Some of this seems to be to annoy us and the other parts seem to be pure ignorance. They don’t seem to think. And get mad at you for thinking. They don’t want anyone suggesting or offering information for they think they know everything. And then blame you when they mess something up. After you had tried to warn them. Then they expect you to clean up the mess that they created. Omg. Thank you for reminding me of that shit. Neva eva again!!! ✌🏽
@A Robinson - Thanks for your comment, it really got me thinking. 💕 Narcissists don't think in healthy ways as they're stuck in a primal predatory "hunt" mode trying to weaken us to fall into a semi hypnotised "prey" mode state till we feel numb and paralyzed to inaction much like deer in headlights. Both predator and prey mode are lower vibe unhealthy emotional states that create PTSD that over-rides rational thought. The predator blocks everything else out obsessed with their plots and schemes to secure their prey (supply and services) by using subtle or overt threats and coercive power plays to instil fear into their prey which can be as insidious as drinking constant drops of poison so they can white-ant to undermine and destroy our foundational purpose, plans and dreams. You could try this out on a narc (only for advanced narcslayers) by saying in an emotionally reactive manner "Oh no!! Blah, blah, blah!!!" (yes, really say blah, blah, blah) and you'll see they'll answer you without even noticing at first as all they're tuning into is controling our emotions not our actual words. If they ever focus on words it's just to get info re our emotional weak spots to twist, flip and use against us later. It's a test as they'll hate you for it later and be wise to you knowing their game if they do notice at all. Empaths listen deeply to others and allow time think through things but when constantly triggered to emotionally react an empath tunes out everything but the narc threat so the empath's thinking becomes dysfunctional as well around narcissists. You can also tell them something personally meaningful to you such as your favorite colour, animal, family, friends, clothes, interests, qualities they've admired in you or whatever and just watch how they say nothing yet later devalue it or spitefully give what was yours to their new supply as meaningful somehow to destroy your memories and steal your joy so lay a few tester traps initially as it's painful when they and their cronies mess with our emotions and alot easier to spot from a distance seeing higher perspective. Healthy thinking is restored from a place of emotional stability, peace and self controlled sovereignty we achieve by going no contact and higher minded and by repeatedly responding using critical thinking tactfully in all interactions with narcissists as detached, discerning observer being careful not to absorb, react or attach to their toxicity. Basically when emotions are triggered logical thinking is reduced and I've also noticed narcissists lack any imagination and bait us to constantly entertain them as they bored easily and it's why they're so fast, impulsive, replace ppl and things quickly, need to copy and mirror everyone and take on so many different roles to suit their purpose of the moment. Thanks for the inspiration sis, it gave me food for thought, God bless. Tea's the very best, she really went deep on this one! xox 💐🙏👁️💪💕
@@PaperclipProphets I'm sorry you experienced that Angela and you've described this dynamic perfectly! They intentionally create uncomfortable and dramatic situations to get you busy focussing your thoughts and feelings on them, rather than on you and what you're saying, and go to such great lengths to do so, it's ridiculous! But, when you see that their motive is to confuse, cause self doubt, get attention, manipulate to control the situation, blame another, waste our time and energy, create upset, distress, stress and chaos, etc., you come to expect it as a given and that's how they relentlessly wear us down and drain us, causing us to feel resentment, fear, anger, disappointment and frustration so we eventally explode and that's what their after, our emotional reaction. Like Telsha said, they find so very many ways to create drama that you soon see this pattern at play and can refuse to play as our bodies keep score. Narcs can't do genuine intimacy or reciprocity, don't use effective interpersonal communication, can't love and won't apologise, give closure or resolve conflicts properly so yeah, there's very little rational thinking going on there and a helluva lot of pot stirring dysfunction. Observe don't absorb, respond don't react till you can quietly get out and stay out! I hope you don't have to live with your covert 🐦?!! God bless Angela, our peace is precious, our health our wealth and Telsha our saving grace xox 🙏☕😇⌚💕✨✨✨
Yes. And when a toxic person can no longer control you they will try to control how others see you. It's mind boggling the schemes and manipulation involved. Who does all this nonsense. Way too much work and planning for me.
So true and he brag on himself and his weird kids. One a drunk everyday like him, only girl never had a Man and constant complainer like him. And she 43. Other Son hen pecked probably cause of his fussy azz.
They blame EBE everybody else and said they did no wrong to their Women. He cheated on both Wives actually had girlfriends. But can't say sorry say I did nothing to you when clearly did but demand apologies if he feel you did anything. That anything is nothing against him but just doing what you like doing. I did overpost pics made him so jealous. But he posts up to 65 posts on some days and no less than 5. He didn't post a lot of his old looking ugly pictures as much though. His Profile has about 25 businesses although they just small stuff he make nothing with. His info a mile long which if smart see he a nut. Lol I can't believe I even gave him 10 mins of time
@@ednamason8336almost sound like my ex. He admitted to neglecting his ex and I’m suspecting messing around with other women because of the stories he told me. He went and told everybody she cheated on him when he neglected her. Not one time he took responsibility😮💨
God said that He'll give us A WAY of escape. When he discarded me, I bent down, tightened my right shoe lace and took AWF🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️ NO CONTACT🥰NO LOOKIN BACK! GLORAAAAYYYYY!
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships hey Tea, instead of calling them Chinese Cresteds let's call these clowns Sharpeis with a backwards wig on, just all the way stupid. These poor dogs gonna be mad at us comparing them to these low level demons🤣 Sharpeis got that ol wrinkled up face just like the narcissist, oooh they big mad!!
Everything she is saying is the truth. They’ll do the smallest and silliest things to annoy you. They’ll break your things, intentionally ruin vacations, and just find different ways to make your life pure misery. It took me years to finally realize and accept what I had experienced. PLEASE LEAVE THESE PEOPLE ALONE!! There’s no saving or helping them.
I dealt with the trying to ruin vacations. He was pretending to be lost, sneaking off talking to the old/new supply. Had me worried about him… He became Mean and argumentative, I never went back and forth I simply left the room. He’s still waiting on me to call him back. 😂🎉😅
He tampered with my window screens just to mess with me, scare me, terrorize me. Making me think someone was trying to break in. Who thinks like that? Who does things like that? The narcissist.. 😳
My ex threw a fit in front of 100's of people at an attraction while we were on vacation. Screamed and cursed...he was upset over money. Then took off on me and my 2 girls for hours. Then showed back up hours later at our hotel...when me and the girls pulled in after going out for dinner...he took off again. Stayed gone till it was time to leave..a day later. Then come back begging and crying saying he wanted counseling for unstable moods. Talked me into going back to same vacation area...about a month later to make up for 1st vacation....even worse! Run...please...it's not you...it's them!!!
So.true...I've seen many family members die with broken spirits..thank God for his grace..it won't be my portion..trying to help my children now..I've told them what God showed me..this is generational in my family..I belong to God..
They will break your things and all the other things that you named anything that brings you Joy comfort what can make life a little easier for you must go so sad
I've been going through these exact things for 13yrs. I actually ended up in a psych ward because I thought I was going crazy. I'm getting prepared to leave this relationship.
