When you get can stand back and observe them, you start to see the repeating pattern of their ways and empty words and you see how very boring they really are to be around.
Yes, those "friends"... They then have the audacity to try to manipulate you back, and still see these "friends". It is because they get a buzz from the cheating.
My ex husband would text his mistress whilst I was watching television with him. He also sent emails to her using my laptop, whilst we were on a family holiday. Narcissists don’t care…they will do it right in front of you, smile whilst they are doing it and then blame you.
So true. Heard the thing ask a family member how they dealt with ppl online when the partner is around and the family member said - straight face . Apparently the trait runs in the family. Real creatures they are
A particular narcissist I dated...his female neighbor would flash me an angry look everytime I was with him. She would sit and hang out with us. I never trusted her. He denied cheating. He made excuses to keep her around. My relationship ended for other reasons. Though; he and her became a couple, quickly. She was pregnant within two months of our break up. The hateful looks flashed at me made sense. She was sleeping with him the entire time. She is his supply now. She has been trapped for years. She is going through hell with him.
It is shocking how brazen these women are, I too had similar. 18 months down the line she looked like the walking dead, he obviously did a number on her too ...
Yup...mine was on dating websites in our home whilst I'd be pottering about making dinner etc and he was pretending to look at steam cleaners. Going on right under my nose!! And thankfully he's someone else's problem now!!
I 😍that you're wearing a ring..& presenting this message. Thank you for this. It's not ok what they do. A committment is just that. Honor it or move on. Cheating is so low & unneccessary.
Also, their verbiage is laughably different. You are a filthy cheater when you date after a breakup. THEY “take a lover” or “have a mistress” when you thought everything was good. Good grief!😂😂😂
yeah, im still trying to understand that. after our first time having sex. after the session, still naked. first thing she says. im going to have multiple lovers and thats something you just have to deal with.
this is true. "that's disgusting" if you did it, but "understandable" when they are at it. different standards in their minds. seriously, arrogant and you and what you might need really do not exist except to please them or be there if it serves them. if you do not serve them, on to the next whoever.
It happened to me several times. Dude could have the guts to show me the pictures 😅😅😅😅. Now he is miserably begging to talk to me but its not gonna happen 😅
@forgetshareka3138, Good. NO CONTACT is the only way! BTW: The Narc would paint his new supply all over-`I said who is that same dang sketch artist´. LOL. Also Demonic red evil looking ones. Sadist beings these Narcs. Much Peace & Healing Sister.
@angelanicoletti3330 you are right. Thanks. It's true. He tried using different girls and posted them all over. People sent me screenshots, and I simply told them that "he is my past, whatever he is doing doesn't concern me, and I dont care about it anymore" 🤣🤣🤣
I never went through his phone, he went through mine which was his biggest piece of devaluation cake. He accused me for my past relationships 😂 reading through my messages with my boyfriend over 3 years old, when I DID NOT KNOW HIM !!! When out of devaluation material as he could not find any in present he did that!! So once, being so exhausted from that BS...I told him to SHOW ME MESSAGES IN HIS DAMN PHONE. not me sneaking but requested him to open each chat. One was at the time we were already 3 months together and he asked girl very casually to meet him for a ride (there was a sense of familiarity as it was not first time) there was no reply or maybe he deleted it sometime...but when I got upset over THAT he said HE DOES NOT KNOW HER 😂
Do you have a book? You really put your finger on. I whish we wouldn't have to analyze those evils, but unfortunately God crossed us with those and thought us who they are. I don't know blessing or bad fate. The only blessing is we figured out them. I can smell a narcissist tendency of a person faster. Thank you Danish, you really really help.!
Oh god , my narcissist husband was kissing his own cousin in front of my eyes off course inappropriately . Later, when I was angry, he said she was like a daughter for him. Shitty creation of God. He behaves strangley with other women or overreacting. He says he is normal, but i could see the truth.
Cheating on you spouse can be with drugs and gaming too. I know this cuz I experience this on a on going basis. The family is never put first. There is never any time for us. And yes you guessed it. It's all our fault. I say bs. Too this.
