Guys are attracted to women based on birth order alone. No matter how GOOD i am or BAD i am, or SMART or TALENTED... and I've tried being all...... I get used. I'm last born from a big family.
You should never lust after another woman as a married man. You already committed adultery in your heart. Your wife shouldn’t be asking u these questions.Repent ask for forgiveness. Focus your eyes on your wife only.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls could I please ask a question why hasn't any guy approach me for an interest personal I would like to date a guy who is compassionate towards nature creatures and mother nature and someone who is kind and funny someone with a pure heart I am new to the relationship lifestyle I don't know what to expect please tell me what's wrong with me why hasn't any guy approach me
Tough Shit 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yes when you tell the man no if it’s not into you like and only wanted one thing he will stop calling I went through it glad I did it.
For real. After a guy I'm talking to brought sex up and all the things he'd do - I said good luck with that, you need to take me out on 6 + dates first before I even THINK about hopping on you (as much as I really want to instantly)
Be careful of men taking an "interest" in a woman too fast..and wanting to jump right into a relationship. There are alot of narcissists running around out here.
brave bird I spotted one and quickly signed myself up for that game. I don’t play games/people, but once I do smell it, I’ll play right along with you. He got the memo and never heard from him again. I’ve been through too much hell and back, to allow a mf to play me.
brave bird omg so true I had one of those I had to cut him off quickly be careful ladies go slow at first when getting to know a guy and don’t let them love bomb you!
Sandra Jefferson they always love bombing me, that’s how I know they’re on some bullshit. When I call them out, they throw a temper tantrum. Well, if I’m so wrong, why are you so mad?? For once I was going to make a lesson out of one, but I guess they recognize when their game is being played against. So he left me alone. Either you’re serious about getting to know me, or I peep the game and serve you your own game back cold. Cause I’ve been to much hell and back to let a mf play me.
I’m impressed that you are a husband. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I thought you were about 19 or 20 years old. You are setting a great example and spreading some powerful knowledge out here in these streets. A lot of women grew up without a father to school them in these matters. You are like the male voice of reason that is very much needed.
Haha. I like that part, “..15 partners later, you join the ‘He Ain’t Shit Club’. ..Well you know what else ain’t shit?, YOUR DAMN DECISION MAKING.” 😄That part is TRUTH!!
I wish this video be shown in a middle or high school sex ed class. When my daughter had the sex talk as school, they told her the three ways to have sex but not about how to respect each other and make good decisions around sex. I don't think that abstinence has to be the only thing but it can be an option as well as being a little bit choosy. To be honest as a 57 year old woman I am just starting to comprehend things like the difference between attraction and real interest partially because i never was a big dater before I was married and then i was married for 18 years. I asked a question on another channel what the difference was between a man just being nice or being actually interested because i honestly didn't know. I think if young woman could be able to read the signs a little better than it would help them make better choices. Too many times women of all ages get excited about a little bit of attention especially if there has been a dry season.
I was literally going to write the same thing about going to speak to young girls in high school or middle school! There should be a group of guys like him going to do these talks! Teenage pregnancy would probably be a thing of the past. It would be so empowering. The things he talks about are things I've always believed and wish other women/girls I knew did too.
I remember we briefly talked about boundaries and decision making in a life skills class. I can only imagine the impact I would have if talks like this happened more often in school. Girls and boys can both learn about it. Maybe talk about it in separate groups so they can ask questions comfortably.
Maria Victoria right !!! Smh . I am secure but I sure won’t want to know who my man would have sex with ! Smh ! Keep those thoughts in your private world .
He ain’t for real! Cheats with his wife. Cheats on the next, then writes a book about how women should......f all that. I’m already writing a book. Hope to be done this year.
When you say that your wife is very secure, I believe that is because you haven’t given her any reason to be insecure. Can you share your thoughts on that subject, please?
Good thing I have an ice-cold heart and dead set on keeping myself until marriage. 34 years and counting, I've encountered all the game playing while avoiding opening my legs because I'm dead set on my morals. I really don't care if I die a virgin at this point. 😄
I think that’s the key thing, once you’re not afraid to be single even if it is forever you free yourself from making short sighted and desperate decisions.
