Guests:Yang Donggeun,KimBomin,Park Sungkwang,Lee Hyeonju,Alberto[Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.07.23]

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  • @waterbolt873yl
    @waterbolt873yl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    The guy in the first concern literally just said he doesn't get jealous but 5 mins later he says he's jealous of his own son? I can't really understand him...obviously the mum needs to focus on her child since hes only 7 months old, does he just get jealous of his kid instead of caring for him too? I think he has too much pride and ego to accept that although his wife was harsh, he needs to act like an adult since he's a father now. (Not saying the blame is entirely on him however.)

  • @nikadlina3582
    @nikadlina3582 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Can I just say how much I like Alberto? He's so nice and wise, full of manners, and literally just everything. His wife is so lucky and vice versa. I always like watching him since Abnormal Summit and pretty sure I binge watched it because of him. Can't any shows always have him as a guest (or might as well just as one of the main cast)? He's good in variety shows too, always have some funny lines. Where can I get another Alberto though really?

    • @ericsetiady4928
      @ericsetiady4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He often on show MY neighbor charles

  • @jhazandpeach
    @jhazandpeach 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The guy in the second concern IS OVERFLOWING WITH OPTIMISM AND KINDNESS this world is so dangerous for him. But at the same time I admire his pure considerate heart. I'm just sad that the only person he's not considerate is his own self. I wish he meets good people that would not take advantage of him.

  • @youtubeaccount6625
    @youtubeaccount6625 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I am so tired to hear the "we were dating then, now a family "excuse. I'm not dating those guys and I feel like I already have heard this sentence a thousands times.

  • @Koselill
    @Koselill 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This reminds me so much of my brother. He used to do all sorts of favors, lend money, jump across a bridge to make his friends happy... but.. when he stopped doing those things.. 95% of his friends left him.. They were never friends.. they never repayed him.. They just used him. I feel for this man, just like my brother.

    • @ericsetiady4928
      @ericsetiady4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like alberto said good guy complex

  • @Maya-dw5jz
    @Maya-dw5jz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Tbh they got married because she got pregnant if she wasn't pregnant then I don't think they would be together and what not. I mean how can the father say to remarry and that the baby wouldn't know who the father is ???????????
    Clearly that shows he didn't want the baby in the first place. Its actually fucked up that the wife and baby has to suffer because of him. Also the wife should really stop belittling him, I understand that and he did say it hurt his ego but he didn't tell any of it to his wife he kept it to himself and distanced himself away from her. They both needed to talk it out together properly and if that doesn't work then couple counselling ? I'm glad they come onto this show because it did give them an insight of where they both went wrong. I hope they can talk further and sort it out and be happy.

  • @M-123kh
    @M-123kh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    About the first concern, I am sorry but he obviously wants to end this marriage. I hate the fact that he is playing the victim's rule when he is not!! You should be the one to apologize to her, "u don't earn enough" so what if she said that? She haven't recieved even a dollar from u so it's more than normal for her to say that!!
    I wish she could just leave him, take her son and start a new life. She is still young and beautiful and I am sure she will find a better man who will truly love her and treat her better. And only then this shitty husband will figure out how blessed he was and what he has lost and I would love to see that coming to be honest.

    • @nadia2883
      @nadia2883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      problem is he is full of crappy confidence like he said i am too good for her you fucking bastard are a low life frankly speaking she could do so much better you dont have the fucking sense to appreciate her dumb ass and she has to be the so called bad person for ditching your fucking sorry ass? seriously that bitch deserves to be solo if he cant play home well with oposite gender

    • @roserenity526
      @roserenity526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree with you!

    • @roserenity526
      @roserenity526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And last when they had to talk seriously about what they think after saying this concern, the husband didn't care it and it seemed he doesn't like her truly... he has to agree and no only thinking about he has all of the reasons in the world. DISGUST.

