HOEFLATION: men are required to bring 10x more to the table than their grandfathers while women bring 10x less to a relationship than their grandmothers.
The other day, a 43 year-old single mother of three with two baby daddies was telling me that men need to really step up and impress her if they wanna date her. I have absolutely no idea how she’s entitled.
Yeah lol. They don't get it...20 year old, no kids...guys will step up to date them. 43, single mom...its not the guy stepping up that is the guy who is going to date them...its the guy too stupid not to step back.
My two baseline dating standards: No selling your ass on the internet, and no single moms. I swear to god, those two things eliminate like 90 percent of women. Standards are in the basement boys.
I am in my mid 50's and the women that I have talked to lately who are also in their 50's are right up front about saying they are just not into sex anymore. They had all the sex they wanted in their teens, 20's, 30's, and 40's and all they are looking for now is someone who can pay 80 percent of the bills because most of their money is going to help their children and grandchildren. Sounds like fun. Not
IF you get married or into a long term relationship make damn sure she is at least 10 to 15 years younger than you or you will go without sex in your 50s, 60s, and 70s. Guaranteed.
I would simply say, no libido no me. I can't even imagine a sexless relationship with an old woman who uses me as an ATM and dumps all her emotional toxicity on me. Women aren't just delusional, they're clinically insane and have zero value to Real Men.
Comparing dating to Job interviews is doing interviews a disservice. The last interview I had, my boss shook my hand and offered me a coffee. That’s more than any woman gave me on a first date.
You've never gotten laid or hooked up on the first date or meeting? Ever? You've never had the dice roll your way once? That's hard to believe man, there's no way I'm that much better with women than you that it happens pretty often for me and I'm not even attractive, in shape, or rich.
My dad said to me 30 years ago, if the lady has kids and no partner, run away, they are not looking for a partner, they are looking for a bank account. 😐
I lived by that rule for a very long time. I found a good woman without kids and baggage and have been happily married for 15 years. Never compromise your standards. I refused to use my resources to raise somebody else's kids. I was called all kinds of names (insensitive, cold, heartless, etc.), but I didn't care; they made their choices and I made mine.
I unfortunately know somebody who did just that. He dated, married, moved in with, and even had a baby with a single mother who already had 2 kids before he married her.
If she had a child out of wedlock she's a tramp and not worth it, if she's not a widow then the chances are she dumped the first guy, stabbed him in the back. And not worth it.
Was doing uber months ago, and I was taking a girl to her home from her boyfriend’s house. She asked me what being a married woman is like. I shrugged and replied “I’m happy. I’ve never been one for drama or excesses, really.” Eventually, she started talking about how she couldn’t for the life of her figure out why her boyfriends were just leaving her alone with their kids (not hers) and then dumping her. I asked “How many boyfriends have you had?” She asked me to clarify boyfriend or body count. I said “either”. She hummed and replied “I dunno. Like 12….times 3.” She was younger than me, and I’m in my late-20s. I couldn’t help it. I sputtered “That’s why you can’t get a long term partner. You can’t find love if you think just sleeping with someone means you love them.” She then made fun of me for having one partner, my husband, but I didn’t mind. I could tell reality hit her in the face a lot harder than she let on. I disinfected my car’s seats afterward because who know what was lining on those shorts.
That lady is nuts bro 😅😅😅 imagine thinking you are justified in making fun of someone for only ever having been with their husband. That's like making fun of someone for having a million bucks in their retirement account or not having any student loans. Like, is being an in debt and broke ass $5 a month stank Chlamydia a la mode cooch with poopy butt cuz you got acrylic nails something to be happy about????
I had a conversation once with an ex girlfriend about how women aren't about money. She said she wants a guy who has traveled the world and done things, tell her all about it and take her on adventures. I replied that takes money. She lost her sh*t.
Not just money, that takes a LOT of money. I spent a weekend with a gal from Tinder, she used to be a Vegas stripper, and is still into the poly life and swingers stuff and whatever else, plus is a single mom. She kept talking about how she wants a man to travel the world with, be a dad to her kids, and accept her lifestyle. I straight up told her she's not finding that man. I said she's looking for a top class man who has choices. He doesn't want the party girl that's into that stuff or wants to be a Dad to your kids. No man that has that kind of money and that kind of free time is going to choose her. Basically that is a man so independently wealthy that he has free time to travel the world. Good luck landing him. She was actually very friendly though and great in bed. I told her she needs to accept a man that treats her nice and don't be so ridiculous with her expectations or she'll end up alone forever, she still has some time left, don't blow that time waiting for someone that will never come. She said she's going to wait for him.....yeah she'll be single forever. She didn't say any of that in her bio by the way, which is why I got together with her. I thought she just wanted some regular fun and to keep in contact, meet up and spend some time together here and there.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM Whats the point of "travelling the world" anyway? I simply dont get it. What are they searching for? Or is it just a status symbol so they can brag to their friends where they have been? I have been around the world because of my job, and every time I have gone out there it just made me want to be home more and more. I hate seeing people suffering in poverty, but thats what you regularly see in these countries. Maybe they want to see that to feel better about themselves?
@DEADBEEF Moreover, there is plenty to travel in the United States. You don't need to leave thr country to have basically been everywhere. And you don't have to deal with the rampant poverty then...
@DEADBEEF somehow their version of travel is to live the queens dream. Eating, rushing into emotional rollercoaster, being treated as special at every place they arrive, dopamine in short. All of the people from that generation was raised that way so they are programmed to consume. In the other hand when you travel for work you have an schedule with some clear objectives to achieve, like a mission
Women: "Men need to step up." Men: "We did, we got jobs, worked hard, endured being treated as lower class citizens, got paid, getting property, have lots of toys and vacations." Women: "Oh, you're perfect for me and my kids." Men: "But you're not perfect for me and my bank account." Women: "How dare you have standards! Accept me as I am, my past doesn't matter!" Men: "If your past doesn't matter, than neither does your future. I'm not in either one."
Dude, I met a cool girl while doing charity work in the local church. Young girl around 25 (I'm 37), smart, no tattoos, nice smile, good personality and for a minute I thought "holy crap, am I going to the plantation again?", We hit it off, I'm going to ask her if we could hang out after in the local fair (there's this 'festa do padre' that happens every year here) and boooomm! She has a kid from some random dude. Apparently she was a 'naive' young woman who liked to party in her late teens and early 20s but then found God... It's and absolute mess my man, there's nothinh left but leftovers now.
For real I told them I cook clean build, fabricate assemble. What are you bring to the table?? Crickets . Then I’ll be shamed that I asked that . God forbid a man wants standards these days . Women just want a robot that looks like a man that never complains , buys all her shit , she can fuk multiple men , never gets held to a standard
The choirs are *much* greater because women want more stuff then men on average. They can't be happy with enough, it's always more. Gotta have pets, gotta have multiple vehicles, gotta have so much crap that you need a bigger house which requires more maintenance, taxes, upgrades. It never ends. Few women are willing to live within your means and will constantly agitate or promotions, raises, bonuses so that they have access to more and more and more. Get a little nest egg in the bank or investments and they're looking to get a bigger house, newer car, more extravagant vacation(s), a nanny, a house keeper, etc. Never ending treadmill of increase and excess.
and you'll have less time cuz you're expected to be the substitute father and spend time with her parents - she won't even think you have parents. I saw this twice - done done done
I'd like to thank this woman for making us realize that there is absolutely no downside to a man being single! News flash ladies......WE DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS.
Ask a single mom... Would you marry a guy who had $300,000 in debt. Obviously, she will say no. Well, in the USA, it costs $300,000 to raise a child. So, why would you accept HER financial debt? Let alone the BS that comes with a single mom.
@@bidensucks2922 Yep. My shitty state college is $35k / year in state tuition, dorm and books. All in you're at $150k to go to a shitty state college. $300k to raise a child sounds low, if they pursue higher ed it's way more.
LOL, yea that's it 😁 . I've recently finished my home cockpit flight simulator, powered by a bunch of fancy hardware. My life can't be better; and always happy while taking a ride up in the skies. No potential wife in my life who vengefully could take my precious made DIY cockpit with her after divorce 🤣.
When she ended her rant with "... go back to your mother's basement.", it felt like I was looking at a fractal pattern. Single mothers doing it on their own, raising men which other single mothers don't want to date, whom in turn raise more fatherless men that will be unappealing to the other single mothers of the future. Wild stuff.
Amen, brother. And that's exactly what your typical single mother is expecting you to do, when they "finally decide it's time to settle down and get wifey."
@NinjaRunningWild Well, that's the saying and attitude of Chad & Tyrone all right. And that's why real men seeking a normal adult relationship say "Why should I pay (take on your financial burden of raising Chad's child) for sex, when (you don't hold yourself and Chad responsible for his child, because) sex is something you've been giving away for free (to Chad) ??? My wife says: "Real Women want Real Men. Foolish girls want bad boys." And real men won't settle for foolish girls. Especially one who's packing Chad or Tyrone's F-Trophy around with her.
Their definition of stepping up is making a lot more money. I would like to direct them to the nearest history books. Most men have been poor throughout history. It is what it is, and our economy is going down the crapper yet again, so what do these fools expect?
Yet, she cut him out for that cs check.... and most men don't have enough money to fight the corrupt family courts. Most likely already rendered him destitute
Many choices come along with others. It's a package deal. There are any number of thirsty, kind, men, but most of them are not pretty alphas. There's a number of men who are happy to bang and leave with no commitment, but they don't want to help you with a family or really even know anything about you. The problem with some of these women is that they want all the best things mixed together and with no compromises. It's a childish view of the world, like you can just pick the pepperoni off the pizza someone else paid for and throw the rest away.
VERIFIABLE: 70% of all divorces are initiated by the woman. In non-married relationships the number is estimated to be close 80%. So it is definitely WOMEN who are choosing singlehood.
My girlfriend was just telling me about her friend who "won't accept the bare minimum". She's 30 and never had her own place because she lives off of her parents. She met a guy at the gym who makes 100k a year, but thinks that's not good enough because she wants a "luxury lifestyle". Wants to be married and work, but the money she makes is only for her. She told the guy that she wont even pay for her own water bottle if they are hanging out, because that will show that he can provide for her.
Wow bet she thinks that he should have the responsibility to provide for her while having no authority over her. Responsibility without authority is slavery. And Authority without responsibility is Tyranny. So she's essentially a tyrant in need of a slave.
When you wade through the thousands of fake profiles, bots, scammers, catfish and finally get a real woman to meet up with you in person, 90% of the time she is loud, obnoxious and combative. Not worth it, guys.
We should all know by now that dating apps are not dating apps. They are, at best, hookup apps, and for most women they are simply ego inflation apps. There are no good women on there.
I just downloaded Bumble and have matched with several attractive women, but not one has messaged me yet. And most of those matches have expired. Such a waste of time. I definitely won't pay for the app.
@@timrich7861 matches are a scam to get you hooked into paying for the service, there are very few women on these apps that are willing to actually meet up in person. 3 years ago I had 450+ matches and was only able to convert 3 of them into real life meetups. The entire dating game is rigged AF. I wouldn't put it past these companies paying women to use their photos on the app, and then outsourcing the "chat" part to some third world country. Hell, you don't even need human beings to chat anymore, it can be done with A.I. and nobody would even be able to tell.
It's great news. The best thing I have done for myself was to stay on my own after divorce. I was used and had my life thrown into turmoil by a single mother. Took me years to sort out all the problems she caused me. 11 years later, I can't believe how far I've come and how much I've achieved alone. Yet I see the same women with all the same problems. No thanks!
@Warrior80 the English dictionary definition of the word "turmoil" is the long list of problems that a single mother can, will and has caused to a man of more probably multiple men!.
