@@pkarthikkumar5934 they just want attention- no matter what they have to do to get it… they will use ANYONE just to occupy their time it’s nothing u did/it’s not ur fault💜 i hope this helps🤗
They are Here to play the negative part of God's Plan , this is testing time , who do you follow? theres a spiritual war happening now, between Truth vrs Deception. Who do you follow ? Don't be Deceived, Christ Foretold us All Things and how not t be Deceived. "Have Yee Not Read?"
@@AysenGuler369-zs1om that’s what’s happening to my father in law, he’s did a lot for him but you have your breaking point. I feel bad that we’ve left him to his own devices but when a person wants to be served and refuses to help themselves and just uses you…?
I don't think you could lose something that you do not possess or do not have narcissists do not have a soul they are demons in the flesh they are demons on Earth.
@@damianlopez7630They don’t have a soul, because they have already lost it. We need to pray to God that this doesn’t let this happen to us. The one thing the devil is after is your soul. But he can’t have it. He can only have someone’s soul if they give it to him. Then he buys it. Sadly, many narcissists have sold their soul to the devil.
@naveengulati7745 Sometimes, we are tested to see how we will be. It is no fault of a child if they are born into horrific circumstances or have bad guardians. The ones that can overcome these things will be blessed.
It's not about you. It's about the narcissist and who they are. Cruel and evil, so they abuse others, to feel good about themselves, but they still remain miserable because they can not change.
The amount and kind of abuse they dump on others is a perfect reflection of how much they suffer inside. It's an attempt to offset their internal pain.
@@lisaborsella5412 Thank you- when we first met, I saw but did not understand her internal issues and thought they would pass. Little did I know how she would turn them on me.
And lies they lie to everyone about us trying to look like a hero a savior because they want honor and respect and to be a hero that they don’t deserve to be. They want the title of hero but yet they are the villain
That's right. The one I dated and the one my cousin dated both attended church and professed to be Christians. They think they can fool God but He will not be mocked.
Quite to the contrary the narcissist hates people trying to keep them from being independent. This prompts the codependent to become hypervigilant with their so-called independence which is usually some kind of triangulation scheme.
i don’t wish revenge on a narcissist. there's no need - my survival and success without them validates that they failed to destroy me, and proves they were the bottleneck in my progress all along. narcs already have to live with themselves everyday, and that's quite a punishment on its own. they hate themselves so much that they have to present a false image of themselves to the world. BUT what i do WISH for, is that eventually the narc will be forced to self-reflect, and confront all the times they did other people wrong. that would be painful. they would need a seismograph to measure the impact of the narcissist collapse as a result. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
I totally agree with you, however, from my own observations: Self reflection will never happen for a narcissist. And even if it did, they will never ever feel remorse. Glad we all got out.🎉
I've been listening to NDE testimonies. Many speak of a life review where all of a sudden you're the other person feeling what it felt like when you spoke harshly, whatever. That review is likely to be 10-fold for Narcs. My prayer for the elderly N in my life is that he makes peace with God, and that he experience peace, happiness, contentment and joy while still here. He's never experienced that. His whole life was fraught with traumas, stress, anxiety and anger. He doesn't know real Love. His whole miserable life has been a punishment. He's mad at God and jealous of people who "have it easy".
Ex narc became seriously sick and diagnosed with diabetes and stage III kidney failure months after I left him. He was diagnosed with colorectal cancer a few months after that. He wasted away and died withing 5 years of my leaving. While we were together he was strong and healthy and I was sick with autoimmune hypothyroidism (Hashimoto's), I had chronic migraines, painful uterine fibroids, chronic fatigue, imflammation, etc... went into remission almost immediately when I moved out. When I left, I got better and he got sick and died. I take no pleasure in this, but I'm not upset.
You are so right about their bitterness. They're jealous, and in ways that no normal human gets jealous. Theirs is a seething hatred. They're jealous of us just being us. In whatever capacity our relationship with them is, they're jealous. They hate us with no reason except that they don't have what we're born with. We aren't narcissists - the opposite, in fact. And they can't take it from us, berate it out of us, or make us give it up.
It's not normal jealousy. I'm very confused by it. This is what I keep asking myself. It keeps me stuck. I've always been a problem solver, and this is what keeps me stuck. God grant me Grace to just close it❤
@@livelife5890 And they will behave towards you in a manner that enables them to project that seething anger into you so that you begin to feel and act out in anger towards them (whether you hide it inside or not). And keeping it inside as I have done is starting to cause immune system problems, enabling pathogens to attack me. I believe these things are all connected to the narc. They are toxic. Even the Bible tells us that. In the parable of the wheat (normal human empaths) and the tares (toxic imposters who appear human on the outside). Wheat is a good and wholesome plant. Tares are poisonous weeds that take over the wheat crop and look just like wheat until maturity (of the wheat). Then the tare becomes visible.