My ex- husband purposely used to cook a simple dish for our children and used every pot in the cupboard and not clean up; then I'd come from work to a disaster in the kitchen! ! Now, I finally realize in his sick mind , he was doing this on purpose to aggravate me! ! And he acted like he didn't know better ; acting like a stupid! ! But, at same time he told my mother that I didn't know how to clean the house! What a crazy person he really was and I'd always defend him ! I was under his control for too long because I didn't realize it and was always taking care of our children! Should of gotten away earlier but am free today ❣️ my children don't even talk to him because of how he treated them but they talk with me all the time and know I'm always there for them ❣️ My children and grandchildren are the best I got out of all I suffered and are worth everything in the world to me❣️😊💯
Its been a year and two months no contact. The tables have turned. He s now calling me from app number's in the middle of the night. Gang stalking. I always turn off my phone and sleep peacefully. I ignore. I consider this a A BIG WIN For me as ... I dont care !!!!! With the help of y0u over the course of the journey I have healed. He doesnt effect me at all ! Thank you for your help! Also the universe is rewarding me in huge ways! Thank y0u universe ❤❤❤
Whew!! All true! My ex-husband threw away two bags full of my clothes a month after we got married. He quit a wonderful job and worked part time for 7 years of our marriage. We struggled and he loved it. 🤦🏾♀️Every vacation he had an issue.🤦🏾♀️ I finally left at the 12 year mark. I knew that it would not get better.
The narcissist's that I've dealt with really don't like to work they will willingly be dependent on the person that is giving and giving, the only time I've witnessed a narcissist to work is when they are forced to work of be in jail. Fool's paradise we make it to easy for them 💯
I've had my clothes purposely destroyed via ‘laundry done wrong’, things that I love have been hidden, moved, or went missing, toilet seat left up on purpose when he's mad or leaving an empty roll on the tissue holder, bed made up oddly just for a response, eats up my healthy snacks then blames the kids, and soooo much more. Anything that I find joy in he nitpicks or tries to destroy it.
Ex narc cheated with downstairs neighbors moved in with her. Now he has access to me. Apartment he has been in. Stuff missing. MOVING JULY. NO CONTAXT 21/2 years. Never spoken a word!!
Sis you are telling the truth. I have experienced hiding the remote. So when found it I started hiding it when I wanted to watch tv. I am 12mo free thank you Lord. Dont stay they want to destroy you. This is demon from the pit.
A day before our couples trip to Arizona . My ex flaked out at the last minute because I didn’t provide him proof that I was with my girlfriend the night before. I ended up going on the couples trip alone. While he booked a trip with his boys, posted videos of him on social media with other women, strippers. Announcing that he love his life without any regards to my feelings. After I came back from the trip I have not spoken to the narc or reached out . And it’s been about a month now. I’m sure my ex was really shocked behind that because once he seen me about a week ago at the skating rink having fun and enjoying life. The next day his best friend wife texted me ask me how I was doing? Remind You I haven’t spoke to her in over month and we were not close. I refused to mention anything to her about my ex. I just told her I was doing ok and my primary focus was getting closer to God . As I look back I can’t believe I was entertaining a covert narcissist !! I loved who I thought he was and I really believe he was my friend to the end. Despite not having a good romantic relationship. I never thought he didn’t want to see me happy. I feel so ashamed that I got involved with another narcissist. I just didn’t see this one coming. 😪
Your videos pulled me out of a dark place. Once I began to understand just what i dealt with the depression I felt after discard started to lift. I really love the fact that it's GODLY COUNCIL! Please don't stop 💜
Yes I went from 4 different anxiety pills because my soul was so rattled by his abuse and evilness my doctors struggled with healing me. But God connected me here & now I'm free of All meds. Thank you, keep blessing your people.🤛🏾💯🙏🏽🥰🤜🏾
This is nothing but truth.. my medication came up missing I looked high and low for it for days .. then I looked up 2 weeks later it was right back where it was supposed to be..that childish 🤡 tried to make me out to be crazy
They are sick af.... My Narcissists hide his money on purpose. Then pretend its missing & try to act like I stole his money. Just to start a fight & give him a reason to beat me. Then after the abuse he would find it. Sick sick sick. I'm so glad I am free from him. 2 yrs Narc free. Knowledge is Power.
Better yet they take you things and give it to someone else. They also put you in a 3party and say you made them did it because you didn’t play any Attention to them
When I kicked him outta my house, he took the bank card! There was no money in the account anyways so he didn’t benefit from that and I didn’t allow the narcissist to come back! He punched in my mailbox!
During my spiritual warfare battle in 2017, around 6 a,m. I was writing at my desk facing outside and literally a young man jumped from roof of my 14 story L.A. apartment building just past my window onto cement sidewalk below. His body was under white sheet when I ventured to store an hour later. (A guy working the front desk heard the body crash to ground - I did not see anything) The victim’s romantic partner was later seen walking around our lobby basking in all the attention and in full smiles and glee while the family made funeral arrangements for their son! I dug around deeper and discovered this surviving partner had all the hallmarks of- you guessed it - a NARCISSIST! ( In 2013 I had considered jumping from same rooftop spot due to narcissist abuse from ex girlfriend! ) So I saw the situation with the young man with wisdom and clarity. However NO ONE saw the spiritual warfare aspect except me. There are very few people brave enough to even bother with such things.
God wanted you to share that story. Thank you so much. Keep telling that story that will open the eyes of other victims dealing with this disorder and hopefully get help!🎯🎯🙏🙏👍👍👍
Ladies sense I left my situation with the 😈 every picture I came across I notice horns seemingly to appear in these photos. I said God thank you for showing me what i needed to see!
Before I became a nurse I would clean for people...one lady I worked for told me that her husband was trying to drive her crazy...she took me into her closet and showed me where her new clothing had cigarette holes burned in them and her new shoes had been filed down on the heels to make her stumble...it was very uncomfortable to see and hear what was going on...I counseled her to contact the authorities...then I went on...I hope things turned out ok
Yeah they’re real petty. Purposely use up all your shampoo and hair grease when their hair is cut short. Clog up the toilet with tissue and💩🚽and leave it. I’m getting mad just rethinking about it. 😡🤦🏾♀️😂
He took away my vaccum cleaner knowing I use it everyday, returned it 3 days later... can’t find my wedding ring anywhere... He stole my towels to bring them over at the new supply’s. 🙄
My Narc got mad over all sorts of ridiculous things He stealthy broke dishes, threw eating utensils in the trash, put My car window down just before the rain, deflate my car tires, hide my electronics tools and do many other stupid evil deeds. When questioned about things he claimed and feigned innocence. I, the responsible progressive Ms. Fix-it, would always repair replace and handle it all. Absolutely, Telsha, they are DESIGNED to make you suffer as they INTERNALLY ETERNALLY do. 🔊Jealous of your joy, perturbed by your peace and resentful of your resilience🔊
Thank you Lord for using our sister in Christ!!! My child’s father/narc is plotting against me in court to sue me and to take my child away. I serve a God in which I know I already have the victory.
I sincerely pray that God protects you and your child during this time. Do not be afraid...walk into that courtroom with COURAGE and let GOD REPRESENT YOU, for YOU ARE HIS CHILD. I pray for His PEACE and ENCOURAGEMENT to fill and surround you with every step/decision you make. ❤️🤗❤️💯You got this because GOD's got YOU!
When I met the narc he had nothing I inherited my home from my mother I was married to this thing for 20 years he would pull boards off my home he would drill holes in my ceiling and steal my cloths things would start disappearing. I didn’t know what a narc was I never new such evil creatures existed. He died 2 years ago and I’m not a shamed that he is dead. That lying cheating thing has cost me so much money that I will never get everything paid for.