Hell yes. Myself, married and divorced from 2 times. 1st marraige, 8 years and 2 sons. 2nd marraige 11 years and 3 more children. Both women brought nothing but negatively, problems, chaos and destruction into my life. These women didn't add ANYTHIBG to my life. I fell im pretty accomplished in my career but the financial destruction from these Women have just about ruined me. If I had moved thru life alone, up to this point, I would have surpassed all my goals and be living quite comfortably.
I divorced when I was 36. I'm still single and 70 now. Since my divorce I've done so many things and had such a good life I really can't believe it. Owned my own airplane, hot rods, sports cars, motorcycles, traveled etc. Didn't know it at the time, but, it sounds like I was ahead of my time. I don't dislike women; I just avoid relationships to be happy. If these women are so happy being single, why are they all bitching about it?????
You say you are 70 now, but do you feel like you are 70? Do you feel old? I am 37, and people are surprised because I look like I am under 30. I didnt have any relationships with women my whole life, so maybe its women who are are sucking out our life force, bringing us to an early grave...
The "bare minimum" thing is the most cope argument i've ever heard about single moms and cat ladies. They don't even do the bare minimum of maintaining the relationship with the father of their kids
This is been going on for longer than we think. Back in the 90s a good friend of mine up in Canada owned a company with 2000+ employees and eventually sold it for $500M. We were on his yacht in the South Pacific and he lamented to me "I run a multi-million dollar company but according to my wife I can't do nothing right". And me like an idiot instead of learning from his experience I ended up marrying the same kind of woman. Thank the man upstairs for these channels - keep it up Joker
How can you tell before the great metamorphosis? Their personalities before marriage are so different from their personalities after, it should have been "Miss Jekyll and Mrs. Hyde."
@@johnwilson1094 Well, there are enough indicators, alas, nobody is usually taught what they are and how to spot them. It requires channels of the likes of Surviving Narcissism and DoctorRamani to do the education instead...
Describes modern politics too… all the duties but authority. Tyrants always focus on getting the women on their side as they are natural tyrants too, and simpish men follow. Not my words, the words of a certain failed Austrian painter.
They get to discover what 80% of men live through for the first 35 years of their life. Now, those women get their own treatment, given to them. Channels like yours are getting to young men and it just keeps getting better and better. The younger you learn this, the better.
Not me, I had a rather good innings from age 20 to 30, averaging one lay a year and a gf every few years, whereas now at 38 I can't even get a conversation going on a dating app - not that I care to anymore as I have other things to do, but it goes to show all this self-improvement BS is just rhetoric, because I was just a kinda-crazy asshole who went places and did things and that worked out into sexual success eventually. Didn't work out, didn't practice game, didn't even have a fucking job for most of the time, but none of those things mattered in those days.
@@wisdomandy9361 I know I'm being conservative. Nowadays, only the top percentage of guys get a turn. The rest of us don't get a shot and when we pass on the leftovers, see video
Last weekend a chubby 45yo woman (with no bf/hubby) told me I'm not allowed to have an opinion because I'm a guy. She lives on disability + alimony + fast food job, in a small apartment, with no rainy day fund. Her claim to fame is pumping out 5 kids (she reminded me several times). I just smiled and left when possible, back to my self made kingdom and paid off property filled with peace.
@@nnotny "The Mother" is a totalitarian over her infant children, and for a good reason. But the problem is when they take out this "Mother Dictator" attitude on free, adult people.
You're a more reserved person than me. I'd be far too tempted to say something like "when you can take care of yourself by yourself, like a normal human being, you can be allowed to have an opinion." Don't fvcking tell me im not allowed to have an opinion, feminazis. You lardy fvcking _cows._
I love the irony. Single moms having the audacity to interview men while dating? Ummm no, in this case, the men should be doing all of the interviewing. What do THEY have to offer a single/childless man???
Guys need to act on this. Don't pay for her part of the date, make this clear from the outset so you avoid the food hounds. Quietly sit through her job interview, then give her just one question of your own: "Apart from sex, what would you bring to a relationship with me that would improve my life?" (She started it.) The date should be over quickly.
Yeah, I mean, even if a guy gets wrecked in family court and has kids, if he dates another woman with kids, that's begging for a nightmare. Now, being fair, it's not 100% of single moms that are bad news, there are unicorns in the bunch where they got married, thought they'd be married for life, and she eventually finds out he's had a ton of affairs, or he just ghosts. There are a few women who've been treated by men how most women treat men in a marriage, and they would've otherwise been good candidates for a long term relationship if not for getting fooled (like many of us guys got fooled). It does happen.
Or or her husband died or ended up in jail for some reason This is my only 2 reasons i would place NO blame on her, as its something out of her control
@@matthewwilson5019 what if she drove her husband to unalive himself? A lot of men unalive by reason of divorce, homelessness and financial hardship. Or if he had a natural death did she abandon him in his last moments?
@@rajakghosh6602 then she should be single for life, BUT what i mean is like a car crash or work death or died/was killed in the military. Or anything THATS NOT suicide nor because of her making him off himself.
It needs to be present, but is otherwise completely unimportant. A single mom who is not a widow demonstrates that she's not capable of being trusted with a man's health, soul, money, or honor.
I love how nearly every single one of these articles - 99% of the time written by women - always, ALWAYS resort to blaming and shaming men. Zero accountability, zero self reflection, never asking their own side what they could be doing wrong. This does exactly the opposite of what they think it'll do i.e. men simply get turned off.
At 49, I can say they are not even on the list. They are a chore. "Job Interview" is exactly what it is. They want to assess you and are you willing to be manipulated.
At least with a job interview you know what you’re worth, what you put in, what you get out of and can quit if you’re unhappy. The dates however have the power to completely destroy you.
I'm a 36 year old man. It's insane how many women my age think that they would be doing me a favor just by showing up. I downsized my entire life and now live the way I want to, their chaos isn't worth it.
Are you even interested in 36 year old women as a 36 year old man? I wasn't at that age. I was only interested in 27-30 year olds in my mid-30s. I thought it would be obvious why, but women I knew didn't get it.
@@EightTicks8 Not even in the slightest, which is something they just don't get. I didn't even look at women over 25 seriously when it came to marriage or a family (something I've since given up entirely).
@@EightTicks8you are 100% right, if you are gonna date a mid 30’s woman in your 30’s then why bother at all, if it’s not 20’s after a decade or more of rejection, then why not do anything else, maybe get a professional for a while and wait some more years, lots of women HATE that and rant and rave with their propaganda acting like late 20’s women are “being taken advantage of”… just coping their own rational, anything other then to accept the truth of them simply not being desirable at all anymore, idk about any of y’all but usually just within a year or two of mid thirties it’s like a damn train comes in to wreck them, it’s actually quite remarkable, yes I know the wall, but just how quickly it comes in like a wrecking ball, it’s amazing
When I was young it seemed I was always invited over only to find a single mom with a few kids there. One time I admit she was super cute but 2 kids wasn't worth it. I didn't have a dad and went through the drunk step father routine so I felt sorry for the kids. But if they don't want you when they are single they still don't really want you.
Not really Im done with carousel riding for the time being. Now I need a security blanket. I'll pretend as a dutiful wife for few years have his children and then dip out. And a new carousel riding phase starts.
Always remember, the women wanted this. They chose this outcome millions of times over, individually and collectively. No help to any woman who is not yours, no raising children who not yours.
No, your society chose this when you discarded 2,000 years of traditions of values. You blame women, so I ask: Why didn’t men stop them? They don’t pull this shit in Saudi Arabia.
No, your society chose this when you discarded 2,000 years of traditions and values. You blame women, so I ask: Why didn’t men stop them? They don’t pull this shit in Saudi Arabia.
I quit dating after I took the red pill back in 2018. Ex was crazy. Then I met a 42 yr old single mother of 2 (I’m 35) organically through climbing. We have a lot in common and traveled to many awesome places to climb and her two boys are really awesome. Spent the last 3 years doing this on and off thing and recently things got pretty serious between us. Since our relationship had moved into a more serious position I decided to put it out on the table that I voted republican (she’s a democrat) in the last presidential election and I told her I didn’t care who she voted for because I know she’s a good person. (I never lied to her, just never told her who I voted for) well fast forward and I haven’t seen her or the boys in a month. It really hurts that she just cut me out after all we’ve done and been through together so I just put a down payment on a new motorcycle last night. Bachelor life it is! I really appreciate your channel Joker!
A motorcycle is nothing to brag about. I remember this skinny guy at work who would put his motorcycle helmet on his file cabinet so that everyone could see it.
It’s really dependent on their age. If she is young like 20-22 that’s not a red flag. She probably doesn’t want to waste time with useless guys. You have to respect that, but if she is nearing 30 then yeah run away 😂
@@Austenfan177 pick your poison really. I’d rather be with someone who wants a family and have good moral values from a 20-24 year old girl than someone that is a lot older. It’s a lower chance of being deceived. Plus, I know how to vet girls pretty easily.
Back in the day, single mothers were looked down on, it's good to see that is coming back in style. These women are either not getting married before having kids, or getting married having kids and then getting divorced. Either way, both are looked down on as people who make very poor choices and now have extra baggage.
"Back in the day, single mothers were looked down on, it's good to see that is coming back in style." It never stopped being that way, as long as you are not a moron
yeah, scratchy fronts and backs, the content is something you know howe it ends and will always left you with a cringe. Leave it where it is and belongs and happy hop along with your life.
I don't know about that. I've found 2 or 3 5$ dvds that were worth the money. Not sure I've ever met a woman that was. Clearance dvds are higher up the ladder.
eh its a weird cycle though. the only reason women are wearing makeup is to look hot to get a man because men seemingly only want young hot women and nothing else. so because of men being like that women wear pounds of makeup. why do you think it takes us women so long to get ready? we have to shave, we have to do our hair, we have to put on pounds of make up to look perfect otherwise we're told we're "gross fat and ugly, omg are you sick or something???". im just saying it goes both ways and it isn't just womens fault. both sexes need to chill out. women get it pounded into our heads men only want us for sex and nothing else so maybe men should try to change that and maybe things will change after that. maybe dont act so desperate and horny all the time so then women wont be told that men only want us for sex and then maybe we wouldn't behave as if men only want us for sex. i honestly think women should be the ones to initiate romantic things since ya know women are the ones who are not horny all the time so it'd make sense for us to do it. i mean we get aggrivated at the amount of times men ask us to date us or that they're horny. i can't tell you how many times ive had men tell me they're horny out of no where as if its my problem to solve. too many and its annoying AF. but again its both sexes that need to work things out because right now everything is fugged up royally. and no im not hating on men at all im just saying women aren't all to blame for this.
@@Parasiteve It seems like you know very little about what men actually want. Hollywood, Madison Avenue, and possibly your peer group, have implanted an intractable number of erroneous ideas in your head. It's actually much simpler than what the e$$$tablishment had led you to believe.
VVomen: Use invisibility spell on men 90% of all the men disappear: ahhhh Also VVomen: Side effect of using invisibility spell too often caused them to be invisible to men Men: Oh no. Anyway
I was at a Barbecue, and cooking for everyone, the aunts pulled up a chair to drink to my beer. They started in on men, being bad. I’m married for 31 years. Two day later, wife is saying let’s have another barbecue this weekend it was fun. I said no, I have other things to do. Nothing like being surrounded by six biter cat ladies on my day off. No, thanks
Had a date with a 39 year old woman, who 10 minutes into the date said cards on table, Im married, I have a kid. Then started circling the wagons with questions about cars and what watch I had. I excused myself.
She was out on a date with you because she is looking for a better deal, even though she is married. It doesn't sound like she will be married for very much longer. Then she will be giving it up for free and saying why did I ruin my perfect marriage?? Lol
Bitter Single Mom: “why won’t men step up?” Men: “because you side-stepped the good men and laid down with Chad in your prime, and good men no longer want you in your decline.”