You are so right! They do rely on everyone else but themselves while most of us had no choice but to be on our own for the most part. I only want to thrive, be healthy, have inner peace, be free and successful
I was 16, and the narcissist who groomed me was 21. We were together for almost 10 years and have 2 kids together. When I look back, it makes me feel sick about everything that occurred. I had no one to protect me, I was just a kid.
You were really young, girl! You were really young and I understand there was no one to guide you, parents aren't aware of everything that's going on in their child's life and we feel helpless when we are stuck in a situation later. I really think Indian parents should have a healthy and open conversation w. Their child about his/her relationship. But they don't. We rather hide everything. I just want to say one thing, as much as your partner may try, have supportive friends, good company, people you can depend on, not just for an emergency of some sort, but for your personal growth in life. Take care. 🩷
I'm very Saturnian, karma often works quickly on those who have wronged me. I have learned to discard my desire for revenge with a simple statement "I hope they get all the karma they deserve"
No disrespect but you're lucky. My Mil is still hell on earth 😒 Absolutely awful human being. If you don't mind me asking does your partner have any narcissistic traits? Did he realise how evil she was or did he defend her?
Their anxiety thru the roof and the chronic dissatisfaction is the best revenge & how you make peace with the fact you’re in peace now… and they never will be. Mentally spiritually and physically, they are falling apart
True, for those narcissists outside of your family however for those closer to you such as mother, father, uncles, aunties and cousins... You don't want your mother/father to feel that even if they made you feel like crap for 30+yrs
They’re not a punishment but a lesson. A hard lesson. Never again is the first lesson. Then from here you realize a lot of things about yourself, about them, and a lot more things about life itself.
Yes it’s important to understand that narcissists automatically destroy theirself. But as Dr Ramani said « sometimes bad angels win in this worlds and good angels lose ». The most important is the Time. Dont lose your time with bad angels.
Yes the old life isn't fair... I prefer writing cut your losses count your blessings, getting away is key as is looking forward but also back enough as not to be caught in their snares 🕸, narcs take your energy being in their prisons, they've no life of their own thus after ours, many of their critiques are actually none of their business!😊
I broke up with a narcissistic man who nearly broke me. I was love bombed, and gaslighting occurred, along with future faking. It was clearly a trauma bond. When I broke free he followed me to another state and began stalking me. I was able to get a protection order thank goodness, but it has been really hard to move on. I have been in therapy three times. Today's video is so helpful to me. I am so grateful for you sharing your experience and advice. The entire ordeal for me shook my faith and self confidence to the core. Thank you for your videos. This message has struck a chord and I needed to hear it. I am deeply sorry you went through it in your family dynamics.
@kathrynyates4446: I had trouble breaking my trauma bond with a narcissistic boyfriend. I listened to subliminal videos on You Tube which really worked, especially one entitled Midnight Elixir//Instant Detachment + Positive Energy by Enchanted Workshop which was 1:56 sec. The other one I liked was Detach from a Specific Person, about 20 min., both were fantastic for detaching. If you need further help to break the trauma bond, key in subliminals to Break the Trauma Bond. There are some subliminal videos designed just for this. Some repetition daily will go deep into the subconscious mind to help you heal quickly. You are a rock, stronger than you know!!!!!!
@@royaltiara He did neither. He tried to unalive me three times. I should have been a headline in the newspaper. It’s only by the grace of God that I’m still here.It’s not happiness, just relief that it’s over.
@@cindymccafferty8346you were indeed protected. You're special. The enemy of our souls uses ppl to try to get to us. Glad you are free now. I am not. Please pray for me. Sending you love and healing vibes. May your recovery be swift.
💯 Yes, so true. That’s exactly what happened to me after surviving a narcissist. I prayed to God asking why this punishment happened to me & the narc lives their life to the fullest & I have to suffer the aftermath of it. When was justice going to be served? It was that traumatizing for me. And I think it was more traumatizing because it came from a person that didn’t seem like the type of person to do this. But there were red flags 🚩 that I did not piece together, until after I realized that I was dealing with a monster disguised as an angel.
