Previous females, now male, explain life isn't better as a man, it's much harder.
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Nobody wants to hear about a man's problems, only his solutions.
yes, too many complaints and not enough solutions...look within
I'd like to see this person deal with manly banter. The kind that guy friends dish out to one another. We had a new guy on our trim crew once, young fella. he could not handle the shit talk. He complained to the boss that he felt bullied. The boss told him to grow a pair and dish it back or leave. He left
not even that. they only want the profit from the solution after it was successful
@@justaguy2365 as the youngest guy on an oil rig crew i feel his pain. i can handle the pressure but its sure as hell not as easy for everyone
@@justaguy2365 that's life as a man.
True story:
My wife had texted me that she was leaving me while I was at work. Ten minutes later I bump into a co-worker:
Co: "What's up."
Me: "Wife filed for divorce"
*Pat on shoulder from Co*
Co: "Life sucks."
*Co walks away*
That is the "deepest" male to male interaction I have ever had.
Old-Man Pac-Man If you had said that to me at work I would have replied, “Oh, so I guess you’re going to the strip club with us after work eh?”.
Solidarity in silence
Why’d you get married? Don’t let Your pecker get the best of ya. Pecker and love bad....money, reality and grilled hotdogs, beans and beer good. I don’t even drink an I know beer is better than marriage.
@@grumpycat6429 I guess you still don't know what true loneliness is. Not that, as a man I'm allowed to say or even sugest that I have felt such an unmanly feeling.
rrs been lonely since birth. I know very ingredients that make up that little word and even almost drowned in the river of tar it inhabits. The only reason I’ve haven’t caved nor met anyone to end it is due to me operating in life off of a factual or realist point of view. Reality keeps your head on straight once you put the fantasy’s behind.
Thats why if you compliment a men, he will remember it for years. Because thats the only compliment he got in years.
Even though it's a bit random, but I have to agree with that. I probably remember almost all cases when I got a compliment in my life.
I would have never thought about that. But it's an interesting observation of you.
Thank you for that.
I was 20 when I was complimented for the first time and I was genuinely confused about how to react. This had never happened to me before. Now I am 23 and I only got complimented once in the 3 years since
@@aniruddhrao3489 me too bro I felt the exact same way I just stood there a little confused from it not happening at all
Outside my intellect, to which I am thankfully well above average, I have yet to receive a compliment from anyone but my mother in my entire life.
@@dracomurdock6349 how old are you
We tried to tell y'all, but we got dismissed as mansplaining
Exactly! 👏👏👏
U right
I love it when people use "mansplaining" as an excuse when they don't even understand what the word means. Just man explaining things isn't mansplaining.
Man this, man that...I cannot even sit comfortably without someone getting "oppressed"
@@nedeezy yea sorry my balls are as big as their egos so kinda gotta spread them
Dumped my gf because she matched with a "rich" guy on Tinder after her friends encouraged her.
Later I learned this guy used her for one night then ghosted her.
Then she came up at my door, tears on her face, apologizing profusely. I just laughed and closed the door in her face. Blocked all her friends as well when they texted me to tell me how much of a jerk I was for treating her that way. LMAO
As a girl I've noticed female friends tend to get very jealous of someone's success, so they sabotage their relationships by giving shitty advice or flirting with the guy
how did you find out?
@@ddAAntes Easy, those morons exhibit their lives on social medias
@@av4781 why are you like that girls?
@@av4781 It's the same reason girls tell other girls they look good when they have their beautiful long hair cut short and now look like a dude.
Women: get lonely
Society: OMG are you ok? Have you ate? You need company?
Men: get lonely
Society: (cricket noises)
No no, it's "man up" first then they're leaving, after that cricket noises came later
Society: what a loser, maybe he haven't doing anything good in his life and maybe thats why he is lonely
Me: Gemme them crickets! They'll at least keep me company.
Man: Who needs them?
More like "well, you must deserve it"
"I'm a strong, independent woman." *Relies on all her friends and family for emotional support.*
“I’m a strong, independent man.” Gets no support, be depressed and dies alone.
female: I'm Strong because I complain a lot!
Woman: We want equality!!
Men: But you already......
Woman: SHUT UP YOU MISOGYNIST PIG. We want equality!!!
@@joy211191 so true...
“I’m a strong independent woman” - completely reliant on utilities, internet, technology, public safety, construction, maintenance, and resource extraction jobs done almost exclusively by men.
"I'm a strong woman when other people make it easy for me."
Ok, this isn't helping to achieve equality, or raising awareness. This is finger-pointing and pretty sexist. Both genders deal with inequality, and both sides of the struggle are valid. Petty comments like this won't get us anywhere. As humans, we have to rise above this, and look to improve the future.
@@acid_tongue_4315 It's not sexist or finger-pointing, and forget awareness. It's exactly what I've encountered in my own life. Men say similar things, like how big their schlong is when it's average at best. I'm all for equality, but as a group, no one wants to agree if we are exactly equal in all ways and everything conforms to that, (no women and children first) or we recognize that we are different and we have different advantages and disadvantages. But everyone wants to cherry pick.
@@acid_tongue_4315 on the contrary, getting rid of the hypocrisy is the only freaking way to get out of this mess. Yes some guys have beliefs that don't line up with reality too, true, and I'm all for tackling those as well.
What you're unwittingly suggesting is that we continue lying to ourselves about our supposed "equality" ( *edit* and the true meanings of strength and independance 🤣) like it's gonna make things better? Yeah, no.
@@acid_tongue_4315 your comment is kinda cringe
@@patatoleague4565 Cringe yes. But it's still lined in truth. What I find truly cringe is how much it is actually true.*Cold shivers*
Woman: Hey I didn't become a man to be oppressed! Help me!
Man, smirking and laughing: *MAN. UP.*
God tier comment
Grow a set. 😆
I'M DYING LMFAOOOOOO
Haha!
This is incredible
"Grass is greener on the other side, until you get there, and then you realize that,"
It's not grass.
It's concrete with a picture of grass on it.
Good one
@@ralphfurley4217 You think so? I thought I was just being pretentious.
@Josip Now that's a good one!
Its asphalt with mold growing on it
It's turf.
"That's why men tend to work alone like security guards."
Me watching this video on my phone as a security guard. Working alone for 12 hours a day 6 days a week.
Heaven. I don't like meetings, office politics or doing stuff that depends on the inputs and performance of others, either upstream or downstream. In groups you work too fast for some people too slow for others etc.
@@jgdooley2003 i couldn't imagine an easier job. Show up to work on time and in uniform, don't sleep on the job, don't let anyone enter the restricted area, and email your paperwork in by the end of tour shift. You do all of that flawlessly you can count on yearly pay raises.
@@royalnoob1101 Good to hear.
Paradise!
Yea I use to work security 3rd shift in a big office building alone. Best job I ever had
"As a woman I was treated how a person should be treated(rather than) being treated like a man" she straight up said that being treated as a man is to not be treated like a person...
I still think, years of what men endure cannot be experienced in few years. An average 30 year old man from any part of world whether got proper nutrition or not, whether had money or not, the hardship of just being a man is same and seeing it since maybe 10 year old and enduring it shortly after that, can't be compared.
Thanks for the explanation, nobody would have figured it out
The stark contrast from being a woman to being a man prob feels like being treated as a slave bc that’s how deep the contrast is
I'm sure other women hated you for that
A woman in distress, crying and distraught is almost always approached, helped, shown kindness and offered help. A man in distress, crying and distraught is viewed as dangerous and avoided. EQUALITY!
I have had police called on me because a woman thought that I was on drugs. I have a disability which makes me shake uncontrollably nearly daily. I'm a 24 year old man.
Edit: Corrected "be" to "me". I was shaking so I hit the wrong key.
I never thought of it like that until you said something and now I’m sad.
Mikaya Cox I'm sure I can speak for most men and say that we appreciate you. A female that actually understands and empathizes (or even just *tries* to) is always welcome! Thank you.
Exactly, I've known women who had seen a guy and thought he was a crack head because the way he was acting outside. I look at him and just said no that is just a guy... I think it's women who just don't spend that much time around men to notice the difference.
@Kairi Ali That further illustrates my point. When people find it entertaining when a man is subjected to violence. Sickening. Evil.
