Song of Solomon 8:6 “Jealousy is cruel as the grave…” 💚👁️💚 "Despite being very charming and able to talk a good game, narcissists actually have very low self-esteem. Low self-worth, confidence and self-esteem are at the core of narcissism. This low sense of self-worth naturally makes it extremely easy for them to become jealous - very jealous. Narcissism is addressed in the Bible in Paul’s second pastoral epistle to Timothy (2 Timothy 3:1-7) in the fall of A.D.67. Paul seems to be concerned about the character and behavior of leaders within the church, so he warns Timothy to beware of those who act out of a “self love attitude”. He says, “But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come. For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, (envious, jealous) slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away.” Narcissists build an inner shrine to themselves where they self-aggrandize to an extraordinary degree so that they can feel intrinsically superior to all others. Of course, their highly inflated view of themselves is an illusory false-self (a pathological ego) that becomes the basis for all future misinterpretations of their reality. Their feelings of being superior in every way to everybody, becomes the source of much pain and envy for them whenever they feel outshined by anybody. Pathological envy and jealousy is an integral part of narcissism (envy is a desire for what another person has, while jealousy is the fear that something can be taken away). Narcissists are envious of anything in others that they lack in themselves (i.e. beauty, possessions, knowledge, personal qualities, power, skills, achievements, qualifications, relationships, asaets, money, etc., Their envy consumes them, and the list of their covetousness (“I want, I want”) is endless ... Envy is a normal human feeling which can range from mild to severe, from healthy to unhealthy, from positive to negative. For example, “healthy envy” has positive qualities. Healthy envy acts as a valuable guide for your heart, leading you in the direction of what your soul requires, so in effect, the thing you desire acts as a mirror for personal growth. For example, if you envy by admiring the knowledge of your tutor in college, perhaps there is a part of your soul that yearns to become a teacher, or to be in a position where you can impart knowledge. Healthy envy is empowering because it encourages you to look within and brings you nearer to striving to work hard towards your life’s goal and purpose. Whereas, unhealthy envy is disempowering because it keeps you reaching outside of yourself, bound to a fantasy, wanting what others have been gifted by God or worked hard for, making you blind to your own true nature. Because the narcissist acts out of a False Self, they suffer from a twisted, soulless heart, leaving them at the mercy of their “unhealthy envy”, and envy that can trigger their feelings of vulnerability, shame and self-loathing at any moment. Any of these feelings can result in narcissistic injury, to which the narcissist invariably reacts by lashing out in rage. In order to rid themselves of such emotional turmoil and recover their equilibrium, the narcissist projects those intolerable feelings outward onto the person of their envy. Once you become the object of the narcissist’s envy you are in serious trouble. In order to improve their own self image they are likely to do a character assassination on you. This is not innocent gossip, rather it is an intentional, premeditated and sadistic smear campaign of “projection and smearing” that is aimed at maligning you in order to humiliate you and tarnish your reputation so they feel better about themselves. Be warned, narcissists are cold, ruthless, self-serving, and take no prisoners. The root cause of jealousy and envy are connected to a person's inability to see and be grateful for what God has provided in their life and a lack of thankfulness. James 3:16 states, “For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there.” A jealous spirit grows from insecurity. Don’t let someone’s insecurity take you down to their level. Once you identify a jealous spirit, take immediate steps to safeguard your well-being. Distance yourself, redirect focus, or confront the spirit directly. Always remember, they’re jealous of you because you’re awesome. Take heart in that!" ~ encourageyourselfcom. God bless you Telsha, may our Lord's face shine upon your narc-free happily smiling, highly favoured and good self all your days lovely lady! I was subjected to pathological envy and jealousy by my mum and big sister and needed to cut my losses and go no contact to escape their venomous rage so I understand the toxic power dynamic all too well. Thankfully I've found peace and freedom in their absence and a lot of loving support, encouragement and a safe place of healing here. Heartfelt congratulations on achieving a very well deserved 50k subscribership Telsha, you're the very best of the best!! 🏆🎉 Sending lots of love, light, peace and strength to Tea's Team of deeply feeling critical thinkers, healing to transform ourselves into Spiritual Warrior thrivers and survivors xox 🙏🌬️💪👁️🗨️🗣️👣💞🕊️🕊️🕊️
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Absolutely And his Allies also.. Birds of feather flock together... Spirit of. Reject abandonment jealousy envy list pride and the many other to inhabit man Halleluja Halleluja Yeshua Jesus Christ Christ defeated them all... #WeAlreadyWin #FixedFight
The jealousy and envy from my Ex Narcissist it was at a different level. This person hated me, hated how loving my family was, hated my son, hated everything about me. These are demons
@Hélia Alves I feel this....I'm just now recently realizing that they've been sabotaging me this whole time. Sabotaged my dreams to go to college and my ability to get a car....
@Hélia Alves Thank you so much. I'm also sorry that your narcissists have also did a number on you too. It's crazy that people like this exist. I wish you luck on your journey too. It's been very hard. Very. I'm trying to get out of here so I can finally start my life. If I don't, I'll surely regret it. I'm still young but I'm halfway through my 20s and even having my early 20s lost is irking and depressing me badly.... Anyways, I hope we're both able to reach inner peace and live life happily. ✨
I just recently bought a new vehicle, and my “NEX”,(narcissistic ex), bought a new truck within a few days! One of his flying monkey birds, decided to be the messenger and I was told the NEX was in shock, that I had something nice and it was 💯 mine and mine alone! Lmao! He devastated me financially but the Good Lord helped me out of the pit. Green eyed monster ran out to get himself a new ride because he was always jealous of me. Glory to God, I escaped from that demon! 🙏🏻
Lessie Lou, My Mother use you to call me, her Green Eyed Monster when I was A Kid. But I'm not not a Demon. You can always go and make more Money. Better then being with someone who is gonna drain your Pockets. Hell No.
No surprise. My hopefully soon to be “NEX” started suddenly saying he had to hurry and get a car within the next week as soon as I said I was thinking about getting a new car because my car is down and needs very expensive repairs plus I’ve had it 10 years already. Yet, he already has 2 cars but suddenly was in a big rush to get a car first and says yeah I can still get a car but he needs one first when there’s nothing major wrong with the cars he already has. Now that I haven’t said much about getting a car anymore he doesn’t talk about getting one anymore.
Narcissists are jealous and envious of everyone.. When I would get a compliment or something good would happen he would put me down.. their jealousy are beyond the pale..
Mine say her ex was jealous in competition so called friends anyone Now she calling me the same because I fixed up my spot saying I was only motivated to fix up my place because I knew she wanted to fix her.. keyword wanted financially unable currently but insane to tell me that discarded im straight
Their jealousy is off the chain!!! Lmao Thank you for putting the humor in the truth. Mine has been 14yrs & will NEVER go away. They're so sick it ain't even funny. They hate that we know who they really are!!!
The last messages from my devil ex narc was an hour of him writing "I literally f***ing hate you" with a bunch of curse words, name calling and wishing me ill. It was the most demonic stream of insults and I truly believe that's how he always felt about me. That resulted in a big fat BLOCK and report to police and I'll never talk to that evil thing ever again. He tried to call and send repetitive harassing messages for weeks apologizing. YEA RIGHT SATAN!! GET THE HELL AWAY FROM ME!
😂😂facts! Couldn’t even go to the bathroom without being asked where I’m going 🤦🏾♂️ I’m like are you serious I’m in my own house. My ex 🐦 tried her hardest to ruin me before the divorce but failed miserably. I’ll never go against the Lord after removing me from that situation unscathed 🙏🏾
In my own f***ckin house that I work hard for I move this bum ass NARC in with me when i have to take a # 2 I had to leave the door wide open were she can watch me because she's acting crazy claiming iam texting women I couldn't even take a shit in peace and its my f****ckin house that I work hard for and ran across this bum ass NARC....