    • @elledumble
      @elledumble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can't believe people are taking her side blindly! She belittles him every chance she gets! He used to worship the ground she walks on and she's the one who thinks she's superior! Towards the end you can tell how much he is hurting when he starts sobbing! It's clear that he was just acting indifferent to protect himself! Who would want to get intimate with someone who constantly belittles them? Even mentioning that other men hit on her is a way to show that she is better than him and all it does is ruin the relationship. I think he became numb after one particular incident! I once dated a guy who acted like her! Belittling, bragging about girls hitting on him, commenting on girls' butt pics on Instagram etc at some point I was just too tired of the relationship and I left! No one is worth it!

    • @Mochiii1009
      @Mochiii1009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@elledumble that’s the difference between you two. The guy in the first concern still married her despite her attitude. She was already showing her true self from the start. He could have just left her if he’s really that hurt and yet he still married her and acting like all of this is his wife’s fault. He’s also taking revenge instead of talking it out like adults. I’m not siding the wife here cause i also don’t like her attitude but both of them are at fault here and only the wife is acknowledging her mistake and willing to make this marriage work.

  • @lengsenghong9591
    @lengsenghong9591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    That husband in the first concern! arggggggh why do so many korean husband behave like this once they got married to their GF?

    • @_anshin_anshin
      @_anshin_anshin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kpop Itz Bae because misogyny is engrained in korean culture.

    • @kukukaka2080
      @kukukaka2080 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thinks that not only in korea.. In my country had trait like that..

    • @Kekkeri59
      @Kekkeri59 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its not misogyny its just being a stubborn idiot and not accepting own mistakes

    • @bichy_me5801
      @bichy_me5801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not only in Korea, most guys around the globe are like that. It's annoying, depressing and disgusting.

  • @justdal
    @justdal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Am i the only one who miss Jung Chan Woo Arjushi 😢😢

    • @godjez4894
      @godjez4894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kaung Pyae where did he go?

    • @iremkocagoz2875
      @iremkocagoz2875 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      he left the show due to health issues

    • @waterbolt873yl
      @waterbolt873yl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I was just thinking that too. He brings so much to the show, i hope he gets well soon.

    • @justdal
      @justdal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God Jez He’s now taking a rest due to a mental disorder

    • @ericsetiady4928
      @ericsetiady4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah he is the savage character

  • @cassiedonald9890
    @cassiedonald9890 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    With the first concern, I think it's the way the korean society is set up in my opinion. Just because you get pregnant for someone doesn't mean you have to marry them you could be co parents. It's obvious that the husband may not have had marriage in mind when he was dating her but because of the whole pregnancy thing it made their marriage seemed force rather than something they both want

  • @kimborassecondwife
    @kimborassecondwife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    59:57 his expression was so funny😂 like his world brightened at once

  • @esml373
    @esml373 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The first concern shows coming to this program can help some people. The wife didn't even know her wrongdoings herself! they had to reach other and talk about why they were mad at each other but couldn't do it cause the resentment was too big. I usually want to strangle every husband on this show but this time i kind of understand him. He's not right but in a patriarchal society like SK, men have to be the breadwinner and not being able to provide for your family is already humiliating enough, being belittled by his wife must have hurt his pride really bad!

  • @amethystgold8299
    @amethystgold8299 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dongyeop’s face at 59:57 😂 I cant

  • @priscilamorales9834
    @priscilamorales9834 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The guy with the second concern, I need his Instagram

    • @AnnaAnzi
      @AnnaAnzi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      same tho

    • @rabi.7bi
      @rabi.7bi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Priscila Morales 😂

    • @itsl5706
      @itsl5706 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameeee

    • @caratmia97
      @caratmia97 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ divide93 🙊🙊😋

    • @judy9035
      @judy9035 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg how did you know this hahahahah

  • @ericsetiady4928
    @ericsetiady4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kim taegyun really entertaining as always

  • @DefineMorena
    @DefineMorena 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just realised one of the guests was the teacher in the kdrama I Am Sam! 😂

  • @AmethystKaianna
    @AmethystKaianna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    With the first concern I get how they're both at fault and I think the hosts and guests did a good job of addressing both sides. However I tended to side with the wife because she actually apologised for what she said, sincerely. I thought that was so important. She saw she had done wrong with her words and she apologised to him. And yet her husband could not apologise for his side of the mistakes. I feel his heart had turned a little hard and like he said it's going to take them a long time to solve them. But if he doesn't open his heart, that will never happen.