Omg. I can’t imagine what you have been going through that moment 😔 I wish you all the strength you need to get over that experience. They are monsters
just looking at the wrong pictures of others in front of spouse is too innocent for some narcissists... what about female junkie wife & narcissist shagging in back of her car in front of the family home with 2"customers"?...&narcissist husband making "love" to her with his friends that guards her at home by feeding drugs regularly to make her vaginas robust & working... 2 narcissists together miss each other even more when cheat openly on each other & doing that half decade happily ever after... narcs crazy but narcs on drugs is beyond crazy - is demonicly addictive to play unsafe, unhonourable games... & feel hot coz criminals or other junkie's want f**k with them... its beyond normal imagination...
Omg how much true this words that my husband did to me ,not only chating na look picture, but front of me looking other ladies, cheating, on my face, blaming me ur not looking nice.its lie I'm very beautiful, still he is with other.
I'm soooo happy not to be a narcissist ...we are the perfect soul for the next one.... let them be the narcissist ...time will come when the cards falling down...and then...gonna be really heard..... so, be grateful. that you don't have this illness
So true .. my ugly ex cheated and slept with so many girls. And he filled me with so much self doubt and hatred that I was ugly and not enough..later on he used to return and manipulate me to take him back that he was doing a favour coming back to me.
I have a narcissist father who treats my mother like a slave, abuse her,and have a affair when my mom confront him about this. He gets really furious and violent like it's not his fault
Married 19 years and 2 weeks after the discard she is with another man, claiming he was a "roommate." Later blamed me for her affair. She and him deserve each other.
Thank you for this video, yes mine serial cheater liar, in my face conquests, his excuse ranged from it's not his fault he can't help woman fall for him because he is so nice or he would say they were flirting with him and he did not know what to do or plain right out, you caused that cause you are supposed to keep me happy and you were not, with a day or 2 go by and he would say he found out that so and so was jellous of me and tried to hurt me he did nothing wrong he loves me, I got very sick of it and sick with his behavior with me and the vile treatment I got disregarding if I believed him or not
Yes true my narc husband was flirting with my sis and his brothers wife in just front of me he might be think that everyone is fool except him ....what a cheap type peolpe they are never faith them again
Yes, they are shameless cheaters. My ex cheated with my best friend and also with 1 of our employees. Disgusting to cheat, but worse right under your nose.
My ex-husband moved the girlfriend to three different cities we moved to. He also had her over to babysit our children. I feel angry with myself now for trusting him.
Completely true. I'm diagnosed with covert narcissism. Since 3 months I started to change my habits (i'm 52). I siarted my relationship when I was 22 years old. I still don't know why, but I seduced woman just right in front of my girlfriend. Not once, but many times. I absolutely didn't care. Even at parties when our kids were around. Our kids saw it and said it the very next day, I knew it was true, but my girlfriend "didn't saw". I'm not proud of it, don't think it is cool, but I don't feel any regret or remorse (which is another problem of a narcissist). Anyway, this info is absolutely true.
A gross experience once, on a date,on my birthday, with friends, and family, the cheater, was playing footies, under the table, and accidentally stroked my leg, it was so awkward, having a female, family/friend, do that, before I knew, my Ex Narcissistic Boyfriend was cheating! Right next to me! May God have mercy on his soul 🔥🙏👑🍋🌈🌅⚡️🌲 Shalom
Cheating right when they are sitting with you is wrong, but the narcissist does not care whom they hurt. They have no conscience they've dulled it by not listening to it. They have no integrity or care about how it affects you. Go away from the narcissist or make sure they stay away from you. DO NOT HAVE ANY COMMUNICATION.
Or you ask questions of why, trying to be honest about the relationship, now your accusing them, u have trust issues your crazy... They can't be with you now. Then this starts the in and out stage they will bring it up every time . Please don't play this game like i did. Say no thankyou this isn't for me and leave them please it's actually easier more respectful to yourself save you years of hurt pain suffering. Dlont text them back or ifu havel to just say okay and dont read their nonesense. . These people are breaking human morals. Don't deserve your pain they don't care. 😢
Thats nothing...my mum use to sat at the same table with my father and her lover ,with the excuse that her lover is her friend who helped her so many times ..
Yup. Right in my face, unfortunately she has no poker face so I figured it out in seconds, but I’d already worked it out before it actually happened bc she’s a moron… and I’m a chronic overthinker
In pakistan here narcissist don't use phone for girlfriends. They are always busy with their mother. Even if their kids are sick need attention or whatever...they are with their families but their attention is towards their moms...
