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Yea I be catching on when they don’t wanna start convos / never text first or anything it’s like constantly putting in effort for somebody avoiding you 💀
And another scenario is this; you leave, and there are times people will know what they had until it's gone, and the some won't at all which hurts more. It's best to just leave for your own sake as tying yourself with the person only gives pain.
Sometimes people are just bad texters but like you in person. They might be busy or going through a lot, so I think it's good to just be upfront if there's any doubt about it. Signs are just signs, and not the law XD
That is the explanation my mutual friend and therapist gave me but I still have these feelings in the back of my mind if he still feels the same way about me idk anymore
@@HUYI1 why not just ask him or talk to him about it.. If he hangs out with you or gives you attention, then he's interested. If he doesn't spend time with you then they're not interested.
That's true, yet not everyone who doesn't initiate back are busy. Chances are, they don't really value the initiator. Hence why it's best to talk it out to see if they care or not.
Here we are lovely fellas: 0:30 They're energy is off or suddenly different from yours 1:25 They don't initiate the texting, you do 1:56 They always take a long time to respond 2:25 Their texting focus is always on physical intimacy and not emotional 3:00 They don't text back any questions and they don't keep the conversation going 3:45 Their texts and replies to you are short or one-word responses Have a good one
This isn't always the case, mainly number 3. I have seen and been on both sides of the coin. Some people are horrible at responding, or their anxiety can stop them from doing so. I liked a girl who would be pretty responsive. She would text me first, but she suddenly stopped the last month of our friendship. Turns out she didn't feel the same. She admitted that she only texted me first a lot of times because I helped calm her anxiety and depression in the morning. Yet, the girl I like now and talking to messages me every morning but is terrible at responding to a text. In-person, she loves to touch, kiss, and hold hands and is very responsive
One reason why I don't initiate texting even to someone I really like: I don't like getting ignored or receiving late messages. Let's just say I went through some phase of my life being ignored whenever I called for help, so now I'd rather wait for the person to text me or if not, it is what it is. It's hard being this way because I am often confronted for "not being interested" when I am actually interested. 🤦
Relationships are a two way street; not just romantic. It's reasonable for you to not try when the other side isn't putting in the effort. I did the same and I only talk to a few people. Even when I confronted the ones I stopped talking to about it and said how I had people not value me but they didn't show to sympathize.
Sometimes people are just busy .. it doesn't mean they aren't interested in you.. I know how bad I feel when my one texts and I don't respond immediately .. Because I was doing or working on something not looking at my phone. I feel like you should be able to walk away from your phone for a little bit because your trying to accomplish something. When I go check my phone and notice she did text me . A feeling of like panic washes over me and I start to feel like ..OH NO SHE TEXT AND I MISSED IT ! So I call her immediately. Then feel even more awful because her feeling are now hurt and she's thinking you don't care enouf about her to keep checking your phone every 10 minz to see that you didn't miss a text.. It's a super sad thing when your 1 thinks you don't care or have time for them . So have your phone on you at all times. Check it often so you don't miss her text. Ok
@@staciedixon3802 relateable. I mostly feel like I didn't do enough for her if I miss my gf her text, so now I just set my notifications to DMs only as she is the only one DMing me. So whenever she messages, I get notified and nothing else gives me messages XD
@@baileyjohn5010 l agree with you. The original commenter is not opening up emotionally. Instead of them being left on read when texting first or always being the one texting first the original commenter is leaving everyone else on read. If they were really interested in someone they'd take that risk for the possibility of a true connection. Maybe therapy would be a better option for the original commenter to help heal the pain of past wounds instead of inflicting the same wounds to the next person who tries to connect. As someone else said to them above a relationship is a two way street but if your vehicle needs a tune up go to a licensed "mechanic" before you cause a wreck for another human being. I figured you Bailey would understand what I am saying better than the original commenter since you appear to be in a good head space like me on this subject.
I wish i had this video back in highschool! I was stuck trying to be with a crush i liked for 3 years and never looked at any one else. I put myself through a rollercoaster of feelings. But i've learned from it. Thank you for posting this video for those that need it. Save yourself from feeling hurt, and remember there is a lot of other people in the world.
My crush at first was greatly annoyed by my texts. When I first got her number, our relationship as friends was fresh, which, if anyone wants a romantic relationship with someone, become their friend first! :D. I eventually asked her on a date, and things progressed to the point where we fell in love with each other and she enjoyed responding to my texts! I’d say, if you’re good friends, and they’re a decent person in general (in person and texting) then you need not give up hope!-Even if texting a crush can be nerve racking, exciting, sometimes crushing *wink*, effort CAN pay off through genuine care.
You got me at #2. I have a crush that I text sometimes (or at least used to) and I would always be the one who had to keep the conversation going. She would never text me unless she was responding to my texts. I stopped texting her in early May when it became emotionally exhausting. She hasn't texted me at all since then. I'm thinking it's time to move on.
I learned that people just expect them to text them instead of doing it themselves or initiate conversations. What was the conversation like? Dry or it would go on a direction when y’all talked?
@@robertoriverajr4439 We used to talk about all sorts of stuff early on, but then eventually I ran out of things to talk about since nothing really interesting happens in my life. She always seemed to be really busy too, so there were many times where I would text her and she would reply saying that she was doing something for school or hanging out with a friend or something like that. Eventually I got the impression that I was disturbing her, so that was part of the reason why I stopped texting her.
@@efficiencygaming3494 if she replied with the “I’m busy” bs text too many times, then yes… move on. I understand that work and school absorb our time because I’m at college and work. However, it takes me less than a minute to reply and I do it at later hours of the day. That goes with any type of relationship btw.
I'm at the other side and I feel kinda bad for it, she always texts me with so much enthusiasm and I love it so much but I never initiate conversations cause I'm kinda shy and don't know what to say and I hope she doesn't mind it
@@twentyeight602 As a girl who is super bubbly and happy to always text the guy I like/my bf I say you should let her know this. She might be feeling that she need to do more to keep your attention and eventually she might think your not into her as much as you are. My bf is the same way he is pretty quiet but he does text back but at first it made me think he wasn't as into me. But he told me he just feels shy sometimes so yes it this girl likes you she will hopefully understand and not me mind leading the convos. So I suggest telling her.
Self fulfilling prophecy. If u ignore them, the consequences will cause u to continue to distrust urself . Therefore the answer is: don't ignore them if u dont want to
Usually when I see experiences of people always initiating conversations with their crushes, I see people put the blame on the initiators but rarely on the crushes themselves. If the crush doesn't respect you, reciprocate appreciation, best not to try. You're not losing anything and usually they won't know what they have until it's gone. Even when they won't notice that, it's best to go to where you're needed. Keep in mind, I'm not talking about crushes where the crush isn't interested back romantically and still treats you decently, referring to crushes that don't value you and their time with you.
