She’s Too Controlling, Masculine, Argumentative & Difficult!

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  • Controlling, masculine, argumentative and difficult women you should avoid if you want an effortless relationship.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a female viewer who got her feathers all ruffled after dating a guy who is a big fan of my book, 3% Man. She’s very accusatory, condescending and confrontational in her email towards me. You can tell she is constantly fighting for control in her relationships and is the opposite of feminine, submissive, easy going and easy to be with. She thinks men are the problem when it’s obvious that she creates problems where there are none.
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ความคิดเห็น • 407

  • @op2001
    @op2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Every man should date a woman like this at least once. So you know how a terrible woman acts like. It helps you appreciate the good ones

    • @ratulsarkar8972
      @ratulsarkar8972 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Can't agree more

    • @mooney228
      @mooney228 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It helps you maintain perspective on your own value if you hit rock bottom at least once

    • @Tennesseecountryrebel
      @Tennesseecountryrebel ปีที่แล้ว

      Hell I been there done it and most women will hide whi the fuck they are for the first few months and then show who they are I'm fucking glad I'm married to the woman I'm married to of 14 years she cooks cleans does the laundry brings me my food brings me my beers massages my shoulders and empties my big fat baseball sized balls out at night when we are going to bed my beautiful wife will even pull my big fat balls out of my underwear and hold them with her small warm hand and massage them

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow

    • @davolthe1261
      @davolthe1261 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I just broke up 4 days ago with a woman like that, she's insane and not worth of my time and am already different man after breaking up with her, she was draining too much energy from me and her family is also nitcase as well lol. Glad i got out this relationship but we are still not fully done she's still extremely persistent 😂

  • @traviseversole
    @traviseversole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    Women like this is why this book exists.

  • @jaycehogan7616
    @jaycehogan7616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Always looking for what’s lacking and if nothing is, they’ll manufacture something so they can stay perpetually disappointed in you.

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yep. Like a safety inspector that hates your department lol

  • @LoneSilentWolf
    @LoneSilentWolf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    If all she’s does is point out your flaws and belittle you or complain basically disrespecting you instead of working together and coming up with a solution then just LEAVE don’t waste your time trying to talk things out with her because she’s just going to hear what she wants to hear so let her learn the hard way & move on.

    • @craigehelo7329
      @craigehelo7329 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They never listen....it's almost like just talking to talk because in a few weeks or a month she'll go back to the same BS

  • @spindrifter7519
    @spindrifter7519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I left my ex wife because she was like this. Turns out she has Narcisistic Personality Disorder. She is never wrong & never sorry. A simple guide to use is the Red Flag Rule which is: If someone does something that 9 out of 10 people simply would not do, then that is a Red Flag,. Do not ignore Red Flags. I did and got 6 years of misery which made me ill.

    • @jeffreywharton512
      @jeffreywharton512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Any luck in the new dating world?

    • @MrHandyDad
      @MrHandyDad 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You were in same situation I'm in now, including the N.P.D. Working on getting out, gotta get lawyer tho... LOL

    • @JosephRandall-op9xe
      @JosephRandall-op9xe 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Uh.. yeah?! Covert Narcissist and I Wish I’d read more because the smack on the ass… was where I was at the second time through Corey’s book… she Loved that, then … I Did Everything the opposite of what would have made her leave. … Mine…. Stalker Texas Ranger? I’m screwed

  • @stumpymcstumpstump3503
    @stumpymcstumpstump3503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I just broke up with a woman exactly like this.
    Up to the bitter end, everything was my fault and there was nothing wrong with her. I didn’t engage, the decision was already made. She was more strict and controlling with me than she was with her son, who was basically allowed to run the household and got whatever he wanted. She never did anything I asked her to do, no change at all.
    Thank god I didn’t move across the country with her, it would have been an absolute nightmare. We would have got there, I would have been forced to get rid of my dogs, and then the intimacy would have disappeared.
    A life of criticism and watching kids that aren’t even yours that you would get yelled at for correcting while watching said kids would have driven me insane.
    Back to the book, time to get up and keep walking.

    • @JayDennis-d6p
      @JayDennis-d6p 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Update.

  • @JuanGomez-hc5fm
    @JuanGomez-hc5fm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    This woman is what we call a 'practice girl'

    • @thalai143
      @thalai143 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell me more please

    • @eddyg.1311
      @eddyg.1311 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Women in legendary level of difficulty lol

    • @mrblunt6160
      @mrblunt6160 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Haha fifa pro level

    • @rm6857
      @rm6857 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thalai143 it means the one you date for s3x and social communication experience

    • @MalabarTheGreat
      @MalabarTheGreat 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      not even. Being around that energy will get you sick. The practice girls are the older women who feel alone, vulnerable, and neglected. 😉

  • @elhazelrah
    @elhazelrah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Bro, I’ve been there. Though she was the hottest woman I could dream up, I feel like I aged 10 years from that 1 year relationship.

