Guests : Jeon Mira, An Yeongmi, MONSTA X[Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.02.11]
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Hello Counselor EP.399
- Guests : Jeon Mira, An Yeongmi, MONSTA X
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What's surprising about the first concern is they should have discussed how they want to live their life before marriage, not after. See now each side wants to pursuit different goals.
I THOUGHT THAT TOO
Exactly
Its the problem of a lot of ppl around me they get married just to get married, because of others, because of pressure because of time and so on. No discussion beforehand and eventually ends in a divorce
Watching it now thinking the exact same thing.
And sometimes they marry for the idea of getting married.
I'm happy that Jooheon expresses his feelings about the kid who loves cars. He knows how it feels to be so passionate about something although his parents always ask him to study instead. I know that you can't neglect study completely, but the mother should be happy that his son has a dream already. She should told her son that in order for him to achieve his dreams, he need to at least have basic education.
soo true my cousin is also into cars and as a kid he also could tell most of the cars by sound since he watched them a lot from the windows and he works now with cars as well ( of course the basis is needed but he alredy knows more about the cars then he would really need for a job in that field later so actually its great he has most the needed skill and can concentrate on improving and since he started early it will be a lot easier for him to improve ) and also the part about the friends?? first of he is not such a small child anymore in no time he will be in a higher grade and once he is in collegue he could make friends more easly since most there know what they want to do since they chose a major so if he choses one with cars he will have friends with the same interests and hobbies thats good enough ? its not like he will lose the ability to communicate at this age just because he spends more time with his hobby than people. it look to me like she just doesnt like the fact her son wont be doing what she wants even thought he could be really sucsesfull and earn a lot since he is pretty good already (just imagine how much he can grow once he gets lessons for drawing if he got this good without lessons?) truthfully if her son were interested in things needed for a doctor or lawyer i am sure she wouldnt be that against it like if he spends most time leaning all the laws she would probably brag about how amazing her son is. its sad
Is it just me who's worried if one day Hello Counselor casts MONSTA X again and get Hyungwon, how would my boy control his temper with these kinds of concerns?😂 I hope Hyungwon can experience these things!😍 Rooting for MONSTA X! Goodluck on your comeback! Love you all!💚
I think Hyungwoniee Will Be Fine........Kihyuniee Hold back his Temper In Another Episode So I think Hyungwon Will Be Fine.......Unless The Situation Is Really Bad but if not Monbebe's All over The World Will Know What He'll Do (Spacing Out😂) Just Kidding
The kid at the last concern was very inspiring.He is really passionate about what he wants and i think it's is awesome.We really need to be passionate about what we want and try harder to be able to achieve that.Fighting!^^
It’s not easy to know what you are passion about . The mom should be proud of him .
Minhyuk‘s reaction when the woman asked the guest why he doesn’t want to sleep with his wife is soooo funny and adorable, monsta x may have a strong image but they are so cute kind hearted irl :‘)
that last concern really helped bring up my mood after the bullshit of the second concern
The mum should at least be glad her son is into cars and not drugs. She could find opportunities for him to get closer to his dream instead.
True. When I'm also his age... I still don't know what to do in my life. The mom should be proud of him because his already have a dream
I was so mad with second concern. He had such a wonderful wife but he's a jerk. Seriously cursing your kids and take money that's supposed for your kids *SO IRRESPONSIBLE* .
True then repeatedly saying kids like it😒 those games only for adult
Minhyuk would be such an amazing dad one day, he loves kids and they love him too~
Are you there monbebe?
Im here
Yes
"WE ARE HERE"
WE ARE HERE❤
we are here!
4:50 OMG they looks like kids, so amaze with the magic trick 😭
I'm sorry but I don't think that the husband in the first concern can be blamed. Everyone should have the freedom to decide whether they want children or not. He keeps on mentioning financial issues that come with having children, however I think he just uses it as an excuse. He simply doesn't want children. And that's fine. It may be harsh for his wife and I can only imagine how hurtful it must be for her, but they should have talked about such important things before getting married. Times have changed. Back in the days people needed to have children in order to care for the parents when they get old and to have a successor for their farm and land. However in these modern days having children is an option rather than a necessity.
