Darkest Manipulation Tactics Men Use to Control Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ค. 2024
- Darkest Manipulation Tactics Men Use to Control Women
Today, I'm unveiling the 5 darkest manipulation tactics men use to control women. These manipulation tactics can leave women feeling bewildered, anxious, and doubting their reality.
Why do they do it?
Simply put, they view you as a means to an end, seeking to keep you dependent and emotionally tethered to them.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Topic Summary
01:12 Manipulation Tactics 01
02:05 Manipulation Tactics 02
03:01 Manipulation Tactics 03
03:46 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
04:13 Manipulation Tactics 04
05:37 Manipulation Tactics 05
06:59 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
07:27 Closing
01. Withdrawal
A common manipulation tactic involves the man withdrawing emotionally or physically, leaving you questioning your actions and feeling insecure. This dynamic often leads to a one-sided pursuit, reinforcing his sense of control.
02. Mirroring
Did you ever meet someone who seemed like your perfect match, only to realize it was all a facade? This manipulation tactic, known as mirroring, involves mimicking your interests and values to create a false sense of compatibility.
03. Guilt
Manipulators excel at shifting blame and fostering guilt. They may subtly imply that you're responsible for their happiness, leveraging your empathy to control your behavior.
04. Intermittent Reinforcement
Through a cycle of reward and punishment, manipulators keep you on edge, never knowing whether you'll receive affection or scorn. This unpredictability strengthens their hold on you.
05. Isolation
The most insidious manipulation tactic is isolation, where the manipulator gradually removes you from your support network. This can take various forms, from undermining relationships to exerting financial control.
It's crucial to recognize these manipulation tactics and prioritize your well-being. If you find yourself hesitating to express your thoughts or beliefs, it's a red flag worth heeding. While some topics may be best left unsaid, never compromise your autonomy for the sake of a relationship.
For further insights, check out my video on Secrets About Yourself You Should Never Tell Your Partner.
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Reply in the last video you said "look for ways to flirt with a man video" I went through all your videos there is NOT ONE VIDEO THAT SAYS FLIRTING WITH A MAN, where is the link of the video you mentioned?????
I’m a licensed mental health counselor and your information is right on.
1. Pulling Away To Make You Beg For Attention
2. Mirroring To Steer Relationship
3. Using Guilt To Make You Feel Responsible
4. Intermittent Reinforcement/ Hot and Cold Behavior To Mask Negative Experiences
5. Isolate You From Friends, Family, Or Personal Finance To Gain Control Over Your Life
Is there ANY man who doesn't do one or all of these!?!?...
Listen to this man! As someone who was in an abusive relationship (highly narcissistic person) his points are right on.
This video is spot on ! When you are married to an abusive man who controls all the finances and you don’t have money behind you , makes it hard to leave and people can’t understand that .
Yes l understand this situation, l too was in a relationship in which my husband didn't allow me to have a bank account of my own,so l had no choice as to remain by him.
@@kamalatemplin7975 I feel for you
I completely understand it.
Why would you wanna be with anyone that tries to be in control of money? That was a sure red flag!
@@Gotoworkkk This is shown after marriage because of love bombing before marriage.
If he pulls away and doesn’t text, he can stay away. Lol 😆 high valued women do not chase.
Many men get this wrong and listen to bad dating coaches. i only recently had a guy pulling away when i did not have time this week but next week only-felt like he tried to make me insecure so that i give in to his timing more. Was not the first game and we barely know each other, so i ended it yesterday. There is three other men that treat me with respect. i will never again accept hot and cold bs from anyone. Getting scared is not the beginning of sth to me, but the end. Give me safety and fun and i might be yours.
Couldn't agree more ❤
@@raphaelasmile1109 💛
Good luck being with your cats! 🐈
@@Gotoworkkk this man apologized (find that so cool) and we continued, meow
Absolutely accurate. Sadly it's not just some of these things that happen. It was all of them in that exact order. The man I was with did not just isolate me, he waited for his opportune moment when I was suffering from PPD after the birth of our child. I told myself for a long time that it couldn't be that bad because he never put his hands on me. I was wrong, the damage it cause to my mind was far worse. Physical wounds heal quickly, mental scars can last for what feels like eternity. Being stuck inside your own head is the worst kind of hell. He used our child as leverage to manipulate me and control my money. He made me feel guilty because I was the one working while he stayed at home with our child, but he did nothing at home to help me either. My rude awakening was when I thought I was going crazy and that everything was my fault. I confided in him about it and how I thought that maybe it was time to seek help. I'll never forget the malicious grin on his face like he thought he had won...that was the beginning of the end. It took a lot of courage, but it's been 2 years since I left him and I've never been happier in my life.
