Your videos used to be sooo triggering for me. I’m grateful to be at a space in life to receive your wisdom without filtering it through the lens of my own insecurities. You are a breath of fresh air on the internet and in the world, protect Hitomi at all costs!!
It was the same for me. I used to get kind of annoyed, but when I started questioning why I feel that way I realised it was my own insecurities. I love Hitomi now!
The existential kink is such a game changer. I’ve learned there’s always a comfort behind the negative feelings we create in our bodies, otherwise we wouldn’t keep feeling them. I ask “what benefit am I getting from this?” Ex: from feeling unworthy and playing small, I’m protecting myself from rejection and staying in my comfort zone. Then, “how can I meet this need in a more aligned way?”
I struggle with this to omg... I've realized my depression and sadness Has been the only consistent thing in my life. I crave consistency 😩 even if it's painful I guess
You're completely right actually! Our feelings and thought patterns are made to be adaptive and protect us from harm. One thing to keep in mind however is they protect us in times when those dangers are or were present. Furthermore, at those times we probably lacked the capacity to deal with those challenges. As we progress and grow in life, we learn that in order to unlock the full potential or life, we have to gradually let down those walls that we built that once protected us. While they were adaptive for certain dangers, those dangers may no longer be present and the lingering responses prevent us from unlocking true happiness, fulfillment and contentment as well as confidence and empowerment in life. So what does this all mean? Don't feel like those thought patterns are forever. Our brains are neuroplastic and can 100% change over time with conscious effort. Keep going, keep trying and you will grow. Another thing to remember is that just because you may feel certain negative emotions, does not necessarily mean they're true. Therefore discovering that out minds and reality are two seperate things allow us to understand that 1. Things aren't as bad as they seem and 2. If we learnt that life can be negative, we can also balance or alter those perceptions into more positive ones. In that sense, your mind is an extremely powerful tool if you can hone and tame it. You have all the potential to make it happen.
@@jaetrnn6000 Hi love, i know that 4 months passed since you wrote that comment, but i want you to know that you changed my perspective of life. I've never thought of that, thank you so much!! im so grateful for your comment. I hope youre having a nice day, i love you.
first time listening to you - at first I felt judgmental thinking "another spiritual chick", and then I realized you were saying everything that I say, and many more amazing words, so much so that I needed a pen to write it all down. You helped me realize that I have been shaming myself for being a woman who wants this inner peace. I have been so afraid of being typecast as a "spiritual girly" that I was killing my own way to community
girl!!!!!! thank you for that comment, it made me realize that I'm also afraid to embrace this parte of me that longs for the depth and connection with the Universe, I even used to call myself 'ezo-crazy/mad girl' (in translation from my language) while talking to other people that are not that much into spirituality beacuse I shamed myself for being her
the power we all hold to make someone and all things feel loved is such a beautiful gift we carry. I hope you all are so loved and that you share your love to all those you come across :) I love you all so so so much.
needed this 🤲🏻🙏🏻 so much. what I am realising is that if there is no enemy inside, whatever the enemy outside is, he/she/it cannot hurt you and this inner fire is what awakes our truest beauty and soul to shine. in a society made of masks, tearing them away is the biggest flex
Dearest Hitomi, I used to be really scared and disturbed by your content for a reason I couldn't articulate. I think I was so afraid that that joy and deep self intimacy could never be for me. I thought that self intimacy and love would have to include self punishment. I had this idea that there was so much pain in me and I wasn't strong enough, didn't have the energy to feel through the avalanche of fear. I am rewatching your videos from a very new place. I left school and I'm terrified but I am finally free. I can finally hear you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
This was such a higher level conversation and truly a marvelous way of shifting our minds into abundance and wholehearted living. More love is the medicine! Much gratitude for discussions like this.
The existential kink thing you were talking about reminds me of a passage from ”note from the Underground ” from dostoievski, we do like to beat ourselves, and there is something soothing and almost gratifying about self-loathing, it’s true that it is almost a kink...might as well embrace and acknowledge our inner sado-masochist, it is part of our shadow and the goal is to intergrate it. Very interesting
hi hitomi, everything you said completely reflected what i’ve been doing for the past month, so thank you for giving it a voice. in particular, i feel like when you take life as a “joke” (or in a more Indian way of intending it, you give space to the so-called “līla”) or as a “dance”, everyone who cares deeply for you immediately starts to align to you vibration and i think that’s amazing!
