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A growing couple needs their space. Living with inlaws is a recipe for disaster. It's best to meet up with them on weekend and speak on phone with them regularly. I never recommend living together as it creates friction. It's not that mother in law or daughter in law is bad, but the dynamics of the relationship makes it toxic to live together. Living separately means private rooms and even a private kitchen so u don't need to see in laws every day. I really feel for some ppl here.
It’s only in extreme situations where reconciliation is next to impossible. I would always prefer living with my in laws and try to create a happy environment. 😊
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my marriage is ruined and abhi ek saal bhi nei hua h.my husband is asking me to leave his home and asking me to give him divorce. i clearly told him what i want before marriage but. I'm just so sad
@@Sarashimishra07 pls don't give up on ur marriage. Do what u can to make it work. U know ur situation best. Or atleast don't divorce right away. Have some period of separation understand if this is best. But whatever u decide don't rush to divorce!
Well said ma'am. But my husband always prefers his mother's point of view even if she is wrong. He does not have that guts to speak the right infront of his parents. Rather he always tries to make me understand thet his parents is right. What should I do ?
@@kishorsarode4351 respect and obedience are two different thing. What is wrong is wrong it cannot be said as rights. Parents must realize they are humans not gods so they make mistakes and should keep THEIR EGO aside and accept mistakes
@@architasrivastava218 absolutely correct,as a mature adult a man should use his brain logically and rationaly .Just because mother and father have done something it doesn't become right. We as lndian culture and society have learnt lot of wrong ideas in the childhood. Whatever is right is right ,no matter who has done it. And whatever is wrong is wrong no matter who has done it.Only this type of understanding in a man can bring peace in the house
My mother in law dominated and manipulated us right from the start of our marriage. I'm a working woman but was forced to work my husband brother family works. Im done, shift to new place but her evil deeds is too difficult to forgive😡
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My mother in law (MIL) moved in with us permanently within 1 year of marriage, to take care of our child so my wife could study for USMLE and do medical residency. MIL had never lived with her husband as he worked abroad in the Gulf, so I think she was used to being in charge. MIL causes 90% of our fights. After 10 years the father retired and moved in too, and I thought he would help, but he just prays all day. They have a son, but he is not MD like my wife. I thought it was an honor to take care of wife’s parents since 10 years, but they don’t even acknowledge that they have lived 100% free. Now that my wife is making more than me, MIL has gotten bolder, calling me a “zero” (I’m a banking VP, she has 8th grade education). They are constantly brainwashing my wife to stay obedient to them, even if our marriage suffers or ends (half of MIL’s brothers/sisters are divorced, so it’s normal for her). I don’t know what to do.
Hello Kaz.....appreciate your courage to share your deepest pain. How about learning to take the complete charge of your own marriage and helping your wife gain her confidence to work with you as a team ? Your wife also might be struggling this parental over influence especially her mother's since her childhood. Let me help you to help her come out of that..... without her actual involvement. I choose to work with those millennial individual spouses who are fast action takers and show the courage to put efforts.
@@leennaparannjpe3330 Actually I ended up calling in the cavalry: my Punjabi parents. My dad insulted them so bad saying to the father “No respectable Punjabi father would even ask for a glass of water in his married daughter’s house.” and “My son is married to your daughter, not your wife.” My mother called my mother in law a “Khala”, presumably it has something to do with prostituting out your daughter and collecting money she earns. My parents are amazing.
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My in laws are really sick and need to be taken care of so I decided to stay with my husband at their place even though my mother in law is quite harsh to me sometimes. Now why did I stay? I could have made my husband leave them and stay with me very easily like I left my parents and started staying with his family after marriage. But I didn't. Because I too have my own parents whom I love dearly and by God's grace they are keeping good health and can live on their own. I decided to stay with my in laws because I don't want my husband to regret later in life and think that he could have done something if he was with his parents and saved them. (in case something happens to them) My husband is important for me and so is his parents. Just want to tell that don't do something for which you will regret later on maybe?
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We don't have problem to stay with them ...the problem is their interference ..if they can give us some space n can understand that we can take our decision .....then we don't have any problem to stay with them
@odessy0000, Because according to law / Marriage act / social norms, the husband & in-laws are responsible for the guardianship of the married girl. As long as the girl is unmarried, the parents of the girl are her guardian. So, she stays with her parents while unmarried. After the marriage, the guardianship changes. Isn't simple enough!! ??
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My life was ruined because my wife's mother interfered too much, pretty much destroyed my life, because of my small kid I did not divorce, had to stay separately from my aging parents, not to mention my expense went up as I 've some other liabilities, moreover my wife is bi-polar as per the diagnosis done by reputed psychiatrist
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I have a mother in law who stays away but my husband talks with them daily still from time to time she becomes emotionally unstable and forces my husband to visit them when we really can't and then shows tantrums if we can't go.. calls 10 times cries in a fit.. pls help me I'm unable to deal with it.. she has gone to a extend and told me once to pls leave her son !!
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3:14 I respectfully disagree. Madam. Why did u say in case of girl you need to leave your parents and you didn't say the same in case of the boy. That's why I don't like Indian culture.
@@quietgirlinthecorner3684 obviously and in their old age u will keep them in your care .... How long u xpect them to keep u ??? Bcoz till marriage u r xpected u be financially independent and stable ... So that u and ur husband can create a place where both of ur parents can come and stay as long as they want ... And if in their old age they want to shift to ur place they can .....
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See, the problem of mother-in-law & daughter-in-law relations is all around the world, inescapable 🤣. In my country it is common belief for most families that daughter-in-laws must serve her in-laws (like a robot) and must be submissive with no voice. Because it is "the only" way of showing respect to her in-laws, good manners with sweet words and smiling face are not enough at all. If in-laws treat her unfairly, anyway, she is expected to accept bad attitude and remain patient until "the time" comes when in-laws realize how nice she was 🤣. What if that time never comes? When this kind of unfair attitudes toward daughter-in-laws go beyond the boundaries, unfortunately such relationships ending with unhappy outcomes. 😭
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Kindly guide for those in laws who just seek for money. In case if salary of son doesn't come for a month then they expect daughter in law should give her salary ( even though their earning is 50k+) just bcz we live in same home. What if daughter in law has not more salary and it creates problem at the end of the month for her and husband to manage even for petrol.
