Should We Have Kids??? | The Indian Couple Podcast | Hindi
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1. Should I have kids?
2. Deciding to start a family
3. Parenthood choices
4. Family planning discussions
5. Pros and cons of having children
6. Parenting dilemmas
7. Childfree lifestyle
8. Parenthood decision-making
9. Couples and child-rearing
10. To parent or not to parent
11. Family size considerations
12. Parenthood debates
13. Fertility and family planning
14. Child-rearing choices
15. Parenting dilemmas and discussions
16. Family planning talks
17. Choosing a child-free life
18. Family size decision-making
19. Kids vs. no kids debate
20. Marriage and parenthood decisions
I am a father of one kid. I feel shaadi and kids both are due to social pressure and our brain is wired to follow same set of rules around us.
You are Honest one
So true
Superb ❤❤❤
Here we are childfree couple ... 10 years of marriage... Just enjoying your each words😊😊😊
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Finally on TH-cam, found a married couple who chose not to have kids and are INDIAN❤
Great that u created a channel
Firstly loved that u took this topic on, We are married from 12 years and we had decided in the first year of marriage that we dont want kids, want to be childfree by choice...and we are touchwood happy with the decision... Society still puts pressure on us but ultimately its our choice ...so kudos to u both ❤❤
Hows your guys life going
Same.. I have also 12 yea of marriage and I don’t have kids
It's upto your destiny...what Allah tallah is decided for you... So don't be upset when your time will come you will see what is there for you
Once a lady in my neighborhood whom I rarely talk specially rang my door bell and said I will take you to a particular person, he will treat your problem. I was confused as to what problem do I have. And then she said for a child. I was so shocked. I am also married since 9 years with no medical problem but society assumes anything and everything. Ladies are so insensitive. Once a lady asked me while I was buying vegetable ki good news aayi ya nahi. And her daughter of my age isn't even married yet even then she had the audacity to ask me. I am also fed up why society is so unkind.
Thanks for sharing.. Ignore Karna seekhna padega :)
@@TheIndianCouplePodcast yes I do but even then it does bothers somewhere down the line.
Ask same question to that aunty .
I think Matrimonial sites should have a filter to have kids or not, that would make easy to find a partner otherwise its very difficult
Thanks for this discussion about how not wanting/not having a child can be very discriminatory in society. Totally relatable content.
You guys gained a subscriber today ... i'm mean i'm glad that finally someone talked about it .❤️ keep going 💕
Thank u so Mach aapane Hindi mein yah podcast Kiya because India ko bahut jarurat hai aise mind set ki taki aane Wale time mein log poverty aur berojgari se bacche pyare Hain but so expensive mere I have one kid but very difficult to manage expense jab ke ham donon husband wife kam karte Hain I wish hamara yah mindset 15 years pahle hota
Awesome podcast.. we really need to talk about this topic more. And as a society accept people and their choice to not have kids.
28:06 How come creating "OWN" biological child for "OWN" happiness and fulfillment is "Unconditional Love" ?
This guy is soo practical and humble ❤
Made for each other❤❤ agar aisa saathi mily ek dusre ko to khushiya dhoondny ki. zaroorat nhi very nyc podcast
U are a very sensible person Neeti . U shared everything regarding this topic . I personally conceived after 5 years of marriage my husband wanted kid so badly more than me 😂😂he used to cry for a kid though we took everything casually till 3 years . But after listening to your podcast I must say u r very mature Neeti. It’s a personal choice indeed
I have the same feelling like you...bache nhi honge agr to kuch nhi hoga..meri shdi ko b 11 saal ho gye but baby nhi h...but we both are happy..hme koi regert and koi tension nhi h..ho jyega to thk h nhi to hm aise hi khush h 😊😊❤❤
I don't want kids but then my bf wants kids, atleast 1
& he thinks eventually my mind will change & I'll stop thinking like this.. He always takes this thing lightly.. I have always clearly said & discussed with him but he just doesn't get it & we broke up because of this..
& I think I'll never get married to anybody ever because I don't want kids.😔 I want a partner just like me😊
Before having my son I wanted 3 Kids and after that Me and my husband decided that one is plenty as we realised with work load and overseas lifestyle, we only have the energy to have one child only. Also, we want to give him the best opportunity in life by putting all our efforts into his upbringing.
But so many people around me have been questioning our decision, but we are so sure of what we want.
Thank you for this video. ❤❤Helps people like us who make the choice of NOT having kids. Society and family creates so much of pressure wherein I feels it is completely a personal choice.
Mam..i am 23 years old..a consultant
Going to get married this year
I want to clarify you one thing..
