This is so true! I grew up feeling like an old man compared to the other kids around me and it always felt like I couldn't be a kid. Now I treat the whole world like they're my family and it does get me into trouble. Not everyone is down for that kind of love, and it can lead to some awkward situations 😅
LOL what you said about Cancer MC not posting on social media as much is soooo true! I rarely post pictures to Facebook and mostly use Tumblr to look at other people's stuff. Also, what you said about Cancer being an easy target is true and makes me feel both sad and angry. I feel quite strong and capable so it's hard for me to even admit that people feel that way, but it's true--people have often seen me as an easy target, but I REFUSE to say I've been bullied. I've always fought back and defended myself while at the same time feeling sad that people don't see the things that I see in myself if that makes sense.
So true. I just use tumblr too! My friends all want me to get insta now but you have to post a lot if your own stuff and im not rlly comfy with that. Even when i post my own stuff on tumblr it gets drowned out with other things lmao and it's very vague.
My favourite interpretation is from Wayman Stewart. He’s like: us people with Cancer MC simply care about people we don’t even know. We project the emotions that are usually reserved for loved ones and family members on other people, like our neighbours and coworkers etc. The trouble is: not all of them appreciate it. You become intensely vulnerable. I definitely know what you’re talking about. It’s like, you want to be kind and effective etc , but there are always people who interpret your kindness as „Brown-nosing” etc
Ikr? I haven’t even watched the vid yet , but „restriction from my mother“ sound really familiar. As in, on the one hand, she encouraged my artistic endeavours. But only as far as she liked it. My mom wanted me to learn to play the guitar, while I was into learning to play the violin or piano. Guess who won?
No I think she is lucky to have you as a mother cause you are watching this video for the sake of your daughter I don't think my parents would ever done something to understand me or understand what I want. So don't worry you'll be a good mom.
I would advice to be warm, cuddly and not to give chores or even after school activities that are not aligned with her nature. I'm sure you'll do much better than most of our parents ❤ Edit: I only now see how old this comment is, hope its all going well 😊
this is so crazy because im libra rising and my mom was my only parent and she was always working as in never really home and im always doing what she wants me to and Im an only child who grew up around older relatives... crazy how accurate this is ... it sucks
I am a bit sad...my beautiful son has this placement... And I have been absent due to my career, my husband is ultra-strict with him. I will make an effort to be a more loving and present and tell him the importance to guard his heart. Love all your videos, thanks from the bottom of my heart!!
Damarys Pinzon-Moussa I’m also a mother of a son with this placement. My husband is a Capricorn, ex military and a Deputy Sheriff, he’s very strict and has high expectations. I’m a homemaker and I love my children very much but I am also extremely structured. On weekends we are more laxed but Monday-Friday we maintain a strict schedule. I have a large family so I don’t see things being any different in order to avoid chaos. This video made me feel sad but I know we are doing the best we can and we love our children.
While I did get a lot of love, this is pretty accurate. It was like if I didn't do something perfectly, I got yelled at for a good hour, and since I'm young, it still is this way. When someone suggests I didn't work hard, it bugs me so much. Very good video!
Thank you Alyssa. This is speaking to me. My midheaven is Cancer. I need to guard heart. And it's true. It is the wellspring of life. If I'm heartbroken it affects everything.
I'm hella late but I cried when you started talking about the childhood stuff. I wouldn't say I was worked as a child but definitely never really got the love that a child should get. So that part really resonated fr. I really appreciate your work and your teachings. Thank you so much for continuing to do what you do and sharing your beliefs/knowledge
Oh my god. What you said is pretty true for me because I have a cancer mid heaven and Capricorn IC. I rarely cry, and my mom told me it's because she told me to never cry and to pick myself up bc crying is a sign of weakness, and I still believe that. She is a single parent and I rarely talk to my dad. Not bc she doesn't let me, but bc I never wanted to. However, they both love me but I'm extremely disconnected from my dad and connected with my mom. I'm the only child so I've always wanted brothers or sisters but as I got a little older I realized that I like being the only child. I never post anything on Facebook anymore and I'm 16, bc I don't want to post stupid things or have a future job see things on my Facebook that are not a real representation of who I am. I want to look like a professional. I do work really hard for what I want. But I feel like it's partially bc I've made myself a workhorse and bc I want to make my mom proud of me. But, I haven't always been this way. A lot of teenagers don't have this awakening at an early age about how important the world is and what you have to do to make it in a harsh world, but I do. I've always questioned why the world is the way it is since I was younger. But, when I was watching this I was like oh my gosh, she's talking about me. By the way my mom sometimes tells me that I don't do anything, but I work really hard and beat myself up, so I dunno.
Omg I am consumed with emotion,I couldn't believe how true this. When you said that that cancer mc don't post because there scared of the fear of rejection, my heart stopped. To top it off I'm a scorpio sun,cancer moon in the 10th house so it's intensified Thank u so much for this
Lmao true. My father was always busy to give me attention, so my mother was in charge of me. She was abusive and would always control me and try to mold me into a perfect child. :S
I'm crying as you explain the on;line posting situation! It's true. I do hold the pain. God you're a freaking psychologist! Thanks for healing me. I realize this, so now I can know. My family life was shit, too.
Now I know why I related to Britney when she had that public meltdown. When other people mocked her and condemned her for doing that, I defended her by saying I could understand why she did that. Jennifer Aniston is a libra rising as I do. I can understand her sadness as well.
This video really hit home for me. I have a Capricorn IC and a Cancer MC and this is all true. My mother was the strict parent and my dad was always working. My mother was very abusive, mentally, physically and emotionally. I would always ask my dad can I go to work with him to get away from her. I do consider the world my family and I am extremely loving.