In my humble opinion Family, sister Telsha is the G.OA.T. at exposing the dynamics of a narcissist. There's no one better Family. So much love to you sis. APTTMH!! 👏
Everything you said is so true. I was in a horrific nightmare for 5yrs. Finally got him out of my life about 7 mos ago. It was a blessing! Unfortunately ran into that demon again and the madness continued. Now I’m dealing with a female narc at work… Lord help me! Thank you for your content, much appreciated!
I remember getting a nice room at a hotel in the mountains. We went out to get Mexican and she was sick the whole time. I still enjoyed myself. The minute we get back in the car she was in a good mood 😂. When she messed with my tooth brush, I was about done at that point. Grab my things and left immediately. I think it was a set up to make me look crazy. She was on the phone with her sister and she denied she even touched it. She said "Look at what your accusing me of". As I am leaving she calls her mom and plays victim SMDH.
A family member had me waiting on her on a Friday for a weekend staycation NO CALL NO SHOW, never answered the phone when I called. Then Saturday I get a call at 2:30. I didn't even answer. But they will expect you to call them and have a nerve to wait for an apology knowing good and dang on well they stood me up... WOWWWW
This is true, when I was forced to discard the narc, I was so attached to his granddaughter, broke my no contact to ask how she was doing and of course he didn't respond. But 3 months before he left an entire rant on how I never checked on his granddaughter. Such an idiot.
You would really think we were the one's that lied, cheated,manipulated them with the amount of anger they have towards us. But yet this demon call my kids every week, pretending to be the concerned stepdad. Since they are young adults I ask them to keep all conversation to a minimum.
I GOT YOU. LIKE 👍 FOR ME. You are telling the truth. The narc I was in an addictionship with.. burn my clothes and damage my furniture and wrecked my car and told me that it was God Way of stripping me down to nothing because I was on a high horse. I told that bird you and the devil is a lie. You are just here to rob me of peace and God is still my friend regardless of what I go thru..and you will see this turn out for my good. Trust n believe me babe..it has! Glory to the Most High...
The witchcraft side of it, it's just been so sick. Like these spells and stuff they trying to do is just disgusting and sick. I can't even explain because people just wouldn't understand, but it's just crazy as hell. And I know I've be tampered with, with black magic. Without the holy spirit I would not be alive.
Yes, anything thats not going right! THEY DID IT! You can do everything for them, and on top of that they will want you to fix all the other drama that is outside the relationship that they created, they think you can fix that also, it's never enough. Run Forest Run!!!
So true! my ex narc did put the only shower in our home out of commission for 6 weeks! He was resurfacing the tube and he said that it needed to set before water hits on it. When I finally told him; too dang bad, I am taking a shower right now. He had nothing to say; he was shocked and behold the shower was fine. He did all this to inconvenience my son and also me as a bonus. I was married for 11 years and together for total of 15yrs. I am No contact or GreyRock now for 7 years. The crazy making; demonic attacks were horrible; this almost took my physical life and did cause illness and severe psychological damage. I could go on and on.... Get out if you can and keep your plans super secret. Peace
That's some black magic stuff. TH-cam it, sis cause they use urine and feces too. As well as blood too, I know it sounds crazy. However I heard a female talk about putting blood in her man's dinner. I was like omg! So yeah, research that, please and let people know that you can trust too.
I have enough gratitude and courage to admit that I battle anxiety and an addictive personality. Today, I strive to maintain balance mind, body and soul. My mental health is very important to me, so I have no shame seeing a psychiatrist, therapist, and attending substance abuse group therapy. I also attend sessions for domestic violence awareness. Even with all of that, I still struggle with cutting off the narc ex. It's like I'm afraid when I'm not with him bc I know he's out there watching me. Right now I've gone no contact, so I need courage to be alone and still know that I am safe. I pray for everyone who finds themselves spiritually tied to an energy vampire. I pray that we all find the courage and strength to stand against the wiles of such dark people. Prayer and meditation on The Word give me much comfort during the times when I ask how could I still love someone who has been so cruel to me? I pray for the courage to love MYSELF enough to walk away and keep on walking. I pray for that same courage to emerge in your hearts as well. Thank you Telsha for reminding me of what I walked away from. Much LOVE and PEACE to you... and everyone as well✨❤️✨
I had one tell me stories from way back in the day and add me to it and say " don't you remember "? When I said to him those things didn't happen "I think you have me confused with someone else " . He gave me the meanest glare I've ever seen. I'm assuming he creates these fantastical lies in his head and just add different people to them.
Wow. Mine poured water in my lawnmower ..then pretend to fix.cut my fridge cord then knew how to fix unscrewed my sinks plumbing took clothes and perfume and hid in garage. Hide dumb stuff the remotes. Took my cell phone threw in field up street lucky some volunteers were cleAning the field. On and on. Your talking the truth lol
My ex would use my kids’ bathroom and leave the toilet seat up to get back at my daughter. I asked him to put up my desk for me to work from home. He refused to do it because working from home “must be nice”.
I'm totally over the narcissist and loving myself . I'm never looking back thanks to these videos thankful to my lord 🙏 Jesus Christ I'm much happier nowadays
Ex Narc was always secretly jealous that I had a poem published in a book years ago when we were separated. When I discarded him I looked for the book I was published in and it had “poof!” Disappeared.
After I filled for divorce and prior to moving out this clown took the power cord to my printer , When I asked her if she knew what happened to the power cord, she stated that it was in a box in the garage, at the time before my awakening to the true nature of these imposters, I thought to myself at the time who does that. Now I know
Yes! Shark tooth denies that he took my toothpaste and toothbrush! He lied of course saying i bought it for him so he took it. My favorite color is purple...why would I buy you a purple toothbrush?? I later caught on the narc wanted me to like what he liked so he could just snatch it up when i wasn't looking. Causing confusion and gaslighting myself. Just terrible...but now all that is in the past and living better dayz ☀️👑🥳
I love watching your videos …. You always make me laugh instead of crying … your a blessing please keep doing them it’s so rare to have a laugh instead of a cry . So happy to b free from that bird lol and the monkeys lol
My sweet daughter is dealing with an evil and demon filled narcissistic female. This narcissist does way too much in an effort to hurt my daughter, For way to long she’s been so petty towards my daughter, Everything you said is true. No we cannot relate to them. This evil female lies snd manipulated the family to believe her lies. I have to pray to the Most High and ask for coverage by the Holy spirit.
My goodness! I experienced majority (almost all) of what you are saying in this video! You summed up the "almost 19 years" of what I experienced with this sorry excuse of a man.
My Narc ex took my gold hoops off my nightstand…. I looked and spoke of those hoops for 6 months. Finally he said he found them…. It was all fake he knew he took them. They are sick demonic people!!!! He would say I agreed to things I never agreed too, gaslighting at its best. I’m healing now… keep the vids coming they are so helpful 🙏🙏💪🏼💪🏼
Took all the screws out of my sliding glass door. Keyed the top of my good tables. Put laundry detergent in my cream of wheat. Deliberately starts fights on vacation with the "woe is me crap". Cut a tire on my trailer when I was moving something to another state. To clippers and put small snips into my shirts shorts underwear and bras, slash the roof of my truck, warped both of my screen doors so they wouldn't lock, I don't know what was put in my shampoo but my head itch for days.... It was endless..
I’ve shared this before but I was trimming the hedges and I put the clippers inside the garage right by the door. (He saw me ). I said I’ll need to finish tomorrow (he heard me). The next day, I went to get the clippers not finding them by the door. I asked him when he came home and he said he didn’t know. So the next day, I went on the hunt in the garage for those clippers!!! I found them stacked with other tools behind a bookshelf! I mentioned it, calmly and he said wow that’s weird. Freak show demon.