Well , From my point of view it's natural for people who gets married to have children. That's what's common for now , so if you don't want to have a child you should tell her before you get married ! I know it's okay for him not to have children , but why force it on his wife too , as I recall she is 36 so she haven't got much time . He actually married the dog not the wife :)
I totally agree with you about the freedom to have children or not (as in my case, I don't want some). But the problem here is that he didn't talk about it with his wife before marrying her, and now he's imposing his choice to her, which is egoist I think. The majority of humans still aim for a family with children, so he should have discussed with her and maybe find someone else that aims for the same thing. It isn't right to avoid her because of that...
@@Nausaica That's exactly what I wrote in my comment above 😄 THEY should have talked about this before getting married, meaning that BOTH of them are to blame. This applies to every single person in this world: Before actually getting married to someone and deciding to spend your life together you should develop lots of knowledge about that special someone, wether you have the same morals and values as well as the same goals in life 🤷♀️ Sadly, these days people tend to rush into marriage very fast and end up being unhappy because their partner turns out "not to be the person they thought he/ she would be". This problem could easily be overcome if people simply would talk to each other more and take their time in the development of their relationship. Communication is key.
@@Nausaica
Actually the wife is at fault too, they both should have talked about having kids or not before getting engaged. The husband isn't the only selfish one in this situation
xOPowerRangerOx Having children was never a necessity. It's a natural thing for any species on this planet. Also, It looks like this guy has a psychological issue due to which he doesn't want to have children. It's clear from his attachment to a dog.
Jooheon and Minhyuk are just so adorable! 😍
I don't think the last part is a concern because that's his passion. And his designs are so good! I admire and envy him because he already knows what he wanted to be while I don't and I'm already 21 lol
Omg they brought Minhyuk on a child focused episode xD He must be rethinking life rn lol
Car Guy's Mom: I'm not asking him to get perfect scores
Me: Ooohh, finally. An understanding asian mother.
Car Guy's Mom: But I want him to get above 90 points
Me: Nevermind. My mom would even shed tears of joy if I get score above 60 points.
Camila Alrazi exactly what my mom says :,)
Lucky you!
My mom never family never scold me when it comes to score...they always praise me even if I get less grad... until I get collage I didn't know about their worries, now I know why they always told me to study....
Finally, Monsta X! :D I've been watching Hello Counselor since day one and this show and Monsta X, two of my favorites, are together! xD
Edit: I'm saying finally because I saw the pictures on instagram, so the episode is finally out.
Eika Pumpkin haha there have been other monstax eps
yeah, i think shownu was on not too long ago.
@@lalaland6181
I know. I saw the pictures on instagram and that's why I'm saying "finally" Monsta X is on this episode. I didn't think I had to clarify that after mentioning I've been watching this show since day one.
Eika Pumpkin oh sry i misunderstood because ur comment because u put ‘finally,monsta x!’ but u edited so its fine
Eika Pumpkin same
When yeongja said about triplets I instantly thought about daehan mingook and mansae
Me too😭😭😭😭😭💓
Same omg
Never been this early to watch Hello Counselor. Monsta X fighting!!
WE ARE HERE
*_I'm literally just here for Monsta X tbh-_*
27:43 this! I kennat! They're so adorable, Jooheon and Minhyuk 💕
Minhyuk couldn't control hisself during that first concern AIASJFHAK
I love how passionately Jooheon supported that kid in the last concern. I'm sure he has some good advice for both sides to understand the other better.
I really like Yeongmi me, she speaks her mind openly. Would love to see her more often 😇
The boy who knows so much about cars is so cool
-- it's easier to get along with pets than with humans (based on my own experiences) but we should not let it reach to the point that it goes until this kind of concern. So Minhyuk & Jooheon.... you already knew that you should not let your future wife get jealous with Dambi &Sanche 😉😄😊😃
sanche is not jooheon dog.. its his mom dog.. jooheon have 2 cats..☺☺☺☺
@@i.mdafirstnamemonbebedalas9892 👍❤ then I hope Jooheon's future life partner will not feel insecure with Yoshi & Gucci😊 or with any of his pets too.