Same problem my husband's salary delayed for 3. Months bcz of job change then I took care of everything. My husband spent his all money on marriage not one supported him he took loan also. So his salry goes in installments like scooty , loan, and house grocery. In the end of the month i spend my money. And she is always where your both's salary gone. Even we are taking care of 8 members in the family. I am planning to move out now my mental peace is gone now
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Parents girl aur boys equal love ke sath bda karte hai to possessive vo kewal ladko ko lekar hi kyo hote hai.....vo beti ka ghar to basana chahte hai...lekin beta unka hi rahna chahiye....aisa kyo...beti ko bhi usi tarah bda karte hai pyar bhi utna hi karte hai to beti ki married life me interfere kyo nhi karte....beti ko apne pass hi bithao baate karne...husband ke pass mat jaane do....beti saath ghumne jaao...uske husband ko ghar hi rahne do...beti me saath khana khao....usko husband ke saath khana mat khaane do
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@@geetanegi2246 imagine her guts. She is apparently a counsellor, and she is saying statements like 'if the girl still focusses on her parents after marriage, how can she make the new relationship work?' I mean wtf?? Why not say the same thing to the guy?
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Ma'am I got officially committed to a guy, He's very nice but the problem is that he shared everything about me, about what I said, with her mother and then her mother shared those things by adding things in it from her own and tell it to my family to insult me. I am very confused, I have talked to him pls don't tell everything about me to your mother it should be between us only but it's of no avail. He said he will not but still he tells her. Tell me what to do I am really worried pls reply to my comment.
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Is it right to ask each thing to mother in law, like meet my parents, do job, do study, to go for shopping. These seems small but whenever I ask she start fighting and main point become I don't respect my inlaws and just lovey my parents. I don't know what to do. My husband never take decision regarding me, if I say I want to do painting class he will say directly I will not pay your fees. We are financially well off and even same fees he will pay for our sons class. I asked him to sit and discuss as I am on verge to leave him. He never pay attention, if I ask for marriage counselor, he doesn't want to go and not pay fees. What to do. Some time I want to die
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Ms. Parannjpe, I liked your video. It really gave a lot of insight on what I should do, seeing how I am a newlywed myself. However, I was wondering if you could give some advice (maybe in a video) about what to do when extended family members (aunts, uncles, especially cousins) try to interfere in your marriage, despite the fact they might be joking? Because I had an incident like that not too long ago.
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Even after living seperately my wife only speaks about her mom, then if she doesn't get to visit atleast once a week there will be fight or health issue to go there, everything I say goest to her mom and next I know the in laws will intervine me and find out the faults. Wife never make plans for dinner , outing traveling and I keep making plans which she dumps , got assaulted too finally after 3 years somehow trying to rebuild myself, on the ask for divorce she threatens of false cases on me. Seriously never ever get married
My wife's mom made our life hell... She interfere everything...she always torture me... If any bad things happened in their home because of their mistakes they'll claim it's because of my birthday star.. wife didn't stay single day with my parents.. They always made excuses.. Before marriage they show another face after wedding only I realised they just need my money and reputation...
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Mam u are very right but in my case she don't want to listen to me. And she left me alone i tried to get her but her wish is that i should buy a plot in her native city and keep her parents with her and i stay at duty and only visit her occasionally....
Why only Indians make such videos? I don't see any foreign influencers making videos in parents interference in marriage.It's a clear indication of how this issue afflicts Indian society only.
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How you deal with your son or daughter.. when they come say they are engaged. Do you just attend their marriage or interfere asking them whom.. etc., My cousin needs suggestion. I told them, happily attend the marriage. Your job is over at this time and kid is an adult now and let him create his life. But Mom's expect at least the gratitude .
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Mam when husband needs wife only for sexual relationship and he didn't give her respect for another time then wife how to deal with this situation?and what about that pure relationship which we call marriage..?
@Bhawna Singh, search everywhere and you can only find that except from parent / child relationship, pure relationship doesn't exist at all. This is the reality. Husband- wife relationship is also one type of give & take relationship. Husband takes care of wife's needs in life , in return wife takes care of husband's needs and his parents also. Also for your information, sexual relationship is mutual & it is for both partners(Not for husband only). But, here we can say that emotional bond is bound to come between husband & wife at any stage of their life slowly. The "feeling of necessity / habit of other partner" is the root cause of this emotional bond & it should come from both side for a normal couple. As a result, both partner can spend the life with each other and take care of each other till the end of life. If any one of us expect all of our needs should be fulfilled by our partner from the next day of marriage immediately, then sorry the other partner is human, not a Superman!! A women should take the guidance of in-laws & her husband, because they are the protectors of this girl as well as they have the responsibility of the guardianship of that wife . It is for the betterment of Indian families. No ego, no comparison, no complication, no complain should come in this situation. As long as husband doesn't beat his wife, as long as the husband doesn't abuse his wife unnecessary in front of others and as long as a husband doesn't harm the reputation/existence of his wife, the husband can be considered to be decent & respectful to his wife. These are the minimum protocols. We shouldn't expect more than that in a marital relationship.
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My mother in law loves only her family she never calls my mother to her house. She only give importance to her family n I have to work like hell. Husband marries and goes to work.but I have to live with mother in-law.
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Hello maam. Me and my ex gf got seperated because of her step mom's insult on my social and economic status. I had given her the option for court marriage but she was scared of not going against her stepmom. I thought the marriage would be mostly driven by her stepmom. I being an independent man and nor willing to live under anyone. I started looking for another woman. But when moved on with another she was very sad. It is to be noted that I had clearly told her that I would not get married this way and we were seperated. But I feel guilty for her and this guilt was haunting me for a very long time. I loved her but just was not compatible with all the situation. Maam did I did the right thing of moving on..please guide me maam
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Mam.i have married in 2016 December from the day 1 his mother doesn't like and find single thing to blame me. But I was living with husband in delhi and that time husband support me but after that we shifted his mother home and suddenly things going down..now from 2 years I started again living jn delhi with husband now my Husband always blame me every single things even there is nothing like couples between us. He told me to ask sorry to his mother.. I did lots of time but nothing change..so where is my fault if she doesn't want me..but he never understand and start blame me..tum he nahi chahte sab thek ho..tum hazar nahi lakh bar mafi kro..jab tak may na kre..wo bde hai tum mante raho..I feel mentally disturb to listen and doing these things.. I understand wo hum dono ke bich fas gya hai buy what can I do
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Mam can you plz say this in hindi i can't able to understand properly bcus my english is not so good nd m also facing this isuue in my marital relationship. Thnku
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It's very useful do please post vedios on how to maintain relationship after having kids and they grown up specially teens.how to handle with problems on teen life and spouse bond.