Mannn I live with my older toxic brother narcissist and he always does this it’s sooo annoying ! I can’t even go to the kitchen in peace either and he try’s to control me from moving out on my own he is sick and I’m tired of feeling like a prisoner in my own place ! These kinda ppl are so damn evil and toxic
They are so wicked they will stoop as low as to putting black magic on you... Pray for you and your children every night. bless your houses family these jealous birds hate everything and anything they can't be or have stay prayed up.
I thought my ex of 12 years was the worst narcissists ever until God removed the scales from my eyes and I realized that my own mother was one as well. She literally hates me but This unveiling gives me the keys to set myself free.
That's the roughest situation of all I think. Prayer definitely helps. My mother hated the sight of me, I looked like my father who had abandoned her. She would tell me this as she beat me with belts, extension cords, her fists. She assaulted me physically for the first 17 years of my life, until one day I fought back, but the emotional, mental abuse never stopped. I put a wall between us...Those scars don't go away, but do your best to have a very good life, because you deserve it. There was always so much anger and resentment for no reason, no human being deserves that. Set yourself free now, if nothing else establish firm boundaries and see the situation for what it is. God Bless:--).
Same here I was raised by an evil sick woman who went to her grave just like that, evil as hell. Mothers death was like nothing happened, regular Tuesday. I know it sounds bad but it's the truth
They want to separate you from everything you have. Your family, friends, coworkers, career, belongings, happiness, God, freedom, health, and sanity. They can’t stand anything separating your attention and spending from them. They can’t stand you being self sufficient. They want you to be beholden to them for every aspect of your existence.
I couldnt go anywhere without the nex questioning "where you going?", "what you doing?"... i swear... couldnt go to the toilet, for a shower, go shopping, do housework, go to work, take kids to football/swimming practice. Even in the house, he would tell me tk tell the kids to play in their room and leave us alone... i used to reply "they live here!!!" I have to laugh but its actually quite disturbing. I'd occasionally go out with my friend and he would call me no stop... i remember switching my phone off once and he just called my friends number. Its exhausting being with a narc
I'll just say I caught wind of that narcissistic hateful glare. I was like, DARN what the heck was that. You can't fake a look like that. That is some serious deep rooted hate
Yes, I can still clearly recall that Beetlejuice face...at some point I learned to laugh at my situation...it helped me stop crying for real. On second thought, the fact that these emotionally impaired individuals think they are the master manipulators of other people, is actually quite sad.
@@TheOutliersDream it is. That's so sad how they thrive. With that it's also impossible for them to be the best version of themselves because they constantly have to pull from other individuals and watch how others are doing better than they are. Thats where that hate stems from.They lack the ability of true authenticity.
@@shannonl.8737 So true. They thrive by suffocating the joy and the life out of others. It was clear to me I was a burden to her, so I have strived to be so independent my entire life...thought I had put all this behind me completely years ago, but then I got very sick, had to leave my job,and I started thinking about my mother's comfort...I had so little to draw on. I had a mother who withheld that kind of nurturing from me, up until the last few years of her life...Lord, maybe she was scarred in ways that I will never know. It's not that narcissists are not bad people, but they are definitely fueled by an inner rage, and deathly afraid of unconditional love, the kind a child has for their parents and vice versa. I know in my heart that we are all created by a God who only knows Love, because everything I know about love, no one in my life has ever taught me. All we can do is live in the moment, you know what I mean? Have a beautiful Sunday:--)
@@shannonl.8737Shannon - I just left that same comment. They're not authentic it's all mirroring & show boasting in thirst of admiration. EXHAUSTING AND ENERGY VAMPIRES!!!
one thing my ex always seemes to hate was me smiling and laughing at something that didn't surround her. Get a haircut. Annoyed. Get a new friend. Pissed. I actually thought it was normal behavior at the time lol.
He was always competing with me, and he new he couldn’t keep up. Sis he use to always tell me he needed my undivided attention. He was jealous of our dog, sad but true. My skin got dark, bags under my eyes and sunk in, just drained me
My narc ex was jealous of my cat because my cat could tell me what he needed and the narc expected me to be a psychic and predict his needs. Miserable, evil soulless beings.
Me too! He was jealous of the dog, kept trying to persuade me to get rid of him. But I already knew which dog had to go. I looked in the mirror one day and it scared me, I looked like uncle Fester about the eyes. I felt like the life had been drained out of me. It's funny to me now, but that was the day I started observing that nut case instead of reacting to his constant chaos and bs...I noticed he had a habit of chewing on his thumb until it was raw and ulcerated:--(. More and more I saw that I was dealing with the walking, talking, and mentally dead.
@@TheOutliersDream that silverback I was with use to sit on his hands bcuz he bit his nails until they would bleed. I’m on my GLO UP AND WALKING INTO MAMA PURPOSE VERY CAREFUL, I just feel him watching me🙏🙏🙏🙏
She was so jealous, This bird my ex went as far as using witchcraft to my other children from a previous relationship. A pastor with a dicerning spirit told us. God revealed the intentions of these penguin with cowboys boots. We prayed about it and sent this curse right back to her
Yesss!!! People thought I was crazy when I told them he was jealous of the love I have for our baby! ...He even said to our baby " mommy used to love me more...until you came along" ...their birthdays are in the same month...and he hated the fact that I planned for her Birthday every year and not his!!!....You hit it right on the nail with that one!!
They are crazy as hell. Jealous of their own kids, they don't need kids. May the Lord never allow their wombs to bear fruit again and dry their seed up. No child should be under their care.
My narc bby mmz moved to my neighborhood just to not let my daughter come visit me. To not put my child in anymore dumbness, i stay my distance . If I see her around in the yard I'll say hi and bye . So sad
You're so on point. He's out here with all these supplies and sexcapades. He found out that I was in a new relationship with someone else. He sabotaged it swiftly to the fullest. Now he's started the flying monkies and supplies to come to my job through my line. My sister being one of them. Harassing, tormented and trying to get me fired. He even had one of them to come in the store and lie on me. The manager watched the footage and told her to leave me alone or she'll be trespassed from the store. He wasn't satisfied and kept having them to do it for a whole week. The manager lol and promoted me. Because of how I handled the issue.
Thank you for shining the light on the situation!!! I just never knew what it was however Yesss that jealousy spirit is strong and it really hurts people's spirit. #No more Narcissist attraction!
True...when i played or give our baby hugs i seen the hate in his eyes. I was very social and smiling...thats gone...my children and i are in therapy. It was a long road.
Hey T! Whoa!! BINGO!!! ALL TRUTH!! I have never witnessed such insane jealousy. I thought he was just jealous of men talking to me.....WRONG....he was jealous of men, women, babies, cat, dog......I mean it did not matter. It was the most pathetic 🙄 twisted thing to witness. He said...he thinks that I really hate him when in reality...I know thats what he is thinking about me. It's beyond a healthy person to understand the toxicity a narc brings to the table. T is right. They are mental. There is no cure. Believe me, they will and do destroy many. Give this to God and let him give you the strength to walk away. My strength came the night the ex 🐀 rat turned into Satan before my eyes. His voice totally changed. He went CRAZY over absolutely nothing. THAT was exactly when I knew....time to go! Then 20 minutes later he was happy as a lark. Terrifying! Narcissists are no joke. Protect yourself and get away and stay away!