A childless Cancer MC here due to an absolutely controlling bully of a mother which caused me to hate being a child and other children, so I never wanted any. Im 58, and yes I'm weird...apparently, maybe afraid of saying no to people too. My solution is I have become a recluse doting on the animals who live with me. F*** the world lol Do you think we survive by hoping (hopelessly) that someone will rescue us with love one day?
I feel for you too, I don't want kids because being one sucked, and besides, having to birth kids is probably just societal pressure, so in this day and age that's already irrelevant. Also why use kids to make the parents feel happy, right? You do what you want to do, you being happy is the only important thing. Having other people to share that happy life with is purely optional. Be happy always, fellow Libra AS 💕🌟
"when you're a Capricorn ic you only have one parent" omg so true for me my dad was never there in my life my mom is a single mother in the sense that my dad is not there (bc my mom is not single)
Watching this after your new Midheaven video you just posted and wow all I have to say it’s insane how accurate this is for me it gives me chills. Mom couldn’t raise me due to drugs so went to my maternal l grandparents by default. My Grandma was a crazy stage mom and I HAD to do dance like NOTHING else mattered I HAD to do what she wanted me to do which was dance…literally my every breath and entire being was under her thumb while my Grandpa was always gone working all day, never really saw him. He never loved me and always turned a blind eye to the abuse I was receiving from my grandma and disconnected from his family. I can’t wait for your new midheaven series. Thanks for all that you do.
Truth!! My dad kept me from my mom growing up. I was expected to take care of my younger siblings and keep the house clean. My dad used to brag his kids were built for working.
First just listening to this video, I was thinking JK Rowling had a Cancer MC because she rarely tweets anything. Then finding out she does have a Cancer MC from watching this video, it was MIND BLOWING!! XD
Grew up in an orphnage for most my life and it was strict with a lot of rules, also had to work hard there ( it was called earning your keep) . People can be very mean and can take advantage because of being careing. Very acurate in a general sense.
Wow...thank you so much. This video really helped me out on a dark Christmas night and hit the nail on the head. Cancer MC does give me so much love for others and expose me to such vulnerability and yet here I sat, not even so much as a text message on Christmas day from actual family. Your video helped me remember that I'm far from alone, and to protect my heart 💜
This is so helpfull to me. I used to date a cancer MC and i have been confused ever since. What you say about Britney is so true. I started to really like her when she was judge on x-factor. She really did a good job and coming back from a breakdown. She really cared for her artists and was selfless in her guiding them. And shes funny :) I saw an interview and her birthdaywish was vacation 4 times a year. The vegas show is almost one show pr day. Thats a lot of work. I hope people recognise the hard work before they judge
This was so accurate almost made me cry! My sun is in Sag Mc in cancer. So accurate for me. My mom wasn’t there for us growing up so I had to help raise my two younger brothers while my dad worked 24/7 to support us.
LMAO, I'm a Cancer MC with a twitter account that I barley use. But one of the tweets on there is a picture of a coffee mug that says on the side "Britney Survived 2007. You can handle today." I don't even listen to Britney Spears. Maybe I should check her music out.
i just really resonate with this i love pleasing people i thought it was just my libra asc but i also thought that it’s so strong in me tho like i love making people happy and being in the world. i sell cosmetics and i’m really good bc i connect with so many people and want to talk to everyone. i really do love the world
You explain things in a very friendly and easy way which makes a lot of sense. I never knew the Midheaven can drive my instincts so dominantly, but it sure does so, especially when I am out in the 'real world'.
i rarely comment on videos (which i guess is fitting now i've seen this), but i just wanted to say thank you so much! this video was frighteningly accurate and really struck a chord with me. i have just been trying to figure out my rising sign, and my upbringing matches up a little bit too well with libra rising with a cancer mc. i guess with a cancer mc and a pisces moon, i've got to protect my heart, which i often neglect to do. you might not know just how accurate this was for me and i truly, honestly thank you for the future insight you've given me! your videos are great. :)
"when you're a Capricorn ic you only have one parent" omg so true for me my dad was never there in my life my mom is a single mother in the sense that my dad is not there (bc my mom is not single) btw the ic part is sadly accurate I say sadly bc everything thing she said is true (to an extent) bc i did have a controlling parent and my dad wasn't there and I never felt loved by either and I do see the world as my family (to an extent) and I do just love ppl it just reminded me of my childhood
So true.. and sad. My mom was controlling and narcissistic making me believe my dad did not love me because that's how she felt about herself and reflected that onto me. traumatic childhood and i did seek love/validation through others.
Wow I'm so impressed by how accurately you explain everything, thank you for making these videos. The love you have for it really projects and you're helping many people understand themselves better. Keep spreading wisdom
I would love to know what y'all Cancer MC with Libra AS ended up doing in life (career-wise). Preferably people with Sun, Venus or Mercury in 10th and Moon in 4th house
Finally makes sense ....i kept seeing that Pisces moon would have a good relationship with their mother usually and I felt judged all my life by both parents who did nothing but tell me what to do and how to do things. This makes a lot of sense and is spot on. Also I deleted FB and IG.... and that helped so much. As an empath it's almost as if being online also contributed to energy draining. Thanks so much for this video. Cancer MC...used to post sooooo much. "Needed" the attention
I'm a Capricorn IC and the things about work aren't true for me. What is true though is the cold family life. It's not like one of my parents isn't there or something like that, but the family life is just... cold. My mom basically chose my zodiac sign. She wanted a Taurus and she got a Taurus. Also, my Pluto and Chiron are in the 3rd house.
