This means there is no one in the world ready for a relationship!!! When I got married I told my husband I always think I am right so if you think I am not right about something you need to be strong enough to look me in the face and say You are not right about this. It was also hard for me to apologize. The firs time I had to apologize I did a terrible job. I told him I know I am doing a terrible job of apologizing but I promise to get better at it. There is no one who can meet all six of these criteria. What you need to have and to be is a partner who is willing to give grace as you grow. Being friends as well as lovers helps.
You got a point my man, that's the main reason why people go through so many relationships because they think they're ready when they're really not they just don't like being alone
Ikr, I am spending so much time trying to work this girl out. She drinks too much, lies but she is fire. And a good person who had a hard life. I think. She's getting better but it's taking so much of my energy.
I got into a relationship with a guy friend thinking that I was ready but I never really worked through those breakups that I had even a year ago. He deserves better and to be with somebody that will like him for him. I thought it would become better but I actually felt worse and felt like I rushed into something way too soon. Luckily it did not last for too long. But until then, I will not be entering any relationships anytime soon. I kept giving myself deadlines on when I would be ready but it just doesn't work that way. I also learned that men and women just can't Simply Be Friends 9/10. I don't hate men but I simply do not want to bring anymore baggage than I already do and I just do not have things together. I lost my job because I can no longer physically do my duties anymore due to being injured (non work related injury) and my mental health is taking a deep dive. I rather be single then to be divorced and constantly like something isn't right with my relationship when I first got into a relationship with my ex friend which it did not feel right shortly after I started to date him. I also want to develop a relationship with God.
I am grateful for being me, at this point in my life 💗 I feel like I don't want to try to save anyone, I know who I am, I am going through the part of my life I have never felt like I have to apologize to anyone, I am fulfilling my life by myself, I can relate to that
I’m 37 I’ve been with my boyfriend since we were 15 and we went through a point we’re we definitely weren’t ready to be in a relationship and then in are 20s all we did was fight like we had so much resentment towards each other but we grew a lot over that time and I love him more today than I did ever
Woooooo you hit it on the head!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥 I have ran across a lot of men!! That are that way!!! And the sad part is they know nothing about what you said!!!... can you say emotionally they are still like kids!!!!!
I know I’m not ready to be in a relationship bc I couldn’t care less about being a good partner. I gave my all for ten years and it got me no where. I don’t believe relationships are for me.
Thought this was gonna be one of those "I'm alpha get all the girls I want" but it wasn't, rn I'm not looking for a relationship but you helped me realize some shit about my emontial state, you are a great person.
Thank you I really needed this I just asked a girl out yesterday but she said that she did like me back but it wouldn’t work out. This video made me realize that I should figure out myself before I settle for a official relationship with someone else. Thank you for this this made me feel bit better.❤
Happy to know I am ready for a relationship. All glory to God, I used to be on this list and it took years of work. Lord, may the man you've ordained for me find me now in Jesus name. I'm looking forward to it. Keep the faith ladies and gents! It's worth the work
That's it? Naw, not acting like I didn't go through several nights of the soul to get here. I will continue to evolve but now I know how to do so while evolving with someone 🙌🏾
if the person walks away be glad yes if the person leaves be glad the person obviously didn’t love you why would you want to be saddled with that for life someone who doesn’t care about you if he/she cheats or walks away let him or her go good riddance being single is better than being sad and coupled being single is way better than being with someone and feeling lonely
I met someone in my theatre arts class. She's in 8th grade, im in 7th, she seems like a good freind to me and I really like her personality, I saw some of her tiktoks and she says she feels like she isn't ever understood, she always reposts depressing tiktoks. I felt like I should be with her because she's nice and it would make her happy to have someone, but I don't know if I can handle being a good partner, I can't even see her often
I feel like the last one is me, emotionally closed. I had a hard time mentally, now I'm getting better. And I want a partner, but when I'm dating I feel like I dont really wanna be in a relationship, though I really attracted to the other person. I feel like I need a break from dating.
