Mom Sues Daughter over Unpaid Electric Bills | Part 3
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- Vivian says her daughter Toni bought a $200 wig and an Xbox but claims she couldn't pay the electric bill.
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JJ lost all respect for the plaintiff after she said she put her daughter in foster care for behavioral problems.
Exactly, what's funny is that she said this in part one and now we're in part 3 and it's funny to see where she's taking it
And sent the son away shortly after smh
As did I
I think she's lying.
If a 3 year old is stealing and has behavioral problems, look at the parents.
The daughter is in so much emotional pain. You can see it in her face. I hope she doing ok
I wish cases like this were on Judge Mathis so he could rip this horrible mother a new one.
I know it's so sad, poor thing has been through so much
This is a sad one, not entertainment here. That poor woman was given away and put in an orphanage by her mother, who is now bringing a lawsuit for electricity bills. Just sad all the way around. I wish they did not put this up as fodder for the internet. Sorry I watched it. Children churned through the foster system go through hell. Abandoned by mother for that. ugh.
I saw the same thing. A shame...
I hope her fiance is a standup person and helps her through the trauma she endured and provide a good role model for her kids.
Smells like generational trauma and lack of accountability on both sides 🙃
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Definitely a cycle...geez!
It is.
How on both sides, she threw her child away, didn't even know how many times she's been in foster care..The mother is trash.
@@startinajackson606 other side coz she kept having kids despite having no financial backing or stable husband.
The mother has the balls to sue her daughter after she throw her away basically.. She's lucky she's even talking to her!
The mother is trash, she's cold and unloving. It's mental, I can tell
She shouldn’t have asked for money from someone who “threw her away”
@@asiabilal4488 so who should she have asked?
@@TN-ie8kd not the person who she claims is such a monster
@@asiabilal4488 Until you actually went through situation like that, or something very similar, you have no business to judge . You know nothing .
And that is how you work the system. JJ told the daughter “don’t speak” she meant “I got this” how anyone could give up on their kid is just disgusting.
MY LIFE BARES THE SAME PAin not to take anything away from the daughter i feel her pain because i live it
She told don't speak because all that comes out of her mouth is nothing relevant for the case.
You can tell Judge Judy felt bad for the defendants she was unusually nice when the daughter interrupted and told her she doesn't have to answer things the mom said/asked. And Judge Judy usually tells off non working single moms yelling at them to get a job which she did not do in this case. As a matter of fact she told the plaintiff that the daughter has no working history just like the plaintiff has no working history yet called out the mother and not the daughter. So glad that Judge Judy saw the pain in the daughter.
I felt that to.
Your not God to judge and everyone has their own story…
Why do defendants have a hard time staying silent 😭 judge is trying to help you win
I think your hurt makes you want to defend yourself & it makes it hard to see JJ setting the trap.
Stupid thats why
Lack of parenting and a father figure, people like this tend to talk over others constantly, she probably used to it thats why.
Court rooms require some discipline, not much to get that from most.
Not normally.
I like the way Judge Mathis runs his court a little better because he lets both sides talk occasionally whereas Judy stays on one side for too long which makes the other person so nervous that they don't think they're going to get a chance to speak so they talk when they shouldn't.
She could go back and forth a little more and give each a chance to speak. I really felt for this young girl. The mother is getting $1300.00 a month and is living with her brother so she probably doesn't even pay any rent if he's a welder he's making good money, I'd like to strangle the old hag.
@@SMGJohn What does a lack of a father figure have to do with someone not being able to shut up?
The craziest part of this case is when the mother said “I gave her up because started displaying behaviors from when she was 3 years old such as lying, stealing & cussing.” UM, EXCUSE ME. She’s a little child!!! She learns what she’s being taught!! 😠
and cussing
I just watched this video a few times and what I could understand is the mom and daughter are two different woman. The mom is more polite and can express herself with words. The daughter is quite but is thinking alot. Im guessing the daughter is a narcissist. 4 kids, 35 years old, no job, money from the state and federal, and a fiance. It reminds me of someone I know. Someone that has dealt with a narcissist would be able to pickup on some of this stuff right away.
I can see this daughter has sadness and defeat in her eyes.
I agree. The daughter looks completely broken down. I hope she can get her life together and find a job to help support her kids.
@@Crazycatlady71 And hopefully the father(s) of the children will be or are providing support.
Yes a beautiful girl but hurt.