This was incredibly affirming and helped push me along into healing from my very confusing childhood. And no one had ever believed me so then I thought I was the crazy one. So yeah, this helped. Thank you. Your vibe is aces
In tears from this one. I have mars in cancer in my 10th and uranus/neptune in capricorn in my 4th. Definitely struck a nerve about my upbringing. Thank you for sharing
Cancer Sun, MC, Mercury & Venus. I've always been treating people like my family, except for my own... because of that rejection that is left from my childhood. I treat my colleagues as if they were all my sons and daughters (even though I'm 20 and these people are all over 40 lmao) I give them the WORLD and so much love. I'm basically their extra daughter. 😂 yet I see them all as my little children. Lmao why am I like this.
Alyssa, when my chart was first introduced to me, the Midheaven was the 3rd placement he gave me and this video is where I was led. Being it was all brand new, your video, your teaching/communication style touched me so deeply, actually I had to pause this video, as you were explaining to me, my childhood. This is the day that I fell in love with you. You are my role model.
My 2 year old son has this placement. He also has Pluto in the 4th, North Node along with Saturn (less than 2 degrees apart) in Scorpio in the 2nd house, South Node sits alone in Taurus in the 8th, his Sun and Moon are less than a degree apart in Virgo in the 12th house (along with Mercury). My husband and I are loving parents and have a good marriage. When I first started learning about astrology about 8 months ago, I was filled with enthusiasm and excitement but now after looking at my son's chart this past July, I am absolutely tormented by it. I cry every single day over this. I just can't picture how all of these awful things are going to happen. Maybe one or both of us will die or we will end up getting divorced. This is just breaking my heart!!! PLEASE help me!!! I don't even look forward to the future anymore! Please, someone help me!
+Angela Smith Angela, everything will be fine. Please don't panic. Astrology can be used to be aware of the tendencies. Most astrologers say that stars impell, they don't compell. Don't panic. Love your child, be awesome parent and don't think that the future is set in stone because it isn't. You have a free will and an ability to make choices. You have your own responsibilities. I believe only few things are predestined, everything else is a result of our deeds. Don't panic. Think about it - there is 12 zodiac signs and 12 IC positions. Do you really believe that there are ONLY 12 types of childhoods? Please... There are plenty of factors to determine whether the childhood will be happy or not. Not only astrological factors but also social, economical, etc. Another thing. There are places on earth where kids die from lack of food and clean water, natural diseases, etc. Do you think that ALL of them has only one kind of IC, rising sign, etc? Please.. Astrology is fun but not let it instill fear in your heart. Be open-minded, always take things with grain of salt, make choices, be responsible and everything will be fine.
Wow very accurate! I have strong parents (Dragon Aries dad and Dragon Capricorn mom) and I always worked in the business of my dad since young. Had a good childhood, but I do think I could have more fun if my parents had let me go a bit. I run now my own business and the people who work with me i do see as part of my family! The next think i want to do is making jobs available for challenged people. haha and today I was daydreaming to have a school for the youth on the street here in Mexico where I live now (I am from Holland but needed to get away from family influences (again my family is not bad, I do love them)....so I always think professional and social can go together... which you exactly explain here!
I have been watching your videos for years. I really just wanted you to know that you’re an amazing person with great insight. I want amazing things to happen to you!!!
idk why I can't stop crying but everything you said in this video was accurate. Idk how to explain but I don't really comment like that on your videos but I love your videos and the insight you give on each and everybody's signs. I can tell you really do your research and really have a calling for what your doing. I been watching your videos for a couple years now and I feel everything that you say on your videos.
I can across your video! This is great and your a wonderful story teller! Your little guy is so cute! Is he a crystal child? He's probably in kindergarten now! Time flies! Thanks so much it explains a great deal to me! 🙏
Yep growing up all I did was fight then after the fight I feel like damn that was fucked up you beat the shit out of them I hated being fucked with and the older I get its even worse pisces sun, Libra Rising ,Sagittarius Moon CANCER MIDHEAVEN.
This is so accurate for me. I'm a Scorpio with Capricorn in my 4th house and a Cancer Midheaven. My mom expected me to do the work she wanted me to do and was very strict with me and my father is absent because he died when I was 13
I loved Aniston before she became popular, and loved Spears after she became unpopular. What was said about Jennifer and babies made me think of the scene from "Friends", where she said her baby was ugly! These videos just make it all the more shocking how little is written about something so important. Having planets at these points, like my moon conjunct mc and mars conjunct IC, probably changes these equations. Not to mention the different ascendants that go with them, or conjunctions being from the 3rd or 9th houses, also like mine.
Sun in Leo. Moon in Pisces. Asc. Libra Venus in Cancer. Mars in Cancer. sorry if everything is tacky but everything that your saying is true and its really hitting me emotionally cause finally someone understands me :(( .
I really needed this video to understand why I have strong people-pleasing tendencies in public, and having a Cancer MC conj Venus and a Capricorn IC conj Moon just proved to me that I may have to brace being self-reliant because it is true, I have been on the losing end for the longest time. I guess it's time to heal all the crap that happened and minimize wanting the world to love me and focus more on self-love. This is going to be a harsh journey but then again, Cappy IC should bring strength for that. Thank you for sharing, this is never more relevant to me, or other Libra AS than now. Be blessed always 💕🌟
I have this placement. I have this very responsible attitude and can feel this constant pressure of 'you should be working, building status, get serious, be realistic' Now been burned out two years. Find it hard to find the balance between wanting to fulfill other people's needs (which happens very naturally and subconsciously) and tending my own needs. I feel instantly tired (losing my Self) when around people but I also can't stand being around people and workplaces that are cold and mechanical.
