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- So how do you tell if someone is lying? Liars can use many tactics like changing up their tone of speaking, manipulating their facial expressions, being overly nice to you, etc. But how exactly do you know when you're being lied to? In this video, we have you covered. If you find yourself identifying with some of the signs in the video, don't worry too much. Usually, you have to look for more than one sign to find a consistency.. For example, sign 1 + 7 etc.
#psych2go
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Who here loves dogs? Comment below.
ME!!
WHERE MY DOGS???!! (DMX voice)
Ur mom
Me I have 2.
oof me, and alot of more animals uwu
Biggest lie ever: I had read and agreed the Terms and Conditions.
Yep, who actually reads them?
Nerds
Artantoni AGREED
I don't
When I was in 4th Grade, everytime I see those, I would read it no matter how long it is. *Just to prove I am not lying...
Liars: _watch this video_
*Lying has been improved by +100*
Zuzu 👏👏👏
You're the new Justin I see you everywhere XD
FUCK YOU GOT ME
Not really as they will unconsciously do such things
speech 100
persuasion
I have always had a hard time keeping eye contact with anyone. Not that I lie , I just have a weird feeling when I look at anyone
Same here, even close family and friends I just can't keep eye contact - so I just pick a spot on the wall just behind them so I'm looking in their direction without needing eye contact. The joy of bipolar and bpd
Ur just like me. Im shy too
You may feel that you are making that person uncomfortable by keeping eye contact. I used to be that way. It shows consideration, which is akin to honesty. Or it may be because of guilt due to lying. There are so many different things to consider! The more clues you have, the greater the chances you will have an accurate overall picture -- just like a huge jigsaw puzzle. This requires a lot of hard thinking, which is work -- something most people do not want to do. That is why there are so many gullible people! But for those who enjoy thinking, stuff like this is priceless. It certainly has more practical value than the things most people waste their energies on. Don't let morons make fun of you for that. Take it as a compliment.
Eye contact scares me because it was enforced in my house as discipline. The way my father and mom made me stare at them while they yelled at me and hit me has scarred me forever, and I refuse to have kids because of it.
Me too for me it gives me anxiety to look at someones eye for too long
Over reacting is a huge red flag to me. When someone gets really excited when you ask them a simple question. They are lying.
Never trust you or god
*they cant tell their story backwards*
I wouldn't be able to do that even telling the truth-
Xx_LifeIsA Mystery_xX Me to real story imagine okay? And me when I do it backwards I was riding my bike to my job at 8 but I had to get there at 9 to eat a burger them:say it backwards me: I ate a burger at 9 and had to get to my job at seven? Them: LAIR
Xx_LifeIsA Mystery_xX exacly same
Lol
I read that right as she said it lol
Tru
Fun fact: Good liars are the BEST at finding lies, better than almost anyone.
That is VERY TRUE
Yes i am good at Spotting Liers 😌
Lady Dragon Same here
I hate the fact people lie, mostly when they Just arent good at it 😂
Why would you expose me like that!?
One thing I've experienced with a liar is their defensive nature.. If you question anything about them, some times they'll fly off the handle and even deflect and begin accusing you of some wrong-doing.
If you experience this kind of behavior, get away from that person!
Very true...
But it starts with how we personally approach the person. If our own emotions are in the front line instead of being matter a fact, then they will become defensive.
For ex. He /she cheated on you. Depites how painful hearing this can be, we want to make sure we are calm when asking a question about it, without sounding like we're attacking. Then you can tell if they are being defensive. They may mimic you in being calm. So watch the body language. Does it shift kind of quickly. Do they huff, which connects to the thought if being punched in the gut. Do they cover their face instantly when being asked. Do they pause too long before answering. Defensive posture can also be, did their body tighten up. Did they stand up abruptly. ..
There are other things to look for.
Many times people will become angry because they feel attacked when they really are innocent. So we need to be careful we take in the whole picture if everything.
The biggest one... watch the pupil of their eyes.
If its dark, pupils are normally large. If lying pupils will shrink.