I’ve been on this earth quite a long time and done a lot of different work with some very wise people and I have to tell you, you are really really gifted. And generous. Your ability to articulate these ideas authentically and clearly is incredible. ❤
Wow wow. I'm going through a breakup currently and this felt so healing. I've also been in relationships/situationships pretty consistently since I was young and shifting into singlehood in my late 20's is going to be so life changing. I hope to use this experience to become more in tune with myself. This was exactly what I needed to hear
I'm taking notes with pen and paper. I really need to work on non judgment a lot and increasing my curiosity. I love all these tips to redirect negative thinking and feeling.
thank you being sharing the intimate parts of yourself hitomi! I'm so thankful for the wisdom you share, even though we are only 2 years apart it helps me grow and reflect on myself as well
Your messages are so pure and beautiful. I am inspired by your mind and soul. I feel joy knowing that you exist out there and are leading by example. Ugh love.
infinitely grateful for your teachings toto. i've been watching you for about 3 years now and with each video i find your words sinking deeper and deeper into my being. thank you for being a conduit of light for all of humanity, and more so a friend to us all
“Not rushing is the most sacred thing you can do for yourself. Plan ahead, leave earlier, don’t rush. You miss the miracle”. This hits home. Gracefully said, thank youuuu for this bit of wisdom! 🙂↕️✨⭐️
recently, your videos have been deeply resonating with me, I'm in a dark place right now, but trying to be graceful,,, and trying not to rush my changing self. Your words, though, will help guide me through this growth and transformation!! Thank you Hitomi
I have rarely commented here on TH-cam but thank you Hitomi. I am going through some extremely triggering self-doubt challenges in my romantic relationships and I was reluctant to watch this video as I thought it might trigger my fears on how not an attractive and confident lover I am. But you reminded me of the oneness of it all, that love goes beyond so much more than romance and that romance goes beyond so much more than just romantic partnerships. Thank you for grounding me again and putting some balm on my tired and scared heart.
Hitomi, you are such a sacred soul here on earth. You move me with everything you speak on and you have helped me so much for the past like 4 or so years. I am so excited to be able to create a safe space and community. If anyone would like to start a group chat where we can speak on growing spiritually and connect personally, I would love that❤
you have taught me so much. finding home in myself and becoming a stale source of love for myself has been the biggest challenge but you model it beautifully. thank you so so much
Your sex advice is so healing for me. It’s something I care about a lot in my relationship but also struggle a LOT with feeling confident. I feel so embarrassed, even though I’ve been with my partner for 2+ years. I want to please him, too. Thank you!!
I'm not sure how to word this but, the recent videos you've posted feel so different in the best way possible. Not to say that, your other videos are ingenuine, there's just a different kind of openness I feel from you. I feel more of your character is shining through, the energy of these videos feels like fresh morning air, like something that will make me laugh is about to happen. This could be just me also developing more perspective as I've been feeling so much about the transition of girlhood to womanhood. I feel connected to the way you embody womanhood. Lovely video!
I totally agree with the sexual part. There’s a negative notion revolving sex,pleasure and spirituality. The thing is, is that majority of people dont practice spiritual sex. Spiritual sex is where you use your spirit to take your body to experience a total dimension of love and creation. People who associate sex as 3D thing because they perceive sex as something they DO; after experiencing spirituality i came to understand that sex is somewhere you GO and that’s the difference. Our intentions play a huge part in the experiences we experience. I dare everyone to combine the beauty of their 3D Sacred element with their spirit and report back to me please. Love the video. Now let me continue watching 😅
ah you angel, this video just completely turned my day around. I love the practice of romancing every moment- felt consumed with dread, grief and loneliness a few minutes ago and this allowed me move to a place of excitement that I get to extract so much poetry and wisdom from these present emotions...and the idea of inviting eroticism into moments of overwhelm.. such an interesting perspective shift, thank you!!
I don't comment often on videos but please keep doing what you are doing, please. You have such a lovely energy, I can feel it through your videos. I apsire to have your mindset, wisdom and power. Your videos are going to help a lot of people in this world and I hope it keeps spreading your positivity
Hi, I am a long time youtube user and I have seen so much content in regards to your discussion topics. I want to say that you are really touching a deep part within myself in these videos. I have great appreciation and grattitude in knowing a channel like yours exist and that women like you exist. Thank you for what you are doing and for the deep work you have been doing for your own self. These are major keys which you have shared and I feel that I even got access to a deeper understanding of Love and attraction through this. Not only your words are great but your tone, energy and sensibility really empower them. Thank you!