    • @baschii7603
      @baschii7603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I was two years in such a relationship. I guess I'm a grandfather now in my 20is

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂 Sad but true.

    • @josmclove4426
      @josmclove4426 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@baschii7603😂😂

    • @duckaroo28
      @duckaroo28 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      LMAO

    • @jeffreywharton512
      @jeffreywharton512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Did you meet her at the bar or a dating app ?

  • @moparmaxx26
    @moparmaxx26 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    My problem with my last relationship was my ex, was always wanting to be the boss babe. She was afraid of being controlled. She was also afraid of losing control. She never wants to submit to me or let me lead. I just wish I saw the signs sooner. I wanted to take her to the promise land. She never let me because of her small picture attitude. I’m big picture. That’s ultimately why we didn’t work out. It’s a shame honestly because I loved her so much. But it is the best thing for me because now I have ZERO drama.

    • @joshuabc2133
      @joshuabc2133 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you get a big picture attitude

    • @Vision-dd8fl
      @Vision-dd8fl ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did she have a father? Sounds like daddy issues

    • @ijustwannabeadrummer
      @ijustwannabeadrummer ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg exactly what I'm going through with the woman I have been seeing around 6 years. A control complex, I typed my story in the comments if your interested. I'm fed up I'm ready to get back out there and live a happier life.... fuck this!

    • @Vision-dd8fl
      @Vision-dd8fl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did she have a father growing up or a good relationship with her father?

    • @ijustwannabeadrummer
      @ijustwannabeadrummer ปีที่แล้ว

      with me, her first father she described as a loser she didn't like because he was lazy and didn't provide enough financial support, 2nd one she said she bonded with kinda but he would beat her mom and ended up molesting her youngest sister where he subsequently died in prison, the 3rd one seemed pretty stable and is with her mom to this day@@Vision-dd8fl

  • @zambezitalks
    @zambezitalks 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This type of woman is usually very attractive and beautiful on the outside. Don’t fall for the looks kings. True beauty is on the inside, learned the hard way

  • @Azav312
    @Azav312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    If you ever have to DEAL with a person like this, RUUUUNNNNN 😂😂😂😂

  • @vitkomusic6624
    @vitkomusic6624 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    If a woman is argumentative and frustrates you. The only power a man has is to leave her alone. If you can't do that. You gonna be her plush toy to the rest of your life.

    • @mikestocks8452
      @mikestocks8452 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      exactly! You fucking nailed it!

  • @blankearth5840
    @blankearth5840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You deserve to be loved unconditionally. Don’t let todays society tell you otherwise

    • @Alaskanman
      @Alaskanman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In reality, that's virtually impossible. You need to have something that attracts the other person. Whether it's looks, character trait or financial. Nobody loves you for simply being you besides family and friends

    • @blankearth5840
      @blankearth5840 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Alaskanman yeah, though I think in healthy people, conditions are very minimal to a point where it can very much seem unconditional, whereas in toxic people, their love is conditional as hell. I wish I had family that loved me unconditionally, but instead their ego had to get in the way and they just thought all about what’s in it for them, even after all of my life of not being with them and being like their long lost kid and not growing up with my brother… I only got to be with them for 3 months and I couldn’t take it anymore… I thought I could have that “privileged life” that I never had growing up, my brother did, but I never did

    • @Alaskanman
      @Alaskanman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blankearth5840 I can agree with that. Forgot to mention that this is general in modern countries. Anywhere else around the world; communities are pretty closely knit and hospitality is culture. Those kind of people will treat strangers like family... that's probably the closest to unconditional love

    • @blankearth5840
      @blankearth5840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Alaskanman yup, and here in the states it’s like people can treat family like strangers. My family situation really took a hit on my self worth 😔

  • @davidseck1146
    @davidseck1146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Poor guy, he's just trying to improve himself and she cuts him off at the source to belittle and bring him down. If that's not enough evidence to get out of the relationship I don't know what is.

    • @craigeberhardt9349
      @craigeberhardt9349 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m getting this and don’t know what to do. .

  • @truenewsexposingtheblues.7908
    @truenewsexposingtheblues.7908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Leave Her,leave her and leaver Her.....If you love yourself,love your peace respect yourself you don't need to read 3%man. I read it 10x it's a good read but it all starts with loving yourself ,working on yourself and you will NEVER WANT TO or Never have to chase ANY WOMAN for validation.

  • @zenberimbau3085
    @zenberimbau3085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This video makes me laugh so hard because it reminds me of a woman I dated when I was around 20 years old and around 7 years ago I ran into her best friend from that time and she told me she stopped being friend with her because she was always so difficult. It also reminded me of a sister of a girl I dated who was insufferable about everything and would get super angry about things to the point where none of her own siblings would never show up for dinners and she’s lose her mind over it. It also made me so grateful for having read your book 25 times so I could intentionally find my wife who is now pregnant and we had a discussion about things and she was easy going about it even though it was a tough pill for her to swallow, she held my hand and told me “this is what I signed up for and I wanted, so let’s deal with things as they come…” I was so grateful that I held on patiently to find her over other women I may have met

  • @sqfanatic
    @sqfanatic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This came just in time for me brother. I have a girl in my life who’s really similar to the one you discussed. This reminds me of why I need to just move on from her.