I've always been interested in what kinda thought process they have when deciding to text back a person they're not into? Like????? Why won't you just tell them you're not interested and let them leave you alone and leave peacefully? Why do they pick dry texting over simply declining the other's offer to talk by text??? Like, dude, just say ya don't like me, I'll move on. Why would you decide to give me one-worded replies instead, wasting my time and yours??? Why?.. Can anybody explain? I really don't understand what they're thinkin about. Sorry for my bad English btw
It's kinda weird yeah it's not that hard to text back either just tell them, that you don't want to text or text back with a bit of effort, but don't beat around the bush
Well from experience it's either the person likes the attention negative or positive due to low self esteem and a need for reassurance no matter who it's from. Feeling desired feels good to some people even from people that are not attracted too. There is also a misguided sense of guilt where the person is too passive and afraid to reject the person or tell them they are not into them because they don't want to look or be the bad guy in the situation and will hope the other person gets the hint. Not wanting to hurt their feelings I think in some cases this is more common with people who have a savior complex that gets burnt out in the process.
@@JaneJn-e5c Does this mean anything if I told my woman friend "I want to see you at my party and I don't take no for an answer" and she replies with "👍"
@@egertroos1691 I mean my love life is in shambles I don't really know if my advice counts for anything but well I think that depends on what type of relationship you have with this girl. If your friends and she wants to go with you or is happy to go then cool. If your more then friends then idk it might mean something more. Just whoever it is if she's really special to you then don't let her go
I’ve got a friend who I really like but am pretty sure doesn’t like me back. She’s very open and talkative around newer folks that she hasn’t met yet, but somehow when she is around me, she feels more closed off, and less interested in continuing conversation. We were very friendly in the beginning and had great conversations before, but there is a weird invisible boundary that I am trying to break but can’t seem to do it. I also get the short text convos where I am doing most of the work, but she does short answers or doesn’t even answer at all. Still trying to pursue the friendship and see if a relationship in the long run is viable, but it is tricky when it feels like she is continuously pursuing friendships with other people and not interested in talking to you as much anymore.
ah noo im sorry about that :(( if youre close, perhaps discreetly try asking her about it subtly (not in terms of a friendship or relationship specifically, just as people) just to try and salvage your current friendship first. you could even ask angood friend of yours that is also friends witj her. good luck, i hope it goes well !!
This is basically me and my friend that I have blocked until I'm completely over them since I've had a crush-ish on them. They would respond with just "ok" everytime I'm trying to show them that I love or care about them, even if it is in just a friend way. They send screenshots of their relationship with their other friends and I see that they are saying ily to them and seems like they are more interested in talking to them then with me. I've tried to do everything I could just so they could seem a little bit more interested in me again but nothing has worked. It upsets me so much and now this whole break is happening bc of their actions ☹️
i wish i knew all of this before suffering badly for someone who didn't even care about me, i was stuck in a cycle of emotional manipulation over and over while the person made me sick and dependent of them. at some point i discovered i wasn't the only one and this person was doing this to multiple girls, which was both infuriating and destroyed me totally, but at least it made me get over it faster... i never spoke to this person again, but i am pretty sure someone who are able to treat others like this without being honest with their feelings are totally shady and will never grow or be better.
It's like some men just hook and sinker their emotional claws right into, treat you like crap but refuse to let you go so you can move onto maybe something meaningful, they keep you around like a corpse 😞😑😑
@@HUYI1 YES THAT'S EXACTLY IT!! they don't want anything serious with you, but want the attention you give them, so they keep you around not cuz they actually want you, but for the good things they can receive from you. now that i know all of this it blows my mind how selfish and egocentric some people can be :(
@@OtterSkull Thank you so much for the kind words ❤️❤️ I've been healing faster recently, unfortunately there are sometimes that i still blame myself for being naive and trusting someone like this, but I'm at a better place now. I hope you have a nice day too!! ❤️
It’s takes me about 3-4 days to respond back to my wife’s text. And she averages about 30 lines of messages before I respond back with a 👍. But I love her dearly and she knows it ❤️❤️
I got some hope. The girl I been crushing has actually messaged me first! It's always enthusiastic and she thinks I'm funny! She doesn't do 5 out of 6 of these! Sometimes she takes long to respond but that's because she's a single mother but when she texts back she actually apologizes and explains where she went and has admitted she's not the greatest texter but has always asked questions and kept the conversation going! The energy is always good and is the same as in person!
I am so happy that Psych2go said they wanted to do EVEN more!! Because mental wellness is so important and we all sometimes need someone for support, but some people need a bit more than that and that's completely fine! Some just don't realize that they need help and psych2go can help everyone so much! And when i say everyone, i mean everyone. Even if you aren't depressed, you can still watch their videos about depression and learn about it and maybe spot some signs in a friend and try to help them! Psych2go, you are doing such a good job. Please continue doing this! Could someone please correct me if i made grammatical errors?? English isn't my first language and i am still learning so that would be very nice, thank you!!:)
Thank you!! I really been needing this lately. I recently got this girls number and she tells me she’s shy but I just feel like I should keep the energy positive and she has reciprocated a lil more lately.
I just asked my crush over text if she liked me and she said no. She exhibited pretty much all of these signs so I kind of knew at that point, but I still just wanted to tell her. We will probably still talk but it isn't ever happening. Now I don't have a crush in a small town as a homeschooler. If any of y'all have a girl who you can tell likes you and you like her, tell her soon. Don't let her get away
We only talked just a couple of times I reached out to him first (which was the baddest decision I've ever made) and then like maybe after a few months he texted me first congratulating me in my graduation day. Though he doesn't send shorter messages I still think he's just being kind but that's ok I can just find another one if I wanna as if he's the only living male in this world but I thank him for replying me back cause if he's one of those guys who just leaves someone on read I'd be dying from anxiety and will forever be haunted by my past
This is my boyfriend we are talking about, he answers with 1 letter to even just a sentence, takes days to reply, I'm always enthusiastic in my messages and send heartfelt things to him that remind me of him, songs, TH-cam links or pictures that are meaningful, he rarely does this, when we are together he's a different person and is always so loving, but that changes when we are away, it effects my mental health to the point of despair, spending weeks alone, it's a miserable situation to be in
Interesting video, tho I hardly ever text someone I have a crush on, since them being a crush usually means that the feelings won't be reciprocated so I just don't text them or contact them as much and I eventually lose interest in them so I won't have to think about them all the time or worry if they responde at all which helps keep me stress free
Proud to say my crush doesn’t apply to any of these. Maybe a lil on the long responses, but the max is usually 25-40 minutes bc they are busy hanging out with their friends most of the time. Otherwise they respond quick and have the same energy..
“If they respond with 1 emoji, they’re not for you” Me and my gf: just sending a chain of 1 emoji messages (mostly hearts tho) to eachother in a fair amount of the conversations we have
In my experience I've been with people who are extremely thoughtful and kind, and present when you ar with them, and that makes up for all the time we are away from each other and not really texting much. There are people who are just bad at texting, or maybe the dynamic that you and this person developed does not require constant texting. I don't text my friends, and I take a while to respond as well. It's not that I don't like or don't care about them. The important thing also is to kmow your needs. If you in fact need someone who's going to be always available to respond, and will always match your energy, you should not invest your time in that person.