such a beautiful and helpful video for someone who is trying to better themselves and treat everyone with love and nonjudgement. Thank you so much Hitomi
i love how authentic you are, and even when you speak of things as 'obvious' like self-love, i always manage to learn something new from your videos, it's just what it is - an authentic experience, authentic wisdom, authentic self and not something that just keeps getting repeated by everyone else, so thank you for being authentic and for making me allow myself to be emotional and spiritual
My dream is to be like you, in my own way of course✨🧚🏻♀️💖 but I just admire so much your wisdom, your authenticity and healed spirit It’s something I want for myself, and also I would love to share it with others like you I dont know how to do that yet
Dear Hitomi, I am very greatful. The way you look at life, the way you think and speak, aligns a lot with who I am. Listening to you gives me courage to stop hiding and instead go out and be authenic. Thank you. Really! 🙏
Hitomi, every video where you open up yourself this deeply is such a bless and brings me joy and hope about life. You are such an inspiration, thank you
the section on rushing and nonjudgment and existential kink and even creating stable forms of love was completely resonant. I too have to create it in my world as I do not have family to build those relationships with. I have grown out of rushing and needing a packed schedule where I’m running around to feel alive the more I heal and embrace stillness and calm. have been watching for over close to a decade but never commented. it’s eerie how similar our journeys have been. thank you so much for your words and presence.
Thank you for your videos. Those about sexuality really empowered me a lot. K used to fill myself with guilt and shame whenever I thought about sex but now I’m completely ok talking about that with my current bf. We both found talking about it very useful in building our emotional and sexual bond. ❤ we definitely have grown much closer after being able to be intimate and vulnerable at the same time so… thanks !!!
It’s so hard for me right now because I dont have a comfort/safe space at this point in my life. I had to leave an unsafe environment where I had 3 dogs that were the only ones that held me together when I had no one to go to or a place where I felt home 🥲. I was on such a good path to self acceptance and love, having that space to truly be yourself and feel loved is so important. Thank you for sharing your insights ♥️
I’ve really been wanting to explore the sensuality I have within me without making others feel weirded out by the taboo of it all? I know sexuality isn’t taboo but not everyone is used to it. I want to explore that part of me so badly and give it the compassion to finally break free from the constraints it’s been under. I want to make love to life so badly without having negative thought surrounding it.
maybe try joining spaces that are celebrating this if you can find them! groups that meet/dance events/healing workshops surrounding the topic of sensuality/sexuality. I've started working at a sex shop and it's been so healing and empowering for me to be in that community and environment :) I hope you find a space to explore this whether it is with others or within yourself🤍
thank you hitomi. i see all of my favorite parts of myself in you, and i think thats why i feel so connected to you and your story. youve mirrored so much of my own light & dark to me because of how vulnerable youve been. im so grateful to have your light even just through the internet heheh-youve guided me more than you could ever know!! sending you so much love always❤
this video is one im gonna re-watch many times, it is so rich and helpful. You really have a gift of making people (or atleast me) feel at peace, calmer and grounded. Thank you again Hitomi
„Sacred silliness!“ I love that so much… maybe I will make some art with that theme…Thank you for this good video!!! You are putting so much work into it and I am so greatfull for that.🙏✌️😀
Watching this video is what i am grateful for today. I got in a place in life where I realized that my relationship with myself is not as good as I want it to be. This video helped me having more insight and more ways to discover myself, thank you
So much of this is exactly what I need, so thoughtfully and beautifully said and it aligns with so many smaller things I’ve been working through already. I feel like you just tied is all together so digestibly, thank you!
Hitomi , you continuously bring me back to myself. Your words and presence show me how normal it is to have a full spectrum experience of life and how to unconditionally love ourselves through it. Thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably. It’s incredibly inspiring ! ✨❤️
Love this Hitomi! I loved when you said that you never crave relationship because you have such a full life. I would like to see life that way, how do you do that ? Can you tell more about this mindset ? I find myself often craving relationship and would love to get better at being more immerse in self/life than others. I also liked that you are voluntary staying single and would love to know how you can stand on your decision to not have relationship while being intimate with others. I find myself struggling to keep the boundaries and standing on my decision to stay single when I am intimate with others or like someone.
In the past, I rushed so much. In day-to-day tasks. In my thinking. In my decisions. Even in my walking. So much so that any pause or lull felt like stuckness or dithering. I've found a lot of cosmic comfort in the past few years in slowing down. Physically. Mentally. And remembering that I set the pace I walk at. Slowness is luxurious.
I‘m currently seeing someone that really sparks excitement inside of me while going through a friendship breakup at the same time. I really feel like the universe gives me love back because I was brave enough to let that person go. It is still really hard to make sense of that situation and trusting myself with this new relationship. I would really appreciate if you would talk about non-romantic breakups because its rarely picked up but a really important part of growing into to oneself.