  • @Thisistheway2050
    @Thisistheway2050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Coach…. some of these 18-35 year old women today have very masculine and attentive fathers at home. But society has demonized that type of man into a villain now! So most of the time it’s just rebellious behavior and just flat out rejection of what they know is right. And more and more women are becoming that way because most of them love drama and chaos. They think it’s a challenging way to live…but really it’s just stupid.

    • @Alaskanman
      @Alaskanman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Those women love drama and chaos because it's the easiest source to potently stimulate their emotions. Women need more emotional stimulation than men... that's why they're generally better at socializing. In a world like this, soap opera drama type shit has replaced good ol love and romantic growth, like porn and courting potential partners. The modern world is fcked

    • @Thisistheway2050
      @Thisistheway2050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Alaskanman Exactly!

    • @brokenbutterfly3178
      @brokenbutterfly3178 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by "challanging way to live?"

    • @MrChristocentric
      @MrChristocentric ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my ex wife would challenge me everyday to somehow 'get better' even though I was doing the best I can to support us

    • @josmclove4426
      @josmclove4426 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You mean 18-35 year old WHITE women,I guess!
      In my community,most 18-35 year olds don't know anything about their daddies! 😢

  • @HacksignKT
    @HacksignKT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'd rather have my money and peace of mind than be with a woman who could raise my blood pressure and lead to my early death.

    • @angelpandadaylane4924
      @angelpandadaylane4924 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hacksignkt hey do you want to go on a public walking path with me one day to share our at peace ness?

  • @lanabyk8012
    @lanabyk8012 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The problem is that it is impossible to "fix" a person.

  • @juanmespinoza65
    @juanmespinoza65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Damm brother, you hit it on the head AGAIN. I’m f$&king up and not being the man I can be. I have to take owenership of my sh$t and admit I have not read the book 10 to 15 and have freaking cherry picked and once again I dropped the ball and have to cut this one loose to respect myself because right now I don’t. This is a good woman but she’s been on her own for a long time and doesn’t know how to let a man be a man, plus the constant criticism. Thanks again Corey, thank you for setting me back straight and getting back on the path.
    Book reading to commence

    • @baschii7603
      @baschii7603 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @samredfield4963
      @samredfield4963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any Updates on what happened? How are you holding up now?

  • @deankraft5536
    @deankraft5536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This reminds me of my narcissist ex that I just left 4 months ago. The book, and the work absolutely saved my fucking ass! 10-15 times is absolutely critical to read it that much!

    • @JayDennis-d6p
      @JayDennis-d6p 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Update

  • @michellieelizabeth
    @michellieelizabeth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Ugggg this is me sometimes. I love my bf and I love masculine men but being feminine is something that I've struggled with for quite awhile. I've had to be my own father figure all my life and it's hard to just allow my man to be. Thanks for this video coach now I know what I need to work on. I don't want to b the kind of woman it's a drag to be around. I want to be my man's peace and safe heaven in this world. ✨

    • @wayneshawlinski4898
      @wayneshawlinski4898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Go to therapy

    • @jalil3192
      @jalil3192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Peace and safe heaven. Nicely said!

    • @duckyh9712
      @duckyh9712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Trust your already on the way if you can actually pick up on this but yeah some therapy for sure.

    • @swimm3r137
      @swimm3r137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      my sister is the same way. She never got my fathers attention and love, and any time I'm around her she speaks up about why she thinks men are the problem, and how she has to "step up" and be the man in her own life, and around other men, because they** aren't masculine enough . Maybe, but the real issue is her. She's an overly strong female/feminist and I honestly think this has become a real problem in the world. I guess Corey's message says the remedy for this is for men to step up [into masculinity] and women to step back [into femininity]. It takes two. Which comes first?

    • @deeshnutsh
      @deeshnutsh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Got for you, hopefully he appreciates your effort and can lead you guys to a great future.