I went to my friends house to celebrate my new job with them. By the end of the night, all of my friends turned against me I was cold out my name, and one of them threaten to kill me. I did not say a single word and left
Facts… My Mother has hated me since birth. Pathetically…. She is of age… I am her Caregiver… Torment Deceit and Hate Are Her Constant Companion. But God….love you
I can read between the lines, and my heart aches for you. Most of all, do not lose sight of who you are. Know that you are Blessed because you have a compassionate heart. Narcissists do not even have the capability to understand what that means. I honestly believe that pain they give to others is a direct reflection of their own repressed inner pain... That's what happened with me and my mother. She hated the sight of me, mentally, physically, emotionally abused me practically my entire life. Until she got old and became sick. Before that we were at most civil toward one another, then when she got ill, she became the mother she should have been. But it was too late, I knew something was wrong with her mind, when I was three, but where does a three year old go to escape crazy? She never knew me as the person I truly am, never gave me the motherly love I wanted. Be kind to yourself. Continue to lean on God for His Love and Strength~
I have been observing this dynamic for a lot of years now. And I really do come to the conclusion the whole situation is demonic. For one, I met the first narcissist THE DAY I became a born again Christian. And I have done battle with another one since then. I didn’t have a clue such profoundly evil people existed before that. When you are born again the battle really does begin. For better - and at times, for worse. The devil REALLY does come to steal, kill, and destroy. That’s why it is so important for the rest of us to keep talking in a tribe. Make it be known the light side is winning and we know EXACTLY what is going on 🤔🙌😇
You’re onto something because when I met mine I was just becoming very spiritually grounded. Reading and studying the Bible every day. You can be sure that went out the window real quick when I started dealing with him.
You are 100% correct. I was deep in the word, reading on my own every day, doing Bible study twice a week, and I finally had true friends that supported me spiritually. He came and disrupted it all. But God put me back on track.
YAHUAH gives everyone the same opportunities to follow him and his word but because those narcs chooses to not repent.They are given over to a reprobate mind,hardened heart,and a strong delusion so no one can help them.Satan was cast out of heaven for being narcissistic and people now think that you can get in heaven with a Narcissistic heart.REV 21:8
Omg yes!!! I didn't even recognize myself when I was dealing with that demonic spirit. I knew I had to get it together though...cause NONE of that was me. I went to counseling, prayer, and just started digging deep to correct unhealed trauma. Best thing I ever did. I still look back and can't believe I was that close to a demonic spirit, it's unerving.
Stop it!! Exactly the same here razbear!! They use & abuse , manipulate over and over. We carry the shame while it's a must for them to point the finger at you. It's astounding how truly evil they are. Ppl don't understand what we went thru. Nobody does unless your on a serious constant with them. It's so easy for them to put on game show host in front of strangers. They love to hurt,control,humiliate...anything to perceive themselves as being powerful. Yet with all that money & foolish theatre you see just how much they needed you...not the other way around. Be grateful you escaped the demonic matrix they weave. I will never ever look back.
I swear you are telling us the truth you know the Narcs so well , the longer you stay with them the more they hate you mine changed the locks while I was sleep he put me and his own child out the house because I didn’t want to sleep with him anymore y’all much love to you 🙋🏾♀️💕
I had a dream/vision of the X covert narc telling me he hated me, he said “I hate you! “ and each time he said this he said it with even more hate! I woke up crying. Now if I talk to him he comes off like the “nice” guy, people don’t see the real him, and they fall for his act of being helpful, nice and intelligent, but I know God revealed his true self to me , so every time he comes off nice, and he really doesn’t mean any harm, I reflect on this dream, which is a true awakening.
You ain't even lying , you done came to my house rung the bell and walked off , girl , you nailed it with a sludge hummer , cause I didn't know if I was coming ,or going or done gone , you tell that truth and shame that devil
🙌🏾THANK GOD HE SHOWED ME WHO IS FOR ME AND WHO ISNT THOSE THAT KEEP COMING FOR HIS CHOSEN WILL FALL AND BE DESTROYED KEEP COMING FOR HIS PEOPLE IF YOU WANT TOO😒💅🏽 IM GLAD WHAT I FELT WAS ALL TRUE LORD CONTINUE TO EXPOSE PEOPLE IN THESE LAST DAYS YALL STAY IN PRAYER 🙏🏾 THIS IS NOT A JOKE WE ARE IN A SPIRITUAL WARFARE
My typing is not the greatest tonight! Meant to say I think th female narcs are worse than the mal narcs. Awful!! Amen sister. Got that right big time.
Hey Sis, I been bragging on you to ppl who are or have in a narcissistic situationship. That Silver Back with rubber boots on never let me forget how he ENVYED me, but why was always my question to that Ape. I can’t stand his kind of SPECIES !!
I agree, cutting it off knowing narcissism is at the root of the generational sins of my family. My mother as treated me with contempt for as long as I know and still believes that I'm supposed to take care of her when she needs me. Calls me for money but can't call anyone else in the family.
I thank Yahweh for the anointing on your life 🙌🏼. You are reveling the truth of the life, Souls and Energy of these Diabolical beings.ln the last decade I've experienced just how much evil the Narccist is rooted and grounded in PURE HATERED, my goodness, I never realized how deep their envy is, jealousy is cruler than the grave, Telsha I experienced my Narccistic ex-husbands jealousy towards his own 2 Children when they were just infants, he became angry anytime that he felt that I was showing them too much affection, UNBELIEVABLE ‼️.
I REALLY LOVE this VIDEO!! Thank you. YES these PARASITES feed off of JEALOUSY and ENVY and HATERD,that is ALL they KNOW!!! GOD GAVE US EACH A VOICE AS WELL as a CONSCIENCE and I hope, we all will use it!!!!
AND IT IS SOO!! You preaching TRUTH up in here. My EX admitted the jealousy of me & our kids after our divorce. 🤦🏽♀️ Jealousy is dangerous. Keep doing what you do Sis!!🥰
Aye pass gas, it’s really THAT deep 🥴, he tried to make me change my hairstylist , boooiiii . listennn, I should’ve known it was a flag when he asked me why my 4 yo daughter ,why she so happy all the … she just .. happy.. I was thrown tf off , I though it was coming from a curious place on gods love type thing but nah … it yes IT wanted to take her light. They not hunannnnnn I’ll die b4 that happens. That man tried to trap me and 4 yrs y’all not a slip up. I will never disrespect AHYAH again! 🙏🏾💜 it’s not TMH plan. Periodt
Amen what you’re saying is all facts 💯 my daughters mother hated when they referred 2 my daughter as a daddies girl. She hates our relationship, when I left the relationship she tried everything under the sun to damage our bond. I heard horror stories of children being turned against the father. She even succeeded at one point, I prayed 2 God to protect her mind. And he answered my prayers no matter what she does to separate us our bond is still going strong. I intend to keep it that way.🙏🏾 God is good ✝️
You described my mum 100%. The worst thing my mums in her late 60s and acts innocent. People think I'm the bad one, but don't know what's happening behind close doors . Thank god I left she put me through hell.
Do not be deceived, God is mocked : For whatever a man sows , that he will reap for he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap Corruption but he who sows to the spirit will of the spirit reap everlasting life ....Galations 6:7-8
My neighbor who I used to call “aunty” is a narcissist. I bought my dream car last summer and she inquired about it, then tried to “warn” me because it’s a 2001 Audi with over 200k miles. I’ve wanted this car since I was 17, and I got it in the exact specification, color, everything I’ve dreamt of in this dream car. As soon as I said this is my dream car all hell broke loose a few hours later and didn’t know I was in the devaluation stage, not even knowing what a narcissist truly is. She even got racial with me and she’s from another country. She came 2 weeks later in a Hoover attempt trying to give me a bag of coffee beans and I refused them. I don’t need her and ever since I found your channel I’ve healed so much! ❤
Because I had a good relationship with my son, she begin to isolate me from him. And had the audacity to tell me that unless I talk to her I won't have access to my son. But I really don't need to talk to her
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...NOT TO BE MEAN SPIRIT BUT WE FREE YES RUB IN IT SMILE DANCE PLAY PARTY MUSIC IN BACKGROUND "LIKE IM FEELING MYSELF FEELING MYSELF" LORD SAYS LOVE YOURSELVES AS WE PUT HIM ABBA FIRST.... FREEDOM FEELS GOOD💯🙌🎊
You’re right I was when I was with that thing before I met him he was I was so bubbly and happy and cheerful don’t have nothing to worry about just going along in a peaceful way and having him around what’s the worst thing ever in my life after three for five years in the in the in the relationship he said to me I don’t really like you and I don’t like the way you talk and hit F he had said that from the beginning I would never been with this person he was and the S and jealous that’s why he stealing and and did a lot of things in my household and treat me and very verbal very verbal abusive
At this point I have given up with having a relationship with one of my older sisters. I decided to go no contact and move on with my life! I’m very confident and can’t be controlled etc. people have told me they sense she is jealousy of me. The way she has treated me over the years in little slick ways. I feel that it’s very much true. Her actions towards me since we been grown has even gotten worse. We don’t have no connection or bond. It’s so sad! But I have left it in Gods hands. You’re definitely speaking facts!