Oh, come on guys. Don't be a stepdad be a dad that stepped up. Have 100% responsibility of a biological father but 0% authority over the child. And wait till they are teenagers and listen to this beautiful sound of "Don't tell me what to do you are not my real dad!". Shut up and pay support when your relationship with a single mother falls apart because in some countries you are liable for child support even though you are not the biological father!
@@khankrum1 uh huh, and what do you think the percentage is. I guarantee op's statement covers more than 50% and prob much closer to 90%. Keep in mind 70+% of divorces are initiated by women.
It IS a very narrow statement. He literally said "for single moms who bailed on their husband." He didn't say anything about the ones in other situations. You attacked him for something he didn't say.
@@stevewilson4718 - NO, cs should be provided only if it’s your kid *AND* the mother stays with you (“marriage”). Not if she rides the carousel. Also, the pregnancy MUST be agreed upon beforehand. These sneaky sl00res do it on purpose to get pregnant, so that you have to pay her while she enjoys all the D that she wants at your expense. Wake up, simp.
The article said she was making good points, she made zero points. I take a huge risk, give up my freedom, my peace of mind, and a huge portion of my finances to take on a contentious woman who does not even like men, another mans brat, and I also got to share the housework. WHAT A DEAL ! make it make sense.
They reduce themselves to be just holes. And thats for what they are still good for. They get used from the chaf "they" choose and wonder, after getting used, where all the good men are.....these creatures sre so easy to manipulate by the system used against us....its pretty sad......emotional beings are incredible......dumb
True story...One of my best friends who would give you his shirt off his back spent several years dating a single mom they decided to move in togather but in the end all she did was take advantage of him with her 2 kids..Her first words after after he decided to end it were..''But who's gonna babysit'.....I've since advised him NOT TO DATE single mothers and to go his own way.....
I feel bad for him, but it's simps like him that are enabling all this "single mother but I'm high value" attitude. As soon as men stop even giving them looks, immediately you'll see a attitude shift.
60 year old here who met a single Mom with two young boys (3 and 4). Did not get married but stayed together until both of them signed up for the military when they turned 18. Now, I never worked extra shifts and spent way more time hanging out with both of them with male bonding activities that most Dads do with their sons. If I had to guess, figure 90/10 time spent compared to their own biological Mother. Exactly one year to the month after they left for boot camp she dumped me. Could not figure it out until putting 1+1+1 together did not equal a monogamous couple. But here is the kicker. My two sons are hella close to me and could give a shit about their own Mom, especially when they found out she cheated. Given how most boys run roughshod over a single Mother, I have no doubt they would have become delinquents and maybe spent some time in prison. Both of them now have solid careers, married, own homes and have produced 5 grandchildren between the both of them. Yeah, it sucked major ass being cheated on back then but I would not trade that brief heartache for the resulting positives raising confused young kids into solid productive men.
You were a MAJOR factor in them becoming successful men in a challenging, traditional, merit based, results oriented, male culture - career workplace. Thank GOD they had you, and they know it. I'm sure if you rang them up in an emergency, they'd crawl over glass & barbed wire to get to you. God Bless...
Hats off and a big handshake to you sir. You DID make a big difference for those boys. More proof that dads need to be in their kids' life... or in your case, more proof that a father-figure is needed.
I’ll bet you’re grandpa to their children, and their mother will be walking on thin ice for what’s left of her life. Enjoy your family, you’ve won the game.
Ya know what else is an absolute beautiful, priceless aspect of life? Peace, silence, and knowing I can afford to do whatever I want. And accepting responsibility if my choices have a negative impact. This woman is incredibly bitter.
I used to babysit my nieces when they were younger. Now they are peacocking their a$$es on Instagram. I’m so ashamed of them. But, my sister wasn’t much different. Like mother like daughter.
I love this philosophy. Women are strutting around all large and in charge, crowing about their expectations as men are increasingly disinterested. And it's somehow our fault that they are unattractive.
I am not disinterested in women. I am just indifferent. I have my guy friends I hang out with and not one of them has ever cheated on me, filed a false police report on me, divorced me or took me to court for alimony.
"Always has been" ... yes and now ... I think that, in times past, women were a little more subtle about it, and were also took a little more time in their interrogation, waiting until later dates to whip out the "job interview" question list, and not ask them all at once.
@@marcmillis3867 I know that now. I just wish I knew that 20 years ago. On some level though I always knew that, but I had thought that I was the one who was supposed to sacrifice or else I'm the egotistical terrible person. I don't do that anymore. "Let's be bad guys!"
I love it!!! I checked out of American society in my early 20s once I discovered international travel. Im now in my mid 40s. For decades I couldnt understand how men would spend thousands on some lavish wedding on a depreciating asset (their wife) only to be financially ruined for the eventual divorce. The desperation that I witnessed (some were even my friends) was utterly disgusting. They all had that scarcity mindset whereas there is no such mindset overseas. I never thought in my lifetime that American men would actually man up and see what a raw deal they get in this country
That's why I keep telling dudes on here, especially American one who seem yo only discover now that there is a world outside of America to travel, because that will change all their perspectives, drastically... And wmen in the West perfectly know that, that's why they are pissed. My first trip was Cuba, I was 25 (I am 42 now), then many other places across the globe. Now, I cannot see "modern wmen" in the West in a different way than sad clowns, they are not even attractive to me, no matter how they look.
Back when I was single and friends would try to hook me up with single moms I told them as soon as they got rid of their ties to the kid I would consider a date. It was a very quick filter and I weeded out friends who didn't have my values.
Dr Orion Taraban said being involved with modern women is like taking on a second job for which you do not get paid. I would add, it's actually like having to pay for that second job.
Modern relationships = lose you all your freedom most of your money and you end up paying for HER kids for 18 years and are just as alone but with no money left.
Can't count the # of those "job interviews" from which I've walked away. Even had one CPA woman do a credit report on me. A friend of mine told that a prospective and her mother checked the County Recorder's office to see how many properties he had in his name...... Disgusting.
Its a similar phenomenon happening in women that happens to people that are heavy Pron addicts. Due to Social Media - their expectations of the norm and reality are heavily skewed way out of balance. The average girl thinks she is amazing and that amazing men are average; > average men are invisible. While at the same time demanding that all men accept her for who she is and ALL her flaws /bc she has anxiety.
As a former heavy pron addict, I feel attacked. Especially because my "parameters"/things I want in a girl have stayed the same for over a decade now. But I understand where you are coming from.
Spoiler Alert: Women watch corn too. Alot of it, actually. That's exactly where the idea that all black men have huge c*cks comes from. These women watch a bunch of porn in their early teens, f*ck like rabbits til thirty comes knocking and THEN, all of a sudden, they need a real man and, a serious relationship. Riding the carousel and drowning in corn damages women's perception of reality. If a male 5 sleeps with a 10, he knows he got lucky. If a female 5 sleeps with a 10, she thinks that makes her a 10 too. That's why all women think they're 10's. Some slept with one, others are constantly affirmed and validated on social media. No matter how you slice it, corn and, social media have damaged society in a way I dare call irreparable. And, it's used the deadliest, most dangerous poison of all. The poison of endless fantasy.
i was over at a friends house to a nice evening watching a movie. we got to talk about dating, about everything we had to bring to the dating table, my question to my friends wife was what do women bring?? her answer was "we" are the table!..............nope
There was this post on Instagram of a girl at the toystore and she wants a Barbie. The girl asks why single barbie is only $20 and divorced barbie is $200? The woman that owns the store says divorced barbie comes with Ken’s car, house, boat, computer, furniture, his money, his jewelry and his best friend.
Yeah it's why at 45 I don't want to get remarried because she got everything in my divorce and the women I can find to date also did which puts them in a controlling situation where I will just be an accessory in her life.
The next generation of men will have a better idea of how screwed they are if they sign the marriage contract! That's the only reason I create content! 👀
The same women that scream “men do better!!”, are also the ones that hop on social media and show the world in 4K why they are in the situation that they are in.
@Charlie Fortenth I never watched SpongeBob (wrong age range), but I think you are right... but it's just plain stupid because nobody finds SpongeBob attractive.
I have been single, coming up on 9 years, and have been happier ever since my divorce. I have noticed a serious change in women's attitude towards men. I am done looking and decided to stay single and do my own thing.
Women get upset when I'm at a restaurant or bars and I voice loudly I will only date women who make 100,000 +, have their own vehicle, their own place and no children...
This is a nationwide problem. Once upon a time I worked at an Amazon warehouse. Single mom central! One of my coworkers (single mom) was expressing her frustration that she has no friends but her kids and she’s lonely..let’s just say I brushed it off and she hated me since😂it is worse in a small TX town.
"That's too bad. So anyway..." You could just pretend to care, nod your head like you are listening to her explain struggle, then go about your day without becoming her friend. It's her problem and you didn't cause it.
@@GidarGaming If you're fake? Sure, absolutely, pander to the feelings of self destructive weirdos who refuse to recognize the consequences of their own actions. If you're real, tell them **the fucking truth** so maybe someday they might do something with it. Those who "pretend to care" are manipulative weaklings who look out only for number 1.
I am retired, but have a large family. These frustrated women also try to play the HR card. They do the aggressive come on, when you get that bad feeling and rightly ignore them. They become infuriated that you don't find them attractive then make up a hostile work environment complaint against you. Being fore-warned is being fore-armed. Head on a swivel- check and watch your six. Establish a good rep with HR.
I never mentioned to women that I date, that i had a vasectomy when I turned 18. A lot of women see a child as a way to lock a guy down for a source of income.
Awesome! I got mine at age 26.. it took a horrendous pregnancy scare mess when I was 24 to set me straight... Took a year to decide... then got it at 26! Zero regrets and I learned the power of the passport when I was 28! That vasectomy has 'come' in useful more times than I can count! LOL! (use condoms though! Keeps em thinking you're shooting live ammo and it keeps you safer from sti's!)
@@ryanb01 Read the part I put in ()'s... "Use condoms though! Keeps em thinking ou're shooting live ammo and it keeps you safer from sti's). Also... I got an sti twice from two different women prior to my vasectomy. I was supposedly (according to these women) in 'exclusive' relationships with them. As far as for me, I was only with each of them individually (different timelines there) but they were cheating... ONly happened with Western gals... non western gals have never given me an sti.
I use protection for the one night stands. I make sure that we both get tested before going raw, they always say that they are using the pill 💊, but you don't have to worry about them making a mistake and getting pregnant lol 😂 , even if they say that they don't want a baby 🤱
When I was in my early 30's, I had this sort of girlfriend (more friend than relationship) who was trying to control my life, including what I had to wear, suddenly having to be up to date with the latest music videos that she likes and she even made a big fuss if I got to her flat a few minutes late because of delays at work or transport issues with the trains (no driver or cable theft). She wanted to be married before the age of 35. At some point she told me that she suddenly found someone else because I did not make a move. I never even knew that she wanted me to make a move because she is always trying to shape me as she wants me to be. I am glad that I dodged that bullet.
She sounded annoying as hell. I don't know why you would hang out with anybody like that just to be friends. She definitely doesn't even sound good for friends with benefits
@@arnolda.lampel6087 No, but it's the point of it. And they should pay their own way, we shouldn't have to pay for them. But since they Khan - troll the HR depts and keep men out of jobs, they should start paying.... and I can't wait to see them working hard labor, construction, working in sewers, but we know that's beneath them like how they look at men working those jobs. With only 6 per 1000 getting married now and more and more being alone, things will change if we stop giving them our time and money. Over HALF of all men have stopped dating now.