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My family is still against me coz I dint wanted to marry my cousin they forced me so I go against their wish and choose girl myself but still they are not happy and always against my wife
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My wife did not come back after getting pregnant. She is a working woman. She has given birth to a daughter. Now she says" buy a new flat far away from your home if you want to be with your daughter. my parents are 70 years of age. No one is there to take care of them. what shall i do? Even Her elder sister has done the same . She is also working . Even she did not go to her sasural. after her pregnancy. She has a boy of 3 years old Even her brother is divorcee. He remarried a village girl One of her brother is mentally disturbed. her mother is widow. Who wants to keep all her childrem with her. madam aap kuch toh bataiye ??????????????? because i am a male. male do not cry
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आप जो कह रही हैं वह लड़कियों के लिए कह रही है बकभी-कभी ऐसा भी होता है कि लड़कों को समस्या होती है मेरी कहानी सबसे अजीब है मेरी सास कि अपने पति नहीं बनती थी तो उनकी मृत्यु हो गई फिर उन्होंने अपने बड़े बेटे की शादी करी और उसका फिर तलाक करवा दिया फिर उन्होंने अपनी बेटी की शादी करी और जैसे ही वह कंसीव तो उसे अपने पास बुला लिया और तब से वह अपने ससुराल नहीं गई फिर अपने अपने सबसे छोटी बेटी की शादी मेरे से करी और हर हफ्ते अपनी मम्मी के पास वह मेरी वाइफ चले जाती थी उसे लगता था कि सैटरडे संडे मम्मी के लिए है मेरी ससुराल मेरे घर से मात्र 10 किलोमीटर की दूरी पर है वह जॉब करती है मैं भी जॉब करता हूं एक ही शहर में परंतु उसको लगता है every Sunday घर जाना hai.she says कि मैं हफ्ते में 5 दिन तो यहां रहती हूं ना और जब तक अंतिम करिए तब से वो भी वापस ससुराल नहीं आ रही है और ना ही उसकी mother चाहते हैं उसने अपनी बड़ी बेटी की को कभी फिर ससुराल भेजा ही नहीं उसके बेटे को खुद ही पाल रही है और अपना टाइम पास कर रही है उसने अपने बेटे का तलाक करवा कर दोबारा उसकी शादी करवाई और दूसरी बहू से खूब लड़ाई किया है अब उनकी दूसरी बहू उनके साथ नहीं रहती है वह अपना सारा समय अपनी बड़ी बेटी उसके बच्चे और मेरी वाइफ के साथ बिताती है मेरी वाइफ भी अपनी मां के पास ज्यादा से ज्यादा रहने के लिए मेरे से लड़ाई करती है और मेरी मां से भी लड़ाई करती है मेरे घर के बारे में उल्टा सीधा मा को बताती है और उसकी मां फिर भेजती भी नहीं जब भी मेरी वाइफ चाहती कि वह ज्यादा से ज्यादा समय मैं अपनी मां के पास रह सके क्योंकि उसकी बड़ी बहन भी मायके में आराम से रह रही अपने बच्चे के साथ मेरे पास उसकी कुछ फोन के रिकॉर्डिंग hi जिसमें वह कह रही है कि मम्मी हमारा बच्चा हो जाएगा तो हम इसको लात मार देंगे Matlab mujhe what should I do
@@NA-vt6mz she has concieved in last year September and since then she has not come back to my house. Uska matlab poora ho gaya na. She wants to live like her sister.
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Mam, me and my gf recently talked about marrying.. But our views about marriage are very different. Me and my family wants her to stay in our family, give time to the family as we have seen two of our family members' marriage fail because the wife was very frequently visiting her parents home and staying their for long... They did never develop any attachment to the new family. Ultimately those marriages became a chaos. I discussed this with her. But she went ahead and told her mother (her mother and father stays at different states and she is the only one taking care of her mother at present) that I told her this. Now her mother wants to talk to me. Basically my gf takes the marriage just as a legal thing to stay together, but wants to continue doing what she does even after marriage. She wants to regularly visit her mother and stay there. When I asked how she will give time to the new family, she just shouted at me. What should I do mam?
Thank you for sharing your story. I think we need to understand whether she is facing any fear and insecurity in this relationship. What's bothering her meeting her mom regularly. Once you know the reason you can help her get the clarity.
@@leennaparannjpe3330 her mom stays alone. Her father stays at different state. Her mother does not want to stay with her husband. So my gf has to take care of her. My gf is a very good human being and I do understand how she feels. But if she regularly goes and stays with her mother even after marriage, wont this relationship fail?
You want your gf to live with your family but have objections to her going to meet her mother often after marriage . How selfish can people be ? No wonder girls have had enough of this nonsense.
Exactly..... U gave words to all my thoughts... That's what they need to understand that let us handle our situations... Let us experience but firstly they will interfere then they put their own judgement and try to manipulate whole matter accordingly there point of view.. at last they justify that they are more concern.. but doing partial judgement and taking stand only for there son is pathetic...
I think whoseever parents r interfering it's their responsibility to stop them, if girl's parents interfere girl needs to stop them and vice a versa.... rather than opposite, coz that way it will hurt them less and message will hit them more strongly that our own child want us to stay out of it.
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My mother in law...destroyed my 8 years of beautiful relationship in 6 months post wedding...we were so happy as boy friend and girl friend....god will never forgive her
It’s not your mother in laws fault, it’s your own and your husband’s fault so you both allowed a family member to screw up your relation. We blame others for our own issues. Work on your own relation to make it stronger every day.
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My wife delivered a baby like 10 days ago, her mom and sister took a separate room in our house and took my wife with them. My parents feels separated from the child and confused. Please suggest me what to do. My in laws are over caring my wife and hurting my family by not allowing them to take decisions about caring for my child. I am so confused, if I will speak up things will shatter and if I will talk to my wife, she will blame me anyway
Ma'am i have started getting panic attacks because 15years of abusive marriage just becoz of my motherinlaw Now its enough everything is spoied i dont knw wat to do I feel cheatd in my lfel
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It's about balancing both side parents..... that's possible once you create a strong connection with your spouse. Instead of being a single daughter, her husband will take care of her parents.
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Hi mam...my mother in law extremely rigid and always guide wrongly my husband..and he is also mama's boy . our 8 yrs marriage but no bonding create bcoz his mother. He did not meet my father at his serious condition last 10 month and also his death
Also after my father death his mother want not to live with him..he is also agreed. .and now I live his house forcefully. .and try to adjust. ..plz reply
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Living with parent is never a issue and shouldn’t be. But it’s boys and girls responsibility to draw line on interference from both side of parents. That’s what called maturity in couples.
bilkul sahi..magar kabhi kabhi parents itne jyada interfere kar dete hai na..ki insan frustrated ho kar kuch ulta sidha bol deta hai jab ki wo bolna nhi chahiye.. but on the POV of parents they should have some maturity that their sons , daughter are Married ..they need to give them some space...aaj ya kal parents nhi rehega..ekdin sabko marna hai...rehega thumara wife or husband hi, so try to understand this practically not emotional 🙏
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@@Jordan2.0 well. I disagree on who will die first. 😊. Who knows if we go first and parents remains. I am a family person and I have seen value of family. Remember parents are not your enemy and they will never be, in fact they are your support, you just need to learn, how to manage things. I have seen people crying for family as they don’t have anyone other than their partner. Remember everything comes as package. Considering we living in such a uncertain world, family is super important. Be a men and work on challenges and be unbiased. You should love everyone and take favour of right thing, rather a particular relation.