The only Male privilege that I've experienced is when my mom and aunt calls me a handsome young man even though a lot of female call me ugly.
That’s not even male privilege. That’s just family members being nice. Mothers and aunts call their daughters beautiful all the time
This killed me
@@GamerNite2007 Noo!!! You ain't gon take that from me too bruh. 😠
My family call me "El Feo" so... Not all family xd
Daughters get way more compliments.
"i feel like im on my own" lol welcome to being a male bro. That is why men including myself value family so high, you have family and outside that nothing.
If you believe you can choose your family, then I’m right there with you. If not, I don’t understand. I’m adopted and don’t interact with my adoptive or biological families. I feel nothing for either. I have some very close friends, though. They’re as close to family as I would want.
@James Mas0n whoa what the fuck
@James Mas0n whatever dude, miss me with your fringe ideological bullshit excuse for being a sad racist dink on the internet.
@@FriendOfTrashPandas how does he come off as a racist to you?
@@saanijaan2582 don't be disingenuous. He's asserting that one's race ought to be like an extended family. That race is a biological reality. That the scientific understanding of race as social construct, supported bt broad consensus in all relevant fields is a "marxist myth?" Marxism is a theory having to do with modes of production and with economic systems. Marxism hŕas shit to do sith race. He's decrying the fact that we know our modern idea of race was invented by Europeans to justify mistreatment of the so-called "lesser races," while asserting that it is right and natural for people of the same race to stick together. There is no un-racist interpretation of what the guy is saying.
This is my all time favourite segment. A trans man saying
"I had it soooooo much better when I was a woman"
PRICELESS
I had a feminist girlfriend and tried to explain to her that being a man isn't all rainbows and sunchine
"bouhouhou poor white cis male"
if only i could have shown her that video and shut her up
Woman: turns into man.
Woman: Wait you guys get treated bad too?
Men: hey you’re finally awake
Who
Are you ?
Watch your tongue! You're speaking to Ulfric Stormcloak, the true high king
Man:
Solitude Guard: Let me guess - someone stole your sweetroll...
No lollygagging
“First time?”
I met a drunken man in his fifties at a bus stop late at night. He told me his friend had committed suicide by jumping from a cruise ship, leaving wife and two kids behind. I guess his friend had noone to talk with, and this man had noone to talk with either, except a stranger at a bus stop.
Damn
Fuck man, thats harsh
Hope u talked with him enough
He told it to someone?! He should have jumped too or changed genders
@@mitjakovac278 society 😔
There was a book called Self Made Man about a lesbian who went undercover as a man for a year and a half or so and in the end had a mental breakdown. It was made in 2006. It also showed how little women understand men and it's one of my biggest issues, women think their empathetic but they never consider men in their thoughts
Ironically, in Real life, i see more empathetic men than women
i feel men have more empathy than women
Men and women naturally don’t understand each other and they don’t have to.
women underestimate the troubles of men but empathy has nothing to do with gender
@@solitarioerrante4296 We just express it in a way that society doesn't deem correct to count or can even recognize.
So testosterone treatments gives women the red pill. Haha nice.
Something like that
It’s a literal red pill 😂
@@j0m658 Lol no
loophole
Bro 😭😭😭
Women: we are the most empathetic
Also women: Cant possibly empathize with a man unless they literally become one
"Women: we are the most empathetic". This is not entirely the issue. Women use empathy MORE. That DOES NOT MEAN THEY USE IT BETTER! It does not mean the use it correctly!!! I've found that men use empathy better than women!!! Men deny it when it's not needed and award it when it is warranted.
The root of true empathy comes from understanding. When we know what it feels like to break a bone so when we see a limb snap we wince. Thats empathy. Most women cannot comprehend what its like to be a man so they cannot have true empathy. Empathy comes from development but as young woman are largly protected from the brunt of society they do not develop it as well or at least at the same rate as men in society. I dont think its till they have a son they start to develop empathy to men and the same can probably be said about men haveing daughters.
@@adznz11 I agree but even after child birth they still apply empathy on a wide bases and this is still dangerous. They don't allow their sons to take reasonable risks. This is where the men have to take control and allow risk to happen. And women have to help men and council us when we're going too extreme on risk. We're supposed to meet each other in the middle and the technocracy has disrupted this very very successfully. Mother especially should never ever make public policy.
Yeah... It's like they can only see what they want, and what is beneficial for them... Sounds about right.
@Joona Ahonenit's an extremely common cliche. Cliches exist hecause they are so often said that they become a stereotype. You can't seriously be trying to claim that you've never heard women being described as the more empathetic sex?
Woman becomes a man, nobody cares. Bruce Jenner becomes a woman, makes cover of Vanity Fair and awarded Woman of the Year. That tells you everything you need to know.
They even forgot Bruce charge of manslaughter too cuz he transitioned
@@SourClout MAAMslaughter more like
@@MrFooSteven hell yea brother
@@MrFooSteven Cracked me up lmao
I do not understand the point that you are trying to make, could you explain it to me please?
"They were taught how to deal with this at an early age"
No... we just dealt our entire lives.
Girls: Has friends to turn to when sad
Guys: Pain. Just Ｐａｉｎ
Woman:my pain is much greater than yours!!!
Man:heh
@@frenchtrueneutral5637 depends physical or mental because one of my female friends said that periods feel like they're having a heart attack thats just what I heard
@@tantalicwl6461 (i'm assuming you're a woman)
welp, according to my motherthe pain varies between women (talking about periods), but i as a man can say that being hit in the balls is just as painful (enough to make you unable to walk), altough it lasts for 5 minutes it is a constant threat.
Mentally, i can suppress my emotions and keep a straight face in any situation, but it's hard to always support my sisters, it's hard to see my mother go emotional for nothing, maybe i'm overdoing it but...
I've seen it, mentally and emotionally, i'm much more resistant...
@@frenchtrueneutral5637 srry but I'm a male but hey at least you told me you thought what gender I am .some people just think I'm a female so they say stuff like "hey cutie"and its very wierd
@@tantalicwl6461 no problem, have a good day (or night idk your timezone)
The perks of being a man:
1. You can piss while standing up
2. You don't have to shave your legs.
3. You don't have to walk back and forth as much when moving atuff from one place to another, as you can carry more weight.
4. You are less likely to get raped, you just get murdered instead.
5. The bois. I don't think women can understand fun with the bois.
And I guess thats it.
Dating is harder, getting a job is harder, education is harder, trying to not look threatening is harder.
Live is harder.
True
Women don’t have to shave there legs but I see where you’re coming from and yeah that seems to be the truth
Most of the women I know don't have to shave their face.
@@Eat-Z-Bugs ...YET
We don't get periods, we don't have children and we're stronger.
The sad truth is a man is loved based on what he provides. Only women and children are loved unconditionally.
nothing is unconditional
Chris Rock
@@daieast6305 you can think that, but its what i've seen. i've only seen women and children loved unconditionally.
@@namepending8587 i'm well aware chris rock said it, but it doesn't make it any less true.
I don't know... I certainly don't like badly-behaved children and I sure as hell have nothing that could even remotely resemble what one would call "love" for fat pink-haired feminist whales. Just sayin'.
Its kind of depressing that they didn't have empathy for men until becoming one.
That's how female nature works
@@lightghost7524 Its like being a king in the old times, you live in royalty and luxury and never realize how hard it is to live like the civilians until you get dethroned.
Women can't have sympathy, it requires you to not think about how you feel for a second
Can you elaborate on that?
“Wish someone would have prepared me for this.” We’ve tried. We were called names and dehumanized for saying anything. So find out the hard way.
Incel, manosphere, neckbeard...
@Draven's Cringe Gaming it's real easy to confuse some of that with incel behavior because their whole thing is "be nice so you can get in their pants and if they refuse, they're a slut and a tease for getting me this hard just to blue ball me."
A passive woman can get through life just fine
The world is dark souls mode for a passive man.
A man had better get unpassive quick fast in a hurry.
If men's lives are dark souls then woman's lives would be Skyrim
It’s ait bro, pretty sure some of us had finished at least one of them dark souls game.
@@frightfulfox9614 Depends on where you live. Women in Western countries have it much better, but in Muslim countries women are treated like shit.