Here's a thought: I'm a happily married man, nearly 30 years and counting. I met my wife in my mid-20's, both of us had previously dated others on a 'fun' getting-to-know-you basis. Neither one of us had been with anyone else because we both wanted to keep that side of things for 'the one' if we ever met that person. We met, it was fun, we got to know each other, we became friends, we fell in love, we decided we'd get married, we're happy. In today's dating situation there's a very, very high chance I'd still be single, likely still a virgin, and that would be fine by me - I don't need to be manacled to a selfish self-centred predator. Company, friendship? That's what friends are for!
The statistics is that by 30, only half of the US population gets married. Out of the 1st marriages, the divorce rate is 50%. Adding 2+2 it means that you still have 25% chance to be happily married. The "red pill" issue is I guess, that at the age of 30+ most of the "quality material" to marry with is already taken and happily married. All that is left is mostly sub-standard that you do not necessarily want to spend the rest of your life with.
calling them 'predators' would be generous as it entails effort and skill to hunt your prey... I would go for 'parasitic leeches' as many (maybe not all, but probably a majority) want you to pursue, court, prove yourself and commit so that they can enjoy a retirement of leisure at your expense with the option cashing out and leaving you destitute.
@Jacek Siuda THE red pill is that women don’t want to get married until they’re 30. Plus they only want the gorgeous guy scoring 9 or 10. (Or they “settle” for average guys who score 4, 5, 6 like us.) Of those 25% men who finally get married & not divorced, they still will be cuckolded by 1/5 of the wives (who cheated with a man on the side). You windup raising some other dudes kid .
Had a traditional relationship in the sense I worked and she stayed home with the kids. She looked at me one day and said, “Is having me at home with the kids and you being the bread winner what you need to feel like a man?” Can you imagine? In my mind I was giving her the opportunity to spend time and cherish the most important thing she will ever do in her life. That when she’s breathing her last the two boys she had by her side, she would know she had a man that loved her to make that happen. I’m done. After all the struggle to keep it afloat for 10 yrs she ran to the police and falsely accused me of abuse (not a mark on her) because she was afraid I would leave and have custody of the kids. I never married her because I always knew this was possible. It’s the only thing I have to hang on to now is my home. I haven’t seen the kids in 6 months. State sanctioned kidnapping. I am a father that is very very involved and interested in my boys.Don’t mary them it’s not worth it. I will be truthful I tried to marry her near the end to keep us together but it was to late she was already 1/2 way out the door.
@@samuelwilliams7331 Part of me feels bad she’s not here with the kids. I know that shit sounds crazy, but at least I would know theyre safe. Now with the DVPO I can’t be around her or the kids this shit is totally fucked. I wonder how many men walk on egg shells in fear of the backlash they will receive from a woman determined to ruin the man in her life. Shits disgusting.
so wait, she got paranoid and self sabotaged her life and most importantly kids' life? well we know how that is fed to children (your dad was deadbeat and not interested; state unfortunately plays along and dont push women any way when they are supposed to). TBF women should be pushed when they are teens, single 20-something, not when it is too late.
HOEFLATION: men are required to bring 10x more to the table than their grandfathers while women bring 10x less to a relationship than their grandmothers.
😂 I love this term
I heard it first on the Whatever podcast.
While being 20x worse PEOPLE than their grandmothers.
HOEFLATION. This must be added to the common vernacular.
Beautiful term, just started noticing the term floating around.
The other day, a 43 year-old single mother of three with two baby daddies was telling me that men need to really step up and impress her if they wanna date her. I have absolutely no idea how she’s entitled.
Haha she’s delusional as hell
... it's like a sales pitch in a dark alley from one you know is a scammer.
Yeah lol. They don't get it...20 year old, no kids...guys will step up to date them. 43, single mom...its not the guy stepping up that is the guy who is going to date them...its the guy too stupid not to step back.
Feminism
Shouldn't told her off.
My two baseline dating standards: No selling your ass on the internet, and no single moms. I swear to god, those two things eliminate like 90 percent of women. Standards are in the basement boys.
I would also add likeable personality but that's not a thing anymore.
What about fatties?
id say maybe 2.5 percent of women in our age bracket might qualify, thats just fucking sad. Which is why its a complete waste of time
Clarey's book of numbers comes to mind
just remember guys, women are no longer accepting the bare minimum 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am in my mid 50's and the women that I have talked to lately who are also in their 50's are right up front about saying they are just not into sex anymore. They had all the sex they wanted in their teens, 20's, 30's, and 40's and all they are looking for now is someone who can pay 80 percent of the bills because most of their money is going to help their children and grandchildren. Sounds like fun. Not
Thanks for the heads up. I'm 46 and cruising towards my fifties 😁
IF you get married or into a long term relationship make damn sure she is at least 10 to 15 years younger than you or you will go without sex in your 50s, 60s, and 70s. Guaranteed.
Sounds familiar! They look at Men as their ATM, who should be disrespected and ridiculed! Not going to happen!
True, how very true - sometimes reality comes as a shock when outlined so succinctly....
I would simply say, no libido no me. I can't even imagine a sexless relationship with an old woman who uses me as an ATM and dumps all her emotional toxicity on me. Women aren't just delusional, they're clinically insane and have zero value to Real Men.
Comparing dating to Job interviews is doing interviews a disservice. The last interview I had, my boss shook my hand and offered me a coffee. That’s more than any woman gave me on a first date.
Sad but true.
The boss didn't spend an hour complaining about their ex or the way other men treat them on dating apps, either.
My boss took me out to lunch after my interview. I don't think women would be willing to do that
😊👍
You've never gotten laid or hooked up on the first date or meeting? Ever? You've never had the dice roll your way once? That's hard to believe man, there's no way I'm that much better with women than you that it happens pretty often for me and I'm not even attractive, in shape, or rich.
My dad said to me 30 years ago, if the lady has kids and no partner, run away, they are not looking for a partner, they are looking for a bank account. 😐
That’s the kind of stuff dads need to be telling their sons.
Your dad was a very wise man.
They're not looking for love, they're looking for help.
@@JustinFH correct help to "someone to dump their responsibilities to".
@@JustinFH they can help themselves, they are strong and independent, after all.
Never become a stepdad. Never marry a woman with a kid, don’t live with them, don’t date them, don’t even talk to them. Never. No exceptions.
Only a Beta-Simp would do that ,
I lived by that rule for a very long time. I found a good woman without kids and baggage and have been happily married for 15 years. Never compromise your standards. I refused to use my resources to raise somebody else's kids. I was called all kinds of names (insensitive, cold, heartless, etc.), but I didn't care; they made their choices and I made mine.
I unfortunately know somebody who did just that. He dated, married, moved in with, and even had a baby with a single mother who already had 2 kids before he married her.
depend if she is a widow and not responsable for her husband demise haha something that is was not her fault mm maybe
If she had a child out of wedlock she's a tramp and not worth it, if she's not a widow then the chances are she dumped the first guy, stabbed him in the back. And not worth it.
Was doing uber months ago, and I was taking a girl to her home from her boyfriend’s house. She asked me what being a married woman is like. I shrugged and replied “I’m happy. I’ve never been one for drama or excesses, really.” Eventually, she started talking about how she couldn’t for the life of her figure out why her boyfriends were just leaving her alone with their kids (not hers) and then dumping her. I asked “How many boyfriends have you had?” She asked me to clarify boyfriend or body count. I said “either”.
She hummed and replied “I dunno. Like 12….times 3.” She was younger than me, and I’m in my late-20s.
I couldn’t help it. I sputtered “That’s why you can’t get a long term partner. You can’t find love if you think just sleeping with someone means you love them.”
She then made fun of me for having one partner, my husband, but I didn’t mind. I could tell reality hit her in the face a lot harder than she let on. I disinfected my car’s seats afterward because who know what was lining on those shorts.
That lady is nuts bro 😅😅😅 imagine thinking you are justified in making fun of someone for only ever having been with their husband. That's like making fun of someone for having a million bucks in their retirement account or not having any student loans. Like, is being an in debt and broke ass $5 a month stank Chlamydia a la mode cooch with poopy butt cuz you got acrylic nails something to be happy about????
The insults mask the jealousy. Well played.
those shorts? I did not know you can get infected with clothings?
She probably gave the seats Syphilis!!!
very sad, another wasted life
I had a conversation once with an ex girlfriend about how women aren't about money. She said she wants a guy who has traveled the world and done things, tell her all about it and take her on adventures. I replied that takes money. She lost her sh*t.
Not just money, that takes a LOT of money. I spent a weekend with a gal from Tinder, she used to be a Vegas stripper, and is still into the poly life and swingers stuff and whatever else, plus is a single mom. She kept talking about how she wants a man to travel the world with, be a dad to her kids, and accept her lifestyle. I straight up told her she's not finding that man. I said she's looking for a top class man who has choices. He doesn't want the party girl that's into that stuff or wants to be a Dad to your kids. No man that has that kind of money and that kind of free time is going to choose her. Basically that is a man so independently wealthy that he has free time to travel the world. Good luck landing him. She was actually very friendly though and great in bed. I told her she needs to accept a man that treats her nice and don't be so ridiculous with her expectations or she'll end up alone forever, she still has some time left, don't blow that time waiting for someone that will never come. She said she's going to wait for him.....yeah she'll be single forever. She didn't say any of that in her bio by the way, which is why I got together with her. I thought she just wanted some regular fun and to keep in contact, meet up and spend some time together here and there.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM Whats the point of "travelling the world" anyway? I simply dont get it. What are they searching for? Or is it just a status symbol so they can brag to their friends where they have been?
I have been around the world because of my job, and every time I have gone out there it just made me want to be home more and more. I hate seeing people suffering in poverty, but thats what you regularly see in these countries. Maybe they want to see that to feel better about themselves?
@DEADBEEF Moreover, there is plenty to travel in the United States. You don't need to leave thr country to have basically been everywhere. And you don't have to deal with the rampant poverty then...
@DEADBEEF somehow their version of travel is to live the queens dream. Eating, rushing into emotional rollercoaster, being treated as special at every place they arrive, dopamine in short. All of the people from that generation was raised that way so they are programmed to consume. In the other hand when you travel for work you have an schedule with some clear objectives to achieve, like a mission
😂
Women: "Men need to step up."
Men: "We did, we got jobs, worked hard, endured being treated as lower class citizens, got paid, getting property, have lots of toys and vacations."
Women: "Oh, you're perfect for me and my kids."
Men: "But you're not perfect for me and my bank account."
Women: "How dare you have standards! Accept me as I am, my past doesn't matter!"
Men: "If your past doesn't matter, than neither does your future. I'm not in either one."
+1,000,000
Ha. That's quite witty.😊
Love it.
Her: Calls HR to try and get you fired or arrested for "hate speech" or "misogyny"
That's when the gooobermunt gets involved and screws us over anyways...
Dude, I met a cool girl while doing charity work in the local church. Young girl around 25 (I'm 37), smart, no tattoos, nice smile, good personality and for a minute I thought "holy crap, am I going to the plantation again?", We hit it off, I'm going to ask her if we could hang out after in the local fair (there's this 'festa do padre' that happens every year here) and boooomm! She has a kid from some random dude.
Apparently she was a 'naive' young woman who liked to party in her late teens and early 20s but then found God...
It's and absolute mess my man, there's nothinh left but leftovers now.
Ahh the born again virgin 😂. She almost got you lol 😆.
Well you dodged another bullet congrats
There are no unicorns today.
Leftovers with a visible bite taken out of them and in a container that has someone else's name on it.
Her going for someone so much older should have been a clue
Had a single mom freak out on me because I nicely said I wasn't interested in dating women with children.
"But I'm a 10!" - what she was thinking, probably.
@@GidarGaming I would have said "Yeah, on a scale of 20".
@@edwardmarquis4411 100 lol
@@GidarGaming She's a 10 but on the pH scale.