Michelle my heart felt so bad for her it hurt, it's people like her that I really truly wish I could help, maybe one of these days I will win the lottery so I can become a philanthropist.
@@AlanTClark ….if you win the lottery than I’m going to have a piece of the action😉😜
My heart goes out for the daughter. You can still see all the hurt and pain her mother has caused her in her body language. I can't imagine having such a despicable mother.
The daughter is gorgeous too. Too bad her "mother" is so awful.
She's doing the same as her mother now. Four children, no job and main income is daughters disability. This is how it keeps going generation after generation.
It's true, the mother is insideous. I pray for this young lady
@@byrontownsel7274 yes, I agree with part of that. She definitely has been dealt some similar cards in life. The difference here (and I hope is still the case) is that the daughter has not given up on her children and hasn't given them up like her mother did to her. I hope and pray that she never gives up on her children or herself, no matter what. History does tend to repeat itself, but I believe it repeats itself if no one sees or recognizes it in order to learn from it and take the steps to change for the better to create better patterns by making better choices (speaking from personal experience). Of course, all circumstances are different and some things are beyond our control but there's always room for positive changes and actions. I also pray for this young lady. :)
@@byrontownsel7274 Jup! A bunch of freeloaders. Hell, I work and I get less money for my trouble! This family is a net drain on you Yanks!
I just want to hug this daughter so tightly and tell her it wasn’t ever her fault
I know.... My heart goes out to her
She’s a mess too. In 20 years she’ll be in the court suing her child.
Nonsense. Honestly this is the problem with our society. No expectation of accountability. She has 4 kids. FOUR. And has no job. Its totally irresponsible.
Sure, she's had a tough childhood and my heart genuinely reaches out to her. But her present situation is her fault. Totally.
You can only blame other people and your past, so much. At some point you have to pick yourself and take responsibility. Because she's had a shitty childhood - she continues that chain and gives an equally shitty childhood to her kids?
Its insane.
@@spyk_316 easy to judge when you've not walked in someone else's shoes you self righteous pr....!
@@spyk_316 you take depression and mental health too lightly. I've been in the circle with people who had the same problems as her. for someone like me who had at least one good parent things are still rocky but for those who had no one they usually ended up more miserable. you learn how to deal with problems watching your parents. it's not something you learn from social media or books or school. I know a lot celebrities and random people on social media say stuff like " I made it through this and that " but that's a small percentage of people most of them deal with depression all their life.
it's not easy to wake up someday and say im gonna get out of my bed today and go to work blah blah
Watched this yesterday and i was thinking about how JJ knew every detail of this case before it was presented, she was in family court for 20 years. She knows the rigamarole.
Rigamarole... I'm not that person it just that's 1 of my favorite words... Onomatopoeia is my favorite . I'll leave now
@@mel...s my personal favorite is hoity-toity, how anyone can say it with a straight face is beyond me.
@@BailensdeLykenos great word!🤣
@@mel...s Onomatopoeia is also one of my favourite words.
Try
Love it when bad parents say the child has behavior problems. #beaparent
Exactly
@@8213apice and very, very rarely is it true! My 10yo has a full time, funded educational aide at school for his 'behaviour problems' related to ADHD. Not once have I ever felt the need to tell people he has 'behaviour problems'!!!
@@ChimmyChooChoo could be, although the daughter doesn't imply any such possibility.
A 3 yr old with bad behavioral problems? That's when the mom stated it started. R u kidding me? That poor daughter. Mom throws her into the system at 8 yrs old bc she's decided she doesn't want to be a parent any longer. Sent her son to live with his great grandfather at 10 yrs old for educational reasons. Yea, right! The only problems those children had was that awful narcissistic mother that regretted have children. I hope the daughter has broken that cycle and is a good mother to her children. I know it's none of my business, but the daughter needs to find some method of birth control like yesterday!
@@ChimmyChooChoo Yes, indeed. And I am so so sorry you had to go through something like that in your life. hugs.
She made her pay as payback for giving her up and traumatizing her. I knew she’d win when JJ started asking about why she didn’t raise her kids. Good decision.
The ''Shhhh" at the daughter were like, I got you dont worry incredible judge :)
Yeah, I think the daughter didn’t get it in the moment and was going through it having to listen to her mom talk all that bs and stay silent-but jj knew it was best for the mom to dig her own grave with her own words. Still has to be tough to listen to your abuser and just stand there in silence
@@toric1123 100% agreed
Only good thing about the mother is she didn't continue to have babies she knew she couldn't or wouldn't take care of. She could've had FOUR!