  • @nannn1992
    @nannn1992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THE GUY FROM THE SECOND CONCERN IS TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NICE (‘:

  • @ragadevotrr7375
    @ragadevotrr7375 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "she is like a unicorn....!" wahahaha

  • @harrym.9536
    @harrym.9536 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Those who said husband and wife in the first concern are at fault must be out of mind. If she talked down on him over the money before marriage, isn't he foolish to get married? That guy is totally a jerk. She deserves someone better with her capability and beauty.

    • @Mintkitten008
      @Mintkitten008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was pregnant. It was basically a marriage of convenience, because unmarried women with a kid are looked down upon in korea (sadly). But that, kids, is why one should use condoms! Less stress and no unhappy marriage out of responsibility.

  • @juparisa6266
    @juparisa6266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I think its not only the husband's fault i think its his wife's fault as well. They need to talk it out and try to work on their relationship

    • @harrym.9536
      @harrym.9536 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How could she talk when he talked down on her like a fish in the tank!!!

    • @juparisa6266
      @juparisa6266 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Harry Zach He did it because the wife also hurted his ego by talking about his job and salary

    • @harrym.9536
      @harrym.9536 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She talked to him about that even before dating. Isn't he foolish to marry her if she talked to him that way? Plus, this doesn't include his hidden debt.

    • @juparisa6266
      @juparisa6266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Harry Zach Ik all that but u cannot clap with one hand and it didn't start from where we think it is there is more to it. How is it solely husband's fault? He hid the fact about his debt cuz he was already ashamed for not earning so much and when his wife taunted him about that it hurted his pride and feelings. The wife is at fault too even if the wife's fault is lesser than her husband but still. U can see the guilt and shame in his eyes when he cried. They surely need some time together talk with each other and if it still doesn't work then give up.

    • @harrym.9536
      @harrym.9536 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm not saying the wife is blameless. It's just his reason that doesn't weigh up to the damage he's done. You can see in His last statement that clearly shows his true color.

  • @natk29
    @natk29 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Yep like someone else said... in the 1st concern the wife is as guilty as the husband. I myself was getting kind of angry during the whole part because of how they were kind of forcing the issue being the husband's fault -_-

  • @serenaleardi.1995
    @serenaleardi.1995 ปีที่แล้ว

    The nice thing about this TV show is that every person has a story to tell, good or bad, and I like that! Alberto has a particular charm in the way he presents himself, he is a very polite person, we Italians are like that (of course, not all of us are) I think this depends on a person's character and how he was educated since he was a child! The story that struck me the most was that of the employer who lends money to his friends to help them but in doing so he risks running out of money by dint of helping and I too was like him with people close to me! Once I lent money to my ex boyfriend because he wasn't working at the time and neither did I (the money I had was given to me since my birthday by my relatives) I was so good to him that after a few months later he downloaded and this made me suffer a lot! Then, I was also struck by the story of the short boy because I am too but I've never had problems relating to people..

  • @i_am_aditi224
    @i_am_aditi224 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    not every married couple love each other i dont get why they always expect these kind of men to love their wife

  • @stephanies_diary
    @stephanies_diary 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    MEN HAVE MORE PRIDE??? GET OVER YOURSELF. SHE WAS OBVIOUSLY DOING EVERYTHING AND GOT UPSET HE WAS OVER HIS HEAD IN THIS >:( HE WOULD BE BANKRUPT IF IT WEREN'T FOR HER PROBABLY......

  • @MoonTsismis
    @MoonTsismis 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ang haba ng buhok ni Sandara Park. Ibang level ang ganda. Ikaw na!!

  • @arhiannasong8701
    @arhiannasong8701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First concern is so unfortunate.. That is why we need to communicate and choose our word carefully..

  • @Momo-vo9io
    @Momo-vo9io 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For the 2nd concern how is it possible for you to think of yourself as a "good person", helping people in need when you don't/can't even pay your employees? You think that would be at the top of your list. He believes in not causing harm to other buts he is so inconsistent as he is harming all his employees. It's always interesting to see and hear how people justifying selfish and harmful behavior to paint themselves as 'good'.