It’s especially hard when they never take any responsibility after putting you through so much hell- they get away with terroristic acts and try to kill your spirit . But the fact that they so nonchalantly act as if they never harmed you and could really care less can get your blood boiling . The only thing you can do is give it to God and pray for healing.❤
Danish so sorry you had to suffer with family, i am glad you broke free and gained knowledge to deal with this problem, thank you for helping others to see the light..🙂
@AnnaBurns. Beautifully and brilliantly put. I love it. You've just explained God's brilliancy of commanding mankind to let go of self-vindicating to Him. Indirectly, one is demonstrating forgiveness without much effort.
Some things are unforgivable. Beyond the pale. My Narcissist destroyed my entire life just because I wanted a divorce. He didn’t. He took my career, portrayed me so often as a homicidal-maniac people began to believe it. 30 years later. I’m not dead and nor is my daughter. But I am ruined.
@@erinpeterson9489 release that pain to God. Choose to forgive because God Almighty said so. Let God deal with him and heal you simultaneously for He's able. You're His property and the apple of His eyes. He cares for you. He wants to deal with him but awaits you to start the journey of forgiving him. Healing is going to take time but help yourself by forgiving. You're allowing yourself to let go and heal as well. You matter a lot to God . Please, choose to matter to self and to your daughter too. Only God can mend your shuttered soul. Allow Him, please.
@@erinpeterson9489you are still the real winner, and please don’t you forget that. We can replace things we’ve lost, and jobs, and money, friends, … but there’s only one you. And you survived ❤
Your comparison to a ghost was right. Narcissists are hungry ghosts. They devour everything, can't absorb any of it because there's nothing to them, so they're always hungry.
I got physically attacked by younger angry lil bro. He started the day saying he was hungry I ended the conversation talking about ghosts who were never there in the first place and will soon disappear. No contact confirmed from now on
You have been such a big help for me and I want to help you in return. I see the burden of pain you still carry, but it's time to let the pain go my friend. The worst thing you can do to someone is ignore them just act like they never existed. You are a survivor and you helped me and many people. You are loved unconditionally beyond measure and you are thriving. Just imagine how much the narcissist that we faced would hate to see us shine. So I say to you shine bright my friend, find peace and happiness and know that your success and joy brings the narcissist you faced, great unhappiness. They are broken and I don't hate my narcissistic mother anymore. She died alone and she traumatized me but she is who I feel sorry for because I refuse to feel sorry for myself anymore. You empowered me and I want to empower you. I see your sadness and I want to tell you you are beautiful and worthy of many great things. Thank you for being our champion and God bless you.
I am pleased to hear this was not a 'God will strike them dead' kind of chat. Thank you for a clear presentation of this topic. For those who have indeed suffered horribly, some might desire some smiting if not some justice, but your answer is an answer that gives peace no matter what the outcome. God does as He is, it is no accident I heard this today. Was it Hemmingway who said, "Never argue with a fool, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"? None of us is God, He has the last say. Protect yourself and do what you must to survive, but allow God to sort them out. That is not our burden to carry, it is theirs and theirs alone. They can deal with God about their own character in the same manner each of us has to be in a place of peace with this. The Lord says "Vengeance is Mine", we best leave that to Him lest we get caught up in the smiting ourselves. He is not an evil narcissist, He always disciplines towards correction. It will take more grace than any of us can afford and remain alive, He can handle them just fine without our help. Don't force 'your will', stroll into His.
Narcissists are severely wounded people carrying loads of trauma baggage, more like wounded cornered animals than human beings. And this i believe is what makes them highly dangerous.
Danish, I have no words to thank you 😊 I have watch so many videos about justice, about God, about narcissism, about things that happen, not just with narcissism, but things that happen so unfairly. But you reflect everything you say as if God has put it in you, in your mouth, may God bless you, Danish. ✝️🙏 I am so proud of you. You could have been a dirty, vengeful person and could have been so dark, but you shine with God. You shine with love. You shine with healing others. I am so moved. I just feel like I needed this right now for myself, but I know that many in the world are treated unfairly. Not just unfairly, but many by poverty, many by lost children, lost loved ones. So much injustice happens in the world. Watching these videos you make. I could write ten hundred pages about how talented you are, how good you are. Thank you so much for existing. Thank you so much that God has healed you. Thank you for the path you have walked. You are a role model. May God bless you and may His peace be upon you for life. I am so proud of you and to know you. Thank you, thank you so much. ❤
BEAUTIFULLY SAID SARA ! In all honesty I was just about to say very much the same as you have said. But you did it perfectly ... better than I ever could have. I have watched Danish a long time too & have grown to respect him more & more ! He is a good man with a BEAUTIFUL soul, who has helped countless people and given them advice, hope & comfort. Thank you Danish, we love you 💕
I know, right?! He could have just as easily turned to the dark side…..as we all could have. How is it that we chose the light, instead of choosing the dark, like the narcissists, in order to cope in life? THIS is what I have been wondering……what does it take in an individual to choose right over wrong, when they have been maliciously abused? The narcissist, I have read, is abused too…..but, they choose to become an abuser, instead of choosing to be kind. Why? What is it in each of us that makes this difference? Is it something from birth?