In the light, pupils are small. When lying, pupils become large.
I never do eye contact even when I'm telling the truth
A snake can look at u in the eyes but still bites
Same
Biggest lie ever: when your mom says "Tell the truth i won't be mad"
Frr and then not even a second later she's like OMG WHY DID YOU DO THAT and screaming all up in your face
Lmao
Oh ya they will also say
*i HaVe NeVeR tOlD a LiE iN mY lIFe*
So trueee
SkyTan 6Ord in reality they have
Probably more than us
I never look someone dead in the eyes when I’m talking to them, idk why I just feel uncomfortable
I feel shy-
When looking at a boys eyes while talking-
Yeah
I kinda look at their nose or forehead unless I’m scared
I’m the weirdo who looks people dead in the eye. The fact I don’t talk much doesn’t help. So you have someone with a blank face staring at you dead in the eyes.
Same my eyes start watering
As a person who used to have a bad habit of lying very often(and I still throw out the occasional small one out of reflex from time to time, working on it), I came to realize while watching this both what I've noticed and improved upon already(control your emotions, pre-create your story at least a little, approach confidently and calmly) and where I had fallen short as a younger liar(I blinked quite a bit, and I held facial expressions too long).
I take your psychology with gratitude, and silently add it to my arsenal of lie-crafting tools XD
Oh Jesus, you’re cold, you’re kinda edgy. Jeez
Great video!... The problem I encountered is the willingness to believe a lie even you feel it is not the truth, because of your expectations you have in the person, or the love for them... sometimes the best way to know if you can trust somebody, is to trust them.
If someone is lying they usually get angry when confronted.
Absolutely. And call you crazy.
That's a good sign! But expert level knows how to conceal or mask their emotions..
because they saw your comment.
I've been in a "relationship" with narcissist for 6 years...I'm a walking lie detector. Lol.
That is SO true. When someone wants to end the topic as soon as possible, the more aggressive they get.
Traci-Jean Behind Blue Eyes practice makes perfect! I wonder if there’s a little narcissism in all of us? That’d be an interesting psych topic
Imagine Liars that watch this video taking notes too to avoid getting caught lol
That's why we made it. So liars can become experts (sarcasm intended)
@@Psych2go Some people are just natural born liars, those are the ones you have to be careful about.
Well we all lie so...
@@Ssnimemk Yep, and there are different degrees of lying, everyone does the simplest and easiest one, but only extremely skilled people and people who have a specific reason to lie will do it to the extreme. The easiest is just lying to someone if you got them something only to surprise them later, the extreme or hardest is far more complicated.
So ProJared, you mean?
I have ASD and I’m always accused of lying because my face doesn’t match what I say. However, in cases I lied, I am weirdly convincing. Unfortunately, anytime I get accused of lying, I’m telling the truth.
Yeah... As an autistic person myself, I've been accused of all sorts of things.
Evasiveness is suspicious af. Particularly if they avoid you on top of it. If they can stay in your neighborhood and in touch, there's no risk.
When police are the liars, you have a bigger problem.
Meanwhile me with autism and ADHD: when I tell lies I am literally 100% convincing but if there was a lie detector then I would get worried and like anxious but then when I tell the truth it seems like a lie to them or whenever there talking to me I just don’t look at them :/
Best tips ever! Turns out that I have had a lot of people lying to me. Now I am ready to accuse them and get them in the guilty zone.
I've now turned into
*Sherlock Holmes*
Your profile pic tho
AmySarah Ace baby alien lmao
no shite sherlock
Hello brother
@@CC-fh6yx brother 🤯
11. They call you cute.
😂
*Doubts*
"So that was a fucking lie."😂
Every time my significant other calls me pretty/cute, I feel like they’re lying to me.
Rose
My advice would be to study how they act, talk, and REALLY feel around you. If they’re acting strangely or in any unhealthy way for a relationship, it’s indeed time to bring it up to them and talk about it. If they continue lying during that talk, you get the message and should dump them. It may be a difficult process, but it’s worth saving yourself from severe heartbreak in the end. Believe me, I’ve been under a bad situation of a liar for a lover and it is about as bad as a one-sided relationship. Don’t take this as criticism or as an insult, I’m just giving some serious advice.