My crush (beverage server where I work) and I don't text each other, and I find it healthier that way. She & I still smile wand wave when we make eye contact 😀
watching this video makes me question wether or not someone had actually liked me at ONE point. I'm not sure what i must've done wrong however since texting went really well.
sometimes I'm angry watching these videos because at the back of my head and inside my heart i really want us to work. but they're telling the truth . reality hurts indeed
You all need to stop interpreting a long text back time as disinterest. Everybody has a life and a lot going on and it doesn't stop. Please stop expecting people to text you back instantly. The sooner you realize that you're not gonna get a response right away the more free you feel and the more you are able to use your time and live your life too.
Thank you! Yeah I have friends who said they'd make plans but turns out it never happend as it was supposed to due to things going on in their own lives that I never knew about previously but it's cool though because even I had my own things going on in my life and things I wanted to do with my time and things going on with the people around me that affected that and yeah it's true that you should make time for those you care about but I'm a true believer of put your own oxygen mask first before you tend to others. Because if you go on a date or just go out to hang out when your not feeling it then its going to be miserable for you and others and you guys wont be able to enjoy it fully and yes sometimes your unwellness can last along time but that doesnt mean your a bad friend or partner for it just means your struggling and need your own time to rest recover and be yourself without anyone disturbing your own replenishment and recovery and sometimes there's no time or nothing you can do about your busy schedule and you can't always sacrifice important things that absolutely need to be taken care of all for a clingy boyfriend or girlfriend that can't be patient until the struggle that your dealing with is officially secured. And in my opion if they can't wait that long or have absolutely nothing else in their lives to occupie them until you contact them again then those people are not right for you.
being on either side sucks. Not receiving the feeling you have towards your crush no doubt sucks. On the other hand, aware that you don't have the same level of affection they pour towards you also sucks. For me, it is because I know I am not matching up to their level in terms of emotions and I know it is going to hurt them eventually. I still don't have that much experience and EQ to know how to deal with this peacefully. Still improving though.
So I used to work with this girl, and I swear the way she smiled at me was different than anyone else at my family's firm. Not sure why she'd smile at me like she used to if she wasn't interested at all though.
@@honestreviewer4864 some people are just used to you reaching out, is not that they don’t care. If you don’t get a response, then that’s a different story.
There's this girl from my dance class who I thought might like me. It was mostly a gut feeling, but I could've sworn I'd noticed her looking in my direction often. Or sometimes mimicking/mirroring the way I warm up before class. And whenever I goof around, she's usually watching and usually laughs. We happened to end up as dance partners for this one piece we were learning, and we got in contact over email to discuss the dance. Our conversation was very amusing, but one of the things that worried me was that fact that I felt like I was running the conversation. I'd ask questions and she'd respond and that would be it. Her responses did have a bit of energy, but I felt like the initiative came from me... In person, I still got the feeling that she might be into me. Plus, she got along with my siblings, who were also in the class. We haven't interacted since our performance of the dance. And since I felt like we were becoming friends, I got a little worried. I didn't know if I should reach out, tho, bc I was the last one to do so. So, I came to look for videos that could help. Going through the 6 signs: 1. No. Her energy never seemed off. She was more relaxed and goofy over email, but reserved in person. 2. Yes. I always initiated the conversations. 3. Yes? I'm not sure if this one applies bc who checks their email all the time? I'd usually receive a reply several hours after mine, but I didn't think much of it bc she mentions she works late, so her schedule is a bit skewed. 4. No. Intimacy was never a topic, so that one doesn't apply. 5. Yes. Usually her responses were just answers to questions I'd asked. However, I assume that's because I tend to write a lot... so I probably answered all her questions just by rambling >< 6. Yes? She'd typically respond with one or two sentences.... It feels short considering the fact that it was over email... but on the other hand, two sentences is probably pretty standard for texting, plus I know I can write an abnormally large amount. In conclusion... There's never a guarantee since everyone is different. But given the signs outlined by this video, I think my initial gut feeling was a figment of my imagination. Kinda feel bad about assuming that someone liked me... it isn't right of me to assume such things of people >
We’ve been acquaintances/classmates for a little over half a year. We only started talking at the beginning of July, though. So, we haven’t known each other for very long, but I had been wanting to reach out to her for a while bc I’d noticed some behaviors that made me wonder if she wanted to get in contact.
Guys, Its best to move on, You might meet someone who actually cares or likes you back.. That’s the case for me anyways. Now I’m happier than I was and I’m sorry to anyone who had to deal with this :)
Every single girl I've dated has done most of these over text. Even physically they pretty much ignored me. I gave them my heart and they all stomped on it. I've given up on dating for now, until I can find someone who actually wants to be with me.
Yooo about the physical intimacy text one was so accurate to my case. I did got suspicious bout that but my dumbass chose to ignore that and at the end.... I got played.... throughout the video I was thinking if this video would have been posted months ago, but it's okay I've learned my lessons.
I agree sadly. It’s always that with me. Nobody wants to be with me or connect with me emotionally, just try to sleep with me. It’s depressing when all I really want is a connection, a relationship. I find it quite hard finding anyone who wants what I do though
I recently found out that she doesnt admire me and she instead, admires someone else. Lol. Its so hard to move on since ive admired her since the first quarter. Now im moving up and she reveals that she doesnt admire me.
guys i think i won. i’m currently talking to my guy best friend and we didnt usually talk much outside of the classroom. but now that it’s summer he’s been starting conversations, asking questions about my life and seeming interested in me. i REALLY hope this goes somewhere cause this video does NOT describe him. 🤞
I just wanna say that for the second one I am one of those people and I don't start texting first because I don't like the person I'm just scared that they would think i'm being too annoying lol, not hating on the vid just wanted to clarafy that just because you crush doesn't start texting you first doesn't always mean they're not into you, it could just mean they're scared. ☺☺
Yesterday I went to Open House at my school and I got to see my friends again. I have seventh period with a boy who I used to have a crush on, who's just my friend now, and when I sat down next to him, he didn't even speak to me once. It reminded me of how he's never started a texting conversation with me, and the one time we really had an actual one where he replied quickly and it lasted more than three messages was when I said I had a crush on him and he said he already knew. (I wasn't too good about hiding it, and basically every girl at school had a crush on him.) My mom claims that she saw us talking though, so maybe he did try to say something to me? This year, I want to try and be better friends with him without being as creepy and pushy as I was last year.
What's funny is that normally guys are completely oblivious when a girl likes them. Yet a girl who doesn't like them is the one they go for. I learned that lesson early.