But why should you get to this point with the narcissist? That's quite too far. Once you see a red flag, just abandon them. It WILL NOT GET ANY BETTER.
My husband cheated on me after i gave birth to our son. I knew something was off but he tried to blame me and act like i was crazy. Whats even more strange, he cheated with a girl certainly less atractive then i am… somehow i always knew he is triggered by my apperance (i dont mean it that way, but he is not handsome at all and on the beging of our relationship everybody questioned why am i with him). He just needed to show me that i am not that special and that he can destroy me. Which he did… but now i am smarter, educated in the narc behavior and i dont let him torture me anymore. Excuse me, english is clearly not my first language😅❤
I already told this one somewhere online in one of these videos but, the topper (besides asking "how it must feel to BE with him" seriously, so in AWE of his, uh, manhood) but I digress. he once said that his gf who he returned to through out his numerous marriage and divorces was not "cheating" because "he knew her from before" so it wasn't "cheating". there is nothing they won't lie about so why bother asking? please.
EXTREME EVIL: further feel he is "grooming" MY young granddaughter. Am helpless to stop it. CPS dropped the case. No evidence=grandchild won't tell on him. My own daughter lets him see her all the time. He's obsessed with her, just as obsessed w/his current gf 25 yrs younger than him. In midst of divorcing him, am in the Twilight Zone afraid I will be done in healthwise/emotionally. EVIL prevails.
He may be just messing with your head about this, pretending before you that you think that. In that way you go crazy, and nothing ever can be held against him because he is not doing anything for real, just driving you insane. Dont alow him to shut you down emotionaly, please.
Yes,they are pathological liars
So dangerous for the soft and loyal heart
Correct
Those are the hearts they love to destroy. They are just evil.
When you get can stand back and observe them, you start to see the repeating pattern of their ways and empty words and you see how very boring they really are to be around.
Narcissists are so selfish, they hardly qualify as being human
They r just human in form. They are the devil
its Never their fault. because they are perfect. no matter how many evil deeds they did, its Never their fault.
According to him, he wasn’t “cheating.” He was hanging with (female) “friends.” 🙄
We weren't in a relationship but he still lied about where he spent his time, lol.
same
Yes, those "friends"... They then have the audacity to try to manipulate you back, and still see these "friends". It is because they get a buzz from the cheating.
My ex husband would text his mistress whilst I was watching television with him. He also sent emails to her using my laptop, whilst we were on a family holiday. Narcissists don’t care…they will do it right in front of you, smile whilst they are doing it and then blame you.
Yes exactly it is like that
You are absolutely right
That is so sad .🥰
@@lovelynote3058 thank you…🥰
So true. Heard the thing ask a family member how they dealt with ppl online when the partner is around and the family member said - straight face . Apparently the trait runs in the family. Real creatures they are
A particular narcissist I dated...his female neighbor would flash me an angry look everytime I was with him. She would sit and hang out with us. I never trusted her. He denied cheating. He made excuses to keep her around. My relationship ended for other reasons. Though; he and her became a couple, quickly. She was pregnant within two months of our break up. The hateful looks flashed at me made sense. She was sleeping with him the entire time. She is his supply now. She has been trapped for years. She is going through hell with him.
It is shocking how brazen these women are, I too had similar. 18 months down the line she looked like the walking dead, he obviously did a number on her too ...
What the other person doesn’t understand is they care about no one. They are never going to be treated like the person they thought they was 😢
Yup...mine was on dating websites in our home whilst I'd be pottering about making dinner etc and he was pretending to look at steam cleaners. Going on right under my nose!! And thankfully he's someone else's problem now!!
Yes, he always flirts with girls in front of me
Even with the female shop attendants...everywhere when he saw a girl he keeps stare at that girl and passing smile by ignoring me and my words
Teach em a lesson... LEAVE!!!
I 😍that you're wearing a ring..& presenting this message. Thank you for this. It's not ok what they do. A committment is just that. Honor it or move on. Cheating is so low & unneccessary.