Be truthful to yourself and others and you’ll naturally spot anyone who does differently.
I’ve come clean in someways but not in other ways not so. I’ve still got so much more room to grow I want that I know it’s in me and I just want to say thank you, you have help me through a lot and I mean a lot
Me telling truth- Most people be like: “Lies.”
Me telling lies- Most people be like: “I trust you”.
Bruh-
Lmao 😅 😂🤣
Probably played among us
Story corner
Uh no.
I’m talking about (especially) real life and at certain situations. Not the game.
@@dyh.4337 That was just a joke bro it was not ment to be taken as seriously 😅
LOLLL-
You can tell they're lying when their pants burst into flames
McDonald's Employeee yes
Lol
If only! 🤣
..or their nose suddenly starts to grow lol
I wish
I love you guys!! As an ADHD who struggles to make eye contact due to low dopamine levels and taking time to consider my answers to best succinctly answer a question, due to my impulsivity both suggest I’m a liar - when in fact I am a shit liar and am very focused on answering with clarity.
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that basically has to do with motivation, desires, etc.
I don't see how dopamine applies here
Nice try
3:21 nah I’d be terrified whether I’m lying or not
you can tell people are lying when they self destruct too.
Good point, ddi you want to elaborate on this?
It also helps if you know something they don't, or you both know the same thing but they think you don't know, that happened to me and it irritated me, being lied to, this was via online text.
What do u mean by self destruct?
in Reality I have no sense of I and even less one I am proud and happy about....
So I compensate with narcish tendencies.... and with fake achievement.....
I try to overcompensate with physical non achievement... at which all people are better and superior than me
Same for fake superficial philosophy and psychology.... I'm just an unknowing pathetic amateur nerd
*_28 STAB WOUNDS_*
MYTH!
People who lie use more eye contact. They're trying see if thier lie is believed.
Lie and lie detecting is always a cat and mouse arms race. This will help catch the obvious ones, but good liars will know the general detection techniques, so you gotta be one step ahead of that. Bad liars can't maintain eye contact. Good liars tend to use too much eye contact to compensate. Anybody that watches this videos will both become better lie detectors AND better liars since they know what to watch out for.
True lmao, a friend of mine lies so much and they ALWAYS try to make eye contact with me
Liar do not make eye contact or do it way too much, ta daaa
A lot of people will look to the right, and this is due to the right hemisphere of the brain being the "creative" side.
@Abraham Lenson
Same. I makes me very uncomfortable.
Small problem with this, a good amount of these behaviors are also traits of people who have certain anxiety disorders
I had to see this, because I had a strange feeling that gossip people where telling me was true or false. Thanks for this ❤
“Intense eye contact”
Me with social anxiety: I ain’t lying I promise👁👄👁💧
Ayy same
Ayee
Same here
I wonder how u deal with it
I can't make an eye contact.
plot twist: *shes lying about all of this*
Never thought about it that way
She is lying about the eye contact one. She might not know that, though
Edit: spelling
@@dusanzecevic123 thank you
Dahm
That one dude that’s hot
The evasiveness! My brother does that. Not only does he do that, he also tries to change the topic and I can slip up on him and flat up ask "Hey, y/n, did the chocolates you steal taste good?" But if I don't wear him down first and spring the question immediately, it's often hard.
About the avoiding eye contact thing-some people just hate eye contact,such as me ;-;
Yes, so you have to watch for more than one signs..
Same. @_@
I would say compare baseline behaviour rather than looking for more signs since OP could fit many of these signs normally under no stress.
Nothing to see here, yep! Me too!
