மாமியார் Vs மருமகள் உறவுமுறை | Mother-In-Law vs Daughter-In-Law | Sainthavi's Prespective

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  • Mother-In-Law vs Daughter-In-Law Relationship | Sainthavi's View
    In this insightful vlog, join me, Sainthavi, as I delve into the complex and often intriguing relationship between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law. 🌟 With my experiences and observations, I aim to shed light on the dynamics defining this unique bond.
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  • @SainthavisKitchen
    @SainthavisKitchen  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mother-In-Law vs Daughter-In-Law Relationship | மாமியார் Vs மருமகள் உறவுமுறை my Prespective - Let me know what do you think?

  • @beenasai3910
    @beenasai3910 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely correct 👍💯 sister.. மிகவும் முக்கியமான மற்றும் அருமையான கருத்து உரையாடல்... நான் நிறைய பேர் பார்த்திருக்கிறேன்.. நல்ல வீடியோ சிஸ்ட்டர்... முடிந்தவரை பகிரவும்..உதவியாக இருக்கும் யாரோ ஒருவர் இந்த வீடியோ பார்த்து நல்ல முறையில் நடந்து கொள்ள முடியும்...

  • @navaneethambalasubrahmaniy4103
    @navaneethambalasubrahmaniy4103 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Glad people are fully focused on watching your videos

  • @bharathys1366
    @bharathys1366 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's a very good open conversation. I really appreciate it will be a eye-opener for this young generation to learn this so that we can eliminate the problems in future

  • @sreekomathi5470
    @sreekomathi5470 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very clear explanation dear❤

  • @Fab40s
    @Fab40s หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I believe it isn’t about control but about who is more special or is given priority , actually they both have their own roles and place in husband/son’s life. Once they have maturity to realise that and do not cross each other’s space , cordial relationship can be maintained.

  • @shanthanatarajan4625
    @shanthanatarajan4625 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent conversation ma. Love watching your podcasts and videos. Please keep it coming.

  • @navaneethambalasubrahmaniy4103
    @navaneethambalasubrahmaniy4103 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always straight forward Saindhavi 👍🏻❤️

  • @TheSubha23
    @TheSubha23 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    @saindhavi Recently I got recommendations for your videos and I did not subscribe immediately after watching few videos got addicted and subscribed. Watched all your videos there is no drama and you make me feel like I want to be your friend. Please continue you the good work and also post more video so I can watch you daily as stress buster 😊. I never comment on most videos but wanted to appreciate your work as you really impressed me😊

  • @saranyamahendran7935
    @saranyamahendran7935 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Sainthavi , i have recently came across your channel and the India trip vlog was the first video i watched . You came across as a bossy woman 😅 but after watching few other videos of yours i felt how bold and dynamic you are . I was watching this entire video without skipping a minute and i literally fell in love the way you articulated. Im a married woman with two kids even after 16 years of marriage i dont know sometimes how to handle my relationship with my SIL and MIL .

    • @SainthavisKitchen
      @SainthavisKitchen  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🙂very kind of you

  •  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You're doing a really good job with your vlogs! We are new to the bay area and would like detailed information about starting middle school. Please do a video thoroughly covering middle school. It will be useful for a lot of viewers who have kids going to middle school this fall.
    Thank you !

  • @deepakarthigeyan1221
    @deepakarthigeyan1221 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True words sain,everyone should make a line not to cross,clearly explains..bold talk as always..keep doing more.

