Is Marriage Still Worth It? The Realities of Modern Relationships

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  • @Eye_of_Horus
    @Eye_of_Horus 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +69

    I see top tier dudes getting divorce dunked on too. I've also watched guys get divorce graped in their 70s, after a 40 year marriage. Just saying. You can do everything right and still lose in that game.

    • @psilohsaibin9916
      @psilohsaibin9916 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Yes but dating roaches will never tell you this

    • @Yanay_A
      @Yanay_A 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Me too, but the most surprising thing is that 86% of people who divorce, remarry within 5 years.

    • @marcusr3795
      @marcusr3795 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Im NGL but I don’t think there’s anything a man can do big or small that will save a marriage if the women isn’t fit for LTR. Would be like trying to put a rotary engine in a Mercedes doesn’t matter how good the car or the engine is they’re never going to function together. Women are programmed by their families and husbands anything outside of that seems to corrupt them and once they’re cooked and had a taste of the carousel lifestyle they’re cooked so why does it matter how good or bad the husband is it’s game over from the jump the marriage has an expiration date. Tom Brady Brad Pitte etc. For millennia and across the globe marriage was only available for women if they met that one prerequisite and men deep down know this.

    • @Eye_of_Horus
      @Eye_of_Horus 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@marcusr3795 people change. She might be “fit for marriage” at 25. But at 60 she wants to be on her own. Happens all the time.

    • @mattx4253
      @mattx4253 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Yanay_A those stats are a lie. Just my own circle has divorced people in it who will never remarry. Nobody has remarried. Not one. Especially if they lost a lot are vehemently against marriage. The women remarry clearly because it’s a double pay out for them

  • @clintpot8521
    @clintpot8521 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Psychologists/therapists benefit. Big pharma benefits. Divorce lawyers benefit. Gov't Benefits. Women benefit. That's a lot of people trying to get their fingers into your wallet when your relationship goes sour.

  • @azothdrogo9373
    @azothdrogo9373 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    As an older guy, I think you’re a bit of an idealist. I was married for over a decade, had two kids, held frame and led my family the way my father and grandfather did. She still got bored

    • @bennetthisey1733
      @bennetthisey1733 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Yeah sounds like a lot of work for no reward. Thanks for the heads up!

    • @BO-mb8rr
      @BO-mb8rr 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      American women will gut their husband like a wild animal and destroy their entire family just because one morning they get out of bed and say, "I am not happy."

    • @Doggo-frencton
      @Doggo-frencton 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You picked the wrong woman. Sorry but it’s just the truth.

    • @azothdrogo9373
      @azothdrogo9373 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@Doggo-frencton love how all you young guys think you know everything because you watch YT videos 😂. We met when I was 28 and she was 22. Talk to me when you’ve gone through it, had a couple of kids, and you’re with someone for over 13 years with all the ups and downs. Women change my guy

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      so you get to play Russian roulette, 60% of the time you might shoot yourself.. yea.. ima not gonna even play! f that shhiii!

  • @biffbifford402
    @biffbifford402 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Women want the fairy tale. The minute you return from the honeymoon and there is 40 hours of work, yard work, bills, and everyday dealing with life, the woman becomes disenchanted and starts to take it out on her husband and the relationship. She starts comparing her life to that of her friends where the husband is wealthy and the woman doesn’t have to work, and are always going on vacation. I’ve seen this scenario a hundred times.

  • @riverat7558
    @riverat7558 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    Bo here is going to learn the hard way it looks like. He's yet to realize that even when they say it's not. It's always about the money!

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Facts.

    • @miggy9260
      @miggy9260 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s a business. Scroll up. Look for my post.

    • @stayingfitandfocused
      @stayingfitandfocused 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      sadly

  • @davelight2220
    @davelight2220 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Marriage is not a luxury, it’s a liability!!

    • @LadyJane222
      @LadyJane222 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Lol…People don’t want to work on their marriage and then it goes to shite.