I done lost it when you said she took his family jewels, 🤣😂. Comedy roast early you a trip but on the subject lol when you pass gas. Sis you a trip got me crying laughing over here I can’t lol 😂
My father has always been competitive of me, i never got it for decades- and always worked to impress him. But he 92 now and never ever will he say anything nice. He has turned my brother n sister into narcs and monkeys. The hatred is palpable. I got get out here or these and my NEX are going to kill me off- seriously 😳. So tormented here in the swamp. Florida it is where empaths come to drown n die.
I got so tired of him bashing me when i was in medical school that i told him NOT to come to my graduation. He did not , no one in my family came- thanks for at least scratching the surface of the torment. I probably would be beyond believable in my service my love and my healing capacity if i had not been emotionally battered by both my parents n the family. . BUT’ Im gonna finish this so watch this spot! I love you all!
Good stuff as always Queen Telsha! 🌺💕Jezebel is not the only spirit that you have to contend with these days. You also have Delilah, a non-binary spirit that mimics Jezebel; however, they seek to know what your personal strength is for their own person use. They also operate under covetedness, jealousy and envy while seeking to exploit you because just like Jezebel, they want what you have. We have to be vigilant and connected w/the Father and be very discerning in the spirit. Y’all continue to watch and pray 🙏🏾
Exactly to the tee. That's her problem and none of mine. Gurrl 👋. I's owe non of them heifers nothing. Work with what God gave you. Realize what you have is enough to being yourself. Celebrate you! ❤😀💯💪🎉💎✨🔥💃🎶
My ex narc gave me the silent treatment for two hours because my supervisor told her that she had an intelligent hard working man. Thank you so much for the knowledge!
I missed you..I stopped seeing my narc in July but he emails sporadically to say he misses me n I still need to hear you bcuz of fleeting thoughts of could be really miss me but I know better..thank you!
Right I didn’t know what it was what was going on because it is something new to me because I never was in that kind of environment where he came in like he was so humble and I’m
Wait a minute Mama T msr T you're ganna make me cry.... my ex narc when I had to use the bath room and take a # 2 I had to leave the door wide open were she can watch me take a # 2 because she's acting crazy claiming iam texting women what type of privacy and peace of mind is that were you can't even take a shit in peace....she was worst than a warden....maaan I swear some body put witch craft on me dealing with my ex narc.
When I had my run in with the worst narc of all, there was no one I could talk to, seek help from. People were not as forthcoming with sharing their experiences. Or maybe no one knew the extent of the madness. Everyone here is truly Blessed to have access to the The Tea on NPD and Relationships channel. The insights and the community support are truly phenomenal:--).
PS: I pray Our Heavenly Father continue to protect Telsha from The Enemy. Because You just KNOW The Enemy is not happy with the Truth and Light she is sharing. I hope all is going well for you, Tesha🙏
I am on a healing journey and discovering that my experiences as a child were from family members that were narcissistic. I never understood why I didn’t receive support or praise from the both of them when I did well in school, but when I did poorly the physical, emotional and verbal abuse was incredible. There was always the inner conflict I had because when I became an adult and moved out I started hearing I was beautiful randomly and more often, then I pursued modeling and acting and heard it more and that I was really talented, but I always was conflicted that people were just being kind and the men were be deceptive. At home I was always reminded I was nothing to be jealous of and I wasn’t initiating a conversation about jealousy it was a something randomly brought up by them. One of them was extremely beautiful and I was fiercely loyal to her. I have come to terms with it by moving away from them. That was when they were exposed, but I have spent my life attracting and being drawn to narcissistic females and makes in friendships and romantic relationships. I only found this out this year that we seek out people in our adult lives just like the people that raised us. I’m so glad I got to know Jesus in it all. Just a thought, but sometimes I feel like I’m journaling on channels and it is at the risk of exposing my abusers and more than exposing anyone I want to be heard, understood, relatable and ultimately healed. While I understand that is probably impossible to achieve all of that at least I learned that other people have experienced similar. Ty
Thank you for all your information pretty lady! Awhile back, you said you were going to pray for me with som narcs at work and negativity. I am now working at home part time. I am a people person, but my peace is very important. Thank you so much for your prayers and sorry it has taken awhile to properly acknowledge you. Yes, those female narcs are treacherous! Worse than the me I think. I will be back again on Thursday nights. Really enjoy it when there! Thanks for helping me and so many others!
I had my ex husband with the same thing, we had 2 girls & from that point on, he couldn’t handle my attention & care for my children. It was sooo crazy, they are in their 40’s now & he has to have one to punish!! It’s so sick!!
Song of Solomon 8:6 “Jealousy is cruel as the grave…” 💚👁️💚
"Despite being very charming and able to talk a good game, narcissists actually have very low self-esteem. Low self-worth, confidence and self-esteem are at the core of narcissism. This low sense of self-worth naturally makes it extremely easy for them to become jealous - very jealous.
Narcissism is addressed in the Bible in Paul’s second pastoral epistle to Timothy (2 Timothy 3:1-7) in the fall of A.D.67. Paul seems to be concerned about the character and behavior of leaders within the church, so he warns Timothy to beware of those who act out of a “self love attitude”. He says, “But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come. For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, (envious, jealous) slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away.”
Narcissists build an inner shrine to themselves where they self-aggrandize to an extraordinary degree so that they can feel intrinsically superior to all others. Of course, their highly inflated view of themselves is an illusory false-self (a pathological ego) that becomes the basis for all future misinterpretations of their reality. Their feelings of being superior in every way to everybody, becomes the source of much pain and envy for them whenever they feel outshined by anybody.
Pathological envy and jealousy is an integral part of narcissism (envy is a desire for what another person has, while jealousy is the fear that something can be taken away). Narcissists are envious of anything in others that they lack in themselves (i.e. beauty, possessions, knowledge, personal qualities, power, skills, achievements, qualifications, relationships, asaets, money, etc., Their envy consumes them, and the list of their covetousness (“I want, I want”) is endless ...
Envy is a normal human feeling which can range from mild to severe, from healthy to unhealthy, from positive to negative. For example, “healthy envy” has positive qualities. Healthy envy acts as a valuable guide for your heart, leading you in the direction of what your soul requires, so in effect, the thing you desire acts as a mirror for personal growth. For example, if you envy by admiring the knowledge of your tutor in college, perhaps there is a part of your soul that yearns to become a teacher, or to be in a position where you can impart knowledge. Healthy envy is empowering because it encourages you to look within and brings you nearer to striving to work hard towards your life’s goal and purpose.
Whereas, unhealthy envy is disempowering because it keeps you reaching outside of yourself, bound to a fantasy, wanting what others have been gifted by God or worked hard for, making you blind to your own true nature. Because the narcissist acts out of a False Self, they suffer from a twisted, soulless heart, leaving them at the mercy of their “unhealthy envy”, and envy that can trigger their feelings of vulnerability, shame and self-loathing at any moment.
Any of these feelings can result in narcissistic injury, to which the narcissist invariably reacts by lashing out in rage.