Dark souls is fair, but challenging, unless you're talking about dark souls 2, and men have it unfair compared to women
Women become men, women who become men most affected
lol
Try saying it 5x fast.. Lmao
🤣🤟
Perpetual victims. Lol
Women become men and they hate it, women who are still women most affected.
Female Entitlement: "I don't care what it's like to be a man, until I hear it from the mouth of a WOMAN."
nah. they don't care either cos it doesn't fit their narrative. the pink wall is a very real thing.
nah, idiots don't care when their people actually says a true fact. I don't believe a flat earther sent to the moon and saw the round earth will stop flat earther existence
@@deettee6794 Thats so cute! the pink wall~
[ A woman transformed into a man ]
The society: “Well done. You played yourself.”
Sort story: changed sex, disappointed there's no male privilege.
You forgot they found female privilege
I thought male privilege was when people ask you to help them move heavy things.
@@roberts1677 how is someone asking me to do shitty things a privilege? Privileges would be when you don't actually have to do anything
They obviously transitioned for the wrong reasons. It's like a crossdresser starts to think they are a woman because of makeup and pretty outfits. Real trans people are grateful and live to their truest happiness but most of detransitioners do not have gender dysphoria so they cannot cope with the change.
@@random_balisong_guy8583 i think you missed the joke buddy
Yea my younger sister is all about women, women’s rights, women’s problems and such and when my father talks about men’s issues, she dismisses it as unimportant. My father said once, in response to her, “so it’s ok to belittle men?” and she changed the subject
if you want to show her her hypocrisy, mention womens rights for women that dont live in 1st world countries. for example, the wage gap isnt really an issue if you look at the fact that in some countries women have their vaginas sewn shut to protect their virginity. kind of hard to break through that glass ceiling when your someones else's property. you will find that these modern "feminists" dont really give a shit about women, they just give a shit about themselves.
men dismisses mens issues but you not ready for that type of conversation.
@ Oh shit, then I guess it's ok for her to do it.
Imagine having the gall, as a woman, to interject yourself into a conversation that men are having about men's issues to try and dismiss what they're saying by saying men dismiss men's issues. No man dismisses men's issues as much as most women do and you have no fucking idea even though you're one of them that does it as evidenced by the comment you made. I'm sure the irony of what you wrote missed you by the width of a continent but if somehow manage to actually comprehend what you just did then take that and multiply it by a million and you get the typical amount of dismissal from women that men experience on a daily basis on every conceivable issue.
@@quigglyquartermane3923
Women protecting their virginity is an issue to you?
@
You bumped your head...
Idk, I'm a female (albeit sheltered), but as soon as I found out about these things, my heart hurt for y'all. I know y'all are the same species as me, and can have even sweeter hearts. I'll defend what's right always, especially regarding y'all, my brothers
I actually have an interesting perspective, I'm mtf. An interesting perspective is that mtf people don't ever experience any of the "male privelige" yet experience all the down falls.
@@jennamiller3114 sorry, lived most of life under a rock, what's mtf
@@jennamiller3114 Can you go into detail about it? I'm just really interested in hearing your experience since it's not one you get to hear about often.
@@vitisvinifera1590 Male to female
@@migueljuarez6788 thought so, just wanted to be sure. Thank you kindly
Funniest part is, as a man I didn't realize I had lived so long with all these problems until I watched this video 😂
Some men's problems seem natural with the time
@Zara for universal lord haha, wouldn't that be a dream come true! 😏
@Zara for universal lord the fact you're on month 8 and it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it's not going to happen. Maybe it's a process, and you are growing into it? Maybe eventually it will happen and it will become your new reality?
oh wow
@Draven's Cringe Gaming Is it weird that as a woman I'd like to do that but don't want to seem like I'm trying to dominate you guys and topple the patriarchy with a simple gesture? Literally had to ask my mom if it was socially acceptable for a woman to pay for both during first date or even be the one to go up to a guy and ask him out. Surprisingly she said it's okay, maybe not to the money thing because i had to rephrase (she got confused what i was asking) but about being the one to make the first move. Honestly wish it was more normal than to expect guys to pay for everything. I wanna feel like we're in it together, and i know not every date i have will be a winner. Just sometimes i wanna say that I got the guy. You know like, "Getting the girl" but in reverse? I know its objectifying. But I wish i had the confidence to, because the thought of doing it make me feel nervous in a happy way than just waiting for someone to come to me, it feels like i accomplished something. I bet some guys feel the same when they ask a girl out and they say "yes".
Wait till she becomes an 'old man'. The isolation and suspicion gets worse.
Old woman
Wonder how much she spent on that operation.🤔
@@oil1252 she"ll be perceived as an old man not women
Communist Maoist Morons oops Social Justice woke Warriors leftists Feminist Democrats paid by China to destroy the Western World why are you not supporting the trans man ?! What happen to supporting diversity ? Sigh... Hypocrites !
That's my biggest fear, especially after seeing how my father is treating in his old age and with mental illness.
“I wish somebody would have prepared me for this.”
Two words, man up.
🤣😂Exactly. Man up
She can’t she’s a woman 🤣
@@TheLloyz Good comment. Her comment shows that she always will be a woman. Nobody "prepares" any man for any of this and no man expects to be "prepared". The great thing about being a man, is I know I was left totally alone to sink or swim....and I swam.
Jay Campbell exactly!
Man up shouldn't be a thing it's like saying to a woman that's going through a hard time and they need help and someone says "Woman up" when that person asks for hell it's basically telling you to be what you're "suppost" to be and act like it
"You just nod."
"How was work today?"
"Good."
I laughed so hard ahahha. It's so true.
"Cool" "Same old, same old." "Eh, you know how it is."
Top three answers for guys to a "What's up?" from another guy.
@@EternalVirgin you forgot "It's fine/ this is fine/ I'm fine"
@@EternalVirgin And “Nothing much”
In the UK it’s often not even that. It’s ‘alright?’ And the response is ‘alright?’. That’s it.
@@drunkcatphil9911 I get You. It's kind of random, depends on the mood and day and/or colleague. Sometimes it's just "how's it going?" / "How's it going?" over here too.
My ex left me via note. Shes older than me.
Sbe got annoyed with me because i had just got home from going to the shops for her and she gave me a billion instructions simultaneously
Before i could sit down she asked me to roll her a joint, make a tea, get her biscuits, find a takeaway menu, roll her a cigarette, phone up and order the food, then asked to get more biscuits and roll another joint and i was so overwhelmed and i said "i'm just going into the courtyard to drink my tea just for 2 minutes of silence, I'll be right back"
She flipped out at me when i returned saying i had no right to feel overwhelmed by her instructions. Insulting me telling me that im cruel, worthless, stuck up and dumb.
Doing the whole "who do you think you are to be able to dismiss yourself from me when I'm giving you instructions?"
Then later that night she flipped out again because i fed my neighbours cat. She accused me of sleeping with everyone on the block and i got a text from that neighbour asking "is everything okay".
so my ex was like "you're obviously sleeping with her too! Nobody your age will ever like you because you are loser and you should k*** yourself; this world will be so much better without you in it".
And i cried and asked "why would you say that?"
She said "stop crying p××syhole" and kept shouting at me about how i am a bad person
She left the next morning and put a note on my table saying "Alex for f××× sake you are so depressing i can't take it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and grow some b×ll×cks. If you are really so depressed then just give me all your money and i will k×ll you properly. Goodbye"
The annoying thing, i never said nothing about being depressed i only cried because her words made me feel humiliated and confused because i really hadn't cheated on her or anything
You dodged a bullet there man. She sounds like a controlling narcissist.
Hope you've been ok - there's the chance to learn how to develop yourself and avoid women like that in future. Hope you've been able to take it 🤞
Nice guys will fail to set boundaries and be assertive, which is what women want.
From your story, you sound like a nice guy (not a compliment) and you should work hard on being more of an asshole to womens who haven't earned your respect.
Nice guys will fail to set boundaries and be assertive, which is what women want.
From your story, you sound like a nice guy (not a compliment) and you should work hard on being more of an asshole to womens who haven't earned your respect.
The only advantage we have is that we can pee while standing up
Uh we can also write our name in the snow with piss
Not wrong lol
Even then sometimes we can't because the stream splits, or goes off to the side for some reason, and we make a mess, but of course sadly there's no way to predict it.