Why people feel a need to have child in any time of their lifespan is to
Refresh their childhood again..
The emotions they feel in their upbringing..They really want to transfer it to another human being and to make best version of themselves.❤❤🎉
100% Its your choice and you should do what your heart says. We are not trying to influence anyone in any ways. I wish you best of luck❤️👼
Mughe aj phele baar aj esa laga hai ki mere or mere husband ki soch bilkul apke zese hai .mere husband ne shadi se phele he bola tha ki mughe baby ni chaiye.but hum bahut Khush hai childfree life enjoy ker rahe hai.shadi bhacha peda kerne ke leye thode ki hai yr.
Thank you both for solving my whole life decision life 👍🧿
We have same feeling. We also don’t want kids. We are also married for more than 12 years.
Sometimes I think I want to have kids, but I take my step back thinking of the health conditions. I have currently. Not related to fertility but related to my bones and I have seen a lot of ladies having born here skin issues after having having a baby. Also since childhood, I don’t have very good mental health so I am scared to have a child because he made it destroy it like postpartum depression. Brother, same time I want to have a child. Thinking of this sometimes I think of having a baby by surrogacy but that is too costly. So not able to decide whether I want to have it or not. At the same time. I am unmarried currently.
Bone*, hair* skin issue
Each and every instances you shared is relatable❤ I mean its so important for an individual to understand and respect other person's perception and choice. Baki sb toh moh maya hai😂
See, once you have the kid, there's no going back. It becomes your reality till death. Secondly, you can't just become parents just because you love kids, you also have to love teenagers, and the older person that your kid will turn out to be in order to become parents.
My daughter wants husband jo kids nahi chahata ho. But koi nahi mil raha ese vicharvala
There are many successful childfree men over there
Mai hu...Baat krao
@@story.corner_ my daughter is 27 years old.working in pune.i have only daughter.middlclass background.my daughter is cute.bahot sare proposal aa rhe marriage ke liye but she wants by choice childfree.ye bat kisiko hazam nahi ho rahi .kisike samze me nahi aa rahi ye childfree kya hai.unhe samzana padta hai .this is concept by choice childfree.tab unka answer milta hai sorry .I want kid.bolo abhi aapse kya bat karu.kya aap kuch help kar sakte ho.
Good topic, it's a long fight till people stop asking you questions like shadi kab karogay, bachha kab karogay!!!
Lovely podcast! Please please make a video on how you made this decision mutually. Thanks
Raman keeps adjusting neeti's mic everytime😂
Mere Bachpan mein ham 6 Bhai bahan the tab bhi Maine compromise life spend Kiya socha tha bade hokar sab sapne pure karungi but Aaj Apne bacche Ho Gaye to bhi sapne adhure rah Gaye ham to life cycle mein fas Gaye thank god aapko aapko yah maloom hai
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Raman the way you look neeti ❤ seems you proud of her 😊😊
I am scared :)
@@TheIndianCouplePodcast 😀😀
Randomly come across your Insta Profile, good hardworking couple focus on good content and not on vulgarity.
Madam is very good (in good ways), Convey the Regards....
Mind-blowing podcast ❤ love you guys ❤ proud of you 😍
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I want to be childfree for life. My boyfriend also agreed for it but now after engagement he broke up saying he wishes to have 2 kids. I am going through a tough phase whether to choose him or give in to his wishes of kids.
He wants kids or he wants you. If he wants you.. you guys will figure out.
Same thing happened with me 😢
I am so sorry it happened with you. Stay strong
My thinking matches with you Guys
Mein aapko el baat bolun you guys are lucky that you both are on same plane means both have same thinking but most of the cases mein aap ka partner hi aap ko khaye toh aap kya karoge ??
My wife forced me twice to have kids, you can't do anything about it if your partner and your thinking are on different levels.
Go and watch your video sab aache k liya hota hai. Golden moments with ur dad. Think only good things about kids and for parents. Mutual understanding kar k Yeha decision ho gay we not required kids. But yeah video apke khud k questions ka answer dege.
I am married since 2.5 years ..but i am not sure about kids ...i always think do I really need a kid
Loved the conversation between u both. I m antinatalist too and it's the best decision of my life
Love you guysss you guysa are amazing.. this video is exactly what i need today🩵❤️
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Lovely and beautifully said💪🏻 It’s a personal choice and no one else has the right to question the couple about it🫶
Agar ja choice sv ki asi ho gyi to kase chla gya aygya hai to personal choice but choice sahi v honi chya
agar bilkul sahi… baccha na karne se kuch ni chhut rha bhai life me… enjoy karo life… logo ne mandatory maan rakha hai.. par hai nahi kuch bhi… be it marriage or having kids… ❤❤❤
indeed not having a good and still having a healthy relationship speaks louder about having a good healthy relationship… 😊 bas ye chize mutual honi chaie between partners
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agree.. completely society pressure.