In order to rid themselves of such emotional turmoil and recover their equilibrium, the narcissist projects those intolerable feelings outward onto the person of their envy.
Once you become the object of the narcissist’s envy you are in serious trouble. In order to improve their own self image they are likely to do a character assassination on you. This is not innocent gossip, rather it is an intentional, premeditated and sadistic smear campaign of “projection and smearing” that is aimed at maligning you in order to humiliate you and tarnish your reputation so they feel better about themselves. Be warned, narcissists are cold, ruthless, self-serving, and take no prisoners.
The root cause of jealousy and envy are connected to a person's inability to see and be grateful for what God has provided in their life and a lack of thankfulness. James 3:16 states, “For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there.”
A jealous spirit grows from insecurity. Don’t let someone’s insecurity take you down to their level. Once you identify a jealous spirit, take immediate steps to safeguard your well-being. Distance yourself, redirect focus, or confront the spirit directly.
Always remember, they’re jealous of you because you’re awesome. Take heart in that!" ~ encourageyourselfcom.
God bless you Telsha, may our Lord's face shine upon your narc-free happily smiling, highly favoured and good self all your days lovely lady! I was subjected to pathological envy and jealousy by my mum and big sister and needed to cut my losses and go no contact to escape their venomous rage so I understand the toxic power dynamic all too well. Thankfully I've found peace and freedom in their absence and a lot of loving support, encouragement and a safe place of healing here.
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True
Satan was the first narcissist - jealous of God..
Absolutely And his Allies also..
Birds of feather flock together... Spirit of. Reject abandonment jealousy envy list pride and the many other to inhabit man Halleluja Halleluja Yeshua Jesus Christ Christ defeated them all...
#WeAlreadyWin #FixedFight
At least with Satan, we know off rip where he's coming from [hell]...narcissists remind me of that movie 'Invasion Of The Body Snatchers'~
Amen!!!!!!👍💯🎯
ABSOLUTELY! 💯💯💯
Absolute Truth🎯🎯🎯
The jealousy and envy from my Ex Narcissist it was at a different level. This person hated me, hated how loving my family was, hated my son, hated everything about me. These are demons
Yes - it's truth - they want to wipe the smile off your face..
Snicker, snicker! We are on to them now! Go big! Believe in self big!
@Hélia Alves I feel this....I'm just now recently realizing that they've been sabotaging me this whole time. Sabotaged my dreams to go to college and my ability to get a car....
@Hélia Alves Thank you so much. I'm also sorry that your narcissists have also did a number on you too. It's crazy that people like this exist. I wish you luck on your journey too. It's been very hard. Very. I'm trying to get out of here so I can finally start my life. If I don't, I'll surely regret it. I'm still young but I'm halfway through my 20s and even having my early 20s lost is irking and depressing me badly....
Anyways, I hope we're both able to reach inner peace and live life happily. ✨
Since they don't know how to be happy, no one can.
Jealousy and think they are better than every woman. Never seen the likes of it!!
I just recently bought a new vehicle, and my “NEX”,(narcissistic ex), bought a new truck within a few days! One of his flying monkey birds, decided to be the messenger and I was told the NEX was in shock, that I had something nice and it was 💯 mine and mine alone! Lmao! He devastated me financially but the Good Lord helped me out of the pit. Green eyed monster ran out to get himself a new ride because he was always jealous of me. Glory to God, I escaped from that demon! 🙏🏻
Lessie Lou, My Mother use you to call me, her Green Eyed Monster when I was A Kid. But I'm not not a Demon. You can always go and make more Money. Better then being with someone who is gonna drain your Pockets. Hell No.
Yes amen
Same. I bought a nice new car and he bought a nicer one 😂😂🙄🤦♀️ ps I bought mine because I was in an accident and I needed it, him, not so much … 🤔
No surprise. My hopefully soon to be “NEX” started suddenly saying he had to hurry and get a car within the next week as soon as I said I was thinking about getting a new car because my car is down and needs very expensive repairs plus I’ve had it 10 years already. Yet, he already has 2 cars but suddenly was in a big rush to get a car first and says yeah I can still get a car but he needs one first when there’s nothing major wrong with the cars he already has. Now that I haven’t said much about getting a car anymore he doesn’t talk about getting one anymore.
@Leesie Lou
Keep striving! ☮️
This is so true!You can feel that evil spirit through the grin.
You can see the fakeness
" A$.
They.. WALK. By..You!" $pirituALL Di$CERN..I$..Powerful.... Amen
That grin is vile
💯
Narcissists are jealous and envious of everyone.. When I would get a compliment or something good would happen he would put me down.. their jealousy are beyond the pale..
Mine say her ex was jealous in competition so called friends anyone
Now she calling me the same because I fixed up my spot saying I was only motivated to fix up my place because I knew she wanted to fix her.. keyword wanted financially unable currently but insane to tell me that discarded im straight
This describes my ex
This is so True. You can't build with a jealous partner.
Their jealousy is off the chain!!! Lmao Thank you for putting the humor in the truth. Mine has been 14yrs & will NEVER go away. They're so sick it ain't even funny. They hate that we know who they really are!!!
The last messages from my devil ex narc was an hour of him writing "I literally f***ing hate you" with a bunch of curse words, name calling and wishing me ill. It was the most demonic stream of insults and I truly believe that's how he always felt about me. That resulted in a big fat BLOCK and report to police and I'll never talk to that evil thing ever again. He tried to call and send repetitive harassing messages for weeks apologizing. YEA RIGHT SATAN!! GET THE HELL AWAY FROM ME!
😂😂facts! Couldn’t even go to the bathroom without being asked where I’m going 🤦🏾♂️ I’m like are you serious I’m in my own house. My ex 🐦 tried her hardest to ruin me before the divorce but failed miserably. I’ll never go against the Lord after removing me from that situation unscathed 🙏🏾
In my own f***ckin house that I work hard for I move this bum ass NARC in with me when i have to take a # 2 I had to leave the door wide open were she can watch me because she's acting crazy claiming iam texting women I couldn't even take a shit in peace and its my f****ckin house that I work hard for and ran across this bum ass NARC....
Mannn I live with my older toxic brother narcissist and he always does this it’s sooo annoying ! I can’t even go to the kitchen in peace either and he try’s to control me from moving out on my own he is sick and I’m tired of feeling like a prisoner in my own place ! These kinda ppl are so damn evil and toxic
Oh my goshhh my situation ughhhh! Waiting to get my divorce now. Always trying to control me nawwww I ain’t going! Cause I gives it to him!!!
Saying a prayer for y’all 🙏🏾. These people really crazy out here 🤦🏾♂️
They are so wicked they will stoop as low as to putting black magic on you... Pray for you and your children every night. bless your houses family these jealous birds hate everything and anything they can't be or have stay prayed up.
I thought my ex of 12 years was the worst narcissists ever until God removed the scales from my eyes and I realized that my own mother was one as well. She literally hates me but This unveiling gives me the keys to set myself free.
Big congratulations sis
Congratulations sis. God removed my mum from me 5 months ago. Your destined for greatness.
That's the roughest situation of all I think. Prayer definitely helps. My mother hated the sight of me, I looked like my father who had abandoned her. She would tell me this as she beat me with belts, extension cords, her fists. She assaulted me physically for the first 17 years of my life, until one day I fought back, but the emotional, mental abuse never stopped. I put a wall between us...Those scars don't go away, but do your best to have a very good life, because you deserve it. There was always so much anger and resentment for no reason, no human being deserves that. Set yourself free now, if nothing else establish firm boundaries and see the situation for what it is. God Bless:--).
Congratulations ❤
Same here I was raised by an evil sick woman who went to her grave just like that, evil as hell. Mothers death was like nothing happened, regular Tuesday. I know it sounds bad but it's the truth
They want to separate you from everything you have. Your family, friends, coworkers, career, belongings, happiness, God, freedom, health, and sanity. They can’t stand anything separating your attention and spending from them. They can’t stand you being self sufficient. They want you to be beholden to them for every aspect of your existence.