Wow man, 10 years of marriage, great...congratulations🙌!! And yes, it's very important not to confuse attraction and genuine interest. Being attentive to signals and being patient before giving in to sex helps to escape grief👌!!
If only is women actually simplified what we make complicated. What this man is saying is so simple. It is simple most of the time. The signs are always there, its only when our dumbasses get emotional or fall in love with the wrong guys that all of a sudden, their intentions and who they are seem complicated to us🙄🙄🙄. And this is coming from a woman who’s been on both sides of the fence to know the difference between love and lust.
My gut instinct was to not send pictures when a man asks, I could never explain the reason for my refusal. thank you for being honest and direct about how pictures can potentially be used. 🤗
how about just face pics ? i mean I am trying this dating site for the first time plenty of fish but just for friendship only and most of them ignore except for 2 guys they have been nice talking
This explains everything! I been single for two years cause almost every dude I talked to have been attracted to me and just wanted to smash! At the end of the day, naan dude really liked me 🙄
Everytime he says..."but what do I know,I'm just a guy from the internet" makes me laugh, somehow induces a light moment of break from the hard truth he's spitting
Excellent video Kev! I liked the real life example you used to show that a man can be sexually/physically attracted to a woman while not giving a damn about her as a person. I've confused the two in the past.
Yet infidelity still hurts when the woman you care about knows you are physically attracted to someone else. The difference discussed here is no consolation.
it sure hurts to realize that the men you've known, with very few exceptions, didn't care a bit about you. talk about a blow to your confidence and ego😢
thank you sooo much .it was teally an eyeopener to me. just men want to get something out of a woman . so ladies be careful dont give room to their advances its all lust not love just to make u dry.
You are on to something with this video....I've learned there is a DEFINITE DIFFERENCE between attraction and interest. I wish I had this figured out when I was in my 20's!
I LOVE your input. It’s so refreshing to hear your honesty from a man’s perspective. You’re gold! Your attitudes and approach to women, from the perspective of a man who knows the interplay between male/female, and presents as a man who has value and a brain to consider the consequences of acting your desires is so good to listen to against a back drop of confusion and people out for themselves- to gain assets and bill-shit their way to get what they want from others, which seems the way of the dating world these days. So much so, I’m happier remaining single than cope with the confusion and deceit of modern dating. You’re a good man, Kevin Hicks. I get a lot from your posts. Thank you 🙏, from the Heart.
Very deep video! Gave really good insight...you broke it down like a pro, and you are right, us women have to stop thinking and be more mindful that just because a man thinks that we are sexy/pretty/hot etc...and they are attracted to us, does not mean that they want a relationship with us. Great video 👌🏾
So, so so true Kevin I dealt with a man that could care less of what I wasn't interested in, talents, what I was excited about. He always gave "flat" answers. Those are wow, good, yes, no etc. Saying those words to be polite or pretend to be interested in what I was say. No further questions asked no real response. He didn't care. But at the time, he could tell me when he was off to meet at a hotel. That didn't happen
These videos are so good. I’m laying in bed supposed to be sleep but I can’t stop watching. Very good info, pretty much confirming what I always thought about dating and getting to know guys. It’s really a game and not a game all at the same damn time.
Had to watch this again without it stopping every second 🙄, very informative, thank you for your insight, just started dating again after taking a year off to myself 😂
Thats not my video that’s TH-cam. They must have been busy today. My video file is normal. Good luck getting back in the game. I have a video about how to start dating again after a layoff. The thumbnail say getting back in the game. It may be of some use to you.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls yes it had to be been watching your videos for a while now and that has never happened before is OK though things happens 😊 , it was normal the second time around, 😁 . I will be looking for that one thanks again.
The raw truth! Had my share of being gullible several times over the years, maybe getting older has opened my eyes. Learning my self worth. Your videos are informative. Thank you! Keep'em coming :)
Why did I just find you?! What makes you stand apart from other dating coaches is you’re funny without even trying to be. It makes you more genuine when giving advice. Which makes it easier for me to remember and follow your advice. You’re a blessing. 😊
I thank you for all your enlightening information!!!! A lot of men ate going to hate for the fact that we know their game but honestly they should be embarrassed of their sorry ass excuse of being a pig!!!