That poor girl. Couldn't imagine going through that at the age she did. Definitely can't imagine EVER giving my kid away to strangers because I couldn't handle her and her behaviour?!
Then sues her?! Just wow!
This case had me thinking why is everyone sad for the daughter she got four kids on the social no job no baby father stayed around now she can't pay her bills but can wear 200dollars wigs what is this?
I was kicked out at the age off 15 had to start working hustling to pay my rent and bills while going to school and college when I rang my mother up for help with my rent I waited for months no reply...
I worked very hard never owed a rent nor bills...sometimes we can do better...
I just think the mother didn't put her case together and focus just on the bills.
The mother did helped her so she could have the lights on and thats how she repays her socall mother Goodluck to the next person she gets to put the bills into their name and skip the bills again for expensive wigs...
@@teeberrybrown4925 good for you. Your right too. The daughter isn't innocent and should not have done that to anyone thats helping her out... Maybe it was petty revenge on her part. 🤷🏾♀️
Still can't imagine doing that to any of my kids
@@teeberrybrown4925 You're thinking what the mom said was true.. JJ pretty much torched the Mom's story. So I don't really believe her.
@@teeberrybrown4925 while I agree that the daughter has made poor choices on whom she sleeps with and picking horrible men, all while not working for 3+ years and living off the government, it's highly possible the Mom offered to help and then the daughter was to pay it going forward. But clearly she has a history of drug abuse. Probably ran out of drug money and is looking to cash in. When I was in a bind before, my Mom has helped me out. Especially if it could have affected her granddaughters. The woman literally threw her away like garbage. She has NO right continuing her abusive ways.
Both mom and daughter made poor choices in life. I just pray she doesn’t resort to putting bills in her children’s name 🤦🏽♀️
The look on her daughter’s face is heartbreaking.
It is. It truly is 😞
She is completely broken.
As a foster and adoptive dad, my heart breaks for the daughter. She was put into a terrible situation very young in her life by a mother who didn't put her childrens' needs ahead of her own. Yes the daughter has made her mistakes, but how can we expect her to grow up and live responsibly when she has not had the role models she needed to learn how to. If I could speak to her, I would say that no matter what your mother has done or said, you have value, because God created you wonderfully in His image. You can honor and glorify God with your actions in spite of your beginnings. May God bless you and guide you.
Amen 🙏
Super judgemental. How do you do your job with that air of judgement and "superiority". I wonder how much you make living off the backs if endless children. You see , judge not....
I suspect grandma was abused as a kid, too. She probably has a similar story from her youth.
The audacity that “mother” had to come on national tv to expose what a horrible person she is. You can tell that the defendant is broken. She literally had the expression like she didn’t wanna be there. And JJ sympathized with her a lot! She had her back on this one 👌🏼
The Defendant has such a beautiful face..
JJ gives me such an amazing sense of security whenever I start sensing she's trying to help someone. She's like a firm, kind, no-nonsense aunt or grandma. Scary but somehow rock steady and reliable.
That's why we love her.
"none of which comes from really working.."
.......OUCH! Buuurn!
Just the way the defendant looked down when she said that phrase.
@1:27
She looked down because she knew it was true. There is no reason why an able bodied person shouldn’t be working if they have 4 kids. 😒
She has 4 kids she needs a damn job!!
"my daughter is a behavioral problem so I'm gonna offload her to be someone else's problem" wtf kind of mother
Selfish Parent
I pray for the 4 grandchildren. I hope they survive the trauma.
"you thought she was going to sell her wig... Or sell one of these Xboxes?" RIGHT 🤣
I thought the daughter was very near to tears. You could see in her eyes. She suffered. And least the daughter has all four of her children and not give up on them. Which I can’t say same for her mother. The dad of the children who ran out and left her to manage all by herself, should be ashamed.
It's, "at least." That man is no dad, he's a biological father. A true dad stays present.
I’m sure it’s multiple dads
Takes 2 to make babies why have 4
This case is sad. Two generations here with a third generation of kids at home. And nothing to show for it. This lady is 35 years old and unable to even pay her electric bill. Her older children are old enough to be in some kind of after school program. The youngest could even be in preschool now. So she needs to set the example her mom never did and go to work.
Well, if I had four kids, I think work would be tough.