    • @stayingfitandfocused
      @stayingfitandfocused 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LadyJane222 you can't "work on" anything with women, they change like the season.

  • @mrbHanoi
    @mrbHanoi 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    My wife brought over 1 million dollars in 30 years Helped me buy 3 houses, 10 cars and visit 10 countries. She cooked 5000 times for me Drove me in Tokyo for 5 years We were a team She never wasted my money. She never raised her voice in 36 years. Soon married 33 years

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      No one said lottery winners don't exist. The very fact your story is special is because its rare. If it was the norm, nobody would care about your comment. Therefore, the fact that its rare complements what we see every day. That this is just a pipe dream and the odds of getting something like that is astronomically low, like a lottery...

    • @miggy9260
      @miggy9260 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I can bet. She’s not a Western woman.

    • @mrbHanoi
      @mrbHanoi 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @miggy9260 90% western women are no good Last time I dated a western woman was in 1987.

    • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
      @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      im happy for you sir.
      Truly am. But why in the hell are you even watching videos like this. what are you not happy with. these types of videos should not even be on your radar

    • @mrbHanoi
      @mrbHanoi 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 good question. Trying to understand women , especially American women better. Afterall half the population is female.

  • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
    @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I went overseas to Africa. started a family here. I'm not getting married. My gf lives with me and we had a baby. My power of indifference means I don't worry if she leaves or takes our kid. she can't touch my money and she is so poor she needs me to survive. am I taking advantage of poor African women?
    yes.
    yes I am

    • @tonyp.bahama9368
      @tonyp.bahama9368 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well, so is she right.

    • @ssing7113
      @ssing7113 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂. No man. Both transacting and sounds like you both are fine right now with the exchange
      Although all she needs is your full legal name and she has a friend of a friend of friend who is a lawyer. You’re getting a court order to Africa then one day to provide paperwork / bank statements / tax returns. And you’re paying for the kid

    • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
      @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ssing7113 im a disabled Veteran. also...I will and do not mind paying for my child.in fact she would get more from me if she doesn't make trouble..but trust me..this girl is almost straight from the village. 😂 I went to extremes to ensure I got one that has little concept of American culture. she only has facebook.Facebook. and no other social media. plus she is not a 10. she can look cute all fixed up but honestly she is a 4 lol...

    • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
      @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ssing7113 this is her today.
      th-cam.com/video/nbaxpWQKNvk/w-d-xo.htmlsi=-0gWyhg_zPoLyX6c

    • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
      @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ssing7113 my comment seems to get deleted..or it's not showing up.
      Anyway...im a disabled Veteran so yes there is a legal hook in me because I'll soon register my kid at the embassy but..BUT..ill take care of my kid regardless of that as any responsible father will but the advantage is im not in the American family court system and if I were to be put on child support she will screw herself because here the cost of living is such that she would get pennies on the dollar if she somehow decides to do that. [chances are very slim. the average salary here is $300 a month so my child support would probably be very very low..but honestly...ill ensure my child gets taken care of. its very different than if I was in America.

  • @JJReal-m7x
    @JJReal-m7x 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Hire a maid, hire a surrogate and date who you want. Why risk everything you’ve worked for?

    • @LadyJane222
      @LadyJane222 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That’s not a healthy environment for kids.

    • @miggy9260
      @miggy9260 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@LadyJane222That’s not a healthy environment for the Corporate “government.”

    • @r25012501
      @r25012501 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@LadyJane222 healthier than a single mom

    • @MsLotusBlooms
      @MsLotusBlooms 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      But most women won't be interested in you to date a while.

    • @LadyJane222
      @LadyJane222 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@r25012501, If a man has a kid with a surrogate and then he’s bringing all kinds of women home, that kid would be messed up. The same would apply if a single mother did that. It’s stupid. Just date and don’t have any kids.

