I have quit just yesterday after 10 years of playing soccer...I went through a bit of a breakdown and stuff because i loved game of soccer but it has changed by years and i
I’ve tried about every sport there is and I hate all of them. I don’t get why my parents force me to play if it only makes me miserable. It’s a waste of time. 😞
Video game has taken over my life and I used to love sports and outside activities now I’m addicted to playing video games like fortnite... My mom is very mad plz help and I’m not happy and I want to die
bwheels40 have you quit yet? Just tell him straight up that it doesnt interest you anymore. That your sorry but its true. You dont wanna be in something that doesn’t interest you and you wanna do other hobbies and if he loves you. He would be open minded and let you be.
Exactly they tell me I’m “being lazy” but how am I supposed to put all my energy into something I don’t actually care about? No wonder why I look “lazy” 🙄 make it make sense!!!!!!
My parents won't let me quit basketball because I told them I wasn't able to deal with the pressure the coach put me in. I am just not enjoying the sport anymore. I really don't know how to convince them that it's not for me anymore. My dad is also involved in my sport and told me that I could not quit because he is involved. I use to love basketball, but now I have pressure from everyone around me and I get hurt every time my parents wave away my opinion on the issue.
@Oaty's Life oh btw I'm a heavyweight, so I'm 70+. It happened May 4th, my opponent was 50 kg heavier than me and broke my left legs two bones at the knee... it was a bad break.. my bones fully healed but my nerve is damaged, from that day I still can't pull me foot and fingers up... fuck that bitch
I've been playing basketball since first grade and I'm a sophomore now. High school basketball just isn't what I thought it was gonna be. I'm always nervous and freak out before every game and practice. It's not fun anymore and there are other things I want to do. Every since I picked up guitar I've realized that that's my true passion and that I'm done being someone I'm not for my parents. My mom completely understands and supports me but my dad is a huge sports fan and won't accept me quitting. Is there anything I can say or do to make him more understanding? I'm tired of being a disappointment. UPDATE: Almost 2 years later and I just wanted to say that I did it. About a year ago I quit sports and I can finally be myself and do what makes me happy. I hope this encourages someone else to stand up for their happiness :)
Same thing has been happening to me with basketball been playing since I was 5 I’m a junior I’m good but it is too much stress and I hate it now I told my parents I want to quit and they won’t let me said I can’t now because all the money they spent and I need to play and get a scholarship for College I told them I will keep playing but idk what to do
I was that dad, but realized the error of my ways, and am supporting my kid through this decision. Glad you had the courage to do it. I would fully support a passion like guitar, but sorry, am not going to have him quit just so he can play video games.
Yea I know how you feel the coaches act like its the major leagues. They are so worried about the stats and getting the damn trophy that they act like we’re paid athletes. Like my sport is baseball and I just wanna play the game and have fun with it. They act like we all want to get scholarships to some college and make the sport become our career.
I want to quit hockey too but I’ve played it for 8 years and my dad says that i should play it until im 18 cause right now im going trough puberty so i shouldn’t quit is what he says but i just cant stand it anymore. I’ve started to hate everything about it, its like i want to play hockey for fun sometimes but i can’t cause every other teenager who plays hockey is trying to get to some league and make a career out of it. But thats not what i want to do for the rest of my life but my dad just doesn’t understand. He also has threatened to take away my computer and phone if i don’t start playing hockey again. Can someone tell me what i should tell him to make him understand me?
I feel you. I’m in the same current situation. I’ve been on a swim team for 6 years now it’s just not how it was before. I didn’t even chose to do what I did. And now since I’ve been in it for too long all my parents think is SCHOLARSHIP, SCHOLARSHIPS, SCHOLARSHIPS. It’s not like don’t care about me, it’s just the fact that they don’t care about what makes me happy.
I liked football but HS isn’t fun it’s just WORK,WORK,WORK, get punished for something u did on accident, get punished for something you didn’t do, then work more
i know im young but im only 11 and i've been playing football my whole life and i want to quit because its getting boring but i dont want to disappoint anyone what should i do
I’m 10 years old. My dad makes me train everyday, making me join new teams. I’m in about 4 teams now, and I just don’t like basketball anymore. Basketball has broken my family a bit, my dad is always overreacting even if I miss one shot. I’m being controlled so if I quit basketball, I’d be a mistake. I would ask my parents, but I’m just too scared. What do I do? Tell them or show this video to them. I just want to have a normal life and focus on my studies. GOOD NEWS! my dad is letting me start on focusing on volleyball, he promised me if I am bored with my current sport, I can play volleyball!
I've been playing sports until I was in 3rd grade. I've always felt a love for it but the older I got, the more I realized how much pressure it's gotten. To me sports have gotten to be a feeling I dont have anymore. The more I think about basketball the more I cry and get anxiety. It's the whole thought of being perfect and living to my family's standards. They want the best for me and that being college, but I know for sure they dont want me to quit after putting so much time and effort into me. I feel like such a failure.
I’m 15 and I just got done with my first year of high school baseball and it was awful. I’m planning on quitting after my summer league is over. I have massive anxiety and high school ball just isn’t it.
i am a soccer player i get perform axienty and stress before i play. i fell like i only keep playing to have friends and to not fell like a dissapointment to my dad because that is why we have a strong bond
adrienne cardona yeah same the only reason I still play American football is because of the friends. I hate every practice and I do not even play much in the games. I want to quit and focus on school and powerlifting but I feel like my friends won’t talk to me anymore if I do quit.
@@Ben2608m maybe try make a list of why you don’t want to and how it is affecting your life and then tell him, he might understand more than just being like ‘no’ also, it’s your life and your decisions do it
Idk why but i get anxiety attacks when i practicw for figure skating and im afraid to tell my parents I want to quit because I’m sure they will scream at me, i want to quit because i realize my passion is dancing eversince i was young, but i know my parents will get mad at me 😔😔😔
I was good at sport at school but loathed sport with a passion. I was pushed into being on teams so pushed back the best way I could...I never gave more than 70%. This used to frustrate the hell out of my coaches especially when scouts where watching when I made a point of performing particularly badly. I only ever wanted to be a lawyer which is what I became.
This isn’t the typical post, but I quit soccer when I was 13. I was on the top team in the state and even had college coaches talking to me AT 13! When I joined the top team, it killed my love of the game. My teammates spited me and would even target me in practice because of jealousy. I focused more on soccer than school too. Had no friends. It became so much, that I quit. It’s now 8 years later, and I’ve never regretted my decision more. It haunts me. I found the love for the game again, and I realize the mistake I made. Who knows where I would be in life if I continued playing. Just make sure, that when and if you quit. You are sure of the decision you are making.
My mom won’t let me quit art class, drawing realistic just isn’t my type, I like drawing in my own style (and I gotta say I’m pretty good) and I don’t need art classes to do that. They won’t let me quit even though it’s JUST ART. Please help. Plus I suck at drawing realistic and the kids in my class bully and judge me for it, when I show them my own digital art in my style they think I’m great, HELP
I don’t have necessarily pressure from my parents/family members for me to stay in wrestling but my dad and uncle were both state champs in wrestling and when I told them I wanted to do it they were just so proud... and my mom was very proud because it’s a very hard sport and I’d been working harder then I have in my entire life plus it makes me careful about my hygiene which impressed her even more. I know it would disappoint them immensely for me to quit wrestling because other than that, I don’t think I could play another sport. I have been playing baseball since I was a kid but lots of kids are trying out for the team in high school (I’m a freshman) and I’m not 100 percent sure I’ll make it.. I get a’s and b’s in school but my sister is getting straight a’s with ap classes and my family before me are all very successful so I know I would disappoint everyone because they are so excited to see me wrestle. But I just flat out don’t like it. I have practice 5 days a week and tournaments soon on saturdays... they’re three hour practices and I’m usually very tired out when I get home because we have conditioning with wrestling all in the same practice and that usually affects the amount of hw I do a night. Also I am not progressing like the rest of the team and it’s beginning to frustrate me and my teammates and they often get mad at me when I don’t do things the right way/mess up. So I feel like I’m putting in all this work for nothing and it usually leaves me sad/disappointed after practices... lately I’ve been trying to get out of practice as much as I can which has only slowed my development in the sport down... and also I don’t enjoy the competitiveness of the sport. I’d continue if I liked it despite how much hard work it is but I just don’t enjoy it.. throughout the school day I’m always anxious about going to practice that day and it affects my focus in school and overall makes me unhappy. I want to tell my mom all of this but I don’t know how and I’m afraid of how she’ll react. What should I do?
Just remember this it’s YOUR LIFE do what makes YOU happy forget what anyone else thinks you came to this earth alone and you’ll die alone so do what U want I’m routing for u
I told my mom i wanted to quit karate because it doesnt feel right anymore and she said no but im still working on convincing them, continue to ask them, dont bug them too much, or have an open, calm conversation with your parents and figure out what you think you need to do. Good luck, i hope you get to pursue whatever hobby makes you happy
I’m playing on 2 softball teams at once and it’s really stressful. Travel and school. It’s really draining and it’s making it not fun anymore, it feel more like a job than a hobby at this point
i’m getting anxiety abt basketball i am pretty good at dribbling and shooting but i’m just not good at plays, defense, and offense. i have bad social anxiety too
I want to quit boxing because it makes me have anxiety every night and before training but im scared to tell my dad because I only see him once a week and he bought me boxing gloves and a boxing book
I want to quit volleyball but my mom won't let me. I have panic attacks just thinking about making 1 simple mistake and it's making me emotionality damaged
Do you like the game? You can learn to deal with the performance anxiety. It sounds like you worry too much about playing perfectly in games, which should not be the goal. Focus on helping your team score points, not worrying about mistakes.
i want to quit swim team because coach put me in a too high group for my level and I always get dizzy and feel like throwing up. My mom says she already paid a lot and that she won’t email the coach about moving me down to a lower level (that I was in before)
I play ringette, have played actively for 7 years. I am pretty good at it. I want to quit, because I have lost my passion for it, I get extreme anxiety and fear in tournaments, games, even training and get more negative things than good things from it. I yold my mom this spring that I want to quit. She convinced me to continue this season, which is starting soon. And I really, really want to quit before the season starts.