She’s in an apprenticeship program. When you have 4 kids and one has special needs, and are a single mother, schooling / training can take longer than just a 20 yo with no other responsibilities
@@joannamcpeak7531 Well, lots of parents work every single day/night to provide for the children that they produced. Stop laying up with men, getting pregnant, then thinking that you don't have to work and take responsibility!!!! All of the resources that are available for these women and their children should be utilized. They only want to receive the free welfare money, but not those programs that will get them up off of their lazy asses, and work!
Using special needs excuse
Judge Mathis had a similar case where mom was suing son for not paying her back for legal fees. Mom had a crack addiction for like 30 years and had only been clean for 3 years. Then she gets up decides I'm gonna sue that low life for not paying me back. You cost him way more than he owes you. I don't know why these parents don't have more grace toward their children who's lives they altered and destroyed and just call it even. Don't help them anymore. Money doesn't grow on trees for anyone but don't sue your own children who you essentially abandoned. Shameful.
Judge Mathis had another case of a father who'd been abusive and in jail for most of his son's childhood suing the son for failure to pay back some money they son had borrowed for the medical costs of delivering the son's child. It always pisses me off to see deadbeat parents take their kids to court when the parent knows that they were absent and inactive during the child's most important years. Whatever little money you think your offspring owes you should just slide as a gift. That's the LEAST a parent could do if the parent knows damn well that they didn't properly care for their child in the early years. Here's a thought: If they'd been great, nurturing parents, their kids probably wouldn't NEED so much financial assistance as adults.
I love how Judge Judy controls her courtroom.......She's a master at it.
She reminds me of my emotional-less, disconnected ass mother. So sad that a women who will carry a child for 9 months have no care or feelings for their child.
I hope you realize your own worth.
Love to the daughter who looks like she has ptsd herself from the trauma of what her “mother” did to her. I wish I could hug her and tell her she is amazing for raising 4 kids by herself
Me too. Maybe one dy she will read all these comments and realize she has support and is not to blame.
She is far from amazing. She should not be making kids. Stop the cycle.
Yeah by having no job. Seriously, take responsibility and find a job. McDonalds is constantly hiring. So is Walmart. Haul garbage, sweep hospital floors .. invest in yourself. Sure sympathy is great but to actually help a person, stop victimizing them. Give them real solutions.
she isn't raising kids, she's not working and makes no effort to pay for basic utilities
@@spyk_316 shut up, she said she was doing a training program at one point and was raising 4 kids by herself, it’s hard
Yo! I was so confused as to why JJ wouldn’t let the daughter speak, and I know the daughter was like, “WTF,” in her head! Lol It was all IN HER FAVOR, the entire time! JJ was getting to the bottom of it! 😩😩😭😭🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
JJ does this all the time! You can always predict how the case will go depending on that.
I think JJ was being like “I got it. Don’t worry about it. You’re not going to get anywhere with her. Don’t get into it with your mother on national TV.”
Because deep.down she was rooting for her. That's why the case was dismissed
Same! I actually thought Judge Judy was going to rule against her. I was ecstatic when I finally realized that she was going to rule in her favor
4 children? Stop having children if you can't afford them.
After the first, barring extremely specific circumstances they should not be funded for any others.
Time for both parents to start being FORCED to be responsible. Jail or sterilization. Stuff will change really quick if there was actually consequences for those responsible instead of just the taxpayers.
As long as the taxpayers are paying for children born to irresponsible people they will continue breeding and our taxes raised.
👍exactly
Shit happens wait untill u have a child
@@demilee1917 I know I have 2 children. But I work and don't rely on govt or others. I understand there are circumstances where you need help temporarily, but there's no reason to have even more children when you can't even afford the ones you have.
I feel for the daughter, you can tell she's been through a lot of crap in her life and her mother didn't help in her life either. She looks like she's about to busrt into tears. It's so upsetting to see this... I hope she's doing better now and is getting whatever help she can. ❤️❤️❤️
The “grandmother” is awful and an immensely selfish person!
She just want her money back
she only sees the grandkids 4/5 times a year????
my Grandteenagers (12 and 13)come by almost every day on there bike.
they even have there own keys...
These damn people mad because the woman just wants her money back.
@@wallacesteelersws ..👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
So is the defendant.
My wigs come before my electricity ⚡️
😂😂😂
How does a 2 or 3,year old get diagnosed with “behavioral issues” to the level of placing them in the foster care system? Children act out…. Often times,, it’s just them being children and burning the energy that they’re loaded with. What this was, is the plaintiff was tired of being a mother. While you can still see the pain in the daughter’s face, you can still see the disconnect of motherly love for her daughter. Pathetic excuse for a mother.