@@nirajyadave yes ur reply is correct but no one is immortal .. always u will not get them..Ekele aye ho is duniya mai ekele jaoge ..Kahawat hai bhai 🙏
Adina......would that be extreme level of detachment with the one who has witnessed your entire life so far ? How about initial 2 years living separately to allow the couple to build the base of their new relationship? Once the emotional & physical connection is built, no matter how many family members you stay with. It doesn't break the couple's intimate bond.
Absolutely 💯 the power balance in a husband wife relationship becomes completely skewed as soon as you start living with in laws. That's why financial independence for women is of utmost importance. So that she can have her own say. Living with parents of either boy's or girl's side should be considered only and only in their later stages of life when they are unable to carry out their activities of daily living due to sickness or when one of the parents have expired. Before that, it should be the simple case of live and let live.
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Hello ma'am pls guide , I m divorced girl n I have one daughter, as my husband didn't wanted a girl child so I took divorce, I didn't wanted to marry again as I had a daughter n I was not getting good partner but after 10 years I got a good partner and we took time to know each other n now we both are ready to marry he is completely excepted my daughter also, but his family is saying no bcoz I have daughter and we caste different as what society will say. So pls guide me what n how we can explain them.
Hi Shruti, nothing wrong in getting married I would suggest you please make your daughter to stay with your parents hopefully once your new husband tell and convenience him importance and love of your daughter, hope god will help you soon.
@@shareshconsultancy-shruti.8143 I totally understand you have spent your precious time with your daughter, staying without her it's difficult some thing to get you need to sacrifice some things, don't worry every thing works fine soon.
My mother in law Interfers alot,due to some reasons after delivery i was not at my mothers place i got C section but never got chance to take rest since my mother in law expects me to take care of household work as a normal person and zero support from my husband... she even told us not to share bedroom for 6months after delivery, he sleeps in different bedroom nd my mother in law sleeps in between our rooms in corider...she never allow us to have our own space i spoke many times with my husband about it but he replies saying dat she's elder nd she knows good nd bad, its been more than a year, me nd my husband had a personel space ..may be due to hormonal changes i feel dipressed nd always feel tied but my husband never bothers abt it...he responds reacts only to his mother..
Oh no!! That must be horrible. I mean why is she coming between your intimate relationship? That is so sick and above my mental and emotional capacity to understand. Are things any better now?
@@prachisharmaaa it got vast .. though we live in same house but we dont have our own space he stays in different room m in different room, since 2019 we had our space...for a while lets not worry abt physical intimacy but he won't even talk normally ..no doubt he's nice guy but he trust thr parents blindly especailly his mom but thy r taking advantage of it...all the time provoking complaining nd cobtrolling him...even i stopped bothering him but i still love him i still want nd try my best to save my marriage but i don't know how...
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Hey Bharat, Thank you for reaching out here. There are so many legalities involved related to the system called Marriage. I respect the law. But we can not change the reality.
my wife did not come after conceiving. Now i have a daughter. She is forcing me to leave my parents if I want to be with my daughter. My parents are alone. Both of them are around 70 years old. nobody is there to take care of them. I have a big house. But she did want to cook for my Parents. She has not come back for a year Now. She has not talked to me for 10 months. What i should do. I should probably...................
@@Priyankafoody jab tum bhi parent banaogi to yeh expect mat Krna that ur Daughter in law will take care of you, because wo bhi apne parents ka khayal rakhegi naki tumhara 😂😂😂😂 assuming if u had a boy child
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Sana....Happy to know that you are strong. Please do not judge anyone. Respect his age and remember because of him you have got your husband. I understand what you are struggling with currently. But important is to build a strong connection with your spouse and keep a smart distance with your FIL. Let petty things do not annoy you. Ignore most of the times. My authored book DETOX YOUR MARRIAGE might help you www.amazon.in/dp/B0893HF7VN
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@@littlesonshine2407 her replies reek of bs patriarchy. I had forgotten about this video I had come across untill someone replied to a comment I had made few months back here and I was again reminded of this toxic counselling given by this lady. Rip mental health programs in India.
When two grown ups decide to marry give them space and let them breathe. Too many people trying to crowd up around them would give them no time to bond well and this initial stage of getting comfortable with each other is primarily important right? It's only later if they tune in correct that the in laws etc start to mean something to them right?
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My husband never had time for me. It was always about his sisters and mother. I felt badly ignored and not so important
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A growing couple needs their space. Living with inlaws is a recipe for disaster. It's best to meet up with them on weekend and speak on phone with them regularly. I never recommend living together as it creates friction. It's not that mother in law or daughter in law is bad, but the dynamics of the relationship makes it toxic to live together. Living separately means private rooms and even a private kitchen so u don't need to see in laws every day. I really feel for some ppl here.
It’s only in extreme situations where reconciliation is next to impossible. I would always prefer living with my in laws and try to create a happy environment. 😊
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Best answer . I love your thoughts as a a victim
my marriage is ruined and abhi ek saal bhi nei hua h.my husband is asking me to leave his home and asking me to give him divorce. i clearly told him what i want before marriage but. I'm just so sad
@@Sarashimishra07 pls don't give up on ur marriage. Do what u can to make it work. U know ur situation best. Or atleast don't divorce right away. Have some period of separation understand if this is best. But whatever u decide don't rush to divorce!
Well said ma'am. But my husband always prefers his mother's point of view even if she is wrong. He does not have that guts to speak the right infront of his parents. Rather he always tries to make me understand thet his parents is right. What should I do ?
Bahubali 2 😂.. you should focus on what really matters.. show respect to your in-laws.
Forget ego
Exactly the same thing happens with me . And your words is perfect 'they have no guts to see the truth at least '
@@kishorsarode4351 respect and obedience are two different thing. What is wrong is wrong it cannot be said as rights. Parents must realize they are humans not gods so they make mistakes and should keep THEIR EGO aside and accept mistakes
@@architasrivastava218 absolutely correct,as a mature adult a man should use his brain logically and rationaly .Just because mother and father have done something it doesn't become right. We as lndian culture and society have learnt lot of wrong ideas in the childhood. Whatever is right is right ,no matter who has done it. And whatever is wrong is wrong no matter who has done it.Only this type of understanding in a man can bring peace in the house
@@architasrivastava218but for husband's parents are our real gods .