  • @jungkooksbeautifulvoice7326
    @jungkooksbeautifulvoice7326 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's been a while since the last episode with no idols and it feels weird 😂

  • @c-f989
    @c-f989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Savage af and totally right 1:40

  • @jjwsvtk9987
    @jjwsvtk9987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I found the last guy's instagram lol

    • @aquene8517
      @aquene8517 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh really? what is it?

    • @itsl5706
      @itsl5706 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How about the second one

    • @_yoori_157
      @_yoori_157 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its Lein @divide93

  • @nini-jo6iy
    @nini-jo6iy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg the second concern reminds me of japanese drama Binbo Danshi 😭😭

  • @sandralinamcmurray3646
    @sandralinamcmurray3646 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When BTS Boy In Luv played,I lost it 😂💀

  • @mieshaizzlove5209
    @mieshaizzlove5209 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jung chan woo were not there.. That is why i feel some lost.. But i didn't realize until i read the comment below

  • @jjf7525
    @jjf7525 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 여친 어떻게 사귀냐는 조언 알베가 할 때 친구들 모두 귀가 쫑긋해서 경청하는거 귀여움

  • @AF-mb9yl
    @AF-mb9yl 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I read comment section is all about first and second concern. I hear third concern and make me thinking of myself tho 😂

  • @khushiverma8146
    @khushiverma8146 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Second case was quite frustrating😤.

  • @salmaben4914
    @salmaben4914 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    most men are like that, they show a different side of them to win you over but once they get married they stop show their true colors and stop trying; like "i won the prize i was chasing after it's mine now so no effort needed". I really hate that

  • @line_2411
    @line_2411 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    does anyone else hear the "what the" at around @56:49 or nah? XD

  • @wani4537
    @wani4537 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wahahahaha they played Boy In Luv at 58:33

  • @angelina8276
    @angelina8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn’t understand the meaning . Men have more pride than women ? I don’t know how should I take it . Please anyone explain it to me .

  • @rueexxi
    @rueexxi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The first concern should've won...........

  • @Najmi107
    @Najmi107 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    how ridiculously illogical was his first argument, Jesus

  • @angelsis2222
    @angelsis2222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last concern guy looks so Mexican to me. Hard to believe he is Korean.

  • @Noormheod
    @Noormheod 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally early

  • @whattheheck6084
    @whattheheck6084 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Husbands friend from first concern looks like Sehun😂who agrees😂😂😂

  • @joyepete7477
    @joyepete7477 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happened to Chanwoo

  • @abijo
    @abijo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:12:06 SANDARA PARK kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk and they all just couldnt say a word!!!! kkkkk talk abour dreams

  • @gladitsnotme
    @gladitsnotme 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The husband in the first concern is immature AF. The way he referred to her as "his", as if he owns her so now he doesn't have to work at the relationship... ew. How he acts like she's a dog to be trained: "I should have been nice to her gradually." She's a fucking human, you can't own her, and anyway, you are the same person now. A husband and wife are ONE, not two separate people. And then to top it all off, he's a shit father. "Get remarried, the kid won't know it's his stepfather." The hell kind of thing is that to say?! Don't you care about raising your own child?! God, so many males all over the world are such horrible people. If I ever have a son I'll do everything in my power to raise him right and not allow him to be around toxic, idiot little boys at school/work. I guarantee that's where they're picking up this mess from.

  • @rru3734
    @rru3734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    저 남자 맘 떴다

  • @honeymelonade
    @honeymelonade 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why can't people cross their legs? Do they lose their flexibility as they get older and sit in chairs more often?