You can learn to deal with the anxiety and fear - if that's what is hurting your passion for the sport. But if you dread going to practice, that is not a good sign.
I’m 13 and I’ve been playing basketball since kindergarten. at one point I was playing three teams and it was tiring. i just don’t find it fun anymore and it seems more like a chore. my mom understands but my dad is telling me I’m gonna turn out like those girls he always told me about”quitters” I have mental issues and because of corona I’ve been off for almost 5 months now. I get mad everytime he asks me to practice and that should show him that I obviously don’t like it anymore. but he’s also my coach and my cousin and I grew up together playing, she’s working her ass off and I’m here doing nothing. he compares me to my cousin and my friends that play basketball and he barely speaks two words to me a day. unless it’s about the sport or somethin I did wrong. I don’t know what to do. It’s hard for me to say anything to my dad that will make him upset because I care about his feelings more than I do myself. it’s obviously not healthy. what can I do.
I want to quit wrestling because i have too much anxiety with the pain and my failure. I have found other hobbies like lifting by myself or with a friend. I just don't like wrestling and I don't know how to tell my coach that wrestling is just not for me.
Same. I have a similar problem. I’ve been doing karate for 6yrs non stop, no breaks. I’m a belt away from black, but I rlly don’t want it. If I become a black belt i have to teach kids three times a week, no flexibility, (mind you in 12) I really enjoy music, but my parents are forcing me to continue. What should I do?
I hope you quit . But just tell your coach. This doesnt fit your puzzle. That it was fun doing it but one can lose interest. And you dont wanna do it anymore. Stop beating around the bush and the better your outcome will be.
When I made varsity as a freshman for baseball, I was put in such a big role as the ace pitcher and I wasn’t in joying they game anymore due to the pressure and I was putting in 4x the amount of work compared to everyone else and I talked to my mom about it and she told me that I can’t get a car if I quit
Parents try and live through their kids so much these days. It is your sport so it’s your decision. Personally I would rather focus on good grades and the things that make me happy then a sport that i have been playing for 7 years. Baseball has been my number one sport for my whole life and pitching was my strongpoint. Until i was injured and switched to a new team. Even if you are good at the sport just think, do you want to do it on repeat for your entire career. In the MLB your playing constantly, yes your making money, but is it worth your happiness? Your mom shouldn’t be risking the chance of you getting a car for a sport you don’t have a passion for anymore.
I’ve been playing basketball since middle school... I’m now in college playing and i don’t even think i’m tired i’m just so over it. I can’t find my why anymore I love the sport and know i’ll cry if i leave and be hurt but i just don’t love playing anymore it isn’t fun anymore
I struggle with anxiety from gymnastics and it stresses me out. I freak out before every practice, I get worried, and it stays in my head every day and every time I wake up. I do not find joy in the sport anymore because of what it’s done. I play floor hockey and I love that. It’s just so frustrating, because I feel like I will regret it. But I know it will be for the better. I also often find myself over working my self trying to do stuff, I constantly hurt myself on accident doing stuff in the sport. And It’s just not my passion anymore. I think i’m going to quit tonight, but that’s not it I still have hockey and I will always be apart of hockey, along with work outs and I was thinking about trying boxing.
I think you should give a go for boxing. I used to do gymnastics I was so good but I quit because of the stress but if I look back at it I think it was for the better so try new sports and keep the hockey because it helps you find what you really want
I was in taekwondoe from 8 to 13 and I DIDN'T want to quit. My mom made me. I loved it, from my friends there to just nostalgia. The only thing bad was the master. He didnt understand my anxiety when it came to sparring, and my asthma. My mom didnt want to pay for it anymore, too. It sounds weird, but, I feel connected to that place. The smell, the sights, my childhood is there. It saddens me that I will never be there again. Never spar again. My friends that grew up with me, they dont understand why I had to leave. I miss it so much. My mom was talking about maybe joining a different dojo, but that not the same. She was never in any sports. She was in piano when she was my age. What do I do? I want to rejoin tae kwon doe, but I dont want my mom to spend money on it if Im already a black belt.
Haii I am sabrina I’ve been playing softball since I was 15 years out of school activity and yea it was fun and all but suddenly when I turned 16 now I am in high school and I found out that I have bipolar and I get depressed and anxiety and start to lose confineds and I Didn’t love the game anymore and I wanted to quit but my dad wouldn’t let me because he said he paid too much money for this and nobody understands that I am not in love with the game anymore and they don’t understand that I am bipolar everything gets harder for me like my grades are more important then sports 😭😭😭😭
Training is in 30 minutes im shaking I quit for 3 months and was guilt tripped all the way through and now im back. I dont enjoy it its just stressful cuz when I lose the ball out of nervousness i feel so bad I cba
my first soccer practice in over a year is in just hours, idk what to do, they went ahead put me on a team again after i begged to stop playing, they think it was my old teammates that they would too much drama or something but that was not the case at all i just don’t like the game anymore and haven’t for a few years i always dreaded going to practice
I feel really burnt out, I’ve been practicing for hours every day when I can and I am not improving. I had a time where I was scoring and having fun but now I don’t even want to go and I just don’t feel motivated anymore. I always forget what I practice and I’m really not making things happen anymore. I don’t know what to do, but thanks for the video though.
I get performance anxiety that made me loose my passion for the game, but I tried to tell me parents and they just said that I like it but I don’t and I feel like I can’t quit
As someone who has been through many sports I really can’t do this anymore. I do not want to play anymore. My parents then say it’s just because I want to play on my PC. Like, why do parents blame everything on video games. It makes me so mad.
im 13 and i wanna quit volleyball, ive been playing volleyball for 5 years and i honestly don't find this sport interesting. plus, all my teammates hate me for stupid reasons
I’ve been playing softball since I was really little but I’m starting to lose all the passion I’ve ever had for it. The sport seems more like a chore that I need to do now. I’m a junior in high school but I feel like being apart of a school team is something colleges really like to see. That is one of the only reasons why I would continue on with it. I dread going to practice and I find that it really stresses me out but I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried talking to my parents about it and they just seem upset and disappointed that I want to quit. I’m really having a tough time deciding what to do.
I honestly been in wrestling for 4 yrs now and I been wanting to quit for 2 yrs now but my anxiety gets to me because my coach is my science teacher and he will be disappointed in me and I also got friends who are in wrestling and they also will be disappointed in me also so theirs nothing I could do but be in it and just hiding the fact that I don’t want to be in it anymore.
Every sports person needs to develop on the their own, before on the pitch. It happend to me, I remember two years ago my dad would tell the coaches to put me in a group that two years older than me (13) and you couldn't tell the difference on the pitch. But it destroyed me emotionally because of the pressure that was put on me. I am 15 now and I am so close to getting to quit. That big stress relief is nearly gone. I am so close to be able to work on my true passions.
i'm very good at softball but it's just not fun anymore. i play travel softball and i don't get to spend time with my friends and i don't have any breaks
I started playing volleyball this year only because I basically got dragged to trials by my friends, I did end up making the top junior team but the people that are in my team make me feel like I’m not meant to be there. It’s not fun and I don’t think volley is right for me. I want to quit so bad but my coach is verrryyy strict 🤦🏽♀️
I’m 15 in my sophomore year of high school I’ve been playing basketball since I was in the 3rd grade and now I just feel like quitting because I get so anxious for games and practices and I think I always have to be perfect but also my freshman year was awful me being away from it made me realise that I didn’t really miss it but I’m good at shooting dribbling but my offence isn’t the best and it’s so much pressure.
My son cried on the way to Tae Kwon Do class. At the time he was 9. I found out he hated it and didn't like it anymore. Instead of going to class I took him for ice cream and we talked about it. He wants to be an author when he grows up and he loves Bob Ross. That's where I want him to focus. I was a defensive back in HS and I learned to hate the sport. Parents, listen to your kids. You already had your turn.
I barely did/experience the sport ( due to covid ) but I have too much anxiety to do it. I have a practice today but I've literally started hurting myself due to the anxiety. I've led everyone on, my parents who wasted money on it and my coach who was really depending on me to finish the year, but I really only continued to do so for the credits but I can't. My mother is probably going to be mad, especially since the year is almost over and I was almost done. I understand, and I won't pull something like this again, making sure the next clubs I do I'm comfortable with. I hope she doesn't drag me to practice.
It’s the absolute worst. My kid quit as soon as they got to high school. The pain as a parent comes from preparing, financing, traveling, scheduling, and sacrificing for your child to play high school sports, and they don’t play high school sports. Especially when your child is elite. It’s the worst and not many feel your pain.
okay so this is my situation: I play cricket and I hate it SOOOO much and have hated it for years now. I hate the people on the team, before every single game I get stress and anxiety even now and the season hasn’t even started, I’ve asked my parents on multiple occasions if I could quit and maybe do another sport and all they ever say is “we have made friends with other parents here so you have to carry on” and they know that I don’t like it, they just want me to carry on doing something that I dread everyday and I hate every second of just do that can see the other parents even though we go out to eat etc with the other parents a lot anyway. any advise?