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    1:17 Trying to be the man in the relationship = she most likely grew up in a household with a very weak man or an absence of masculinity altogether. “Men are the problem” entitled mindset, bitter and pissed off (Daddy issues).
    1:52 You want somebody who’s easygoing, easy to get along with - they’re looking for ways to work together with you, not for ways to highlight your differences or to make you feel bad or like there’s something wrong with you for your choices or what you want in life. (i.e. CRT, cultural Marxism)
    3:18 She thinks it’s her personal vendetta to challenge him, probably because she’s pissed off at her own father.
    3:55 More than likely she doesn’t feel safe. Never grew up in an environment where there was masculinity that made her feel safe and protected.
    4:50 *Compatibility - CW’s whole book is about weeding out undesirable women.* It’s becoming the kind of person that you want to attract. If there are things that you want in another person and aren’t there in yourself, you work on those - that’s what it means - becoming compatible with what you want. Are you looking for someone who’s difficult and argumentative, or someone who’s looking for ways to work together and unify?
    9:30 It’s very important to have similar goals + similar values. If you don’t, it’s not going to work out in the long term.
    11:50 Why would you want to be with somebody who’s constantly challenging you for power and control? She’s stuck in her masculine and doesn’t feel safe and comfortable letting them lead. She doesn’t trust men or know who to trust. Constantly getting upset, challenging you, questioning you, trying to get you to question yourself in order to get you to do what she wants.
    13:12 She’s not kind, she’s not easygoing, not easy to get along with or submissive = no bueno.
    14:25 Women who are constantly difficult, constantly argumentative, constantly seeing the glass is 1/2 empty, instead of 1/2 full, instead of looking at reasons why you’re compatible and why things can work out - they’re constantly looking for differences and reasons to be difficult. The juice is not worth the squeeze. Close friends are same way, always looking for reasons to laugh, always looking for common ground.
    15:15 A woman like this most likely grew up in an environment where you just pick at other people and complain.
    15:43 Instead of building the man up and making him feel like a champion, she tries to make him feel like a POS, and question / doubt himself, and make him just as miserable as she is.

    • @chandantaneja6388
      @chandantaneja6388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thats a really fking hardwork. Thank you so much :)

    • @spiid4340
      @spiid4340 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for this good sir !

    • @christopherarmstrong2710
      @christopherarmstrong2710 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@spiid4340 You bet! And good luck, lol

    • @shikhasophia2784
      @shikhasophia2784 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nice shit fuck off masculine gender roles

  • @TwoTrackAdventures
    @TwoTrackAdventures 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Did 4 months with a woman like this. Had more red flags than a circus….

  • @dorkga1092
    @dorkga1092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Something I'm learning on dates with women (because of Corey's work) is to listen to how they talk about their fathers/brothers. If they don't talk about them much or whenever they do, it's not really positive, that's an indicator of the masculine presence in their lives. Maybe it's not definitive after only one date, but it's just something to make a mental note of to stay objective during the dating process

    • @TruthAplomado
      @TruthAplomado 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I notice how they mostly talk about their fathers. I had a few hookups with this girl who was just a little bit too much into having long hair, and when i said why she said her father likes it that way, tbh it spooked me but I knew she's the run to daddy to cry type of gfs so tends to go for guys who have nothing to losr

    • @1080-w8v
      @1080-w8v 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      IF SHE ALSO PUTS THEM ON A PEDESTAL SOMETHING IS ALSO REALLY WRONG! DEALT WITH THAT AND LEARNED SHE REALLY HATED THEM DEEP DOWN BUT WOULDNT ADMIT IT

    • @craigehelo7329
      @craigehelo7329 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TruthAplomadoI agree with this...them "Daddys girls" can be really good, or really bad

    • @kingoftheorient
      @kingoftheorient 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Caveat: if her father is passive and weak then that also puts you in peril especially if she talks highly of him (given that you are not passive/weak).
      I've dealt with this and it is a massive nightmare.

  • @FormigaFit
    @FormigaFit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I recently had to relieve myself from a female like this. Always cutting me off before I can speak she has been told a lot in the past she's annoying and obnoxious, I tried to explain to her why people thought that, she's just either not realizing or can't control herself. Us not talking anymore is a relief, no hard feelings, she's a good person just annoying and obnoxious.

    • @MrChristocentric
      @MrChristocentric ปีที่แล้ว +8

      so you met my ex

    • @Carlos_HD
      @Carlos_HD ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No he met mine

    • @derrickzalo1330
      @derrickzalo1330 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry boys, I believe that is mine…

    • @jeffreywharton512
      @jeffreywharton512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Is it me or is this type of personality growing in women ?

    • @sebastianrios2076
      @sebastianrios2076 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jeffreywharton512yeah I’m starting to notice a lot of the women are turning into this

  • @MallardDucky1
    @MallardDucky1 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This explains my ex wife perfectly. Controlling and didn’t grow up with a father

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for speaking truth to light, coach! I remember years ago when I just entered dating - having no clue about any of this stuff - and always thinking there must have been something wrong with me. The way you explain to be on the lookout for the relationship with her father was an absolute eye-opener for me - and has helped me to personally weed out the bad matches, just like your book suggests.

  • @Ruth72166
    @Ruth72166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It doesn't sound like she loves or respects him. Yes agreed, when a man is self improving, it should be praised and encouraged. Hopefully the gentleman sees his value, and runs away.

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Drama free zone here Ladies. Great job Coach.

  • @beyaalim03
    @beyaalim03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was clapping my hands after listening to this video. I have been referring people to you for years and have your book. Everyone needs someone to point out the error in their ways no matter their profession. Thanks a lot and keep up the great work!!!!!

  • @delphinerecords
    @delphinerecords ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She brought the worst out in me. I even tried confronting her to chill which resulted in a break up.

    • @RyanG5188
      @RyanG5188 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same lol

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Book of proverbs. Verse says. Who can find a virtuous woman? Her price is far above rubies.