Saaaaame the only reason I look anyone in the eye is to convince people that I'm not lying
"Because some liars are just really good at acting"
True 👍
And I ain't one of em
I'm so good at acting :3
blueaslan _ I’m one of them but don’t do it often
Mira Lust that's okay, funny fact that i'm the one of them too. We have reasons why do that. And i know it's not to hurt anyone
I'm sometimes good at acting
You can’t just ask a liar to tell there story backwards they’ll freak out and call you crazy
The dynamic style of this animation is hiding something...distracting us from the truth within this video. I can taste it.
I can taste it....
Jojo REFERENCE
@Jay L What is this comment.
What do you think it's hiding? Take a guess :P
I think it tastes spicy what do YOU think? Tell me backwards
😭😭😭😭
Me: blinks while watching
*FBI OPEN UP*
???
ddd safey dog network remember what they said about blinking?
That’s the joke.
@@MK-qh7jq ohhhh thanks
Darn I gotta manually blink now...
I like your videos....no hype or fired up language. The presentation is calming and restful. Thank you.
First video in a long time to simultaneously open my eyes AND playfully pull up the corners of my mouth(although that may be that's because I watched it at 1.5X speed). Great video!
“Simply asking them what they were wearing or what they ate” I don’t even remember what I ate for dinner last night! I don’t even remember if I had dinner...
😂😂😂
Same
Ditto
Same
same XD
*I tried this on my dad and i learned i was adopted*
Erich von Manstein really?
@@veyolaski4324 no you dummy lmfao
Lol
Erich von Manstein ok
Michael Xia r/wooooosh
I love dogs so much the dogs in my building get all excited for a big hug or pet when they see me. I love dogs more than most people. I am super empathic and telepathic with dogs. 🙂🙂🙂
Thanks I'll use this as advice for the lie that has 7 months of preparation that I have to deliver over time
Biggest lie during online school:
“Hi, my camera is broken and my mic is going to shut down.
Biggest lie is saying your internet went out. Whenever im late or absent later on In like a hour I tell them my wifi went out and it the page wasn't loading. At this point I've built enough reputation to were they will belive me.
My Mic doesn't work and camara my teachers doesn't need that
I scream HERE HERE HERE and they say close enough please Fix your microphone
bahaahha
U chaught me teacher
Edit: he is not my teacher, its a joke
when there were face to face class, i was known as the polite and smart kid so people will ofc believe me, rn in online class i just cheat and lie every time because i lost motivation
I CAUGHT MY FRIEND LYING ABOUT HIS GAME PROGRESS, THANKSSSSSSS
@Mikayla D
Ye coz it makes me feel im a nubie for having a low game progress....
Δ _ Δ
@F F ok but it's fckin game progress
The eye contact thing isn't always true .. it's been found that most children that's been in foster care or are orphans, don't make eye contact with adults or peers around them when they talk, or they don't hold eye contact constantly because of a deep rooted feeling of incompetence or as if they aren't good enough...
My ex in a nutshell. Never had I met someone with such a simultaneously great and terrible memory. "It was exactly this" turned into "I don't remember at all" so fast it was like instant amnesia if she felt like it.
"Cannot maintain ye contact"
"inconsistency"
Me: What if it's only because of social anxiety
MizuAchi me.... me too
yeah most of the signs can check out for social anxiety lmfao
Wr nul THAT MAKES ME FEEL BETTER.
“I... didn’t know I was lying.”
I hate eye contact, I get so uncomfortable
a person with social anxiety will always act the same, a person lying only acts like this when they're lying
As I always say
“‘The best lie is the truth’”
=D
Its not a lie if you reconstruct the truth
🤔
🙂
😅IAgree💌
You know I could probably say anything I want and probably nobody would know could have an entire conversation on my own thing and nobody would see it.
Thanks for the video
3:01.
MYTH!🤥
Some people might maintain relatively little eye-contact when telling a true story, while practised liars can easily maintain eye contact while lying.
@dani cali unless you have enough experience not to do that
I've never done that when I lie look them straight in the eyes lmao
Is this an r/woosh moment??
wow do u want a award?
Crina_ Marian your kinda wrong
the eye contact sucks for me because i genuinely cannot keep eye contact with people in day to day life because i feel like they won’t like me looking at them or that it’s awkward, so a lot of people think i’m lying when i’m being honest.
edit: thankyou for the likes guys!!