Peak Performance Sports, LLC thank you for replying! and it’s my sport they introduced me to it when I was about 9 years old and I enjoyed it then but I’m almost 16 now and I hate it so much but they won’t let me stop or even find a new sport just because they made friends with the other parents.
@@MACK7A Their friends will remain even after you finish the sport. You have to make a case why its in your best interest to find a new sport or activity
I’m playing soccer and I’m thinking about quitting cause I am literally the worst one on the team. I tried to tell my parents that I don’t want to play soccer anymore but they just kept me in. It’s kinda bs too. They keep me in for their enjoyment when I’m out there looking like an idiot on wheels.
My father made me start taekwondo when i was still very young, i enjoyed it alot since my father was teaching me but now i got transferred to a big team thats out of my town and the stress i have to cope is too much. I am also tired of the injuries and with the fact that they don't care if i am hurt or not. I still like the sport but I am too stressed to do it and I am also bored of doing it. I recently started downhill riding and i am really enjoying and my father sees that and he immediately wanted to clarify that downhill wouls just be a hobby and taekwondo was the serious deal. Taekwondo also pushes me away from my social life and friends since I always have to be out of town to train and I am really envious of other teens my age who can go out every Saturday and have fun while i am either training or too tired to do anything. It has come to the point where my father actually prioritizes taekwondo of school and its really getting to me.I know that he wont let me quit and if he does he would never see me the same way. What should I do
I am pretty much the exact same but with ju jitsu. I've been doing it for about 6 years and for at least 2.5years of that is have been bored and sick of it. Every time I ask if I can quit or take a day of, it ends up with me getting screamed at and punished. I HATE IT!
My dad is a massive soccer fan and I used adore the sports! But now I don’t enjoy the sport at all.. I really want to quit and atm it’s preseason and I’m scared to quit because I think my parents have already spent so much
ok, another thing i bond with my father with is watching Formula 1 but now he startung to think i'm being brainwashed with F1 and should focus on soccer when quite frankly there's no excitement anymore its like i treat it as a job now..
My Son is a Soccer Goalkeeper, 16 and really good at it. He is playing even with a Team which is 2-3 years older then he is and you don't even see a physical difference. Besides that, even the coach of the Senior Adult Team wants him train and play for him, after he saw my sons Potential. Now my son wants to quit because he feel stress with sports, school, friends, etc. I think that's just a cheap excuse but I don't want to force him. If my son would try and fail I would not say anything. But he's giving up even though he's on a great way to achieve something. That is like a Marathon-Runner giving up 4 miles before the finish line. Any suggestions? I just don't want him to waste his talent like this.
Hi Daniel: He probably feels a lot of pressure to improve his game and rise to higher levels and this can come from many people, including you. I would suggest you contact us at peaksports.com and we can set up a 15-min meeting to discuss his challenges and get a feel for what's going on. Some athletes just lose the passion for sports, others don't like the pressure.
I had a lot of anxiety about hockey all the way from when I started to when I quit a couple years back. I made a high level league at one point but didn’t end up joining due to this anxiety and physical health issues, but I regret it every single day. I wish my parents would’ve pushed me more, as self-motivated as I was, I just didn’t believe in myself and had no confidence. I feel like if I joined that team, I would’ve been somewhere, but now I’m filled with regret and sorrow occasionally. I know it might seem dramatic but it’s how I feel and if anyone can relate please reply.
i want to quit rugby i get anxiety because of my dad and my coaches ive been playing for 10 years and have lost the love of the game because of the endess training sessions and i just isnt fun anymore
My mom used to force me to do soccer, softball, basketball, and dance. I used to enjoy them but one day I had a mental breakdown because I didn’t want to play basketball anymore. And so all my mom said was that I was going to die young. Then as of for about 2 years I quited all of those sports. But now my parents have been forcing me to do band. I told her many times that i don’t enjoy it anymore and she just won’t listen😔
Khrist Morales music isn’t really something I want to do as a career in life. Yeah I’m in high school but I’m thinking about my future. I want to do film production.
It’s like football hasn’t been the same since I got to high school. My coach yells at me for no reason I can be doing right thing and he still get mad. I feel like he just be taking his anger out on me. It’s not even that fr when I get out on the field I feel some type a way and everyone else is hype getting on the field. I guess football not what it used to be for me but what I do like track and field I could get in that sport. I really like to race people and have Competition. That’s what I like but I don’t know how to break it down to my parents how I don’t want to play football anymore I want to get into track and field
I’m 12 years old and I play soccer. I want to quit because I don’t enjoy the sport, always get injured, getting panic attacks before games and because I get really nervous before training and maches. I’m begging to grow and I am in perfect fit for 🏀 and I’m enjoying the sport much more. Its 2020 but please help⚠️
If you didn't get nervous or panic attacks before soccer, would you enjoy it and stay in the game? And have you talked to your parents about switching sports?
plz help I hated sports all my life and my parents force me to play them and yell at me cuz I like computers I am in middle school and already 6ft tall so if I am forced to try out I will always make it most of the time I wanna die plz help I have been trying to let them not make me play sports since kindergarten and they are threatening to send me to military cuz i don't like sports school plz send help.
I’ve been playing lacrosse since 3rd grade and I’ve just made the varsity team this freshman year. I’m really greatful that I made the team, but I feel unmotivated, anxious, and it’s not really as fun as it used to be. I’d feel really guilty if i decided to quit because I don’t want to let my team or my dad down. The whole reason I started playing was to bond with my Dad. Im already dreading the first game of the season but I don’t want to quit because it might look bad. Plus the whole community isn’t very welcoming and there’s always a lot of uncomfortable tension. I know I want to focus on other things, find new interests and get myself situated before college but idk what to do.
I’ve played soccer for almost my whole life and I’ve just lost passion for the sport. I’m scared to tell my parents I want to quit because they think I love the sport still
Can anyone help? I’ve played football for about 4 years. I’m just starting my fifth season. I’m always nervous every single practice and game. Injuries are common for me, I’ve had 2 concussions, and a broken collar bone. There’s moments where I absolutely hate the game but other times it’s pretty fun. “Usually during successful moments. I used to be very good at soccer but when I moved to a new town. They didn’t have soccer. I have been thinking about quitting football and trying to get better at basketball or maybe find a soccer team somewhere in the area. Football stresses me out and I literally have 0 time to do other things that I love...like basketball, fishing, making TH-cam videos... HECK I CANT EVEN GET A JOB BECAUSE IM TOO BUSY WITH FOOTBALL
You can learn to overcome the nervousness. And can you change teams? Maybe you start the discussion with your dad about the coach and you want to change teams--if you can?
I am a young softball player under 14. I love the game! I have been playing softball since I was 8 years old. It’s time for tryouts and I am doing so bad ;(. In games I am an amazing fielder and and I am a good hitter. My team is breaking up because my coach became very sick. I feel like softball is kinda tearing up my family and costs a lot of money. If I do good they won’t get mad. I love the game but I don’t care if I make a team. I really don’t know how to feel. I guess I just don’t care anymore....I just hope I make a team.......My parents will allow me to quit but I won’t allow my self for to quit.
If you parents did not have the money to spend on your sport, they would not pay for it. You have to accept they are doing it for you. If you're good in the games, your coach will see this.
I wanna quit polo.... My father might not get it but i really hate it... I've been playing the sport for years and all i get is anxiety and i feel like crying when i have to go to polo... I hate it... It became a chore and my father doesn't get it... I don't want to tell him straight out of nowhere that i want to quit since he is a difficult person to talk to... And a few days ago when i told him i will quit next year he just ignored it and today we were talking about the sport and he said "next year might be different" and he hit me with that "we shall see"
I honestly don't know if I want to leave soccer behind I love horseback riding but it doesn't give me the same adrenaline that soccer does on the field. Everyone says I have real potential and I'm scared I'm throwing things away if I leave soccer but I'm scared that number one I won't be skinny if I continue to play soccer because soccer players are usually on the bigger side and also soccer affects a lot of my social life and makes me unavailable a lot to my friends and I also don't think I can keep this up much longer soccer is fun sometimes but not all the time I need help this is killing me day and night and I don't want to tell my parents because they said they love watching me play and my dad pushes me to be the best possible me I can be and I don't want to disappoint anyone any advice?
You might start a dialog with your parents about how you feel about soccer. This way, they may back off someone and try to not put pressure on you to be great.
Thank you for this video. My 14 yo daughter has been driving her basketball skills throughout covid without her team or games. Now she is looking for an "out". Her dad is a ball coach too which makes it a bit sticky. He is understanding but not sure how to support her.
Ive been in gymnastics, for 6 years, im 12, so literally half my life. I broke my arm, and just it doesn't give me happiness anymore. Everyone's gonna be so devastated, but i want to do dance. I don't know what to do. Ima level 6 gymnast
i have that same problem, but a little different. I dont feel I want to do the sport, and I don't have the motivation to do it anymore, but then I will have to leave my life behind and I dont want that either
I don’t want to play basketball anymore but my mom forces me too. I tell her I’m not happy playing it but she yells at me and says that I’m being lazy or anti-social
I’ve been playing baseball for 8+ years and I’m sick and tired of it. My parents cuss and swear at me whenever I ask if I can quit or they simply ignore me. My anxiety is so extreme that I often think and plan out how I will fake an injury or injure myself to stop playing for a couple days.