Speaking from experience and thos is 1000% true!
I couldnt go anywhere without the nex questioning "where you going?", "what you doing?"... i swear... couldnt go to the toilet, for a shower, go shopping, do housework, go to work, take kids to football/swimming practice. Even in the house, he would tell me tk tell the kids to play in their room and leave us alone... i used to reply "they live here!!!" I have to laugh but its actually quite disturbing. I'd occasionally go out with my friend and he would call me no stop... i remember switching my phone off once and he just called my friends number. Its exhausting being with a narc
I'll just say I caught wind of that narcissistic hateful glare. I was like, DARN what the heck was that. You can't fake a look like that. That is some serious deep rooted hate
Yes, I can still clearly recall that Beetlejuice face...at some point I learned to laugh at my situation...it helped me stop crying for real. On second thought, the fact that these emotionally impaired individuals think they are the master manipulators of other people, is actually quite sad.
@@TheOutliersDream it is. That's so sad how they thrive. With that it's also impossible for them to be the best version of themselves because they constantly have to pull from other individuals and watch how others are doing better than they are. Thats where that hate stems from.They lack the ability of true authenticity.
@@shannonl.8737 So true. They thrive by suffocating the joy and the life out of others. It was clear to me I was a burden to her, so I have strived to be so independent my entire life...thought I had put all this behind me completely years ago, but then I got very sick, had to leave my job,and I started thinking about my mother's comfort...I had so little to draw on.
I had a mother who withheld that kind of nurturing from me, up until the last few years of her life...Lord, maybe she was scarred in ways that I will never know. It's not that narcissists are not bad people, but they are definitely fueled by an inner rage, and deathly afraid of unconditional love, the kind a child has for their parents and vice versa.
I know in my heart that we are all created by a God who only knows Love, because everything I know about love, no one in my life has ever taught me. All we can do is live in the moment, you know what I mean? Have a beautiful Sunday:--)
That glare tells you all you need to know!
@@shannonl.8737Shannon - I just left that same comment. They're not authentic it's all mirroring & show boasting in thirst of admiration. EXHAUSTING AND ENERGY VAMPIRES!!!
one thing my ex always seemes to hate was me smiling and laughing at something that didn't surround her. Get a haircut. Annoyed. Get a new friend. Pissed. I actually thought it was normal behavior at the time lol.
It's the demon inside of them that hate you. Those demons end is the lake of fire 🔥 and they know it.
He was always competing with me, and he new he couldn’t keep up. Sis he use to always tell me he needed my undivided attention. He was jealous of our dog, sad but true. My skin got dark, bags under my eyes and sunk in, just drained me
@Tabitha Matthews
Once you leave that monster your looks will return and your mental health. Stay safe.
My narc ex was jealous of my cat because my cat could tell me what he needed and the narc expected me to be a psychic and predict his needs. Miserable, evil soulless beings.
Me too! He was jealous of the dog, kept trying to persuade me to get rid of him. But I already knew which dog had to go. I looked in the mirror one day and it scared me, I looked like uncle Fester about the eyes. I felt like the life had been drained out of me. It's funny to me now, but that was the day I started observing that nut case instead of reacting to his constant chaos and bs...I noticed he had a habit of chewing on his thumb until it was raw and ulcerated:--(. More and more I saw that I was dealing with the walking, talking, and mentally dead.
@@TheOutliersDream that silverback I was with use to sit on his hands bcuz he bit his nails until they would bleed. I’m on my GLO UP AND WALKING INTO MAMA PURPOSE VERY CAREFUL, I just feel him watching me🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sorry MY PURPOSE ❤️
She was so jealous, This bird my ex went as far as using witchcraft to my other children from a previous relationship. A pastor with a dicerning spirit told us. God revealed the intentions of these penguin with cowboys boots. We prayed about it and sent this curse right back to her
Same here! 🤬
Yesss!!! People thought I was crazy when I told them he was jealous of the love I have for our baby! ...He even said to our baby " mommy used to love me more...until you came along" ...their birthdays are in the same month...and he hated the fact that I planned for her Birthday every year and not his!!!....You hit it right on the nail with that one!!
They are crazy as hell. Jealous of their own kids, they don't need kids. May the Lord never allow their wombs to bear fruit again and dry their seed up. No child should be under their care.
How could a person be with u but hate you and jealous of you 🤷🏾♂️?
My narc bby mmz moved to my neighborhood just to not let my daughter come visit me. To not put my child in anymore dumbness, i stay my distance . If I see her around in the yard I'll say hi and bye . So sad
They will literally TRY to kill your spirit/life!!! Leave them miserable clowns at the dirt of your footing!!!!!
Yep - devalue you, discard you, smear you once you call them out, among many other things.
Off topic but you're beautiful Ms. Tiffany ☺
You're so on point. He's out here with all these supplies and sexcapades. He found out that I was in a new relationship with someone else. He sabotaged it swiftly to the fullest. Now he's started the flying monkies and supplies to come to my job through my line. My sister being one of them. Harassing, tormented and trying to get me fired. He even had one of them to come in the store and lie on me. The manager watched the footage and told her to leave me alone or she'll be trespassed from the store. He wasn't satisfied and kept having them to do it for a whole week. The manager lol and promoted me. Because of how I handled the issue.
Thank you for shining the light on the situation!!! I just never knew what it was however Yesss that jealousy spirit is strong and it really hurts people's spirit. #No more Narcissist attraction!
True...when i played or give our baby hugs i seen the hate in his eyes. I was very social and smiling...thats gone...my children and i are in therapy. It was a long road.
I can testify, no lies told! Now they got to sit back and watch what they feared most - our freedom.
My Family's Stalkers/Extortionist, and yes yes yes, allowed "...19 additional years of non face to face-Swivel in this Snareware".
Hey T! Whoa!! BINGO!!! ALL TRUTH!! I have never witnessed such insane jealousy. I thought he was just jealous of men talking to me.....WRONG....he was jealous of men, women, babies, cat, dog......I mean it did not matter. It was the most pathetic 🙄 twisted thing to witness. He said...he thinks that I really hate him when in reality...I know thats what he is thinking about me. It's beyond a healthy person to understand the toxicity a narc brings to the table. T is right. They are mental. There is no cure. Believe me, they will and do destroy many. Give this to God and let him give you the strength to walk away. My strength came the night the ex 🐀 rat turned into Satan before my eyes. His voice totally changed. He went CRAZY over absolutely nothing. THAT was exactly when I knew....time to go! Then 20 minutes later he was happy as a lark. Terrifying! Narcissists are no joke. Protect yourself and get away and stay away!
I can relate to this, that Narcissistic rage! Very unnecessary
I went to my friends house to celebrate my new job with them. By the end of the night, all of my friends turned against me I was cold out my name, and one of them threaten to kill me. I did not say a single word and left
Yep. Always referred to my house, my Car, that i went to college. And that i was in church. WOW
Facts… My Mother has hated me since birth.
Pathetically…. She is of age…
I am her Caregiver…
Torment Deceit and Hate Are Her
Constant Companion.
But God….love you
Since birth for me as well.
I can read between the lines, and my heart aches for you. Most of all, do not lose sight of who you are. Know that you are Blessed because you have a compassionate heart. Narcissists do not even have the capability to understand what that means. I honestly believe that pain they give to others is a direct reflection of their own repressed inner pain...
That's what happened with me and my mother. She hated the sight of me, mentally, physically, emotionally abused me practically my entire life. Until she got old and became sick. Before that we were at most civil toward one another, then when she got ill, she became the mother she should have been.
