Couple Things | Mathew Hussey
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- This week on Couple Things, we got to chat with dating expert, Matthew Hussey. Matthew talks with us about his advice for anyone that is starting, ending, or currently in a relationship. We even ask him what his #1 pick ups line is… We think you’ll want to tune into this one. It gets juicy.
Here are a few topics that we cover:
0:00 Timestamps
2:37 Is Mathew single?
3:30 living up to the pressure
5:53 how andrew won over shawn
8:07 andrew’s first impression of shawn
9:42 are there certain qualities that everyone is attracted to?
13:23 what should someone look for when dating?
14:32 investment and timing
17:56 what are the true compatibility factors?
20:30 key principals to follow while dating
27:03 going back to people who aren’t good for you
30:08: improving your confidence
34:24 marriage and mathew’s goals
39:14 do pick-up lines work?
41:50 first impressions
44:12 the importance in how you react
47:40 what attracted mathew to his girlfriend
51:30 why mathew is constantly learning
53:26 the absence of judgement
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“Being ready for a relationship is not the same thing as being ready to not be lonely anymore.” That’s huge and a lot of people don’t make that distinction!
This is fabulous podcast for the younger generation who are looking for a relationship with no self confidence.
The way Andrew listens to Shawn intently and looks at her with adoration shows his genuine love for her and that he truly “understands her essence”.
That’s how I feel about my husband. 23 years together and what initially attracted me to him was him being his true self, being silly, making me laugh, and just being 100% real. Still to this day he’s always 100% and my best friend in the whole world. We’ve been through so much and always still laugh together and just have fun with each other.
Coming off a divorce a few years ago and with 3 little children and finally in my first relationship since the divorce. This spoke volumes to me! Dating is hard especially in this day and age. This is my first time listening on you tube! I am forever a fan ❤️
My marriage experienced some hard times, and I was ready to walk away.. after 5 years of both of us putting in a lot of hard work, we are still together and have found happiness again!!
I liked when he said "Someone who accepts, understands and soothes my crazy" that's perfect, that's a keeper!
When he said “Someone who accepts, understands and soothes my crazy” I felt that I’m so grateful I have a husband that is so patient and loving towards me when I’m crazy from dealing with everything life 🧡
Been married a looong time, but sharing this with my daughter. So much good information. And you two are a precious couple!
“What you say you’re looking for and what you accept are two different things.” LOVE this. Sooooo much truth!!!
Shawn: “Andrew’s game was rough at the beginning” 😂 I love them!
WOW! this was great! What you say you are looking for and what you accept are two different things....that shook my core! Thanks for this guys!
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Timing is everything… that cannot be more true!! My husband and I knew each other for 6 years before we started dating. 2 years of dating before marriage. Now 9 years happily married. Timing is truly everything!!!
It’s completely wonderful to see a couple not taking their blessing for granted. I love that you are constantly nurturing your relationship! It’s EVERYTHING!
“Timing is where it’s at.” So raw, real, and true!!!! (New subscriber; Nashville native, and hoping to win that $500 so I can come see y’all at ZANIES !!!!)
I’m not currently in a relationship but got so much out of this.
Character really is such an important trait to look for in a significant other. I love that he appreciated finding this in his current relationship!
Everything that was said is so spot on, huge fan of yalls podcast!! “Arguing well” and communicating effectively is so important! I’ve also learned that learning your persons love language and knowing what brings them happiness is so crucial too. My bf just lost his dad about two months ago and that was the hardest thing he has had to go through. While it is devastating, it definitely brought us closer. Keeping him busy and doing things that made him happy really helped him get through that really difficult time❤️
Ooof “being ready for a relationship is not that same thing as being ready to not be lonely anymore”. So. Good. As a youth pastor and also dealing with young adults, that’s definitely good advice I’ll pass on!!
Love that you show that relationships aren’t always easy…it can get messy and work but if you are with the right person and willing to put in the work it is totally worth it!
Teamwork is definitely huge in a relationship and having someone who is honest and communicates well with you goes so much further than just attraction ever will!
Y’all always make my day! And I think it’s awesome that you’re doing a show like couple things! We need more positive family influences in the world! ❤️
"You want me to package it and write a letter? Nah, I'll just keep the hair dryer." Soooo relatable!
You guys are couple goals! I love watching you two interact with each other; you can genuinely see the love. I can’t wait to dive into the rest of your episodes.