One thing you didn’t mention: people not responding could just be lifestyle, some people aren’t very active online. The best way to solve this is to just ask why they’re slow to respond
@@Afish8me2china my point was if someone cares enough they will make time. I'm doubting that you can care and not make time. My boyfriend is a radiologist with deathly hours and intense work, he also prefers in person over irl. Sleeps whenever he can. But if he's not thinking about me he won't text. If he does and suddenly wants my attention due to the realized time off he does text despite the lifestyle Because that's when he's at a level where he cares enough, it's a question of caring enough. If they miss you enough they would tell you, lifestyle just impacts the time it takes for it to happen. And then there's people who just don't at all lol, but some people definetly do "care less" at certain times and some do more than others. Care isn't like a straight line it's up and down
I have a crush on a girl and when we text each other, she normally responds with one worded answers as the conversation is dying out, and same for me, she also doesn’t have these signs as far as I know. 👍🏻
@@egertroos1691 Yea, that means that may have either found out that you might like her through hints that you gave, whether intentional or not, or she’s just wondering because she actually likes you and wants to know if she has a chance. 👍🏻
@@egertroos1691 Oh, then she’s probably wondering just because she wants to know or she’s hoping that you have a crush on her because she likes you. 👍🏻
Those one word responses ANNOY me to DEATH! Especially the "k." Is really so hard to type. "i'm busy" or "can we chat later." I would rather have someone text "this isn't working for me" then "k"
The whole video does, and it's always something I notice too about other men that I've chatted too when they either talk to you like a human being or just use you as a peice of meat, I tend to just block these type of men, but the most depressing thing is the majority of men I meet only want one thing and nothing meaningful, this is alarming and depressing, this is why I gave up on finding anyone for good and I've been with my boyfriend since
I think sometimes people may show those signs but maybe it's because they are not comfortable over text and when they meet presencially, they are really interested!
When u said they might not view u as a romantic potential partner that really hit me,I always was very stubborn so idk if it's me or him that's destroying our relationship could u make a video for us to kno who is ruining the relationship pls?
MY PROBLEM IS.... My crush is very good at text he always makes the conversation going... 😃 But the problem is When we meet in person at school we DON'T ACTUALLY Talk a word 🙂 just smiles 😩 Please can someone help me with this situation 🥺
Oh how familiar this sounds...! Whether you're single or being in a band and there's ALWAYS that one who has nothing to say to anything. Oh how I hate those...!
I don't dislike someone just because I give short and simple response.....I just don't know how to keep the conversation going; Social Awkwardness (Autism) makes this difficult....so in essence what your saying is that the Autistic are unloving....please be accurate.
This isn't the case for every autistic person. For me personally, ADHD and autism makes me text too much. Though I know it effects other people and makes them forget or type less. Also, social situations with autism is simply about therapy. Even if you're mentally at your best and high functioning, autism simply requires certain social skills developed to succeed socially. Also, unless someone asks you why you're that way, or tells you, you shouldn't be upset they think this way. I mean you're a minority of people. We are a minority of people. People, including myself are just protecting ourselves from the likelier answer. It's not about you, just the signs about a general culture. You should let people know whats really going on if they ask and you love them.
1.Yes No passionate reply jusy short text 2.Yes I always text first 3.humm maybe an hour late 4.I m confued in this 5.True never ask me questions 6.True really short questions and only emoji Overall Enegry Result-----> Ok He's not into me! He's into someone! And he dislikes me knowing I have a crush on him.
Well, this has been the case with everyone I’ve had a crush on for years so I have just give up as accepted that no one is ever going to have interest in me, at least all my friends got lucky and are in relationships which I’m super happy because they really deserved it.
For Aug, we're hoping to really expand the community and really bring mental wellness to the forefront. With the many events that happen in the world, we're hoping to really encourage people to open up more about their challenges and find a community where they can belong in. We want to start by encouraging reaction videos. If you're interested in sharing your experiences while watching our video, feel free to create them (no copy right claims from us, whatsoever). Also, selected content could get paid, if we deem them really helpful to the community.
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Yes,that's very helpful thx♥︎
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Ty :D
While I did find the meowth to be adorable i'm not that comfortable about being in front of a camera so I don't think I could do a reaction video
I love when someone doesn't ever hit you back, but when you're with them in person, they physically can't put their phone down.
Tell me about it. Or possibly they mute you 🥲
Same, it sucks
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Mine is clearly interested because they always text me back but I think they are just friends
SAME lmao
Been through this. More importantly never assume someone wants a relationship unless they tell you.
Very wise advice.
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Very informative and helpful
It’s the hope that kills you
They always text me back it’s obvious they are interested but just as friends
Yea I be catching on when they don’t wanna start convos / never text first or anything it’s like constantly putting in effort for somebody avoiding you 💀
Yeah that’s a tale tell sign. Sucks but it’s better to know
And another scenario is this; you leave, and there are times people will know what they had until it's gone, and the some won't at all which hurts more. It's best to just leave for your own sake as tying yourself with the person only gives pain.
like sakura and sasuke
That's the worst!
@@khalilahd. I'd rather go and be like F. K this s. T I'm out mm f k this s t I'm out
Sometimes people are just bad texters but like you in person. They might be busy or going through a lot, so I think it's good to just be upfront if there's any doubt about it. Signs are just signs, and not the law XD
That is the explanation my mutual friend and therapist gave me but I still have these feelings in the back of my mind if he still feels the same way about me idk anymore
@@HUYI1 why not just ask him or talk to him about it.. If he hangs out with you or gives you attention, then he's interested. If he doesn't spend time with you then they're not interested.
Signs are signs and they should not be ignored. Some people will not admit when they are not really interested in you, even if you ask directly.
@@valerieblackthorn13 good point
That's true, yet not everyone who doesn't initiate back are busy. Chances are, they don't really value the initiator. Hence why it's best to talk it out to see if they care or not.
Here we are lovely fellas:
0:30 They're energy is off or suddenly different from yours
1:25 They don't initiate the texting, you do
1:56 They always take a long time to respond
2:25 Their texting focus is always on physical intimacy and not emotional
3:00 They don't text back any questions and they don't keep the conversation going
3:45 Their texts and replies to you are short or one-word responses
Have a good one
Most people I've met done that ngl.
@@Halal_Gaming yeah it kinda sucks tbh. 😕
You’ll find someone eventually.
@@Halal_Gaming
@@TheJourneyyy
This isn't always the case, mainly number 3. I have seen and been on both sides of the coin. Some people are horrible at responding, or their anxiety can stop them from doing so. I liked a girl who would be pretty responsive. She would text me first, but she suddenly stopped the last month of our friendship. Turns out she didn't feel the same. She admitted that she only texted me first a lot of times because I helped calm her anxiety and depression in the morning. Yet, the girl I like now and talking to messages me every morning but is terrible at responding to a text. In-person, she loves to touch, kiss, and hold hands and is very responsive
My woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?". Does this mean anything
One reason why I don't initiate texting even to someone I really like: I don't like getting ignored or receiving late messages. Let's just say I went through some phase of my life being ignored whenever I called for help, so now I'd rather wait for the person to text me or if not, it is what it is. It's hard being this way because I am often confronted for "not being interested" when I am actually interested. 🤦
Relationships are a two way street; not just romantic. It's reasonable for you to not try when the other side isn't putting in the effort. I did the same and I only talk to a few people. Even when I confronted the ones I stopped talking to about it and said how I had people not value me but they didn't show to sympathize.
Sometimes people are just busy .. it doesn't mean they aren't interested in you.. I know how bad I feel when my one texts and I don't respond immediately ..
Because I was doing or working on something not looking at my phone.
I feel like you should be able to walk away from your phone for a little bit because your trying to accomplish something.