I’m a dancer and I mentioned to my mom that I want to quit I was instantly ignored then she started saying how much money she spent into it and I understand but every time I go I get so much anxiety
I just don’t remember the last time I was itching to get on the court. There was a time when I would get to practice 30 minutes early, stay on the court for another hour after. Now, I get in, get out. I want to want to play. I just don’t anymore
I do wrestling and I like wrestling but I started to get tired of it and I hate going to practice. I get anxiety about going to practice. Mostly because it’s such a hard sport and they push you really hard. My mom would be fine with it but my dad would get mad because he really wants me to do a sport and wrestling is the only school sport I’m really good at.
I've been doing karate for 9 years and now I find no sense to the stuff we train, they are unrealistic and pointless and boring. It's getting boring and now I want to quit a go for bjj, wrestling or mma
No matter what chose to do sports wise, my .Dad always supported me, even if there was an activity that was becoming not fun anymore due to rude instructors and things. My Dad has said and always will believe that all sports should be fun and enjoyable and it’s the teens decision on what they want to do.
I’m a 12 year old swimmer and I have loved the sport for years but I just want to try something else. I don’t know what my parents are going to say or react because I have been swimming for 7 1/2 years. I love swimming but I don’t like how the pool is cold. I always hide in the bathroom for 15 minutes each practice.
My passion for soccer got me down to a waste my teammates doesn’t care even my coach doesn’t believe that I won’t make it, this been bothering me since last summer I put my self to practice hard day n night having injuries, tryna show them I can prove them wrong. It’s hurting me that I don’t get the respect a deserve I need, and they already lost 4 games without me, I’m really losing hope in soccer my dreams ain’t relevant anymore:(
i don't wanna quit baseball because i don't wanna let anyone down but i hate how i always gotta look for teams, train, meet new coaches and stuff it honestly sucks. my grandpa passed so one of my biggest fans isn't even here to support. i just want to focus on getting fit, strong and healthy as well as academics. i don't know what to do though
I’ve been doing horse back riding for a few months but I want to quit. The person who teaches me to ride is super sweet and doesn’t put much pressure on me but the lady who actually owns the barn and the horse I ride can be very mean and make me really anxious. Like if I do something wrong that she never even told me not to do before she’ll get really mad. I also don’t see much progress in my riding so that makes me really discouraged also one of the other girls can be a real bitch just cause she knows she’s better at it then me. So with all that I just don’t enjoy it anymore it feels like school, something I have to do but really don’t wanna do. So I’ve been planning to quit for a few weeks now I wasn’t to worried about telling my mom because she already caught on that I was no longer enjoying it also the only extra thing we bought for it was some nice boots. But this Christmas I got a really nice helmet for it. So I think my mom will be mad now when I tell her I don’t wanna do it anymore. Tomorrow’s have it again and then I’m going to decide if it’s at all enjoyable and if it is I’ll continue if not I’ll tell my mom. Wish me luck!!
My dad won’t let me quit basketball because he is the coach of the team and he thinks that if I go outside and practice I’ll like it more but the truth is that they are basically FORCING me to go to play a sport I don’t want to. We can’t pay for college unless I get a scholarship for sports but I want to try swimming and see if I enjoy it more instead of basketball!
I do gymnastics and I hate gymnastics soooo much but I don’t know how to tell my parents. I literally cry before each practice but I never let them know I cry.
Peak Performance Sports, LLC no because I’ve done it since kindergarten and I’m scared of what they’ll say. I also made my closest friend in gymnastics and I’m scared I’ll loose her if I quit.
I let go of hockey, I’ve played for 8 years straight. I really liked the game but I didn’t like the players, some are nice and some are toxic. Like I get it’s a part of the game and it’s supposed to be like.
I'm 13 and I've been playing rugby league since i was 8. I wanna quit but I don't wanna disappoint my parents. I quit track and field last year and they were dissapointed and kept trying to get me to not quit but I quit anyway. I very rarely seem happy when my dad mentions training which I thought might show him I'm not happy playing any more but it doesn't. And whenever he asked me if I still wanna play I just say yes because I don't want him to feel like he wasted his time and effort coaching me. He's also the coach of my team. So I'm never allowed to skip a training session and my standards of how I play a rfe extremely high. I'm scared my parents are gonna be dissapointed in me. I have panic attacks thinking about what will happen if I don't quit and it's stressful. Its just not fun any more but I don't want my parents to be dissapointed. So Idk if I'm gonna tell them or if I'm just gonna live my life the way they want me to and continue playing which will result to me being miserable. Sometimes I wish I never started playing in the first place.
i have to do track, and running is so painful, the meets give me anxiety and i dont know how to tell my mom i dont want to do it anymore, can someone plz tell what to do?
My mom doesn’t let me quit swimming and I asked why she said cuz I need to do exercise then I said can I join the gym and then she said it not a sport so it’s not exercise
Guys I need help. I have no more fun in soccer any more. I get super nervous before games and I only play because I want to be just like my older siblings. I don’t know what to do anymore. Please help me.
@@Sparky-uz5db That's a mental game issues and not an issue of "I don't like my sport." You can overcome the worry by focusing on the process of one touch at a time and not caring about what others think of your game.
I quitted wrestling about a week and I came home then my mom (doesn't know about wrestling but knows it's a sport) asked in a disappointed and angry tone that "Are you going to wrestle?" And I said no and then she starts complaining about this and that and it gets me annoyed. IS THIS REACTION NORMAL or not???
i started doing downhill a year ago,the first 1-5 months was a blast time.its was super fun and im enjoying it.it wasn't competitive time yet.and after that my father introduced me to many athlete's and they teach me physical training and mental training.that was the time when im starting to lose my spirit.i realized that i didn't have time to hangout with my friend and be like any other normal kid in school.and the longer i get into downhill,the more i hate it.it becoming weight and it stressed me out.i wanna quit but i fear that my father would probably not going to be happy with that because he already sacrifice so much time and money just to get me here.i got some injuries too such as dislocated wrist,elbow and even my back bone.
@@PeakPerformanceSports i talked to my sister and my mother. my sister said if you dont like what you're doing,its okay to quit. my mother is bit complicated,she asked me what im gonna do after i quit.and honestly i love motorcycle but my parents hates them
@@PeakPerformanceSports i haven't talked to my dad because i knew he's going to be so mad at me.this sport is the only thing that makes my father proud of me.there's no good side of me beside that sport
@@PeakPerformanceSports hey i just wanna say that i just talked to my father and it didn't go as planed. because of my decision, he went full angry and selfish and he said that the whole family never appreciated him when the truth is its the other way around. im so confused right now and idk why my whole family mad at me for making my dad angry.
Coaches tried to hold me back even when i was better than at least half the people at my old dojo for martial arts. Then when i won at other sports i was told “don’t be happy because you’ll make other kids feel bad about losing” 🙄
I want to quit soccer. I get anxiety every night because of my coach and I just don’t enjoy the game anymore.
Did u quit I’m in the same problem
Same here I'm only playing indoor rn and I don't enjoy soccer as much as I used to before
Same
I have quit just yesterday after 10 years of playing soccer...I went through a bit of a breakdown and stuff because i loved game of soccer but it has changed by years and i
I have Quit i was the leader of my team 3 years soon i quited because it wasent fun to play
Who else is scrolling through the comments so they don’t feel alone😞
Me
Yeah I am
Yes
Me
all of us 😔
Im genuinely happy im not the only one
Same
I’ve tried about every sport there is and I hate all of them. I don’t get why my parents force me to play if it only makes me miserable. It’s a waste of time. 😞
you still dealing with it?
My mom wont let me quit basketball cuz i dont enjoy it anymore and shes always yelling at me and i get emontionaly broken
Video game has taken over my life and I used to love sports and outside activities now I’m addicted to playing video games like fortnite...
My mom is very mad plz help and I’m not happy and I want to die
Same but my is with baseball
Same here for football get hurt and want to live the life i want but she dosent let me live and guiltys me to do it
Same but it is with gymnastics
It's your sport, not your parents. Present the advantages of not playing any more.
every time I try tell explain to my dad that it's not fun and not for me he just says "that's bullsh*t." I don't know what to do.
bwheels40 have you quit yet? Just tell him straight up that it doesnt interest you anymore. That your sorry but its true. You dont wanna be in something that doesn’t interest you and you wanna do other hobbies and if he loves you. He would be open minded and let you be.
Exactly they tell me I’m “being lazy” but how am I supposed to put all my energy into something I don’t actually care about? No wonder why I look “lazy” 🙄 make it make sense!!!!!!
Same. And then I just get a speech on how I’m lazy
My parents won't let me quit basketball because I told them I wasn't able to deal with the pressure the coach put me in. I am just not enjoying the sport anymore. I really don't know how to convince them that it's not for me anymore. My dad is also involved in my sport and told me that I could not quit because he is involved. I use to love basketball, but now I have pressure from everyone around me and I get hurt every time my parents wave away my opinion on the issue.
THIS IS EXACTLY MY SITUATION TOO
*OH MY GOD, I WANT TO QUIT JUDO TO PLAY BASKETBALL*
@Oaty's Life oh btw I'm a heavyweight, so I'm 70+. It happened May 4th, my opponent was 50 kg heavier than me and broke my left legs two bones at the knee... it was a bad break.. my bones fully healed but my nerve is damaged, from that day I still can't pull me foot and fingers up... fuck that bitch
@Oaty's Life btw my dad was a judist so I am too. I told them i hate going to it, but they're like: I don't care
WHY DOES ALL OUR PARENTS DONT UNDERDTAND ER DONT WANT TO PLAY A SPORT WE DINT LIKE
I've been playing basketball since first grade and I'm a sophomore now. High school basketball just isn't what I thought it was gonna be. I'm always nervous and freak out before every game and practice. It's not fun anymore and there are other things I want to do. Every since I picked up guitar I've realized that that's my true passion and that I'm done being someone I'm not for my parents. My mom completely understands and supports me but my dad is a huge sports fan and won't accept me quitting. Is there anything I can say or do to make him more understanding? I'm tired of being a disappointment. UPDATE: Almost 2 years later and I just wanted to say that I did it. About a year ago I quit sports and I can finally be myself and do what makes me happy. I hope this encourages someone else to stand up for their happiness :)
Thanks for inspiring me to quit mate
Same thing has been happening to me with basketball been playing since I was 5 I’m a junior I’m good but it is too much stress and I hate it now I told my parents I want to quit and they won’t let me said I can’t now because all the money they spent and I need to play and get a scholarship for College I told them I will keep playing but idk what to do
I was that dad, but realized the error of my ways, and am supporting my kid through this decision. Glad you had the courage to do it. I would fully support a passion like guitar, but sorry, am not going to have him quit just so he can play video games.