+whoami avaporinthewind i hope so but jooheon is the prblem.. hes so attached to them..😂😂😂😂
@@i.mdafirstnamemonbebedalas9892 if he is reading comments, he will surely say: "why this concern suddenly turns into mine??" 😂😂😂 (imagine jooheon's facial expressions when he is surprised yet confused😉)
That's right 😄😄
For the last concern, I hope his mom will not make him abandon his passion in cars. We will never know, he might be the next CEO or the next billionaire because of this passion in card.
Monsta x ❤️😘😍
Minhyuk and Joohoney is so cute... They learn about this married life, babies, and kids. They surely will be a good husband/father in the future 😊💕
The last kid. Hope he have a bright future! He so detail and smart in his field... it's okay if he's doing better at social in the future... a few best friend is the best~ keep loving family and friend is the most important
The second concern made me realized how amazing father Song Ilkook is, to his triplets.
I feel so bad for the lady in the first concern. My mom has always told me about how heartbreaking it is for a women who longs for a baby but cannot/doesn’t have one. I hope she has a baby soon.
im married almost 3 year and us waiting to long for have a baby 😔 but i dont have a one . i feel so bad to his wife .
minhyuk's and jooheon's reaction at 15:00 is the cutest omg
That second concern though, what a beautiful mother. She really loves them and it shows, they can feel the love from her. The dad however... hmm he made me mad. They covered what I thought well tbh. I hope it gets better for her and her sons.
about the last concern I think it's wonderful that the kid knows what he wants and that he's so passionate about it. i think the mother instead of worrying about his passion should rather focus on having him involved in other things so that he can improve his studies and social skills along with emphasizing that his passion is valid. i'm not a specialist and that is why i have always said that this show needs a specialist, maybe a psychologist to help such concerns. because it doesn't look like a big deal but if the kid doesn't realize that he needs to perform well in his basic studies in order to be what he wants to be then he won't succeed in his dream. but then again if he is too pressured to study well or socialize well he might lose his passion and not get it back and then he won't have a dream like that again. i have experienced that with my drawings when i stopped drawing at all because my parents would get mad at me for drawing too much. back then i thought it as a year-break but it's been four years that i haven't made any good artwork. and i just don't draw at all, sometimes for months.
So true. I relate to this
@@rittikaseth6349 i really hope you can find your passion. work hard!
@@tyuninforlove Thank you. I love singing and writing. I am dreaming to be a singer one day. Hopefully I can work hard to be one.
Yes, I wanted to be a doctor but my mother discouraged me. My studies also discouraged me from attaining this. It was always my passion to help people but now I'm lost and I don't know what I want to do anymore.
I came here for Monsta X but the man from the second concern makes me so angry. I wish Hello Counsellor had police or some doctors with them or something bc the problems on this show vary from physical abuse to sexual harassment and emotional abuse and they make comments and laugh even but DON’T DO ANY ACTION TO HELP THE VICTIMS. Please get a psychiatrist, psychologist, a social worker or some kind legal or medical help on this show! This show keeps getting views for some very serious problems yet it doesn’t seem like they actually help the victims.
K Z Isn’t his show scripted? I’m asking out of curiosity
Monsta x ❤️❤️ monbebes where you at???
WE ARE HERE 💕🐊
I enjoyed Hello Counselor but I particularly enjoyed this episode because of Joohyuk. I choked at 1:00:44 I wanna hug the strong beautiful mother
The man in the first concern is really soft and nice..he has a soft image too...nowadays having kids and other things should be discussed before marriage..
Jooheon probably learnt the magic trick he showed us in vlive from choi hyunwoo
The kids in the second concern were so cuuuute! But it was sad to see how one of them was really quick to admit that he didn't like his dad. Then again, I can't really blame him, can I? 🤔
im just gonna put this here: jooheon is literally the cutest baby out here
"WE ARE HERE"
that moment when An Yeongmi got angry at the first concern " why wont you sleep with her?" i was looking at MonstaX members LMAO they were cute
Came here for Monsta X as well as heard Death Note music haha 😂 4:08
I double checked it just to be sure if i was hearing right lol
Came for Monsta X aswell
MONSTA X COMEBACK ON 18 FEB 2019 KST 18:00 PLEASE SUPPORT THEM!