When I go check my phone and notice she did text me .
A feeling of like panic washes over me and I start to feel like ..OH NO SHE TEXT AND I MISSED IT !
So I call her immediately. Then feel even more awful because her feeling are now hurt and she's thinking you don't care enouf about her to keep checking your phone every 10 minz to see that you didn't miss a text..
It's a super sad thing when your 1 thinks you don't care or have time for them .
So have your phone on you at all times.
Check it often so you don't miss her text.
Ok
@@staciedixon3802 relateable. I mostly feel like I didn't do enough for her if I miss my gf her text, so now I just set my notifications to DMs only as she is the only one DMing me. So whenever she messages, I get notified and nothing else gives me messages XD
You’re loving from a place of fear
@@baileyjohn5010 l agree with you. The original commenter is not opening up emotionally. Instead of them being left on read when texting first or always being the one texting first the original commenter is leaving everyone else on read. If they were really interested in someone they'd take that risk for the possibility of a true connection. Maybe therapy would be a better option for the original commenter to help heal the pain of past wounds instead of inflicting the same wounds to the next person who tries to connect. As someone else said to them above a relationship is a two way street but if your vehicle needs a tune up go to a licensed "mechanic" before you cause a wreck for another human being. I figured you Bailey would understand what I am saying better than the original commenter since you appear to be in a good head space like me on this subject.
I wish i had this video back in highschool! I was stuck trying to be with a crush i liked for 3 years and never looked at any one else. I put myself through a rollercoaster of feelings. But i've learned from it. Thank you for posting this video for those that need it. Save yourself from feeling hurt, and remember there is a lot of other people in the world.
Bruhh mine blocked me for no reason 😂😂😂
Yeah, it also sucks when they don't care that you take an interest in them, referring to just talking to them, not with them not liking you back.
If my enthusiasm is not reciprocated then, I don't bother them anymore.
I feel like these are great tips for discovering who is your real friend and who isn’t as well. Especially the texts and initiating things 😕
omg i see u everywhere
I am so happy that I have a friend that is exactly the same irl and through texting
“3 weeks ago” “Uploaded 1 minute ago”
This ain’t adding up.
???
How is it 3 weeks ago?!
3 weeks ago😐
@@CryingAutumn It was an unlisted video.
My crush at first was greatly annoyed by my texts. When I first got her number, our relationship as friends was fresh, which, if anyone wants a romantic relationship with someone, become their friend first! :D. I eventually asked her on a date, and things progressed to the point where we fell in love with each other and she enjoyed responding to my texts! I’d say, if you’re good friends, and they’re a decent person in general (in person and texting) then you need not give up hope!-Even if texting a crush can be nerve racking, exciting, sometimes crushing *wink*, effort CAN pay off through genuine care.
It's so cool things worked out for you! Congratulations! And best of luck!
You got me at #2. I have a crush that I text sometimes (or at least used to) and I would always be the one who had to keep the conversation going. She would never text me unless she was responding to my texts.
I stopped texting her in early May when it became emotionally exhausting. She hasn't texted me at all since then. I'm thinking it's time to move on.
I learned that people just expect them to text them instead of doing it themselves or initiate conversations. What was the conversation like? Dry or it would go on a direction when y’all talked?
@@robertoriverajr4439 We used to talk about all sorts of stuff early on, but then eventually I ran out of things to talk about since nothing really interesting happens in my life.
She always seemed to be really busy too, so there were many times where I would text her and she would reply saying that she was doing something for school or hanging out with a friend or something like that. Eventually I got the impression that I was disturbing her, so that was part of the reason why I stopped texting her.
@@efficiencygaming3494 if she replied with the “I’m busy” bs text too many times, then yes… move on. I understand that work and school absorb our time because I’m at college and work. However, it takes me less than a minute to reply and I do it at later hours of the day. That goes with any type of relationship btw.
I'm at the other side and I feel kinda bad for it, she always texts me with so much enthusiasm and I love it so much but I never initiate conversations cause I'm kinda shy and don't know what to say and I hope she doesn't mind it
@@twentyeight602 As a girl who is super bubbly and happy to always text the guy I like/my bf I say you should let her know this. She might be feeling that she need to do more to keep your attention and eventually she might think your not into her as much as you are. My bf is the same way he is pretty quiet but he does text back but at first it made me think he wasn't as into me. But he told me he just feels shy sometimes so yes it this girl likes you she will hopefully understand and not me mind leading the convos. So I suggest telling her.
Eventually, I just have so much self doubt that I end up ignoring THEM.
IKR
Self fulfilling prophecy. If u ignore them, the consequences will cause u to continue to distrust urself . Therefore the answer is: don't ignore them if u dont want to
no but whoever has the guts to at least send a text to their crush, Y'ALL ARE SO STRONG SHIT
So true 😅
It's not that hard.
@@rednblack301 especially if your best friends already anyway🤷
#4 for me. Cutting someone off today because they don’t make me feel good about myself
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
Usually when I see experiences of people always initiating conversations with their crushes, I see people put the blame on the initiators but rarely on the crushes themselves.
If the crush doesn't respect you, reciprocate appreciation, best not to try. You're not losing anything and usually they won't know what they have until it's gone. Even when they won't notice that, it's best to go to where you're needed.
Keep in mind, I'm not talking about crushes where the crush isn't interested back romantically and still treats you decently, referring to crushes that don't value you and their time with you.
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
I've always been interested in what kinda thought process they have when deciding to text back a person they're not into? Like????? Why won't you just tell them you're not interested and let them leave you alone and leave peacefully? Why do they pick dry texting over simply declining the other's offer to talk by text??? Like, dude, just say ya don't like me, I'll move on. Why would you decide to give me one-worded replies instead, wasting my time and yours??? Why?..
Can anybody explain? I really don't understand what they're thinkin about. Sorry for my bad English btw
It's kinda weird yeah it's not that hard to text back either just tell them, that you don't want to text or text back with a bit of effort, but don't beat around the bush
Well from experience it's either the person likes the attention negative or positive due to low self esteem and a need for reassurance no matter who it's from. Feeling desired feels good to some people even from people that are not attracted too. There is also a misguided sense of guilt where the person is too passive and afraid to reject the person or tell them they are not into them because they don't want to look or be the bad guy in the situation and will hope the other person gets the hint. Not wanting to hurt their feelings I think in some cases this is more common with people who have a savior complex that gets burnt out in the process.
I can't explain because all that you said is literally so relatable. It's all true what you said
@@JaneJn-e5c Does this mean anything if I told my woman friend "I want to see you at my party and I don't take no for an answer" and she replies with "👍"
@@egertroos1691 I mean my love life is in shambles I don't really know if my advice counts for anything but well I think that depends on what type of relationship you have with this girl. If your friends and she wants to go with you or is happy to go then cool. If your more then friends then idk it might mean something more. Just whoever it is if she's really special to you then don't let her go
Reciprocity..it has to be the main ingredient. Thank you Psych to Go.💯
if you speak everyday with person doesn't mean to lose your liberty
I’ve got a friend who I really like but am pretty sure doesn’t like me back. She’s very open and talkative around newer folks that she hasn’t met yet, but somehow when she is around me, she feels more closed off, and less interested in continuing conversation. We were very friendly in the beginning and had great conversations before, but there is a weird invisible boundary that I am trying to break but can’t seem to do it. I also get the short text convos where I am doing most of the work, but she does short answers or doesn’t even answer at all. Still trying to pursue the friendship and see if a relationship in the long run is viable, but it is tricky when it feels like she is continuously pursuing friendships with other people and not interested in talking to you as much anymore.