Some of the stuff you say here remind me of Hesse's words in the Steppenwolf. I think he proposes very similar ways of being and of perceiving/experiencing life/reality. Pretty cool!
I hope to meet you one day! I’m 47 and learn so much rewiring by learning new sensual pathways I love and you have helped me define what I’m looking for Lovership 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you Hitomi for this chat❤ your videos and topics always come up in divine timing. Thank you for reminding me to be non-judgemental and fully accepting of “negative” feelings that sporadically arise. I am feeling so refreshed :)
I love this! It came into my life at the exact right time. The way I could relate with everything you said was magically. Thank you so much for this video! You inspired me a lot today🌞
I love love love how you embrace flowing with and enjoying the sensuality of being human I love it so much and this reminded me of the version of myself that embraced that rich delicious feeling in every moment tysm love. I love u
wow, this video really opened my eyes. ive been on my spiritual journey for a fee years now, and you have created such a beautiful space here and i appreciate this so so much. thank you :)
OH MYLANTA! Babe I’m sitting here drawing Inspo because I want to start making videos on my healing journey. I rose up from a horribly dark place and want to help others who are going through something similar. Your video came up on my algorithm and I am about to do binge watch your channel. You’re AMAZING and so beautifully inspiring. Thank you for sharing this beauty with us. I hope you continue receiving an unmeasurable amount of blessings. New subscriber here, can’t wait to see more! P.S., in LOVE with your aesthetic 🥰😘
I feel like the hardest part for me is finding that community.. I did not have that in my blood line either yet in my environment it seems like I cannot find that trusting open loving community in other females :( But i do aim to cultivate that in myself!
I feel grateful to you for discussing the minutiae of these areas of life. It’s so eye opening to hear a stranger put into words these thoughts and experiences, I feel like even hearing you elaborate on where you’re coming from is helpful for me to approach where I’m coming from! And evaluate what these different ideas can mean in my own life and time. Thank you for giving examples too, it’s helpful for further understanding such abstract concepts. You are brave and full of light, thank you for sharing your light with us!! Peace to you 💖
Your videos used to be sooo triggering for me. I’m grateful to be at a space in life to receive your wisdom without filtering it through the lens of my own insecurities. You are a breath of fresh air on the internet and in the world, protect Hitomi at all costs!!
It was the same for me. I used to get kind of annoyed, but when I started questioning why I feel that way I realised it was my own insecurities. I love Hitomi now!
I really relate to this!
universal experience i guess 🥲
Love and appreciation come to fruition in many strange ways that are hard to understand
sammmme!
The existential kink is such a game changer. I’ve learned there’s always a comfort behind the negative feelings we create in our bodies, otherwise we wouldn’t keep feeling them. I ask “what benefit am I getting from this?” Ex: from feeling unworthy and playing small, I’m protecting myself from rejection and staying in my comfort zone. Then, “how can I meet this need in a more aligned way?”
I struggle with this to omg... I've realized my depression and sadness Has been the only consistent thing in my life. I crave consistency 😩 even if it's painful I guess
yessss ! I also like to pretend I am my own experiment, like a scientist watching its mouse having a strange reaction, and trying to figure out why
You're completely right actually! Our feelings and thought patterns are made to be adaptive and protect us from harm. One thing to keep in mind however is they protect us in times when those dangers are or were present. Furthermore, at those times we probably lacked the capacity to deal with those challenges. As we progress and grow in life, we learn that in order to unlock the full potential or life, we have to gradually let down those walls that we built that once protected us. While they were adaptive for certain dangers, those dangers may no longer be present and the lingering responses prevent us from unlocking true happiness, fulfillment and contentment as well as confidence and empowerment in life.
So what does this all mean? Don't feel like those thought patterns are forever. Our brains are neuroplastic and can 100% change over time with conscious effort. Keep going, keep trying and you will grow. Another thing to remember is that just because you may feel certain negative emotions, does not necessarily mean they're true. Therefore discovering that out minds and reality are two seperate things allow us to understand that 1. Things aren't as bad as they seem and 2. If we learnt that life can be negative, we can also balance or alter those perceptions into more positive ones. In that sense, your mind is an extremely powerful tool if you can hone and tame it. You have all the potential to make it happen.
The algorithm just knew 😌
@@jaetrnn6000 Hi love, i know that 4 months passed since you wrote that comment, but i want you to know that you changed my perspective of life. I've never thought of that, thank you so much!! im so grateful for your comment. I hope youre having a nice day, i love you.