I feel great lol worked on my self have confidence on my self well I started getting close to the Bible believing god and it helped a lot and my relationship is amazing but great video love it!!!
I am LITERALLY the same at 41 that I was at 18. And happy about it. Also, I will never be ready for a relationship cause I think they're a waste of time and counterproductive at worst.
Yep. All me. I was never ready for a relationship. It's hard to admit that as a woman. But honestly I should have remained a Bachelorette/single. I just wanted friendship and companionship, not marriage or relationships. Now im married with two kids and I absolutely hate my life. Crazy thing is NOW i feel like im ready in my 40s. But I definitely should have been working on me up until this point. Now I have to try and undo all this mess I made when I should have just stayed to myself this whole time😢
And if you aren’t ready for a relationship that is also OK! We need time to exist, grow, heal, and learn. Realizing this doesn’t mean you are broken and it doesn’t mean you will never get there. Just breathe, love yourself, and practice patience. We all need therapy. And that’s ok!
Just about all of them describe me. I feel the pressure from family, and society to be in a relationship. They find it hard to believe or feel bad for me being single and be happy that way. So I started dating just so they can leave me alone. But I find it hard to make time for her, cause I like being independent. And don’t like the thought of letting someone into my world, or to always have someone with me 24/7 where I have to let her know everything.
enter within caution keep all eyes open when getting involved with someone never conveniently cover your eyes to keep yourself from being alone when you end up broken up and devastated you will have wished you never got involved in the first place you should be on all decks if someone loves you you are in corporated into his or her world on all decks not on some
Sheesh u got me with the first 1😭 and maybe number 5, I say maybe because idk if you mean in a way that we have a habit of apologizing for things we shouldn’t be apologizing about? but if that’s not the case or what u meant then im only on number 1😅
No matter what if I thought I was trying to become involved with anyone they would know that. I'm feeling fine alone 😊😊,no one has to make me feel better about myself and If I feel like I am 💗 emotional y cold 🥶 it's because no one I found was the right one to make me happy 😊😊 no one else has to understand me ❤️❤️ if they don't know who they are
Why is this so true? All of these explain why my girlfriend broke up with me. She says she still likes me but she cant be the good partner i deserve because she is too scared to be in a relationship. I was mad, and still am, but I suppose this is why she’s not ready. I dont think i’d ever be ready to be with her again though for fear that she’d get cold feet again and continually hurt me.
THANK YOU GOD!!!!!!! I PASSED ALL 6 SIGN S ON RELATESHIPS BRING MY PARTER HUSAND WE BOTH HAVE OUR OWN SALVATION KIT, SAME CHEMISTRY, THE LOVE RECIROCATE TO US ❤❤
Great video but i hate when people say stuff like 'discover yourself before you get into a relationship', thats a very vague comment and tbh how do you know when youve discovered yourself, some people might "discover themselves" because of getging into a relationship. Its just a wierd statement that i think is used by a lit of people to justify being single
Just a question...People talk about self exploration and not knowing who you are. What is the 1st activity one engages in to begin self exploration? Just a question
1. Focusing on finding the right partner than being the right partner 2. Still discover who you are udk really rn who you are 3. U want someone to help you feel better about you (internal work honey u work on that) 4. U wanna save someone (fix that problem) 5. You cant apologize have a hard time doing that 6. You are emotionally closed Am absloutely 1 a fluctuating amount of 2 and a lil of 3
I’m in high school and my friends will clown me saying why I won’t try to start a relationship and I will tell them that still tryna fix my self cause mentally I’m not all there and they’ll just laugh and say I’m “gay”
I don't even know if I would be able to start a relationship because I have been so wounded by men so I'm interested in spirituality and waiting on God 🙏.
In this day of age. No rush. Finding the right partner is just important as becoming the right partner to yourself. Bunch of fake relationships guru experts out there. This guy is probably not even married nor in relationship. What does he know about relationships?
I am working on myself as we speak..
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yes dudeee keep going
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Same here. Taking care of me first. Staying single until I am fully healed.