That normal since she is a talkative person
ah noo im sorry about that :(( if youre close, perhaps discreetly try asking her about it subtly (not in terms of a friendship or relationship specifically, just as people) just to try and salvage your current friendship first. you could even ask angood friend of yours that is also friends witj her. good luck, i hope it goes well !!
Time to move on. 😊
This is basically me and my friend that I have blocked until I'm completely over them since I've had a crush-ish on them. They would respond with just "ok" everytime I'm trying to show them that I love or care about them, even if it is in just a friend way. They send screenshots of their relationship with their other friends and I see that they are saying ily to them and seems like they are more interested in talking to them then with me. I've tried to do everything I could just so they could seem a little bit more interested in me again but nothing has worked. It upsets me so much and now this whole break is happening bc of their actions ☹️
@@Okkkkokk Very true if someone who talks a lot runs out of stories to tell a specific person
i wish i knew all of this before suffering badly for someone who didn't even care about me, i was stuck in a cycle of emotional manipulation over and over while the person made me sick and dependent of them.
at some point i discovered i wasn't the only one and this person was doing this to multiple girls, which was both infuriating and destroyed me totally, but at least it made me get over it faster... i never spoke to this person again, but i am pretty sure someone who are able to treat others like this without being honest with their feelings are totally shady and will never grow or be better.
It's like some men just hook and sinker their emotional claws right into, treat you like crap but refuse to let you go so you can move onto maybe something meaningful, they keep you around like a corpse 😞😑😑
@@HUYI1 YES THAT'S EXACTLY IT!! they don't want anything serious with you, but want the attention you give them, so they keep you around not cuz they actually want you, but for the good things they can receive from you.
now that i know all of this it blows my mind how selfish and egocentric some people can be :(
@@kiomaru1943 I'm sorry this happened to you, that's awful, I hope you'll be able to heal and find someone who deserves your trust, have a nice day!
@@OtterSkull Thank you so much for the kind words ❤️❤️
I've been healing faster recently, unfortunately there are sometimes that i still blame myself for being naive and trusting someone like this, but I'm at a better place now.
I hope you have a nice day too!! ❤️
@@kiomaru1943it's great to hear that! It's all a learning experience so keep it up :)
Stop wondering if you are good enough for them. If they don’t value you, they are not for you.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
It’s takes me about 3-4 days to respond back to my wife’s text. And she averages about 30 lines of messages before I respond back with a 👍. But I love her dearly and she knows it ❤️❤️
Do some women do the same as you?
I don't know why but I just put effort into someone who avoids me and doesn't talk to me. I don't know how to stop this simple crush.
I need more videos based on texting. Please make it happen 🙂
YES
I got some hope. The girl I been crushing has actually messaged me first! It's always enthusiastic and she thinks I'm funny! She doesn't do 5 out of 6 of these! Sometimes she takes long to respond but that's because she's a single mother but when she texts back she actually apologizes and explains where she went and has admitted she's not the greatest texter but has always asked questions and kept the conversation going! The energy is always good and is the same as in person!
I am so happy that Psych2go said they wanted to do EVEN more!! Because mental wellness is so important and we all sometimes need someone for support, but some people need a bit more than that and that's completely fine! Some just don't realize that they need help and psych2go can help everyone so much! And when i say everyone, i mean everyone. Even if you aren't depressed, you can still watch their videos about depression and learn about it and maybe spot some signs in a friend and try to help them! Psych2go, you are doing such a good job. Please continue doing this!
Could someone please correct me if i made grammatical errors?? English isn't my first language and i am still learning so that would be very nice, thank you!!:)
No mistakes at all. Your English is all well :)
@@kase1550 Thank you))
My friends won't even text me and i'm thinking about a crush i talk to 3 times in a year 💀💀💀
Thank you!! I really been needing this lately. I recently got this girls number and she tells me she’s shy but I just feel like I should keep the energy positive and she has reciprocated a lil more lately.
I just asked my crush over text if she liked me and she said no. She exhibited pretty much all of these signs so I kind of knew at that point, but I still just wanted to tell her. We will probably still talk but it isn't ever happening. Now I don't have a crush in a small town as a homeschooler. If any of y'all have a girl who you can tell likes you and you like her, tell her soon. Don't let her get away
We only talked just a couple of times I reached out to him first (which was the baddest decision I've ever made) and then like maybe after a few months he texted me first congratulating me in my graduation day. Though he doesn't send shorter messages I still think he's just being kind but that's ok I can just find another one if I wanna as if he's the only living male in this world but I thank him for replying me back cause if he's one of those guys who just leaves someone on read I'd be dying from anxiety and will forever be haunted by my past
He doesn’t initiate texting conversations and he doesn’t ask questions, but I think he’s just better at conversation face to face.
This is my boyfriend we are talking about, he answers with 1 letter to even just a sentence, takes days to reply, I'm always enthusiastic in my messages and send heartfelt things to him that remind me of him, songs, TH-cam links or pictures that are meaningful, he rarely does this, when we are together he's a different person and is always so loving, but that changes when we are away, it effects my mental health to the point of despair, spending weeks alone, it's a miserable situation to be in
I could’ve used this video years ago. Thank you for FINALLY making it!! 🙏🏼
Interesting video, tho I hardly ever text someone I have a crush on, since them being a crush usually means that the feelings won't be reciprocated so I just don't text them or contact them as much and I eventually lose interest in them so I won't have to think about them all the time or worry if they responde at all which helps keep me stress free
Proud to say my crush doesn’t apply to any of these. Maybe a lil on the long responses, but the max is usually 25-40 minutes bc they are busy hanging out with their friends most of the time. Otherwise they respond quick and have the same energy..
“If they respond with 1 emoji, they’re not for you”
Me and my gf: just sending a chain of 1 emoji messages (mostly hearts tho) to eachother in a fair amount of the conversations we have
@DDiyorbek F
You'll find someone sooner or later, dw. Just be yourself :)
@@funplayer05.1 Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@@egertroos1691 what did you respond to that? Cuz that's a pretty big sign if ya ask me...
Good to know, but can you now make a video on “texting signs that might mean that your crush DOES like you” please?
In my experience I've been with people who are extremely thoughtful and kind, and present when you ar with them, and that makes up for all the time we are away from each other and not really texting much. There are people who are just bad at texting, or maybe the dynamic that you and this person developed does not require constant texting. I don't text my friends, and I take a while to respond as well. It's not that I don't like or don't care about them. The important thing also is to kmow your needs. If you in fact need someone who's going to be always available to respond, and will always match your energy, you should not invest your time in that person.