My mother in law dominated and manipulated us right from the start of our marriage. I'm a working woman but was forced to work my husband brother family works. Im done, shift to new place but her evil deeds is too difficult to forgive😡
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My mother in law (MIL) moved in with us permanently within 1 year of marriage, to take care of our child so my wife could study for USMLE and do medical residency. MIL had never lived with her husband as he worked abroad in the Gulf, so I think she was used to being in charge. MIL causes 90% of our fights. After 10 years the father retired and moved in too, and I thought he would help, but he just prays all day. They have a son, but he is not MD like my wife. I thought it was an honor to take care of wife’s parents since 10 years, but they don’t even acknowledge that they have lived 100% free. Now that my wife is making more than me, MIL has gotten bolder, calling me a “zero” (I’m a banking VP, she has 8th grade education). They are constantly brainwashing my wife to stay obedient to them, even if our marriage suffers or ends (half of MIL’s brothers/sisters are divorced, so it’s normal for her). I don’t know what to do.
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@@leennaparannjpe3330 Actually I ended up calling in the cavalry: my Punjabi parents. My dad insulted them so bad saying to the father “No respectable Punjabi father would even ask for a glass of water in his married daughter’s house.” and “My son is married to your daughter, not your wife.” My mother called my mother in law a “Khala”, presumably it has something to do with prostituting out your daughter and collecting money she earns. My parents are amazing.
get bold enough and take a strong decision...there's no point wasting your life , bro
Yesterday night we all had conversation and they just said do not share any kind of stuff related with anyone in this house with our son...
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My in laws are really sick and need to be taken care of so I decided to stay with my husband at their place even though my mother in law is quite harsh to me sometimes. Now why did I stay? I could have made my husband leave them and stay with me very easily like I left my parents and started staying with his family after marriage. But I didn't. Because I too have my own parents whom I love dearly and by God's grace they are keeping good health and can live on their own. I decided to stay with my in laws because I don't want my husband to regret later in life and think that he could have done something if he was with his parents and saved them. (in case something happens to them) My husband is important for me and so is his parents. Just want to tell that don't do something for which you will regret later on maybe?
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We don't have problem to stay with them ...the problem is their interference ..if they can give us some space n can understand that we can take our decision .....then we don't have any problem to stay with them
Why does the daughter in law need to ‘leave’ her parents whist the boy’s mom lives with them 24/7?
@odessy0000, Because according to law / Marriage act / social norms, the husband & in-laws are responsible for the guardianship of the married girl. As long as the girl is unmarried, the parents of the girl are her guardian. So, she stays with her parents while unmarried. After the marriage, the guardianship changes. Isn't simple enough!! ??
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My life was ruined because my wife's mother interfered too much, pretty much destroyed my life, because of my small kid I did not divorce, had to stay separately from my aging parents, not to mention my expense went up as I 've some other liabilities, moreover my wife is bi-polar as per the diagnosis done by reputed psychiatrist
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I have a mother in law who stays away but my husband talks with them daily still from time to time she becomes emotionally unstable and forces my husband to visit them when we really can't and then shows tantrums if we can't go.. calls 10 times cries in a fit.. pls help me I'm unable to deal with it.. she has gone to a extend and told me once to pls leave her son !!
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3:14 I respectfully disagree. Madam.
Why did u say in case of girl you need to leave your parents and you didn't say the same in case of the boy.
That's why I don't like Indian culture.
Agreed .... Be the change ..... Its better not to get married otherwise ......
True
Girl, my parents said they are keeing me till marriage. Still speechless. Also, my family is economically sound.
@@quietgirlinthecorner3684 obviously and in their old age u will keep them in your care .... How long u xpect them to keep u ??? Bcoz till marriage u r xpected u be financially independent and stable ... So that u and ur husband can create a place where both of ur parents can come and stay as long as they want ... And if in their old age they want to shift to ur place they can .....
@@meow_meow6712 ma'am I get your concern. I am waiting for my training to come. Still giving exams. Due to lockdown, I am stuck at home.
Mam nyc video put up some videos how mother should control their feelings when son gets married and try to give space to the couple.
Everyone has the same problem ...even I m facing the same .... interference ...
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See, the problem of mother-in-law & daughter-in-law relations is all around the world, inescapable 🤣. In my country it is common belief for most families that daughter-in-laws must serve her in-laws (like a robot) and must be submissive with no voice. Because it is "the only" way of showing respect to her in-laws, good manners with sweet words and smiling face are not enough at all. If in-laws treat her unfairly, anyway, she is expected to accept bad attitude and remain patient until "the time" comes when in-laws realize how nice she was 🤣. What if that time never comes? When this kind of unfair attitudes toward daughter-in-laws go beyond the boundaries, unfortunately such relationships ending with unhappy outcomes. 😭
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Thank you. Your video was very informative and helpful.
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My sisters husband is picky about jobs and my parents can't give them anymore money, he needs to grow up and help her pay
Thank you thank you so much ❤️ madam
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Thank you for this video.. gained infrmation to what I was looking
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Thanks for your Advice & Guidance...
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Kindly guide for those in laws who just seek for money. In case if salary of son doesn't come for a month then they expect daughter in law should give her salary ( even though their earning is 50k+) just bcz we live in same home. What if daughter in law has not more salary and it creates problem at the end of the month for her and husband to manage even for petrol.
In laws don't have any right upon daughter in law. The have no rights on her money. They should have shame before even asking.
Same problem my husband's salary delayed for 3. Months bcz of job change then I took care of everything. My husband spent his all money on marriage not one supported him he took loan also. So his salry goes in installments like scooty , loan, and house grocery. In the end of the month i spend my money. And she is always where your both's salary gone. Even we are taking care of 8 members in the family. I am planning to move out now my mental peace is gone now
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Parents girl aur boys equal love ke sath bda karte hai to possessive vo kewal ladko ko lekar hi kyo hote hai.....vo beti ka ghar to basana chahte hai...lekin beta unka hi rahna chahiye....aisa kyo...beti ko bhi usi tarah bda karte hai pyar bhi utna hi karte hai to beti ki married life me interfere kyo nhi karte....beti ko apne pass hi bithao baate karne...husband ke pass mat jaane do....beti saath ghumne jaao...uske husband ko ghar hi rahne do...beti me saath khana khao....usko husband ke saath khana mat khaane do
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Hard to be respectful in the comments when you are blatantly promoting patriarchy in the name of counselling. Thanks but no thanks.
This.👏
@@geetanegi2246 imagine her guts. She is apparently a counsellor, and she is saying statements like 'if the girl still focusses on her parents after marriage, how can she make the new relationship work?' I mean wtf?? Why not say the same thing to the guy?