Danish you are divine soul.who is helping countless sufferer by aNarcin different roles..as spouse, parents n siblings etc...this type of rotten person is a sinner whose torture is beyond tolerance for a gentle person like us...but divine justice is here on this earth... according you they will get punishment in different ways... they will die all alone..
@@sudhashukla8149…..Maybe it’s just my soft side, but I wouldn’t wish dying alone on anyone. Dying alone even happens to what people term ‘good people’. Dying alone, I wouldn’t think, is good for anyone.
Perfect timing for this video!!! Yesterday, I found out, from reliable person, that ex narc has had a stroke. And moving to a nursing home. I've never wished harm , or wanted revenge to the narc. God works in mysterious ways!!!! I'm kinda tripping on this news/!!!
Ha ha, my ex boyfriend went onto incredibly slandering me, hung out with mom's cult family/my siblings, married my old bf which was sick as they were both desperate and on the rebound, onto her having a miscarriage (she blamed it on my bro and his wife who'd given them pre-born baby stuff this jinxing them but hasn't he stolen from me too I discovered later on...) And then divorcing after 2 kids... I knew they didn't make a good couple but getting to slander me was well worth whatever to them I'm sure... Seeing him yrs later at a restaurant and his girlfriend unbearably ugly,.no really...
My ex narcissist is on life support. I prayed to God to protect my kids because I can't anymore. I left him and I forever felt selfish for leaving him because his contact with our kids would be with court not me which I fought for a year but the court was going in his favour which was going to put my kids at risk. I continued to pray. God took control, God sees everything. Stay strong, humble and realistic with your boundaries. Sending love
I guess our lesson is to learn how to give without giving ourselves away. Tough lesson to learn when you are a giver. Our value system is different than others.
@@SunnyDays70s Yes, this sounds' more like the plight of the victim, not the narc. I think there are somes narcs hiding in this comment section and sowing confusion.
With a narcissist for 37 years (13 months free.) Saw him 2 weeks ago & he was a shell of what he was when he left me & looked so much older.He was definitely suffering! I didn’t think I’d see him alive again, so I gave him a hug & wished him all the best. Pity is all I have for him.
My mum has been suffering for 38 yrs with my narcissistic dad. And I successfully somehow managed to get her to leave him temporarily move out to her parents house . She wants to go back but is scared. I know that he will torture her for the rest of her life which would be very short if she goes back…. We belong to this South Indian community who stupidly think it’s not right to divorce after at this age.. 🤯 I want to save her from this marriage .. but she won’t let me 😟
My mother, my ex husband, and my middle child have all ripped my heart out with their cruel comments and gaslighting. Now that I know better I can do better! Thanks sincerely
@@stevec3892they project their evil onto you. Ignore them. I know that it hurts though. But be the bigger better person BC they will suffer in the end. They're just to blind to see it.
@@stevec3892They tried to destroy you but they failed to.Fill yourself with peace love and gratitude for surviving these demons that these ppl have.Congrats for making it through the pain. They will reap what they sow. Misery and anguish.
You Make us Know we Re Not crazy and that our pain is justified. I suffered so mucha Nd was even asking myself why I had to suffer yet himself he lives a life of affluent the life we created .at times I used to feel like going to take back my properties and claim my share but realized I don't need ..one day I shall overcome the struggle .for now I am happy and content in my small cube
My cruel narcissist mother drew me in the arms of God the Father. The Lord was my Father and my Mother. Yes He adopted me. Thank you for your channel. May you be blessed.
My narcissist is lonely, no matter how many people are surrounding her. Her hunger can't ever be quelched. I tried. And at some point I understood, I don't need to suffer with her. The lord has set me free after showing me the truth. ^^
@@streaming5332 She can't be helped. She's stuck in a trauma loop. Can't process. She's basically emotionally disabled to get out of the pain. Hence nothing anyone ever does helps. The only one qualified to break her out of this is God.