God knows the truth this is all that matters to me , my soul belongs to him! No weapons formed against us shall prosper ! None thank you sis you are boss !!
My X narc has a room closet full of my makeup and cloths say he did not have it when I seen it there and my counselor says that they do that to keep an attachment to you! and As you say special kind of crazy! Yes I said it
My husband broke vinyl siding, ceiling in places in basement, Windows on garage, interior doors, etc over several years time when I was gone at work. Because he wanted me home, but he wasn't hardly providing our needs let alone his own. There is probably at least $10,000 damage almost making our house a reckless investment. I took almost 40 pics and emailed them to my divorce lawyer.
After announcing that I was bringing all of his clothes and his kids clothes and items from my home and I would be coming to pick up all my things from his condo (I didn't know what he was😂). Everything went smoothly. A month later, he told me that I left some clothes. I said what. He said, you left some clothes in the closet. I said, what I left. He described somethings and a Pac-Man shirt that I'd asked him about. He'd swore that he hadn't seen it. I said;THROWEM AWAY😊 He said huh? I said, THROWEM AWAY ✌✌✌✌✌
He is ignoring all the motions for our divorce. We now have a hearing on April 27th just for him to comply with disclosing his financials. I am doing everything I can to move forward. I’m tired of having to deal with trying to get divorced from him. I’m feeling so fatigued. I was doing good but today I am feeling the exhaustion really bad. I actually thought a lot unblocking him and asking him to please comply. But I didn’t because I know he will only take that opportunity to attack me. I’m so thankful I don’t have children with him but I do have a child I care for. It is okay for him to move on,. He keeps trying to block me from my blessings but he can’t! I just want my divorce!!!!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Hallelujah! Guys please get out safely. Make a plan. If your a parent get out safely with you’re children. Document. Document. Document! They would do this against you. Don’t loose your mind or, your children. Don’t think with your heart. File a police report get a restraining order. No one else is going to save you. Only you and you need that space to heal. I’m praying for all of you. In Jesus name Amen!!
Mine had a different trick. They would find some out of the way "attraction" to visit and then intentionally go the longest way possible to get there and get "lost" along the way....
Wow- this is so enlightening, especially the vacation part. Now I understand all the injuries and illnesses that popped up the first day of every vacation because travel is one of my favorite things
It’s sad watching your videos cause the narcissist in my life is my mother. These videos we get hung up on the narcissist being a romantic partner but what do you when listening to the narcissist being called demonic and evil and it can be the very woman that brung you into this world and suppose to love you unconditionally and protect from the very monster she is.i wish you would do more videos on narcissistic family especially parents
You're not alone. I hope you have some distance between you. I grieved my whole life for the mother I could have had. I understand what you've dealt with and I'm sure lots of others do too. Telsha has some videos about narcissistic mothers and the family dynamics that we've experienced. One of the most painful things about this type of experience is that we feel a shame from an early age that we were unloveable, even our mothers didn't love us. It opens a door to more abuse. Every relationship I had as an adult was a version of my mother. I am hoping that as we heal we can cultivate healthier relationships with others. God bless you
@@proinseasnihanluain4735last year was a year of letting go and I had to let go entire family and friends. I didn’t even know about narcissism til I was in a relationship with one last year then I’m suddenly surrounded by them. I’m on a new path now and yes it’s sad but finally at 40 years old I was able to start the healing process
Preach Sister everything you say is1,000 percent right there pityness is at a all time lie.They would throw out your stuff,move your stuff some place else,break stuff leave the faucet on I remember one time I was making bake ziti and he knocked the whole pan on the floor and said the broom knocked it over there are very evil sick and psychotic I got out and I will never ever look back in my life.
I started being like this back to a person and leaving mouse traps around to mess with them. “I’m just trying to get rid of rodent so”. Got away from that situation
Oh honey you are now my personal therapist. He has put cuts in my clothes with scissors. Or the ripped down my entire closet rack and then said it fell. Like I could t hear him banging in it cuz he didn’t get his way. You telling the truth. I was with this man for 7 years. Yup he took $200 in the middle of the night and denied it til this day. And Walmart had him in camera and still denied it. He opened my sons mail and too his new credit card and activated and used it then when the bill came in he got caught . Oh my gosh you a taking true facts.
The narc broke my fav headphones looked at me dead in the eye and lied, "l was listening to them and sleep took over me" and he was willing to pay for them but l could see the excitement he got when he was telling me he broke them. 🤔😭💔
Some of this seems to be to annoy us and the other parts seem to be pure ignorance. They don’t seem to think. And get mad at you for thinking. They don’t want anyone suggesting or offering information for they think they know everything. And then blame you when they mess something up. After you had tried to warn them. Then they expect you to clean up the mess that they created. Omg. Thank you for reminding me of that shit. Neva eva again!!! ✌🏽
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@A Robinson - Thanks for your comment, it really got me thinking. 💕 Narcissists don't think in healthy ways as they're stuck in a primal predatory "hunt" mode trying to weaken us to fall into a semi hypnotised "prey" mode state till we feel numb and paralyzed to inaction much like deer in headlights. Both predator and prey mode are lower vibe unhealthy emotional states that create PTSD that over-rides rational thought. The predator blocks everything else out obsessed with their plots and schemes to secure their prey (supply and services) by using subtle or overt threats and coercive power plays to instil fear into their prey which can be as insidious as drinking constant drops of poison so they can white-ant to undermine and destroy our foundational purpose, plans and dreams. You could try this out on a narc (only for advanced narcslayers) by saying in an emotionally reactive manner "Oh no!! Blah, blah, blah!!!" (yes, really say blah, blah, blah) and you'll see they'll answer you without even noticing at first as all they're tuning into is controling our emotions not our actual words. If they ever focus on words it's just to get info re our emotional weak spots to twist, flip and use against us later. It's a test as they'll hate you for it later and be wise to you knowing their game if they do notice at all. Empaths listen deeply to others and allow time think through things but when constantly triggered to emotionally react an empath tunes out everything but the narc threat so the empath's thinking becomes dysfunctional as well around narcissists. You can also tell them something personally meaningful to you such as your favorite colour, animal, family, friends, clothes, interests, qualities they've admired in you or whatever and just watch how they say nothing yet later devalue it or spitefully give what was yours to their new supply as meaningful somehow to destroy your memories and steal your joy so lay a few tester traps initially as it's painful when they and their cronies mess with our emotions and alot easier to spot from a distance seeing higher perspective. Healthy thinking is restored from a place of emotional stability, peace and self controlled sovereignty we achieve by going no contact and higher minded and by repeatedly responding using critical thinking tactfully in all interactions with narcissists as detached, discerning observer being careful not to absorb, react or attach to their toxicity. Basically when emotions are triggered logical thinking is reduced and I've also noticed narcissists lack any imagination and bait us to constantly entertain them as they bored easily and it's why they're so fast, impulsive, replace ppl and things quickly, need to copy and mirror everyone and take on so many different roles to suit their purpose of the moment. Thanks for the inspiration sis, it gave me food for thought, God bless. Tea's the very best, she really went deep on this one! xox 💐🙏👁️💪💕
@@PaperclipProphets I'm sorry you experienced that Angela and you've described this dynamic perfectly! They intentionally create uncomfortable and dramatic situations to get you busy focussing your thoughts and feelings on them, rather than on you and what you're saying, and go to such great lengths to do so, it's ridiculous! But, when you see that their motive is to confuse, cause self doubt, get attention, manipulate to control the situation, blame another, waste our time and energy, create upset, distress, stress and chaos, etc., you come to expect it as a given and that's how they relentlessly wear us down and drain us, causing us to feel resentment, fear, anger, disappointment and frustration so we eventally explode and that's what their after, our emotional reaction. Like Telsha said, they find so very many ways to create drama that you soon see this pattern at play and can refuse to play as our bodies keep score. Narcs can't do genuine intimacy or reciprocity, don't use effective interpersonal communication, can't love and won't apologise, give closure or resolve conflicts properly so yeah, there's very little rational thinking going on there and a helluva lot of pot stirring dysfunction. Observe don't absorb, respond don't react till you can quietly get out and stay out! I hope you don't have to live with your covert 🐦?!! God bless Angela, our peace is precious, our health our wealth and Telsha our saving grace xox 🙏☕😇⌚💕✨✨✨
True indeed
This was a word. Thank God for this channel
NARCISSISTS TRY TO DESTROY YOUR LIFE WITH LIES BECAUSE THEIRS CAN BE DESTROYED WITH TRUTH!