Is that sour? Or acid?
I do all of those household chores as a single guy. Why do I need a single mom to dump more crap on me?
For real I told them I cook clean build, fabricate assemble. What are you bring to the table?? Crickets . Then I’ll be shamed that I asked that .
God forbid a man wants standards these days .
Women just want a robot that looks like a man that never complains , buys all her shit , she can fuk multiple men , never gets held to a standard
The choirs are *much* greater because women want more stuff then men on average. They can't be happy with enough, it's always more. Gotta have pets, gotta have multiple vehicles, gotta have so much crap that you need a bigger house which requires more maintenance, taxes, upgrades. It never ends. Few women are willing to live within your means and will constantly agitate or promotions, raises, bonuses so that they have access to more and more and more. Get a little nest egg in the bank or investments and they're looking to get a bigger house, newer car, more extravagant vacation(s), a nanny, a house keeper, etc. Never ending treadmill of increase and excess.
Most women are slobs.
and you'll have less time cuz you're expected to be the substitute father and spend time with her parents - she won't even think you have parents. I saw this twice - done done done
I just pay a woman to clean my place once a week. Pressing the easy button.
I'd like to thank this woman for making us realize that there is absolutely no downside to a man being single!
News flash ladies......WE DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS.
Exactly . Welcome to being a man ! No one gives a shit what you think lmak
not even a little bit.
Your comment Big Al, need's pinning.
I'm single and my quality of life is improving year by year, no joke. Why would I want to scratch such a good streak?
@@press-tilde Live your life. Be free brother.
Ask a single mom...
Would you marry a guy who had $300,000 in debt. Obviously, she will say no. Well, in the USA, it costs $300,000 to raise a child. So, why would you accept HER financial debt? Let alone the BS that comes with a single mom.
Never thought about it like that 🧐.
That is a myth. It does NOT take 330grand to raise a child. Next...
that's a low ball estimate too
@@bidensucks2922 Yep. My shitty state college is $35k / year in state tuition, dorm and books. All in you're at $150k to go to a shitty state college. $300k to raise a child sounds low, if they pursue higher ed it's way more.
@@bidensucks2922 And that estimate hasn't kept up with inflation. It's half a million probably by now.
Men are stepping up. Stepping up to stacking cash, enjoying their hobbies, working, or hell chilling and playing video games.
Facts bruv
Word
What games do you guys play?
LOL, yea that's it 😁 . I've recently finished my home cockpit flight simulator, powered by a bunch of fancy hardware. My life can't be better; and always happy while taking a ride up in the skies.
No potential wife in my life who vengefully could take my precious made DIY cockpit with her after divorce 🤣.
@@snorttroll4379 GTFO is great
When she ended her rant with "... go back to your mother's basement.", it felt like I was looking at a fractal pattern. Single mothers doing it on their own, raising men which other single mothers don't want to date, whom in turn raise more fatherless men that will be unappealing to the other single mothers of the future. Wild stuff.
And THAT is how you get societal collapse.
it's called self fulfilling prophecy
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Mandelbrot Hoe Set.
@@theelder4797 Mandelthot? 😂
"I'm not paying for something you've been giving away for free."
Words to live by.
Amen, brother.
And that's exactly what your typical single mother is expecting you to do, when they "finally decide it's time to settle down and get wifey."
Or just pay for the short, fun time & leave!
The actual saying is "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?"
@NinjaRunningWild Well, that's the saying and attitude of Chad & Tyrone all right.
And that's why real men seeking a normal adult relationship say "Why should I pay (take on your financial burden of raising Chad's child) for sex, when (you don't hold yourself and Chad responsible for his child, because) sex is something you've been giving away for free (to Chad) ???
My wife says: "Real Women want Real Men. Foolish girls want bad boys."
And real men won't settle for foolish girls. Especially one who's packing Chad or Tyrone's F-Trophy around with her.
@@jackreisewitz6632 Note the "settle down", not just settle.
"Why won't they step up"
Because it's actually a step down for men. Lower yourself for some other dude's leftovers... Why, though?
Their definition of stepping up is making a lot more money.
I would like to direct them to the nearest history books. Most men have been poor throughout history. It is what it is, and our economy is going down the crapper yet again, so what do these fools expect?
@@someone-ji2zb Their point of reference for what they think reality should be is social media.
@@tommcd8471 😂..💯
For these single mothers, the only man that needs to “step up” is the one who got you pregnant.
Exactly, the father who was good enough to knock her up is the man she needs to be with.
One question about this line of thinking: what if the single mother is a widow?
Yet, she cut him out for that cs check.... and most men don't have enough money to fight the corrupt family courts. Most likely already rendered him destitute
Women aren't choosing singlehood, singlehood is choosing them. HUGE difference.
Spinster Winter is long, cold and bitter … ❄️🥶☠️
Can we start calling these female's "insing's"? Involuntary single lmao 😂
Excellent observation Sir
Many choices come along with others. It's a package deal. There are any number of thirsty, kind, men, but most of them are not pretty alphas. There's a number of men who are happy to bang and leave with no commitment, but they don't want to help you with a family or really even know anything about you. The problem with some of these women is that they want all the best things mixed together and with no compromises. It's a childish view of the world, like you can just pick the pepperoni off the pizza someone else paid for and throw the rest away.
VERIFIABLE: 70% of all divorces are initiated by the woman. In non-married relationships the number is estimated to be close 80%.
So it is definitely WOMEN who are choosing singlehood.
My girlfriend was just telling me about her friend who "won't accept the bare minimum". She's 30 and never had her own place because she lives off of her parents.
She met a guy at the gym who makes 100k a year, but thinks that's not good enough because she wants a "luxury lifestyle". Wants to be married and work, but the money she makes is only for her.
She told the guy that she wont even pay for her own water bottle if they are hanging out, because that will show that he can provide for her.
Wow bet she thinks that he should have the responsibility to provide for her while having no authority over her.
Responsibility without authority is slavery.
And
Authority without responsibility is Tyranny.
So she's essentially a tyrant in need of a slave.
😂😂😅 she lives with her parents yet looks down on men making 100k.
Probably as smart as that broad who wanted a 100 dollar bill over a bitcoin.
Cuz its "just a bit of a coin?"
Wow! You’re famous!! 30 likes 🎉
that is one hell of a toxic chick to have around your girl my man, Her friend's bad traits will eventually become your girls bad traits.
When you wade through the thousands of fake profiles, bots, scammers, catfish and finally get a real woman to meet up with you in person, 90% of the time she is loud, obnoxious and combative. Not worth it, guys.
We should all know by now that dating apps are not dating apps. They are, at best, hookup apps, and for most women they are simply ego inflation apps. There are no good women on there.
I just downloaded Bumble and have matched with several attractive women, but not one has messaged me yet. And most of those matches have expired. Such a waste of time. I definitely won't pay for the app.
well said
@@timrich7861 matches are a scam to get you hooked into paying for the service, there are very few women on these apps that are willing to actually meet up in person. 3 years ago I had 450+ matches and was only able to convert 3 of them into real life meetups. The entire dating game is rigged AF. I wouldn't put it past these companies paying women to use their photos on the app, and then outsourcing the "chat" part to some third world country. Hell, you don't even need human beings to chat anymore, it can be done with A.I. and nobody would even be able to tell.
I misread it as “loud, obnoxious, and conservative” and I was like wait what
Dating a single Mother is like stepping on a landmine You're okay until you want to move!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's great news. The best thing I have done for myself was to stay on my own after divorce. I was used and had my life thrown into turmoil by a single mother. Took me years to sort out all the problems she caused me. 11 years later, I can't believe how far I've come and how much I've achieved alone. Yet I see the same women with all the same problems. No thanks!
Yes. Been all through the same thing. Turmoil is a great word, because that’s all my life was for a long long time after what the gal put me through.
@Warrior80 the English dictionary definition of the word "turmoil" is the long list of problems that a single mother can, will and has caused to a man of more probably multiple men!.
You learn and get better by judging yourself. Most women put all their problem on everybody else therefore cannot evolve neither get better.
Hell yes. Myself, married and divorced from 2 times. 1st marraige, 8 years and 2 sons. 2nd marraige 11 years and 3 more children. Both women brought nothing but negatively, problems, chaos and destruction into my life. These women didn't add ANYTHIBG to my life. I fell im pretty accomplished in my career but the financial destruction from these Women have just about ruined me. If I had moved thru life alone, up to this point, I would have surpassed all my goals and be living quite comfortably.
Almost every superhero is alone. The few who aren't, are slightly burdened
I divorced when I was 36. I'm still single and 70 now. Since my divorce I've done so many things and had such a good life I really can't believe it. Owned my own airplane, hot rods, sports cars, motorcycles, traveled etc. Didn't know it at the time, but, it sounds like I was ahead of my time. I don't dislike women; I just avoid relationships to be happy. If these women are so happy being single, why are they all bitching about it?????
37/66 i know what you mean.
You say you are 70 now, but do you feel like you are 70? Do you feel old? I am 37, and people are surprised because I look like I am under 30. I didnt have any relationships with women my whole life, so maybe its women who are are sucking out our life force, bringing us to an early grave...
@@deadbeef576 Why do you think men die first in marriages.
@@AgentKenshin We will soon find out when mens life expectancy goes up
@@deadbeef576 😂that's a good one
The "bare minimum" thing is the most cope argument i've ever heard about single moms and cat ladies.
They don't even do the bare minimum of maintaining the relationship with the father of their kids
This is been going on for longer than we think. Back in the 90s a good friend of mine up in Canada owned a company with 2000+ employees and eventually sold it for $500M. We were on his yacht in the South Pacific and he lamented to me "I run a multi-million dollar company but according to my wife I can't do nothing right". And me like an idiot instead of learning from his experience I ended up marrying the same kind of woman. Thank the man upstairs for these channels - keep it up Joker
How can you tell before the great metamorphosis? Their personalities before marriage are so different from their personalities after, it should have been "Miss Jekyll and Mrs. Hyde."
@@johnwilson1094 Well, there are enough indicators, alas, nobody is usually taught what they are and how to spot them. It requires channels of the likes of Surviving Narcissism and DoctorRamani to do the education instead...
Men shouldn't step up to be stepped on. Men will have all the parental responsibility but no parental authority.
Describes modern politics too… all the duties but authority. Tyrants always focus on getting the women on their side as they are natural tyrants too, and simpish men follow. Not my words, the words of a certain failed Austrian painter.
Responsibility without authority is slavery.
@@SayedHamra83 I don't care who said it, that is 1000000% true.
PAY UP SUCKER, Is their one-way street
Responsibility without authority is slavery.
They get to discover what 80% of men live through for the first 35 years of their life.
Now, those women get their own treatment, given to them.
Channels like yours are getting to young men and it just keeps getting better and better. The younger you learn this, the better.
Spot on :)
I'd argue not 80%, Maybe the very upper % of that 80% which only scratches the surface of what average men experience.
Not me, I had a rather good innings from age 20 to 30, averaging one lay a year and a gf every few years, whereas now at 38 I can't even get a conversation going on a dating app - not that I care to anymore as I have other things to do, but it goes to show all this self-improvement BS is just rhetoric, because I was just a kinda-crazy asshole who went places and did things and that worked out into sexual success eventually. Didn't work out, didn't practice game, didn't even have a fucking job for most of the time, but none of those things mattered in those days.
@@wisdomandy9361 I know I'm being conservative. Nowadays, only the top percentage of guys get a turn.
The rest of us don't get a shot and when we pass on the leftovers, see video
I wish I had this information when I was 20. Good lord. Joker would have changed my life.