Thank you for being an honest man and making this video so other women do not have to go through this. Your work is more important than you can possibly imagine ❤.
I wish there were more men like you in this world. May God always protect your beautiful soul✨
now i think i am happy single
Same here 😁💜️
@@SewwandiWaduthanthri lol 😂
👍 Agree
Eyyy wanna start a club lol😂
Thanks for sharing this post. Manipulation is so true in guys who feel insecure
Those men end up playing them self
😂😂
So true 😂😂😂
I loved the way you said we're not Bob the Builder🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣so true and thank you for this insightful video. Please make more.
Loved too! 😆
He is absolutely correct!
Thank you Sir . Now I get to know that I get manipulated by all these tactics in past years,gladly I'm out finally😊.
Exactly Right! For confidentiality reasons I won't reveal why I know this. God bless your work w/ the ladies.
Your videos are always so spot on Ismael. Thanks for always being there with ladies. ❤
This video was great and I want to rewatch it! I saw it last week.
Thank you for this.
Insightful video!! 👍
Thank you!
Good stuff 😊
Very effective ❤
Thank you 💜
Thank you🥰🥰
Thank you. ❤️
Wow what you said makes sense… because after he calls I want to call if he doesn’t call back right away..
- they see you as an accessories...
I must be healed then since I only feel annoyed and impatient when having to be around someone with intimidating to others too body language. While having to avoid crossing my arms with a frown on my face there at the time too instead of only doing my grey rock act there to get by.
*These* are the darkest tactics? Seriously? No wonder I'm not falling for any, since they supposedly "make someone interesting", yet they only bore me to no end.
Ismael, Thankyou for this wonderful video. What would you say about a guy who expresses his attraction to you and suddenly ghosts you from everywhere and doesn't accept any of your friend requests or answer any of your messages. Why does a man brutally break the connection and disappear?
He's pursuing another woman.
Thankyou Ismael. Good for him. He has been very bizzare since the begening. I had told him I wasn't interested in any relationship other than friendship but he was trying different ways to get me.
Correct..
You are describing a narsisst 👏🏼
The guy did mirroring and i thought he was my soul mate
Told me about the abuse but it is real
Intermittent reinforcement
But when he pulled away we ended it
I don't let a men control me not ever I will walk away not worth my time it is selfish I dumped guy that is selfish.
Do u have your podcast?
He makes it look like he does by cutting to clips, but he doesn't. Quite manipulative if you ask me!
What if a guy always be silent when he got angry or the girl got angry. He never come ahead to sort out things. What type of personality is it?
Even if he accused the girl for no matters. After four month of relationship he asked why are you with me? What is your purpose?
Seriously!!! He impressed the girl for the first time.
The girl started the relationship when the guy had lots of loan to repay.
But the guy finally told the girl that he should tell the girl that about the loan.
I mean does it make any sense😅😅 😅😅
If youre responsible for his happiness and wellbeing, make him do what you tell him to 🤷
I finally told mine to take a hike. 😂
❤❤❤
Horrible vacation spot😂
👏👏👏💪🏼
😂i nvr chase anyone & i dont pursue anyone its a waste of time
Thank you Ismael for the helpful information. I want to date a man that makes me feel safe and make me a home not a vacation spot.
How can I make a guy change from seein me as an accessories to more serious one
You have to hold high standards. Do not chase, do not beg, but don’t hide and be polite but short, work on yourself and live your best life for YOU. Don’t expect anything, let him go. The best thing is to find a better guy who will truly appreciate you and become the one who got away.
I couldn't have given a better answer. Thanks for helping others in your journey.
Drop him and go find someone better for you. They're not this one, and they are out there somewhere, unable to be in your life if he's there holding the place of what you really want. ❤
Believe me change a person is not easy, almost impossible. Go find other man who can have mutual respect, acceptance and understanding with you. You deserve better, you deserve to be loved as a human being.
Its not about men or women. Its about paycho or normal human.
❤ you are not Bob the builder. 😊
Plz make a video how to manipulate a Man
CONTROL , CONTROL AND MORE CONTROL ……NARCISSIST ( ABUSIVE AND CONTROLLING MAN) ….ITS A NO GO ….YOU SHOULD TALK ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TOO ….THAT IS A REALITY .
As a man , I'm here to study how to manipulate women😂
Hmm...
Same here
I hope when men take advantage of ur daughter or mother n they come crying to u, u dnt say anything. UTTER RUBBISH
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Yes. Lame AF