My Natcissists put me through hell
Well said
Yes. And when a toxic person can no longer control you they will try to control how others see you. It's mind boggling the schemes and manipulation involved. Who does all this nonsense. Way too much work and planning for me.
@@taraarrington2285 they are demonic/satanic creatures
💯 Malicious, manipulative Liars
Being single is God's protection 🙏
Amen, sista!!! 🙌🏾
Amen 🙏🏽❤️
Amen💗
Amen!!!!!!
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IF YOU ARE IN A TOXIC SITUATION, PLEASE GET OUT,! YOU CANNOT HEAL IN THE SAME PLACE THAT MADE YOU SICK!!
Boom‼️💣💥💥Mike drop‼️🫳🎤
Never tell your side. Only tell a few. And don’t defend yourself against NOTHING. Watch God work
Everything is a competition with these evil demons.
So true and he brag on himself and his weird kids. One a drunk everyday like him, only girl never had a Man and constant complainer like him. And she 43. Other Son hen pecked probably cause of his fussy azz.
They blame EBE everybody else and said they did no wrong to their Women. He cheated on both Wives actually had girlfriends.
But can't say sorry say I did nothing to you when clearly did but demand apologies if he feel you did anything. That anything is nothing against him but just doing what you like doing. I did overpost pics made him so jealous. But he posts up to 65 posts on some days and no less than 5. He didn't post a lot of his old looking ugly pictures as much though. His Profile has about 25 businesses although they just small stuff he make nothing with. His info a mile long which if smart see he a nut.
Lol I can't believe I even gave him 10 mins of time
@@ednamason8336almost sound like my ex. He admitted to neglecting his ex and I’m suspecting messing around with other women because of the stories he told me. He went and told everybody she cheated on him when he neglected her. Not one time he took responsibility😮💨
Be competing with Casper the Ghost 😂😂😂
God said that He'll give us A WAY of escape. When he discarded me, I bent down, tightened my right shoe lace and took AWF🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️ NO CONTACT🥰NO LOOKIN BACK! GLORAAAAYYYYY!
Lolz 😂 🤣🤣
Glorrrry🙌🤗
😊🎉TGBTG FOREVERMORE!! Me too!
You have to go no contact because Narcs are the Thieves Of Joy! The only way to your happiness and wholeness is to choose YOU!
When people treat you like that it's not love it's hate 💯 😒 💔 🤧 🙃
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Demons now have a modern name “narcissist “ makes it sound more appealing. 😂😂
Liking this cause I'm rocking with you!!! These Narcs be Narcing forever and always, they don't change fam, once a demon always a demon!!
Thank you so much Sis!! Come on tell the truth here Sis!! Facts on facts!!🔥🔥💯💗🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💃🏽👑
Once a snake always a snake 🐍 💯💯
I told him. You are doing devil work. You work for devil.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships hey Tea, instead of calling them Chinese Cresteds let's call these clowns Sharpeis with a backwards wig on, just all the way stupid. These poor dogs gonna be mad at us comparing them to these low level demons🤣
Sharpeis got that ol wrinkled up face just like the narcissist, oooh they big mad!!
Yes the whole Demon 😈 hahahaha 😆 😂
Everything she is saying is the truth. They’ll do the smallest and silliest things to annoy you. They’ll break your things, intentionally ruin vacations, and just find different ways to make your life pure misery. It took me years to finally realize and accept what I had experienced. PLEASE LEAVE THESE PEOPLE ALONE!! There’s no saving or helping them.
All facts here.💯💯💯
FACTS.. They use your gift of empathy against you. 🙏🏽
I dealt with the trying to ruin vacations. He was pretending to be lost, sneaking off talking to the old/new supply. Had me worried about him… He became Mean and argumentative, I never went back and forth I simply left the room. He’s still waiting on me to call him back. 😂🎉😅
I would not dare let them touch my clothes after they destroyed my things after washing.
He tampered with my window screens just to mess with me, scare me, terrorize me. Making me think someone was trying to break in. Who thinks like that? Who does things like that? The narcissist.. 😳
They never stop aggravating
Complaining and lying….,
They are extremely hateful
They ALLLLL do these insane thing's, because they're INSANE!
My ex threw a fit in front of 100's of people at an attraction while we were on vacation. Screamed and cursed...he was upset over money. Then took off on me and my 2 girls for hours. Then showed back up hours later at our hotel...when me and the girls pulled in after going out for dinner...he took off again. Stayed gone till it was time to leave..a day later. Then come back begging and crying saying he wanted counseling for unstable moods. Talked me into going back to same vacation area...about a month later to make up for 1st vacation....even worse! Run...please...it's not you...it's them!!!
So.true...I've seen many family members die with broken spirits..thank God for his grace..it won't be my portion..trying to help my children now..I've told them what God showed me..this is generational in my family..I belong to God..
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May God's protection be upon you & your family
OMG Grace!!! Thanks for the confirmation!!!! God bless you!!!!
They will break your things and all the other things that you named anything that brings you Joy comfort what can make life a little easier for you must go so sad
I've been going through these exact things for 13yrs. I actually ended up in a psych ward because I thought I was going crazy. I'm getting prepared to leave this relationship.
How are you now?
My ex- husband purposely used to cook a simple dish for our children and used every pot in the cupboard and not clean up; then I'd come from work to a disaster in the kitchen! ! Now, I finally realize in his sick mind , he was doing this on purpose to aggravate me! ! And he acted like he didn't know better ; acting like a stupid! ! But, at same time he told my mother that I didn't know how to clean the house! What a crazy person he really was and I'd always defend him ! I was under his control for too long because I didn't realize it and was always taking care of our children! Should of gotten away earlier but am free today ❣️ my children don't even talk to him because of how he treated them but they talk with me all the time and know I'm always there for them ❣️ My children and grandchildren are the best I got out of all I suffered and are worth everything in the world to me❣️😊💯
😂😎😎😂 you never lied about the Foolery stay Blessed
Its been a year and two months no contact. The tables have turned. He s now calling me from app number's in the middle of the night. Gang stalking. I always turn off my phone and sleep peacefully. I ignore. I consider this a A BIG WIN For me as ... I dont care !!!!!
With the help of y0u over the course of the journey I have healed. He doesnt effect me at all ! Thank you for your help!