Dear Alyssa this video you made of cancer mc is so so true ...like everthing ....ic , family etc... BEST Cancer MC VIDEO!!! Thank you so much that you explain astrology Love This Post is for you because this video is so amazig :)
I am Scorpio Ascendant with 3rd House and IC in Capricorn intercepted. My childhood was with ONE parent and im working with Health care in Adults Dementia and challenging behaviour! IC and MC in this are spot on!
you really hit the nail on the head with the Capricorn ic take.. I almost shed a tear. My parents divorced and my dad (the cold one) didn’t allow us to see my mother which was the one who was more loving and caring. My grandma was so pushy in her expectations for me and is trying to force me to do stuff that I just don’t wanna do! F that! Also as a cancer mc I definitely always felt like I wanted a family outside of my family if that makes sense. I always felt like I came here to be a mother and friend figure publicly to inspire and support the people who didn’t have that.. like me. This reading was so accurate thank you so much :))
This is accurate Cancer Midheaven Libra rising. I have Jupiter and Chiron in Cancer. I got bullied in school when i was a little girl. But i am not alone about that. Thank you beautiful soul.❤
I post on FB A LOT, but the thing is that it made me learn that ppl can and will bully and can and will talk shit on my back, it made me a bit stronger, but what may sound more relatable to all of this is that what really hurts me is when someone I cared for, and talked to them, and did a lot of lovely things for them does a 180° turn and like unfriend me when it is unmasked that they betrayed me, that they never really liked me or tried to be ok with me. but I'm a leo sun, I have so many friends, I'm very social and being social +being someone who will try to put the light onto that good thing of you + being nurturing has got me lots of friends so I never run out of love
Yes my dad went aboard leaving me and my mom. My mom wants me to study hard yet she helps me a lot but now my mom and dad back together, it's still the same.
Hey girl. I just recently started watching you. I think you're hilarious and you have a lot of good information. But tonight, was different. I have a friend with a cancer midheaven who went through almost exactly what you described when she was a child. I was looking for the best way to explain to her the situation that astrologically I could already see. Thank you so much. The way you explained it is perfect
Thats right.i did search or try to find warmth from others ppl in society bc i feel like i lack of it sm. I need their support so i can be happy n feel safe.but power needs to grow inside.i then realized that painful lesson.that they didnt want me the way i want n care ab them.then i bc stronger n tougher,but somehow i miss the old kids hide inside me
Seems like most of the MC Cancer's have Libra Ascendant lol!
I'm a libra ascendant loo
+Drell90 im scorpio rising
I'm Libra rising too
me too i have libra rising and sun
I have Aries..
is it just me, or do a lot of people who have midheaven in cancer also seem to have 11th house in leo and have libra rising?
Leo in the 10th house and libra/scorp rising , close enough :D
I have that as well in my vedic chart weird
Aquarius sun with Libra rising, Capricorn IC, Aries descendant and Cancer MC. Every house is in opposition in my own natal chart as well.
YES! I have MC in Cancer, Leo in 11th, and Libra rising!
I am a Leo 10th house Sun, Libra rising, MC Cancer
This is so true! I grew up feeling like an old man compared to the other kids around me and it always felt like I couldn't be a kid. Now I treat the whole world like they're my family and it does get me into trouble. Not everyone is down for that kind of love, and it can lead to some awkward situations 😅
LOL what you said about Cancer MC not posting on social media as much is soooo true! I rarely post pictures to Facebook and mostly use Tumblr to look at other people's stuff.
Also, what you said about Cancer being an easy target is true and makes me feel both sad and angry. I feel quite strong and capable so it's hard for me to even admit that people feel that way, but it's true--people have often seen me as an easy target, but I REFUSE to say I've been bullied. I've always fought back and defended myself while at the same time feeling sad that people don't see the things that I see in myself if that makes sense.
WeCaredALot
Yup!
My moon is in Capricorn tooo
I don't take any bullshit .
My libra rising fool a lot of people, till my Gemini sun kicks in 😂😂🍃☝️
Doe me as well, I have removed so many words I truly wanted to share!
i would have to agree omg i consider myself a private person i’m a bit surprised lol
So true. I just use tumblr too! My friends all want me to get insta now but you have to post a lot if your own stuff and im not rlly comfy with that. Even when i post my own stuff on tumblr it gets drowned out with other things lmao and it's very vague.
My favourite interpretation is from Wayman Stewart. He’s like: us people with Cancer MC simply care about people we don’t even know. We project the emotions that are usually reserved for loved ones and family members on other people, like our neighbours and coworkers etc.
The trouble is: not all of them appreciate it. You become intensely vulnerable.
I definitely know what you’re talking about.
It’s like, you want to be kind and effective etc , but there are always people who interpret your kindness as „Brown-nosing” etc
Crazy how accurate this is, especially the IC. Ughh soo much restriction in my childhood esp coming from my mother.
Ikr? I haven’t even watched the vid yet , but „restriction from my mother“ sound really familiar.
As in, on the one hand, she encouraged my artistic endeavours. But only as far as she liked it. My mom wanted me to learn to play the guitar, while I was into learning to play the violin or piano.
Guess who won?
Same! Both of my parents were very strict and restricting. And go figure my dad is a Cancer sun 😂
This made me sad . My daughter is a cancer midheaven. She's only 2 and I would never want her to feel like me or my husband don't love her 😔
curlyheadbeauty same here...