    • @ijustwannabeadrummer
      @ijustwannabeadrummer ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats where i'm at , bringing the worst out of me and how I interact with people not even in the relationship

  • @captaint1180
    @captaint1180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel like my aunt was like this. She had a hard time accepting me as just me and I apparently didn’t fit into her definition of how she wants me to be or how she thinks I “should” be. Constantly making me feel inadequate. She seemed to be one of those woman that create drama out of thin air. She had a hard time loving me unconditionally

    • @baschii7603
      @baschii7603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Having experienced the same with my ex gf

  • @avenue.central
    @avenue.central 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    What's the craziest thing you've seen from a difficult and controlling ex? I'll never forget that her mom snapped her fingers, told her husband to "get to grilling" and he got up and did it! Being a student by then I was in absolute awe! Lol

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Woah

    • @avenue.central
      @avenue.central 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@CoachCoreyWayne and that was just the tip of things. Later on she bragged to me how she hardly buys groceries, cooks or buys gas. She would drive home knowing it was low and he would get gas for her. It was being around the "Anti Christ" of your work hahaha

    • @baschii7603
      @baschii7603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@artistdannyrock9147 exactly!

    • @alshaifhir
      @alshaifhir ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve seen horrendous women like this - and have an ex like it. How do you respond to such a ridiculous thing in the moment like this “snap the fingers” thing without just telling her to go f herself in front of everyone?

  • @kirbyaugustine761
    @kirbyaugustine761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This guy needs to get away from this toxic woman as fast as humanly possible. He will never reach his full potential in a relationship with a Jezebel Spirit.
    Her mission is to destroy his self confidence and self worth under the veil of offering him “constructive criticism”. She doesn’t want to see him thrive because women can’t control a man who knows his worth.

    • @craigehelo7329
      @craigehelo7329 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @beyaalim03
    @beyaalim03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks!

  • @ceasarsalad119
    @ceasarsalad119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    His mistake was that the girl he was dating knew he read your book 10-15X and is actively trying to learn to be a better man. The problem I see with this is that once she knows you are looking at external information she will just use it against you every time you stand your ground. She'll say stuff like "You're only doing it because that balled dude on the internet says so" OR "Why are you listening to other people teach you how to manipulate us... blah blah shaming tactics blah". She might try and get him to stop watching your videos as a test. If he does she will lose attraction and if he doesn't he will get a headache every time he tries to set boundaries - this is not you... it's someone else blah blah. if he didn't set boundaries and acted like a typical nice guy she'll just cheat and leave anyway. Her knowing what you look at online is almost the same as you just blurting out a load of stuff from the book like "attraction is not a choice" at her! - She can just go to your videos and watch everything herself.

    • @WithoutPrejudice-1-308
      @WithoutPrejudice-1-308 ปีที่แล้ว

      The female behavior you describe above, is identical to what I would assign the shorthand; Borderline-disordered female.
      In recent years, within the world of cognitive practitioners, they're beginning to theorize that maybe all cluster-B personality disorders (antisocial, borderline, histrionic and narcissistic), possibly stem from the same underlying condition(s), with each personality disorder being at a different point (hence, severity) on a spectrum, with the spectrum likely being named, "pathological narcissism."
      Regardless, these individuals lack of being contained within themselves (autonomy and stability), the emotional thrashing, inability to sooth themselves, interpreting the world around them in infantile-concrete terms (which often means people viewed, and treated, as objects - lack of empathy and opportunistic behavior on their part), with almost nothing experienced by them as constant, reliable, stable. All of it emblematic of a Borderline-disordered individual.

    • @angelpandadaylane4924
      @angelpandadaylane4924 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh that’s was really hard for me to read getting third hand noticing that there’s other cows just like my mother.

  • @eddiealbertson3158
    @eddiealbertson3158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really enjoy these clips. Thanks Corey.

    • @stephenbingham2703
      @stephenbingham2703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great video Corey… life is just too short for this kinda woman in your life.

  • @gagadonim3354
    @gagadonim3354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes. One experience is enough for the lifetime

  • @rockerchris5525
    @rockerchris5525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is one of the most hilarious video newsletters in a long time. Serious question - why did this guy tell the woman about the coach? I kinda look at it like fight club… you don’t talk about it. I was in a three year relationship and I think the only thing that I never shared with her was that I am die hard Corey Wayne fan. I have always felt that sharing this would ruin the authenticity that I bring because the 3% method comes naturally to me and I find it incredible intuitive.

    • @auburn1686
      @auburn1686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been contemplating this a lot. I'm pretty sure if he hadn't told me about the book, this would have dissolved much sooner. And I will admit, that's because he didn't actually follow a bunch of things in the book but rather picked some to follow, interpreted/ tweaked some and just didn't seem to get or care about others. Before I knew about the book, I expressed my serious appreciation for him making the plans. I hate making decisions and contrary to all the assumptions, I'm really easy going. Unfortunately, his fun bus just wasn't my kind of fun for the most part. Also, it would have been better if he respected my time and let me know when he would be late (or just have been on time) and could have given more details about plans so I could feel prepared and taken care of(I didn't get too worked up about either, these just would have been appreciated). I think he brought up the book to explain it says the woman should make 100% of the initial contact... which, of course is not what it says.