Last weekend a chubby 45yo woman (with no bf/hubby) told me I'm not allowed to have an opinion because I'm a guy. She lives on disability + alimony + fast food job, in a small apartment, with no rainy day fund. Her claim to fame is pumping out 5 kids (she reminded me several times). I just smiled and left when possible, back to my self made kingdom and paid off property filled with peace.
Don't you love the way women think they get to decide what you're allowed to say? They have become quite totalitarian.
@@nnotny "The Mother" is a totalitarian over her infant children, and for a good reason. But the problem is when they take out this "Mother Dictator" attitude on free, adult people.
If you got involved with her and let her kids move in, you would have lost that place within 2 years.
You're a more reserved person than me.
I'd be far too tempted to say something like "when you can take care of yourself by yourself, like a normal human being, you can be allowed to have an opinion."
Don't fvcking tell me im not allowed to have an opinion, feminazis. You lardy fvcking _cows._
@@nnotny Not to mention how people will say you're not allowed an opinion because you're white.
Just being a jerk fixes all your problems. Stop being nice, that's what they want
I call them cunnntz but that doesnt seem to work
@@WhirlingMusic you have to say that to their face though
@@rothaarige3896 I would but a ton of white knights would have my ass on a stake. I would have to whisper it.
I love the irony. Single moms having the audacity to interview men while dating? Ummm no, in this case, the men should be doing all of the interviewing. What do THEY have to offer a single/childless man???
"Headaches" There, the 15 second interview is over.
No men should not be doing the interviewing. They shouldn’t even be on a date with them.
Guys need to act on this. Don't pay for her part of the date, make this clear from the outset so you avoid the food hounds. Quietly sit through her job interview, then give her just one question of your own: "Apart from sex, what would you bring to a relationship with me that would improve my life?" (She started it.)
The date should be over quickly.
@@whenpigsfly8178 You left out "Empty Wallet". Still fits inside the 15 second interview.
Yeah, I mean, even if a guy gets wrecked in family court and has kids, if he dates another woman with kids, that's begging for a nightmare. Now, being fair, it's not 100% of single moms that are bad news, there are unicorns in the bunch where they got married, thought they'd be married for life, and she eventually finds out he's had a ton of affairs, or he just ghosts. There are a few women who've been treated by men how most women treat men in a marriage, and they would've otherwise been good candidates for a long term relationship if not for getting fooled (like many of us guys got fooled). It does happen.
Other men will not pay the price for women's mistake. If she's a single mother it's by her own doing.
Or or her husband died or ended up in jail for some reason
This is my only 2 reasons i would place NO blame on her, as its something out of her control
@@matthewwilson5019 what if she drove her husband to unalive himself? A lot of men unalive by reason of divorce, homelessness and financial hardship.
Or if he had a natural death did she abandon him in his last moments?
@@rajakghosh6602 then she should be single for life, BUT what i mean is like a car crash or work death or died/was killed in the military. Or anything THATS NOT suicide nor because of her making him off himself.
@@rajakghosh6602 but still yea I would never date nor marry a single mother, it would never work out
Unfortunately there are still far too many guys out there marrying single moms. It's embarrassing
When men encounter female attractiveness, they have a choice. They can bow down to it or they can ignore it. A smart man does the latter.
Uhhhh no
@@blackpillfitness9136 then what is your view?
Prov.6:25 said it all
@@daswede3064 AMEN, AMEN, Oh god bless you!
It needs to be present, but is otherwise completely unimportant. A single mom who is not a widow demonstrates that she's not capable of being trusted with a man's health, soul, money, or honor.
I love how nearly every single one of these articles - 99% of the time written by women - always, ALWAYS resort to blaming and shaming men. Zero accountability, zero self reflection, never asking their own side what they could be doing wrong. This does exactly the opposite of what they think it'll do i.e. men simply get turned off.
At 49, I can say they are not even on the list. They are a chore. "Job Interview" is exactly what it is. They want to assess you and are you willing to be manipulated.
Amen , I can't even get excited about the thought of meeting one anymore .
@@drjohnsonhungwell5115
Yeah, i haven't thought about that in a while, but it's the truth isn't it? 🤔
Holy shit you're right
At least with a job interview you know what you’re worth, what you put in, what you get out of and can quit if you’re unhappy. The dates however have the power to completely destroy you.
And the irony is that men are not allowed to apply the same degree of interrogation to women
I'm a 36 year old man. It's insane how many women my age think that they would be doing me a favor just by showing up. I downsized my entire life and now live the way I want to, their chaos isn't worth it.
Are you even interested in 36 year old women as a 36 year old man? I wasn't at that age. I was only interested in 27-30 year olds in my mid-30s. I thought it would be obvious why, but women I knew didn't get it.
I have some girlfriends who are very attractive but are the "just show up" type I have to actually do more than just appear
downsizing your life is truly underrated.
@@EightTicks8 Not even in the slightest, which is something they just don't get. I didn't even look at women over 25 seriously when it came to marriage or a family (something I've since given up entirely).
@@EightTicks8you are 100% right, if you are gonna date a mid 30’s woman in your 30’s then why bother at all, if it’s not 20’s after a decade or more of rejection, then why not do anything else, maybe get a professional for a while and wait some more years, lots of women HATE that and rant and rave with their propaganda acting like late 20’s women are “being taken advantage of”… just coping their own rational, anything other then to accept the truth of them simply not being desirable at all anymore, idk about any of y’all but usually just within a year or two of mid thirties it’s like a damn train comes in to wreck them, it’s actually quite remarkable, yes I know the wall, but just how quickly it comes in like a wrecking ball, it’s amazing
Dating has been absolutely nightmare for me as a 35y old male. Women are entitled, moody, rude and disrespectful. I'm out.
True.
You forgot about their immaturity
36 and yes, they are dumpster fires
32 and yep. Monkey branched every time
Artificial womb
I heard this a while ago: If she’s over 30 and single, she’s crazy.
When I was young it seemed I was always invited over only to find a single mom with a few kids there. One time I admit she was super cute but 2 kids wasn't worth it. I didn't have a dad and went through the drunk step father routine so I felt sorry for the kids. But if they don't want you when they are single they still don't really want you.
no at that point they are looking for a sucker they can leach on to and then divorce you and take over half your crap.
ALL single mothers are ultimately looking for a stepdaddy.
ALL OF THEM.
it's never worth raising someone else's kids
The h03z...
Well said.
Woman: I'm done having fun.
Translation: I no longer want sex.
Not really Im done with carousel riding for the time being. Now I need a security blanket. I'll pretend as a dutiful wife for few years have his children and then dip out. And a new carousel riding phase starts.
Facts!! Great translation
Nah they still want sex, they just want the resources. She will still get the sex where she can.
She wants sex. Just not with the Oofy Doofy, that she married.
Perfect!🔥👈👍
Always remember, the women wanted this. They chose this outcome millions of times over, individually and collectively. No help to any woman who is not yours, no raising children who not yours.
No, your society chose this when you discarded 2,000 years of traditions of values. You blame women, so I ask: Why didn’t men stop them? They don’t pull this shit in Saudi Arabia.
No, your society chose this when you discarded 2,000 years of traditions and values. You blame women, so I ask: Why didn’t men stop them? They don’t pull this shit in Saudi Arabia.
To all men. It is just so simple..
🚫 Do not date single moms! 🚫
It’s a waste of time.
It is just a waste of time.
And how is this good for society?
The next gen will be even more retarded
Exactly. We're going to see the try to shift the blame. Don't let them get away with it!
Divorced without kids at 33. Fooled around for two years while looking for 25-28 year old girl. Above 30 not even if they come crying
Single moms always say their kids are their world and come first. Which is OK, which means you're last.
Spoiler alert: Their kids don't even come first either. Single moms will drop their kids off at day care even if they land the beta bucks.
Exactly and that also means no time for you also, and single mothers offer nothing at all
Also, the part about her kids coming first is ALWAYS a lie. She's always her top priority, she only uses her children as tools.
They come first because they are their line of child support money and tax payer big daddy government money
Looking at how children raised by single mothers turn out (crime, drugs, self deletion), that's a blatant lie too.
Wait a minute Joker.......a single mom decided to "take action" and rant on TikTok?!?!?! SHOCKING!
*I think you mean **_stunning and brave_*
(Not "shocking")
I quit dating after I took the red pill back in 2018. Ex was crazy. Then I met a 42 yr old single mother of 2 (I’m 35) organically through climbing. We have a lot in common and traveled to many awesome places to climb and her two boys are really awesome. Spent the last 3 years doing this on and off thing and recently things got pretty serious between us. Since our relationship had moved into a more serious position I decided to put it out on the table that I voted republican (she’s a democrat) in the last presidential election and I told her I didn’t care who she voted for because I know she’s a good person. (I never lied to her, just never told her who I voted for) well fast forward and I haven’t seen her or the boys in a month. It really hurts that she just cut me out after all we’ve done and been through together so I just put a down payment on a new motorcycle last night. Bachelor life it is! I really appreciate your channel Joker!
A motorcycle is nothing to brag about. I remember this skinny guy at work who would put his motorcycle helmet on his file cabinet so that everyone could see it.
Yup, all it took was that little difference. Loyalty is hard to find.
You’ve probably dodged a bullet!
Looks like she never really respected you. Probably felt like you were beneath her the whole time too.
You're better off bro! Enjoy that motorcycle.
A peaceful life is worth more than any relationship.
First date and talking about "our kids" is a deal breaker.
It’s really dependent on their age. If she is young like 20-22 that’s not a red flag. She probably doesn’t want to waste time with useless guys. You have to respect that, but if she is nearing 30 then yeah run away 😂
@@Austenfan177 pick your poison really. I’d rather be with someone who wants a family and have good moral values from a 20-24 year old girl than someone that is a lot older. It’s a lower chance of being deceived. Plus, I know how to vet girls pretty easily.
Just say to her something like "Of course, but we need not to rush things and we might have a kid after 5 years" and then see the look on their faces.
@@billykhoury4038 It is a red flag, doesn't matter the age, vvomen on my country already have 2-3 kids by the time they have 20 years.
He could talk about "our orgies" and "our threesomes".
Back in the day, single mothers were looked down on, it's good to see that is coming back in style. These women are either not getting married before having kids, or getting married having kids and then getting divorced. Either way, both are looked down on as people who make very poor choices and now have extra baggage.
Scarlett letter
single mothers used to go to CONVENTS.
now it's the scarlet number: 403.
"Back in the day, single mothers were looked down on, it's good to see that is coming back in style."
It never stopped being that way, as long as you are not a moron
Back in the day, they took the children away and gave them to competent couples.
And that's the '60's and earlier.
Singles moms are like unsold DVDs in the clearance section still nobody wants
yeah, scratchy fronts and backs, the content is something you know howe it ends and will always left you with a cringe. Leave it where it is and belongs and happy hop along with your life.
Stop insulting DVDs.
I don't know about that. I've found 2 or 3 5$ dvds that were worth the money. Not sure I've ever met a woman that was. Clearance dvds are higher up the ladder.
More like 1980s cassette tapes.
Yeah, they sucked to begin with, and they still suck.
I'm totally done with dating women and I've never been happier
I just love how women judge us while hiding their real looks underneath piles of enhancements.
Cant hide feminine odor
It is just so simple..
🚫 Do not date single moms! 🚫
It’s a waste of time.
It is just a waste of time.