Also, their verbiage is laughably different. You are a filthy cheater when you date after a breakup. THEY “take a lover” or “have a mistress” when you thought everything was good. Good grief!😂😂😂
yeah, im still trying to understand that. after our first time having sex. after the session, still naked. first thing she says. im going to have multiple lovers and thats something you just have to deal with.
this is true. "that's disgusting" if you did it, but "understandable" when they are at it. different standards in their minds. seriously, arrogant and you and what you might need really do not exist except to please them or be there if it serves them. if you do not serve them, on to the next whoever.
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@@TheShaqiiAt least she warned you, and i hope you ran.
The more I listen to all these videos and others the happier I become that I am out of these toxic messes
Amen 😂😂😂
I was told it was my problem that I've never cheated on him. It broke me.
I pray GOD heals your heart & that you find happiness.
I hope you will heal from this victimblaming.....And for always stay away from this evil...
the nerve of whoever told you that.😡
Narc said the person was stupid to not take sex that was thrown at them
they are shameless.....when you say suppin hell breaks loose!
Offended by everything, ashamed of nothing.
@@sarahwagland1559THIS. THIS IS PERFECTLY WORDED. So simple yet so spot on. 😙🤌
It happened to me several times. Dude could have the guts to show me the pictures 😅😅😅😅. Now he is miserably begging to talk to me but its not gonna happen 😅
@forgetshareka3138, Good. NO CONTACT is the only way! BTW: The Narc would paint his new supply all over-`I said who is that same dang sketch artist´. LOL. Also Demonic red evil looking ones. Sadist beings these Narcs. Much Peace & Healing Sister.
@angelanicoletti3330 you are right. Thanks. It's true. He tried using different girls and posted them all over. People sent me screenshots, and I simply told them that "he is my past, whatever he is doing doesn't concern me, and I dont care about it anymore" 🤣🤣🤣
Mine came with his supply by where we are living now. And his family are all aware . Make me sick to my stomach.
The family helps them . Never trust the family
It is scary how easy it is for them to cheat on you
I never went through his phone, he went through mine which was his biggest piece of devaluation cake. He accused me for my past relationships 😂 reading through my messages with my boyfriend over 3 years old, when I DID NOT KNOW HIM !!! When out of devaluation material as he could not find any in present he did that!! So once, being so exhausted from that BS...I told him to SHOW ME MESSAGES IN HIS DAMN PHONE.
not me sneaking but requested him to open each chat. One was at the time we were already 3 months together and he asked girl very casually to meet him for a ride (there was a sense of familiarity as it was not first time) there was no reply or maybe he deleted it sometime...but when I got upset over THAT he said HE DOES NOT KNOW HER 😂
Do you have a book? You really put your finger on. I whish we wouldn't have to analyze those evils, but unfortunately God crossed us with those and thought us who they are. I don't know blessing or bad fate. The only blessing is we figured out them. I can smell a narcissist tendency of a person faster. Thank you Danish, you really really help.!
Oh god , my narcissist husband was kissing his own cousin in front of my eyes off course inappropriately . Later, when I was angry, he said she was like a daughter for him. Shitty creation of God. He behaves strangley with other women or overreacting. He says he is normal, but i could see the truth.
Jeda Smith is an epitome of this example
U are extremely right danish
Cheating on you spouse can be with drugs and gaming too. I know this cuz I experience this on a on going basis. The family is never put first. There is never any time for us. And yes you guessed it. It's all our fault. I say bs. Too this.
I kept asking my narc to play various games but because it wasn't his idea it wasn't appreciated.
My wife always puts her phone up, when I walk in the room. At same time wants to know what your looking at all the time.
Omg my husband is paranoid about his phone. But always watching my phone like a hawk. It's annoying.
Then it’s high time we empaths find ‘true love’ from somewhere else. Neener neener!
Yeah, my favorite is having a party at your own home and two of his mistresses are there❤
What’s worse is when you find him in the room with her. Yea! That just happened
Omg. I can’t imagine what you have been going through that moment 😔 I wish you all the strength you need to get over that experience. They are monsters
@@s.9806 I did what Danish suggests, no reaction. That’s what he wants, to know he’s hurting me.
@@zayasnana9 You did definitely the right thing! By doing that you already are a very strong person 💪
@@zayasnana9Hope you're leaving him?!
Very true, Sir!