“Not rushing is the most secret thing you can do for yourself, plain ahead, leave earlier. If you rush, you miss the miracle” ❤
“Love is embarrassing yourself enough to ask for it” ❤❤❤
Wow
first time listening to you - at first I felt judgmental thinking "another spiritual chick", and then I realized you were saying everything that I say, and many more amazing words, so much so that I needed a pen to write it all down. You helped me realize that I have been shaming myself for being a woman who wants this inner peace. I have been so afraid of being typecast as a "spiritual girly" that I was killing my own way to community
girl!!!!!! thank you for that comment, it made me realize that I'm also afraid to embrace this parte of me that longs for the depth and connection with the Universe, I even used to call myself 'ezo-crazy/mad girl' (in translation from my language) while talking to other people that are not that much into spirituality beacuse I shamed myself for being her
the power we all hold to make someone and all things feel loved is such a beautiful gift we carry. I hope you all are so loved and that you share your love to all those you come across :) I love you all so so so much.
i love you !!!!!!!!
I love you beautiful being ❤@@mysticmaidenmagic
I love you💜
i don't know why I clicked on this when I've purposefully built a life without intimacy, but this opened up a part of my mind I thought died years ago
that's so beautiful
idk if you have the time to explain and don't feel obliged at all but why did you've purposefully built a life without intimacy ?
needed this 🤲🏻🙏🏻 so much. what I am realising is that if there is no enemy inside, whatever the enemy outside is, he/she/it cannot hurt you and this inner fire is what awakes our truest beauty and soul to shine. in a society made of masks, tearing them away is the biggest flex
So true❤
going on a first date tomorrow after a year long dating hiatus - this is the pep talks of all pep talks, thank you ❤
Omg go bestie !!!! ❤❤❤ I hope u have a lot of fun
Good luck! Be yourself and you’ll attract who you’re meant to 💖
Dearest Hitomi, I used to be really scared and disturbed by your content for a reason I couldn't articulate. I think I was so afraid that that joy and deep self intimacy could never be for me. I thought that self intimacy and love would have to include self punishment. I had this idea that there was so much pain in me and I wasn't strong enough, didn't have the energy to feel through the avalanche of fear. I am rewatching your videos from a very new place. I left school and I'm terrified but I am finally free. I can finally hear you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
This was such a higher level conversation and truly a marvelous way of shifting our minds into abundance and wholehearted living. More love is the medicine! Much gratitude for discussions like this.
The existential kink thing you were talking about reminds me of a passage from ”note from the Underground ” from dostoievski, we do like to beat ourselves, and there is something soothing and almost gratifying about self-loathing, it’s true that it is almost a kink...might as well embrace and acknowledge our inner sado-masochist, it is part of our shadow and the goal is to intergrate it. Very interesting
you are so loved hitomi. the remembrance that you exist on the same planet makes my heart so much lighter n free ☀️
hi hitomi, everything you said completely reflected what i’ve been doing for the past month, so thank you for giving it a voice. in particular, i feel like when you take life as a “joke” (or in a more Indian way of intending it, you give space to the so-called “līla”) or as a “dance”, everyone who cares deeply for you immediately starts to align to you vibration and i think that’s amazing!
Bercanda in Indonesian, or guyon in Javanese
I’ve been on this earth quite a long time and done a lot of different work with some very wise people and I have to tell you, you are really really gifted. And generous. Your ability to articulate these ideas authentically and clearly is incredible. ❤
Wow wow. I'm going through a breakup currently and this felt so healing. I've also been in relationships/situationships pretty consistently since I was young and shifting into singlehood in my late 20's is going to be so life changing. I hope to use this experience to become more in tune with myself. This was exactly what I needed to hear
I'm taking notes with pen and paper. I really need to work on non judgment a lot and increasing my curiosity. I love all these tips to redirect negative thinking and feeling.
thank you being sharing the intimate parts of yourself hitomi! I'm so thankful for the wisdom you share, even though we are only 2 years apart it helps me grow and reflect on myself as well
Your messages are so pure and beautiful. I am inspired by your mind and soul. I feel joy knowing that you exist out there and are leading by example. Ugh love.
infinitely grateful for your teachings toto. i've been watching you for about 3 years now and with each video i find your words sinking deeper and deeper into my being. thank you for being a conduit of light for all of humanity, and more so a friend to us all
girl, every sentence is in the right place. you're channeling. thank you ❤
“Not rushing is the most sacred thing you can do for yourself. Plan ahead, leave earlier, don’t rush. You miss the miracle”.