Yea I know how you feel the coaches act like its the major leagues. They are so worried about the stats and getting the damn trophy that they act like we’re paid athletes. Like my sport is baseball and I just wanna play the game and have fun with it. They act like we all want to get scholarships to some college and make the sport become our career.
I want to quit hockey too but I’ve played it for 8 years and my dad says that i should play it until im 18 cause right now im going trough puberty so i shouldn’t quit is what he says but i just cant stand it anymore. I’ve started to hate everything about it, its like i want to play hockey for fun sometimes but i can’t cause every other teenager who plays hockey is trying to get to some league and make a career out of it.
But thats not what i want to do for the rest of my life but my dad just doesn’t understand.
He also has threatened to take away my computer and phone if i don’t start playing hockey again.
Can someone tell me what i should tell him to make him understand me?
I’m scared to quit because teammates parents are friends with my parents and it will just screw up that whole relation ship for me and my parents.
I feel you. I’m in the same current situation. I’ve been on a swim team for 6 years now it’s just not how it was before. I didn’t even chose to do what I did. And now since I’ve been in it for too long all my parents think is SCHOLARSHIP, SCHOLARSHIPS, SCHOLARSHIPS. It’s not like don’t care about me, it’s just the fact that they don’t care about what makes me happy.
Same
same i’ve been on the same team for yearsss... my dad even works with one of my teammates mom.
Yup.
I’m so sorry for you
I liked football but HS isn’t fun it’s just WORK,WORK,WORK, get punished for something u did on accident, get punished for something you didn’t do, then work more
Exactly!!!
But the ones who will be successful love the process and work
that’s hs football for u
I hate football rn its ever since i moved up to a higher level its longer fun it feels like work
i know im young but im only 11 and i've been playing football my whole life and i want to quit because its getting boring but i dont want to disappoint anyone what should i do
I’m 10 years old. My dad makes me train everyday, making me join new teams. I’m in about 4 teams now, and I just don’t like basketball anymore. Basketball has broken my family a bit, my dad is always overreacting even if I miss one shot. I’m being controlled so if I quit basketball, I’d be a mistake. I would ask my parents, but I’m just too scared. What do I do? Tell them or show this video to them. I just want to have a normal life and focus on my studies.
GOOD NEWS!
my dad is letting me start on focusing on volleyball, he promised me if I am bored with my current sport, I can play volleyball!
its your sport not his quit
:)
Yay! Well done! Sounds like he was trying to make you an athlete from a young age which is unfair if the kid isn’t happy
I've been playing sports until I was in 3rd grade. I've always felt a love for it but the older I got, the more I realized how much pressure it's gotten. To me sports have gotten to be a feeling I dont have anymore. The more I think about basketball the more I cry and get anxiety. It's the whole thought of being perfect and living to my family's standards. They want the best for me and that being college, but I know for sure they dont want me to quit after putting so much time and effort into me. I feel like such a failure.
This sounds more like a mental game issue of your expectations for making others happy is ruining your fun in the sport
I’m 12 I don’t wanna play baseball it makes me nervous
Green Tomato dude omg i thought i was the only one, i play baseball as well, and i don’t feel like i enjoy it anymore
Well same zylid
Same I am just nervous about high school football and getting hit
I’m 15 and I just got done with my first year of high school baseball and it was awful. I’m planning on quitting after my summer league is over. I have massive anxiety and high school ball just isn’t it.
Should I send this to my parents because I can't talk even when I do I stutter.
Ya that's what I'm doing
Same
i am a soccer player i get perform axienty and stress before i play. i fell like i only keep playing to have friends and to not fell like a dissapointment to my dad because that is why we have a strong bond
adrienne cardona yeah same the only reason I still play American football is because of the friends. I hate every practice and I do not even play much in the games. I want to quit and focus on school and powerlifting but I feel like my friends won’t talk to me anymore if I do quit.
My parents won’t let me I just want to have a anxiety free life
Update: I quit yesterday
@@jvz7955 im happy for you I wish I did but my dad paid so much for my sport
@@jvz7955 I’m scared of telling my dad I don’t want to do swimming
@@Ben2608m maybe try make a list of why you don’t want to and how it is affecting your life and then tell him, he might understand more than just being like ‘no’ also, it’s your life and your decisions do it
@@jvz7955 well done!
Idk why but i get anxiety attacks when i practicw for figure skating and im afraid to tell my parents I want to quit because I’m sure they will scream at me, i want to quit because i realize my passion is dancing eversince i was young, but i know my parents will get mad at me 😔😔😔
i’m a figure skater too and idk how to tell my parents i want to quit
Just tell them how you feel! That you no longer like the sport and don‘t feel comfortable doing it. I promise you, they will understand!
I was good at sport at school but loathed sport with a passion. I was pushed into being on teams so pushed back the best way I could...I never gave more than 70%. This used to frustrate the hell out of my coaches especially when scouts where watching when I made a point of performing particularly badly. I only ever wanted to be a lawyer which is what I became.
Thanks for the story Peter.
This isn’t the typical post, but I quit soccer when I was 13. I was on the top team in the state and even had college coaches talking to me AT 13! When I joined the top team, it killed my love of the game. My teammates spited me and would even target me in practice because of jealousy. I focused more on soccer than school too. Had no friends. It became so much, that I quit. It’s now 8 years later, and I’ve never regretted my decision more. It haunts me. I found the love for the game again, and I realize the mistake I made. Who knows where I would be in life if I continued playing. Just make sure, that when and if you quit. You are sure of the decision you are making.
My mom won’t let me quit art class, drawing realistic just isn’t my type, I like drawing in my own style (and I gotta say I’m pretty good) and I don’t need art classes to do that. They won’t let me quit even though it’s JUST ART. Please help. Plus I suck at drawing realistic and the kids in my class bully and judge me for it, when I show them my own digital art in my style they think I’m great, HELP
I don’t have necessarily pressure from my parents/family members for me to stay in wrestling but my dad and uncle were both state champs in wrestling and when I told them I wanted to do it they were just so proud... and my mom was very proud because it’s a very hard sport and I’d been working harder then I have in my entire life plus it makes me careful about my hygiene which impressed her even more. I know it would disappoint them immensely for me to quit wrestling because other than that, I don’t think I could play another sport. I have been playing baseball since I was a kid but lots of kids are trying out for the team in high school (I’m a freshman) and I’m not 100 percent sure I’ll make it.. I get a’s and b’s in school but my sister is getting straight a’s with ap classes and my family before me are all very successful so I know I would disappoint everyone because they are so excited to see me wrestle. But I just flat out don’t like it. I have practice 5 days a week and tournaments soon on saturdays... they’re three hour practices and I’m usually very tired out when I get home because we have conditioning with wrestling all in the same practice and that usually affects the amount of hw I do a night. Also I am not progressing like the rest of the team and it’s beginning to frustrate me and my teammates and they often get mad at me when I don’t do things the right way/mess up. So I feel like I’m putting in all this work for nothing and it usually leaves me sad/disappointed after practices... lately I’ve been trying to get out of practice as much as I can which has only slowed my development in the sport down... and also I don’t enjoy the competitiveness of the sport. I’d continue if I liked it despite how much hard work it is but I just don’t enjoy it.. throughout the school day I’m always anxious about going to practice that day and it affects my focus in school and overall makes me unhappy. I want to tell my mom all of this but I don’t know how and I’m afraid of how she’ll react. What should I do?
don't be a baby. just quit and focus on school
Just let them know you don’t want to do it anymore it may get them mad but after a few weeks you will get over it
They* and you will be stress free and u will love life
Just remember this it’s YOUR LIFE do what makes YOU happy forget what anyone else thinks you came to this earth alone and you’ll die alone so do what U want I’m routing for u
I told my mom i wanted to quit karate because it doesnt feel right anymore and she said no but im still working on convincing them, continue to ask them, dont bug them too much, or have an open, calm conversation with your parents and figure out what you think you need to do. Good luck, i hope you get to pursue whatever hobby makes you happy
I’m playing on 2 softball teams at once and it’s really stressful. Travel and school. It’s really draining and it’s making it not fun anymore, it feel more like a job than a hobby at this point
i’m getting anxiety abt basketball i am pretty good at dribbling and shooting but i’m just not good at plays, defense, and offense. i have bad social anxiety too
I want to quit boxing because it makes me have anxiety every night and before training but im scared to tell my dad because I only see him once a week and he bought me boxing gloves and a boxing book
I want to quit volleyball but my mom won't let me. I have panic attacks just thinking about making 1 simple mistake and it's making me emotionality damaged
Do you like the game? You can learn to deal with the performance anxiety. It sounds like you worry too much about playing perfectly in games, which should not be the goal. Focus on helping your team score points, not worrying about mistakes.
i want to quit swim team because coach put me in a too high group for my level and I always get dizzy and feel like throwing up. My mom says she already paid a lot and that she won’t email the coach about moving me down to a lower level (that I was in before)
I have the same problem, except my mum stars sulking and doesn’t want to listen to me and says “it’s in my head” when it’s literally fucking not.