@@thomasraymond7912 Morning Woad.
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 sometimes it's just a rogue pubic hair, other times the stream comes out more forefully than anticipated. or maybe you're just over at someone's home and not used to the bowl height or circumference--- it's like practicing free throw shooting on a regulation rim your whole life then going to the carnival and thinking you're gonna win the big stuffed penguin for your date your first round of hoop shots.
"I really wish someone would have prepared me for this".
Oh but we did buddy. You just didn't want to listen.
100%!
@Arthur no they wanna say we didnt warn them.
@Arthur an then when we say "but we did" they always argue the "no you didnt" thing.
@@jamesgore7491 Ah, humanity
and its a ... home run ... that ball is outta here 😎
I always check to see if someone is trying to walk thru the door behind me. It’s not to be nice-it’s a safety thing. Never enter a new location without checking your 6.
Is that why men are always looking around like someone’s got a bounty on their head? What is it with men always wanting to know where the exits are???
I just do it because I'm nice and hold the door open for people but it feels really shit if girls treat you like you are some kind of Quagmire for being nice to them and act as if you had _intentions_
Wise. If I see a pregnant girl walk in a train carriage full of people, I would just get up and leave without offering. That way I can still be a gentleman without the fear of being accused of being sexist etc. Not being a simp. Just the right thing to do.
@Bones McCoy That‘s a big brain move right there! I wouldn’t really get offended if somebody calls me simp, it’s pretty cringey at that point because kids overuse it. It became pretty meaningless in my opinion.
I agree its a safety thing. The bad part is I have high anxiety that makes me operate at a 5 on the situational awareness scale and that is really mentally and physically draining
Very true, I went through a major health crisis with a brain cyst. No one called me, and no one but my parents cared. Literally, I was told possibly my personality could change completely if the cyst needed to be removed and there would be brain damage caused by the surgery. None of my "close friends" could be bothered to come to visit me/ call. The girl I was seeing ghosted me too. I ended up spending months completely isolated yet surrounded by "friends and Family". I told a close female friend about how scared I was about possibly having to under brain resectioning surgery, and she made fun of me for being emotional. After I found out I didn't have to have surgery, everyone acted like they were there for me the whole time. I ended up getting jumped and nearly beaten to death at my celebration party a week later. No one called the cops, and I was locked outside to die by the same people who told me hours before they would never turn their back on me again. If you're a man, no one is there for you. Even my female therapist who I was paying hundreds of dollars a session told me she could see me anymore because I was "drug-addicted". I smoked weed a couple times a day to help me with my ptsd. I feel like my experience would have been different if I was a woman.
It would have been different as a woman, but you had a group of toxic fairweather friends and girl there it sounds, really sorry.
The cancer scare at least, if nothing else, showed their true colours is one way to look at it. I don't want to say you dodged the bullet exactly, given what happened, but better to know at least for the future.
Keep in there 👌
Life has always been way more difficult for men. Men always did all the hard work and were expected to die for their families. Still the same today, we are just no longer rewarded for all our sacrifices.
Compiler Revolt Sadly we only get recognized for our life and efforts when we’re dead. Ever notice that? People put in good words at a funeral. No one ever gives us awards or anything for doing good jobs as fathers, husbands, leaders. Unfortunately government treats men as disposable. Divorce courts have no sympathy for men.
@@mpeacraft8585 With all the statues being torn down, they're not even recognized in death anymore.
Rs Rt I think in cases like that it’s more about what the statues represented in ideology rather than actual summation or the life of that individual.
davy boy I believed this as well. Unless we come up with a groundbreaking discovery in science, technology, we’ll continue to live life without much recognition. It’s a different situation for celebrities. Interestingly it’s defined as a celebration of an individual. Everyday men deserve that title more than actual celebrities.
Women most affected
Bill Burr touched on this in one of his sketches. Women cherry pick when it comes to the parts of 'mens life' they want to take. They look at the 'good' bits and pretend the rest don't exist.
Hahaha,... I loved that bit from bill burr. It was the truth of it that made it hilarious.
Yeah, like picking your favourite foods from a buffet.
@@conorm2524 was that Burr who did that? I've been using that reference for years and could never remember which comedian it was "equality is NOT like a buffet".....
@@muskokamike127 Yep Burr. He's very on point in general. Too bad the girl power movement will never watch what he does.
Average men are invisible to them, they only see Top men which are doing great. But if you´re trans i hardly beliebe you will become top man.
A trans man telling a woman; "Just STFU & give me a straight answer".....ROTFLMAO
That’s when you know it’s bad when an ex-military man doesn’t recommend the military for younger generations. 😥
Life on recruit difficulty is easier than on veteran? Ssssssshhhocking.
My life from 15 to 25 Ultra Nightmare
Birdman
We’re on Veteran difficulty? No wonder why I need a co-op buddy to help me with life.
@@fabiomoreira5820 Its better after 30, its good your learning red pill now that later. I learned it at 27-28 and trying to make up for lost time, im 31 now.
i never really understood how someone can be so disillusioned with reality to transition on their own free will from royalty class (women) to the peasantry (men), but the other way around makes totally sense to me.
Woman: If I want power, I'll become a man.
*Becomes a "man" *
Wamen: you don't matter anymore and you lost your female privileges! you're a man now! You're the "patriarchy".
Transitioned man: *shocked Pikachu face*
The reason why Pikachu is loved so much is because it's voice and design is a perfect representation the of a Japanese female shocking.
@@KallusGarnet pikachu a goat
@@KallusGarnet weebo fetishes?
Women: "Wow, men have it so much easier in their lives! I bet it's better to be a man! I'm going to be one!"
Men: *laughs in depression, 70% suicide rate, and bearing the brunt of all the responsibilities in society*
@@idkmlb7735 "a lot of women"
Now that's a stretch and a half if I ever seen one
@@idkmlb7735 I have seen some feminists actually consider such issues as men's consent. It's rare but it happens. Of more concern from an, "I care about men too." perspective is that the messaging from every aspect of society is off. It doesn't help much for an individual woman to be willing to consider individual males when every male can clearly see in every single media throughout society that no one cares. On The View on of the 'ladies' stated that ,"Men don't feel the same way women do so Women shouldn't care about men." If anyone even tried to reverse that they would be canceled before they were done speaking. If you really are serious about helping men be willing to call these stuff out. Men aren't going to be willing to trust you until you earn it. Most of us know that women who do this are going to take a LOT of stuff for it, but you will also earn some trust for doing it.
It is less important to men to have 'support' than to stop the beatings from happening in the first place.
@@idkmlb7735 Men have been (sometimes literally) beaten into keeping silent. The current president of the USA has stated publicly (and got elected saying this) that back when he was in school he would take the men he was talking to 'out behind the gym' if they said something he didn't like. the only time women EVER face anything like that is during something everyone including ME would say was domestic violence. As men are so often told that men don't know what it is like to be a woman, well women don't know what it is like being a man.
@@idkmlb7735 you aren't going to change how men react in a situation that even benefits them when for 3 generations we've been told shutup, women are the marginalized group. I get what you are saying, but men also found out that they are perfectly happy to play by themselves and there's less drama and issues. Now when it even benefits men you want us to speak up? Nah, last time I spoke up someone told me I'm an idiot for having an opinion. I'll just avoid the conversation all together.