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No I think she is lucky to have you as a mother cause you are watching this video for the sake of your daughter I don't think my parents would ever done something to understand me or understand what I want. So don't worry you'll be a good mom.
I would advice to be warm, cuddly and not to give chores or even after school activities that are not aligned with her nature. I'm sure you'll do much better than most of our parents ❤
Edit: I only now see how old this comment is, hope its all going well 😊
this is so crazy because im libra rising and my mom was my only parent and she was always working as in never really home and im always doing what she wants me to and Im an only child who grew up around older relatives... crazy how accurate this is ... it sucks
Josephine da costa So similar to me, wow😄
It was the same for me ugh
Same here word for word
I am a bit sad...my beautiful son has this placement... And I have been absent due to my career, my husband is ultra-strict with him. I will make an effort to be a more loving and present and tell him the importance to guard his heart. Love all your videos, thanks from the bottom of my heart!!
Damarys Pinzon-Moussa I’m also a mother of a son with this placement. My husband is a Capricorn, ex military and a Deputy Sheriff, he’s very strict and has high expectations. I’m a homemaker and I love my children very much but I am also extremely structured. On weekends we are more laxed but Monday-Friday we maintain a strict schedule. I have a large family so I don’t see things being any different in order to avoid chaos. This video made me feel sad but I know we are doing the best we can and we love our children.
wow, im totally shocked how correct you are. I don't know if I should cry or vomit.
While I did get a lot of love, this is pretty accurate. It was like if I didn't do something perfectly, I got yelled at for a good hour, and since I'm young, it still is this way. When someone suggests I didn't work hard, it bugs me so much. Very good video!
Thank you Alyssa. This is speaking to me. My midheaven is Cancer. I need to guard heart. And it's true. It is the wellspring of life. If I'm heartbroken it affects everything.
I'm hella late but I cried when you started talking about the childhood stuff. I wouldn't say I was worked as a child but definitely never really got the love that a child should get. So that part really resonated fr. I really appreciate your work and your teachings. Thank you so much for continuing to do what you do and sharing your beliefs/knowledge
Oh my god. What you said is pretty true for me because I have a cancer mid heaven and Capricorn IC. I rarely cry, and my mom told me it's because she told me to never cry and to pick myself up bc crying is a sign of weakness, and I still believe that. She is a single parent and I rarely talk to my dad. Not bc she doesn't let me, but bc I never wanted to. However, they both love me but I'm extremely disconnected from my dad and connected with my mom. I'm the only child so I've always wanted brothers or sisters but as I got a little older I realized that I like being the only child. I never post anything on Facebook anymore and I'm 16, bc I don't want to post stupid things or have a future job see things on my Facebook that are not a real representation of who I am. I want to look like a professional. I do work really hard for what I want. But I feel like it's partially bc I've made myself a workhorse and bc I want to make my mom proud of me. But, I haven't always been this way. A lot of teenagers don't have this awakening at an early age about how important the world is and what you have to do to make it in a harsh world, but I do. I've always questioned why the world is the way it is since I was younger. But, when I was watching this I was like oh my gosh, she's talking about me. By the way my mom sometimes tells me that I don't do anything, but I work really hard and beat myself up, so I dunno.
Ty j same
Omg I am consumed with emotion,I couldn't believe how true this. When you said that that cancer mc don't post because there scared of the fear of rejection, my heart stopped. To top it off I'm a scorpio sun,cancer moon in the 10th house so it's intensified
Thank u so much for this
This is scary accurate
Yes i agree very accurate
Lmao true. My father was always busy to give me attention, so my mother was in charge of me. She was abusive and would always control me and try to mold me into a perfect child. :S
Spot on! I’m a Cancer MC and I don’t post on social media a lot for these exact reasons!!!
I'm crying as you explain the on;line posting situation! It's true. I do hold the pain. God you're a freaking psychologist! Thanks for healing me. I realize this, so now I can know. My family life was shit, too.
I have this placement and your remarks about childhood had me crying. Very true, indeed.. :/ Thanks for the understanding- this was a perfect.
Giiirrrll! That Bible verse is my favorite one. "Guard your heart for all you do comes from it " my goodness.
Now I know why I related to Britney when she had that public meltdown. When other people mocked her and condemned her for doing that, I defended her by saying I could understand why she did that.
Jennifer Aniston is a libra rising as I do. I can understand her sadness as well.
This video really hit home for me. I have a Capricorn IC and a Cancer MC and this is all true. My mother was the strict parent and my dad was always working. My mother was very abusive, mentally, physically and emotionally. I would always ask my dad can I go to work with him to get away from her. I do consider the world my family and I am extremely loving.
A childless Cancer MC here due to an absolutely controlling bully of a mother which caused me to hate being a child and other children, so I never wanted any. Im 58, and yes I'm weird...apparently, maybe afraid of saying no to people too.
My solution is I have become a recluse doting on the animals who live with me. F*** the world lol
Do you think we survive by hoping (hopelessly) that someone will rescue us with love one day?
Jd Ck i hope you will feel better someday. Anyway fuck it
I feel for you too, I don't want kids because being one sucked, and besides, having to birth kids is probably just societal pressure, so in this day and age that's already irrelevant. Also why use kids to make the parents feel happy, right? You do what you want to do, you being happy is the only important thing. Having other people to share that happy life with is purely optional. Be happy always, fellow Libra AS 💕🌟
britney and jen both have this kind of sad persona to them. its a little hidden but its there. cool thanks alyssa
I love Britney's song Lucky. Seems like she was pushed into the industry and had no idea what it was like.