I agree! But i can keep eye contact while lying
To make you feel comfortable when looking at people's faces just stare them on the forehead if you don't feel uncomfortable
Same
Yeh same but with all of them except brain power and true emotions, so if we use this logic then people would think I'm Lying all the time which just isnt true
Number 3 is one of the reasons I hide all emotions including happiness on a daily basis
Good video. I just have a few things to add. Good liers Will temd to overdo things. So let's see:
1. Liers unless begineers will hold eye contact bit will overdo it. Some will even be agressive and hold it too much in an attempt to make you feel uncomfortable with the questioning.
2. Good/experienced liers would normally provide unnecesary details when telling their story. This is because they try to convince nota convey.
3. They would often seek for approval ir any hints from you that your buying their story. See if you can catch them doing ir
4. Keeping a facial expression for too long is unnatural but changing from joy to sorrow too quickly or a smile to a poker face in a blink of an eye it's a red flag, especially if you think you're dealing with a psycopath
5. Something that's obviosly a red flag once you know how to spot it is emotion-to-situation discrepancies. Say the police is questioning a murder suspect. She hired some hitmen to take care of her own parents. When recollecting the details she seems genuine but then recalls his dad's car and smiles a second before realizing how out of place the displaying of this emotion is and switches back to sorrow quickly. This was one of the things that made the police suspect her. This is btw an actual case the police investigated and she was found guilty on trial
I couldn’t tell my story backwards even if I was telling the truth
What they meant with that. Is that when someone makes a story to lie about something they create a chronological unfold of events. The story might seem real and very well spoken with ease.. But if you just ask them to tell it backwards their brains will slow down considerably.. When you speak truth it's almost like a flow backwards yeah sure you can lose a few seconds but will come out as genuine. Not in a story processed in only a way of events 😉
Same
I’m going to try and use that strategy on my friend who lies 24/7 and I’m the only person who can tell when she’s lying
I woke up, had breakfast, had a shower then brushed my teeth
I had a shower, brushed my teeth then head breakfast
So you’re a liar then lol
1. Evasiveness: less likely to be specific
2. Inconsistency: can’t keep stories straight.
3. Simulated facial expressions
4. They can’t tell their story backwards
5. Not maintaining eye contact
6. They can’t handle unexpected questions. (What are you wearing, what were you eating)
7. Micro expression (shorter real, longer expressions fake)
8. Blinking: (frequent blinking-mass emotions-lying)
9. Their facial expressions and emotions don’t match up.
10. Play devil’s advocate (if you think someone is scared but says he isnt, talk about how scary you think roller coasters are)
Thank you!
10 is wrong
your meant to say how much you "don't relate" to what they say but make them say how they can relate to what you say
aka say what you think might be the truth for them and make them say they agree
Me be like when I am telling the truth but can’t say it backwards
Also if eye contact is lying then autistic be like aka me
There is so many things wrong with this
@@mrvalkyrie2998 idk if anyone will be prepared to tell their story in reverse lol
also just figure a way to break that defence
I'm only 10 and i watched this video. In the fourth grade i met a girl in my class, and i saw that no one really liked her. I thought she was innocent and became friends with her. But just after a few days i noticed that she was lying to me a lot. This video helped me catch most of her lies. Thank you psych2go.😅
I loved the animation style of this! Can imagine the police guy and the science guy trying to interrogate people.
The sad thing is when you know someone is outright lying to you but you just cannot believe they could do it to you 😕
The skilled manipulator learns to be indiscriminate with their lies.