    • @rockerchris5525
      @rockerchris5525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@auburn1686 hahaha in other words... he should have read the book 10 to 15 times.

    • @auburn1686
      @auburn1686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rockerchris5525 he supposedly did. 🤷‍♀️ The assumption is incorrect that reading a book that many times = putting in the work/ putting the lessons to use... or that saying you want to better yourself or that you're trying to better yourself = that you really are... Actions do speak louder.

  • @elylopez5482
    @elylopez5482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Corey! I find that A LOT of men fall for those women! I don’t understand why, they are awful but men still go after them 🤷🏼‍♀️.

    • @scottmiller1300
      @scottmiller1300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It could be that they are interesting and exciting at first, and haven't yet shown their true colors.

  • @stickybucket1851
    @stickybucket1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is pure gold. Cheers to the 3% club and friend-zoning women like this!

  • @zariahlafleurpowell7028
    @zariahlafleurpowell7028 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People can love people and have different desires for their lives Becoming one should not take away from us is being individuals.

  • @kbuss4
    @kbuss4 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Could be the greatest TH-cam video ever

  • @robsolf
    @robsolf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    5:20 BECOMING compatible? That reeks of expecting a person to change who they are to fit with her. That's bad news. And as an aside, I can't help but wonder if this woman is compatible with herself, let alone another person...

  • @Raidoven
    @Raidoven ปีที่แล้ว

    Banger of a video. Gotta watch this over and over again

  • @pietro160775
    @pietro160775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your work, and have been a student for a while you’re my Guru😉🤙🏼🙏🏼

  • @azraelfirstofhisname8695
    @azraelfirstofhisname8695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video went through this recently

  • @popeyethepirate5473
    @popeyethepirate5473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Just wrote my aunt a goodbye letter because she acted just like this. Fuck the trust fund, she can keep it.

    • @domsberisha
      @domsberisha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Your energy and well-being is far more valuable than a trust fund. Good for you bro.

    • @SailingSabaiSabai
      @SailingSabaiSabai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Smart choice negative people are toxic to the soul hire slow fire swift

    • @maggot617
      @maggot617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hitman

    • @LMKMS494
      @LMKMS494 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or take both, dummy

    • @peggould5943
      @peggould5943 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U might regret that. Lol

  • @F1ukez
    @F1ukez ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yep been with a girl that makes me feel little. Had to get out of there for my own sanity

  • @PizzaHomeSlice
    @PizzaHomeSlice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Run Forest! Run! Those voice impersonations are hilarious.

  • @brianpaulino
    @brianpaulino 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey coach, you know what would be really awesome! If you could watch 90 Day fiance and speak to each couple and those Dynamics, I always think of you when I watch that show and see how the men act... It would be really funny if you started a weekly review of how each man acted in each episode!

  • @jamesjamila279
    @jamesjamila279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The personality of these women do not change either. Hard and painful realization at first, second and third attempts

  • @SuperJimmytang
    @SuperJimmytang ปีที่แล้ว +7

    recently broke up from a 5 year relationship because I was being triggered and flew into rages. I suspect passive aggressive behavour by my ex partner but I am not sure, which I know is typical of experiencing PA behaviour. To put a finger on it, it would be an undercurrent of anger very close to the surface, like snapping, over reacting. Stone walling / quiet treatment was used regulary which made me feel awful. Also cutting me down by saying 'Stop talking now' when I disagreed with her viewpoint. Its confusing because in many ways she was very loving and these few examples dont sound huge in the complexities of relationships but I was constantly triggered and I felt like I was being controlled without being to articulate exactly how and to what extent

    • @ijustwannabeadrummer
      @ijustwannabeadrummer ปีที่แล้ว +3

      kinda same boat, she yells and talks to me crazy but when I snap she starts crying and plays victim.... planning my escape now

    • @SuperJimmytang
      @SuperJimmytang ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its worth talking it through if you can. Say you are close to ending it and is there's anything you both can do to improve. Thats if you think its worth it. Being single has its own issues but less stressful that a toxic relationship. Good luck

  • @numa333
    @numa333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Controlling, entitled, dismissive, deceptive...narc says what!?

  • @spacegirl881
    @spacegirl881 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im a female and now dating a very argumentative woman and always doubting me. I tried to end it and for the second time she said please don't, im going to change. I said " I rather end it because no one changes but if you want lets have a month of space and see what happens".💁‍♀️

    • @scottmiller1300
      @scottmiller1300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You guys are done - stop wasting your time.