Also the universe is rewarding me in huge ways! Thank y0u universe ❤❤❤
Anytime you deal with a clown you get a circus 🤡🎪 good one 👍🤣🤣
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Whew!! All true! My ex-husband threw away two bags full of my clothes a month after we got married. He quit a wonderful job and worked part time for 7 years of our marriage. We struggled and he loved it. 🤦🏾♀️Every vacation he had an issue.🤦🏾♀️ I finally left at the 12 year mark. I knew that it would not get better.
It seems he loves the poverty lifestyle
@@1010QUEEN7 Yes!🤦🏾♀️
The narcissist's that I've dealt with really don't like to work they will willingly be dependent on the person that is giving and giving, the only time I've witnessed a narcissist to work is when they are forced to work of be in jail. Fool's paradise we make it to easy for them 💯
God is protecting us.Amen!
I love when you say PLEASE HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON, because I know what ever you’re saying it touches the soul.
Thank you Brother.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships because of you I knew how to finally use my exit strategy and now I’m 5mo NO CONTACT!!!! We WIN.
I've had my clothes purposely destroyed via ‘laundry done wrong’, things that I love have been hidden, moved, or went missing, toilet seat left up on purpose when he's mad or leaving an empty roll on the tissue holder, bed made up oddly just for a response, eats up my healthy snacks then blames the kids, and soooo much more. Anything that I find joy in he nitpicks or tries to destroy it.
Oh he destroyed my bras and threw them away when he would go do laundry. He’d cut them in half and say the dryer did it.
Ex narc cheated with downstairs neighbors moved in with her. Now he has access to me. Apartment he has been in. Stuff missing. MOVING JULY. NO CONTAXT 21/2 years. Never spoken a word!!
Sis you are telling the truth. I have experienced hiding the remote. So when found it I started hiding it when I wanted to watch tv. I am 12mo free thank you Lord. Dont stay they want to destroy you. This is demon from the pit.
From deepest, dirtiest, nastiest, pit !!!!!!
Yes yes and yes
A day before our couples trip to Arizona . My ex flaked out at the last minute because I didn’t provide him proof that I was with my girlfriend the night before. I ended up going on the couples trip alone. While he booked a trip with his boys, posted videos of him on social media with other women, strippers. Announcing that he love his life without any regards to my feelings. After I came back from the trip I have not spoken to the narc or reached out . And it’s been about a month now. I’m sure my ex was really shocked behind that because once he seen me about a week ago at the skating rink having fun and enjoying life. The next day his best friend wife texted me ask me how I was doing? Remind You I haven’t spoke to her in over month and we were not close. I refused to mention anything to her about my ex. I just told her I was doing ok and my primary focus was getting closer to God . As I look back I can’t believe I was entertaining a covert narcissist !! I loved who I thought he was and I really believe he was my friend to the end. Despite not having a good romantic relationship. I never thought he didn’t want to see me happy. I feel so ashamed that I got involved with another narcissist. I just didn’t see this one coming. 😪
This. I can get over the relationship but realizing you were never even a friend and actually hate me messes with your head.
Your videos pulled me out of a dark place. Once I began to understand just what i dealt with the depression I felt after discard started to lift. I really love the fact that it's GODLY COUNCIL! Please don't stop 💜
Praise God Sis.💯💗🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Yes I went from 4 different anxiety pills because my soul was so rattled by his abuse and evilness my doctors struggled with healing me. But God connected me here & now I'm free of All meds. Thank you, keep blessing your people.🤛🏾💯🙏🏽🥰🤜🏾
Amen to this
This is nothing but truth.. my medication came up missing I looked high and low for it for days .. then I looked up 2 weeks later it was right back where it was supposed to be..that childish 🤡 tried to make me out to be crazy
They are sick af.... My Narcissists hide his money on purpose. Then pretend its missing & try to act like I stole his money. Just to start a fight & give him a reason to beat me. Then after the abuse he would find it. Sick sick sick. I'm so glad I am free from him. 2 yrs Narc free. Knowledge is Power.
Better yet they take you things and give it to someone else. They also put you in a 3party and say you made them did it because you didn’t play any Attention to them
When I kicked him outta my house, he took the bank card! There was no money in the account anyways so he didn’t benefit from that and I didn’t allow the narcissist to come back! He punched in my mailbox!
During my spiritual warfare battle in 2017, around 6 a,m. I was writing at my desk facing outside and literally a young man jumped from roof of my 14 story L.A. apartment building just past my window onto cement sidewalk below. His body was under white sheet when I ventured to store an hour later. (A guy working the front desk heard the body crash to ground - I did not see anything)
The victim’s romantic partner was later seen walking around our lobby basking in all the attention and in full smiles and glee while the family made funeral arrangements for their son! I dug around deeper and discovered this surviving partner had all the hallmarks of- you guessed it - a NARCISSIST!
( In 2013 I had considered jumping from same rooftop spot due to narcissist abuse from ex girlfriend! )
So I saw the situation with the young man with wisdom and clarity. However NO ONE saw the spiritual warfare aspect except me. There are very few people brave enough to even bother with such things.
Wow😳😳💯💯
God saved us both from considering suicide due to their abuse. Bless you and your present and future.
@@PaperclipProphets Yes Angela, it was addictionship, plus we taught at same school. Don’t date at work is what they say. Huge mistake on my part.
@@proinseasnihanluain4735 Amen and Praise God!
God wanted you to share that story. Thank you so much. Keep telling that story that will open the eyes of other victims dealing with this disorder and hopefully get help!🎯🎯🙏🙏👍👍👍
Ladies sense I left my situation with the 😈 every picture I came across I notice horns seemingly to appear in these photos. I said God thank you for showing me what i needed to see!
I love it - anytime you deal with clowns you’re going to get a circus!!! 🤣😂👏🏻
No lies!! Get away from these clowns. I have something personal and I know it was thrown away purposely!! So glad it’s over!!
Before I became a nurse I would clean for people...one lady I worked for told me that her husband was trying to drive her crazy...she took me into her closet and showed me where her new clothing had cigarette holes burned in them and her new shoes had been filed down on the heels to make her stumble...it was very uncomfortable to see and hear what was going on...I counseled her to contact the authorities...then I went on...I hope things turned out ok
Yeah they’re real petty. Purposely use up all your shampoo and hair grease when their hair is cut short. Clog up the toilet with tissue and💩🚽and leave it. I’m getting mad just rethinking about it. 😡🤦🏾♀️😂
Facts on facts!💯💯💯
LMAO
He took away my vaccum cleaner knowing I use it everyday, returned it 3 days later... can’t find my wedding ring anywhere... He stole my towels to bring them over at the new supply’s. 🙄
My Narc got mad over all sorts of ridiculous things He stealthy broke dishes, threw eating utensils in the trash, put My car window down just before the rain, deflate my car tires, hide my electronics tools and do many other stupid evil deeds. When questioned about things he claimed and feigned innocence. I, the responsible progressive Ms. Fix-it, would always repair replace and handle it all. Absolutely, Telsha, they are DESIGNED to make you suffer as they INTERNALLY ETERNALLY do. 🔊Jealous of your joy, perturbed by your peace and resentful of your resilience🔊
Thank you Lord for using our sister in Christ!!! My child’s father/narc is plotting against me in court to sue me and to take my child away. I serve a God in which I know I already have the victory.
I sincerely pray that God protects you and your child during this time. Do not be afraid...walk into that courtroom with COURAGE and let GOD REPRESENT YOU, for YOU ARE HIS CHILD. I pray for His PEACE and ENCOURAGEMENT to fill and surround you with every step/decision you make. ❤️🤗❤️💯You got this because GOD's got YOU!