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Beautiful words ma'am..Really Appreciated😍
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Ma'am I got officially committed to a guy, He's very nice but the problem is that he shared everything about me, about what I said, with her mother and then her mother shared those things by adding things in it from her own and tell it to my family to insult me. I am very confused, I have talked to him pls don't tell everything about me to your mother it should be between us only but it's of no avail. He said he will not but still he tells her. Tell me what to do I am really worried pls reply to my comment.
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Is it right to ask each thing to mother in law, like meet my parents, do job, do study, to go for shopping. These seems small but whenever I ask she start fighting and main point become I don't respect my inlaws and just lovey my parents. I don't know what to do. My husband never take decision regarding me, if I say I want to do painting class he will say directly I will not pay your fees. We are financially well off and even same fees he will pay for our sons class. I asked him to sit and discuss as I am on verge to leave him. He never pay attention, if I ask for marriage counselor, he doesn't want to go and not pay fees. What to do. Some time I want to die
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Ms. Parannjpe, I liked your video. It really gave a lot of insight on what I should do, seeing how I am a newlywed myself. However, I was wondering if you could give some advice (maybe in a video) about what to do when extended family members (aunts, uncles, especially cousins) try to interfere in your marriage, despite the fact they might be joking? Because I had an incident like that not too long ago.
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Even after living seperately my wife only speaks about her mom, then if she doesn't get to visit atleast once a week there will be fight or health issue to go there, everything I say goest to her mom and next I know the in laws will intervine me and find out the faults.
Wife never make plans for dinner , outing traveling and I keep making plans which she dumps , got assaulted too finally after 3 years somehow trying to rebuild myself, on the ask for divorce she threatens of false cases on me.
Seriously never ever get married
Hey thank you for sharing your pain. It's not that your marriage is wrong but you haven't trained your wife how you want to be treated.
My wife's mom made our life hell... She interfere everything...she always torture me... If any bad things happened in their home because of their mistakes they'll claim it's because of my birthday star.. wife didn't stay single day with my parents.. They always made excuses.. Before marriage they show another face after wedding only I realised they just need my money and reputation...
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Mam u are very right but in my case she don't want to listen to me. And she left me alone i tried to get her but her wish is that i should buy a plot in her native city and keep her parents with her and i stay at duty and only visit her occasionally....
Over a period of time I feel she has taken you for granted. The relationship is imbalanced. You need to recreate a connectivity with your spouse.
Why only Indians make such videos? I don't see any foreign influencers making videos in parents interference in marriage.It's a clear indication of how this issue afflicts Indian society only.
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How you deal with your son or daughter.. when they come say they are engaged. Do you just attend their marriage or interfere asking them whom.. etc., My cousin needs suggestion. I told them, happily attend the marriage. Your job is over at this time and kid is an adult now and let him create his life. But Mom's expect at least the gratitude .
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each time a relationship fail is because of the parents
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Even I want to share something with u ..how can I contact you ?
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Wit Same situation ryt now im dealing with mam
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Mam when husband needs wife only for sexual relationship and he didn't give her respect for another time then wife how to deal with this situation?and what about that pure relationship which we call marriage..?
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@Bhawna Singh, search everywhere and you can only find that except from parent / child relationship, pure relationship doesn't exist at all. This is the reality. Husband- wife relationship is also one type of give & take relationship. Husband takes care of wife's needs in life , in return wife takes care of husband's needs and his parents also. Also for your information, sexual relationship is mutual & it is for both partners(Not for husband only). But, here we can say that emotional bond is bound to come between husband & wife at any stage of their life slowly. The "feeling of necessity / habit of other partner" is the root cause of this emotional bond & it should come from both side for a normal couple. As a result, both partner can spend the life with each other and take care of each other till the end of life. If any one of us expect all of our needs should be fulfilled by our partner from the next day of marriage immediately, then sorry the other partner is human, not a Superman!! A women should take the guidance of in-laws & her husband, because they are the protectors of this girl as well as they have the responsibility of the guardianship of that wife . It is for the betterment of Indian families. No ego, no comparison, no complication, no complain should come in this situation.
As long as husband doesn't beat his wife, as long as the husband doesn't abuse his wife unnecessary in front of others and as long as a husband doesn't harm the reputation/existence of his wife, the husband can be considered to be decent & respectful to his wife. These are the minimum protocols. We shouldn't expect more than that in a marital relationship.
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My mother in law loves only her family she never calls my mother to her house. She only give importance to her family n I have to work like hell. Husband marries and goes to work.but I have to live with mother in-law.
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Mam your words are really true but what can i do when my husband takes help from the famiy rather than dealing the problems first hand
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Hello maam.
Me and my ex gf got seperated because of her step mom's insult on my social and economic status. I had given her the option for court marriage but she was scared of not going against her stepmom. I thought the marriage would be mostly driven by her stepmom. I being an independent man and nor willing to live under anyone. I started looking for another woman. But when moved on with another she was very sad. It is to be noted that I had clearly told her that I would not get married this way and we were seperated. But I feel guilty for her and this guilt was haunting me for a very long time. I loved her but just was not compatible with all the situation. Maam did I did the right thing of moving on..please guide me maam
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I need your help mam
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Mam.i have married in 2016 December from the day 1 his mother doesn't like and find single thing to blame me. But I was living with husband in delhi and that time husband support me but after that we shifted his mother home and suddenly things going down..now from 2 years I started again living jn delhi with husband now my Husband always blame me every single things even there is nothing like couples between us. He told me to ask sorry to his mother.. I did lots of time but nothing change..so where is my fault if she doesn't want me..but he never understand and start blame me..tum he nahi chahte sab thek ho..tum hazar nahi lakh bar mafi kro..jab tak may na kre..wo bde hai tum mante raho..I feel mentally disturb to listen and doing these things.. I understand wo hum dono ke bich fas gya hai buy what can I do
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Based on what you’re sharing with me, I am assuming getting a solution to this problem must be a top priority for you currently, right?
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Mam can you plz say this in hindi i can't able to understand properly bcus my english is not so good nd m also facing this isuue in my marital relationship. Thnku
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Marathi bhashet vedio bnvaa .please.madam.
It's very useful do please post vedios on how to maintain relationship after having kids and they grown up specially teens.how to handle with problems on teen life and spouse bond.
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My family is still against me coz I dint wanted to marry my cousin they forced me so I go against their wish and choose girl myself but still they are not happy and always against my wife
Use google translator didi
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madam You do not replying to my Query. Madam please reciprocate
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No one has to leave their parents...can know say this to a guy?
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My wife did not come back after getting pregnant. She is a working woman. She has given birth to a daughter. Now she says" buy a new flat far away from your home if you want to be with your daughter.
my parents are 70 years of age. No one is there to take care of them.
what shall i do?