Honestly I think Minhyuk and Jooheon would be such good dad's, they are so cute when the kids come in ❤️❤️❤️
Finally...We Are Here.
Edit: The first concern was actually really complicated. I can understand both of their sides to be honest, and that's what makes it hard to solve. They have different point of view and goals in life, but I do think they shouldn't have just gotten married so soon. But it already happened, so I just do hope that they'll come to terms sooner. I feel bad for the wife too :(
The second concern annoyed me. The husband is so irresponsible. He had too much excuses and I swear, he isn't fit to be a dad right now. I really do hope he kept that promise after the show...
As for the third concern, just like jooheonnie said, it's great that the kid has passion for something he loves. It was actually nice that he is a bright kid with a dream in mind. I actually felt jealous that he is passionate into something that makes him so happy in life. It is so obvious that he enjoys studying cars and such, and I think he is really inspirational!
p.s. I feel bad for monsta x when the sister didn't know them BUT I COULDN'T STOP LAUGHING ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ honey and minmin's reactions are so cute ㅋㅋㅋ the kid is cute too ㅋㅋㅋ
37:36 we can talk about Minhyuk when he said "I want to have many children"
14:57 Minhyuk's reaction here is so cute. Omo 😂😂😂
"Am I old enough to be here?" 😂😂😂
50:36 Minhyuk gasping and whispering, "Wah, expensive!"
2nd husband, when the kids grow up you won't ever have the chance to play with them. They will hate you so much.
If the kid from the 3rd concern was my son, as long as he did not fail any subjects in school, I'd be fine to be honest. Not everything is about grades and school and although we must learn up until a certain level of knowledge, not everything can be thought inside the classroom. If he's really passionate about cars, then for sure he'll be able to find a great career that makes him happy. It's better he stayed at home learning about cars than partying, smoking, drinking (all though there's nothing wrong with these if done in moderation) or worse, doing drugs.
Monsta X comeback today..pleasee support them❤❤❤
I honestly feel like 80% of all these marriage concerns could've been resolved if they actually got to know each other, lived together and had time to discuss their views and goals in life before getting married. Korean societal pressure creates this mess! Regardless of the first wife's personal longing for children, what child would be happy in that family? Communication skills : 0...
Jenny Park In western society, people live with each other, get to know each other, get married, and have no problems. They don't get divorced, their children grow completely happy and normal, right? Korean culture is not perfect, but what you're suggesting have been practiced in the west for decades, and yet, those societies have the biggest amount of all kinds of personality disorders due to upbringing of people who lived together.
Dear mother of that boy who really loves car, can you see that your child is really amazing? He already find his interest at young age. He also build his interest into expert like this. I believe that if parents can be open-minded and understanding their children then you will proud to them in the future.
the last concern was so impactful, and I'm thankful for the feedback of Jooheon, this is what every child has to hear
IM WATCHING THIS BECAUSE OF MONSTA X 😭😅
14:58
Minhyuk : *shocked*
Joohoney : hyung 😅
The world is overpopulated we don't need to have kids anymore but we want to. I understand the husband and as others have said they really should have talked about it before hand or rather the husband should have mentioned he really didn't want any. But more than that, it really does seem like he loves the dog more than her and for that I get her. They kind of skimmed over that but like he really only started truly smiling when the dog came out.
The last concern.. really not a concern tho.. I understand the frustration because it’s different from “ideal future” but if you are more involve and more understanding, your Son be making money than what you call ideal jobs..
Btw!!! MONSTA X🙆♀️🤗
I come for monsta x 😆
Love watching Minhyuk's reactions. He has a really expressive face.
Somehow I find Ahn Youngmi so underrated when it comes to talk shows. Whenever she gets serious, she's actually a great talker and makes a lot of good points.
The last one got me thinking
*GONGBU HATE* ! *MUSIC LIKE* !
