 8 I wanted to write a book. And I remember my first book idea was literally around the theme of finding healing. When I was around 8 or 10 years old. 😂
And I do cook well, and whenever I have a guest, I go into “uber-host” mode, making sure everyone feels comfortable, fed, watered, entertained... my s/o’s sister stayed with us a week and even said it “felt like staying in a bed and breakfast.” 😂
Spot on.
Officially I'm in a relationship... In other words I have an official Girl friend
Congratulations man
I’m libra rising too, these qualities can’t be helped
I have Cancer Midheaven Capricorn Imum in my birthchart that was spot on. Libra Ascendant, Leo Sun, Capricorn moon.☺❤ i have Cancer in Chiron also.
Emelie Jönsson I am also a libra AC with saturn in capricorn in 4th conjunct the IC in capricorn. Chiron is in cancer conjunct my sun in cancer in 10th house both conjunct the MC. My moon is in 8th opposite pluto in scorpio. I grew up with a severely narcissistic mother and an enabling narcissistic father which left me devastated emotionally. How did you experience your home?
AlexanderWachsmann Not so well my parents got divorced when i was little they argued every day mom allways worked hard she is a Taurus and my father is a Virgo my dad also worked and traveld alot with his job. And when my little brother died when he was born so that was really a sad thing to go trow. And i got bullied in school so much shit that people go trow is just heart breaking. I am really sad to hear. you are a strong person as well and you allways have i guess. And i am also very emotional person i can be very sensitive when people arguing. Sorry i am from Sweden i am not so good to write in English. And i felt unloved by my parents and i honestly feel the same today 28 years old. My Mother allways says that she loves me but i feel that she is not. i also feel left out from my family members.
AlexanderWachsmann We all struggle with something very hard in life but we also are very strong in heart and in our minds we all have ups and downs all we have to try is to balance things out that is tuff. We are all humans and we all struggle we are strong more strong then we know and that i so powerful and beautiful light and dark. We humans are so powerful we can heal that is hurting inside and make it little bit better. How can we take care of others when we not take care of ourselfs first then we can help others.
AlexanderWachsmann You are very very sensitive and you can pick up how people are. You are very very intuitive and warm hearted. Sometimes i wish i was born in Cancer they have a heart of gold wow. My two Childhood friends are Cancer sun and Pisces sun and my cousin are also Pisces all waters signs have warm selfless hearts they care so so much for others that they sometimes forget to take care of them self and that is a beautiful personality to have. So don't forget your self. I dont know if you do work with people but i can guess that you do.
Emelie Jönsson I am soo soo sorry to hear about what you had to endure. Loosing your brother and then having no one to help you process through the trauma thats more than one can handle. It is such a tragedy and a desaster when parents are immature themselves and are unable to provide for the needs of their children. This is a thing I found with saturn/moon-contacts that the roles of parent and child get reversed. The parents are immature and the children need to grow up and are left to take care of themselves emotionally which is a really really challenging energy to deal with. Your parents are the ones who should have owned their responsibility and they should provide you with a safe and secure home and they should nurture your emotional world. Think about it: They are the grown ups (at least they are a couple of decades older than you) and you are the child. They decided to have you so they should take responsibility for your wellbeing and make you feel loved and secure. It is not your fault and it does not say anything about you as a person that you didn't get love. It's your parents who failed you!