I play ringette, have played actively for 7 years. I am pretty good at it.
I want to quit, because I have lost my passion for it, I get extreme anxiety and fear in tournaments, games, even training and get more negative things than good things from it. I yold my mom this spring that I want to quit. She convinced me to continue this season, which is starting soon. And I really, really want to quit before the season starts.
You can learn to deal with the anxiety and fear - if that's what is hurting your passion for the sport. But if you dread going to practice, that is not a good sign.
I’m 13 and I’ve been playing basketball since kindergarten. at one point I was playing three teams and it was tiring. i just don’t find it fun anymore and it seems more like a chore. my mom understands but my dad is telling me I’m gonna turn out like those girls he always told me about”quitters” I have mental issues and because of corona I’ve been off for almost 5 months now. I get mad everytime he asks me to practice and that should show him that I obviously don’t like it anymore. but he’s also my coach and my cousin and I grew up together playing, she’s working her ass off and I’m here doing nothing. he compares me to my cousin and my friends that play basketball and he barely speaks two words to me a day. unless it’s about the sport or somethin I did wrong. I don’t know what to do. It’s hard for me to say anything to my dad that will make him upset because I care about his feelings more than I do myself. it’s obviously not healthy. what can I do.
You have to care more about your feelings and goals that your dad's. It's your sport, it should not feel like a job or chore.
I want to quit wrestling because i have too much anxiety with the pain and my failure. I have found other hobbies like lifting by myself or with a friend. I just don't like wrestling and I don't know how to tell my coach that wrestling is just not for me.
I'm in the exact same position. My coach takes it so seriously when people quit.
Same. I have a similar problem. I’ve been doing karate for 6yrs non stop, no breaks. I’m a belt away from black, but I rlly don’t want it. If I become a black belt i have to teach kids three times a week, no flexibility, (mind you in 12) I really enjoy music, but my parents are forcing me to continue. What should I do?
I hope you quit . But just tell your coach. This doesnt fit your puzzle. That it was fun doing it but one can lose interest. And you dont wanna do it anymore. Stop beating around the bush and the better your outcome will be.
When I made varsity as a freshman for baseball, I was put in such a big role as the ace pitcher and I wasn’t in joying they game anymore due to the pressure and I was putting in 4x the amount of work compared to everyone else and I talked to my mom about it and she told me that I can’t get a car if I quit
Parents try and live through their kids so much these days. It is your sport so it’s your decision. Personally I would rather focus on good grades and the things that make me happy then a sport that i have been playing for 7 years. Baseball has been my number one sport for my whole life and pitching was my strongpoint. Until i was injured and switched to a new team. Even if you are good at the sport just think, do you want to do it on repeat for your entire career. In the MLB your playing constantly, yes your making money, but is it worth your happiness? Your mom shouldn’t be risking the chance of you getting a car for a sport you don’t have a passion for anymore.
I’ve been playing basketball since middle school... I’m now in college playing and i don’t even think i’m tired i’m just so over it. I can’t find my why anymore I love the sport and know
i’ll cry if i leave and be hurt but i just don’t love playing anymore it isn’t fun anymore
Thanks this video gave me more motivation to tell my coach I’m quitting I already told my dad
I struggle with anxiety from gymnastics and it stresses me out. I freak out before every practice, I get worried, and it stays in my head every day and every time I wake up. I do not find joy in the sport anymore because of what it’s done. I play floor hockey and I love that. It’s just so frustrating, because I feel like I will regret it. But I know it will be for the better. I also often find myself over working my self trying to do stuff, I constantly hurt myself on accident doing stuff in the sport. And It’s just not my passion anymore. I think i’m going to quit tonight, but that’s not it I still have hockey and I will always be apart of hockey, along with work outs and I was thinking about trying boxing.
I think you should give a go for boxing. I used to do gymnastics I was so good but I quit because of the stress but if I look back at it I think it was for the better so try new sports and keep the hockey because it helps you find what you really want
I was in taekwondoe from 8 to 13 and I DIDN'T want to quit. My mom made me. I loved it, from my friends there to just nostalgia. The only thing bad was the master. He didnt understand my anxiety when it came to sparring, and my asthma. My mom didnt want to pay for it anymore, too. It sounds weird, but, I feel connected to that place. The smell, the sights, my childhood is there. It saddens me that I will never be there again. Never spar again. My friends that grew up with me, they dont understand why I had to leave. I miss it so much. My mom was talking about maybe joining a different dojo, but that not the same. She was never in any sports. She was in piano when she was my age. What do I do? I want to rejoin tae kwon doe, but I dont want my mom to spend money on it if Im already a black belt.
Haii I am sabrina I’ve been playing softball since I was 15 years out of school activity and yea it was fun and all but suddenly when I turned 16 now I am in high school and I found out that I have bipolar and I get depressed and anxiety and start to lose confineds and I Didn’t love the game anymore and I wanted to quit but my dad wouldn’t let me because he said he paid too much money for this and nobody understands that I am not in love with the game anymore and they don’t understand that I am bipolar everything gets harder for me like my grades are more important then sports 😭😭😭😭
i wanna show this to my dad but i feel like he’ll just be like “oh that’s a load of bs get to practice” 😬
Training is in 30 minutes im shaking I quit for 3 months and was guilt tripped all the way through and now im back. I dont enjoy it its just stressful cuz when I lose the ball out of nervousness i feel so bad I cba
my first soccer practice in over a year is in just hours, idk what to do, they went ahead put me on a team again after i begged to stop playing, they think it was my old teammates that they would too much drama or something but that was not the case at all i just don’t like the game anymore and haven’t for a few years i always dreaded going to practice
I feel really burnt out, I’ve been practicing for hours every day when I can and I am not improving. I had a time where I was scoring and having fun but now I don’t even want to go and I just don’t feel motivated anymore. I always forget what I practice and I’m really not making things happen anymore. I don’t know what to do, but thanks for the video though.
I get performance anxiety that made me loose my passion for the game, but I tried to tell me parents and they just said that I like it but I don’t and I feel like I can’t quit
As someone who has been through many sports I really can’t do this anymore. I do not want to play anymore. My parents then say it’s just because I want to play on my PC. Like, why do parents blame everything on video games. It makes me so mad.
im 13 and i wanna quit volleyball, ive been playing volleyball for 5 years and i honestly don't find this sport interesting. plus, all my teammates hate me for stupid reasons
yeah i’m getting bored of playing volleyball too.
I want to quit karate so bad. My parents make me feel guilty by saying that I have come far and that they will be disappointed in me😔
I’ve been playing softball since I was really little but I’m starting to lose all the passion I’ve ever had for it. The sport seems more like a chore that I need to do now. I’m a junior in high school but I feel like being apart of a school team is something colleges really like to see. That is one of the only reasons why I would continue on with it. I dread going to practice and I find that it really stresses me out but I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried talking to my parents about it and they just seem upset and disappointed that I want to quit. I’m really having a tough time deciding what to do.
Madison Leigh same I wanna get out of softball I really do
I honestly been in wrestling for 4 yrs now and I been wanting to quit for 2 yrs now but my anxiety gets to me because my coach is my science teacher and he will be disappointed in me and I also got friends who are in wrestling and they also will be disappointed in me also so theirs nothing I could do but be in it and just hiding the fact that I don’t want to be in it anymore.
Every sports person needs to develop on the their own, before on the pitch. It happend to me, I remember two years ago my dad would tell the coaches to put me in a group that two years older than me (13) and you couldn't tell the difference on the pitch. But it destroyed me emotionally because of the pressure that was put on me. I am 15 now and I am so close to getting to quit. That big stress relief is nearly gone. I am so close to be able to work on my true passions.
I’ve been playing hockey all my life but I’m just burned out and have no passion for playing the sport
i'm very good at softball but it's just not fun anymore. i play travel softball and i don't get to spend time with my friends and i don't have any breaks
I started playing volleyball this year only because I basically got dragged to trials by my friends, I did end up making the top junior team but the people that are in my team make me feel like I’m not meant to be there. It’s not fun and I don’t think volley is right for me. I want to quit so bad but my coach is verrryyy strict 🤦🏽♀️
My own case is different' my dad won't let me play soccer and he knows i have passion for soccer but would still never let me participate in it
I’m 15 in my sophomore year of high school I’ve been playing basketball since I was in the 3rd grade and now I just feel like quitting because I get so anxious for games and practices and I think I always have to be perfect but also my freshman year was awful me being away from it made me realise that I didn’t really miss it but I’m good at shooting dribbling but my offence isn’t the best and it’s so much pressure.
My son cried on the way to Tae Kwon Do class. At the time he was 9. I found out he hated it and didn't like it anymore. Instead of going to class I took him for ice cream and we talked about it. He wants to be an author when he grows up and he loves Bob Ross. That's where I want him to focus. I was a defensive back in HS and I learned to hate the sport. Parents, listen to your kids. You already had your turn.
I barely did/experience the sport ( due to covid ) but I have too much anxiety to do it. I have a practice today but I've literally started hurting myself due to the anxiety. I've led everyone on, my parents who wasted money on it and my coach who was really depending on me to finish the year, but I really only continued to do so for the credits but I can't. My mother is probably going to be mad, especially since the year is almost over and I was almost done. I understand, and I won't pull something like this again, making sure the next clubs I do I'm comfortable with. I hope she doesn't drag me to practice.