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i honestly broke down crying in this video :( painful truth
Amy Jo Torbett I have the flip cancer ic and Capricorn MC and I had similar feelings watching mine.
💓 god bless you
Ocean r 😁😁
Having a Cancer MC is rough, but in the end we're better because of it :) thank you so much for this video!
"when you're a Capricorn ic you only have one parent" omg so true for me my dad was never there in my life my mom is a single mother in the sense that my dad is not there (bc my mom is not single)
Sameee
This made me cry and helped me understand myself better. Thank you
Watching this after your new Midheaven video you just posted and wow all I have to say it’s insane how accurate this is for me it gives me chills. Mom couldn’t raise me due to drugs so went to my maternal l grandparents by default. My Grandma was a crazy stage mom and I HAD to do dance like NOTHING else mattered I HAD to do what she wanted me to do which was dance…literally my every breath and entire being was under her thumb while my Grandpa was always gone working all day, never really saw him. He never loved me and always turned a blind eye to the abuse I was receiving from my grandma and disconnected from his family. I can’t wait for your new midheaven series. Thanks for all that you do.
Truth!! My dad kept me from my mom growing up. I was expected to take care of my younger siblings and keep the house clean. My dad used to brag his kids were built for working.
i was doing what my mom told me, all the time, i was like a robot, now i don't care about this idiots and i do what i want
this is SO accurate! my boyfriend has his mc in cancer and it fits 100%
thank you so much for your videos! you're an amazing person
First just listening to this video, I was thinking JK Rowling had a Cancer MC because she rarely tweets anything. Then finding out she does have a Cancer MC from watching this video, it was MIND BLOWING!! XD
And they are trying to cancel her now
Grew up in an orphnage for most my life and it was strict with a lot of rules, also had to work hard there ( it was called earning your keep) . People can be very mean and can take advantage because of being careing. Very acurate in a general sense.
Wow...thank you so much. This video really helped me out on a dark Christmas night and hit the nail on the head. Cancer MC does give me so much love for others and expose me to such vulnerability and yet here I sat, not even so much as a text message on Christmas day from actual family. Your video helped me remember that I'm far from alone, and to protect my heart 💜
This is so helpfull to me. I used to date a cancer MC and i have been confused ever since. What you say about Britney is so true. I started to really like her when she was judge on x-factor. She really did a good job and coming back from a breakdown. She really cared for her artists and was selfless in her guiding them. And shes funny :) I saw an interview and her birthdaywish was vacation 4 times a year. The vegas show is almost one show pr day. Thats a lot of work. I hope people recognise the hard work before they judge
This was so accurate almost made me cry! My sun is in Sag Mc in cancer. So accurate for me. My mom wasn’t there for us growing up so I had to help raise my two younger brothers while my dad worked 24/7 to support us.
Me and one of my brothers have capi IC and our dad died when I was ten. We're living with our mom now and she's trying to make us performers...
LMAO, I'm a Cancer MC with a twitter account that I barley use. But one of the tweets on there is a picture of a coffee mug that says on the side "Britney Survived 2007. You can handle today." I don't even listen to Britney Spears. Maybe I should check her music out.
i just really resonate with this i love pleasing people i thought it was just my libra asc but i also thought that it’s so strong in me tho like i love making people happy and being in the world. i sell cosmetics and i’m really good bc i connect with so many people and want to talk to everyone. i really do love the world
You explain things in a very friendly and easy way which makes a lot of sense. I never knew the Midheaven can drive my instincts so dominantly, but it sure does so, especially when I am out in the 'real world'.
i rarely comment on videos (which i guess is fitting now i've seen this), but i just wanted to say thank you so much! this video was frighteningly accurate and really struck a chord with me. i have just been trying to figure out my rising sign, and my upbringing matches up a little bit too well with libra rising with a cancer mc. i guess with a cancer mc and a pisces moon, i've got to protect my heart, which i often neglect to do. you might not know just how accurate this was for me and i truly, honestly thank you for the future insight you've given me! your videos are great. :)
"when you're a Capricorn ic you only have one parent" omg so true for me my dad was never there in my life my mom is a single mother in the sense that my dad is not there (bc my mom is not single)
btw the ic part is sadly accurate I say sadly bc everything thing she said is true (to an extent) bc i did have a controlling parent and my dad wasn't there and I never felt loved by either and I do see the world as my family (to an extent) and I do just love ppl it just reminded me of my childhood
Akeem Dukes Yep, me too bruh😄
I am cryin, this is so true...thank you...
I have a cancer MC and Libra Asc so marry me lol you are great! spot on btw:)
It’s scary how accurate this is!! I need to start working on my fear of rejection
So true.. and sad. My mom was controlling and narcissistic making me believe my dad did not love me because that's how she felt about herself and reflected that onto me. traumatic childhood and i did seek love/validation through others.
Wow I'm so impressed by how accurately you explain everything, thank you for making these videos. The love you have for it really projects and you're helping many people understand themselves better. Keep spreading wisdom
I would love to know what y'all Cancer MC with Libra AS ended up doing in life (career-wise).
Preferably people with Sun, Venus or Mercury in 10th and Moon in 4th house
I'm a singer :)
I’m a nursing student but also do modeling
A Nursing degree :) I’m a Scorpio sun Leo moon Libra rising and cancer MC
Professional dance artist :)
I’m an elementary school teacher. But I always regret not going to acting school when I was accepted.
Finally makes sense ....i kept seeing that Pisces moon would have a good relationship with their mother usually and I felt judged all my life by both parents who did nothing but tell me what to do and how to do things. This makes a lot of sense and is spot on. Also I deleted FB and IG.... and that helped so much. As an empath it's almost as if being online also contributed to energy draining. Thanks so much for this video. Cancer MC...used to post sooooo much. "Needed" the attention
The parent thing was so true I almost cried...but there is no elevator to success you have to take the stairs....no matter how many flights..