She carried her for 9 months...she never mothered her.
I was a social worker who worked with high risk children. 2 and 3 year olds can indeed have behavioral issues especially stemming from trauma. There are people out there who outright neglect their kids and fail to protect them from harm. That has consequences. Children that young can't tell you what's wrong so they will show you. It sounds like mom could hardly care for herself let alone two children. Only Lord knows what she did to those kids. She's clearly still lying to herself.
@@ellisisland4902 I 100% agree with this and being from Massachusetts the facility she mentioned The Italian home won't just take any child, in this state the child is evaluated by a pediatric crisis team and she probably had trauma even a 3 year old can have PTSD they may not be able to verbalize everything like an adult but they can and will act out some in very violent ways. I know this from personal experience with my SIL who shouldn't have ever had children and had 4 now they're all adults and have very low contact with her and I remember her oldest son being in that same hospital at 4 after trying to stab his oldest sister. I truly believe that the mother just didn't want children and something happen I'm going with abuse. The daughter isn't all that innocent because her youngest child is on disability for PTSD , so this is generational. Just very sad to see
The mother shows so much confidence, no guilt
People don’t realize that they’re under even more scrutiny when they’re the plaintiff.
The fact that this woman tried to sue her daughter with 4 kids and money issues, when the mother has NO money issues, is SO telling. I hope she never saw her grandkids again after this.
She told the defendant you've been doing this a long time 😆
She sees that her daughter is in a relationship and expects her man to pay. Don’t put things in your name if you don’t have the money to pay them.
My son has special needs, which cause problems. I would never give him up to social services. The mother is a damn liar.
My mom never gave up on me unlike my dad who walked away.
I raised all 4 of my children with mental health issues and all...i worked thru it all...no excuse for how she threw her son and daughter out like trash and now daughter is having to live with the aftermath of horror of a mom....just ridiculous and I'm sure her daughter catches hell for not being all the way together but look at what she came from and for no humane reason....just sad...JJ did good with this one-
Why do all four of your children have mental health issues?
@@pria7538 I have mental health issues not them, think u read that wrong...
@@pria7538 and if they did, God Bless Them I still woulda raised ALL mine please and thank you
If u can't pay bills then why the hell r u having baby after baby...maybe stop having kids and get a job...I don't care if the mother wasn't a good mom..she shouldn't have to pay her bills
Maybe she did try to go on birth control but got denied.
That trump-pence crap took away planned parenthood im my state and its nationwide where doctors deny birth control, hormone therapy, HPV vaccines, sterilization and of course abortion..ironically for low income families and neighborhoods. I used to go there for my endometriosis but they took away the PPH so its hard to find anything affordable.
I'm struggling just to afford for myself working 2 jobs. Shes a single mother with 4 underage kids.
If that man was decent he would not have turn off the lights knowing there are kids in the house , that daughter is responsible for her kids , Are any of the kids belong to that man ,if he has kids with her , why turn off the lights b/c the relationship hit a snag , if he comes back will she take him back , , Your mother is your mother no matter what when they do you wrong ,LEAVE THEM TO GOD,
Exactly
have you not noticed girls who fuck dudes till one takes care of them all lol
She never let the daughter talk 😂
Go to work and stop depending on the legal system to give you hand outs!
Exactly!
Very sad case all around.
You can see the pain in her daughters eyes.. heartbreaking
That mom thought she was slick by acting like she's working towards getting off the disability.. judge judy isn't stupid.
The defendant became a mother to try to heal the hole in her heart that her very own mother caused. I hope she finds strength each day on this earth 🌹🌼
Absolutely correct.
And Yes, The Daughter Needs To Work!
This is said. The mother is simply only working enough to earn $1300 per month so she can stay on disability payments, which means she can't be getting more than $3000 per month. She seems smart enough to have a job earning twice that much if she applied herself. The system however does make people afraid to take the risk. Sickening. She is being held down because the system isn't designed to actually give people a hand up.
I feel sorry for the daughter being moved from pillar to post because of behavioural problems and having a lazy mum is bs. She hasn't had a good upbringing and this could be why she has no education, job and 4 children
Being a mother is a full time job, actually more than one. She is dealing with a child with PTSD, child care is costly and can take almost all your money. JJ is a little out of touch when it comes to the people living in poverty.