This hits home. Gracefully said, thank youuuu for this bit of wisdom! 🙂↕️✨⭐️
recently, your videos have been deeply resonating with me, I'm in a dark place right now, but trying to be graceful,,, and trying not to rush my changing self. Your words, though, will help guide me through this growth and transformation!! Thank you Hitomi
i literally felt the love radiating from you through this video and i immediately felt uplifted. thank you for being you! you’re an inspiration ❤
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I have rarely commented here on TH-cam but thank you Hitomi. I am going through some extremely triggering self-doubt challenges in my romantic relationships and I was reluctant to watch this video as I thought it might trigger my fears on how not an attractive and confident lover I am. But you reminded me of the oneness of it all, that love goes beyond so much more than romance and that romance goes beyond so much more than just romantic partnerships. Thank you for grounding me again and putting some balm on my tired and scared heart.
“After I healed the shockwaves of constant anxiety, I was able to be more of myself” this is it
Hitomi, you are such a sacred soul here on earth. You move me with everything you speak on and you have helped me so much for the past like 4 or so years. I am so excited to be able to create a safe space and community. If anyone would like to start a group chat where we can speak on growing spiritually and connect personally, I would love that❤
I would also love this. Creating a safe space and a community to talk about our journeys would be so amazing!
I would love a chat like that, let me know if it ever happens :)
loved thatttt
you have taught me so much. finding home in myself and becoming a stale source of love for myself has been the biggest challenge but you model it beautifully. thank you so so much
11:00 This watered my eyes immediatley. I feel like this often in some capacity.
Your sex advice is so healing for me. It’s something I care about a lot in my relationship but also struggle a LOT with feeling confident. I feel so embarrassed, even though I’ve been with my partner for 2+ years. I want to please him, too. Thank you!!
i think your very brave for being able to acknowledge your shadows and feelings we have been taught to judge. i inspire to claim
I'm not sure how to word this but, the recent videos you've posted feel so different in the best way possible. Not to say that, your other videos are ingenuine, there's just a different kind of openness I feel from you. I feel more of your character is shining through, the energy of these videos feels like fresh morning air, like something that will make me laugh is about to happen. This could be just me also developing more perspective as I've been feeling so much about the transition of girlhood to womanhood. I feel connected to the way you embody womanhood. Lovely video!
I totally agree with the sexual part. There’s a negative notion revolving sex,pleasure and spirituality. The thing is, is that majority of people dont practice spiritual sex. Spiritual sex is where you use your spirit to take your body to experience a total dimension of love and creation. People who associate sex as 3D thing because they perceive sex as something they DO; after experiencing spirituality i came to understand that sex is somewhere you GO and that’s the difference. Our intentions play a huge part in the experiences we experience. I dare everyone to combine the beauty of their 3D Sacred element with their spirit and report back to me please. Love the video. Now let me continue watching 😅
ah you angel, this video just completely turned my day around. I love the practice of romancing every moment- felt consumed with dread, grief and loneliness a few minutes ago and this allowed me move to a place of excitement that I get to extract so much poetry and wisdom from these present emotions...and the idea of inviting eroticism into moments of overwhelm.. such an interesting perspective shift, thank you!!
I love you 😇
I don't comment often on videos but please keep doing what you are doing, please. You have such a lovely energy, I can feel it through your videos. I apsire to have your mindset, wisdom and power. Your videos are going to help a lot of people in this world and I hope it keeps spreading your positivity
Hi, I am a long time youtube user and I have seen so much content in regards to your discussion topics. I want to say that you are really touching a deep part within myself in these videos. I have great appreciation and grattitude in knowing a channel like yours exist and that women like you exist. Thank you for what you are doing and for the deep work you have been doing for your own self. These are major keys which you have shared and I feel that I even got access to a deeper understanding of Love and attraction through this. Not only your words are great but your tone, energy and sensibility really empower them. Thank you!
such a beautiful and helpful video for someone who is trying to better themselves and treat everyone with love and nonjudgement. Thank you so much Hitomi
i could listen to you talk for hours, you remind me of all the light inside me
oh I feel the same way
i love how authentic you are, and even when you speak of things as 'obvious' like self-love, i always manage to learn something new from your videos, it's just what it is - an authentic experience, authentic wisdom, authentic self and not something that just keeps getting repeated by everyone else, so thank you for being authentic and for making me allow myself to be emotional and spiritual
your videos always come at the perfect moment
Oh I needed this! I was just thinking about new friendships and how I want to be better!