I'm a Capricorn IC and the things about work aren't true for me. What is true though is the cold family life. It's not like one of my parents isn't there or something like that, but the family life is just... cold. My mom basically chose my zodiac sign. She wanted a Taurus and she got a Taurus. Also, my Pluto and Chiron are in the 3rd house.
This made me tear up because it did hit so close to home.
Great job Alyssa. (:
This was incredibly affirming and helped push me along into healing from my very confusing childhood. And no one had ever believed me so then I thought I was the crazy one. So yeah, this helped. Thank you. Your vibe is aces
Oh boy, this hit hard. Thank you for the insight.
In tears from this one. I have mars in cancer in my 10th and uranus/neptune in capricorn in my 4th. Definitely struck a nerve about my upbringing. Thank you for sharing
Krystal Yabor Same! Maybe we were born around the same time.
My father had sun in Cancer and moon in Capricorn so you can imagine who that dominant presence was. Awesome video!
Also Britney Spears has some baad contract and the mk ultra programming ...
Cancer Sun, MC, Mercury & Venus. I've always been treating people like my family, except for my own... because of that rejection that is left from my childhood. I treat my colleagues as if they were all my sons and daughters (even though I'm 20 and these people are all over 40 lmao) I give them the WORLD and so much love. I'm basically their extra daughter. 😂 yet I see them all as my little children. Lmao why am I like this.
Alyssa, when my chart was first introduced to me, the Midheaven was the 3rd placement he gave me and this video is where I was led. Being it was all brand new, your video, your teaching/communication style touched me so deeply, actually I had to pause this video, as you were explaining to me, my childhood. This is the day that I fell in love with you. You are my role model.
My 2 year old son has this placement. He also has Pluto in the 4th, North Node along with Saturn (less than 2 degrees apart) in Scorpio in the 2nd house, South Node sits alone in Taurus in the 8th, his Sun and Moon are less than a degree apart in Virgo in the 12th house (along with Mercury). My husband and I are loving parents and have a good marriage. When I first started learning about astrology about 8 months ago, I was filled with enthusiasm and excitement but now after looking at my son's chart this past July, I am absolutely tormented by it. I cry every single day over this. I just can't picture how all of these awful things are going to happen. Maybe one or both of us will die or we will end up getting divorced. This is just breaking my heart!!! PLEASE help me!!! I don't even look forward to the future anymore! Please, someone help me!
+Angela Smith Angela, everything will be fine. Please don't panic. Astrology can be used to be aware of the tendencies. Most astrologers say that stars impell, they don't compell. Don't panic. Love your child, be awesome parent and don't think that the future is set in stone because it isn't. You have a free will and an ability to make choices. You have your own responsibilities. I believe only few things are predestined, everything else is a result of our deeds.
Don't panic.
Think about it - there is 12 zodiac signs and 12 IC positions. Do you really believe that there are ONLY 12 types of childhoods? Please... There are plenty of factors to determine whether the childhood will be happy or not. Not only astrological factors but also social, economical, etc.
Another thing. There are places on earth where kids die from lack of food and clean water, natural diseases, etc. Do you think that ALL of them has only one kind of IC, rising sign, etc?
Please.. Astrology is fun but not let it instill fear in your heart. Be open-minded, always take things with grain of salt, make choices, be responsible and everything will be fine.
100% accurate and insightful... related to every single word you said. Thank you, Alyssa.
Wow very accurate! I have strong parents (Dragon Aries dad and Dragon Capricorn mom) and I always worked in the business of my dad since young. Had a good childhood, but I do think I could have more fun if my parents had let me go a bit. I run now my own business and the people who work with me i do see as part of my family! The next think i want to do is making jobs available for challenged people. haha and today I was daydreaming to have a school for the youth on the street here in Mexico where I live now (I am from Holland but needed to get away from family influences (again my family is not bad, I do love them)....so I always think professional and social can go together... which you exactly explain here!
Walter Warmerdam I love your comment ❤️
I have been watching your videos for years. I really just wanted you to know that you’re an amazing person with great insight. I want amazing things to happen to you!!!
The accuracy is crazy I'm a Capricorn Sun with a lot of Sagittarius in my chart and a Scorpio moon but this Cancer MC description is so on point
Collectors of pain...I like that. Not being able to be a child really resonated too.
i really love this and the continuation of the video (by article) on your blog.. great work always.
:-D you're welcome hon
idk why I can't stop crying but everything you said in this video was accurate. Idk how to explain but I don't really comment like that on your videos but I love your videos and the insight you give on each and everybody's signs. I can tell you really do your research and really have a calling for what your doing. I been watching your videos for a couple years now and I feel everything that you say on your videos.
the posting online thing is soooo real I post like once a year 😭 at least when it comes to photos of myself
I can across your video! This is great and your a wonderful story teller! Your little guy is so cute! Is he a crystal child? He's probably in kindergarten now! Time flies! Thanks so much it explains a great deal to me! 🙏
This was painfully true.
Yep growing up all I did was fight then after the fight I feel like damn that was fucked up you beat the shit out of them I hated being fucked with and the older I get its even worse pisces sun, Libra Rising ,Sagittarius Moon CANCER MIDHEAVEN.