  • @karunakaranelumalai1737
    @karunakaranelumalai1737 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Saindhavi ❤
    Hello Vinoth sir❤
    Arumayana conversation 👌
    Uga 2 peroda thoughts.., nice
    Ammaum irundhirunthaal avaga karuthayum kettirikalam .Enna porutha varaikum THANI MANITHA SUTHANDHIRAM.....kadai pidithal naladhu.YETRA THAZHU pakkama ....Avagga avaggala avagga avagala vazha vidanum .....VITTUDU VAGALA ..... ????. than😌

  • @hemasuresh4686
    @hemasuresh4686 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dear Sain & Vinodh - As I have mentioed this before - You guys are hilarious... The last 2 mins talk that Sain was concerned (about Price Harry and King Charles) unrelated to the topic made me laugh so much that made my eyes teary (due to continuous laughing)👏. Beautifully ended the video.
    Thank you so much for discussing this topic with such humility and openness. LOL😆 there's no doubt you guys will be very good and understanding in-laws for both your daughter-in-laws. If I'm laughing out loud watching this video, I can only imagine how I would have felt, If I had truly sat with you guys in person and have had this discussion😅. Like minds think alike! I honestly feel that we will be very good friends/neighbors. Please let me know your contacts and I would love to talk and possibly even visit with you guys when we travel to CA.
    On a serious note, this is the most candid topic that you both have discussed about and its really wonderful and most importantly very useful for all - young, old, middle, whatever the generation be. Communication is "the key". One has to speak their mind and express their personality. The listener should always have the open-mindedness. A simple, constructive conversation (with no judgment or jealousy or anger) will honestly solve all the misunderstandings, IMHO. These last three sentences go both ways (to the one who speaks and also to the one who listens). There's no "one size fits all" OR "ths is the right/wrong way". Bottom line is "Understanding". This is what we have heard in those (my days) days - "Vittu kuduthu poganum". This whole discussion - I could not agree more with you both. Kudos to both of you on bringing this sensitive topic and having a direct, candid discussion. Once again thank you so much for 1. Discussing this topic and 2. Making me laugh out loud. You guys made my Friday, a great day! Can't wait for more such useful and hilarious vidoes. Thank you, thank you and thank you more🥰

  • @lakshyvadi
    @lakshyvadi หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Usually I don’t comment in videos . But this topic well covered saindhavi akka 🎉🎉

  • @dwarakabalaashowintamil1813
    @dwarakabalaashowintamil1813 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ok ma. Good advice.

  • @srimalisrini2262
    @srimalisrini2262 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mamiyar, marumagal rendu perum magano husbando vituku vanthathum avangala pathi ivanga ivangala pathi avanga complaint pannama irunthale life smooth ah pogum, athuve mamiyaraium marumagalaium rendu perume purinchikittu santhosama irupanga ithu ennoda purithal. Nice topic. What you said it is correct , what vinod said is correct, 👏👏

  • @radhikakannan2147
    @radhikakannan2147 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mountain house la Patti mandapam “.Hereafter no need to bring Salaman papaiya “ for patti mandapam.😀.Subject was awesome.Everyone should stand in their respective place,(be it mom,son,daughter SIS,MIL.

  • @raghunathan68
    @raghunathan68 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent explanation about the relationship between mil and dil.I am a mother in law in my seventy plus age .As you said,I follow Ramana Maharishi,Summa iru.For the last three years most part of the year I am with my son.My husband is mostly silent.But I have been a teacher,so like to talk any topic.But keeping the harmony of the family I am casual,doing things what I can do in the kitchen and then quietly mind my work.My son and daughter-in-law are very nice in all matters.both of them are scientists.So I still enjoy the stay with them.But I like your arguments.

  • @user-wx1pj2sm9d
    @user-wx1pj2sm9d หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your channel

  • @priyapraveen4462
    @priyapraveen4462 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovely video akka ❤

  • @turssrturssr7411
    @turssrturssr7411 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very nice and useful video.humorously you both covered all the topics in family relationships.are you became citizens of USA..?if so your parent’s are in green cards…?then whom you are going to sponsor first ?one more question I almost saw all your videos from your recent trip to Chennai to back to back from 6 year’s (if the number of years may wrong please excuse me,in your videos I didn’t found house buying video details.if you did that blog please post again or make a fresh video on “what all the formalities,how to search a property and decision making etc”this my request.nandni vanakkam ❤