U give great information and advice..i truly appreciate and value the time, energy , and effort you put into sharing your wisdom with your viewers. I can definitely say what you have shared has been more than influential and beneficial to my life and thought process. Thank you Mr.Hick
I love your realness, thank you for this! Your wife sounds like a wonderful woman, no wonder since you're such a great man! May your Union continue to flourish and be blessed 🙏🤍🌹
This was really good advice cuz sometimes I would associate a man flirting with me to mean that he showed genuine interest in me. Thank you for breaking down the difference.
Wow! your talks are always on point💯 I actually been there before. I was "talking" to this 1 guy& thought if I rejected his kisses& all that, he'd never ask me to be his girl& so I gave him what he wanted& waited for him to ask me to be his girl& he never did!💔 I definitely learned from that!
these videos, and this one in particular, shows me that i don't know jack about men and never did. and at my age, it really makes me feel stupid to not have known these things.😳
You just saved me literally and I’m crying real tears 😢thank you Kevin Btw I like this content and editing versus your new style and video quality. I like this way better
I pretty much have my game tight at this stage of my life and when I say “game” I just mean that at 43 I’m not mistaking “I want to hit” with “I’m in love with you” BUT this was put in a way that no woman could have ever explained. As a single woman in ATL you’re never too old for a male’s honest perspective. Bravo! 👏🏾👏🏾
This is one of your best videos . You articulated this subject extremely well. I’m impress !!! I love, admire and respect your honesty . This phrase in particular caught my attention, “ in an imaginary world where men wouldn’t destroy the mind of some women “ wow!
I've heard advice like this before but not to the extent you give or really broken down the way you do with the extra of distinguishing...i like that. Its helpful because it gives a well rounded view of just how guys are and think along with their actions...thank you. I especially like this because i am dating a libra and you are one so this helps me understand his mind better. Thanks
This was GOLD, because I finally figured out why I tended to fall for the wrong guys. It’s easy to get caught up in a guy building attraction without connection. They get fuck buddy status. I could never figure out why some good guys just didn’t “do it for me”, now I understand that those are the guys that try to build connection without doing anything to build attraction or sexual tension. They get friend zoned. I’m looking for a man who knows how to simultaneously build attraction AND connection. Chemistry AND COMPATIBILITY.
OMG 😲 Lisa said more than 3 words 🤯🤯😂. Thank you so much for always watching Lisa. I appreciate you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. I’ll definitely tell my wife! I hope you enjoy the rest of your day😁😁
👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Bravo Someone finally said it. You can’t get any more real than this video. Oh I absolutely love it because I agree wholeheartedly with it. My litmus test is, ‘All of a sudden’? Watch, question, observe. Discernment is a blessing.. Women need to watch this video three times so the message gets implanted in their brain
I agree..some guy has been showing genuine interest as given in your description and to be sincere I feel at peace and secure..and guess what? He calls every now and then cause its looooong distance
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls good enough there is an end in sight..I am abroad for studies..6 months remaining and I go back home where he is..wish me luck
I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUUUUUU!!!! Damn your wife, mother, children, and nieces are so BLESSED! Aaannd I’m ONLY complementing you cuz you said, “Your wife is secure!” Always always much respect for the wife, kids, and family. I love what you do. #authentic #truthsetsusALLfree Peace 🤜🏽💚🤛🏽
This video really hit me hard. I'm usually saying ill go with the flow, then I expect different. I definitely need to make better decisions . Can you do one referencing college males
U have a very calm face. I instantly feel peaceful When I c u n hear u. Ur voice tone makes me believe u. U r so helpful. U advice as a big caring brother . Love ur vedios. My blessings to you.
I am 64 years old, and you have opened my eyes! Have never understood why men always want me sexually when I thought I was friendly and wanted to be friends with them! 🥺🤪🙄😂🤣😂🤣 We are many Women than has never understood this, so thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
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Guys are attracted to women based on birth order alone.