I have had similar experiences with my parents. My mum is a full blown narcissist. She has full blown narcissistic personality disorder. What that means is she views me and my brother as mere extensions of herself and objects to fuel her agenda. My mom got severely abused in her own family which was massively dysfunctional and now she uses her own children (me and my brother) to get the self-esteem and selfworth she couldn't develop in her own childhood. She defines the worth of a human being purely via achievements and wether someone makes something out of him/herself and earns a lot of money and has gained status/prestige etc. Thats all that matters in a person according to her. From what I get her own family was all about status and prestige and money and now she continues the cycle. The way this showed was that she would only be interested in how I perform at school and wether I have good grades. She forced me to play the piano and she didn't want me to socialise because she feared I would neglect school and get bad grades. I once had trouble with a narcissistic-girlfriend (who shared quite a lot of similarities with my mom) and I was very down and depressed and the only thing my mom did was rage and scream at me that if I dared to have bad grades because of this she'll kick me out of the house. Thats how sick my mom is. she also is extremely critical and would shame/blame /yell and critise me all the time for the slightest mistakes. Dropping a glass of water would send her into rage. Me getting a cold would send her into rage etc. What was worst was that the left-side of my body is spastic. So my left hand and my left leg are spastic. however it is not a severe spasm. It is mild to moderate. I am not bound to a wheel-chair and I did travel to other countries on my own so I am perfectly able to do that but when you see me you will notice my condition. The problem is my mum would abuse me and critisise me because of my spasms. She would say "Don't be so good damn spastic and walk properly instead !!" in a very harsh and critical tone. she would instill the belief in me that people automatically assume that I am of no use and don't get anything done because of my spasms and that i need to compensate for that by having good grades. The world isn't going to wait for a spastic like me (my worth as a person being purely measured on what I achieve and wether I am of any use or not). If you remember my mother views me as her mirror-image and the image better not reflect bad on her. So me having these spasms is a trigger to her self-image hence why i got criticised and shamed for having this condition this did wreck havoc on my self-concept more than anything else but I have become aware of that now and I am processing it.
My parents would also constantly fight and rage at each other from my early childhood on with no regard to how it affects my brother and me. My brother he started to behave the same way my parents did when he was at school which made it so he got send to an institution for difficult children at the age of 9 where he stayed for four years. My parents instead of seeing the error in their ways and owning responsibility for setting a shit-example what they did they blamed it all on him. My mother played the victim-card and my brother was the difficult child, the ass-hole for being such a burden and it was all his fault!
This has gotten very lenghty but maybe it shows how with saturn-moon signatures the responsibility is often shifted from parents to children. By viewing me as merely an extension I need to carry all the responsibility for my mum to be able to see meaning in her life. My parents never took responsibility for anything instead it was all the childrens fault. My mum made us be responsible for her behaviour. Whilst me and my brothers needs were left unmet. My mum would also use me as emotional mailbox by telling me all about her childhood-abuse when I was still a child or by complaining to me about what a fuck-up my father was. When i had emotional problems I was an inconvenience to her and made to feel like an asshole for causing her trouble. she would have absolutely no regard as to how she treated me affected me emotionally but she herself would go crazy over the slighest critisism.
So the parents expect their children to take responsibility for them whilst the childrens emotions are rejected and shit all-over.
From what I get your parents are being crazy and immature and your emotional needs were completely neglected. Please know that you are not alone in this as I am dealing with this energy myself. It is a tremendously challenging life-path to be on and what whe need to learn is that whe have a birth-right for our emotional needs to be nurtured and cared for. That would have been our parents job but they were completely incapable of doing that. This is not your fault! You would have deserved a safe and stable home that provides you with care and affection. You have a right to not be exposed to your parents yelling and screaming at each other because this isn't a safe environment to be in and it is your parents job to provide that for you. Also you have the right to be treated in a way that makes you feel safe and secure emotionally which means you have a right to not be yelled at, shamed or critisised in a hurtful way. I am also trying to wrap my head around this as my rights were mercylessly violated by my parents and I have been conditioned into thinking that it is my fault whenever someone yells at me (me being responsible for other peoples behaviour instead of them owning it). I am literally like: Whaaaat? I am not responsible for my parents behaviour?? I have a right to not be yelled at or critisised harshly? Whaaaat? My parents should have nurtured my emotional world ? Whaaaat?? It is a matter of looking at the truth of the situation and then access your emotions. I found that grieving and crying helps a lot. It is difficult because you most likely numb out emotionally to be able to cope with it all and it is very very very hard to realise that you have never been loved but I feel when you go through the pain you will eventually come home to yourself. This post has gotten very lenghty but I hope it helped you to know that you are not alone in this and I wish for you from the bottom of my heart that you come home to yourself! It is immensely challenging but you are not alone in your experience! Again I am deeply sorry to hear about the loss of your brother and that you didn't have anyone to help you process through your emotions. That must be a terrible terrible pain you are in :,-(
P.S.
I am also 28 years of age. Is it possible that whe share many house-placements since whe are both libra-risings? And yes I am a cancer sun in 10th house conjunct chiron which are both conjunct the MC
This was so cool! I feel amazing after this LOL. It also makes me know that I need to just go for it because everything is ready and waiting for me. Thank you!