But where are you at is the question not progress but status and checkpoint
Damn. He hit me in the first one.
I know....❤
Yeah fuck 😂
This means there is no one in the world ready for a relationship!!! When I got married I told my husband I always think I am right so if you think I am not right about something you need to be strong enough to look me in the face and say You are not right about this. It was also hard for me to apologize. The firs time I had to apologize I did a terrible job. I told him I know I am doing a terrible job of apologizing but I promise to get better at it. There is no one who can meet all six of these criteria. What you need to have and to be is a partner who is willing to give grace as you grow. Being friends as well as lovers helps.
You got a point my man, that's the main reason why people go through so many relationships because they think they're ready when they're really not they just don't like being alone
"You always wanna save someone." That hurts fr. This is what im experiencing around me now.
Ikr, I am spending so much time trying to work this girl out. She drinks too much, lies but she is fire. And a good person who had a hard life. I think. She's getting better but it's taking so much of my energy.
I agree with these 6 Signs! Wonderfully put!!⭐.
I had a feeling that I wasn’t ready. Now I know I’m not ready.
Relationships are a two way street. You accept them for who they are if not you need to reevaluate who you are has a person.
Married and still working on myself. But this was epic!
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I got into a relationship with a guy friend thinking that I was ready but I never really worked through those breakups that I had even a year ago. He deserves better and to be with somebody that will like him for him. I thought it would become better but I actually felt worse and felt like I rushed into something way too soon. Luckily it did not last for too long. But until then, I will not be entering any relationships anytime soon. I kept giving myself deadlines on when I would be ready but it just doesn't work that way. I also learned that men and women just can't Simply Be Friends 9/10. I don't hate men but I simply do not want to bring anymore baggage than I already do and I just do not have things together. I lost my job because I can no longer physically do my duties anymore due to being injured (non work related injury) and my mental health is taking a deep dive. I rather be single then to be divorced and constantly like something isn't right with my relationship when I first got into a relationship with my ex friend which it did not feel right shortly after I started to date him. I also want to develop a relationship with God.
You aren’t ready for a relationship if you don’t feel comfortable enough to have everyone know about your relationship.
I am grateful for being me, at this point in my life 💗 I feel like I don't want to try to save anyone, I know who I am, I am going through the part of my life I have never felt like I have to apologize to anyone, I am fulfilling my life by myself, I can relate to that
Thanks for sharing all 6
You are so welcome!
I’m 37 I’ve been with my boyfriend since we were 15 and we went through a point we’re we definitely weren’t ready to be in a relationship and then in are 20s all we did was fight like we had so much resentment towards each other but we grew a lot over that time and I love him more today than I did ever
Coach!!! You hit us in the head with this one. 😂 But I'm happy to say that I'm ready ready. Thank you for sharing your gift.🎯
Woooooo you hit it on the head!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥 I have ran across a lot of men!! That are that way!!! And the sad part is they know nothing about what you said!!!... can you say emotionally they are still like kids!!!!!
We are always changing and working on ourselves it’s about finding someone to grow with.
What about wanting someone you can continue to improve with and help them improve?
I know I’m not ready to be in a relationship bc I couldn’t care less about being a good partner. I gave my all for ten years and it got me no where. I don’t believe relationships are for me.
Same here
Thought this was gonna be one of those "I'm alpha get all the girls I want" but it wasn't, rn I'm not looking for a relationship but you helped me realize some shit about my emontial state, you are a great person.
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Thank you I really needed this I just asked a girl out yesterday but she said that she did like me back but it wouldn’t work out. This video made me realize that I should figure out myself before I settle for a official relationship with someone else. Thank you for this this made me feel bit better.❤
You’re welcome 😊
Happy to know I am ready for a relationship. All glory to God, I used to be on this list and it took years of work. Lord, may the man you've ordained for me find me now in Jesus name. I'm looking forward to it. Keep the faith ladies and gents! It's worth the work
That's it? Naw, not acting like I didn't go through several nights of the soul to get here. I will continue to evolve but now I know how to do so while evolving with someone 🙌🏾
Exactly
Straight up hit me at all of them! So glad I'm finally ok realizing that I'm not ready and may not be ready ever.