It's a clownfest ain't it...
eh its a weird cycle though. the only reason women are wearing makeup is to look hot to get a man because men seemingly only want young hot women and nothing else. so because of men being like that women wear pounds of makeup. why do you think it takes us women so long to get ready? we have to shave, we have to do our hair, we have to put on pounds of make up to look perfect otherwise we're told we're "gross fat and ugly, omg are you sick or something???". im just saying it goes both ways and it isn't just womens fault. both sexes need to chill out. women get it pounded into our heads men only want us for sex and nothing else so maybe men should try to change that and maybe things will change after that. maybe dont act so desperate and horny all the time so then women wont be told that men only want us for sex and then maybe we wouldn't behave as if men only want us for sex.
i honestly think women should be the ones to initiate romantic things since ya know women are the ones who are not horny all the time so it'd make sense for us to do it. i mean we get aggrivated at the amount of times men ask us to date us or that they're horny. i can't tell you how many times ive had men tell me they're horny out of no where as if its my problem to solve. too many and its annoying AF. but again its both sexes that need to work things out because right now everything is fugged up royally. and no im not hating on men at all im just saying women aren't all to blame for this.
@@Parasiteve It seems like you know very little about what men actually want. Hollywood, Madison Avenue, and possibly your peer group, have implanted an intractable number of erroneous ideas in your head.
It's actually much simpler than what the e$$$tablishment had led you to believe.
VVomen: Use invisibility spell on men
90% of all the men disappear: ahhhh
Also VVomen: Side effect of using invisibility spell too often caused them to be invisible to men
Men: Oh no. Anyway
Their lives are a disaster
you spelled it wrong. It's Waaaahmin!
I was at a Barbecue, and cooking for everyone, the aunts pulled up a chair to drink to my beer. They started in on men, being bad. I’m married for 31 years. Two day later, wife is saying let’s have another barbecue this weekend it was fun. I said no, I have other things to do. Nothing like being surrounded by six biter cat ladies on my day off. No, thanks
Ironic. Bbq probably put on at your expense too, women are clueless
Lol ignore them as much as possible
They are jealous of your wife living a happy life with her husband.
they will try to sabotage your marriage
@@daniel79tj True
Poor cats
Had a date with a 39 year old woman, who 10 minutes into the date said cards on table, Im married, I have a kid. Then started circling the wagons with questions about cars and what watch I had. I excused myself.
I feel sorry for her husband
She was out on a date with you because she is looking for a better deal, even though she is married. It doesn't sound like she will be married for very much longer. Then she will be giving it up for free and saying why did I ruin my perfect marriage?? Lol
Bitter Single Mom: “why won’t men step up?”
Men: “because you side-stepped the good men and laid down with Chad in your prime, and good men no longer want you in your decline.”
Exactly 💯
"A man already stepped up, why don't you ask _him_ ?"
No self-respecting man should ever accept Ch4d and Tyrone leftovers.
@@Fangroth Never raise devil spawn.
True dat
Oh, come on guys. Don't be a stepdad be a dad that stepped up. Have 100% responsibility of a biological father but 0% authority over the child. And wait till they are teenagers and listen to this beautiful sound of "Don't tell me what to do you are not my real dad!". Shut up and pay support when your relationship with a single mother falls apart because in some countries you are liable for child support even though you are not the biological father!
Been there. Done that. Came to hate every minute of it.
Then don't go to worse parts of the world lol, stay in Asia/Africa
Modern women are like opening up a beer, letting dozens of people take a drink, then let it sit until its flat and saying why dont you want it?
😂
Wow! What a bullseye!
Bud light in particular 😂
Yep it's a Bud Light trans moment in reverse - the twisted Sister's agenda in full force
They don't want a child that's not theirs
And they don't want a 304
And they don't want STI STD farms
Why, oh why, did we give them the vote?
Somebody once told me "Dating a single mom is like playing somebody else's saved game"
Yea its almost like your not worthy playing your game from the beginning its crazy
"just before he was about to die"
That you have to pay full price for while the guy you got it from bought it on sale.
Or putting your dick in a pile of garbage and expecting good things to happen
@@davien001
Sale? MF bought it At a freaking garage sale
I’m really tired of my tax money just being given to single moms that bailed on their husbands.
That is a very narrow statement! There are more than one reason for single mothers being out there and the " bailing " out on the child's father.
Only cucks pay taxes
Yeah, we have proxy wars and faucis biolabs to fund!
@@khankrum1 uh huh, and what do you think the percentage is. I guarantee op's statement covers more than 50% and prob much closer to 90%. Keep in mind 70+% of divorces are initiated by women.
It IS a very narrow statement. He literally said "for single moms who bailed on their husband."
He didn't say anything about the ones in other situations.
You attacked him for something he didn't say.
"Woman can do it all on their own!" Okay. Abolish alimony, abolish child support and you can have it all...
T H I S
Don't FORGET welfare that's how most of them get by
Underrated comment🔥
Child Support should be provided if it's your kid.
if the mother isn't stable
Time frame for mother looking for job.
Then 50/50
@@stevewilson4718 - NO, cs should be provided only if it’s your kid *AND* the mother stays with you (“marriage”). Not if she rides the carousel. Also, the pregnancy MUST be agreed upon beforehand. These sneaky sl00res do it on purpose to get pregnant, so that you have to pay her while she enjoys all the D that she wants at your expense. Wake up, simp.
The wallflowers are setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of disappointment.
You Go Girl... You Got This ... Stunning and Brave !
The article said she was making good points, she made zero points. I take a huge risk, give up my freedom, my peace of mind, and a huge portion of my finances to take on a contentious woman who does not even like men, another mans brat, and I also got to share the housework. WHAT A DEAL ! make it make sense.
It makes sense because, vagina.
Also the article is probably hive mind parroting. Nothing was gained
They reduce themselves to be just holes. And thats for what they are still good for. They get used from the chaf "they" choose and wonder, after getting used, where all the good men are.....these creatures sre so easy to manipulate by the system used against us....its pretty sad......emotional beings are incredible......dumb
Feminism ruined it for them. They did it to themselves.
True story...One of my best friends who would give you his shirt off his back spent several years dating a single mom they decided to move in togather but in the end all she did was take advantage of him with her 2 kids..Her first words after after he decided to end it were..''But who's gonna babysit'.....I've since advised him NOT TO DATE single mothers and to go his own way.....
He hasn’t worked that out himself? Is he simple or something …
I feel bad for him, but it's simps like him that are enabling all this "single mother but I'm high value" attitude. As soon as men stop even giving them looks, immediately you'll see a attitude shift.
But who's gonna baby sit?
Lol ...wow.. they are scum. Treat them as such.
@@ma3stro681 no, just a good man who got taken advantage of through his own naivety.
@@ma3stro681 Not simple he just thought she was worth it and he had to learn the hard way since then he's gone on to do great things for himself..
Omg Jokers reaction to that particular TikTok had me cracking up 😂😂
60 year old here who met a single Mom with two young boys (3 and 4). Did not get married but stayed together until both of them signed up for the military when they turned 18.
Now, I never worked extra shifts and spent way more time hanging out with both of them with male bonding activities that most Dads do with their sons. If I had to guess, figure 90/10 time spent compared to their own biological Mother.
Exactly one year to the month after they left for boot camp she dumped me. Could not figure it out until putting 1+1+1 together did not equal a monogamous couple. But here is the kicker.
My two sons are hella close to me and could give a shit about their own Mom, especially when they found out she cheated. Given how most boys run roughshod over a single Mother, I have no doubt they would have become delinquents and maybe spent some time in prison. Both of them now have solid careers, married, own homes and have produced 5 grandchildren between the both of them.
Yeah, it sucked major ass being cheated on back then but I would not trade that brief heartache for the resulting positives raising confused young kids into solid productive men.
What a harrowing story, good job making it out of that and still seeing the bright side.
You were a MAJOR factor in them becoming successful men in a challenging, traditional, merit based, results oriented, male culture - career workplace. Thank GOD they had you, and they know it. I'm sure if you rang them up in an emergency, they'd crawl over glass & barbed wire to get to you. God Bless...
God job sir.
Hats off and a big handshake to you sir. You DID make a big difference for those boys. More proof that dads need to be in their kids' life... or in your case, more proof that a father-figure is needed.
I’ll bet you’re grandpa to their children, and their mother will be walking on thin ice for what’s left of her life. Enjoy your family, you’ve won the game.
Ya know what else is an absolute beautiful, priceless aspect of life? Peace, silence, and knowing I can afford to do whatever I want. And accepting responsibility if my choices have a negative impact. This woman is incredibly bitter.
Stay far away from them
Life decisions matters, this women, thought they could get away with their awful life choices and have prince charming in the end.
They were wrong.
Why do men prefer a brand new car from the dealership instead of one from the used car lot? They're just insecure!
I used to babysit my nieces when they were younger. Now they are peacocking their a$$es on Instagram. I’m so ashamed of them. But, my sister wasn’t much different. Like mother like daughter.
Link? >;)
@@nigredoooalgown6245 Hah! Ask the rest of us, brother. Not the red-faced uncle.
@@rocqitmon Eh... link? :)
Also sister, not brother :P
I love this philosophy. Women are strutting around all large and in charge, crowing about their expectations as men are increasingly disinterested. And it's somehow our fault that they are unattractive.
They're starting to claim they were "tricked" by feminism.
I am not disinterested in women. I am just indifferent. I have my guy friends I hang out with and not one of them has ever cheated on me, filed a false police report on me, divorced me or took me to court for alimony.
@@RespectMyAuthoritaah ettttt5😮😮5rrt
By large you mean OBESE!The average bra size in America in the last thirty years has more than doubled.I used to sell lingere
@@RespectMyAuthoritaah That`s because you didn`t MARRY ONE THEM.Marry one of them?...,and the same thing will gappen.
Young men: Dates feel like job interviews.
Experienced Men: Always has been.
And super wise men : if it's a job interview you failed already
Uber man: interviews her.
"Always has been" ... yes and now ... I think that, in times past, women were a little more subtle about it, and were also took a little more time in their interrogation, waiting until later dates to whip out the "job interview" question list, and not ask them all at once.
Flip the script. IT'S THE MAN WHO RECRUITS THE WOMAN. GROW A PAIR.
@@marcmillis3867 I know that now. I just wish I knew that 20 years ago.
On some level though I always knew that, but I had thought that I was the one who was supposed to sacrifice or else I'm the egotistical terrible person. I don't do that anymore.
"Let's be bad guys!"
This is an outstanding show ! The advice , facts Real insight to women , a real eye opener !
I love it!!! I checked out of American society in my early 20s once I discovered international travel. Im now in my mid 40s. For decades I couldnt understand how men would spend thousands on some lavish wedding on a depreciating asset (their wife) only to be financially ruined for the eventual divorce. The desperation that I witnessed (some were even my friends) was utterly disgusting. They all had that scarcity mindset whereas there is no such mindset overseas. I never thought in my lifetime that American men would actually man up and see what a raw deal they get in this country
What women are the best you’ve found in your travels?
That's why I keep telling dudes on here, especially American one who seem yo only discover now that there is a world outside of America to travel, because that will change all their perspectives, drastically... And wmen in the West perfectly know that, that's why they are pissed.
My first trip was Cuba, I was 25 (I am 42 now), then many other places across the globe. Now, I cannot see "modern wmen" in the West in a different way than sad clowns, they are not even attractive to me, no matter how they look.
How can you afford to live on the road?
For me, Latin American countries have the best women.
Bingo a lot of men are reta rded within the context of relationship.
Its like modern feminism has liberated men from women vs the other way around.
Back when I was single and friends would try to hook me up with single moms I told them as soon as they got rid of their ties to the kid I would consider a date. It was a very quick filter and I weeded out friends who didn't have my values.
Dr Orion Taraban said being involved with modern women is like taking on a second job for which you do not get paid.
I would add, it's actually like having to pay for that second job.
Modern relationships = lose you all your freedom most of your money and you end up paying for HER kids for 18 years and are just as alone but with no money left.
Can't count the # of those "job interviews" from which I've walked away. Even had one CPA woman do a credit report on me. A friend of mine told that a prospective and her mother checked the County Recorder's office to see how many properties he had in his name...... Disgusting.