4 kids and you don't work...wtf
Right, but come tax season they get thousand dollar checks, partially funded by people who actually work hard who don’t have any kids. 😒
And keeps having them too.
@@kamwilliams5541 straight facts. Working hard so they can live cozy😒
@@kamwilliams5541 THOUSANDS of dollars. I saw that in the trailer park I used to live in. Folks be all kind of claiming their grandkids to get that big assed check.
sadly u get hella benefits when you dont work. that's why a lot stay on welfare and keep popping them out
The daughter not working, but at least she's not giving up her children
JJ made the right decision. She owed her
That measly amount of money can never make up for the mothers lack of love, trauma and it's long lasting effects. I feel for this girl and pray she finds healing and peace in her life
The defendant is getting aggravated by the mom's lies.
Why does the concept of "expectation of being repaid" only apply to loans from private parties? Plenty of creditors will loan money to individuals with ZERO expectation of being repaid. A look at income and credit report would show that a person will default with 100% probability... yet commercial creditors loan money to people. And those commercial creditors get judgements when there is no logical expectation of being repaid.
Such a smart comment!!! 💯🤔
Every now and then there's a case of a company being charged with predatory lending. It happens.
Because they have everything in writing. If they have everything in writing, they can nail you later.
Not only that, but in this case, it was a loan between family members, which itself is tenuous in court because if possible its best to not interfere with familial income. JJ knew that this girl had 100% default rate, but couldn't help out the Grandmother because she didnt have anything in writing, but also she didnt recognize her daughters default rate.
@@BailensdeLykenos I think what you are saying is “expectation of getting repaid” is reserved for only verbal loans. A tool for a judge to determine if it is likely that a contract for repayment existed. With no expectation being evidence of no contract. Though it does still seem odd to me that by the magic of a signature on a piece of paper, this disappears completely. That a creditor who gets it in writing, even after an exhaustive review beforehand that shows complete inability to pay, can bind the debtor and through the courts obtain a judgment.
@@BailensdeLykenos that’s what I was thinking too. With companies you atleast have everything in the writting and everyone outlines. When it comes to scenarios like this, the defendant could say it was a gift or they did it out of the kindness of their own hearts. Two things companies obviously wouldn’t do
Because if my mom puts up for adoption because to her I'm a problem child I wouldn't talked her to her at all
I don't understand why Judge Judy asked questions that are unnecessary and not relevant to a case. The grandmother's work history and disability income had nothing to do with the case. Also, her now grown children being in foster care or whatever was irrelevant.
People shouldn't answer deeply personal questions JJ asks about private life it has nothing to do with a case. And the daughter starts off spilling the tea her teen kids will see it and people they know. As cruel as people can be why give info that others may use to insult, harass,belittle, you're kids.
I’m assuming that in order to appear on the show, you have to agree to answer the questions. It’s a TV show and not a courthouse.
It is relevant she's setting the scene exposing the disability nonsense and irresponsible women like her daughter having all them kids, courtesy of the taxpayer
I just learned recently that the shows production pays out any judgement ruled. But part of the arrangement is that they have to answer all questions from the judge. But to make a long story short I think JJ just doesn’t like the plaintiff and didn’t want to reward her money for a bill when it was the least she could have done for a daughter she never took care off. The woman didn’t raise any of her children, still does not work/ but is able to
Work just enough as long as she doesn’t make over 1300 dollars, and lives with her brother. They lady can afford to take the hit.
It’s relevant to her. And she’s the judge sooo…
Judge Judy knew who was going to win so she told the daughter not to speak :) love it
the daughter has zero self control
If I was the daughter, best believe I would have BEEN done with my mom after that. Her mother is LUCKY she is letting her have anything to do with her kids at all.
But how she going to have lights? She gotta pay like everybody else. I had mine in someone’s name before, I’m not better than anybody, but I had to pay.
That daughter is a bottom feeder.
This one really hit hard. Judge Judy was on the defendent's side the whole time. Telling her to shut up was because it was in her best interests. She grilled the plaintiff. Judge Judy telling it like it is, and also telling the defendent to get a job to support her children, is the closest to any kind of parenting or mentoring the defendent has received herself in her whole life. I really feel for her.
That's why only loan ppl when u have it in writing and it says "this is a legal binding, with intention to have it all paid back by this date, with monthly payments of bla bla"
Here early! God I’m turning into my mother. She’s probably watching this too 😂
I LITERALLY told my mom three days ago I am my mothers child since I’ve been binge watching 🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂I’m in my 30s and she’s in her 70s🤣🤣 she’s been watching Judy for decades though.