But it was too late, I knew something was wrong with her mind, when I was three, but where does a three year old go to escape crazy? She never knew me as the person I truly am, never gave me the motherly love I wanted. Be kind to yourself. Continue to lean on God for His Love and Strength~
Hit the nail on the head, my ex would be jealous if my parents came over, or my daughter and grandson, it was crazy
They're crazy!!!
So they just beg you for things because in their eyes you have too much🤨
Amen Sis...they are so evil y twisted...Satan's seed...praise God we are free in Jesus❤🕯🙏
Amen Freeeeee
This is so true. My mother is a true narcissist
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True..
I have been observing this dynamic for a lot of years now. And I really do come to the conclusion the whole situation is demonic. For one, I met the first narcissist THE DAY I became a born again Christian. And I have done battle with another one since then. I didn’t have a clue such profoundly evil people existed before that. When you are born again the battle really does begin. For better - and at times, for worse. The devil REALLY does come to steal, kill, and destroy. That’s why it is so important for the rest of us to keep talking in a tribe. Make it be known the light side is winning and we know EXACTLY what is going on 🤔🙌😇
You’re onto something because when I met mine I was just becoming very spiritually grounded. Reading and studying the Bible every day. You can be sure that went out the window real quick when I started dealing with him.
Amen... absolutely demonic.. same Unclean spirits, different host!! That's why no matter what, all narcs do the same ish...
They are FULL OF DEMONS
Goldilocks the devil works
overtime. Because you left
his gatekeepers tribe.
Welcome home my
Sster In Christ!
🙏❤😀👑💯💪🔥
You are 100% correct. I was deep in the word, reading on my own every day, doing Bible study twice a week, and I finally had true friends that supported me spiritually. He came and disrupted it all. But God put me back on track.
i just got my car out the shop for body work, the narc scratched it 6wks later, he was the last one in the garage when i noticed it !!!
He did it👍
I literally cannot stomach the envy they have for their children its mental illness
YAHUAH gives everyone the same opportunities to follow him and his word but because those narcs chooses to not repent.They are given over to a reprobate mind,hardened heart,and a strong delusion so no one can help them.Satan was cast out of heaven for being narcissistic and people now think that you can get in heaven with a Narcissistic heart.REV 21:8
Amen!!! Well Said🔥
Omg yes!!! I didn't even recognize myself when I was dealing with that demonic spirit. I knew I had to get it together though...cause NONE of that was me. I went to counseling, prayer, and just started digging deep to correct unhealed trauma. Best thing I ever did.
I still look back and can't believe I was that close to a demonic spirit, it's unerving.
Stop it!! Exactly the same here razbear!! They use & abuse , manipulate over and over. We carry the shame while it's a must for them to point the finger at you. It's astounding how truly evil they are. Ppl don't understand what we went thru. Nobody does unless your on a serious constant with them. It's so easy for them to put on game show host in front of strangers. They love to hurt,control,humiliate...anything to perceive themselves as being powerful. Yet with all that money & foolish theatre you see just how much they needed you...not the other way around. Be grateful you escaped the demonic matrix they weave. I will never ever look back.
She did what? Made him choose between your baby and her. They are both crows! Chile please.
I swear you are telling us the truth you know the Narcs so well , the longer you stay with them the more they hate you mine changed the locks while I was sleep he put me and his own child out the house because I didn’t want to sleep with him anymore y’all much love to you 🙋🏾♀️💕
I had a dream/vision of the X covert narc telling me he hated me, he said “I hate you! “ and each time he said this he said it with even more hate! I woke up crying. Now if I talk to him he comes off like the “nice” guy, people don’t see the real him, and they fall for his act of being helpful, nice and intelligent, but I know God revealed his true self to me , so every time he comes off nice, and he really doesn’t mean any harm, I reflect on this dream, which is a true awakening.
He got the people on his job fooled flying monkeys
Jealous & envy is dumb ones tool's, so I say Nathan & keep my kool!!!
May God keep his face shine on you my sister
Yes they are jealous creatures.
You ain't even lying , you done came to my house rung the bell and walked off , girl , you nailed it with a sludge hummer , cause I didn't know if I was coming ,or going or done gone , you tell that truth and shame that devil
I was bubbly and jubilant 🙋🏽♀️ until I discovered who he really was as well as my friend had to discard them both!!!
🙌🏾THANK GOD HE SHOWED ME WHO IS FOR ME AND WHO ISNT THOSE THAT KEEP COMING FOR HIS CHOSEN WILL FALL AND BE DESTROYED KEEP COMING FOR HIS PEOPLE IF YOU WANT TOO😒💅🏽 IM GLAD WHAT I FELT WAS ALL TRUE LORD CONTINUE TO EXPOSE PEOPLE IN THESE LAST DAYS YALL STAY IN PRAYER 🙏🏾 THIS IS NOT A JOKE WE ARE IN A SPIRITUAL WARFARE
My typing is not the greatest tonight! Meant to say I think th female narcs are worse than the mal narcs. Awful!! Amen sister. Got that right big time.
Oh my God, you can say that again.
Hey Sis, I been bragging on you to ppl who are or have in a narcissistic situationship. That Silver Back with rubber boots on never let me forget how he ENVYED me, but why was always my question to that Ape. I can’t stand his kind of SPECIES !!
True true true and I got away from that jealous narcissist.
That's alright. She maybe pulling the Narc's strings for now, BUT that is NOT going to LAST. 💯 Believe that or not‼️
Family Mrs Telsha 👑❤️ u telling the truth about these silver backs I'm cutting family off and I'm all about my healing journey 💞💞 thank you queen 👑👑
I agree, cutting it off knowing narcissism is at the root of the generational sins of my family. My mother as treated me with contempt for as long as I know and still believes that I'm supposed to take care of her when she needs me. Calls me for money but can't call anyone else in the family.
I thank Yahweh for the anointing on your life 🙌🏼. You are reveling the truth of the life, Souls and Energy of these Diabolical beings.ln the last decade I've experienced just how much evil the Narccist is rooted and grounded in PURE HATERED, my goodness, I never realized how deep their envy is, jealousy is cruler than the grave, Telsha I experienced my Narccistic ex-husbands jealousy towards his own 2 Children when they were just infants, he became angry anytime that he felt that I was showing them too much affection, UNBELIEVABLE ‼️.
They’ve been away thankfully, 10 months no contact, blocked on everything. They genuinely enjoy torturing people and hate religion
I REALLY LOVE this VIDEO!! Thank you. YES these PARASITES feed off of JEALOUSY and ENVY and HATERD,that is ALL they KNOW!!! GOD GAVE US EACH A VOICE AS WELL as a CONSCIENCE and I hope, we all will use it!!!!
AND IT IS SOO!! You preaching TRUTH up in here. My EX admitted the jealousy of me & our kids after our divorce. 🤦🏽♀️
Jealousy is dangerous. Keep doing what you do Sis!!🥰
Exactly , yeap, fact's I thought I was going crazy dealing with this NARC
Aye pass gas, it’s really THAT deep 🥴, he tried to make me change my hairstylist , boooiiii . listennn, I should’ve known it was a flag when he asked me why my 4 yo daughter ,why she so happy all the … she just .. happy.. I was thrown tf off , I though it was coming from a curious place on gods love type thing but nah … it yes IT wanted to take her light. They not hunannnnnn I’ll die b4 that happens. That man tried to trap me and 4 yrs y’all not a slip up. I will never disrespect AHYAH again! 🙏🏾💜 it’s not TMH plan. Periodt
Amen what you’re saying is all facts 💯 my daughters mother hated when they referred 2 my daughter as a daddies girl. She hates our relationship, when I left the relationship she tried everything under the sun to damage our bond. I heard horror stories of children being turned against the father. She even succeeded at one point, I prayed 2 God to protect her mind. And he answered my prayers no matter what she does to separate us our bond is still going strong. I intend to keep it that way.🙏🏾 God is good ✝️
You described my mum 100%. The worst thing my mums in her late 60s and acts innocent. People think I'm the bad one, but don't know what's happening behind close doors . Thank god I left she put me through hell.