Hell no!!! Wow, they probably do this without us realizing it! Wow...
So just owning one home isnt enough anymore? A man must own several properties? Doing that research alone is disgusting.
Its a similar phenomenon happening in women that happens to people that are heavy Pron addicts.
Due to Social Media - their expectations of the norm and reality are heavily skewed way out of balance.
The average girl thinks she is amazing and that amazing men are average; > average men are invisible.
While at the same time demanding that all men accept her for who she is and ALL her flaws /bc she has anxiety.
As a former heavy pron addict, I feel attacked.
Especially because my "parameters"/things I want in a girl have stayed the same for over a decade now.
But I understand where you are coming from.
Spoiler Alert: Women watch corn too. Alot of it, actually. That's exactly where the idea that all black men have huge c*cks comes from. These women watch a bunch of porn in their early teens, f*ck like rabbits til thirty comes knocking and THEN, all of a sudden, they need a real man and, a serious relationship. Riding the carousel and drowning in corn damages women's perception of reality. If a male 5 sleeps with a 10, he knows he got lucky. If a female 5 sleeps with a 10, she thinks that makes her a 10 too. That's why all women think they're 10's. Some slept with one, others are constantly affirmed and validated on social media. No matter how you slice it, corn and, social media have damaged society in a way I dare call irreparable. And, it's used the deadliest, most dangerous poison of all. The poison of endless fantasy.
i was over at a friends house to a nice evening watching a movie. we got to talk about dating, about everything we had to bring to the dating table, my question to my friends wife was what do women bring?? her answer was "we" are the table!..............nope
There was this post on Instagram of a girl at the toystore and she wants a Barbie. The girl asks why single barbie is only $20 and divorced barbie is $200? The woman that owns the store says divorced barbie comes with Ken’s car, house, boat, computer, furniture, his money, his jewelry and his best friend.
Hahahahaha…
Yeah it's why at 45 I don't want to get remarried because she got everything in my divorce and the women I can find to date also did which puts them in a controlling situation where I will just be an accessory in her life.
This is pricelessly amusing. If it’s original, I think a career in comic writing beckons …
… provided you don’t get canceled first !!
The next generation of men will have a better idea of how screwed they are if they sign the marriage contract! That's the only reason I create content! 👀
Screwed is an understatement.
Court will take the skin off a man’s back just for being human.
Thank you for what you do. The next generation of boys should know the truth.
YEET.
no hymen no diamond!!
I signed up
The same women that scream “men do better!!”, are also the ones that hop on social media and show the world in 4K why they are in the situation that they are in.
THEY are the ones that need to do better!!!!!!!!!!
Joker dude you made me laugh so hard with this video!!!
The woman is using a voice filter to trivialise and make light of an issue she actually takes to heart in reality
@Ecam115 I don't have TikTok, but this is extremely common from what I have seen from youtube creators making videos about women who make TikToks.
Spongebob filter?
@@charliefortenth1998 lol
@Charlie Fortenth I never watched SpongeBob (wrong age range), but I think you are right... but it's just plain stupid because nobody finds SpongeBob attractive.
I thought she sped up the video and that's why it sounds so odd? They have voice filters now? Gosh, is there NOTHING real about women anymore?
First comes the job interview, then comes the circus act of jumping through hoops. 😒😒
Better to just watch the show from the sidelines and laugh. 😏😏
I have been single, coming up on 9 years, and have been happier ever since my divorce. I have noticed a serious change in women's attitude towards men. I am done looking and decided to stay single and do my own thing.
Peace and quiet are addictive. Welcome, brother.
@@daveeyesI’ve had plenty of time to play that new Legend of Zelda game. No one bitching at me, just exploring.
@jaimeruiz7837 yup thats sounds like a dream 😂 👍.
@@jaimeruiz7837enjoy yourself, that's what its all about.
Women get upset when I'm at a restaurant or bars and I voice loudly I will only date women who make 100,000 +, have their own vehicle, their own place and no children...
This is a nationwide problem. Once upon a time I worked at an Amazon warehouse. Single mom central! One of my coworkers (single mom) was expressing her frustration that she has no friends but her kids and she’s lonely..let’s just say I brushed it off and she hated me since😂it is worse in a small TX town.
"That's too bad. So anyway..."
You could just pretend to care, nod your head like you are listening to her explain struggle, then go about your day without becoming her friend. It's her problem and you didn't cause it.
@@GidarGaming If you're fake? Sure, absolutely, pander to the feelings of self destructive weirdos who refuse to recognize the consequences of their own actions. If you're real, tell them **the fucking truth** so maybe someday they might do something with it.
Those who "pretend to care" are manipulative weaklings who look out only for number 1.
I am retired, but have a large family. These frustrated women also try to play the HR card. They do the aggressive come on, when you get that bad feeling and rightly ignore them. They become infuriated that you don't find them attractive then make up a hostile work environment complaint against you.
Being fore-warned is being fore-armed. Head on a swivel- check and watch your six. Establish a good rep with HR.
Yooooo I worked at Amazon for a bit. They all act like fucking children, and are constantly cheating on their partners. Shit is fucked up.
@@fastek1kazz49 And make sure there are recordings.
I never mentioned to women that I date, that i had a vasectomy when I turned 18. A lot of women see a child as a way to lock a guy down for a source of income.
Awesome! I got mine at age 26.. it took a horrendous pregnancy scare mess when I was 24 to set me straight... Took a year to decide... then got it at 26! Zero regrets and I learned the power of the passport when I was 28! That vasectomy has 'come' in useful more times than I can count! LOL! (use condoms though! Keeps em thinking you're shooting live ammo and it keeps you safer from sti's!)
Mine at 34
Don’t you care about STIs?
@@ryanb01 Read the part I put in ()'s... "Use condoms though! Keeps em thinking ou're shooting live ammo and it keeps you safer from sti's). Also... I got an sti twice from two different women prior to my vasectomy. I was supposedly (according to these women) in 'exclusive' relationships with them. As far as for me, I was only with each of them individually (different timelines there) but they were cheating... ONly happened with Western gals... non western gals have never given me an sti.
I use protection for the one night stands. I make sure that we both get tested before going raw, they always say that they are using the pill 💊, but you don't have to worry about them making a mistake and getting pregnant lol 😂 , even if they say that they don't want a baby 🤱
When I was in my early 30's, I had this sort of girlfriend (more friend than relationship) who was trying to control my life, including what I had to wear, suddenly having to be up to date with the latest music videos that she likes and she even made a big fuss if I got to her flat a few minutes late because of delays at work or transport issues with the trains (no driver or cable theft). She wanted to be married before the age of 35. At some point she told me that she suddenly found someone else because I did not make a move. I never even knew that she wanted me to make a move because she is always trying to shape me as she wants me to be. I am glad that I dodged that bullet.
To be fair, you are the one who is suppose to make the move, not the woman
You were too busy trying to make her happy and be what she wanted, instead of being you and taking what you want. But now you know better.
She sounded annoying as hell. I don't know why you would hang out with anybody like that just to be friends. She definitely doesn't even sound good for friends with benefits
@@someone-ji2zb Yes, he made a move, he got out of the way of the bullet that she showed herself to be.
The right move was to not make a move, i mean why would you?, she was controlling and demanding right of the bat, there was no reason to make a move.
When the pitcher is blind & throws 103mph fastballs only a fool steps into the batter's box...
Since women are making more now, they need to "step up and take responsibility" and PAY FOR MEN. No double standards.
Ain't gonna happen
@@arnolda.lampel6087 No, but it's the point of it. And they should pay their own way, we shouldn't have to pay for them. But since they Khan - troll the HR depts and keep men out of jobs, they should start paying.... and I can't wait to see them working hard labor, construction, working in sewers, but we know that's beneath them like how they look at men working those jobs. With only 6 per 1000 getting married now and more and more being alone, things will change if we stop giving them our time and money. Over HALF of all men have stopped dating now.
I dated a single mother before. Worst mistake of my life! Drained over 50k of my money within 3 years. Plotted an escape and left.
What crime have I committed to be PUNISHED by having scarce non-virgin options these days?
sweet jesus. it's a time share investment scam.
Never d.... a single mom.
+Vincent
how did you lose all of that money?
@@RuddsReels had to get her a car, pay for one year of her child's education, and other expensive expenses.
Here's a thought:
I'm a happily married man, nearly 30 years and counting. I met my wife in my mid-20's, both of us had previously dated others on a 'fun' getting-to-know-you basis. Neither one of us had been with anyone else because we both wanted to keep that side of things for 'the one' if we ever met that person.
We met, it was fun, we got to know each other, we became friends, we fell in love, we decided we'd get married, we're happy.
In today's dating situation there's a very, very high chance I'd still be single, likely still a virgin, and that would be fine by me - I don't need to be manacled to a selfish self-centred predator. Company, friendship? That's what friends are for!
LOL.....sooooo....you really think she was a virgin when you got ahold of her? cute.
Facts! What Apostle Paul=Thanos advocated after he met "Iron Man" on the road to Damascus.
The statistics is that by 30, only half of the US population gets married. Out of the 1st marriages, the divorce rate is 50%. Adding 2+2 it means that you still have 25% chance to be happily married.
The "red pill" issue is I guess, that at the age of 30+ most of the "quality material" to marry with is already taken and happily married. All that is left is mostly sub-standard that you do not necessarily want to spend the rest of your life with.
calling them 'predators' would be generous as it entails effort and skill to hunt your prey... I would go for 'parasitic leeches' as many (maybe not all, but probably a majority) want you to pursue, court, prove yourself and commit so that they can enjoy a retirement of leisure at your expense with the option cashing out and leaving you destitute.
@Jacek Siuda THE red pill is that women don’t want to get married until they’re 30. Plus they only want the gorgeous guy scoring 9 or 10. (Or they “settle” for average guys who score 4, 5, 6 like us.)
Of those 25% men who finally get married & not divorced, they still will be cuckolded by 1/5 of the wives (who cheated with a man on the side). You windup raising some other dudes kid
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Lmfao at Joker being too weirded out by the lady with the weird voice (or voice modulator).
I get why, though, never heard anything like it.
Had a traditional relationship in the sense I worked and she stayed home with the kids. She looked at me one day and said, “Is having me at home with the kids and you being the bread winner what you need to feel like a man?”
Can you imagine? In my mind I was giving her the opportunity to spend time and cherish the most important thing she will ever do in her life. That when she’s breathing her last the two boys she had by her side, she would know she had a man that loved her to make that happen. I’m done. After all the struggle to keep it afloat for 10 yrs she ran to the police and falsely accused me of abuse (not a mark on her) because she was afraid I would leave and have custody of the kids. I never married her because I always knew this was possible. It’s the only thing I have to hang on to now is my home. I haven’t seen the kids in 6 months. State sanctioned kidnapping. I am a father that is very very involved and interested in my boys.Don’t mary them it’s not worth it. I will be truthful I tried to marry her near the end to keep us together but it was to late she was already 1/2 way out the door.
Marrying her would have been a disaster, be glad you didn’t.
You would have lost the house if you married her. Stay strong brother.
@@samuelwilliams7331 Part of me feels bad she’s not here with the kids. I know that shit sounds crazy, but at least I would know theyre safe. Now with the DVPO I can’t be around her or the kids this shit is totally fucked. I wonder how many men walk on egg shells in fear of the backlash they will receive from a woman determined to ruin the man in her life. Shits disgusting.
@@jduers2020 walk on egg shells? No way, I fly free like an eagle and I love it!?
so wait, she got paranoid and self sabotaged her life and most importantly kids' life? well we know how that is fed to children (your dad was deadbeat and not interested; state unfortunately plays along and dont push women any way when they are supposed to). TBF women should be pushed when they are teens, single 20-something, not when it is too late.