I'm like ok I got this and was good up to #5, but #6 knocked me out. 😮🤦🏾♀️
Coach this is awesome! I have been taking these same steps for years and I am still not ready!
Fantastic!
if the person walks away be glad yes if the person leaves be glad the person obviously didn’t love you why would you want to be saddled with that for life someone who doesn’t care about you
if he/she cheats or walks away let him or her go
good riddance being single is better than being sad and
coupled being single is way better than being with someone and feeling lonely
2 of these hit for me... and I don't feel bad about working on myself to get there
I met someone in my theatre arts class. She's in 8th grade, im in 7th, she seems like a good freind to me and I really like her personality, I saw some of her tiktoks and she says she feels like she isn't ever understood, she always reposts depressing tiktoks. I felt like I should be with her because she's nice and it would make her happy to have someone, but I don't know if I can handle being a good partner, I can't even see her often
I was crossing my fingers and dancing on each one. NONE OF THOSE ARE ME! I've done the work. I'm ready!!!😁💃🏾
You got this!
Number 1 was a hit .
You were so real for this
Thanks
Listen man, it’s either desperately search for a partner or being put in a psych ward cause I am so lonely it’s unhealthy.
I feel like the last one is me, emotionally closed. I had a hard time mentally, now I'm getting better. And I want a partner, but when I'm dating I feel like I dont really wanna be in a relationship, though I really attracted to the other person. I feel like I need a break from dating.
I feel great lol worked on my self have confidence on my self well I started getting close to the Bible believing god and it helped a lot and my relationship is amazing but great video love it!!!
This spoke to me on every level, im so guilty. Im not ready
Thankyou for the vid .
Would be great if you can elaborated emotionally closed ?.
i’m emotionally closed and i am looking 👀 for the right partner
I am LITERALLY the same at 41 that I was at 18. And happy about it. Also, I will never be ready for a relationship cause I think they're a waste of time and counterproductive at worst.
I wish ppl heal after a break up so they can really heal stop jumping to a relationship to the next
Geez, and I thought I was ready, better get to work on me❣️lol 😅😅
I do not agree with all 6 signs but fair enough. I think we don’t have to have all of them to realise we are not there yet. Thank you, sir.
Yep. All me. I was never ready for a relationship. It's hard to admit that as a woman. But honestly I should have remained a Bachelorette/single. I just wanted friendship and companionship, not marriage or relationships. Now im married with two kids and I absolutely hate my life. Crazy thing is NOW i feel like im ready in my 40s. But I definitely should have been working on me up until this point. Now I have to try and undo all this mess I made when I should have just stayed to myself this whole time😢
And if you aren’t ready for a relationship that is also OK! We need time to exist, grow, heal, and learn. Realizing this doesn’t mean you are broken and it doesn’t mean you will never get there. Just breathe, love yourself, and practice patience. We all need therapy. And that’s ok!
Just about all of them describe me. I feel the pressure from family, and society to be in a relationship. They find it hard to believe or feel bad for me being single and be happy that way. So I started dating just so they can leave me alone. But I find it hard to make time for her, cause I like being independent. And don’t like the thought of letting someone into my world, or to always have someone with me 24/7 where I have to let her know everything.
I don’t care to find no partner I am single staying single
Amen, Coach!!!! Preach!
This hit hard but it’s true.
enter within caution keep all eyes open when getting involved with someone never conveniently cover your eyes to
keep yourself from being alone
when you end up broken up and devastated you will have wished you never got involved in the first place
you should be on all decks if someone loves you
you are in corporated
into his or her world on all decks not on some
Thanks for the confirmation pal T_T
#1 hit so hard
All facts!