When I met the narc he had nothing I inherited my home from my mother I was married to this thing for 20 years he would pull boards off my home he would drill holes in my ceiling and steal my cloths things would start disappearing. I didn’t know what a narc was I never new such evil creatures existed. He died 2 years ago and I’m not a shamed that he is dead. That lying cheating thing has cost me so much money that I will never get everything paid for.
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if I didn't experience that myself I wouldn't believe it! but this is true 100%!
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This woman speaking the truth. I blocked my ex on everything and my life is happier and very peaceful.
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In my humble opinion Family, sister Telsha is the G.OA.T. at exposing the dynamics of a narcissist. There's no one better Family. So much love to you sis. APTTMH!! 👏
-mzzz
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ABSOLUTELY!!!
Everything you said is so true. I was in a horrific nightmare for 5yrs. Finally got him out of my life about 7 mos ago. It was a blessing! Unfortunately ran into that demon again and the madness continued. Now I’m dealing with a female narc at work… Lord help me! Thank you for your content, much appreciated!
I'm protected by the most High God.been protected for 29years.and still protected.
I remember getting a nice room at a hotel in the mountains. We went out to get Mexican and she was sick the whole time. I still enjoyed myself. The minute we get back in the car she was in a good mood 😂. When she messed with my tooth brush, I was about done at that point. Grab my things and left immediately. I think it was a set up to make me look crazy. She was on the phone with her sister and she denied she even touched it. She said "Look at what your accusing me of". As I am leaving she calls her mom and plays victim SMDH.
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A family member had me waiting on her on a Friday for a weekend staycation NO CALL NO SHOW, never answered the phone when I called. Then Saturday I get a call at 2:30. I didn't even answer. But they will expect you to call them and have a nerve to wait for an apology knowing good and dang on well they stood me up... WOWWWW
This is true, when I was forced to discard the narc, I was so attached to his granddaughter, broke my no contact to ask how she was doing and of course he didn't respond. But 3 months before he left an entire rant on how I never checked on his granddaughter. Such an idiot.
Psychological warfare.
They love not responding so Classic
You would really think we were the one's that lied, cheated,manipulated them with the amount of anger they have towards us. But yet this demon call my kids every week, pretending to be the concerned stepdad. Since they are young adults I ask them to keep all conversation to a minimum.
I GOT YOU. LIKE 👍 FOR ME. You are telling the truth. The narc I was in an addictionship with.. burn my clothes and damage my furniture and wrecked my car and told me that it was God Way of stripping me down to nothing because I was on a high horse. I told that bird you and the devil is a lie. You are just here to rob me of peace and God is still my friend regardless of what I go thru..and you will see this turn out for my good. Trust n believe me babe..it has! Glory to the Most High...
@@PaperclipProphets Thank you my Godly sis.
Yep. The devil comes only to steal, kill and destroy......John 10:10
The witchcraft side of it, it's just been so sick. Like these spells and stuff they trying to do is just disgusting and sick. I can't even explain because people just wouldn't understand, but it's just crazy as hell. And I know I've be tampered with, with black magic. Without the holy spirit I would not be alive.
You are right about this Demon We have to get away from them asap 💯
Yes, anything thats not going right! THEY DID IT! You can do everything for them, and on top of that they will want you to fix all the other drama that is outside the relationship that they created, they think you can fix that also, it's never enough. Run Forest Run!!!
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So true! my ex narc did put the only shower in our home out of commission for 6 weeks! He was resurfacing the tube and he said that it needed to set before water hits on it. When I finally told him; too dang bad, I am taking a shower right now. He had nothing to say; he was shocked and behold the shower was fine. He did all this to inconvenience my son and also me as a bonus. I was married for 11 years and together for total of 15yrs. I am No contact or GreyRock now for 7 years. The crazy making; demonic attacks were horrible; this almost took my physical life and did cause illness and severe psychological damage. I could go on and on.... Get out if you can and keep your plans super secret. Peace
Intentionally hurt themselves on vacation to ruin it for you....that part smh. You are absolutely right.
Also they go in your fridge and spit in everything food and all. Eat first then spit in it...so evil
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That's some black magic stuff.
TH-cam it, sis cause they use urine and feces too. As well as blood too, I know it sounds crazy. However I heard a female talk about putting blood in her man's dinner. I was like omg! So yeah, research that, please and let people know that you can trust too.
I'm going thru this now. God be the glory. NO WEAPONS FORMED AGAINST ME SHALL PROSPER!!!
Anytime you deal with clowns you gone get a circus! -Miss Telsha. I could not have said it better.
And clowns are evil, literally. See the Conspiracys R Us channel about the true (evil) origin of CLOWNS. No kidding!!
I have enough gratitude and courage to admit that I battle anxiety and an addictive personality. Today, I strive to maintain balance mind, body and soul. My mental health is very important to me, so I have no shame seeing a psychiatrist, therapist, and attending substance abuse group therapy. I also attend sessions for domestic violence awareness. Even with all of that, I still struggle with cutting off the narc ex. It's like I'm afraid when I'm not with him bc I know he's out there watching me. Right now I've gone no contact, so I need courage to be alone and still know that I am safe. I pray for everyone who finds themselves spiritually tied to an energy vampire. I pray that we all find the courage and strength to stand against the wiles of such dark people. Prayer and meditation on The Word give me much comfort during the times when I ask how could I still love someone who has been so cruel to me? I pray for the courage to love MYSELF enough to walk away and keep on walking. I pray for that same courage to emerge in your hearts as well. Thank you Telsha for reminding me of what I walked away from. Much LOVE and PEACE to you... and everyone as well✨❤️✨
💗💗💗 Come on and testify Sis!!!💯💯💯🔥🔥🙏🏽💗
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Don't forget to break the soul tie...she has videos on it! So God can set you free!!!
I had one tell me stories from way back in the day and add me to it and say " don't you remember "? When I said to him those things didn't happen "I think you have me confused with someone else " . He gave me the meanest glare I've ever seen. I'm assuming he creates these fantastical lies in his head and just add different people to them.
Wow. Mine poured water in my lawnmower ..then pretend to fix.cut my fridge cord then knew how to fix unscrewed my sinks plumbing took clothes and perfume and hid in garage. Hide dumb stuff the remotes. Took my cell phone threw in field up street lucky some volunteers were cleAning the field. On and on. Your talking the truth lol
My ex would use my kids’ bathroom and leave the toilet seat up to get back at my daughter. I asked him to put up my desk for me to work from home. He refused to do it because working from home “must be nice”.
I'm totally over the narcissist and loving myself . I'm never looking back thanks to these videos thankful to my lord 🙏 Jesus Christ I'm much happier nowadays
Ex Narc was always secretly jealous that I had a poem published in a book years ago when we were separated. When I discarded him I looked for the book I was published in and it had “poof!” Disappeared.
Ms. Telsha I just want you to know that I rocks with you! You are speaking the truth💯about these birds!
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After I filled for divorce and prior to moving out this clown took the power cord to my printer , When I asked her if she knew what happened to the power cord, she stated that it was in a box in the garage, at the time before my awakening to the true nature of these imposters, I thought to myself at the time who does that.
Now I know
Wow! I am so glad I found your channel! My mom is a covert narcissist. I've been through a lot..
Yes! Shark tooth denies that he took my toothpaste and toothbrush! He lied of course saying i bought it for him so he took it. My favorite color is purple...why would I buy you a purple toothbrush?? I later caught on the narc wanted me to like what he liked so he could just snatch it up when i wasn't looking. Causing confusion and gaslighting myself.