“I want to make people feel less alone” - y’all are doing that!
After being married for 27 years, it is always nice to hear new perspectives and insight.
My husband was and is still exactly who he is and is so authentic and genuine. I can always count on him and we’ve grown so much already!! Makes a huge difference!! Love y’all’s vulnerability, authenticity, and positivity! Also love learning more about what makes you all you and what you’ve been through on your own and together!! Inspiring to see and is healing and helping so many!!! Keep crushing it!!!!!!
All of this hits home. Spot on. Thanks for being real & having guests who do the same!
What a great episode...I just started listening to your show and things this is a great way to increase the value of your relationship. Love it !
I love listening to all of the advice that you provide, knowing that you are raw and real with everything makes it easier to listen and not feel attacked. I feel like a lot of people have lived through things that they thought were "normal" whether it was because it's what they saw growing up or what they always experienced. But knowing there's a way to come out of it happier and able to learn from the experiences that you've been through make each day worth it! For me personally looking back is never easy, but at least now when I look forward I feel prepared, ready and supported by the ones that are in my life now! Today I can say that I'm happy, that my kids are happy, and our futures are bright!
Timing is everything - it literally is!
Being in the right place at the right time can allow you to meet your spouse, find your dream job or anything!
I love watching your videos!
Love this podcast so much and always appreciate hearing the great conversations Shawn and Andrew have with guests. Great episode!
I love how humble Matthew is from the beginning of the podcast to the end! I also loved his honesty when he admitted he sometimes looks at old videos and doesn’t agree with them anymore. He is constantly learning, growing & evolving as an expert and that’s how I always hope to be in my marriage (as a non-expert, only 6 years in). This episode was very interesting to listen to and very enjoyable, thanks for creating quality content! :-)
I love how real guys are, and the topics you dive deeper into are extremely relevant to life. And I just wanted to say Thank you for that!
I listen to every single episode and this episode had SO many golden nuggets!! I’m thankful there is a platform like this so we can all keep learning not only to better ourselves but our relationships as well
I love watching all of y’all’s videos! You are so open and honest about your relationship and what y’all go through. It makes it so relatable to take what y’all say and use it or see the same situation in my own life.
What a great channel to be running! Having positive messages about relationships and advice is so needed, truly appreciate it🙌
“Timing is everything” cannot be more true. Thank you for these conversations!
“A certain amount of courage needs confidence “ i live that
I have been married 15 years! I love listening to your podcast and hearing everyone's take on things!! I love the realness off it! Keep on keepin' on!💖
“Timing is where it’s at.” Love this podcast & cant wait for the tour!!
This helped so much. Been going through hard times with my significant other, and have learned so much to help our relationship., and same with your podcast! Thank you!❤️
“Timing is where it’s at”
Love thisss. And so applicable to all aspects of life! Enjoyed this week’s podcast a lot! 💕
He is absolutely correct finding someone that accepts, understands and soothes my crazy. It is important to find someone that will understand you and help you not change you.
Shawn and Andrew’s podcast has taught me to continue to strive to do better, and be better. To work on my relationships with not only my fiancé but my family as well. Thank you for all you have taught me and the world. Please don’t let anyone stop you. 💙
Love the discussion of compatibility, infatuation, and true investment in a relationship!! A great reminder that relationships are built on choosing to invest in your person all the time!
Not only are you both super relatable but no matter what age your viewers are we can relate and compare our experiences and relationships to your advice! Thank you so much for this podcast! It’s super inspiring! 💕
I really love watching y’all’s videos. They really do help me with everyday life, especially working on a relationship after my son was born.
This channel is such a fantastic resource no matter where you are in marriage, dating or just relationships in general! Good job guys!
This is so good. I love that you guys take the time to dive into things like this. We live in such a fast paced world that I think these are important questions to think about going into relationships. I think that’s why so many marriages fail because you’re marrying and idea of a person not who they actually are. Love this 🖤🖤🖤
I absolutely love how open you both are and relatable. I appreciate your variety of content and the uplifting message you continue to convey! ❤️
I had never heard of him before, but it was really fun to listen and glad that he is always updating his opinion instead of just saying the same thing over and over again! Thanks!
Love how you all talked about how it is different to have and be in a relationship compared to just being tired of being alone.