Next level is absolutely right. Sometimes they take you over to their "friend's" place and they cook for you...just to see if you know.
just looking at the wrong pictures of others in front of spouse is too innocent for some narcissists... what about female junkie wife & narcissist shagging in back of her car in front of the family home with 2"customers"?...&narcissist husband making "love" to her with his friends that guards her at home by feeding drugs regularly to make her vaginas robust & working... 2 narcissists together miss each other even more when cheat openly on each other & doing that half decade happily ever after... narcs crazy but narcs on drugs is beyond crazy - is demonicly addictive to play unsafe, unhonourable games... & feel hot coz criminals or other junkie's want f**k with them... its beyond normal imagination...
Omg how much true this words that my husband did to me ,not only chating na look picture, but front of me looking other ladies, cheating, on my face, blaming me ur not looking nice.its lie I'm very beautiful, still he is with other.
They don’t even feel justification in explaining why they feel they “deserve it“
You went very deep inside bro..... Very true
I'm soooo happy not to be a narcissist ...we are the perfect soul for the next one....
let them be the narcissist ...time will come when the cards falling down...and then...gonna be really heard.....
so, be grateful. that you don't have this illness
Exactly my story! Word for word 😂
you are absolutely right.
So true .. my ugly ex cheated and slept with so many girls. And he filled me with so much self doubt and hatred that I was ugly and not enough..later on he used to return and manipulate me to take him back that he was doing a favour coming back to me.
I have a narcissist father who treats my mother like a slave, abuse her,and have a affair when my mom confront him about this. He gets really furious and violent like it's not his fault
In a relationship they offer boredom and or stress. It's a very dull existence.
That they make it your fault is an interesting awareness, that I was not good enough, or...did not do something.
Correct .. I experienced this since started my journey with narc husband..not only pics..anything which could be very unjust in a relationship
Married 19 years and 2 weeks after the discard she is with another man, claiming he was a "roommate." Later blamed me for her affair. She and him deserve each other.
You are sooooooo right
Exactly the way I've faced his actions
Awessome explanation 😅
Not only pics but real ladies ..staring
As if I am invisible also excited to go gaa gaa in presence of daughters too😢😢
Thank you for this video, yes mine serial cheater liar, in my face conquests, his excuse ranged from it's not his fault he can't help woman fall for him because he is so nice or he would say they were flirting with him and he did not know what to do or plain right out, you caused that cause you are supposed to keep me happy and you were not, with a day or 2 go by and he would say he found out that so and so was jellous of me and tried to hurt me he did nothing wrong he loves me, I got very sick of it and sick with his behavior with me and the vile treatment I got disregarding if I believed him or not
Yes one here used all things the other people said to make them uncomfortable
Yes correct, for years
I m going through this and send me divorce papers when left me at my parents home
Happy rakshabandhan🌹 to you bro from India.. It's a festival of siblings in India..
Looks like you have suffered with such people 👍now you are sharing to the world 🌍 the important lessons . very few have guts for that
Calling it an open relationship!!😅😮
Yes true my narc husband was flirting with my sis and his brothers wife in just front of me he might be think that everyone is fool except him ....what a cheap type peolpe they are never faith them again
Yes, they are shameless cheaters. My ex cheated with my best friend and also with 1 of our employees. Disgusting to cheat, but worse right under your nose.
His favorite saying was "I don't care"
My ex-husband moved the girlfriend to three different cities we moved to. He also had her over to babysit our children. I feel angry with myself now for trusting him.
Completely true. I'm diagnosed with covert narcissism. Since 3 months I started to change my habits (i'm 52). I siarted my relationship when I was 22 years old. I still don't know why, but I seduced woman just right in front of my girlfriend. Not once, but many times. I absolutely didn't care. Even at parties when our kids were around. Our kids saw it and said it the very next day, I knew it was true, but my girlfriend "didn't saw". I'm not proud of it, don't think it is cool, but I don't feel any regret or remorse (which is another problem of a narcissist). Anyway, this info is absolutely true.
Yes its so true.
Only time they are happy is when they are cheating on someone. They get miserable when they have no victims.
A gross experience once, on a date,on my birthday, with friends, and family, the cheater, was playing footies, under the table, and accidentally stroked my leg, it was so awkward, having a female, family/friend, do that, before I knew, my Ex Narcissistic Boyfriend was cheating! Right next to me! May God have mercy on his soul 🔥🙏👑🍋🌈🌅⚡️🌲
Shalom
Is true..😂😂😂, my husband cheated me with my nanny.