    • @hylahyuk4279
      @hylahyuk4279 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sugar Parfait no, it's just that foreigner most of the time are taller

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ak bat mai juniyar kalakaro ko bolna chahta hoo aap kabhibhi bikni ke liye tayarmat honaapna kala pe bhrosa karo said se kuchh nahi karna padega nirmata to sudher jaye bikni dimag se nikalde espe to bend lagna chahiye kiya dekhte hai sarakar khali kurshi ka maja lete hai apne janta ko dekhne kifursat hi nahi hai esliye to sekdo salo sebikni ka sow chalraha hai esse seena ucha nahi hota sir jhuk jata hai tabto log boldete hai aapkiya jano kalcher kiya hai aap waisa sow ya ladki ko na kataye fir kou ugli nahi uthaga samjhe achhibate koi bole use lena auor madad karna chahiye wo nahi jante ki jisne banya usi ko aap apman karte ho ladki ko lakshmi samjgo abhi bhi waqt hai sudhar karo ok

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ak bat sare nir mata se bolna chahata hoo apni soch badle aap ak hi soch liye hai ki chhote bikani se sow popler hota hai per hum kahte hai es se kala kar ki chhabi kharab hoti hai bikna ka no tes mai eske khilafhoo auor ak bat kiya fullkapdo me achhi nahi lagti hai kiya feshan modal sab ak hi soch bikni chhote kapde me sunder ladkiyo ko janta ke bich numais hotihai peruse ksla ka namdete ho kala ke namdene se galat sahi nahi ho jayega nanganangahi hota hai kala nahi samjhe nasare nirmata sudher jaye nahi to narak me bhi jagahnahimilegi betibahut anmol hoti haiuska koi kimat nahi de sakta chahe duniya ka kitana bhi bada many wala hobikni to hatna chahiye kitne ladkiya esse khush nahi rahti wo to star ke chslte maj boorho jati hai esliye tayar ho jati hai kabhi us ladki dil ka hall jana hai ak yang ladki ak bude niramata ke pas bikni me tes de wo nirmata se puchhna chshta hookibikni me kiya dekhte ho kiya kala hotihsibikni me jawab jarur de ok

  • @elledumble
    @elledumble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At first I was angry at 1st concern guy but it looks like his macho attitude is a defence mechanism. She constantly puts him down and humiliates him in front of other people. She obviously thinks she's better than him. Even mentioning other men hitting on her is a way to show him that she's better!

  • @espinozafafa7645
    @espinozafafa7645 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    THE FIRST ONE just get a divorce and do not ask me why !!!!!!

  • @TahOgawa1
    @TahOgawa1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate the husband in first concern.
    If they couldn't talk while dating there is no reason to get marry. A happy relationship need comunication, JUST TALK PEOPLE.
    And wtf with this pride thing? Be an adult, marriage is not a competition.
    USE
    CONTRACEPTIVE
    METHODES

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mai apne juniyar ko jo khud gana likhate hai ward sahi chune apne aap super hoga kapde mayane nahi rakhte agar ward sahi likha ho acting awaj gana darama ki kshni achhi ho to kapde bedab pahne kijarurat nahi kala dekhte ho ya sarir abhi bhi purane me bahut dam hai sachi ward gawoge to sadiyo gana sune ga jamana choklet gana bas pal bhar hi chalta hai uske bad koi nahi sunta haimere juniyar me bahut dam hai basrte sahi darama sahi gana sahi acatsahi pesak kare mujhe pura yakin hai balaster hoga bas sahi ward ka gana de ok

  • @natasha.l.a842
    @natasha.l.a842 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just think that the first guy is not ready for marriage.. He's too childish.. How come a husband and a father act like that.

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Basgana sunane ka maqsad yehi hai ki ward se maine sajaya kahi kuchh hataya nahi kiya super nahi hai soch sahi ho ni chhahiye bas ok

  • @chidyesther3
    @chidyesther3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why is everyone blaming the husband in the first concern? Don't you know men too have feelings and can get badly hurt? She's obviously very rude to her husband and that's why he's bottled up all these emotions and can't seem to forgive her. She keeps bringing him down when he's doing his best to take care of them.
    I don't know why they always side with the wives in this show, men too can get hurt.

  • @cuttinol
    @cuttinol 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For the second concern, I don't feel bad for that man at all! He's a willing fool that willingly gives his money out like it's water falling from the sky. The only person I do feel bad for is myself that I don't have a fool like him on hand to befriend cuz honey I got this sallie mae loan that ain't no joke. Would be great to have some fool footing that bill for me every month.

  • @EroiKuma
    @EroiKuma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    16:33 34:08 this is why I love her so much