No matter how GOOD i am or BAD i am, or SMART or TALENTED... and I've tried being all...... I get used. I'm last born from a big family.
What is your sign and birthchart like and your wife’s?
Hi @Kev Hicks. How do you know if a man is low interest guy, playing hard to get, shy, or into men(gay). Im confused about this guy Im interested in.
You should never lust after another woman as a married man. You already committed adultery in your heart. Your wife shouldn’t be asking u these questions.Repent ask for forgiveness. Focus your eyes on your wife only.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls could I please ask a question why hasn't any guy approach me for an interest personal I would like to date a guy who is compassionate towards nature creatures and mother nature and someone who is kind and funny someone with a pure heart I am new to the relationship lifestyle I don't know what to expect please tell me what's wrong with me why hasn't any guy approach me
Keep your legs closed that reveals a man's TRUE INTENTIONS.
Tough Shit yes yes
Facts! Learned this years ago and so glad I did
Tough Shit 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yes when you tell the man no if it’s not into you like and only wanted one thing he will stop calling I went through it glad I did it.
For real. After a guy I'm talking to brought sex up and all the things he'd do - I said good luck with that, you need to take me out on 6 + dates first before I even THINK about hopping on you (as much as I really want to instantly)
Yesss
Be careful of men taking an "interest" in a woman too fast..and wanting to jump right into a relationship. There are alot of narcissists running around out here.
There are! You’re absolutely right🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
brave bird I spotted one and quickly signed myself up for that game. I don’t play games/people, but once I do smell it, I’ll play right along with you. He got the memo and never heard from him again. I’ve been through too much hell and back, to allow a mf to play me.
brave bird People who move too fast are abusers. I have been there and it’s doesn’t have to be physical abuse.
brave bird omg so true I had one of those I had to cut him off quickly be careful ladies go slow at first when getting to know a guy and don’t let them love bomb you!
Sandra Jefferson they always love bombing me, that’s how I know they’re on some bullshit. When I call them out, they throw a temper tantrum. Well, if I’m so wrong, why are you so mad?? For once I was going to make a lesson out of one, but I guess they recognize when their game is being played against. So he left me alone. Either you’re serious about getting to know me, or I peep the game and serve you your own game back cold. Cause I’ve been to much hell and back to let a mf play me.
Jeez listening to all these videos is enlightening and depressing at the same time 🤔🤦🏻♀️🙄😞
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Tell me about it
accurate lol
Yes totally so sad...
Facts
I had a guy who I suspected was not genuine ask for a picture - so I sent him a picture of a car accident. He did not respond LOL.
HA, that's a good one
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LMAO 🤣😆
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I’m impressed that you are a husband. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I thought you were about 19 or 20 years old. You are setting a great example and spreading some powerful knowledge out here in these streets. A lot of women grew up without a father to school them in these matters. You are like the male voice of reason that is very much needed.
Thank you 😊
Right!! He looks like a baby.
💯💯💯💯💯✊✊
black don't crack
FACTS!!!
"She assumes that his intrigue includes her personality, her ability to love, her essence."
That one got me
It's just sad
Me too!
Damn Kev married she's very lucky!
I think so 😁
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I’m so jealous of her😭😭
Please tell us that story one day...
Shoutout to your wife, a lot women wouldn’t even have asked that question and took it like a G when you answered truthfully.
“..at what cost?” that’s a gem💎
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Haha. I like that part, “..15 partners later, you join the ‘He Ain’t Shit Club’. ..Well you know what else ain’t shit?, YOUR DAMN DECISION MAKING.” 😄That part is TRUTH!!
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!
WATCH HIM. 👀
I wish this video be shown in a middle or high school sex ed class. When my daughter had the sex talk as school, they told her the three ways to have sex but not about how to respect each other and make good decisions around sex. I don't think that abstinence has to be the only thing but it can be an option as well as being a little bit choosy. To be honest as a 57 year old woman I am just starting to comprehend things like the difference between attraction and real interest partially because i never was a big dater before I was married and then i was married for 18 years. I asked a question on another channel what the difference was between a man just being nice or being actually interested because i honestly didn't know. I think if young woman could be able to read the signs a little better than it would help them make better choices. Too many times women of all ages get excited about a little bit of attention especially if there has been a dry season.