Judge Judy is like the golden girls - timeless, classic & entertaining for people of all ages!
@@14thivy89 hahaha I love that for us 😆 I used to roll my eyes at my mom watching Judge Judy as a kid. Now I’m binging all those old episodes at 25 😅
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I have to imagine that, for someone who's spent years in the foster system, there's something triggering about being in a courtroom having your life discussed and not being allowed to speak.
There are clearly deeper issues with both of them than just an electric bill. I wish them well.
Generational trauma. I know it all too well.
I don’t care what her childhood was like she has 4 kids and she has to pay her own bills period
Exactly. Regardless At 5 you know right from wrong. There is no excuse for either of them. They are who they are. They're both jobless hustling . Sad indeed.
Your all love and light...You don't know what her childhood was like!
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Doesn't matter what her childhood was like, once she became an adult, she's responsible for herself and for the children she choose to have. She can't continue to blame mommy anymore once she's grown. It's called self responsibility/self accountability.
If she doesn't start to take responsibility for her life, who will??
And once her kids are grown and _they_ start to blame her (just like how she blames her mommy) then the cycle will just repeat itself, generation after generation. So she needs to be the one to stop the cycle and start taking self responsibility for her life choices.
The defendant keep trying to talk and explain scenarios
Judge Judy: I got this. Chill
Hopefully she sticks to that apprenticeship. Getting paid while you learn is probably her best option.
Damn, I want to hug her and retroactively hug her for the last 20 years.
I feel for the daughter.
They work at working the system...mom collects SSI but only if she doesnt make too muck money and the daughter collects SSI because her daughter has PSTD.....right I got it...You and I pay for them via taxes...smh
true, we need to have a less harsh and more generous welfare state. It's disgusting that there are income caps on recieving aide that makes it so that able bodied people are heavily disincentivized to work, but you can thank our disgusting conservative party for that.
@@trogdor20X6 lol you don’t even make sense!
@@trogdor20X6 listen, you wanna be a bum then go ahead.
@@trogdor20X6 learn to be an adult. There's countries that are not close to doing what the US does which is already OUTRAGEOUS. People need to learn to have a purpose other than breeding and being a bum. Get. A. Job. Bum.
@@Tinadoll95 Sarcasm, maybe?
If you can’t afford a second car you can’t afford a second child
Being told you’re a bad kid at age three is sad af I’m sorry 😢.
Judge Judy did not allow the defendant to speak because she was in away acting as her lawyer in this case. Jj knew where she was going and did not need information from the defendant, especially in case she opened herself up to be liable.
The defendant actually lives in my hometown. And her son just got charged with murder!
Can't say I'm surprised, he had a junk upbringing.
@@RJWaynerium you know him?
Very sad
This is sad. I bet the grandmother will put it on her « difficult » daughter 😞
Omg........
Imagine ditching your own child at 8 years old and then suing her later on for a few hundred bucks? Utterly disgusting.
Soooo much anger-pain-resentment-etc with this exchange shown here.
I pray that this mother does her best to NOT repeat the cycle…🙏
When JJ tells you to shush, it can be for your own benefit. You can always tell when she’s doing that in her line of questions. I think the judge had empathy for the daughter
I can’t say I went through the same thing as the daughter, but I feel for her regardless. I stopped talking to my mother for good two years ago, because after 20 freaking years of dealing with her and deluding myself, I just had enough. She was an absolutely horrible and narcissistic person, always gaslighting me, emotionally, physically and mentally abusing me, and taking advantage of beating me and any of my younger siblings all because of the youngest one (her golden child). Things have changed, we no longer blame our youngest brother for what we dealt with decades ago, but we’ve all come to the realization that she was and continues to be a TOXIC person.
This lady is even LUCKY her daughter makes eye contact with her at all, because how evil of a person do you have to be to just throw your daughter into the system over “normal” things kids do? Judge Judy was right to tell her to keep quiet, because she could see through that mother’s BS.
This judge is funny: “did you think she would sell the wig or Xbox”
Boyyy how can you be so iresponsible that you make 4 children and can't even pay electricity for them
PTSD. Her mother threw her away at 3 yrs
She should have learned when her mom threw her away why would she go and have 4 kids and ruined their lives can't take care of them and she went threw that already sorry I don't feel sorry for the daughter I feel sorry for them four kids very 😢.😎
@@colors5778 She probably got pregnant unplanned and didn't want to abort a child as because of her trauma she wouldn't want to abandon her child like her mother did to her. Trauma can hurt you in many ways.