  • @ZachLwry
    @ZachLwry 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Nah dude, I also fell victim to the "the statistics aren't that bad" and "I have a lot of control over the outcome" mentality. I did not. I had a house and a rapidly growing 6 figure business. I did everything I could in the relationship. It did not matter. If you want to get married, by all means do so, but don't delude yourself into thinking you will retain any semblance of control in your life. No, I don't mean that your wife will be controlling (although that could be the case), I mean everything you have ever worked for will be subject to the whims of some woman.

    • @stayingfitandfocused
      @stayingfitandfocused 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm glad that the community isn't gonna fall for the idealism. Love Bo, but I wouldn't even recommend or even risk it

  • @riverat7558
    @riverat7558 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    BTW when I was in my thirties I used to get lonely and think why I'm so successful and I have nobody to share it with. So I tried to share it and it blew up in my face time after time. You finally realize that all women are basically the same as men are too. Get over your loneliness get on your grind make your money learn how to have fun alone you will be a lot better off. Now that I'm in my 60s I have women basically throwing themselves at me once they smell the success they can't help themselves. Live it up kids! I know I am. From a 67-year-old boomer.

  • @infiad1275
    @infiad1275 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I'd do the ceremony and call myself married but government has no business getting involved in a relationship.

    • @Yanay_A
      @Yanay_A 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Many places have common law marriage laws.

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@Yanay_A bingo! yep, just living together for more than 6months and your girlfriend receiving mail at your address is seen as a legal marriage in almost half of US states.

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Common law marriage? 😂 Bruh how can you guys even stand dating or cohabitating? Y'all really asking for it. 🤣🤣

    • @MKULTRA_Victim_
      @MKULTRA_Victim_ 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Yanay_Astop lying. Only 10 states in the US have common law marriage.

    • @MKULTRA_Victim_
      @MKULTRA_Victim_ 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@net2dev stop lying. Only 10 states in the US have common law marriage. Biggest one is Texas.

  • @ws-ss8ks
    @ws-ss8ks 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Find a woman who is feminine and supportive...... In the West? Basically unicorn hunting.

  • @Drunkmonk2122
    @Drunkmonk2122 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I mean ….. marriage is only worth it if she makes more money now and if she leaves then I get half …. If I always have to worry about losing everything I can’t live like that

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Only Chads get that chance. A woman wants a guy who earns more than her, she knows the game.

    • @Drunkmonk2122
      @Drunkmonk2122 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@net2dev facts …. And finding a girl who makes more is usually 2 points below you in looks ave a buddy his wife makes 135k$ and he makes 55k$ and before they got married he told her hey this is my job and she new if she leaves he will get the house and or half which they discussed before hand but I agree …. Finding a woman who would be down for that deal is like rare only seen it 1-2 times in my life

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yeah, in the US, women want paid weddings not marriage.

    • @onlinemoney6144
      @onlinemoney6144 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That's why the first question every woman ask you, is what you do for leaving/work

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@onlinemoney6144 I think its okay for women to ask that only if they are willing to be a stay at home wife/mother for your future kids cause she needs to know you're able to provide and support her. On the other hand if she is a boss babe, don't want kids, Run! She is looking to fund her 401k hahaha

  • @lunabg8925
    @lunabg8925 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    You have a consumer attitude. It is natural that women in your society have the same upbringing.

  • @jjrecon3024
    @jjrecon3024 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Self Awareness leads One to self-respect, suddenly self-control looks attractive, and self-discipline looks like 'a good time' 👀

  • @kevingeorge1095
    @kevingeorge1095 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Marriage for men today has made women into high-risk luxuries. The odds of winning in a casino, where the rules favor the house, are better. Some win big, that's for sure, but the odds are definitely not in the man's favor.

  • @IvanDalmatinac
    @IvanDalmatinac 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    57, single, never married, no kids, fit, healthy, retired, nice house, nice area. My married friends who earn a lot more than me, overweight, heavy drinkers, looking miserable, high earners, expected to earn earn earn.....No thanks.