Yep. *laughs in 2 failed suicide attempts, crushing depression causing psychosis symptoms, relentless bullying, being ignored in tertiary education, being passed over for jobs despite being overqualified, being routinely abused by family members and only being able to get help after 14 years.*
Since I was about the age of 12, when I started joining the internet and social media, I have been taught that I am a threat to society because of what's between my legs, that I can't show emotion, that I have to be the one to provide, that I have to be the "man of the house". I was also taught that women had the power, not by people saying it but by how people act around women compared to men. If someone insults a woman due to her gender, or in fact anything about her, she will have hundreds of people come to defend her and those people will full out attack the person who said that mean thing, If a man gets insulted, you might have a few people defending him, but the majority will probably agree with whatever the insult is, often claiming they're "taking down the patriarchy" and those people wont attack the insulter, especially if it is a woman, as then they will be attacked back ten fold. Through this whole thing, from the age of 12 ish, I have been conditioned to be scared of women, the fact that every time I'm walking along a street or a hallway and a woman is in front of me, I make an effort to not be behind her for too long out of fear that she might get scared or start to suspect me, I'm constantly afraid that I will start to scare women because I am a man, I'm barley 17 and this is how life is for me. I've also been the target of casual sexism as long as I can remember. I personally have a lot of mental health issues, and I've often heard from a lot of women "He doesn't want help, he's a typical man" when all I wanted was help, I just didn't know how to say it or how to explain my feelings because this was the first time anyone would ever listen to me, even my own mum said this to me. "He can't multitask, he's a man" "You never listen to me" are some other phrases I've just come to expect. In this day and age, men are afraid of women, and women are afraid of men, most of the time, this isn't because of personal experience either, people are just told stories about 1 man doing something he shouldn't have done to a woman and therefore all men are pigs, a phrase I hate, along with kill all men. Do you have any idea the uproar there would be if that was said about women? Being sexist towards men has just become acceptable, whereas if you're sexist towards women, even slightly or by accident, you are called a pig, you're disguising, you will be harassed and attacked. It's vile. It's also clear that women don't trust me as much because I'm a man. If I am fully honest, I am terrified of women, because they could ruin your life by just saying one sentence, "He took advantage of me". One of my ex's went nuts after SHE broke up with ME, not the other way around, she managed to convince all my friends that I had used my mental health to get my way, that I threatened to take my life if she left (something she did to me actually) that I once followed her around her house after the break up. At one point I was scared she would straight up say that I had sexually assaulted her, because if she could convince my closest friends I did all that, then what was stopping her from saying that too? This isn't to say my friends are bad people and aren't good friends, it's to say that men are scared of women and have been conditioned to trust them by default because only men can abuse and sexually assault women right?
There's so much more I could say and rant about but I just had to get a load of things off my chest after watching this video, society is fucked up and the rulers capitalize on this by pushing the agenda because it makes them money. Thank you to anyone who read all this, I hope you have a good rest of your day, and if you're struggling, whatever race or whatever gender you identify as, don't give up. Because once you reach rock bottom, the only way you can go is up.
Men deserve to be supported. It makes me sick that they're ridiculed and laughed at when they try to open up about their struggles.
I'm sorry for what you're going through and thank you for sharing your experiences 🖤
Wow, sorry you had to go through that.
I feel you haha. I always feel like a fucking weirdo if I walk behind people and expect them to think that I'm a crazy stalker. I never know if I should walk faster to overtake them and make them think that I will snatch them or something or if I should force myself to walk slower and gain some distance lol
I'm sorry that you have to deal with so many toxic people. Hopefully you will learn to develop a sixth sense for people that helps you to figure out if they are good company or if you are trash.
Also, it makes long texts easier to read if you divide the text into a few paragraphs. I think many people scroll past this comment because they are too lazy to read and are scared off by the long text. The text won't get shorter of course, but I think because it's more structured, more people will read it :)
And thank you, good sir, for taking the time to articulate your thoughts! This comment is appreciated! I think it also opened my eyes a bit, since as a girl I never really knew why I had a fear of being followed (simply because someone was walking behind me). So I'll make sure to remember that men are just humans too and we've all got places to be!
peace!
Me too. I make an effort not to follow behind a woman, especially fair skinned ones for fear of being accused of being a perv. If i notice that she is walking the same path for some time, i just stop and let her put some distance before continuing my walk.
The johnny depp situation really shows how a lot of people, especially the media, don't care about mens well being!
Facts
And will smith
Sorry, I’m incredibly out of the loop. What happened with Johnny Depp?
Killermetalwolf pretty sure he got falsely accused of abuse against his wife, so it led him to I’m pretty sure be sacked by Disney since they don’t wanna work with someone that has modern controversy I don’t know, my memory is blurred on the topic
Bloop ah, makes sense.
“Men treated poorly, women most affected.”
underrated
"war is bad for men becuase they might die. but its way worse for women, because they lose their husbands,father and sons"
Hillary Clinton- 2016
@@gewuerzwanze5627 and paycheck
@@Ulrieth14 mostly paycheck
@@vanderwallstronghold8905no they find new paycheck
Transitioned man: i wish someone had prepared me for it.
Other men: Man up
Women say that too...
😂
''Woman up'' xD
A mans motivational quote to achieve anything.
“You want it? Grow a pair and go get it.”
Simple.
The grass isn't always greener on the other side now is it. No surprises here, women think men get all the breaks when in actuality no one cares at all about what guys go through. Welcome to our world.
But the grass do look so better on the other side ,
was the first thing that come to mind too as an old saying.
dont remember when or where that started but its so true in many cases
True. Women think men get all the breaks. What men actually get now is all the brakes.
I prefer.. the grass is always greener over the sepic tank.. lol
I just met a man who was trying to change his gender to a female. He went on and on about how hard it is to be a woman. He said how expensive EVERYTHING for women is. How time consuming it is to be a woman. How men think they can dominate him as a woman... He told me he decided to live as a gay man because it is so much easier.
Its all perspective, no one has an easy LIFE, eventually hardship and discrimination comes to everyone for one reason or another.
@@alisabelove6254 I agree, the difficulties are different, but still there lol.
Dont forget Norah Vincent. You reminded me of her. She is a lesbian and feminist that wanted to have a sex change, but she was smart and decided to test the waters before doing it. She wrote a book about it "Self Made Man".
She had this idea of a male utopia and thought it would be all fist bumps and high fives. And that you'd have instant respect from everyone because you're a man, man lol. Her expectations got flipped upside down, especially when it came to women and dating. She realized that men are generally alone and isolated with little help. And very limited for choice when it comes to expressing yourself etc. She decided to remain a woman, stating that being a woman was something of a privilege.
Would love a link to this...
@@claytongrey988 I tried to pull the link for you, but I keep getting a server error everytime. If you search Norah Vincent youll find the video. ABC interviewed her in 06. If you want to read the book Im sure a free download still exists. I no longer have it.
@@nitrous36 Cheers
I'm reading that book now.
This is actually hilarious
“I wish someone would have prepared me for this”
Yeah.. how?
🙄
Easy Wahman the answer is simple it’s when schools got rid of shop and schooling cook classes! So today’s Women can’t cook or men can’t fix thing himself!
@@terryrodbourn2793 excuses, if you have internet access, theres really no excuse for not being able to cook food well enough to survive on it. its too simple to not learn to some extent.
All she had to do was really look.
@@TANMAN47TANMAN If you
mean simple stuff, yes. There are loads of cook 👩🏽🍳 books for singles.
Every time this argument comes up the first thing that comes out of a women’s mouth is “our lives are harder because when carry kids for 9 months” and the funny part is that most of the women that say that ain’t even pregnant yet 😂
Its because its the only real hard thing they have to go through
Well, if they can withstand the pain of giving birth, a good punch to the face should be absolutely nothing to them since men can take those... amirite, or amirite?
@@DonVigaDeFierro I get your sarcasm and such, but people really don't get how giving birth works. It's painful as hell, but women are literally built to do it. They get flooded with basically the best natural painkillers on earth by their body during it too, lessoning the pain even further.
Lol complaining about 9 months try 18 years!
@@Vexin980
Everybody thinks God was cruel for cursing women with painful childbirth. What they don’t realize is that he was merciful enough to design their bodies with natural anesthesia.
This is why my some of my female friends hated me at first. They were so used to having men help them out with the most mundane activities that when they met me, with my "God gave you limbs, do it yourself" attitude, they were so caught off guard they got annoyed.
Yeah. A lot of my family is like that which is a good thing. I'm not interested in a relationship holding someone's hand the whole time, they gotta hold their own weight
I love that. I wish more men were like this, I fucking hate when men offer to lift basic shit for me.
They dont hate you; you're activating their shit tests. They are trying to manipulate you, and it's not working; which makes you attractive because your a man that can defend her against manipulation if she can get you on her side.
My wife was raised by two older brothers who are alpha males....and a dad who was in many ways the old school dad Joker would love. She was told not to do the helpless female bullshit...and all that testerone means she grew up tough in the right way. I am lucky
@@marklittle8805 that's exactly how my brother's wife was raised as well. She has a dad that didn't treat her like a princess and as a child, she faced the consequences to her stupid actions just like how her brothers would. Lucky you man
This reminds me of that old article about a woman who went undercover as a man and found out the same thing. In fact, she stated that it's a lot easier for women.