Just terrible...but now all that is in the past and living better dayz ☀️👑🥳
Everything is theirs.Your stuff included. So blessed to be away from that damn idiot.
@@cierraword6056 Facts Sis!!
So glad we're free! (I got liquid soap put on my toothbrush... but of course I imagined that!)
I love watching your videos …. You always make me laugh instead of crying … your a blessing please keep doing them it’s so rare to have a laugh instead of a cry . So happy to b free from that bird lol and the monkeys lol
My sweet daughter is dealing with an evil and demon filled narcissistic female. This narcissist does way too much in an effort to hurt my daughter, For way to long she’s been so petty towards my daughter, Everything you said is true. No we cannot relate to them. This evil female lies snd manipulated the family to believe her lies. I have to pray to the Most High and ask for coverage by the Holy spirit.
My goodness! I experienced majority (almost all) of what you are saying in this video! You summed up the "almost 19 years" of what I experienced with this sorry excuse of a man.
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I agree with you 💯 percent Shaunna.
Wish I'd known about Npd alllllllllongggg time ago !!!!!!
Ohhh, it gets worse after the Stalker stalking/squatting on my property when at work these 15 years.
My Narc ex took my gold hoops off my nightstand…. I looked and spoke of those hoops for 6 months. Finally he said he found them…. It was all fake he knew he took them. They are sick demonic people!!!! He would say I agreed to things I never agreed too, gaslighting at its best. I’m healing now… keep the vids coming they are so helpful 🙏🙏💪🏼💪🏼
Took all the screws out of my sliding glass door. Keyed the top of my good tables. Put laundry detergent in my cream of wheat. Deliberately starts fights on vacation with the "woe is me crap". Cut a tire on my trailer when I was moving something to another state. To clippers and put small snips into my shirts shorts underwear and bras, slash the roof of my truck, warped both of my screen doors so they wouldn't lock, I don't know what was put in my shampoo but my head itch for days.... It was endless..
This is so true..you tell people what they doing no one will believe me...my energy needs healing....
He discarded me 40th times..
Girl I have been experiencing this since I was 16 yrs old and I’m 45 years old and I have finally put the puzzle together
I’ve shared this before but I was trimming the hedges and I put the clippers inside the garage right by the door. (He saw me ). I said I’ll need to finish tomorrow (he heard me). The next day, I went to get the clippers not finding them by the door. I asked him when he came home and he said he didn’t know. So the next day, I went on the hunt in the garage for those clippers!!! I found them stacked with other tools behind a bookshelf! I mentioned it, calmly and he said wow that’s weird. Freak show demon.
God knows the truth this is all that matters to me , my soul belongs to him! No weapons formed against us shall prosper ! None thank you sis you are boss !!
You Preaching it! So true and so blessed to be Free from this circus of games and lies and destruction. Thank you much
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Please please pray for me, Lord what have I done 😢
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Thanks. True all the way. Now i understand why the house environment didnt work for nothing and gave me a huge burden.
My X narc has a room closet full of my makeup and cloths say he did not have it when I seen it there and my counselor says that they do that to keep an attachment to you! and As you say special kind of crazy! Yes I said it
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My husband broke vinyl siding, ceiling in places in basement, Windows on garage, interior doors, etc over several years time when I was gone at work. Because he wanted me home, but he wasn't hardly providing our needs let alone his own. There is probably at least $10,000 damage almost making our house a reckless investment. I took almost 40 pics and emailed them to my divorce lawyer.
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Wow!! that's terrible
After announcing that I was bringing all of his clothes and his kids clothes and items from my home and I would be coming to pick up all my things from his condo (I didn't know what he was😂). Everything went smoothly. A month later, he told me that I left some clothes. I said what. He said, you left some clothes in the closet. I said, what I left. He described somethings and a Pac-Man shirt that I'd asked him about. He'd swore that he hadn't seen it. I said;THROWEM AWAY😊 He said huh? I said, THROWEM AWAY ✌✌✌✌✌
He is ignoring all the motions for our divorce. We now have a hearing on April 27th just for him to comply with disclosing his financials. I am doing everything I can to move forward. I’m tired of having to deal with trying to get divorced from him. I’m feeling so fatigued. I was doing good but today I am feeling the exhaustion really bad.
I actually thought a lot unblocking him and asking him to please comply. But I didn’t because I know he will only take that opportunity to attack me.
I’m so thankful I don’t have children with him but I do have a child I care for.
It is okay for him to move on,. He keeps trying to block me from my blessings but he can’t! I just want my divorce!!!!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Hallelujah! Guys please get out safely. Make a plan. If your a parent get out safely with you’re children. Document. Document. Document! They would do this against you. Don’t loose your mind or, your children. Don’t think with your heart. File a police report get a restraining order. No one else is going to save you. Only you and you need that space to heal. I’m praying for all of you. In Jesus name Amen!!
That part where they'll intentionally injure themselves on vacation.
Lol
Mine had a different trick. They would find some out of the way "attraction" to visit and then intentionally go the longest way possible to get there and get "lost" along the way....
Wow- this is so enlightening, especially the vacation part. Now I understand all the injuries and illnesses that popped up the first day of every vacation because travel is one of my favorite things
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It’s sad watching your videos cause the narcissist in my life is my mother. These videos we get hung up on the narcissist being a romantic partner but what do you when listening to the narcissist being called demonic and evil and it can be the very woman that brung you into this world and suppose to love you unconditionally and protect from the very monster she is.i wish you would do more videos on narcissistic family especially parents
You're not alone. I hope you have some distance between you. I grieved my whole life for the mother I could have had. I understand what you've dealt with and I'm sure lots of others do too. Telsha has some videos about narcissistic mothers and the family dynamics that we've experienced. One of the most painful things about this type of experience is that we feel a shame from an early age that we were unloveable, even our mothers didn't love us. It opens a door to more abuse. Every relationship I had as an adult was a version of my mother. I am hoping that as we heal we can cultivate healthier relationships with others. God bless you
Trust me I know your pain family. It is one of the saddest realities for a lot of us.💯💯💯💯🙏🏽
@@proinseasnihanluain4735last year was a year of letting go and I had to let go entire family and friends. I didn’t even know about narcissism til I was in a relationship with one last year then I’m suddenly surrounded by them. I’m on a new path now and yes it’s sad but finally at 40 years old I was able to start the healing process
Preach Sister everything you say is1,000 percent right there pityness is at a all time lie.They would throw out your stuff,move your stuff some place else,break stuff leave the faucet on I remember one time I was making bake ziti and he knocked the whole pan on the floor and said the broom knocked it over there are very evil sick and psychotic I got out and I will never ever look back in my life.
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I started being like this back to a person and leaving mouse traps around to mess with them. “I’m just trying to get rid of rodent so”. Got away from that situation
Oh honey you are now my personal therapist. He has put cuts in my clothes with scissors. Or the ripped down my entire closet rack and then said it fell. Like I could t hear him banging in it cuz he didn’t get his way. You telling the truth. I was with this man for 7 years. Yup he took $200 in the middle of the night and denied it til this day. And Walmart had him in camera and still denied it. He opened my sons mail and too his new credit card and activated and used it then when the bill came in he got caught . Oh my gosh you a taking true facts.
OMGOSH this is the truth...NOT normal...and I can care less who they tell what...my associates are not in their low life calibur... They are ALL sick
The narc broke my fav headphones looked at me dead in the eye and lied, "l was listening to them and sleep took over me" and he was willing to pay for them but l could see the excitement he got when he was telling me he broke them. 🤔😭💔
Have a bless Day Everyone