Felt that today she literally laughed and thinks I don’t know she’s lying but it’s alright 😭she doesn’t know I’m a better liar than her
Been there, done that. It forced me into a course of action I didn't want to take, and the person denied going behind my back, lying, all of thst. I think what angered me the most is, they obviously thought I was stupid. Cue shit hitting fan.
no the sad thing is EVERYONE is capable of lying even those who never lied (cause that doesnt exist, everyone lied at a point in their life for this or that reason)
I deal with that all the time. I feel for you
"Frequent blinking is linked to masked emotions"
me, someone who has really dry eyes very often: what
Sad Satan *fingerguns* ayyyyyyy
Sad Satan I just get nervous and never saw anything wrong with it till now 😂
I have really dry eyes too
Then they should see an eye doctor for that. Eye drops too
One thing I wonder about - does neurodivergency and neurotypicalness come into play? If so, how? A neurodivergent person may pay less attention to their surroundings, and not be able to recount them. It doesn’t mean they’re lying. And the same goes with not remembering. They may just simply not know what they ate, as they didn’t pay attention to it
Thanks for the info this helped me allot
“I love you, sweetie!”
“SAY THAT BACKWARDS”
Papa Shpee
*Yoda noises intensifies*
"!eiteews ,uoy evol I"
"sweetie, I love you"
Or sweetie you love i.
My dad said that and still hasn't came back from the supermarket with the milk------ yeah he definitely lied
Sadly, people who are traumatized from long-term abuse show most of the same signs
I was thinking the same thing. My therapist mistakenly diagnosed me with NPD instead of severe depression/cptsd.
@@domo201 there's some rational amounts of overlap... and I'm right there with you on both of those. Have you looked into narcissistic abuse? Victims can morph into abusers if they aren't fully aware of how the behaviors may be manifesting for them or their friends/family (or you may tell yourself it's something good, when it really isn't)
Yep...ive been through horrific abuse and I know I show some of these signs...im grateful to have a good trained therapist who knows better in my case
Hocker Well I don’t mean to brag but I’m pretty self aware, I’m not anywhere close to abusive. I would think victims are good natured since they know the pain of abuse, at least that’s my experience
I suffered many forms of abuse for many years by many members of my family growing up. A lot of it from simply one person. She was the worst offender. Yet everyone else turned a blind eye until it would look even worse if they got caught.
One of the big things she would do that still bothers me even to this day is call me a liar even when I was being 100% honest. So now, I have a hard time maintaining eye contact with anyone. Even in casual conversation. But especially when facing confrontation.
So...hearing facts like that and being told it's a definitive telltale sign...
Looking away is a sign of sourcing a memory in the brain when re-telling a factual story. I do it all the time when I need to focus and use my brain for memory or a specific word I am seeking. I have adhd as well so my eyes constantly shift.
Yes this has helped me spot a liar 🤥 thanks for sharing.
Liars have just gained 900+ knowledge
Great now we can't spot them ....
@@strudlasajabukama how?
The eye contact one bothers me, because I’m an honest person, but suck at eye contact when speaking. My mind blanks if I look at people the while talking.
Also I needed this because I know someone very close to me that is a good liar. I want more confirmation with his body language. So thank you.
@Alida Green
Absolutely. I have one of those as well and he always gives himself up when he starts explaining something I didn't even ask about.
Look up the pantomimes, Rascal Ragdoll. Far more informative than this video.
Traci-Jean Behind Blue Eyes
Thank you for the recommendation.
I’ve heard of the extra details thing as well, but forgot about it. Thanks for that as well guys.
@@rascalragdoll182
You're welcome. 😊
With mine it's not just extra details. He will come home and start explaining himself for absolutely no reason...I gave up asking a long time ago, but it's like he has a ready-made excuse and can't wait to use it. The dumbass doesn't even realize how guilty that makes him look...not to mention pathetic.
I hope everything works out for you and he turns out to be one of the honest ones. They're a rarity these days. Take care, hun. 😊
"They cant handle unexpected questions." Gotta disagree on this one. When I've been accused of doing something I actually didn't do, because I strive to be honest in general it takes me a bit to consider whether something I did could have been interpreted as that act. I instinctively give the accusation the benefit of the doubt and thus my response might come across as calculated or over-considered, but in fact it's because it's shocking to me that somebody might deliberately lie about me.
my “friend” always seems to be more serious and has such a fake smile that doesn’t make her eyes move even a little bi while lying, but when she’s telling the truth she seems to be genuinely enjoying telling what she is saying. It’s obvious to me but everyone else believes everything she says, then they get surprised when I tell them the things she said behind their back.