I was literally going to write the same thing about going to speak to young girls in high school or middle school! There should be a group of guys like him going to do these talks! Teenage pregnancy would probably be a thing of the past. It would be so empowering. The things he talks about are things I've always believed and wish other women/girls I knew did too.
Love What you write! I feel exactly the same!!! 👍👍👍
I remember we briefly talked about boundaries and decision making in a life skills class. I can only imagine the impact I would have if talks like this happened more often in school. Girls and boys can both learn about it. Maybe talk about it in separate groups so they can ask questions comfortably.
I prefer genuine interest!
As you should ✊🏾
Well, at least you're honest...
I have to work on my judgement. I get caught up in what they could be or how in love we can be than the actual reality.
I’m glad you recognize that.
Maria Victoria I am very guilty of this as well.
Maria Victoria right !!! Smh . I am secure but I sure won’t want to know who my man would have sex with ! Smh ! Keep those thoughts in your private world .
Abby TV Creations i def agree with you.
Maria Victoria he better watch his wife lol . She might be doing her . Lol !
your indifference sprinkled with a dash of pettiness is knocking me out! 😂
What a fun way to learn about men
Fatoumata condé Lmaoo
😂😂😂😂
He is really hilarious!
Now, you should write and publish a book. Steve Harvey ain't 💩 .
He ain’t for real! Cheats with his wife. Cheats on the next, then writes a book about how women should......f all that. I’m already writing a book. Hope to be done this year.
Good for you..my Kev!!xo
@@KevHick Great ill by it.
@@KevHick i do book reviews on my blog. Let me know. Would love to read that.
@@KevHick yayy I'll definitely purchase it and read it can't wait
When you say that your wife is very secure, I believe that is because you haven’t given her any reason to be insecure. Can you share your thoughts on that subject, please?
That might be true or his wife is just a secure person full stop lol
Yesss.. I Think The Same👍🏻
Thats why i rather take my time to feel him out and see what is his intentions of dating
As you should 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Run from a Leo
This is what I’m doing now
Good thing I have an ice-cold heart and dead set on keeping myself until marriage. 34 years and counting, I've encountered all the game playing while avoiding opening my legs because I'm dead set on my morals. I really don't care if I die a virgin at this point. 😄
I think that’s the key thing, once you’re not afraid to be single even if it is forever you free yourself from making short sighted and desperate decisions.
To be honest, I told myself the same thing a few weeks ago😂😂
Good for you!! I wish I could do some rewinds!!
i look back at my past mistakes and wish i had done the same thing. good for you for sticking to your guns 💖👍
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Wow man, 10 years of marriage, great...congratulations🙌!! And yes, it's very important not to confuse attraction and genuine interest. Being attentive to signals and being patient before giving in to sex helps to escape grief👌!!
10 years together. 5 years of marriage (anniversary Tuesday). You’re absolutely right!💪🏾
Yohann DOMOISON Yes, Well said!!!
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls Ok, so enjoy your 5-year-anniversary tomorrow 💑!!
Your married, been married for 5 years? How old are you?
Yes it do.
...seemingly good hygiene 😄
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Hahah I caught that too 🤣
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SO TRUE
OMG Ms. Dominiqu'e i cracked up !!!!😂
Straight, no chaser! Definitely have to hit up your PayPal soon since you're like the older brother I never had to give me advice.
😁 I hope I wasn’t too harsh. It’s no rush
You are right! Same here. I need to put a reminder in my calendar for the next pay check!
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect WOOOORRRRRRRRDDDDD
As brutal as this was to hear it was absolutely right. Glad someone had the balls to say it.
If only is women actually simplified what we make complicated. What this man is saying is so simple. It is simple most of the time. The signs are always there, its only when our dumbasses get emotional or fall in love with the wrong guys that all of a sudden, their intentions and who they are seem complicated to us🙄🙄🙄. And this is coming from a woman who’s been on both sides of the fence to know the difference between love and lust.