My dream is to be like you, in my own way of course✨🧚🏻♀️💖 but I just admire so much your wisdom, your authenticity and healed spirit
It’s something I want for myself, and also I would love to share it with others like you
I dont know how to do that yet
“I feel how life was meant to yolk me” wow I’m in tears. Thank you Hitomi ❤
Dear Hitomi, I am very greatful. The way you look at life, the way you think and speak, aligns a lot with who I am. Listening to you gives me courage to stop hiding and instead go out and be authenic. Thank you. Really! 🙏
Hitomi, every video where you open up yourself this deeply is such a bless and brings me joy and hope about life. You are such an inspiration, thank you
the section on rushing and nonjudgment and existential kink and even creating stable forms of love was completely resonant. I too have to create it in my world as I do not have family to build those relationships with. I have grown out of rushing and needing a packed schedule where I’m running around to feel alive the more I heal and embrace stillness and calm. have been watching for over close to a decade but never commented. it’s eerie how similar our journeys have been. thank you so much for your words and presence.
Do you want to hold this “my heart” with me ? Almost brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and journey ❤
Thank you for your videos. Those about sexuality really empowered me a lot. K used to fill myself with guilt and shame whenever I thought about sex but now I’m completely ok talking about that with my current bf. We both found talking about it very useful in building our emotional and sexual bond. ❤ we definitely have grown much closer after being able to be intimate and vulnerable at the same time so… thanks !!!
It’s so hard for me right now because I dont have a comfort/safe space at this point in my life. I had to leave an unsafe environment where I had 3 dogs that were the only ones that held me together when I had no one to go to or a place where I felt home 🥲. I was on such a good path to self acceptance and love, having that space to truly be yourself and feel loved is so important. Thank you for sharing your insights ♥️
I’ve really been wanting to explore the sensuality I have within me without making others feel weirded out by the taboo of it all? I know sexuality isn’t taboo but not everyone is used to it. I want to explore that part of me so badly and give it the compassion to finally break free from the constraints it’s been under. I want to make love to life so badly without having negative thought surrounding it.
maybe try joining spaces that are celebrating this if you can find them! groups that meet/dance events/healing workshops surrounding the topic of sensuality/sexuality. I've started working at a sex shop and it's been so healing and empowering for me to be in that community and environment :) I hope you find a space to explore this whether it is with others or within yourself🤍
I love your way of expressing yourself, you should really start a podcast!
thank you hitomi. i see all of my favorite parts of myself in you, and i think thats why i feel so connected to you and your story. youve mirrored so much of my own light & dark to me because of how vulnerable youve been. im so grateful to have your light even just through the internet heheh-youve guided me more than you could ever know!! sending you so much love always❤
this video is one im gonna re-watch many times, it is so rich and helpful. You really have a gift of making people (or atleast me) feel at peace, calmer and grounded.
Thank you again Hitomi
„Sacred silliness!“ I love that so much… maybe I will make some art with that theme…Thank you for this good video!!! You are putting so much work into it and I am so greatfull for that.🙏✌️😀
“falling into others’ desires” god, that’s so real, i really resonate with that
This is so helpful and I am happy you are sharing ❤
Mmmmm so much of this landed. especially the last part about judgement and curiosity. Thank you so much Hitomi.
Thank you for being so vulnerable. I could listen to you for hours. Thank you for sharing!
“My dream reality is one where I do not have to rush!” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 What a WORD!!! Thank you, Queen 🥰💅🏽
you're so gorgeous, pretty, the hair, the body, the face omg and you're also soooo smart, the way you talk, how you think is soooo cool
your videos havent been on my feed for a while, so grateful I saw you come up again much needed. Also girl so proud of you, YOUR SKIN LOOKS AMAZING!
Watching this video is what i am grateful for today. I got in a place in life where I realized that my relationship with myself is not as good as I want it to be. This video helped me having more insight and more ways to discover myself, thank you
So much of this is exactly what I need, so thoughtfully and beautifully said and it aligns with so many smaller things I’ve been working through already. I feel like you just tied is all together so digestibly, thank you!
Hitomi , you continuously bring me back to myself. Your words and presence show me how normal it is to have a full spectrum experience of life and how to unconditionally love ourselves through it. Thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably. It’s incredibly inspiring ! ✨❤️
thank you thank you thank you. your words are again helping me remember who I am & all my divinity
your glowing
Love this Hitomi!
I loved when you said that you never crave relationship because you have such a full life. I would like to see life that way, how do you do that ? Can you tell more about this mindset ? I find myself often craving relationship and would love to get better at being more immerse in self/life than others.
I also liked that you are voluntary staying single and would love to know how you can stand on your decision to not have relationship while being intimate with others. I find myself struggling to keep the boundaries and standing on my decision to stay single when I am intimate with others or like someone.