Even Her elder sister has done the same . She is also working . Even she did not go to her sasural. after her pregnancy. She has a boy of 3 years old
Even her brother is divorcee. He remarried a village girl
One of her brother is mentally disturbed.
her mother is widow. Who wants to keep all her childrem with her.
madam aap kuch toh bataiye ???????????????
because i am a male.
male do not cry
@Dhirendra singh tomar you are right bro.
I want to give my parents a happy old age.
I have seen every bit of their struggle to raise me.
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Kindly make new vedio in marathi or in hindi..
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आप जो कह रही हैं वह लड़कियों के लिए कह रही है बकभी-कभी ऐसा भी होता है कि लड़कों को समस्या होती है मेरी कहानी सबसे अजीब है मेरी सास कि अपने पति नहीं बनती थी तो उनकी मृत्यु हो गई फिर उन्होंने अपने बड़े बेटे की शादी करी और उसका फिर तलाक करवा दिया फिर उन्होंने अपनी बेटी की शादी करी और जैसे ही वह कंसीव तो उसे अपने पास बुला लिया और तब से वह अपने ससुराल नहीं गई फिर अपने अपने सबसे छोटी बेटी की शादी मेरे से करी और हर हफ्ते अपनी मम्मी के पास वह मेरी वाइफ चले जाती थी उसे लगता था कि सैटरडे संडे मम्मी के लिए है मेरी ससुराल मेरे घर से मात्र 10 किलोमीटर की दूरी पर है वह जॉब करती है मैं भी जॉब करता हूं एक ही शहर में परंतु उसको लगता है every Sunday घर जाना hai.she says कि मैं हफ्ते में 5 दिन तो यहां रहती हूं ना और जब तक अंतिम करिए तब से वो भी वापस ससुराल नहीं आ रही है और ना ही उसकी mother चाहते हैं
उसने अपनी बड़ी बेटी की को कभी फिर ससुराल भेजा ही नहीं उसके बेटे को खुद ही पाल रही है और अपना टाइम पास कर रही है उसने अपने बेटे का तलाक करवा कर दोबारा उसकी शादी करवाई और दूसरी बहू से खूब लड़ाई किया है अब उनकी दूसरी बहू उनके साथ नहीं रहती है
वह अपना सारा समय अपनी बड़ी बेटी उसके बच्चे और मेरी वाइफ के साथ बिताती है
मेरी वाइफ भी अपनी मां के पास ज्यादा से ज्यादा रहने के लिए मेरे से लड़ाई करती है और मेरी मां से भी लड़ाई करती है मेरे घर के बारे में उल्टा सीधा मा को बताती है और उसकी मां फिर भेजती भी नहीं जब भी मेरी वाइफ चाहती कि वह ज्यादा से ज्यादा समय मैं अपनी मां के पास रह सके क्योंकि उसकी बड़ी बहन भी मायके में आराम से रह रही अपने बच्चे के साथ
मेरे पास उसकी कुछ फोन के रिकॉर्डिंग hi जिसमें वह कह रही है कि मम्मी हमारा बच्चा हो जाएगा तो हम इसको लात मार देंगे
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what should I do
Madam please reply
@@srikantram3839 usko divorce ki dhamki do aur strictly bolo maa ke ghar mahine mein 2 baar only
@@NA-vt6mz she has concieved in last year September and since then she has not come back to my house.
Uska matlab poora ho gaya na.
She wants to live like her sister.
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Mam, me and my gf recently talked about marrying.. But our views about marriage are very different.
Me and my family wants her to stay in our family, give time to the family as we have seen two of our family members' marriage fail because the wife was very frequently visiting her parents home and staying their for long... They did never develop any attachment to the new family. Ultimately those marriages became a chaos.
I discussed this with her. But she went ahead and told her mother (her mother and father stays at different states and she is the only one taking care of her mother at present) that I told her this. Now her mother wants to talk to me. Basically my gf takes the marriage just as a legal thing to stay together, but wants to continue doing what she does even after marriage. She wants to regularly visit her mother and stay there. When I asked how she will give time to the new family, she just shouted at me.
What should I do mam?
Thank you for sharing your story. I think we need to understand whether she is facing any fear and insecurity in this relationship. What's bothering her meeting her mom regularly. Once you know the reason you can help her get the clarity.
@@leennaparannjpe3330 her mom stays alone. Her father stays at different state. Her mother does not want to stay with her husband. So my gf has to take care of her. My gf is a very good human being and I do understand how she feels. But if she regularly goes and stays with her mother even after marriage, wont this relationship fail?
@@dan232183 It might fail....That's the reason you need to find out a reason behind this. I can help you get that.
@@leennaparannjpe3330.. Thank you mam
You want your gf to live with your family but have objections to her going to meet her mother often after marriage . How selfish can people be ? No wonder girls have had enough of this nonsense.
Exactly..... U gave words to all my thoughts... That's what they need to understand that let us handle our situations... Let us experience but firstly they will interfere then they put their own judgement and try to manipulate whole matter accordingly there point of view.. at last they justify that they are more concern.. but doing partial judgement and taking stand only for there son is pathetic...
How come as a couple you both have allowed them to judge you so easily ?
I think whoseever parents r interfering it's their responsibility to stop them, if girl's parents interfere girl needs to stop them and vice a versa.... rather than opposite, coz that way it will hurt them less and message will hit them more strongly that our own child want us to stay out of it.
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U r soo right
Maam you’re 100% right. A married couple should never never never live with the in laws since parents get involved in some way or the other.
At least for the first 2years the couple requires time to build a bond 💞
My mother in law...destroyed my 8 years of beautiful relationship in 6 months post wedding...we were so happy as boy friend and girl friend....god will never forgive her
It’s not your mother in laws fault, it’s your own and your husband’s fault so you both allowed a family member to screw up your relation. We blame others for our own issues. Work on your own relation to make it stronger every day.
@@luna.kashyap1313 same here...just got divorced because of my husbands decision of choosing his parents over me
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My wife delivered a baby like 10 days ago, her mom and sister took a separate room in our house and took my wife with them. My parents feels separated from the child and confused. Please suggest me what to do. My in laws are over caring my wife and hurting my family by not allowing them to take decisions about caring for my child. I am so confused, if I will speak up things will shatter and if I will talk to my wife, she will blame me anyway
Ma'am i have started getting panic attacks because 15years of abusive marriage just becoz of my motherinlaw
Now its enough everything is spoied i dont knw wat to do
I feel cheatd in my lfel
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how can a single girl child look after her own parents and her husband's family?? maam please reply....😔
It's about balancing both side parents..... that's possible once you create a strong connection with your spouse. Instead of being a single daughter, her husband will take care of her parents.