Sheesh u got me with the first 1😭 and maybe number 5, I say maybe because idk if you mean in a way that we have a habit of apologizing for things we shouldn’t be apologizing about? but if that’s not the case or what u meant then im only on number 1😅
No matter what if I thought I was trying to become involved with anyone they would know that. I'm feeling fine alone 😊😊,no one has to make me feel better about myself and If I feel like I am 💗 emotional y cold 🥶 it's because no one I found was the right one to make me happy 😊😊 no one else has to understand me ❤️❤️ if they don't know who they are
Why is this so true? All of these explain why my girlfriend broke up with me. She says she still likes me but she cant be the good partner i deserve because she is too scared to be in a relationship. I was mad, and still am, but I suppose this is why she’s not ready. I dont think i’d ever be ready to be with her again though for fear that she’d get cold feet again and continually hurt me.
THANK YOU GOD!!!!!!!
I PASSED ALL 6 SIGN S ON RELATESHIPS
BRING MY PARTER HUSAND WE BOTH HAVE OUR OWN SALVATION KIT, SAME CHEMISTRY, THE LOVE RECIROCATE TO US ❤❤
Great video but i hate when people say stuff like 'discover yourself before you get into a relationship', thats a very vague comment and tbh how do you know when youve discovered yourself, some people might "discover themselves" because of getging into a relationship. Its just a wierd statement that i think is used by a lit of people to justify being single
Damn the first one was already the answer for everything
One thing I DO know....those frames are everything 🤓
I have may be 1 out 6 signs. I’m kind of emotionally closed…
Wow I've never wanted to comment so fast in my life...these are too true
love is not a game but some people treat it like one
playing with hearts as if they were disposable
Just a question...People talk about self exploration and not knowing who you are. What is the 1st activity one engages in to begin self exploration? Just a question
I watched this video and objectively discovered I have successfully made it past these 6 items. 👍 self realization is everything.
My issue is being ready for a relationship with a particular man.
You didn't have to call me out like that 😂
1. Focusing on finding the right partner than being the right partner
2. Still discover who you are udk really rn who you are
3. U want someone to help you feel better about you (internal work honey u work on that)
4. U wanna save someone (fix that problem)
5. You cant apologize have a hard time doing that
6. You are emotionally closed
Am absloutely 1 a fluctuating amount of 2 and a lil of 3
Aren't we evolving all the time? Like that is a lifetime job or am I having the wrong perspective here
Damn it 6 outa 6
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I’m in high school and my friends will clown me saying why I won’t try to start a relationship and I will tell them that still tryna fix my self cause mentally I’m not all there and they’ll just laugh and say I’m “gay”
TRUTH.
Agree with this
Number six hits different😢
I'm guilty of #2 & #6
Thank you
I don't even know if I would be able to start a relationship because I have been so wounded by men so I'm interested in spirituality and waiting on God 🙏.
Looks like I’m ready for a relationship 😂
Well guess it's better I stay alone , I'm way past 50 . I don't want to save nobody and apologize hell no ,
Number 6 💯
What if I fell in love with a girl but I have other responsibilities that is why I'm not ready for a relationship is it wrong?
Oh ok.. with that being said.. I am ready..
Great info....thanks
Did not all apply to me but some did. Overall I need to work on myself. I have been. I need to keep doing it. 😅
7. Is me and it's I have a hard time letting things go and being forgiving
So true
In this day of age. No rush. Finding the right partner is just important as becoming the right partner to yourself.
Bunch of fake relationships guru experts out there. This guy is probably not even married nor in relationship. What does he know about relationships?
He hit me with every points🥲
than why do i need relationship I'm gonna be happy as i am.
im literally finding myself as we speak ...and more, so guilty
😮... Best wishes to you from Morocco
Very wise and true
Is only being with someone we can see and work and know who you are. This is BS! Don't believe that guys.
#2 Got ME!!!!😮❤
If your not ready Your never gonna be ready if you don’t try.
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I never will be ready
Does that mean most people in a relationship nowdays are not ready for them? Hm... That kinda makes sense, unironically
Only first two was true for me,
These signs are all subjective! Let me explain; we are ever changing.
Number 1 is my top priority.