  • @FraBir1
    @FraBir1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    One thing about happy couples, is that they are never online voicing their lives, I have seen plenty of happy marriages, my parents being one example even after 30 years. Discontented people are the loudest, contented people are just plodding on with their lives

    • @ssing7113
      @ssing7113 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right
      The loudest barrels make the most noise

  • @LadyJane222
    @LadyJane222 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I think the problem with a lot of men and women is that they think marriage is a walk in the park and no one wants to put in the effort to work through the hard times. Let’s take the easy way out and just get a divorce and that will solve everything. How about communicating with each other and working through the issues to have a great marriage because it’s not always going to be sunshine and roses. I’ve been married for 22 years and we’ve gone through some major stuff but we got through it.

  • @DARRENMILLS-i6w
    @DARRENMILLS-i6w 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sounds exhausting.
    I gotta bust my ass for a lifetime, growing, challenging myself for the same piece of you know what?
    America has created an environment where women benefit from everything in a long-term relationship.
    Life is short, maybe we’re not meant to have LTR’s anymore?

    • @TibaltMogpin-yw3he
      @TibaltMogpin-yw3he 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yup work 24/7 and jestermaxx to entertain your wife and keep her from pulling the rug out from under you. Notice that YOU have no leverage over her at all! No equally yolked.

    • @stayingfitandfocused
      @stayingfitandfocused 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      facts, im at the point where i do not want to give anything at all to a woman anymore ever

  • @craigs1437
    @craigs1437 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Marriage, kids, pets, and homeownership, are only sustainable for those who have 8-figure net-worth's & above, especially in western countries. But that's my own personal experiences, observations, opinion.

  • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
    @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Never ever never never get married. there is absolutely no benefit i dont care what anyone says.

  • @pentrubarbati
    @pentrubarbati 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    not worth the rissks .. and not worth for the quality women offer now

  • @elmariachi112
    @elmariachi112 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Idc if its a luxury or not, all I know is that I don't see how any woman can convince me to spend any considerable amount on her.
    Entering my 4th decade alive, I have been past all the BS and drama they have offered me.
    Even if I found the unicorn, I still would not spend any money on her, regardless of consequence.

  • @stevef7798
    @stevef7798 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I can say, having kids is the best and hardest thing you can ever do. It's not easy to have kids these days, because you want the best for them, and that can be really expensive. Marriage if it doesn't go well, is a disaster for anyone; Just look at Gates or Bezos. Half the assets of the riches men are reallocated.

    • @josealexi5141
      @josealexi5141 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      1000% those women did NOTHING to grow those businesses other than grease their mans' pole.

    • @LadyJane222
      @LadyJane222 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, but their wives were with them from the beginning and helped them build the businesses. So, you don’t think they should get anything? If the guys had built their fortune before they married then the women should not be entitled to any money accumulated before the marriage. In that case I hope there’s a prenup involved.

    • @stevef7798
      @stevef7798 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LadyJane222 lets be serious. They did .001% of building Amazon and Microsoft. Don't kid yourself.

  • @sydneexxceasy9063
    @sydneexxceasy9063 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bo for years never get married especially in the west. Its not worth it
    Bo with his new chick
    Marriage is completely worth it omg what an amazing idea. You should all do it

    • @stayingfitandfocused
      @stayingfitandfocused 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lmfao bro sandman talks about this, it happens to all the guys that finally get a good woman or a woman they think is not like the ones in the west.

  • @0rnery0verwatch
    @0rnery0verwatch 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Counter point: that nfl qb with the supermodel wife who divorced him. Was that just bad luck, the wrong woman or a demonstration of a larger trend?

    • @onlinemoney6144
      @onlinemoney6144 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      proving a point that everyone is replaceable no matter how good you are, even if you are the best or number one

  • @mrbHanoi
    @mrbHanoi 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Look at Paul Neuman or Pierce Brosnan , not Tom Brady or Bill Gates. Why study failure?