Among Us Players:
Write That Down, *WRITE THAT DOWN*
But- nevermind.
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@@springlocked. howw??
@ZOEY SMITH charles the french
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"Eye contact is linked with truthfulness"
so my whole life is a lie...
Agree, scammers and pathological liars are unsettling. Everything is wrong and artificial but they'll look you in the eyes without blinking. (Bad ones look over your shoulder)
except in those people's case who get tensed or scared quickly
Me who tells the truth without eye contact because I get uncomfortable with eye contact especially with my social anxiety:
Some people are naturally dislike to make eye contact because of their shyness,introverted character or few other reasons.And it's totaly okay!
No doubt. Throughout my childhood I had it beat into me how important it was to make eye contact during a conversation (or interrogation). I could force myself, briefly, but my focus would quickly and inadvertently wander. In my thirties I was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome. My son also abhors eye contact just the same. Those jackoffs that place such a premium on the value of eye contact can go suck the big one.
I have a friend who always lies but the devils advocate always works for me because every time I change my opinion he says he agrees, then I change it again and again and he agrees to opposing statements which makes it incredibly easy to spot out his lies from his truth
I don't lie in EVERY single conversation I have, yet for some reason. I'm usually staring past whoever I'm talking to, or just straight up staring in a completely different direction
But for eye contact, there could be other reasons, too: Autism, social anxiety, etc...
Yes, it's a bad stereotype, which makes life for these people more difficult, because they have to maintain eye contact, even if this stresses them out...
Well im shy so i cant make eye contact that long
ADHD too.
@@axew3127 I didn't know that. Thanks for mentioning!
Literally everytime I tell the truth but smile at the same time people think I'm lying just because I'm smiling 😭
"They often forget"
Me: *Has 16GB of sh*tty memory for a brain* "Well sh*t"
Lmao, me too
I DO OFTEN FORGET
Exactly
I have 8GB of a mind
I remember when 16GB was not too bad lol
I can detect lies but then I met this one person that does the opposite of what everyone else does when he lies… looks straight in my eyes, doesn’t touch face, etc, but he had inconsistencies…so I picked apart them
Liars automatically assume whoever they're with is also distrustful. Like, if they're cheating they're paranoid the other person is too, but it's really just a smoke screen to cover up self-denial
"Where's the vase?"
"Oh the cat broke it."
"The cat is right here"
"FUUUUUUUUUUUUU-"
The cat can teleport. No, *mom* , I have NOT been playing too much Minecraft.
MaronaPossessed NO ANOTHER CAT BROKE IT!
@@Hazyla The other cat is right here.
You: FUUUUUUUUUUUUUU-
YUR GOING TO JAIL FOR L Y I N G
Legend has it
He’s still smiling to this day
4:53
Creepy 😟
Hmmmm machael Jackson?XDDDD
Ok
I was laughing on seeing his expression
I’ve been raised around many liars, so I can easily tell. Unfortunately, do to trauma when I try to see if a adult or an older figure is lying to me it’s a foggy process but I can still crack the case! ✨😁
There are some truly timid people who usually don't keep eyecontact unless they know and trust you. If somebody says they are lying because of that simply proofs said somebody can't relate or doesn't know. Thank you for the video.
when someone says, “go ahead and believe what you want” , “i swear, believe whatever you want to” and then gets defensive, 9 times out of 10 they’re lying.
I never had a direct eye contact with someone because it makes me feel uncomfortable, looking at someone in the eyes reminds me that they're actually looking straight at me and that makes me insecure.
I found a blink 👏👏
I love staring
Me too :(
only ugly and low self esteem people have this problem...
Maybe u have ADHD or ur just insecure.
I wont ever lie again. Learned this in my twenties. You have to remember what you lied about and continue to lie. "What a tangled web we have weaved, if at first we learn to deceive". Also, once you are caught in a lie once, every else becomes tainted
Yes me too!!! Too much work, never worth it.