You two have been such an inspiration in my life. I wait anxiously for the next episodes!!! Thank y’all so much!🥰🙏🏼
The sweetest thing about this podcast to me was actually this line from Andrew to his lovely lady … “I have zero game, The fact that I’m sitting next to the woman of my dreams is strictly due to my sense of humor.”
Ok first of all you both are such beautiful people inside and out! What a beautiful family! 2nd of all I love how your guest emphasizes on how kindness is universally important! I love the pod cast! Keep them coming! I also love how you call your man an “adorable mess and you go on to say that Andrew was so authentic and sincere.” Omg you guys you two are soul mates and so wonder together!
Y’all are so great!! Love the topics y’all choose to talk about. I spent my whole day yesterday bingeing the podcasts From the very beginning! Thank you, thank you for being a wonderful couple and sharing your experiences with us!
Loving how inviting you guys are. Giving people ways to start conversations with partners and also with ones self about relationships.
20+ years married here... started in the unconventional way of met on dating site..emailing back and forth because cell phones weren't around...lol
Thanks for this channel. Also thanks for working with Abbott- Abbott hospital in MN saved my Dads life, many many blood transfusions..keep the donations coming!
Love the podcast! Timing is everything. It’s hard to be patient when you are looking for your person but it’s worth the wait. Also, best wishes and prayers as you prepare to welcome your baby boy!
Y’all are seriously such couple goals! I love to hear y’all when you’re joking and when you’re being sincere. Y’all are so relatable and I just love watching you interact as a family!
I absolutely love this TH-cam channel and how real you guys are on a wide range of topics!!
I recently discovered your videos and podcast! Your content is so joyful, authentic, and uplifting. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
Really loved this episode. Currently going through a breakup, and listening to this gave me some beautiful insight :)
I’m a new subscriber and to have this video be the first one I listen to is crazy. I’ve been single for some time now and have just recently decided I wish to start dating and trying to find my person. This video was super helpful and changed my views on certain things. Love the podcast! Will keep listening!!
LOVE your podcasts and videos. You guys are the most genuine people I’ve seen on social media. Wishing ur family a life full of happiness!
Love you guys so much!!! So excited for what’s in store with the arrival of your little guy soon! Wishing you all the best!
You guys are such a good role model for couples. My husband and I love listening to these together. We are getting ready to welcome our first little man in just a few short months and you guys have not only inspired us as a couple but also as parents!
I’ve never subscribed to any Chanel’s before but this will probably be my one and only! I’m a night shift nurse and this gets me threw my nights! Love!
I love Matthew Hussey & I love you guys! So I was way too pumped to see yall do a video together! So good! ❤
I love everything about you two! Love the topics and just your day to day updates. Your podcasts are amazingly real and fun! I applaud you both for putting yourselves out there in this critical world. Keep being great!
I just love how real and relatable this podcast is.
As someone who is engaged and getting married this upcoming October I must say that he truly hit this out of the park!! He speaks such a raw genuine truth and it is truly inspirational. My fiancé and I both agreed we were going to live together before even considering getting engaged. Dating versus living together/dating is a complete game changer. There are certain things that people have hardwired into them maybe in their cleaning routines or their eating habits and etc. and sometimes those can make or break a relationship but without living together and getting to know that side of them you may never know it to be one of your pet peeves!! Thankfully my fiancé and I once we moved in together our relationship grew and flourished into something even more incredible and we worked together wonderfully just as a well oiled machine would do. It’s so crazy how God created us all differently but creates a person for us that is different but that’s perfectly into who we are. Can’t wait to see y’all in Charlotte!!
I love how real the topics are you guys cover!!! Thank you for being real and sharing!
Absolutely love this video, being real and raw is such a big thing to me and I love that y’all are so open and honest!
Such truth! Love all the different topics you two cover in all the episodes, keep them coming! Love you! ❤
Matthew Hussey advice has helped me so much over the years! Thank you for having him on and congrats on the podcast. It's so awesome! 💜
I love your pod cast. Have gone back to the beginning and have been listening to them. Thank you!!
Love listening to yalls podcast!! The energy is always great and I feel like I take away so much to help me with my own marriage!! Love what y’all do, thank you for sharing your knowledge along with others in all things couple related!!