It’s the absolute worst. My kid quit as soon as they got to high school. The pain as a parent comes from preparing, financing, traveling, scheduling, and sacrificing for your child to play high school sports, and they don’t play high school sports. Especially when your child is elite. It’s the worst and not many feel your pain.
Harry, we get it here and feel your pain. However, if his heart is not into sports participation, he will not reach his potential and under perform.
okay so this is my situation: I play cricket and I hate it SOOOO much and have hated it for years now. I hate the people on the team, before every single game I get stress and anxiety even now and the season hasn’t even started, I’ve asked my parents on multiple occasions if I could quit and maybe do another sport and all they ever say is “we have made friends with other parents here so you have to carry on” and they know that I don’t like it, they just want me to carry on doing something that I dread everyday and I hate every second of just do that can see the other parents even though we go out to eat etc with the other parents a lot anyway. any advise?
Is it your sport or your parents' sport? So you have to carry on for their social life?
Peak Performance Sports, LLC thank you for replying! and it’s my sport they introduced me to it when I was about 9 years old and I enjoyed it then but I’m almost 16 now and I hate it so much but they won’t let me stop or even find a new sport just because they made friends with the other parents.
@@MACK7A Their friends will remain even after you finish the sport. You have to make a case why its in your best interest to find a new sport or activity
Peak Performance Sports, LLC, okay thank you!! do you have any tips on what I could say to convince them?
@@MACK7A Just have an honest discussion. Talk about the advantages and disadvantages for YOU to stay in the sport
I’m playing soccer and I’m thinking about quitting cause I am literally the worst one on the team. I tried to tell my parents that I don’t want to play soccer anymore but they just kept me in. It’s kinda bs too. They keep me in for their enjoyment when I’m out there looking like an idiot on wheels.
I feel you man
My father made me start taekwondo when i was still very young, i enjoyed it alot since my father was teaching me but now i got transferred to a big team thats out of my town and the stress i have to cope is too much. I am also tired of the injuries and with the fact that they don't care if i am hurt or not. I still like the sport but I am too stressed to do it and I am also bored of doing it. I recently started downhill riding and i am really enjoying and my father sees that and he immediately wanted to clarify that downhill wouls just be a hobby and taekwondo was the serious deal. Taekwondo also pushes me away from my social life and friends since I always have to be out of town to train and I am really envious of other teens my age who can go out every Saturday and have fun while i am either training or too tired to do anything. It has come to the point where my father actually prioritizes taekwondo of school and its really getting to me.I know that he wont let me quit and if he does he would never see me the same way. What should I do
I am pretty much the exact same but with ju jitsu. I've been doing it for about 6 years and for at least 2.5years of that is have been bored and sick of it. Every time I ask if I can quit or take a day of, it ends up with me getting screamed at and punished. I HATE IT!
My dad is a massive soccer fan and I used adore the sports! But now I don’t enjoy the sport at all.. I really want to quit and atm it’s preseason and I’m scared to quit because I think my parents have already spent so much
ok, another thing i bond with my father with is watching Formula 1 but now he startung to think i'm being brainwashed with F1 and should focus on soccer when quite frankly there's no excitement anymore its like i treat it as a job now..
My Son is a Soccer Goalkeeper, 16 and really good at it. He is playing even with a Team which is 2-3 years older then he is and you don't even see a physical difference. Besides that, even the coach of the Senior Adult Team wants him train and play for him, after he saw my sons Potential. Now my son wants to quit because he feel stress with sports, school, friends, etc. I think that's just a cheap excuse but I don't want to force him. If my son would try and fail I would not say anything. But he's giving up even though he's on a great way to achieve something. That is like a Marathon-Runner giving up 4 miles before the finish line. Any suggestions? I just don't want him to waste his talent like this.
Hi Daniel: He probably feels a lot of pressure to improve his game and rise to higher levels and this can come from many people, including you. I would suggest you contact us at peaksports.com and we can set up a 15-min meeting to discuss his challenges and get a feel for what's going on. Some athletes just lose the passion for sports, others don't like the pressure.
Many thanks for the fast reply,....is there any specific section on your website I have to go to?
@@danielbenes1996 - Just go to contact us at peaksports.com www.peaksports.com/contact-peak-performance-sports/
I had a lot of anxiety about hockey all the way from when I started to when I quit a couple years back. I made a high level league at one point but didn’t end up joining due to this anxiety and physical health issues, but I regret it every single day. I wish my parents would’ve pushed me more, as self-motivated as I was, I just didn’t believe in myself and had no confidence. I feel like if I joined that team, I would’ve been somewhere, but now I’m filled with regret and sorrow occasionally. I know it might seem dramatic but it’s how I feel and if anyone can relate please reply.
i want to quit rugby i get anxiety because of my dad and my coaches ive been playing for 10 years and have lost the love of the game because of the endess training sessions and i just isnt fun anymore
My mom used to force me to do soccer, softball, basketball, and dance. I used to enjoy them but one day I had a mental breakdown because I didn’t want to play basketball anymore. And so all my mom said was that I was going to die young. Then as of for about 2 years I quited all of those sports. But now my parents have been forcing me to do band. I told her many times that i don’t enjoy it anymore and she just won’t listen😔
How about playing an instrument like the guitar, drums, Piano?
Khrist Morales music isn’t really something I want to do as a career in life. Yeah I’m in high school but I’m thinking about my future. I want to do film production.
It’s like football hasn’t been the same since I got to high school. My coach yells at me for no reason I can be doing right thing and he still get mad. I feel like he just be taking his anger out on me. It’s not even that fr when I get out on the field I feel some type a way and everyone else is hype getting on the field. I guess football not what it used to be for me but what I do like track and field I could get in that sport. I really like to race people and have Competition. That’s what I like but I don’t know how to break it down to my parents how I don’t want to play football anymore I want to get into track and field
Just start the conversations what you think you like track better than football.
I’m 12 years old and I play soccer. I want to quit because I don’t enjoy the sport, always get injured, getting panic attacks before games and because I get really nervous before training and maches. I’m begging to grow and I am in perfect fit for 🏀 and I’m enjoying the sport much more. Its 2020 but please help⚠️
If you didn't get nervous or panic attacks before soccer, would you enjoy it and stay in the game? And have you talked to your parents about switching sports?
plz help I hated sports all my life and my parents force me to play them and yell at me cuz I like computers I am in middle school and already 6ft tall so if I am forced to try out I will always make it most of the time I wanna die plz help I have been trying to let them not make me play sports since kindergarten and they are threatening to send me to military cuz i don't like sports school plz send help.
Ask them why they think it's so important for you to play sports. Is it fitness? Stay off the computer? Or what?
I’ve been playing lacrosse since 3rd grade and I’ve just made the varsity team this freshman year. I’m really greatful that I made the team, but I feel unmotivated, anxious, and it’s not really as fun as it used to be. I’d feel really guilty if i decided to quit because I don’t want to let my team or my dad down. The whole reason I started playing was to bond with my Dad. Im already dreading the first game of the season but I don’t want to quit because it might look bad. Plus the whole community isn’t very welcoming and there’s always a lot of uncomfortable tension. I know I want to focus on other things, find new interests and get myself situated before college but idk what to do.
I’ve played soccer for almost my whole life and I’ve just lost passion for the sport. I’m scared to tell my parents I want to quit because they think I love the sport still
Thats exactly the situation with me too 😞
Can anyone help? I’ve played football for about 4 years. I’m just starting my fifth season. I’m always nervous every single practice and game. Injuries are common for me, I’ve had 2 concussions, and a broken collar bone. There’s moments where I absolutely hate the game but other times it’s pretty fun. “Usually during successful moments. I used to be very good at soccer but when I moved to a new town. They didn’t have soccer. I have been thinking about quitting football and trying to get better at basketball or maybe find a soccer team somewhere in the area. Football stresses me out and I literally have 0 time to do other things that I love...like basketball, fishing, making TH-cam videos... HECK I CANT EVEN GET A JOB BECAUSE IM TOO BUSY WITH FOOTBALL
Are you afraid of injury or you want to be successful all the time at soccer?
I’m just nervous I want to tell my dad but I feel forced to play baseball and my coach is just mean to me and ugh..
You can learn to overcome the nervousness. And can you change teams? Maybe you start the discussion with your dad about the coach and you want to change teams--if you can?
I just want to quit football, i feel like I’m super trash even tho I’m on second team varsity
Do you want to stop playing because of lack of confidence or you don't like the game anymore. There is a difference here.
I am a young softball player under 14. I love the game! I have been playing softball since I was 8 years old. It’s time for tryouts and I am doing so bad ;(. In games I am an amazing fielder and and I am a good hitter. My team is breaking up because my coach became very sick. I feel like softball is kinda tearing up my family and costs a lot of money. If I do good they won’t get mad. I love the game but I don’t care if I make a team. I really don’t know how to feel. I guess I just don’t care anymore....I just hope I make a team.......My parents will allow me to quit but I won’t allow my self for to quit.
If you parents did not have the money to spend on your sport, they would not pay for it. You have to accept they are doing it for you. If you're good in the games, your coach will see this.