    • @bennetthisey1733
      @bennetthisey1733 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Look a Pierce Brosnan's wife lol. Why study failure?

    • @mrbHanoi
      @mrbHanoi 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @bennetthisey1733 marriage successful He does not care if she is fat

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Paul Newman comes from the pre hippie generation and the women from that generation were a lot different. It hasn't been possible to get what that generation got for decades already.

    • @mrbHanoi
      @mrbHanoi 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@benstandard easy outside USA.

    • @markd9318
      @markd9318 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@bennetthisey1733 dude could have any woman he wanted but stays with her. I wouldnt say she failed at anything.

  • @Domenico-uc7xy
    @Domenico-uc7xy 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I speak spanish and italian... it would be good to translate ur videos. Maybe we can team up. It would be a great pleasure

    • @alaindelon5398
      @alaindelon5398 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Learn to use the settings of the NaziTube to autotranslate into any language even when there are no CCs.
      Learn to use Google.

  • @stayingfitandfocused
    @stayingfitandfocused 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As someone that has been through the child support hell courts.
    I'm good. I'd rather travel ,learn languages, meet new people, and see the world.

  • @gerardo9052
    @gerardo9052 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Men should always need a plan b to survive
    A secret account
    A secret apartment
    A secret lover
    A secret business
    Options give peace of mind and spirit

    • @miggy9260
      @miggy9260 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Pssst, here’s a secret. Don’t get married. 😂

  • @onlinemoney6144
    @onlinemoney6144 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I got a better change wining the lottery than having a marriage that last a decade. What you describe in the video is lottery winner of a billion dollars, everyone is playing but not everyone will win.

  • @SleeplessBanjos
    @SleeplessBanjos 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It is like lemming to a cliff! Aka we are being pushed off in droves by a corporation to make us do something unnatural for profit

  • @firstlast2386
    @firstlast2386 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Early algo gang

  • @dandaman9009
    @dandaman9009 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Goals and dreams, about making money. I don’t dream about work and making money so no I’ll pass

  • @bolotabr12
    @bolotabr12 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    If you follow God’s standards… Yes. But if you want to be independent from God. Good luck to you.

    • @alwayscreepin
      @alwayscreepin 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Which God

    • @bolotabr12
      @bolotabr12 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@alwayscreepin The name "Jehovah" means "I am that I am" or "I am the one who is". In the Book of Exodus, God tells Moses his name while speaking from the burning bush.

    • @alwayscreepin
      @alwayscreepin 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bolotabr12 are you saying you have proof for that gods existence?

    • @bolotabr12
      @bolotabr12 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@alwayscreepin There is a God, who created all things. Look around you and even look at your body how wonderful it was made.

    • @alwayscreepin
      @alwayscreepin 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bolotabr12evidence?

  • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
    @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dont forget Africa. im a passport bro in Cote D'ivoire. Not many Passport bros here..and this culture is way more traditional than asia in my opinion

  • @BollocksFilmReviews
    @BollocksFilmReviews 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Are the reaction videos with Sofie still online?

  • @terryharris2558
    @terryharris2558 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Idealism and reality is two different worlds. The concept of romance is the stuff of fantasy. Getting married is sheer lunacy; handing over control of your life to another person or the state, giving them the right to financially destroy you at will.

  • @LolitaExpress212
    @LolitaExpress212 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bo Refec, are u related to Bo Katan?

  • @enogur5
    @enogur5 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    lol top tier woman define top tier

  • @easyrebel
    @easyrebel 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This sounds coupe slop, it luck and the odds are bad. Just like the self improvement guys, no one sees how dam lucky they are. You not the only who works hard... you are the one of many that made it.

  • @nick9311
    @nick9311 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Mike never vetted Lisa

  • @saintoflastresorts2272
    @saintoflastresorts2272 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Whether you are complete or not it's still a bad contract.