My ex was doing this right next to me, while we were watching a movie, he was scrolling these school girl dressed women...
It's true that they're insane, but how crazy were we to ever go along with it??
Disassociation of themselves... Thats why they're not aware... or do they remember or care.
They do remember they just pretend they have forgotten when their bad deeds is played to them. They always remember only their good deeds. Hypocrites!
Happened 😢.
PhD Pizza Hut Driver - they get a rise out of you
be like them ...with them.
finish.
Cheating right when they are sitting with you is wrong, but the narcissist does not care whom they hurt. They have no conscience they've dulled it by not listening to it. They have no integrity or care about how it affects you. Go away from the narcissist or make sure they stay away from you. DO NOT HAVE ANY COMMUNICATION.
Yeah like my husband and in-laws
Or you ask questions of why, trying to be honest about the relationship, now your accusing them, u have trust issues your crazy... They can't be with you now. Then this starts the in and out stage they will bring it up every time . Please don't play this game like i did. Say no thankyou this isn't for me and leave them please it's actually easier more respectful to yourself save you years of hurt pain suffering. Dlont text them back or ifu havel to just say okay and dont read their nonesense. . These people are breaking human morals. Don't deserve your pain they don't care. 😢
Sounds like my ex husband, lol. That's why he's my EX
Truth truth truth Right on point complaining that person
Exactly 😮damn!
Absolutely right
I knnowww, it's crazy
Yep, lived this one!!
Thats nothing...my mum use to sat at the same table with my father and her lover ,with the excuse that her lover is her friend who helped her so many times ..
My biggest mistake
Was helping her in politics
Relatable
Exactly same he always does
True very well said
Yup. Right in my face, unfortunately she has no poker face so I figured it out in seconds, but I’d already worked it out before it actually happened bc she’s a moron… and I’m a chronic overthinker
Yes..They are evil..
They always have an ex use which to them makes sense
In pakistan here narcissist don't use phone for girlfriends. They are always busy with their mother. Even if their kids are sick need attention or whatever...they are with their families but their attention is towards their moms...
In my entire life span I could not able to love anyone anymore 😢😢 after 2019. Inside am dead 💀 now
But why should you get to this point with the narcissist? That's quite too far. Once you see a red flag, just abandon them. It WILL NOT GET ANY BETTER.
I could go on!! Yessss!!! Yessss!!!!!
My husband cheated on me after i gave birth to our son. I knew something was off but he tried to blame me and act like i was crazy. Whats even more strange, he cheated with a girl certainly less atractive then i am… somehow i always knew he is triggered by my apperance (i dont mean it that way, but he is not handsome at all and on the beging of our relationship everybody questioned why am i with him). He just needed to show me that i am not that special and that he can destroy me. Which he did… but now i am smarter, educated in the narc behavior and i dont let him torture me anymore. Excuse me, english is clearly not my first language😅❤
Yes ,I hv explained this😢😢
Hey im fed up
Everyone believes them 😢
I already told this one somewhere online in one of these videos but, the topper (besides asking "how it must feel to BE with him" seriously, so in AWE of his, uh, manhood) but I digress. he once said that his gf who he returned to through out his numerous marriage and divorces was not "cheating" because "he knew her from before" so it wasn't "cheating". there is nothing they won't lie about so why bother asking? please.
WE REALLY DON'T CARE NOTHING TO CARE ABOUT.IT'S A DUST RAG ( THING). WELL.😮 know you or more. Move on.
Amen
True
🎯🎯🎯
Omgz omgz omgz
💯❤️
EXTREME EVIL: further feel he is "grooming" MY young granddaughter. Am helpless to stop it. CPS dropped the case. No evidence=grandchild won't tell on him. My own daughter lets him see her all the time. He's obsessed with her, just as obsessed w/his current gf 25 yrs younger than him. In midst of divorcing him, am in the Twilight Zone afraid I will be done in healthwise/emotionally. EVIL prevails.
He may be just messing with your head about this, pretending before you that you think that. In that way you go crazy, and nothing ever can be held against him because he is not doing anything for real, just driving you insane. Dont alow him to shut you down emotionaly, please.