  • @IAMKING7799
    @IAMKING7799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    A devil I knew named rebecca.
    STEER CLEAR OF MASCULINE, ARGUMENTATIVE WOMEN!
    SEX IS NEVER WORTH PEACE Of MIND, & SPIRIT!!!!!
    BLESS-UP 👑🙏🏾

    • @oahts5906
      @oahts5906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hopefully it wasn’t the same girl I just ran from lol

  • @Lordborgoth666
    @Lordborgoth666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dealing with this right now getting rid of said problem

  • @reactionaction194
    @reactionaction194 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just stopped talking to a girl exactly like this. The final straw was when she started to put her hands on me. I told her this was not acceptable but she dismissed it. I was out of there like the flash! She had a lot of trauma in her past and tried to work with her but she was too masculine, argumentative, demanding, and just demeaning. Everything was my fault. Now talking to a woman who is very easygoing and it is amazing the contrast between her and the last girl

  • @ChristianCaliberNetwork
    @ChristianCaliberNetwork หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope shes like valentine day

  • @davidjofficial1
    @davidjofficial1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Saw the title and thought Corey had replied to my email I sent him... In a similar situation and it's driving me nuts.

  • @brandonscott3423
    @brandonscott3423 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I called out a co worker of mine who was like this she was purposefully messing up my work, stonewalling me, being passive aggressive so I called her out on her inappropriate behavior and she lost her mind 😂 but even at work I’m not gonna tolerate that nonsense especially when she’s messing up my actual work no thanks

  • @luzbel1369
    @luzbel1369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good video, thanks for your work and "saludos" from Mexico

  • @b-art6098
    @b-art6098 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, I dated a women EXACTLY like this. It's all about the father in my opinion, daddy issues. This guy had a second house where he escaped for days or weeks leaving her, the sister and her mother alone. An absent father in a nutshell.

  • @WrathfulRebike
    @WrathfulRebike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Epic ownage coach. Thx for the awareness check

  • @Kingslayer-m5j
    @Kingslayer-m5j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This email must have been sent from my ex-girlfriend

  • @sanatatemasculinadrn
    @sanatatemasculinadrn ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you, Corey!

  • @danielclipper931
    @danielclipper931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Realizing that my girlfriend is exactly this

  • @thandananizulu8086
    @thandananizulu8086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Shawn Michael

  • @parishsmith3732
    @parishsmith3732 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You tell her Cory 😅

  • @DukeFavre
    @DukeFavre 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The title is too perfect.

  • @Zeus-william0303
    @Zeus-william0303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had read the book 100 times. And I would have vetted this woman on the first date or second . But I dont know what I dont know. Praise the universe I am not in this type of relationship. Life time, yes... I dont meet women like this. And those I do, Love them and let them fly..

  • @JohnyZman
    @JohnyZman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the same thing a woman said to me! She said I have a “conflict” and it’s not truly who I am. Corey is this because women know they are losing power?

  • @Clydearb
    @Clydearb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thats amazin she clears things up for your followers :). thank her from me, as a brand spanking new follower :)
    Cheers

  • @ethanarabia116
    @ethanarabia116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    His videos pop up at the right time

  • @ppg1669
    @ppg1669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This sounds exactly like my ex. I can’t believe it took me over a year to get over her lmaooo

    • @josmclove4426
      @josmclove4426 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂🤣I know what your talking about

  • @kunaikid4
    @kunaikid4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Corey got the flamethrower out!!!🔥🔥

  • @thebigdb1
    @thebigdb1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm an older guy, but just literally at the time of this post, just decided to stop talking to a woman that I've been briefly talking to. Decided to ghost her because nothing I say or do triggers a somewhat positive response. Everything I say even when she knows what I'm saying turns into something negative or an excuse for a belittlement. I'm all for having different opinions, but she's just being nasty for the sake of being nasty. Happened to look this video up just because I wanted to see what the psychology is behind her behavior. If there's any rhyme or reason to it. Pretty much what I already know / expect what the cause is. Kind of sucks cuz I tried to be respectful and kind to her, but got nothing but crud. Glad I never dated this chick that I'm talking about. Sounds similar to the woman in this video but more extreme. Here's to investing in box wine and cat litter/food.

  • @jackedbeasty7664
    @jackedbeasty7664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Havent watched you in a while! Great video tho corey! 👍🏽

  • @trey8479
    @trey8479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Cuz I’m thinking about I was going crazy and now it’s dawning on me I just got to leave her ass alone

  • @fresh2354
    @fresh2354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Don’t even deal with em, toss em to the side of the road! ✌🏾

  • @mbakerlp
    @mbakerlp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    just walk away man…just walk away….I met a woman similar to this one and you deserve someone who isn’t undervaluing your efforts as a man.

  • @gondor532
    @gondor532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    tbh I can see her point to a degree. There are indeed guys who have 0 personality of their own and when they stumble upon some self help resource they blidly model their being around it with no critical thought or personalization. You can even see that in the fact that he is preaching to that girl how many times he read the book like anyone cares. Instead of being real man he became actor who is trying to play the role.

    • @scottmiller1300
      @scottmiller1300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dude didn't help himself any by telling her he was watching Coach's videos and reading his book.