    • @SainthavisKitchen
      @SainthavisKitchen  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sure will do thank you 🙏🏽
      Appreciate your time and effort and thank you for the love ❤️ 🤗

  • @sarikaumesh631
    @sarikaumesh631 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi such a candid open conversation that I’m inclined to give my feedback - I think drawing that line or expectation isn’t as easy esp when sons are very attached to moms …because that itself can cause issues e.g if I set an expectation that I cannot make coffee or breakfast early when In-laws come overseas as I get up late , that itself will cause my husband to feel bad it ends up impacting our relationship as well . Plus they way you said rarely in-laws takeover kitchen so it’s always partial responsibility so causes lines being blurred on who does what etc if the husband is not receptive to these lines/boundaries it’s not possible to set them - think you should address that as well. What if husband makes these requests to us - can you make breakfast or coffee for them as they are aged that’s when it conflicts with ours 😂sorry for making it complex

  • @jeenupriya2427
    @jeenupriya2427 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sister u speak absolutely crt ❤

  • @navaneethambalasubrahmaniy4103
    @navaneethambalasubrahmaniy4103 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How many people get to control man in her life?
    Man has to be more matured to communicate mindfully with both mother and wife.
    But lots of sacrifices are done on both ends.
    As you said boundaries 😊

  • @harshitha7442
    @harshitha7442 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost my mom n dad ..in my situation wat to do..am n abroad..i hv to go with my mothervjn law..

  • @anuradhavijayakumar1726
    @anuradhavijayakumar1726 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idi thangi velai ippo kammi aiduchi in this generation..,girls r smart enough..,Right from day 1 setting d boundaries..,gone were d days were gents were putting d conditions as in manal kayiru movie..,now vice-versa..,whether she is a house wife r a working woman she needs kitchen closed during d weekend, vocation, blah blah..,living d life in their own terms..,many mamiyars r adjusting otherwise family ll b broken..,it's happening in India these days..,ippo ellam ponnu kedaikurade peraiya vishayam 😮..,in between beautiful conversation u n Vinoth 😀👌..,i always luv your podcasts..,expecting more n more❤

  • @Purnimakiran
    @Purnimakiran หลายเดือนก่อน

    Prince harry Appam tenga paal... ultimate😂
    Love all your videos ❤

  • @priyadharshini8806
    @priyadharshini8806 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi sainthavi, please upload haircare routine video.

  • @user-tj8hl2tg4v
    @user-tj8hl2tg4v หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally Saithavi will be gd understanding mother in law
    No worries for Thawin and vi😂
    Always indian ladies as a wife rule husband then as amma rule son they don't give a space for daughter in law
    We girls always cover up the complaints from appa amma side on our husband we do more than husband doing for us in his place .

  • @MuhamedAneesh
    @MuhamedAneesh หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy

  • @raghunathan68
    @raghunathan68 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am Mrs.Visalam Raghunathan.

  • @pdstravelvlogs926
    @pdstravelvlogs926 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Line draw panni ena prayojanam. Eraser vachi azhichidarangale 😂

  • @Sowmya.36936
    @Sowmya.36936 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s better not to get married at all. Just earn and feed yourself .

  • @sudhathanikachalam2446
    @sudhathanikachalam2446 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exactly husband not spend time even with wife

  • @MuhamedAneesh
    @MuhamedAneesh หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good morning

  • @jeenupriya2427
    @jeenupriya2427 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Annaa neega sonnaa ok but yanga life partner sonnaa☠️👹

  • @MuhamedAneesh
    @MuhamedAneesh หลายเดือนก่อน

    How are you

  • @user-wx1pj2sm9d
    @user-wx1pj2sm9d หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can you be my Anbu thankachchi

  • @MuhamedAneesh
    @MuhamedAneesh หลายเดือนก่อน

    Neega.eppa.enga.maaaa