@Diggy d Gotta love it right? Men have life soo easy a woman needs therapy after PRETENDING to be a man for a little bit. Cracks me up.
If memory serves, I think Lucille Ball did this .As a homeless man? It was years ago.
@Perverted Alchemist I do believe so.
Her name was Nora Vincent and wrote an interesting book about called "Self Made Man".
Don't forget the "comedian" that did the same
this is why the best thing for a man to do is to focus on themselves and learn to be self sufficient
We need each other
I've had women literally sexually harass me, and when I didn't reciprocate they accused me of being the one harassing her, and literally everyone believed her EVEN AFTER I showed the messages of all our convos, people juat said "you must have edited them" or "omg are you saying she's lying?!?!"
Hahaha That's male "privledge" for you. Isn't it great?
Female to Male is like jumping up from "I'm too young to die!" to "Nightmare" difficulty without playing through the game first.
And without even knowing the game mechanics
Ahhh nice doom reference
Or being told to be a citizen in “No Russian”
It's definitely easier as a woman in some ways. I have experiences from both sides, and as a woman my issues are taken much more seriously and people are more likely to ask about my well-being. The whole "men have it easier" mantra is a lie.
It's not like we get any perks for that
It's difficult but you eventually and quickly learn
Especially when you mess up one of the unwritten laws an ever guy looks and treats you like the devil's spawn
>Complained about being treated like a woman
>Transitioned to a man
>Complained about being treated like a man
Sounds about right lol
Transitions back to a woman.
Sounds like the transition didn't work.
he never said he regretted transitioning, he just said he wished that men weren't treated like yesterday's pile of shit
So, so many of those transgenders are going to revert in 10 to 15 years. Right now it is trendy, they get all (emotional, medical and financial) support, but the novelty wears off - and then they are on their own - again. Especially the 'guys' in this article - because male-bashing is not at its peak, the manosphere growing daily...
Every time I hold the door for people I get happy when people say thanks because I dont get that alot and it makes me feel useful
Decades ago I was carrying a large heavy box and stopped so a woman could open the door for me. She said something like "hurry up, cuz I don't hold the door for no man." Good to know. So I dropped the box on her toe. Not really but she deserved it.
@@robertd9850 my neighbor dropped a box hard, fell on her ass big time... she was hurt... BUT SHE WAS A WOMANIST....
I fought helping her and won my fight... I ignored her, very hard to do for me.
She killed herself a few months later in her bed room. I fully believe womanism did not help her. She was alone and a argued for anything girl power out of no where so I did not help her...
She’s anti human imo. And it made her isolated from heterosexual male energy.
She also had no gay men’s attention ect
As a man you sometimes go years with barely any human interaction. I have never been a woman, but from my perspective it always looks like they have an ubiquitous amount of friendships and events they go to. I get those are often superficial, but just the interaction alone would be great. It can be very hard to pursue a high-end career and remaining stoic through the process.
"Just be stoic bro... Just don't smile ever and be confident bro."
Well, welcome to the party guys. You can consider this video the most emotional support you will ever get. 👍
Exactly
💯
Pretty much ngl, Jordan Peterson does some nice stuff on motivation and things being a clinical psychologist what he says can be enlightening
👍🏻
Yep
"Men and children first"... said no one, ever.
men don't breast feed so why would they
Ive heard it's because 1 man can impregnate 100 women, but 100 men cant impregnate 1 woman
@@phuck8627 what does that have to do with anything
@@phuck8627 some women dont either. So yeah
@@jaidonmoore6268 children need mothers more than they do fathers, literally a fact, men just think they're more important than they are
Female here. I never thought of the struggle of providing family until I started working in corporate (fucking hate it but the pay's good). I set a goal to earn certain amount of money bcoz I was ambitious and money is delicious. Then I worked 10-12 hours/day, 5 days a week. The BS plus workload drained my entire energy I could hardly think of anything else but sleep. Suddenly it hit me that men like my dad who work even longer hours, not supposed to complain, gotta be tough, man up, gotta be wise, can't cry, gotta take heavier load coz physically stronger, n take on the responsibility as provider. I just shudder at the thought, no way I can survive that way. Now i understand my dad's temper and why he smoked 5 packs a day. I never see him cry or talks a lot like I do with my girlfriends. I'm not forgetting the existence of lazy bums and dickheads out there, but I'm thinking of the exemplary men in my life, perhaps only men and themselves know the weight they had to endure to live up to the expectations.
You forgot, two things that just came to mind. I work a labor intensive job which requires strong tech skills , averaging 80-90 hours a week. That being said; dude1: Damn it I think I just broke my finger. Dude2 (standing right next to him): "walk it off" and while your over there hand me that drill. scenario #2........Dude1: Hey where has mike been I haven't seen him in a week. Dude2: I think he is in the hospital recovering from a heart attack. Dude1: That sucks, hey, while you are over there hand me that drill.
Shit. This one actually almost brought a tear to my eye. Thanks for this one. You're a good woman and I wish you the best.
@@johnhand3856 lol walk it off if finger is broken bunch of dumbfucks if people have said this if it happened lol
@@perrycoffey5410 It's a saying in the construction industry. You hit yourhead...........walk it off.............fall................walk it off. It's a saying Google it.
That's why men aren't marrying anymore. You can avoid that miserable life by staying single and being a selfish bachelor.
Especially since in modern day you do all that sacrifice and then your family and life savings get stolen from you and you end up being a single bachelor again anyway.
I enjoy holding a door open when they are really far away and watch them squirm their way to the door faster even though I don't have a problem holding it open a while
you are both a monster and an amazing person
@@elainasynranelt
The duality of man.
Yeah... I've done this. Though not usually on purpose, generally it's because I misjudged how far away they were and the mental conversation I have with myself about whether I'd be a jerk for letting it go after already holding it takes too long and they get there.
Woman: heavily overweighted
Society: Body Positivity
Man: slightly overweighted
Society: Uh, gross!
also what you're saying is just dumb and not true lol, most people are overweight anyway so it's not like all men are seen as gross besides a select few and all women are seen as attractive
Try being an underweight male lol
@@phuck8627 link 1 post where people defend a man being overweight
@@thatoneweebguy6379 do I even have to considering MOST men are overweight and yet most of them still manage to get in relationships and even married? that makes no sense
@@phuck8627
"MOST of them still manage to get in relationships and even married."
You're right. It truly does make no sense.
One of the most telling things is that when a woman has a child she cant afford, she gets a check, when a man has a child he cant afford, he gets a bill.
..or jail time.
Soap time!
Slavko Bogdanic love the enthusiasm! Keep it up 👍
If you're a single man raising a child on your own you also get a check if needed. Ya dumbfuck.
and the victims are always the kids
I completely relate to what the men in the articles are describing, but in reverse... I was born male then transitioned to female in my mid-20s, and for the most part, my life has gotten much easier.
Some men do talk over me and disregard my opinions more than they used to, but they're few and far between, and on the whole, it almost feels like people are more likely to listen and take me seriously. I work in IT and spend nights working on a biomedical engineering degree, so a lot of the time I'm the only woman in very men-dominated spaces; when I do speak my mind on something it almost seems like everyone stops and listens because I bring that different perspective. On top of that people seem to care, like really care, about what I'm feeling and how my mental health is. Also, just like the men in your article, people take my opinion far more seriously when it comes to minority issues... or even political issues. I'm very pro-second amendment, when I used to discuss the political issues related to it, people used to stereotype me as 'just another gun-nut guy', but now people who strongly disagree with me on political issues are far more likely to listen to my stance and have open good-faith discussions about the nuances of the issues.
The only big thing I feel like men have that I had to give up was the brotherhood close guy friends can build. I'm a vet (Marines), and I had that close bond with my brothers I served with. When I transitioned they didn't see me the same and they all pushed me away. It's easier for me to make friends now, but it's not the same with girls... I used to trust that if life got crazy and everything fell apart, you could turn to your brothers to watch your 6 no matter how dangerous. There isn't anything quite like that for women as far as I've seen, sadly.