My gut instinct was to not send pictures when a man asks, I could never explain the reason for my refusal. thank you for being honest and direct about how pictures can potentially be used. 🤗
Absolutely! Thank you for watching!
how about just face pics ? i mean I am trying this dating site for the first time plenty of fish but just for friendship only and most of them ignore except for 2 guys they have been nice talking
This explains everything! I been single for two years cause almost every dude I talked to have been attracted to me and just wanted to smash! At the end of the day, naan dude really liked me 🙄
You have me crying man...where were you the past two years? I messed up and still dealing with the trauma.
You killing me over here. 🤣😂😭😆😆😆😭😭😂 “guys ask for pictures so they can rub one out.” Uhhhh Duhhhhhh! 🤦🏾♀️
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😂 😂 😂 😂 That's an Eye opener
Oops didn’t mean the thumbs down 😀
Everytime he says..."but what do I know,I'm just a guy from the internet" makes me laugh, somehow induces a light moment of break from the hard truth he's spitting
Your a genius, I have two degrees and you just taught me something Ive never seen. Thank you.
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Excellent video Kev!
I liked the real life example you used to show that a man can be sexually/physically attracted to a woman while not giving a damn about her as a person.
I've confused the two in the past.
I understand. I felt like this was important to discuss. You’re not the only one ☝🏽
Yet infidelity still hurts when the woman you care about knows you are physically attracted to someone else. The difference discussed here is no consolation.
it sure hurts to realize that the men you've known, with very few exceptions, didn't care a bit about you. talk about a blow to your confidence and ego😢
🤔I know FEW guys who are HIGH on empathy & integrity.
Ouch...now I need a bandaid. Thx always for keeping it 💯
🤕🤕get well soon. You know I have to give some tough love sometime😁 💯
This guy is AWESOME! Articulate, super intelligent in his thought processes and delivery of them. A joy to listen to and learn from.
You always have some raw and uncut insight Kev. This was reallllyyy a good one.
Thank you! 😁
thank you sooo much .it was teally an eyeopener to me. just men want to get something out of a woman . so ladies be careful dont give room to their advances its all lust not love just to make u dry.
Whoever Dislikes this Doesn’t like the Truth cause everything he is saying is the truth 👌🏾
Bloody hell, you've articulated this brilliantly. Thank you, from the UK 🇬🇧
Ooh god 😞 You're right! Why can't all men be like this!
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You didn’t reply to my last email 🤷🏽♂️
I didn't get it 😐😳
You've caught my attention, I've been married and divorced and still can appreciate your advice
You are on to something with this video....I've learned there is a DEFINITE DIFFERENCE between attraction and interest. I wish I had this figured out when I was in my 20's!
This is exactly what my daddy used to say. Thanks for the reminder.
My pleasure 😇
I LOVE your input. It’s so refreshing to hear your honesty from a man’s perspective. You’re gold! Your attitudes and approach to women, from the perspective of a man who knows the interplay between male/female, and presents as a man who has value and a brain to consider the consequences of acting your desires is so good to listen to against a back drop of confusion and people out for themselves- to gain assets and bill-shit their way to get what they want from others, which seems the way of the dating world these days. So much so, I’m happier remaining single than cope with the confusion and deceit of modern dating. You’re a good man, Kevin Hicks. I get a lot from your posts. Thank you 🙏, from the Heart.
Very deep video! Gave really good insight...you broke it down like a pro, and you are right, us women have to stop thinking and be more mindful that just because a man thinks that we are sexy/pretty/hot etc...and they are attracted to us, does not mean that they want a relationship with us. Great video 👌🏾
Thank you 😁😁
You gotta be a relationship therapist, right?!! Excellent advice brotha!!
So, so so true Kevin
I dealt with a man that could care less of what I wasn't interested in, talents, what I was excited about. He always gave "flat" answers. Those are wow, good, yes, no etc. Saying those words to be polite or pretend to be interested in what I was say. No further questions asked no real response. He didn't care. But at the time, he could tell me when he was off to meet at a hotel. That didn't happen
These videos are so good. I’m laying in bed supposed to be sleep but I can’t stop watching. Very good info, pretty much confirming what I always thought about dating and getting to know guys. It’s really a game and not a game all at the same damn time.