The unadulterated Truth! Powerful Message Queen!✊🏾
It's unbelievable how sick these types are
Yessss. They do it . Why can't they get their own . Thank you for speaking truth 🙏
Do not be deceived, God is mocked : For whatever a man sows , that he will reap for he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap Corruption but he who sows to the spirit will of the spirit reap everlasting life ....Galations 6:7-8
My neighbor who I used to call “aunty” is a narcissist. I bought my dream car last summer and she inquired about it, then tried to “warn” me because it’s a 2001 Audi with over 200k miles. I’ve wanted this car since I was 17, and I got it in the exact specification, color, everything I’ve dreamt of in this dream car.
As soon as I said this is my dream car all hell broke loose a few hours later and didn’t know I was in the devaluation stage, not even knowing what a narcissist truly is. She even got racial with me and she’s from another country. She came 2 weeks later in a Hoover attempt trying to give me a bag of coffee beans and I refused them. I don’t need her and ever since I found your channel I’ve healed so much! ❤
Because I had a good relationship with my son, she begin to isolate me from him. And had the audacity to tell me that unless I talk to her I won't have access to my son. But I really don't need to talk to her
One day was FaceTime with narc after 2nd discard and I was smiling cause I felt soooo good and narc hung up on me then called back. Lol tcot 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...NOT TO BE MEAN SPIRIT BUT WE FREE YES RUB IN IT SMILE DANCE PLAY PARTY MUSIC IN BACKGROUND "LIKE IM FEELING MYSELF FEELING MYSELF" LORD SAYS LOVE YOURSELVES AS WE PUT HIM ABBA FIRST.... FREEDOM FEELS GOOD💯🙌🎊
You’re right I was when I was with that thing before I met him he was I was so bubbly and happy and cheerful don’t have nothing to worry about just going along in a peaceful way and having him around what’s the worst thing ever in my life after three for five years in the in the in the relationship he said to me I don’t really like you and I don’t like the way you talk and hit F he had said that from the beginning I would never been with this person he was and the S and jealous that’s why he stealing and and did a lot of things in my household and treat me and very verbal very verbal abusive
Whew. You make me want to throw my phone. Can drain you like it's nothing.
Lol 😂 you are the truth
At this point I have given up with having a relationship with one of my older sisters. I decided to go no contact and move on with my life! I’m very confident and can’t be controlled etc. people have told me they sense she is jealousy of me. The way she has treated me over the years in little slick ways. I feel that it’s very much true. Her actions towards me since we been grown has even gotten worse. We don’t have no connection or bond. It’s so sad! But I have left it in Gods hands. You’re definitely speaking facts!
Hey girl hey. Please pray Tell, the stalking has intensified once again. I'm sick of it! 😔
I done lost it when you said she took his family jewels, 🤣😂. Comedy roast early you a trip but on the subject lol when you pass gas. Sis you a trip got me crying laughing over here I can’t lol 😂
😁🤣🤣😂😩
My father has always been competitive of me, i never got it for decades- and always worked to impress him. But he 92 now and never ever will he say anything nice. He has turned my brother n sister into narcs and monkeys. The hatred is palpable. I got get out here or these and my NEX are going to kill me off- seriously 😳. So tormented here in the swamp. Florida it is where empaths come to drown n die.
I got so tired of him bashing me when i was in medical school that i told him NOT to come to my graduation. He did not , no one in my family came- thanks for at least scratching the surface of the torment. I probably would be beyond believable in my service my love and my healing capacity if i had not been emotionally battered by both my parents n the family. . BUT’ Im gonna finish this so watch this spot! I love you all!
And the men!! My ex used to get jealous when I would nurse our child
Isnt it deep "seated"?
But unreal, those birds.
Good stuff as always Queen Telsha! 🌺💕Jezebel is not the only spirit that you have to contend with these days. You also have Delilah, a non-binary spirit that mimics Jezebel; however, they seek to know what your personal strength is for their own person use. They also operate under covetedness, jealousy and envy while seeking to exploit you because just like Jezebel, they want what you have. We have to be vigilant and connected w/the Father and be very discerning in the spirit. Y’all continue to watch and pray 🙏🏾
Exactly to the tee.
That's her problem
and none of mine.
Gurrl 👋.
I's owe non of them
heifers nothing. Work
with what God gave you.
Realize what you have
is enough to being yourself.
Celebrate you!
❤😀💯💪🎉💎✨🔥💃🎶
My ex narc gave me the silent treatment for two hours because my supervisor told her that she had an intelligent hard working man. Thank you so much for the knowledge!
We love you too
I missed you..I stopped seeing my narc in July but he emails sporadically to say he misses me n I still need to hear you bcuz of fleeting thoughts of could be really miss me but I know better..thank you!
Right I didn’t know what it was what was going on because it is something new to me because I never was in that kind of environment where he came in like he was so humble and I’m
Thank you so much I never thought of jealousy but now you opened my eyes. Smh that's why he did everything to make me 😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢
Man here. Straight truth talk Miss T
Wait a minute Mama T msr T you're ganna make me cry.... my ex narc when I had to use the bath room and take a # 2 I had to leave the door wide open were she can watch me take a # 2 because she's acting crazy claiming iam texting women what type of privacy and peace of mind is that were you can't even take a shit in peace....she was worst than a warden....maaan I swear some body put witch craft on me dealing with my ex narc.
When I had my run in with the worst narc of all, there was no one I could talk to, seek help from. People were not as forthcoming with sharing their experiences. Or maybe no one knew the extent of the madness. Everyone here is truly Blessed to have access to the The Tea on NPD and Relationships channel. The insights and the community support are truly phenomenal:--).
PS: I pray Our Heavenly Father continue to protect Telsha from The Enemy. Because You just KNOW The Enemy is not happy with the Truth and Light she is sharing.
I hope all is going well for you, Tesha🙏
I am on a healing journey and discovering that my experiences as a child were from family members that were narcissistic. I never understood why I didn’t receive support or praise from the both of them when I did well in school, but when I did poorly the physical, emotional and verbal abuse was incredible. There was always the inner conflict I had because when I became an adult and moved out I started hearing I was beautiful randomly and more often, then I pursued modeling and acting and heard it more and that I was really talented, but I always was conflicted that people were just being kind and the men were be deceptive. At home I was always reminded I was nothing to be jealous of and I wasn’t initiating a conversation about jealousy it was a something randomly brought up by them. One of them was extremely beautiful and I was fiercely loyal to her. I have come to terms with it by moving away from them. That was when they were exposed, but I have spent my life attracting and being drawn to narcissistic females and makes in friendships and romantic relationships. I only found this out this year that we seek out people in our adult lives just like the people that raised us. I’m so glad I got to know Jesus in it all.
Just a thought, but sometimes I feel like I’m journaling on channels and it is at the risk of exposing my abusers and more than exposing anyone I want to be heard, understood, relatable and ultimately healed. While I understand that is probably impossible to achieve all of that at least I learned that other people have experienced similar. Ty
Thank you for all your information pretty lady! Awhile back, you said you were going to pray for me with som narcs at work and negativity. I am now working at home part time. I am a people person, but my peace is very important. Thank you so much for your prayers and sorry it has taken awhile to properly acknowledge you. Yes, those female narcs are treacherous! Worse than the me I think. I will be back again on Thursday nights. Really enjoy it when there! Thanks for helping me and so many others!
Glory be to God♥♥♥ Hey Family Thank God !!!Keep Shining Sis
Jealousy is rottenness to the bone🤷 who like that 🤦 hate the hater's 🥴
I had my ex husband with the same thing, we had 2 girls & from that point on, he couldn’t handle my attention & care for my children. It was sooo crazy, they are in their 40’s now & he has to have one to punish!! It’s so sick!!
Sis you ain't never lied on this right here!!!
So right
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