This is so accurate for me. I'm a Scorpio with Capricorn in my 4th house and a Cancer Midheaven. My mom expected me to do the work she wanted me to do and was very strict with me and my father is absent because he died when I was 13
I loved Aniston before she became popular, and loved Spears after she became unpopular. What was said about Jennifer and babies made me think of the scene from "Friends", where she said her baby was ugly!
These videos just make it all the more shocking how little is written about something so important. Having planets at these points, like my moon conjunct mc and mars conjunct IC, probably changes these equations. Not to mention the different ascendants that go with them, or conjunctions being from the 3rd or 9th houses, also like mine.
Sun in Leo. Moon in Pisces. Asc. Libra Venus in Cancer. Mars in Cancer. sorry if everything is tacky but everything that your saying is true and its really hitting me emotionally cause finally someone understands me :(( .
I really needed this video to understand why I have strong people-pleasing tendencies in public, and having a Cancer MC conj Venus and a Capricorn IC conj Moon just proved to me that I may have to brace being self-reliant because it is true, I have been on the losing end for the longest time. I guess it's time to heal all the crap that happened and minimize wanting the world to love me and focus more on self-love. This is going to be a harsh journey but then again, Cappy IC should bring strength for that. Thank you for sharing, this is never more relevant to me, or other Libra AS than now. Be blessed always 💕🌟
I have this placement. I have this very responsible attitude and can feel this constant pressure of 'you should be working, building status, get serious, be realistic'
Now been burned out two years. Find it hard to find the balance between wanting to fulfill other people's needs (which happens very naturally and subconsciously) and tending my own needs. I feel instantly tired (losing my Self) when around people but I also can't stand being around people and workplaces that are cold and mechanical.
Dear Alyssa
this video you made of cancer mc is so so true ...like everthing ....ic , family etc...
BEST Cancer MC VIDEO!!!
Thank you so much that you explain astrology
Love
This Post is for you because this video is so amazig :)
This made me cry. Also, this was posted on my birthday!
I am Scorpio Ascendant with 3rd House and IC in Capricorn intercepted. My childhood was with ONE parent and im working with Health care in Adults Dementia and challenging behaviour! IC and MC in this are spot on!
I love how passionate you are about it
you really hit the nail on the head with the Capricorn ic take.. I almost shed a tear. My parents divorced and my dad (the cold one) didn’t allow us to see my mother which was the one who was more loving and caring. My grandma was so pushy in her expectations for me and is trying to force me to do stuff that I just don’t wanna do! F that! Also as a cancer mc I definitely always felt like I wanted a family outside of my family if that makes sense. I always felt like I came here to be a mother and friend figure publicly to inspire and support the people who didn’t have that.. like me. This reading was so accurate thank you so much :))
Really right on about this! My childhood exactly. Thanks
you make the best astrology videos, they give you information without being boring and they make sense!
im a libra with cancer midheaven, very true alyssa thank you!
This is accurate Cancer Midheaven Libra rising. I have Jupiter and Chiron in Cancer. I got bullied in school when i was a little girl. But i am not alone about that. Thank you beautiful soul.❤
on point! i've got a cancer mc and sun in cancer. my childhood was pretty rough, but i overcame it. =)
Riley hoo
Trust me cancers are strong
Riley hoo my sun, mercury, venus, part of fortune and midheaven in cancer
MYSTERIES & LIFE PATH! I LOVE LIFE So do I! Are we the same person!? 😂
Omgosh I think so...what's your moon sign and rising sign?
MYSTERIES & LIFE PATH! I LOVE LIFE moon in Aquarius, Rising in Libra. You? :)
I have also noticed so many famous people, especially actors have Moon on the MC.
This was so insightful, watching on behalf of my cancer MC boyfriend & his Mars is also in cancer & it all makes sense now….
Completely agree with this post! :D Love it! Gemini sun sign, moon in Sagittarius and ascendant in libra.
HOLYCRAP. I have the same sun, moon & rising as you!!! I'm so happy now HAHAHA
jessa444 Hmm.......very similar to my chart. Gemini sun, libra rising, cancer mc😄
I post on FB A LOT, but the thing is that it made me learn that ppl can and will bully and can and will talk shit on my back, it made me a bit stronger, but what may sound more relatable to all of this is that what really hurts me is when someone I cared for, and talked to them, and did a lot of lovely things for them does a 180° turn and like unfriend me when it is unmasked that they betrayed me, that they never really liked me or tried to be ok with me.
but I'm a leo sun, I have so many friends, I'm very social and being social +being someone who will try to put the light onto that good thing of you + being nurturing has got me lots of friends so I never run out of love
This made me cry, it explains so much of my life! Thank you for the awesome explanation!
Thank you for making this
Very true for me. Thanks for sharing
WHOA THIS IS SPOT ON!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes my dad went aboard leaving me and my mom. My mom wants me to study hard yet she helps me a lot but now my mom and dad back together, it's still the same.
I don't post a lot in Facebook but I'm there, judging. (Mercury in Capricorn)
Did you feel loved?
Explains so much to me about me..wow!! Loved the video! Thanks a bunch!
This was sooo true, i think its interesting that you see this perspective.
Hey girl. I just recently started watching you. I think you're hilarious and you have a lot of good information. But tonight, was different. I have a friend with a cancer midheaven who went through almost exactly what you described when she was a child. I was looking for the best way to explain to her the situation that astrologically I could already see. Thank you so much. The way you explained it is perfect
Thats right.i did search or try to find warmth from others ppl in society bc i feel like i lack of it sm. I need their support so i can be happy n feel safe.but power needs to grow inside.i then realized that painful lesson.that they didnt want me the way i want n care ab them.then i bc stronger n tougher,but somehow i miss the old kids hide inside me