Absolutely now take yourself to bed 🛏😂
Thanks for this Kev! I’m currently talking to a few guys and I really do wonder which ones are interested in me LIKE THAT.
Good luck 😉
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls Ahh! Thank you! 🙏🏼 Looking forward to more insightful videos in the future!
So well put. Good way to distinguish the difference between basic sexual attraction and true interest.
Had to watch this again without it stopping every second 🙄, very informative, thank you for your insight, just started dating again after taking a year off to myself 😂
Thats not my video that’s TH-cam. They must have been busy today. My video file is normal. Good luck getting back in the game. I have a video about how to start dating again after a layoff. The thumbnail say getting back in the game. It may be of some use to you.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls yes it had to be been watching your videos for a while now and that has never happened before is OK though things happens 😊 , it was normal the second time around, 😁 . I will be looking for that one thanks again.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls YAAAASSSS😭👏🏽👏🏽 I need a release date ASAP Kev!!!!!
The raw truth!
Had my share of being gullible several times over the years, maybe getting older has opened my eyes. Learning my self worth. Your videos are informative. Thank you! Keep'em coming :)
As I've gotten older i feel like the only get approach by men who are just trying to get me in bed...young, old, ugly, cute etc. I'm so over it lol.
Same unfortunately 😢
Yes I have noticed that too
Truth😑
“You know what else ain’t shit? Your damn decisions” 🤣😂😂 so true
Why did I just find you?! What makes you stand apart from other dating coaches is you’re funny without even trying to be. It makes you more genuine when giving advice. Which makes it easier for me to remember and follow your advice. You’re a blessing. 😊
Wait, married?! I guess that makes me feel better. I had been wondering why I was listening to a 19 year old give dating advice 😅
Love the straight talk no cap, it's a breathe of fresh air.
I thank you for all your enlightening information!!!! A lot of men ate going to hate for the fact that we know their game but honestly they should be embarrassed of their sorry ass excuse of being a pig!!!
"You know what else ain't shit your decision making"..lol that part right there🤣🤣
U give great information and advice..i truly appreciate and value the time, energy , and effort you put into sharing your wisdom with your viewers. I can definitely say what you have shared has been more than influential and beneficial to my life and thought process. Thank you Mr.Hick
My pleasure 😇. Thank you for watching.
Excellent info this should be played for all girls growing into adulthood
I have to admit that with you, I wouldn’t be jealous. You seem like a good and honest guy.
Damn. Every vid you make me laugh at least one good laugh.
I like to think so 😁
I love your realness, thank you for this! Your wife sounds like a wonderful woman, no wonder since you're such a great man! May your Union continue to flourish and be blessed 🙏🤍🌹
This was really good advice cuz sometimes I would associate a man flirting with me to mean that he showed genuine interest in me. Thank you for breaking down the difference.
I really like how straightforward your explanation is. Thanks for this informative video.
Glad it was helpful!
Thanks for being honest. I wish my dad had given me this info, would have saved a lot of bs. I like your delivery!
I would never ask my husband a question like that.
So brutally honest I hate this video.... Thx tho
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Am grateful for all the help
Wow! your talks are always on point💯 I actually been there before. I was "talking" to this 1 guy& thought if I rejected his kisses& all that, he'd never ask me to be his girl& so I gave him what he wanted& waited for him to ask me to be his girl& he never did!💔 I definitely learned from that!
sitting through this feeling like a damn fool but so grateful i needed to be scolded tbh
Women-listen to him!! Save this video when you’re in doubt!!!
You are brutally honest. And that's why I watch these videos bc i get the info I need that will help me
these videos, and this one in particular, shows me that i don't know jack about men and never did. and at my age, it really makes me feel stupid to not have known these things.😳
You just saved me literally and I’m crying real tears 😢thank you Kevin
Btw I like this content and editing versus your new style and video quality. I like this way better
"Stop giving up ass on credit!!" @Kev Hicks Talks Guys with Girls sounds like something Derrick Jaxn would say! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That’s funny. I don’t watch his videos. We must be like minds😂
@@KevHick lol.