You are WISE beyond your years Hitomi 🥺🥺😍😍♥️♥️
Thank you
its so nice to hear all this - kind of articulated so much of how I feel and move through life - i never knew the words tysm
You bring me so much peace, such a huge inspiration in my life, I literally love you
thank you for this hitomi. your videos feel so safe, inspiring and beautiful. thank you for being you!
In the past, I rushed so much. In day-to-day tasks. In my thinking. In my decisions. Even in my walking. So much so that any pause or lull felt like stuckness or dithering. I've found a lot of cosmic comfort in the past few years in slowing down. Physically. Mentally. And remembering that I set the pace I walk at. Slowness is luxurious.
if you had a podcast, i would listen to it all day 🥰 loved this
Sacred silliness!! I love!!!!
so insaely well worded. couldnt have said it better myself. you put into words everything i know to be true. thank you
11:11 this is really nice.. i also had a habit of not claiming my fears as well.. going to practice this
I‘m currently seeing someone that really sparks excitement inside of me while going through a friendship breakup at the same time. I really feel like the universe gives me love back because I was brave enough to let that person go. It is still really hard to make sense of that situation and trusting myself with this new relationship. I would really appreciate if you would talk about non-romantic breakups because its rarely picked up but a really important part of growing into to oneself.
Some of the stuff you say here remind me of Hesse's words in the Steppenwolf. I think he proposes very similar ways of being and of perceiving/experiencing life/reality. Pretty cool!
I hope to meet you one day! I’m 47 and learn so much rewiring by learning new sensual pathways
I love and you have helped me define what I’m looking for
Lovership 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you Hitomi for this chat❤ your videos and topics always come up in divine timing. Thank you for reminding me to be non-judgemental and fully accepting of “negative” feelings that sporadically arise. I am feeling so refreshed :)
I am open to receive blessings, success, abundance, prosperity, happiness and love ❤ thank you so much for this as always
Hitomi, you inspire and heal me with your words and give me peace and warmth. Thank you for sharing❤️🙏🏼
I love this! It came into my life at the exact right time.
The way I could relate with everything you said was magically. Thank you so much for this video! You inspired me a lot today🌞
I usually imagine myself sharing videos as you do. Inspiring. Don’t know if I’ll start, but I’d love to put myself out there a little more
I love love love how you embrace flowing with and enjoying the sensuality of being human I love it so much and this reminded me of the version of myself that embraced that rich delicious feeling in every moment tysm love. I love u
How did I find you!?! I needed you my whole life.. thank you so much ❤ for literally everything. I’ve been binge watching you
feels like listening to a friend, thank you i need to hear that
wow, this video really opened my eyes. ive been on my spiritual journey for a fee years now, and you have created such a beautiful space here and i appreciate this so so much. thank you :)
Hitomi, you are beautifull in every way. I always love to see you posted and your messages are always so spiritually on point.
you inspire me to be more confident! thank you for your courage
OH MYLANTA! Babe I’m sitting here drawing Inspo because I want to start making videos on my healing journey. I rose up from a horribly dark place and want to help others who are going through something similar. Your video came up on my algorithm and I am about to do binge watch your channel. You’re AMAZING and so beautifully inspiring. Thank you for sharing this beauty with us. I hope you continue receiving an unmeasurable amount of blessings. New subscriber here, can’t wait to see more!
P.S., in LOVE with your aesthetic 🥰😘
I feel like the hardest part for me is finding that community.. I did not have that in my blood line either yet in my environment it seems like I cannot find that trusting open loving community in other females :( But i do aim to cultivate that in myself!
DEEPLY grateful for your whole BEING. Thank you for BEING and sharing your truth and wisdom ❤️🔥✨
I feel grateful to you for discussing the minutiae of these areas of life. It’s so eye opening to hear a stranger put into words these thoughts and experiences, I feel like even hearing you elaborate on where you’re coming from is helpful for me to approach where I’m coming from! And evaluate what these different ideas can mean in my own life and time. Thank you for giving examples too, it’s helpful for further understanding such abstract concepts. You are brave and full of light, thank you for sharing your light with us!! Peace to you 💖
hitomi, your honestly & authenticity is so beautifully inspiring. thank you.♥️
I liked the practices you described and I'm excited to try them out!
Hitomi, you speak eloquently and honestly. How could we talk? You are beautiful! Thank you!🧡
Binging hitomi is self care ✨
This is my first time watching your videos and I already know that they are a sacred place. ❤
I’ve been watching you since around 2016/17 and I thank you for how much you helped me