@@colors5778 who said their lives are ruined. Y’all are so weird with the way y’all talk about people’s kids….
I wanna know why the grand daughter has PTSD 😱
Sell her wigs😆😆😆 Judge Judy knew that was shady
That was racist.
@@michaelp.3485 I thought she'd said that because it was obvious the defendant was wearing a wig. I paid attention for it and once I saw it wasn't obvious, I was like damn Judy.... that shit was def racist.... what an inappropriate thing for her to have said 😕
@@Sara-May Do you not know what racist means? Insulting someone's hair isn't racist lmao.
Judge Judy was being a savage lol 😂
@@feathersong5838 she assumed she needs to use fake hair based on her race. Assuming things about people on the basis of their skin color is racist. She would not have made the assumption and therefore the snarky remark if the woman's skin were white.
Trust me I'm not a crazy SJW constantly calling people racist for no reason. I hate politics, I do not support the BLM movement, and I usually love every word out of Judge Judy's mouth. But that comment she made was inappropriate and racist.
That woman is a lousy mother. When a 3 year old toddler displays that kind of behavior it’s because she’s being abused or witnessing abuse. You don’t abandon you baby to live with strangers so you don’t have to get your stuff in order. You fix the problems in the home and protect your child. I feel really bad for the defendant. As irresponsible as she is financially, she came from a bad childhood and at least she keeps her kids.
I'm glad I am paying for all these nice people's living expenses, so they can sit at home for years and years and not work. The X-Box warms my heart, that they have something to do when they are at home.
That’s why I only have two kids because I couldn’t afford to have more than two
Totally unfair. Usually I agree with Judy but the daughter was getting a regular income and agreed verbally to pay.
Very unfair you can't take care of your kids tryna make the mothr feel bad for her daughter's responsibly to her own children
The daughter was arguing that she did not agree to pay it back, that her mother offered the help. The mother couldn't prove it was a loan, and JJ wasn't going to help her prove it was a loan because she's a POS and a terrible mother. As soon as she said she abandoned her child at ten years old due to behavioural difficulties, the case was lost unless she had airtight proof in the form of legal paperwork to force a decision.
Obviously 4 kids, no job, the daughter's in a shitty position in her life but perhaps if she'd been given a better start it wouldn't have been like that. She seems mentally defeated and in a lot of pain, probably depressed. The damage that her mother done by abandoning her, far outweighs those electrical bills.
The daughter’s pain is very visible
4 kids no job??? 😂😂😂
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Both expect others to take care of their responsibilities!
The daughter looks like a beautiful woman. I hope she heals and is doing okay.
She said the baby had behavioral problems since 3 years old so she gave her up ! Wowwww !!!
"Let's have numerous children we can't afford to raise - what could go wrong?"
I really with the defendant would stop raising her hand and interrupting when it's clearly going in her favor!
She's hurting. I understand why she would want to speak up for herself. JJ wasn't harsh with her.
It’s not at all clear that anything was in her favour.
Mom will have to take the electric bill out of her name if she can’t afford it.
They were there to get Judge Judy to pay the bill.
That is not a long term solution to this mothers problem or the young woman’s problem.
She will still owe what's accrued and since I don't live in the US, not sure if the balance have to be paid in full before she can disconnect/shut it off. JJ is right, should never turn on utility and/or cosign for anyone, even family, because as she always say, there's a reason they can't do themselves. Should never lend $ either, she's right about you always end up being the bad guy for asking it back. None of my family will ever ask me(since they don't need to) and vice versa. We all appreciate what credit is
@@pandaroy6880 Very true.
Mom will have pay the balance, but at least if she stops it now it won’t keep growing into a bigger balance due.
Her daughter will claim she is the victim now and turn everyone against mom, but too bad.
Even the Bible says never co sign a loan.
Lesson learned.
@@sandyo1063 did she say it's still on? Anyhoo true
@@pandaroy6880 I don’t know if it is still turned on. Probably not after the lawsuit. They thought Judge Judy’s show would pay for that bill.
@@sandyo1063 well the mom at least but don't matter. It was no expense for either anyhoo, since the show covers all basic costs(airfare, transportation, food, lodging..) and they get an appearance fee
Four children. Where are the father/s to support their kids? That's a disgrace!
I come here to see where all my tax money goes.