This stuff is GOLD
I pretty much have my game tight at this stage of my life and when I say “game” I just mean that at 43 I’m not mistaking “I want to hit” with “I’m in love with you” BUT this was put in a way that no woman could have ever explained. As a single woman in ATL you’re never too old for a male’s honest perspective. Bravo! 👏🏾👏🏾
All or nothing with me. Thank you Kev for helping speak truth to women 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
My pleasure 😇
This is one of your best videos . You articulated this subject extremely well. I’m impress !!!
I love, admire and respect your honesty .
This phrase in particular caught my attention, “ in an imaginary world where men wouldn’t destroy the mind of some women “ wow!
I've heard advice like this before but not to the extent you give or really broken down the way you do with the extra of distinguishing...i like that. Its helpful because it gives a well rounded view of just how guys are and think along with their actions...thank you. I especially like this because i am dating a libra and you are one so this helps me understand his mind better. Thanks
This was GOLD, because I finally figured out why I tended to fall for the wrong guys. It’s easy to get caught up in a guy building attraction without connection. They get fuck buddy status. I could never figure out why some good guys just didn’t “do it for me”, now I understand that those are the guys that try to build connection without doing anything to build attraction or sexual tension. They get friend zoned. I’m looking for a man who knows how to simultaneously build attraction AND connection. Chemistry AND COMPATIBILITY.
Oh my gosh love the video and your wife is so freaking smart that's awesome it makes so much sense let her know I said thank you
OMG 😲 Lisa said more than 3 words 🤯🤯😂. Thank you so much for always watching Lisa. I appreciate you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. I’ll definitely tell my wife! I hope you enjoy the rest of your day😁😁
👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Bravo Someone finally said it. You can’t get any more real than this video. Oh I absolutely love it because I agree wholeheartedly with it. My litmus test is, ‘All of a sudden’? Watch, question, observe. Discernment is a blessing.. Women need to watch this video three times so the message gets implanted in their brain
Wooo some real truth here Kev...love it.Got to be one of my favourite vids you've done yet!! Gonna re-watch 🤗😘❤
I appreciate that😁
Ding ding ding!!!! Kevin is point once again! I wish I saw these videos when I first started dating but I'm so grateful that I have them now! 🙏🏻
I didn't know you were married
Yup😁
“You know what else ain’t shit ?” “ Their decision making .” Facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I agree..some guy has been showing genuine interest as given in your description and to be sincere I feel at peace and secure..and guess what? He calls every now and then cause its looooong distance
Distance can be discouraging. Especially when there’s no end in sight.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls good enough there is an end in sight..I am abroad for studies..6 months remaining and I go back home where he is..wish me luck
I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUUUUUU!!!! Damn your wife, mother, children, and nieces are so BLESSED!
Aaannd I’m ONLY complementing you cuz you said, “Your wife is secure!” Always always much respect for the wife, kids, and family.
I love what you do. #authentic #truthsetsusALLfree
Peace 🤜🏽💚🤛🏽
I swear I’ve watched this video about 4 times today being the 5th and realize how much truth there is in what he says
Love the honesty. Seen like 10 videos and love them all. Nothing but truth. God bless this man.
This video really hit me hard. I'm usually saying ill go with the flow, then I expect different. I definitely need to make better decisions . Can you do one referencing college males
All I'm saying is never change ur delivery..
Perfect
U have a very calm face.
I instantly feel peaceful
When I c u n hear u.
Ur voice tone makes me believe u.
U r so helpful.
U advice as a big caring brother .
Love ur vedios.
My blessings to you.
I appreciate your kind words. Thank you so much. My blessings to you as well😁
I am 64 years old, and you have opened my eyes! Have never understood why men always want me sexually when I thought I was friendly and wanted to be friends with them! 🥺🤪🙄😂🤣😂🤣
We are many Women than has never understood this, so thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I agree with everything you have stated in this video..100% !!!!
😆 He's rubbing one out to your photo girl
Well what the hell do I know, im just some guy from the internet 😂
I hate to listen to this 😭but I really needed it. Thank you