My crush (beverage server where I work) and I don't text each other, and I find it healthier that way.
She & I still smile wand wave when we make eye contact 😀
I don't have a crush, but I'll need to send this to a friend that has a big visible crush on me, and I'm not interested in him 😓
watching this video makes me question wether or not someone had actually liked me at ONE point. I'm not sure what i must've done wrong however since texting went really well.
sometimes I'm angry watching these videos because at the back of my head and inside my heart i really want us to work. but they're telling the truth . reality hurts indeed
You all need to stop interpreting a long text back time as disinterest. Everybody has a life and a lot going on and it doesn't stop. Please stop expecting people to text you back instantly.
The sooner you realize that you're not gonna get a response right away the more free you feel and the more you are able to use your time and live your life too.
Thank you! Yeah I have friends who said they'd make plans but turns out it never happend as it was supposed to due to things going on in their own lives that I never knew about previously but it's cool though because even I had my own things going on in my life and things I wanted to do with my time and things going on with the people around me that affected that and yeah it's true that you should make time for those you care about but I'm a true believer of put your own oxygen mask first before you tend to others. Because if you go on a date or just go out to hang out when your not feeling it then its going to be miserable for you and others and you guys wont be able to enjoy it fully and yes sometimes your unwellness can last along time but that doesnt mean your a bad friend or partner for it just means your struggling and need your own time to rest recover and be yourself without anyone disturbing your own replenishment and recovery and sometimes there's no time or nothing you can do about your busy schedule and you can't always sacrifice important things that absolutely need to be taken care of all for a clingy boyfriend or girlfriend that can't be patient until the struggle that your dealing with is officially secured. And in my opion if they can't wait that long or have absolutely nothing else in their lives to occupie them until you contact them again then those people are not right for you.
Are you sure?
being on either side sucks. Not receiving the feeling you have towards your crush no doubt sucks. On the other hand, aware that you don't have the same level of affection they pour towards you also sucks. For me, it is because I know I am not matching up to their level in terms of emotions and I know it is going to hurt them eventually. I still don't have that much experience and EQ to know how to deal with this peacefully. Still improving though.
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So I used to work with this girl, and I swear the way she smiled at me was different than anyone else at my family's firm. Not sure why she'd smile at me like she used to if she wasn't interested at all though.
Yeah, if you message your crush and just say "K."... You know it guys already... Get over it already as she isnt interested in you.
After watching this iv realized I'm always first texting across the board. It seems I only get texts off anyone when they need something.
Felt this. And this is why I've stopped messaging people. If the effort isn't reciprocated.. leave it alone
@@honestreviewer4864 some people are just used to you reaching out, is not that they don’t care. If you don’t get a response, then that’s a different story.
There's this girl from my dance class who I thought might like me. It was mostly a gut feeling, but I could've sworn I'd noticed her looking in my direction often. Or sometimes mimicking/mirroring the way I warm up before class. And whenever I goof around, she's usually watching and usually laughs. We happened to end up as dance partners for this one piece we were learning, and we got in contact over email to discuss the dance.
Our conversation was very amusing, but one of the things that worried me was that fact that I felt like I was running the conversation. I'd ask questions and she'd respond and that would be it. Her responses did have a bit of energy, but I felt like the initiative came from me...
In person, I still got the feeling that she might be into me. Plus, she got along with my siblings, who were also in the class.
We haven't interacted since our performance of the dance. And since I felt like we were becoming friends, I got a little worried. I didn't know if I should reach out, tho, bc I was the last one to do so. So, I came to look for videos that could help.
Going through the 6 signs:
1. No. Her energy never seemed off. She was more relaxed and goofy over email, but reserved in person.
2. Yes. I always initiated the conversations.
3. Yes? I'm not sure if this one applies bc who checks their email all the time? I'd usually receive a reply several hours after mine, but I didn't think much of it bc she mentions she works late, so her schedule is a bit skewed.
4. No. Intimacy was never a topic, so that one doesn't apply.
5. Yes. Usually her responses were just answers to questions I'd asked. However, I assume that's because I tend to write a lot... so I probably answered all her questions just by rambling ><
6. Yes? She'd typically respond with one or two sentences.... It feels short considering the fact that it was over email... but on the other hand, two sentences is probably pretty standard for texting, plus I know I can write an abnormally large amount.
In conclusion...
There's never a guarantee since everyone is different. But given the signs outlined by this video, I think my initial gut feeling was a figment of my imagination. Kinda feel bad about assuming that someone liked me... it isn't right of me to assume such things of people >
Did you confess your feelings to her?
@@vivekvarma2469 I did not. I felt like it was too early for that and that I should just focus on being her friend first
If it is ok for you, Can i know how long it’s been since your first meeting?
We’ve been acquaintances/classmates for a little over half a year. We only started talking at the beginning of July, though. So, we haven’t known each other for very long, but I had been wanting to reach out to her for a while bc I’d noticed some behaviors that made me wonder if she wanted to get in contact.
All the best buddy ❤️
Guys, Its best to move on, You might meet someone who actually cares or likes you back.. That’s the case for me anyways. Now I’m happier than I was and I’m sorry to anyone who had to deal with this :)
Every single girl I've dated has done most of these over text. Even physically they pretty much ignored me. I gave them my heart and they all stomped on it. I've given up on dating for now, until I can find someone who actually wants to be with me.
Yooo about the physical intimacy text one was so accurate to my case. I did got suspicious bout that but my dumbass chose to ignore that and at the end.... I got played.... throughout the video I was thinking if this video would have been posted months ago, but it's okay I've learned my lessons.
I agree sadly. It’s always that with me. Nobody wants to be with me or connect with me emotionally, just try to sleep with me. It’s depressing when all I really want is a connection, a relationship. I find it quite hard finding anyone who wants what I do though
No one calls or texts me anymore if I don’t first, they do but they want something, I wish I had these videos sooner
maybe he just likes to talk in person
i still have high hopes
Don't get your hopes up. Always expect nothing in order to preserve yourself. Let them prove who they are first.
my crush likes talking more in person but through text not really
@@CrockyDile15 I disagree
@@CrockyDile15 I agree
@@CrockyDile15 Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
I can't believe you posted this on my birthday! best birthday ever :D
Happy birthday🎉
I literally wanted to tell my crush i liked even tho i know they are not interested, and literally 32 seconds later this video comes out🤣
Well now me and my crush are not texting each other or we're just... waiting for each other to make a first move.
Be more initiative 😤DO IT DO IT
@@Dxnze ok i've done it im now waiting for that person to reply 😊
@gams gameplay did they reply??
@@jiminthejamlessii4054 not yet but dont worry that person is not yet online
@@Aishie143 I hope it turns out well for u🙂
I already know my crush doesn't like before I even confess
I like it most when someone really seems to really like you but then there is nothing more than just friendship.. Like the universe is mocking you.
I love the new drawing style
If i had this in before February, i couldn't avoided a lot
6 Texting Signs Your Crush Isn't Into You:
Number One: Their vibes were off at Applebee's
I recently found out that she doesnt admire me and she instead, admires someone else. Lol. Its so hard to move on since ive admired her since the first quarter. Now im moving up and she reveals that she doesnt admire me.