I wanna quit polo.... My father might not get it but i really hate it... I've been playing the sport for years and all i get is anxiety and i feel like crying when i have to go to polo... I hate it... It became a chore and my father doesn't get it... I don't want to tell him straight out of nowhere that i want to quit since he is a difficult person to talk to... And a few days ago when i told him i will quit next year he just ignored it and today we were talking about the sport and he said "next year might be different" and he hit me with that "we shall see"
I honestly don't know if I want to leave soccer behind I love horseback riding but it doesn't give me the same adrenaline that soccer does on the field. Everyone says I have real potential and I'm scared I'm throwing things away if I leave soccer but I'm scared that number one I won't be skinny if I continue to play soccer because soccer players are usually on the bigger side and also soccer affects a lot of my social life and makes me unavailable a lot to my friends and I also don't think I can keep this up much longer soccer is fun sometimes but not all the time I need help this is killing me day and night and I don't want to tell my parents because they said they love watching me play and my dad pushes me to be the best possible me I can be and I don't want to disappoint anyone any advice?
You might start a dialog with your parents about how you feel about soccer. This way, they may back off someone and try to not put pressure on you to be great.
Thank you for this video. My 14 yo daughter has been driving her basketball skills throughout covid without her team or games. Now she is looking for an "out". Her dad is a ball coach too which makes it a bit sticky. He is understanding but not sure how to support her.
Ive been in gymnastics, for 6 years, im 12, so literally half my life. I broke my arm, and just it doesn't give me happiness anymore. Everyone's gonna be so devastated, but i want to do dance. I don't know what to do. Ima level 6 gymnast
i have that same problem, but a little different. I dont feel I want to do the sport, and I don't have the motivation to do it anymore, but then I will have to leave my life behind and I dont want that either
I don’t want to play basketball anymore but my mom forces me too. I tell her I’m not happy playing it but she yells at me and says that I’m being lazy or anti-social
I’ve been playing baseball for 8+ years and I’m sick and tired of it. My parents cuss and swear at me whenever I ask if I can quit or they simply ignore me. My anxiety is so extreme that I often think and plan out how I will fake an injury or injure myself to stop playing for a couple days.
I’m a dancer and I mentioned to my mom that I want to quit I was instantly ignored then she started saying how much money she spent into it and I understand but every time I go I get so much anxiety
I just don’t remember the last time I was itching to get on the court. There was a time when I would get to practice 30 minutes early, stay on the court for another hour after. Now, I get in, get out. I want to want to play. I just don’t anymore
I do wrestling and I like wrestling but I started to get tired of it and I hate going to practice. I get anxiety about going to practice. Mostly because it’s such a hard sport and they push you really hard. My mom would be fine with it but my dad would get mad because he really wants me to do a sport and wrestling is the only school sport I’m really good at.
I've been doing karate for 9 years and now I find no sense to the stuff we train, they are unrealistic and pointless and boring. It's getting boring and now I want to quit a go for bjj, wrestling or mma
No matter what chose to do sports wise, my .Dad always supported me, even if there was an activity that was becoming not fun anymore due to rude instructors and things. My Dad has said and always will believe that all sports should be fun and enjoyable and it’s the teens decision on what they want to do.
I’m a 12 year old swimmer and I have loved the sport for years but I just want to try something else. I don’t know what my parents are going to say or react because I have been swimming for 7 1/2 years. I love swimming but I don’t like how the pool is cold. I always hide in the bathroom for 15 minutes each practice.
My passion for soccer got me down to a waste my teammates doesn’t care even my coach doesn’t believe that I won’t make it, this been bothering me since last summer I put my self to practice hard day n night having injuries, tryna show them I can prove them wrong. It’s hurting me that I don’t get the respect a deserve I need, and they already lost 4 games without me, I’m really losing hope in soccer my dreams ain’t relevant anymore:(
i don't wanna quit baseball because i don't wanna let anyone down but i hate how i always gotta look for teams, train, meet new coaches and stuff it honestly sucks. my grandpa passed so one of my biggest fans isn't even here to support. i just want to focus on getting fit, strong and healthy as well as academics. i don't know what to do though
i am forced to do street work out if i dont do 8 pull ups every day i cant play pc for a week,thats why i dont enjoy it becose i am forced too
I’ve been doing horse back riding for a few months but I want to quit. The person who teaches me to ride is super sweet and doesn’t put much pressure on me but the lady who actually owns the barn and the horse I ride can be very mean and make me really anxious. Like if I do something wrong that she never even told me not to do before she’ll get really mad. I also don’t see much progress in my riding so that makes me really discouraged also one of the other girls can be a real bitch just cause she knows she’s better at it then me. So with all that I just don’t enjoy it anymore it feels like school, something I have to do but really don’t wanna do. So I’ve been planning to quit for a few weeks now I wasn’t to worried about telling my mom because she already caught on that I was no longer enjoying it also the only extra thing we bought for it was some nice boots. But this Christmas I got a really nice helmet for it. So I think my mom will be mad now when I tell her I don’t wanna do it anymore. Tomorrow’s have it again and then I’m going to decide if it’s at all enjoyable and if it is I’ll continue if not I’ll tell my mom. Wish me luck!!
My dad won’t let me quit basketball because he is the coach of the team and he thinks that if I go outside and practice I’ll like it more but the truth is that they are basically FORCING me to go to play a sport I don’t want to. We can’t pay for college unless I get a scholarship for sports but I want to try swimming and see if I enjoy it more instead of basketball!
I do gymnastics and I hate gymnastics soooo much but I don’t know how to tell my parents. I literally cry before each practice but I never let them know I cry.
Have you tried to talk to your parents about it?
Peak Performance Sports, LLC no because I’ve done it since kindergarten and I’m scared of what they’ll say. I also made my closest friend in gymnastics and I’m scared I’ll loose her if I quit.
@@elenabala3865 Start the conversation by telling them you're not having fun. If they ask why, then tell them.
@@elenabala3865 Never be afraid to tell you're parents something
that’s my problem i’m getting anxiety and i’m throwing up over stress and i’m too scared to tell my dad 😔
I let go of hockey, I’ve played for 8 years straight. I really liked the game but I didn’t like the players, some are nice and some are toxic. Like I get it’s a part of the game and it’s supposed to be like.
I'm 13 and I've been playing rugby league since i was 8. I wanna quit but I don't wanna disappoint my parents.
I quit track and field last year and they were dissapointed and kept trying to get me to not quit but I quit anyway.
I very rarely seem happy when my dad mentions training which I thought might show him I'm not happy playing any more but it doesn't. And whenever he asked me if I still wanna play I just say yes because I don't want him to feel like he wasted his time and effort coaching me. He's also the coach of my team. So I'm never allowed to skip a training session and my standards of how I play a rfe extremely high.
I'm scared my parents are gonna be dissapointed in me. I have panic attacks thinking about what will happen if I don't quit and it's stressful. Its just not fun any more but I don't want my parents to be dissapointed.
So Idk if I'm gonna tell them or if I'm just gonna live my life the way they want me to and continue playing which will result to me being miserable.
Sometimes I wish I never started playing in the first place.
i have to do track, and running is so painful, the meets give me anxiety and i dont know how to tell my mom i dont want to do it anymore, can someone plz tell what to do?
Do shot put and discus
Hehe same. But I gotta tell my dad
Show them this vidio
I’m honestly just not about to go to practice
I’m kinda scared to tell my dad I don’t want to play football anymore and pursue just lifting weights because I’ve played ever since I was 5 😪
My mom doesn’t let me quit swimming and I asked why she said cuz I need to do exercise then I said can I join the gym and then she said it not a sport so it’s not exercise
Yesssssssss! Same!!
Guys I need help. I have no more fun in soccer any more. I get super nervous before games and I only play because I want to be just like my older siblings. I don’t know what to do anymore. Please help me.
What's the nervousness about? Are you concerned about doing well?
Peak Performance Sports, LLC yes
@@Sparky-uz5db That's a mental game issues and not an issue of "I don't like my sport." You can overcome the worry by focusing on the process of one touch at a time and not caring about what others think of your game.
I quitted wrestling about a week and I came home then my mom (doesn't know about wrestling but knows it's a sport) asked in a disappointed and angry tone that "Are you going to wrestle?" And I said no and then she starts complaining about this and that and it gets me annoyed. IS THIS REACTION NORMAL or not???
Thank You for the explanation Mr. Cohn, and yes, I told them my reasons on the day that I quited.
Is there anything like this for a kids point of view???
i started doing downhill a year ago,the first 1-5 months was a blast time.its was super fun and im enjoying it.it wasn't competitive time yet.and after that my father introduced me to many athlete's and they teach me physical training and mental training.that was the time when im starting to lose my spirit.i realized that i didn't have time to hangout with my friend and be like any other normal kid in school.and the longer i get into downhill,the more i hate it.it becoming weight and it stressed me out.i wanna quit but i fear that my father would probably not going to be happy with that because he already sacrifice so much time and money just to get me here.i got some injuries too such as dislocated wrist,elbow and even my back bone.
@@PeakPerformanceSports i talked to my sister and my mother. my sister said if you dont like what you're doing,its okay to quit. my mother is bit complicated,she asked me what im gonna do after i quit.and honestly i love motorcycle but my parents hates them
@@PeakPerformanceSports i haven't talked to my dad because i knew he's going to be so mad at me.this sport is the only thing that makes my father proud of me.there's no good side of me beside that sport
@@PeakPerformanceSports hey i just wanna say that i just talked to my father and it didn't go as planed. because of my decision, he went full angry and selfish and he said that the whole family never appreciated him when the truth is its the other way around. im so confused right now and idk why my whole family mad at me for making my dad angry.
@@PeakPerformanceSports please i need your help
My dad forces me to play basketball so I can play in the professional league.
What am I? Just a paycheck?
That’s my mom with baseball I fell the same
Extremely helpful
Coaches tried to hold me back even when i was better than at least half the people at my old dojo for martial arts. Then when i won at other sports i was told “don’t be happy because you’ll make other kids feel bad about losing” 🙄