THIS!! 😂
Came because of JooHyuk 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I feel kinda bad for the man in the 1st concern. No one should be forced to have children as it’s not everyone’s idea of happiness. We all want to live our best lives and sometimes having children can limit that although it doesn’t mean you’ll be unhappy having them. He should live his life to the fullest. I hope they find their own ways to be happy even if that means separating. It’s so hard in this children-obsessed world to live for own life without being criticised for not wanting children. Nowadays kids just throw their parents into care homes and never visit too 😓
It’s not like he’s forced to have a child tho. He at least should have the dignity to listen to his own wife when she told him she wanted a child really bad. Just listen. I mean they should have talk this beforehand but that man was basically more interested in the dog than in her so.
Also not wanting to have kids it’s a really common thing nowadays. It’s not like ppl are being major criticized for not wanting kids. Of course the older generation think otherwise but I mean it’s the older generation they will always think otherwise.
I love Monsta X, and they even used a part of the Death Note OST during the magic trick!
If Kihyun are there. I can imagine how disappointed he is when he hear the wife's problem
The first concern.. i think its his right not to want kids. If he doesnt want them he shouldnt have them. They should have discussed that before their marriage....
Monsta X fighting!!!!
Yes monsta x! Let's watch this!
A week later and the boys comeback was released - so many schedules but so happy they made it on here
Am i the only one missing Jung Chan-Woo😔
At first actually i see it because of monsta x in thumbnail. But the more i watch it, this counseling really amazed me, the hosts know how to talk and counsel the participants.
fyi this is hello counselor that i watch till the end with no skip 👏👏👏
The third one is not a concern for me. He found his passion, his dream, his mom should be proud of him tho. Not all the students that study until university has a sole dream, I'm telling this because I study hard until now, I'm on my way to get my degree and honestly I still doesn't have a true dream, I still don't know what I want to be. I'm into art but idk if i should do art based on drawing or art in literature because I can do both, but at the same time my parents want me to be a teacher so I'm thinking to be an art teacher, but to be a teacher is not easy. If I was his parent, I'll be really proud and support him. He even study about the cars, the parts and all. Also, he even interested in another language because of it. It's a good thing already. Learning doesn't mean it can be done in school only. As example, some students learn english for years in school, but yet they still aren't interested in the language and speak only a little. He can go to automotive/technical school. Idk if they have it in SK, but in my country, there are plenty of them. And I dont think there's something wrong with him? Well, about the meddling part, it's dangerous that he didn't think about his safety more, and i hope he wouldnt be so blunt in doing things like that. Nevertheless, he's still a bright kid, he's nice (altho his way sometimes can put danger in himself) , so I don't think it's a concern.
Jooheon & Minhyuk so handsome cute >.
I love Minhyuk & Joohoney reaction ^.^
Okay....
The magician really surprise me with his face and his age! I thought he's 20s or early 30s
Oh Coincidentally I’m watching this on jooheons birthday 🎉
*minhyuk talking about kids*
o I forgot- he'll marry soon- huWAA :'D
The last concern was really good, i mean the mother should be thankful that her son didn't do something naughty but her son were learn about automotive and already pursued his dream from early childhood
to the wife from the second concern: stay with your parents or someone that can help you and DIVORCE THAT GARBAGE
Jooheon so cuteeeeee
The third concern tho, I love how he is so passionate about something.
In just a few months I'll be choosing how to live my life (choosing a strand). I know what I want to be, an idol, but it's so hard to find an opportunity to do so. I'm really in a dilemma choosing what I want to be in the near future.
That's why I'm so envious of him.