  • @kikiandjasmine
    @kikiandjasmine 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LLC people, protect yourself

  • @asparrow9876
    @asparrow9876 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lmfaoaaaaaaoooooaoaoaoaoooaoaoooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @JSFGuy
    @JSFGuy 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let's do it.

  • @MKULTRA_Victim_
    @MKULTRA_Victim_ 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Man some of you guys in the comments are wayyy too bitter. It’s not a good look.

    • @stayingfitandfocused
      @stayingfitandfocused 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      brother not all of us want to get tied to a woman through courts.

  • @MoAdan28
    @MoAdan28 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I mean that's all well and good but not everyone wants to be top tier perfect to be in a relationship, you can be a bump and average and still in a good healthy relationship as long as the other partner understands and is willing to go through the same experience as you. And as much as a partner can be mental health support which is cost effective and cheaper than getting a real threapist cos shit cost way too mcuh to get a threapy these days and she might not be licensied at all but your buddies too not just your gf. So, at least add some friends and life to it instead of going through lone wolf and your gf can compliment and make improvements to your life which is good but it needs more and more excellence towards it.
    So before you come and attack and say this is not how we do at Islam which they haven't said that at all cos they jumped into conclusion at all basis on my own name or say that it's not worth it. Well It's only worth it if you with a right one that treats you well and like a king and boost you up when you get demotivated a lot of times. So you not perfect, but you just ok and sufficent enough to handle civilian activites and life and not be a criminal and a clown to everyone which is what should be for every regular joe out there in real life.

  • @andrasgergely1051
    @andrasgergely1051 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    For you dude, probablu not at all!😂😅

  • @mariusx6225
    @mariusx6225 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Guys take a f look in the mirror . If you already are over 35 with already a lot of white hair , stop bitching on internet. You missed your chance. At this point you should already have children and worry about that, not this bs here.

    • @alaindelon5398
      @alaindelon5398 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nu-s ce cauți pe astfel de canal dacă ești scula în bascula acasă.
      Ce sa-ti povestesc de muistele românce... niște materialiste mai mult decât astea din Occident.

  • @newtoncordeiro361
    @newtoncordeiro361 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen

  • @phoenixhenson3689
    @phoenixhenson3689 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hell No! Its a setup!

  • @trevorchase224
    @trevorchase224 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Female top reasons (% “A lot”) Male top reasons (% “A lot”)
    1 Communication (55.68%) Communication (42.23%)
    2 Unequal Home Responsibilities (42.89%) Lack of Satisfaction (28.73%)
    3 Lack of Satisfaction (41.14%) Infidelity (27.03%)
    4 Emotional/Verbal Abuse (36.90%) Unequal Home Responsibilities (20.17%)
    5 Infidelity (32.05%) Finances (14.88%)
    6 Alcohol/Drug Abuse (22.55%) Emotional/Verbal Abuse (11.94%)
    7 Finances (22.13%) Differences in Raising Children (10.60%)
    8 Differences in Raising Children (16.29%) Alcohol/Drug Abuse (9.11%)
    9 Physical Violence (11.94%) In-laws Conflict (8.07%)
    10 In-laws conflict (11.21%) Health Issues (3.47%)
    11 Criminal Activity (7.24%) Physical Violence (2.62%)
    12 Health Issues (5.06%) Criminal Activity (2.37%)
    13 Sexual Abuse (3.42%) Sexual Abuse (0.52%)
    This is from an article 5 days ago. doi.org/10.1080/28375300.2024.2400422
    If you're interested in reading the whole thing that's the link but you may need to pay. I didn't have to because I'm in university and I get in for free.

  • @thealienelite
    @thealienelite 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Its about leverage. When you commit, you give up some leverage. When you cohabitate, you give up most if it. When you marry she has complete control. And your only play is to hope she doesn't abuse it. No thanks.

  • @mattx4253
    @mattx4253 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Your top tier woman is going to divorce you and take all your shit. Marriage is a scam and not needed