It's a real practical problem, no one answers
Taking care of wife's parents by husband 😭 sorry, this is not true, husband only think of his parents, he is never considerate for inlaws.
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Hi mam...my mother in law extremely rigid and always guide wrongly my husband..and he is also mama's boy . our 8 yrs marriage but no bonding create bcoz his mother. He did not meet my father at his serious condition last 10 month and also his death
Also after my father death his mother want not to live with him..he is also agreed. .and now I live his house forcefully. .and try to adjust. ..plz reply
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Living with parent is never a issue and shouldn’t be. But it’s boys and girls responsibility to draw line on interference from both side of parents. That’s what called maturity in couples.
bilkul sahi..magar kabhi kabhi parents itne jyada interfere kar dete hai na..ki insan frustrated ho kar kuch ulta sidha bol deta hai jab ki wo bolna nhi chahiye.. but on the POV of parents they should have some maturity that their sons , daughter are Married ..they need to give them some space...aaj ya kal parents nhi rehega..ekdin sabko marna hai...rehega thumara wife or husband hi, so try to understand this practically not emotional 🙏
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Yes u r right
@@Jordan2.0 well. I disagree on who will die first. 😊. Who knows if we go first and parents remains. I am a family person and I have seen value of family. Remember parents are not your enemy and they will never be, in fact they are your support, you just need to learn, how to manage things. I have seen people crying for family as they don’t have anyone other than their partner. Remember everything comes as package. Considering we living in such a uncertain world, family is super important. Be a men and work on challenges and be unbiased. You should love everyone and take favour of right thing, rather a particular relation.
@@nirajyadave yes ur reply is correct but no one is immortal .. always u will not get them..Ekele aye ho is duniya mai ekele jaoge ..Kahawat hai bhai 🙏
Never, never, never live with in-laws.
Adina......would that be extreme level of detachment with the one who has witnessed your entire life so far ? How about initial 2 years living separately to allow the couple to build the base of their new relationship? Once the emotional & physical connection is built, no matter how many family members you stay with. It doesn't break the couple's intimate bond.
Absolutely 💯 the power balance in a husband wife relationship becomes completely skewed as soon as you start living with in laws. That's why financial independence for women is of utmost importance. So that she can have her own say. Living with parents of either boy's or girl's side should be considered only and only in their later stages of life when they are unable to carry out their activities of daily living due to sickness or when one of the parents have expired. Before that, it should be the simple case of live and let live.
Maam pls tell wat shall i do my boyfriend mom is not at all interested to get him married...
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Hello ma'am pls guide , I m divorced girl n I have one daughter, as my husband didn't wanted a girl child so I took divorce, I didn't wanted to marry again as I had a daughter n I was not getting good partner but after 10 years I got a good partner and we took time to know each other n now we both are ready to marry he is completely excepted my daughter also, but his family is saying no bcoz I have daughter and we caste different as what society will say. So pls guide me what n how we can explain them.
Hi Shruti, nothing wrong in getting married I would suggest you please make your daughter to stay with your parents hopefully once your new husband tell and convenience him importance and love of your daughter, hope god will help you soon.
@@adi5192 he have accepted me with my daughter then only I have said yes for marriage
@@shareshconsultancy-shruti.8143 Don't you have your parents Shruthi .
@@shareshconsultancy-shruti.8143 I totally understand you have spent your precious time with your daughter, staying without her it's difficult some thing to get you need to sacrifice some things, don't worry every thing works fine soon.
@@adi5192 have but they are too aged now n can't take care of my daughter so I will take with me but want my mother in law to accept her
My mother in law Interfers alot,due to some reasons after delivery i was not at my mothers place i got C section but never got chance to take rest since my mother in law expects me to take care of household work as a normal person and zero support from my husband... she even told us not to share bedroom for 6months after delivery, he sleeps in different bedroom nd my mother in law sleeps in between our rooms in corider...she never allow us to have our own space i spoke many times with my husband about it but he replies saying dat she's elder nd she knows good nd bad, its been more than a year, me nd my husband had a personel space ..may be due to hormonal changes i feel dipressed nd always feel tied but my husband never bothers abt it...he responds reacts only to his mother..
Oh no!! That must be horrible. I mean why is she coming between your intimate relationship? That is so sick and above my mental and emotional capacity to understand.
Are things any better now?
@@prachisharmaaa it got vast .. though we live in same house but we dont have our own space he stays in different room m in different room, since 2019 we had our space...for a while lets not worry abt physical intimacy but he won't even talk normally ..no doubt he's nice guy but he trust thr parents blindly especailly his mom but thy r taking advantage of it...all the time provoking complaining nd cobtrolling him...even i stopped bothering him but i still love him i still want nd try my best to save my marriage but i don't know how...
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What you are saying is somewhat agreed in the psychology but it is against the court penal codes. Hindu marriages accepts daughter in law as daughter.
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Thank you for reaching out here. There are so many legalities involved related to the system called Marriage. I respect the law. But we can not change the reality.
my wife did not come after conceiving. Now i have a daughter. She is forcing me to leave my parents if I want to be with my daughter. My parents are alone. Both of them are around 70 years old. nobody is there to take care of them. I have a big house. But she did want to cook for my Parents. She has not come back for a year Now. She has not talked to me for 10 months. What i should do.
I should probably...................
If you want to take care of your parents then appoint a maid.
She is not responsible of your parents. You are trespassing universal law. She is only responsible for her own parents who gave her birth.
@@Priyankafoody jab tum bhi parent banaogi to yeh expect mat Krna that ur Daughter in law will take care of you, because wo bhi apne parents ka khayal rakhegi naki tumhara 😂😂😂😂 assuming if u had a boy child
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There is always power struggle my father in-law can’t stand me as a strong women i have no idea why?
Sana....Happy to know that you are strong. Please do not judge anyone. Respect his age and remember because of him you have got your husband. I understand what you are struggling with currently. But important is to build a strong connection with your spouse and keep a smart distance with your FIL. Let petty things do not annoy you. Ignore most of the times. My authored book DETOX YOUR MARRIAGE might help you
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Leena Paranjpe ma'am so what if she got husband? He is not GOD is he? Don't you think as much as she is thankful for the partnership he too should be?
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@@littlesonshine2407 her replies reek of bs patriarchy. I had forgotten about this video I had come across untill someone replied to a comment I had made few months back here and I was again reminded of this toxic counselling given by this lady. Rip mental health programs in India.
When two grown ups decide to marry give them space and let them breathe. Too many people trying to crowd up around them would give them no time to bond well and this initial stage of getting comfortable with each other is primarily important right? It's only later if they tune in correct that the in laws etc start to mean something to them right?
Its awesome...well said❤
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S Ur right..big salute to u my sweet sis
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