  • @taetoonicee1144
    @taetoonicee1144 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s hard when she thinks she did nothing wrong and tryna make you look bad for her actions you kinda just want to prove it to everyone before you leave

  • @Abd-r3ok
    @Abd-r3ok 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am dealing with a woman like this and she constantly makes drama and even become so angry that she will attack me physically and verbally she would say some shit that’s messed up, I am younger than her and she has a history of failed marriage as well, I made the mistake of making a baby with her and now I don’t know what to do cause I love my son and I don’t want him to grow up without a father.

  • @stormchaser419
    @stormchaser419 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sounds like 97 percent of women.

  • @blade7506
    @blade7506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    i don’t see the problem with a woman who sounds like she has a head on her shoulders and isn’t afraid to challenge you if something’s up, but being aggressive and hostile is another thing that no one would want to deal with

    • @_Shinzo
      @_Shinzo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah. A woman challenging you is called shit tests that you need to pass and is normal.
      Corey has covered a lot on these topics.
      being aggressive and hostile is just crossing boundaries that shouldn't be tolerated.

    • @brendanmcpike184
      @brendanmcpike184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Testing is fine, normal and healthy for a woman. Having her shit together, being competent are great qualities
      Acting like a combative man though and you’re a woman? Not so sexy.

    • @Alaskanman
      @Alaskanman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If a woman is forcefully attempting to dominate you to "wear the pants" in the house, then it's a problem. Most men will instinctively feel annoyed

    • @leocardoroger6270
      @leocardoroger6270 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Alaskanman exactly some woman want to act like the man

    • @veronicalagor4771
      @veronicalagor4771 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@_ShinzoOr once again, she’s challenging you doing something stupid.
      A lot of younger guys are grown boys, not men. Assuming the only reason a woman may challenge you is part of a “shit test” is a sign maybe you have some growing to do yourself.

  • @Shorthub_TV-t8p
    @Shorthub_TV-t8p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for everything

  • @zzzcocopepe
    @zzzcocopepe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Submissive is a crazy ass word to use to describe positive behavior.

    • @dnydeltoro
      @dnydeltoro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We found one

    • @scottmiller1300
      @scottmiller1300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Deferential is a better word.

  • @ricjones3654
    @ricjones3654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good one

  • @Bigcatt888
    @Bigcatt888 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm with a Gemini woman that jocks for power. It's my fault. I continued to stay. She love the bars, not a chill drinker, trip over small things to argue about because she gets bored. Too much work. three and a half years in this. I'm tapped out. Everyday is a surprise with her. 😰

    • @ijustwannabeadrummer
      @ijustwannabeadrummer ปีที่แล้ว +1

      be strong setup that escape route, u seemed tied to her like the one I'm with, its not goo for your mental health!

    • @angelpandadaylane4924
      @angelpandadaylane4924 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Whoever that Gemini is, sounds like my narcissistic monsterous mother. I hope and pray that I will never be like her because I know my personality isn’t like hers, and I pray that I still be myself and not falter to any disdainful s*** I would never wish to treat my future kids the way that my mother had abused me.

    • @scottmiller1300
      @scottmiller1300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Astrology is nonsense, so don't rely on it for relationship guidance.

  • @EricJMyrick
    @EricJMyrick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Either learn to be a 3% man or be prepared to experience a 3% success rate in your dating life! Learn the material and read the dang book folks! If you don't know the basics you will not succeed with this stuff. I used to cherry pick and that was a huge mistake.

  • @SurfCityVideo
    @SurfCityVideo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You simply can't tolerate moment that behave that way.

  • @mitch5418
    @mitch5418 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The title sounds like a boss in my department who is a woman but not over me, just someone I have to work with.

  • @anczerewicz1
    @anczerewicz1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There are waaaaaayyyyy too many women out there ready to fix your little red wagon. And then when you think you’ve gotten by that problem and found a good one, here comes the interfering mother-in-law (or other family member) with no respect for boundaries. Another topic all together after you think you’ve found snukems.

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st ปีที่แล้ว

      😅😂 Inlaws are the worst.

    • @thebk247
      @thebk247 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      my ex's mother is the reason why we were on and off for 4 years. every time my ex and i were doing well, her mother would start drama over the most petty things and my ex would always side with her. her mother is extremely masculine, narcissistic and controlling

  • @BillyT531
    @BillyT531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "She belongs to the streets..."! 😂😂

  • @lakshmineuroscience
    @lakshmineuroscience 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Accurate description of my baby moma and wife. Trying to stop my medical career. Now cut off.

  • @jesseskellington9427
    @jesseskellington9427 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    15:40 Stress from problem you cannot solve and a problem you cannot stop thinking about. This affects a person sleep ability to comfortably fall asleep. Making a cascading effect throughout the rest of that person's day, week, month, Year, 5 Years & 10s of years :-(

  • @lukemarshall118
    @lukemarshall118 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could never date a woman that is more masculine than me