Umm ok I love all of you guys is videos they have really helped me in the past for avoiding toxic friendships and finding out new stuff but not maintaning eye contact for someone who is autistic like me eye contact is very rare because it makes me feal uncomfterbull
some of these I do, but I usually tell the truth. I’m just an anxious person. perhaps the best take away from this video is to just never assume someone is telling the truth or lying. best to use context and anecdotal evidence to give a %chance of someone’s honesty rather than to conclude without a doubt that someone is lying.
4:50 Made me laugh for a good few minutes. Whoever the artist is for this, thank you for making me laugh, you did a fantastic job.
Kyle Graham! You can check him out here: th-cam.com/users/studioBOMBSHELL
@@Psych2go Thank you, I will when I have a chance. He is really talented, I hope he does more.
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@@jynx3978 We're already subscribed. Can you ask them to subscribe to us?
Psych2Go did you notice all of the jojo references they made?
3:00 Actually, that isn't a solid sign that the person is lying. They could have ADHD and stuff like that, and then they could just have trouble maintaining eye contact in general, and maybe they heard a noise and even seeing a moving car! There is many instances where that is wrong. One of the main signs they are lying is freezing in place, heart beat change and/or increased pauses between speaking.
Unless I'm mad I can't look people in the eye with out smiling
I hqve ADHD
And for the blinking one I have torretets and ADHD (a bit) so it doesn't really aply to me
Well, the main signs you're mentioning as being more reliable can be related to loads of other stuff too: context, stress, emotional overload, anxiety, depression, trauma....
Yes yeah yup indeed and of course, of course.
I hate the people who think when they are lying, we can't tell
People that are lying (and they actually feel badly for lying)will often point their feet away from you. It is almost as if they deep down wish to be elsewhere.
Extremly good liars may even show the opposite:
Rarely ever blinking (to maintain eye contact), or being completely still, showing to much information.
Do you want to show a little of lying and truth? Like somewhat maintain eye contact and blink and use half truths? I’m not sure how to tell a liar from a truthful person.
@@exoticcats6119 I meant that talented liars know the red flags to avoid but they are not immune to these signs.
It is just more difficult to spot there games.
Alternate title: 10 tips to avoid getting caught lying
Here.🏆You win most underrated comment of the day.
bruh
@@tjf5148 thats not lying
also if someone asks you a question not responding is a little sus
Yes 👍
Lmfao, that' s to funny! They should post a video like that! I wonder how diffrent the tips would be 🤣😅🤔
To say I never lie is a lie in itself. However I often tell the truth even if it's uncomfortable. I learned lying can get me into more trouble and honesty is a major value for me. I value honesty more than ever to this day because lying and making up stories pisses me off!
I know someone that has a different story for the same event every time you ask 😒 I call him out on it every time, yet he never changes. It is like some people are addicted to lying.
90%: ..... sO THEY ARE LYING!
10%: Lol. I'mma go use this to do "non-shady" stuff.
That's actually not true body laungue is only accurate about 70 percent of the time.
Which mean's they get it wrong about 30 percent.
People which rely on a certain tool to spot lying over exaggerate the effectiveness of their technique.
Take polygraph examiner's they say science back's up them being 98 percent accurate but the study's I have seen say they are 70 percent accurate at the most.
But most study's say their 60 percent accurate so it's safe to say a polygraph is accuare about 60 percent and has a 40 percent fail rate.
At most you can say their are signs of lying but these signs are not unique to lying.
"No that's Wrong!"
-Every Danganronpa main character
Was hoping I'd find someone who saw the reference
HOLD IT!
@@beatriceswartz9243 HOPE....
@@akt.y I didn't even notice I said hope
@@beatriceswartz9243 but you did :]
I have always been suspicious of this one friend who is always lying so now I’m about to test my new found knowledge with a simple call.
The best way to lie is to tell the truth with a small difference and things that line up with the facts of the story