@Michael Dinneweth a lot of it really just comes down to the guy... the ones who talk over me usually either don't realize that they're doing it or else they do it because they're insecure. A few guys really are what the radfems blow the whistle about, but most are just good guys who don't mean anything by it
I think a lot of the girls who complain about 'mansplaining' really just don't get the way guys talk; it's not like how us gals talk where there's a lot more give-and-take with us cueing from each other, with guy style communication it's a lot more staccato and direct where if someone has something to say they have to interject it. I think a lot of the girls who think that they're being talked over just are trying to talk girl-style in a guy style conversation and they don't know that they have to be more assertive to get their point out.
I do consider myself a feminist because there are some places where inequality does exist, especially the third world, but the radicals really give us a bad wrap by attacking men over misunderstandings like that. They have to accept the ways men are different and learn that that's a good thing ... hell, that's what diversity is all about, haha!
I'm currently transitioning too, and I'm not even look feminine yet, but already noticed more respectful attitude towards my opinions than before...
Your last sentence saddened me because it's true.
I’ve seen a story of a guy who saved money on car insurance by identifying as a woman. Do you get the benefit of retiring early by being a transformer.
@Michael Dinneweth I don't think you're sexist/misogynistic/old-fashioned at all :)
It's true, a small portion of the trans community takes an extreme version of the narrative and tries to re-shape society with it. There are a few people (some trans, some not) that believe gender is 100% socially constructed or that there are infinite genders... but really most trans people, myself included, just want to live a normal life in a normal society doing normal things. It's just that the extreme faction gets more of the spotlight because they deliberately refuse to blend in. For most of human history, trans people (when we weren't being killed) just tried our best to go unseen and unnoticed. For most of us, that's still the goal. The way trans women like myself see ourselves is that we're women who just happened to be born with a body that didn't match our female brains. If what the fringe was saying was true and that "gender is socially constructed", trans people wouldn't really exist because it wouldn't make sense to have a female brain in a male body if male and female were made up. Most trans people are quite aware of the fact that sex and gender exist, but we're stuck with those activists trying to argue us out of existence. From my point of view, they hurt a helluva lot more than they help anyone :/
Just know that for every 1 activist there are 50 trans people like me who are just normal folks. It might seem like that's all I've been talking about here, but that's just because that's what this thread is about. Being trans is just a tiny part of my life, and outside of internet-land, my identity is shaped around things far more meaningful to me: I'm a USMC vet, Biomedical Engineering student, and a gun-loving red-blooded American. I just happened to have been born trans, but it's only a tiny part of who I am as a woman :)
There are some cases where activism could help... like the murder and harassment rate of trans people as well as the hurdles to accessing basic health care, so I don't know why the activists don't focus on that instead of picking on well-intentioned good people and "cancelling" random people on Twitter.
When all's said and done, the best thing is for people on both sides to talk through the issue. Most of the problems in our world these days come from the left and the right not having good faith discussions and trying to learn what the other side believes. We all have waaaay more in common with each other than most people realize and we all just want what's best for our society, we all just see things slightly differently, and having a healthy assortment of viewpoints come together with a shared focus on doing good is how we can make a strong and healthy society.
Edit: I forgot to mention: I wish you a healthy and happy 2021 too!!
One of the biggest times that I’ve really hated just being a man, was trying to get into university. We went around to different universities and all of them had all these programs for women and catered a lot to them. When it came to awards and scholarships. They had many awards specifically for women but no men’s only awards. Scholarships and reimburses were no different. They gave us a pamphlet with all of them in it and just under half of them were for women only. When it came time for their presentations. They all said that women and minorities had first dibs. My marks unfortunately were a bit lower than they usually were for me because of different health problems and what not. So I didn’t get in, but I knew guys that had 94%+ averages which were way above the minimum to get in. Yet they still almost didn’t get in. Then once they got in. They found out that some of the female students got in way before them with 70-80% averages
(Forgive the bad english in my comment: as an Italian, i rarely use this language)
I remember a particular evening, when i was a little kid, who radically changed my mind.
I was talking with my mom (a woman grewed in the 60/70ies, when femminism arised in the mass culture), and i said that women are better than man (thanks to the mass media brainwash, who represent men like beasts and women like angels).
She stared at me, with a very serious expresion, and she said "Men and Women can be both good and bad, but they are good only if they collaborate harmoniously with each other".
I'm always grateful to my mom for the wise point of view she gave me, during that dinner.
BTW... your English is fine.
edit: but apparently mine isn't because I had to correct my spelling that my dyslexic fingers typed... lol
Thanks, very wholesome foreigner story
Omg she so smart
So people can be good or evil, when we work together as equals we are good.
You know its rather sad how many people can't see that simple fact these days, Uomo. My mother once told me she was the same way in her youth. She was tough and hated men because she lived in a sorority and saw many of her female friends get used. She also grew up in Detroit around the time that it went to crap and was sexually harassed constantly in high school. Her hatred remained into her college years. However, one day while she was ranting, a male student turned to her and said the simplest thing, "You know...we aren't all that way." For some reason, that quick comment woke her up. She started to give men a chance again and see them as people. She's been married to my dad for over 40 years now and is the textbook definition of a loving and kind mother. While they have had their ups and downs, their teamwork has gotten them through everything life has thrown at them.
Yes finding a mate is a minefield, but surely there have to be some good people out there, looking for other good people.
They have more rights and fewer responsibilities.
FACT
And still they complain incessantly and refuse to accept any responsibility.
I half agree, I disagree with the "more rights" part
@@GREENHOUSE_LIGHTSHOW oh... wait until the family court.
@@GREENHOUSE_LIGHTSHOW LOL. Then you are STUPID
Stronger Than Every Woman On Earth dumbass I deal in facts and legally the "more rights" part is not a fact, idc about your feelings in this matter.
When I was sad my girlfriend would tell me to express my feelings and I told her I was uncomfortable. She was like why? I told her because all my life i was trained not to express my feelings.
So in short, selfreflection is a foreign concept for most women...
damn thats a new one...
I think that self reflection is in short supply in people in general.
@@jonathan0berg yeah, but it hits you often if you get blasted in your face. So a privilege who cant happen to women in general. ;)
@@ottonormal3354My self is based on my experiences, so there will be blind spots in my self reflection. If anything, the trans men in the video have had a deeper self reflection than most people because they have the ability to reflect on their current experience as a man as well as their past experiences as a woman.
Women and children first. What more proof do you need?
And Yet If you Tell them Why its like that they Tell you that "Women are Just as Strong as Men". No, no theyre not
@@kotkafer2292 Yes, yes they're more powerful, how else do you think they convinced society and men "women and children first", that men are less valuable than children and children are less valuable than women. You can't do that without some sort of power.
Women and Children First. Feminist and Men stay put.
@São João do mundo this we can agree on
In a way, it should be that way, but more because of the "animalistic" approach. A group of living beings can repopulate so long as one male survives and plenty of females survive, but the opposite cannot happen, as if only one female survives in a group full of males, best case scenario the population will not grow enough to survive, and at the worse, the males will fight one another until one male remains. I believe that's why us guys did the hunting and women stayed behind
"A men is not even treated how a human should be treated...". Manly tears shed. Welcome to manhood.
I will never forget how my ex berated me for crying in front of her over 10 years ago. "Real men don't cry" ive never stopped helping women with their emotional issues but I don't think I will ever cry in front of a woman again
@@drunkpunch7334 My goodness! After seeing alot of the comments here, I want to say, what the hell kinda folks y'all been running into!? And this is coming from a guy who still has worked blue-collar, laboring type jobs for most of what I have done for work.
@@JayNohh Southern huh? Trust me, most of my life I've been shown or taught not to show emotion cause I'm a man, but mostly in a "ya gotta be strong" kinda way. That instance is the one that broke me, and when talked about gets little to no recognition
@@drunkpunch7334 Lol, no, I can only say maybe I'm still partly southern. I lived in Arkansas for a bit while I was a kid and have family down there, but most of my life I've lived in Colorado. In Arizona now. I just still say "y'all" sometimes, and you'd be surprised how many people seem to outside of the South. Anyways, I'm sorry to hear that, man. I get the being strong part since a woman needs that, I just think alot of people have this false idea that no emotions or you actually being human should ever come with it.