Oh, she's really scared of not being loved back. I love you too sweetie.
To sum it up:
When they leave you on read and reply a week later with “K”
As the guy, aren’t we expecting to lead the conversation? at least at the beginning.
guys i think i won. i’m currently talking to my guy best friend and we didnt usually talk much outside of the classroom. but now that it’s summer he’s been starting conversations, asking questions about my life and seeming interested in me. i REALLY hope this goes somewhere cause this video does NOT describe him. 🤞
I just wanna say that for the second one I am one of those people and I don't start texting first because I don't like the person I'm just scared that they would think i'm being too annoying lol, not hating on the vid just wanted to clarafy that just because you crush doesn't start texting you first doesn't always mean they're not into you, it could just mean they're scared. ☺☺
Yesterday I went to Open House at my school and I got to see my friends again. I have seventh period with a boy who I used to have a crush on, who's just my friend now, and when I sat down next to him, he didn't even speak to me once.
It reminded me of how he's never started a texting conversation with me, and the one time we really had an actual one where he replied quickly and it lasted more than three messages was when I said I had a crush on him and he said he already knew. (I wasn't too good about hiding it, and basically every girl at school had a crush on him.)
My mom claims that she saw us talking though, so maybe he did try to say something to me? This year, I want to try and be better friends with him without being as creepy and pushy as I was last year.
What's funny is that normally guys are completely oblivious when a girl likes them. Yet a girl who doesn't like them is the one they go for. I learned that lesson early.
stop texting and go and talk to her and ask her out
”Nice Prank” is what my crush said.
Sometimes you need to knock on their shell to get them to chat. They maybe closed off due to trust issues. Sometimes, patience is a good thing to.
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
One thing you didn’t mention: people not responding could just be lifestyle, some people aren’t very active online. The best way to solve this is to just ask why they’re slow to respond
My boyfriend has time to reply when he wants attention at work despite 12 hours of work. Doesn't when he doesn't want attention. Doubt it.
@@macaroni586 I have 4 friends like this, one of which became my girlfriend.
@@Afish8me2china my point was if someone cares enough they will make time. I'm doubting that you can care and not make time. My boyfriend is a radiologist with deathly hours and intense work, he also prefers in person over irl. Sleeps whenever he can.
But if he's not thinking about me he won't text. If he does and suddenly wants my attention due to the realized time off he does text despite the lifestyle Because that's when he's at a level where he cares enough, it's a question of caring enough. If they miss you enough they would tell you, lifestyle just impacts the time it takes for it to happen. And then there's people who just don't at all lol, but some people definetly do "care less" at certain times and some do more than others. Care isn't like a straight line it's up and down
@@Afish8me2china Are you sure about this?
my gf is just like this i swear shes like this all the time, she just answers very quickly
I have a crush on a girl and when we text each other, she normally responds with one worded answers as the conversation is dying out, and same for me, she also doesn’t have these signs as far as I know. 👍🏻
Does this mean anything if a girl texts you this out of the blue on text "Do you like me?"
@@egertroos1691 Yea, that means that may have either found out that you might like her through hints that you gave, whether intentional or not, or she’s just wondering because she actually likes you and wants to know if she has a chance. 👍🏻
@@Nofaceguy117 I am dull so I don't show feelings
@@egertroos1691 Oh, then she’s probably wondering just because she wants to know or she’s hoping that you have a crush on her because she likes you. 👍🏻
Those one word responses ANNOY me to DEATH! Especially the "k." Is really so hard to type. "i'm busy" or "can we chat later." I would rather have someone text "this isn't working for me" then "k"
Hits too close to home especially rn for me :)
The whole video does, and it's always something I notice too about other men that I've chatted too when they either talk to you like a human being or just use you as a peice of meat, I tend to just block these type of men, but the most depressing thing is the majority of men I meet only want one thing and nothing meaningful, this is alarming and depressing, this is why I gave up on finding anyone for good and I've been with my boyfriend since
So… he doesn’t likes me back 💀
nah, don't worry, its a missed victory from him
I mean for me neither of us really ask questions we just talk about whatever we think of
I love you. I've never received a text even once in my life. idc I just like being nice on occasion.
THIS THUMBNAIL IS LITERALLY HOW I WOULD REACT!!!
I was definitely on the other side. I probably broke their heart.
I think sometimes people may show those signs but maybe it's because they are not comfortable over text and when they meet presencially, they are really interested!
When u said they might not view u as a romantic potential partner that really hit me,I always was very stubborn so idk if it's me or him that's destroying our relationship could u make a video for us to kno who is ruining the relationship pls?
Your comment is lack of information but I will say I think it your fault for now
@@Okkkkokk but you don't know how annoying he is
@@Maiii.4z55z of course I won't khow. You never mentioned that in your comment
@@Okkkkokk yes,but it would look silly and fake if I commented stuff about my personal life
Most of the time my bf tends to ask more of more physical intimacy then just getting to know more of each other
MY PROBLEM IS.... My crush is very good at text he always makes the conversation going... 😃
But the problem is When we meet in person at school we DON'T ACTUALLY Talk a word 🙂 just smiles 😩
Please can someone help me with this situation 🥺
Hi darling! Any updates?!
This channel hits everything all of the time 😂
Life is just different now a days
Oh how familiar this sounds...! Whether you're single or being in a band and there's ALWAYS that one who has nothing to say to anything. Oh how I hate those...!
Everybody loves me, except my crush.
I don't dislike someone just because I give short and simple response.....I just don't know how to keep the conversation going; Social Awkwardness (Autism) makes this difficult....so in essence what your saying is that the Autistic are unloving....please be accurate.
This isn't the case for every autistic person. For me personally, ADHD and autism makes me text too much. Though I know it effects other people and makes them forget or type less.
Also, social situations with autism is simply about therapy. Even if you're mentally at your best and high functioning, autism simply requires certain social skills developed to succeed socially.
Also, unless someone asks you why you're that way, or tells you, you shouldn't be upset they think this way. I mean you're a minority of people. We are a minority of people. People, including myself are just protecting ourselves from the likelier answer. It's not about you, just the signs about a general culture. You should let people know whats really going on if they ask and you love them.
@@macaroni586 Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me"
Now i do know that my crush don't like me...😪 i could've move on but idk why I'm still wating for her 😔
1.Yes No passionate reply jusy short text
2.Yes I always text first
3.humm maybe an hour late
4.I m confued in this
5.True never ask me questions
6.True really short questions and only emoji
Overall Enegry Result-----> Ok He's not into me! He's into someone! And he dislikes me knowing I have a crush on him.
This hurts bad. Everything you listed perfectly describes my situation
Well, this has been the case with everyone I’ve had a crush on for years so I have just give up as accepted that no one is ever going to have interest in me, at least all my friends got lucky and are in relationships which I’m super happy because they really deserved it.
Dang it I always do 1 text emojis to everyone 😬😂
I noticed this before with the boy who claims to like me back, but he told me he acts cold in texts so his parents would stop reading our chats.