Most of my monsta x ships have guest now (Showki and Joohyuk). Please let me have Hyungwon and Wonho (Hyungwonho) next time 😭❤
I'm commenting this before watching so it's still not "a concern" related comment ✌
MONSTA X!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
the biggest issue in the first concern is that he is perfect in everyside expect him not wanting children so she can't do anything about it especially since he spoils her do all the work and he is thinking realisticly about it and she ca't force him because in the end he will do everything after they have a baby
The kids from the second concern is sooo cute 💕
The second concern is, first of all, very dangerous to the children and of course the wife as well, carrying all responsibility and high stress. The husband/father is abusive, there is no way around it and it's very straight forward: hitting the kids (also with a cane), holding them basically hostage under a strong hold in a dark room for 20-30 minutes and the emotional abuse in yelling and cussing at them, completely egoistical waste of money, and well also neglect from the father. and that's only the tip of the iceberg and I'm pretty sure there is more to it. the kids don't like their father and have already realised at their age how terrible he is, not every child comes to think that far at that age but if it happens, we should take it even more seriously because the children k n o w and show how it is. some children can be in denial as well so I'm glad the kids know. these experiences will stay with the children forever, even if their mind may repress it with older age, the body keeps count. my hopes, unrealistic probably for this family, is that the mother/wife divorces the husband/father and/or the kids can go on to live peacefully without the influence of their, excuse my language, shit-excuse of a father and all around totally an asshole. life is tough for the mother and the three kids.
there is so much to unpack but i'll stop there. this show has had some concern matters that fall under the category of "Please contact a professional to help you get out of that dangerous and/or toxic situation!", but have been laughed off and normalised, seriously! it's not a cultural thing either, which i have seen some people mention often in cases like these. abuse is abuse, no talking around it. anyway i don't want to drag this out too much but please protect and support children and people who are victims of domestic abuse instead of laughing over these concerns and normalising! :)
(also i am kinda concerned how so many people fuss very dramatically over the smaller concerns, which are valid as well of course, but damn really....)
Rise Monsta X, rise!
Tbh,, I don't support this program,, I just came here to support my boys Monsta X. 💕
Monsta X 😻😻😻😻
I’ve been waiting for this 💚😽😽😽
Omg those triplets are so cute 😂
I feel sorry for Joohoney and Minhyuk because Yonseo doesn't know them. Don't think about it too much, you've tried hard. we Monbebe will always support you KING!!!
about the first concern, they should have talked about children before getting married.
also i hated the way everyone laughed at the young couple for not wanting children, why?? i'm 16 and i already know that i'm not going to have children?? i've knew it for many many years
Ikr! And it's annoying how they keep talking about how ''great'' it is to have a child... but not about the sleepless nights, the struggles of caring and the financial part of it. And not everyone likes children or likes to have a child, they should've talked about this before marriage, you can't just force him to have a child.
I get you. When I told my teachers that I didn't want my own child (they asked first), they said that having your own child is a really wonderful thing, and I get it but my reasoning for my opinion is that firstly, I don't want to deal with the pain of pregnancy and childbirth. Secondly, the main reason is that there are a lot of children that need loving homes. I love children, but I don't want my own because there are so many other children that need a lot of tlc.
@@blackdahlia_kv exactly! i want to live a free life, without having to think about someone else's well-being before my own. i'm scared that i won't be a good parent, because i know i wouldn't be, i need so much of my own time and i have bad mental health so i couldn't take the responsibility.
also, in my family, there's many people with cancer, alcoholism and mental disorders and i don't want to take the risk of my child having some kind of serious illness.
They laughed because they're too young to understand the longing for children. You have different priorities when you're older, thus the laughter. I never wanted children when I was your age, now I cannot wait to start a family. A human's brain doesn't fully develop until you're about 20 years old - we all change over time. That's why they all laughed (:
They were not laughing at them, they were laughing because they were them. Having children is not for everybody. I also said I didn't want children when I 14, I am now 20 I know I still don't want to give birth to children but I would love to adopt a child due to my fondness of children. My mum always wanted to have children since she was a teenager, she always wanted 2 girls and she had 2 girls. That was her actually one of her dreams but because she had us so young she couldn't fulfil her other dreams. That alone made me very apprehensive of having children not to mention the enormous amount of strain children put on a marriage if the marriage doesn't have a good foundation. Even after having my sister and me, my mum would always take us orphanages to volunteer and take care of children without mothers as well as special needs children so that made me want to adopt. We are all influenced by our environment so as much as you want to say you've always known that you don't want children but there may come a day that you meet a person that makes you think that having a child might not be a bad thing. Your 20s are the time you get to explore all the thoughts that you had as a teenager. Not trying to be rude just saying you never know what happens in life, being open to change is the best way to avoid regrets.
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