Eyem a public figure. Very homebodyish, always me no matter what eyem doing
Am a Libra Sun Sagittarius Rising, I have been checking how both signs are affecting my mid heaven with my Virgo Midheaven I am a Cleaner with a cleaning business but I can see how Cancer because of Libra affects my work. I am very strict on Safety & Security in my business and my mother is a clean freak leading me to start a cleaning business. Mind blown! I am very sensitive and caring to my cleaners and I really nurture them and I ensure they are happy. plus for my reputation am so cautious I left all social media. I conduct the first training sessions for all my cleaners and I am a great business person. I get things done. I think we are a cocktail of so many astrological influences am glad I checked this out. It helps me gain more clarity about myself
This resonates with me a ton since my moon is in the 10th!
Your career must be related to nursing and caring isnt it?
moon is also on my 10th house; i became a vet and it resonated with me for a while until it didn't because it's such a sad profession. Now i'm trying to find myself again, yet the things i've tried haven't been able to captivate me, except for music, but i'm no musician.
Haha Im a Leo sun and Cancer Midheaven so no wonder i attract so much attention to myself
I like to spend time at home.
thank you for taking your time to inform us learners! you are so great!
This is my placement. Yes i love history, geography, culture and antiques. That's why I took up tourism because I believe this is my passion and wallah! Im working in tne tourim industry and very happy.
My ex has a cancer MC. In contrast, I have a Capricorn MC. I never understood why he treated every single person who entered his life like they had the right to ask so much of him from the get go. I would get so mad because I felt the complete opposite. But I get it now.
Cancer MIDHEAVEN Conjunct SUN, URANUS (late) Gemini -- Conjunct MOON, MERCURY, VENUS (early) Cancer -- Sextile MARS in Virgo -- Trine CHIRON in Scorpio. (Multiple careers: legal secretary, business owner, concert pianist.)
loved this so much and your explanation thank you love. This definitely described me to the T
I’m a Gemini Sun , Capricorn Moon , Libra Ascendent and Cancer MC . I’m not sure what my IC is 🤷🏾♀️
Omg I'm a Gemini sun, Capricorn moon, Libra ascendant and Cancer MC. I can't believe I found someone with everything similar to me.
Lovely Diceee Gem ☉ Libra asendent, Cancer MC, Taurus 🌙
Thank you Hannah! ❤
Gemini With Cancer MC Libra Rising here. And I do love to cook and bake 😀 my career is in tech, but my true passion is being an artist. My moon is also in Cancer conjunct my midheaven.
Saw this video today :) Good information :) Just to add on Cancer mc people can be good psychics as well.
love love love! thank you for the insights
Leo Sun, Sag Moon, Libra rising, Cancer midheaven
Same except taurus moon
Gemini sun… libra rising…. Taurus moon… and cancer MC
Same
with the libra rising squaring the Midheaven, what do you think about this? There’s a very unstable nature to the face we show the outside
I have this same placement
SagiCorn Sun, Lilith Sagi
Cap Moon, Merc(3H), Uranus(3H), Neptune(3H), Saturn (4H) , Venus(3H), South Node R (4H)
Libra Rising,
MC, Chiron- Cancer
Mostly accurate except I hate cookingg
Scorpio sun
Capricorn moon
Libra rising
Cancer midhaven...
OMLLL
TIA HENRY me too except Taurus moon
Hmm.. Aquarius sun, Taurus moon, Libra asc, and Cancer mc.. I appreciated this thank you 🙏🏾
Libra sun and ASC, with cancer MH and moon... Capricorn IC and Mars... So I'm friendly but super driven at work. 🔥🌟🔥
I'm an engineer👍
with moon in 10th i guess you are a biomedical engineer?
@@adeel6368 surveying/civil.. maybe I missed my calling 😉
Nailed it!