@@JayNohh I'm a New Englander, you are south to me lol
Being a man is painful.. we get blamed for everything. A woman can say "all men are the same" and their claims get backed up, while a man that says "all women are the same" get trash talked and told to "man up" we get told our feelings don't matter, we're expected to wait on a woman hand and foot and if we don't we're told "we're selfish and don't care about a woman's needs" if we're reserved and closed off, we're told we need to be more open about our feelings but if we're "too" open about our feelings we're told to "stop being a baby". Even when it comes to children, a woman could be a horrible mother, could constantly beat and abuse their kids and nobody bats an eye but a dad yells at his kids and everyone loses their shit. Even in court, the MALE judge will side with the mother. Even if the father is the SOLE PROVIDER.
True, i used to get caned from wanting freedom by my auntie, she didn't get arrested for nephew abuse, my uncle got charged with negligence which explained why his income.went from 5k to 4k.
And she wonder why i become expert on how to avoid Indonesian female.
Like a wise man say: We make it look easy
I used to say that alot. Now I say showmanship.
"Male privilege" - as defined by privileged women.
Dont cry in front of women either
they think being a man is easy.. who said women aren't funny? because that's a hell of joke right there.
I don't think living is easy, no matter what is or is not between one's legs. Anyone who thinks life would be inherently easy if they changed gender is foolish.
a woman's life isnt harder or easier then a mans, just different.
@Josip It's not a competition. Men and women need to stop playing the oppression olympics and starting supporting each other to fight for a more equal society.
@Josip Men's rights needs to be spoken about more but creating a men vs women narrative isn't going to help anyone. It just creates division. It's hard to say the West is becoming increasingly misandrist when there hasn't even been a female president in the US (this doesn't mean the West is misogynistic either). Men and women are privileged in different ways. Patriarchy has historically created problems for men (e.g. men can't express their emotions), matriarchy will create problems for women too. Focusing on how equality benefits everyone will lead to progress.
@Alejo Gameplay Yes, equality has not be reached, I never said it had. The percentage of women joining the military is steadily increasing. The media feeds off sensationalism, of course there are plenty of articles about women "crying". I don't know why you refer to women as "they"- women aren't a monolith. Some women are against conscription, others support it.
" There is a man playing a violin, and the strings are the nerves in his own arms "
“Men don’t care about fair”.
I forget where I heard that, but it hit me where I live, real hard.
Kevin Samuels
Growing up my dad always told my brother and I "Don't be afraid to cry. Just don't cry in front of other men"
I'm sure he meant well but holy shit.
@@CidGuerreiro1234 He meant it's human to cry but if you do it in front of other men. They'll make fun of you because it's considered weak.
@@eviljoshy3402 Yes, that is probably true. Women will probably think you're weak too if you cry in front of them. In the dad's place I'd just add that it's ok to cry in front of your few best friends. If they're really your friends they'll be there for you. I know I would if one of my friends broke down in front of me.
Did that shit once. And my heart turned cold since that. Im not the same person anymore.
Crying in front of a man isn't weak, weak is judging someone for crying
My dad ran into a a burning building (he isn't a firefighter) saved a few ppl, failed to save one 5yr old child. He came home and didn't say anything. I found out a few days later at college.
My cousin got into a 14 car crash pile up, walked away and doesn't tell me anything about for a week. He was like "I'm alive and nothing is broken so I'm good. No big drag
A man is expected to work hard, be heroic, and never speak out about it no matter how much he hurts. That is the _baseline_ of behavior. Self sacrifice, gritting your teeth and bearing it. Glory or _DEATH_ is the base state of male life. For most of them, it will be the latter, alone and unmourned.
Sorain1 why am I not dead ?
Why won’t you let me die already
It's interesting about the impatience and testosterone link. Women with ADHD tend to display manish attributes - impatience, tend to get angry quicker, and more forceful.
This is the first video of yours that I've ever come across and I'm very surprised you can actually speak on topics such as this without being removed. We'll done 👏🙌
It's so weird to me that woman who are said to be more emotionally sensitive than men would live 40 years* without EVER thinking of what it's like for men in our current society or in the past! I have always thought about men's rights equally to woman's rights and that's why I was never a feminist because it seemed too separatist!! Also, I lived for years experiencing gender dysphoria when I was younger and always wanted to be feeling closer to myself as a naturally born woman, but always felt many woman were extremely judgmental, rude and impatient with men, even those closest to them. This made me value becoming a woman who cares about men equally as we should woman and I wish to pass that on to future generations!
You're one of the good ones. Always nice to hear from the smart ones
It's fairly simple, really. If women want to be treated like men, they'll get treated like men. Usually they don't like it very much. Men can treat women like women, too. But in that case the women better act like women. Everything else can be resolved just with having common manners.
Bless you
No one cares what you think. Just be quiet, get the make up off your face and dress to cover your butt and chest. That's how you show men that you respect them. You do what they order you to do. If you don't, you never feared and respected them. If you do, you did. In reality men are not to be feared as they are born submissive to the Catholic church but they should damn well be respected. The only reason you don't fear us as you should is because men are being bribed and blackmailed out of their dominant nature.
@@williamlevy6964 I do cover my chest and butt and wear very little makeup! Ass-umptions...
It's almost like men have been telling them this for years and they completely ignored us. . .
Ignored us? They shouted us down, demonized and canceled us.
Delimon007
Feminists are constantly decrying the toxic masculinity that leads to males being so distrusted and cold to eachother. That was the point of the Gillette ad but men flipped tf out over it. You can’t complain about the problem then also complain when women and companies suggest the necessary social solutions.
Heh... women not heeding men's advice. What's new?
@@AddBowIfGirl Men flipped out over he Gillette add because it painted ALL men as inherently nasty and incapable of overcoming our baser instincts. The reason we lashed out is because it treated us all like a stereotype. And there's no such thing as Toxic Masculinity. There's just being a decent person or being a dick.
@Add Bow If Girl just shut up. Toxic masculinity doesn’t exist. Assholes exist. The Gillette commercial was merely pandering and was probably written by someone in the feminist movement.
I've also noticed this as a trans woman, throughout my life I was told to sit down and shut up and my experience meant nothing I couldn't speak up on sexual assault, homelessness, or domestic violence dispite being a survivor of all those things myself. Now people seem to have a genuine interest in what I have to say and will be more willing to go out of their way for me which was an unexpected side effect of transitioning. My perspective on feminism has definitely changed and even though I get the occasional creeps it's far from the "patriarchal oppression" I was promised🙄.
That is, if you consider simps to be people.
I transitioned MtF and I never expected living as a woman would be easier. Tbh most of the changes are what the first guy posted. I feel for my dudes, I've been inside the social side of being a man into my 20s. Shits rough for dudes especially when it comes to mental health, like brutal rough.
An effeminate dude in girls clothes is still a dude
@Michael Dinneweth they already do, I'm saying it because its what I know and believe and if they don't like the fact they can kiss my well toned ass.
@@mattiOTX do you regret switching or not?
@@wavyturkmusic oh no, for me its something I needed.
@@mattiOTX i'm all for people transitioning their sex, if only for them to experience the other side of the deal. or at least disguise themselves and live like the other sex for a while, real equality cannot be reached until a good amount of both sides learn how it is for the other side.
as for you mate, i wish you all the best in your new life as a woman.
Think it's bad now? Wait until you get your first false accusation. 😄
... or divorce-papers served.
Good point. I bet he/she won't be saying "Believe all women" then.
She dumped me and after 2 years it took a long time for me to recover from this heartbreaks nd the cheating she commited but I still forgave her , even after she dumped me I forgave her .
..... After 2 years she called me , I changed my number and how the heck she get my no idk , she asked me why I changed my no but this time I immediately hung up , she called me 5-6 times but I ddidnt pick up ......
.... I feel like I've made the best decision to not make the same mistake again .
Good on you, man. Wise choice.
Good on you, man. Wise choice.
Definitly the right decision. Someone who is bad news for you, who contacts you out of the blue? Nope. That's like knowing better than to put your hand in a woodchipper.
My ex will post really wierd selfies on my birthday, it always looks like she's super smug and happy... But there's something under that smugness... Maybe it's the weight gain and loneliness
good choice dude. I'm glad your happy now.
I wonder how they feel about losing an argument because of a woman not making sense.
Men have to sink or swim in life. We don’t have others taking care of us if we fail.