Love you all! Love Couple Things! I can’t say it enough! I also like the diversity of couples that you show! It’s really awesome seeing your relationship and the relationships of others both older and younger, more experienced/less experienced, etc! Lots of wisdom and lots of good nuggets!! Nice to know people all over either have put in the work and have learned lessons or are putting in the work and are learning lessons as they go! No relationship is easy, but it is so worth it!! Been one of the most rewarding things and biggest blessings of my life, even with the struggles that come with it!! So many dynamics that you don’t even think about! Thankful to hear everyone’s stories and lessons!! We are all so unique! We can all learn from and with each other! That’s what it’s all about!!
I absolutely love how real and open you guys are about everything. I love following along on your journey and watching your sweet family grow.
Love how relatable your podcast is to different people in different stages in their lives! Love you guys! 💛
Absolutely loved this!! Love following you both on social media, this is just the cherry on top. So glad I started Following this.
Love your videos! Subscribed today! Thank you all for always being so honest and open!
I wanted to add that I love down to earth style Shawn and Andrew have and their guests are amazing!!
love you guys! thank you for your dedication to this podcast/channel. such a good resource!
So happy I found this podcast! Love you guys and thanks for sharing your life with us!!
Ahh always love listening to these :) thank you for keeping these up!
Timing is everything… I tell my son this everyday he sees my husband and I and thinks it’s easy to find someone. We met in high school not everyone is going to find their true love that easily.
Cant wait to watch more, I love watching your videos!! I remember meeting you at Chows while I was attending a meet representing Gleasons Gymnastics, It was around your 16th Birthday. Wow how crazy it is too see we are all grown up now!!
Can’t wait to start watching/listening from the beginning 😍 I’ve watched some I subscribe to yalls TH-cam! Love y’all!
New subsciber! My husband and I have been married 35 years and I honestly have to say that it does not feel that long! He is my best friend and confidant, my shoulder when I'm weary and makes me laugh every day. Marriage takes work and effort every day. You also have to appreciate each other and accept each other. You don't get married to change someone. You work thru all the changes and differences and use it to make your marriage better. I also have to say that having God in our lives and in our marriage has strengthened us when the time we're bad. I love watching the 2 of you and little Drew. You are blessed and I wish you all the very best with the new baby and a long life together!💖
Living with someone tells you way more about a person than dating them will, agree so much!
“Timing is everything” couldn’t agree more. I had so many roadblocks thrown in my path that held me back from where I was trying to get, but had so many things not gone wrong I would have never been in the right place at the right time to meet my spouse.
love matthew hussey!!! you guys are so easy to listen to seriously. i’m definitely more of a spotify kind of listener when it comes to podcasts but you guys are special
I haven’t listened so this episode yet, I usually listen on Spotify, but I just want to say I LOVED the episode about 10 lessons in communication. I took notes. Some of the lessons you guys have learned really stuck with me and can be helpful in my relationship so thank you! I love your realness and being able to relate to you guys means a lot!! 💙💙
I love you guys and the couple things episodes! It helps so much seeing what other couples go through!
Love this podcast. Thank you for doing this and bringing such great guests on. I love your perspectives on things and relate so strongly to your family which is so similar to mine. It has been so fun for me (28f) to follow along with both of your pregnancies that lined up so close to mine (21m old daughter and 6w old son) and your journey into parenthood as a couple and individuals. Keep it going!!
This video was amazing. Relationships are the most challenging but rewarding thing. What spoke to me most was Shawn talking about Andrew being so authentic and himself because nobody is perfect at all and being yourself is the most vulnerable thing you can do. Something I’ve heard before that I’ll always hold onto is “Take them as they are, not as you hoped they’d be”
Find this podcast so relatable and interesting! Love couple things! Also can’t wait for the new arrival:)
This podcast brings so much awareness and opens the door for real conversation. Love it
I love everything you share on your Instagram stories and now you come up with this. I love it and am looking forward to all the new content to help relationships!
Thank you so much for being authentic, having new people, being relatable and genuine. Keep doing what your doing 🤗
“What you are looking for and what you accept”. So true! I always have said I would like to be in a relationship but I don’t NEED to be in one.
I have a feeling I’m going to be listening to this episode again! Feeling like I’m done being lonely, but don’t think I’m ready for a relationship! Thanks for this topic Shawn and Andrew!!!
Excited to listen to this and your other episodes I’ve somehow missed, while heading to baseball games!