3:59 loved the podcast
Ya right and if due to an accident coincidentally both mother and father are dead then life of a child has been destroyed none will handle that child anymore pls don't be a sinner after destroying a child's life😢
Sometimes i thought mentally support milega at the age of old time.But really don’t want to take that responsibility.What to do?
My marriage is of 8 yrs and we dint do the baby because of our personal clashes but we love each other but the situations were not in the favour of having a baby ever. I know my husband from deep down want a kid but I am confused, I have 2 brother-in laws they are younger than us and they will be doing kids may be in some years. Would this feeling hamper to us or my husband,,,totally confused
We cant's say because we are not in your shoes. What we can only say is. You need to know if you want a kid. Be clear with your partener. Keep time outside home to discuss it and its a big decision. As you said you both love each other. Even after clashes you will come to a decision. We love kids around us and we never get jealous 🙂
Thank you for this podcast both of you its just wonderful. Our indian society should support these decisions, as you said we should imbibe some western culture atleast for our mental wellness. We hope much more videos will come regarding childfree life. Globally it has to be supported. This is one such video
Hello guys
I also don’t want but always feeling fear of being alone if something happens in between us. Can you please suggest me something.
Bache hone k bad b old age home me bheed kyu hai,agar bache isliye he karne hai ki wo aapke future k liye hai to koi kisi ka nai hota hai
Hi guys.. Please let me know how to handle the situation or convince partner when husband doesn't Want kids and wife wants one? It takes enormous effort from both husb and wife in raising a child. So how to deal with this when this topic was not discussed with spouse before marriage? Please give some inputs.. Thanks in advance
When I say my friend that I'm not gonna have kids she was shocked and asked me is this even a choice you have to have😂
I liked the direction of this conversation.. very true that neither choice is good or bad! They’re “choices” that you make..
Everyone asked me in your old age what to do then i got scared.
Sometimes i thought mentally support milega at the age of old time.Otherwise i dont have fear. Please please give me any suggestions
no man.. don't have such assumptions. Society is changing very fast and there is no full proof system that at old age kids will be there for you. Kids will support you at old age is totally society made theory based on yesteryears old system.
4:33 close and warm society 😂😂
was this a kids only talk??...my questions werent taken 😢
Next podcast
Yaar we guys r same exactly
When u plan to stop enjoying your life … like we r enjoying but pressure bacche krlo 3 saal ho gaye
And fight yeah its a fight that can ruin relations with family
How you guys are coping with your family regarding this decision.
So good neeti sansaar bhot badh chuka h😂😂😂😂
This world is so painful 😣😮😢
Females are more vocal but men are also same bus samne se nhi bolte
No on accept ki aapko baccha nhi chahiye even they don’t want to accept that too ki unko dusra baccha nhi chahiye yr ek hai unke pas wo khush hai nhi karna dusra awrr nhi karna baccha
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R yous planning baby in future yes or no
No
So u decided to be child free
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Apke video dekha k mujhe aase feeling aai maa baap bacho pe bhojha hai. Aur yeha feeling aai ki baache sirf bhojha. Paise hi sab kuch hai. I agree society k pressure me nahi karna chahiye. Bat vansh ki nahi hoti usko aage badna hai. Paise important today's life but itna bhi nahi. Understanding word le kar ap apne khud k emotions k sath khel rahe ho. Its ok this is ur decision but video k baad sab kuch bhojha lagne laga mujhe.
They r also someone’s kids… but their mentality is toxic..
Process of making child is so gross and painful especially you woman.
Han sahi h aajkal dadi banne ki age m bachha kro. Isse to gay sahi hen 😂😂. Ready kase hote hen, maa baap n galati ki unhe bhi ready nai hona chahiye tha to esa log duniya m nai aate 😂😂 fir ek boy or ek girl hi shadi kyn karte hen 🤔🤔 3 girls sath rho
Shadi kyn karani chahiye mat kro
Baat phir yahi hai ke...
Ye doono baccha lena nahi chahatein ye nahi hai...
Inko baccha ho ga hi nahi...
Tou iss dukh ko ye dono nahi lene wali baat ko bol kar bhul neki koshish kar rahe hai....
What a hypocrisy to spread people around you😅😅
Haha God Bless You