,always felt like I am meant to just heal things, looking at star sign stuff wise, aswell though, jee. Virgo moon and sun, libra rising and cancer midheaven, haha. Enjoying your videos though :)
Jemma Clamp i have exact same placements
OMG this is so true I was in graduate to school to get my pre-k 3rd grade teaching license. Lol
thank you for this, I love how you talk! haha
Sun in aries
Chiron conjunct mc in cancer
My moon trines saturn
Moon in libra
Spaturn in apquarious
Mars in gemini
My son has this aspect and his midheaven is conjunct his cancer sun.. I am definatley a strong influence in my his life. I love all of my children but Im closest to my son.(My girls tend to be closer to their dad.) I think maybe because his father died and Im all he has but yes hes is a cancer so he is def a mamas boy..LOL He is a nurturer but ironically he doesnt want kids. He is also the leader at his job.. Right on the money with this one..
I think it's because of the Sun conjuction - he wants to shine in the area of his career and public image.
@@FantasyRapp He definitely does that..He does HVAC for a living and he's a team leader..He teaches guys who are in their 40s and he's only 26..Whenever there's a really big project his boss chooses him..Not only that but he's a comedic genius..You can't be around him without laughing. He lights up a room..Now my youngest, she's a Capricorn with a Pisces Ascendent..She's miserable..LOL..
Your videos are excellent 👌🏽💯✨🔥
Scorpio rising, Taurus sun, Cap moon, Cancer mc. I am studying psychology and wanting to also study social work
OMG!! I’m a triple Libra and your friends spirit as well as her situations sound just like mine!! Thank you VERY MUCH!!! I’m tripping because your so on point!♥️♥️♥️
Hope I may able to change my chart like change game settings....
Love this video
I'm a Gemini sun, Cap moon, Libra rising and Cancer midheaven. I don't really seem to relate with my Cancer midheaven as I have always cared more about my own establishments than other people. I don't nurture people and take care of them. Could that be because of my other placements?
P.s COOKING SUCKS.
That Cap Moon will definitely break the Cancer charm, pal. Sorry... Especially if you also have Mars on Fire or Venus on Air signs... ^__^'
This is my Placement.........
Very true of me!
Moon is in taurus 8th house!
cancer sun, libra moon and libra rising! cancer midheaven xD :)
i have a cancer midheaven along with my sun in virgo, my moon in scorpio and also my rising in scorpio
thanks so much
Could you make a video on chiron 🤷🏽♂️❤️
wait no offense but i thought that capricorn is the ruler of the 10th house. so having cancer in your 10th sort of brings more of a watery unstable public life, if that makes sense?
Yes, but that doesn't oppose what she's said. Idk why she didn't mention this tho. A good example is Brittney Spears, very popular and loved by the public but also had a very public breakdown and has been criticized a lot by the public previously as well.
i too have libra asc cancer sun cancer moon cancer mercury and cancer midheaven
Great vidoe !
Video*❤️
Thank you from sun Virgo, Moon Aquarius, MC Cancer, rising Libra, DC Aries.. I have Vesta in Cancer too? 🙄😇
☀️♒, 🌕♊, asc♎, MC♋
But I don't apply to my MC ♋ at all
Maybe I'm gonna develop in this detection but at the moment I am literally the opposite of what you said😂
I hate emotions, I'm not emotional at all, I don't like children and I don't want to have kinds when I'm merried
I just wanna be free and live my life without any boundaries and limitations #air
Are you looking at tropical or sidereal? It seems sidereal is as the original and more accurate! I’m two different signs! Not sure what to think yet!
@@CindyAAvery i watched an indian astrologer. He says sidereal anf tropical both accurate. The only difference, sidereal base on constellations while tropical base on planets.
Pisces sun Gemini moon libra risning Venus in pisces mid haven cancer
Crazy because my lilith and south mode is capricorn but my north and midheaven cancer .
I was born 18:07 is my mid-heaven cancer or leo!
Uhmmm... I’m midheaven 29 degrees and Venus 17 degrees😅
omg i am just like your friend same position tooo :)))))
7:45
… it's like you know me. R.G.
My mom was a virgo sun conjunct saturn and moon conjunct saturn lol ug
True!
Cancer mid heaven with natal 8th house moon..career suggestions?
Dealing with other people's money- like banking, finance etc
I cannot watch more than 10 sec. Unfortunately you are not so good at this. Sorry. Blessings
Lmao by 10 secs she didn't even start talking abt the sign.
@@lolabint3411 what i was trying to say it is that is too boring to watch this