The narcissist and the codependent both suffer from extreme abandonment and rejection issues. I think the codependent which is the partner of the narcissist is probably worse off than the narcissist himself. The narcissist never feels alone until the very end.. the codependent has felt alone from the first day he was abandoned.
Law of Karma is very strict. Cause & Effect system works accordingly without any doubt. If You are peaceful within, then Your life state is soo high that nothing can disturb You. That's the only way one can deal with these disturbing situations. This video brings immense positivity & hope. Gratitude 🙏
I know that my narcissistic ex wife could never sit still and once she lost control over me, her anxiety went through the roof and she started having major heart palpitations to the point where she had to go on medication. The more distance that came between us, the better I felt and the worse she felt. I know that wishing bad things on others isn't a good thing, but it was glorious to watch her literally make herself sick and destroy herself. It isn't vengeance, it is returning the favor.
This comment is very disturbing. There are always two in these equations The narcissist and the codependent. The codependent is probably just as bad as the narcissist. Both of these parties suffer immensely when they separate as they were in a codependent relationship. Both suffer anxiety and sickness due to their very sick give and take. They are magnetically bound to one another. Remember finding pleasure in someone else's misery will come back. Also remember that the narcissist as well as the codependent were both very badly abused as small children This is why they ended up in this magnetic relationship to begin with. There is never just a narcissist and a victim there's a narcissist and a codependent who both service each other. The narcissist destroys others before they destroy themselves and the codependent destroys themselves before they destroy others. They are equally sick.
You are an absolute treasure and wealth of knowledge. THANK YOU for showing us we can heal. We can love. We can have peace. We can grow. Blessing be unto you.
Danish, it sounds like you have been chosen by a higher power to be the cycle breaker for your family. Going no contact takes a lot of courage and I respect you for being able to do that.
Take the wind from their sails and give them no floor to stand on. They will rage and starve out. Silence is the route. Without our attention, they cannot survive.
This scapegoat just wishes that my family would recognize I'm not the bad guy but it helps them to feel better about themselves to paint me as a villain. It was validating to hear my therapist say I'm lucky to have survived my childhood. I do wish ill will towards the abusive narc i dated and after I broke it off he married my bf so he could use her to buy a house. He is living his best life ensnaring single mom after single mom with his disgusting wicked ways. I pray justice comes for him.
My whole family is a bunch of narcs and flying monkeys your not alone may God get revenge for all of us and expose their real face and intentions and the evil they have done to people Amen 🙏🏻
Spiritually, I feel narcissists are there to stop your spiritual progress, some souls are here trying to work on attaining Moksha from the death and rebirth cycle. The narcissist is an agent that works for the dark side, for their achievements in blocking your growth they get rewards, therefore they have get the success, money, friendship they want easily (they also are bathing in your energy that helps them take away your power & life force and they steal your destiny basically) Some narcissists, start to gain spiritual gifts that was once yours. Narcissistic survivors also pass away alone because they have been robbed, cheated and had their spirit broken by a narcissist/s that they find it hard to reach out and trust anyone again.
I also feel entry of narcissistic people in our life is to teach us a lesson spiritually.. They make us remember to stand for rightousness inside our cobsiousness There main aim is to distract us from our path , create hurdles in our journey so that we can fight back against evil and be out as winner and more stronger than before.
@@shivangisikka9109 It's not so easy to fight when you are so drained of energy and tired right down to a soul level, that your thoughts are not clear even to yourself
Thank you so much, Danish. My childhood haunts me, and your videos help me to put it into perspective. This talk is especially on point, as my narcissistic mother's life is ending in an utterly bitter way. I am completely amazed when she asks me for help, as she was incredibly abusive to me my whole life. I'm finally able to find some peace and am now reconnecting with family members who had to keep their distance due to her berating comments and behavior. Thank you for guiding us through; you are a beautiful human being, helpful to all of us. 🙏❤️
Thank you. This was a random click for me. I was going to continue with my day but I had to stop and listen. I believe God will tell you things through others when it’s needed. And I feel I needed this. Thank you.
My husband and I both have wounds from his narc mother and family. I’m hoping and praying that we can heal; and that maybe we can see the good that comes from that pain? Thank you for helping Danish
These challenges help us to become more discerning and wise. I think we use our suffering to become more wise, kind, patient, tolerant, and mature. You are very strong and wise if You can break that cycle.
I am slowly regaining my confidence after being in this toxic relationship for years. Looking for a job so that I can set myself free. I wish all of us could set ourselves free.
Danish, I'm so sorry to hear that a lot of your family members are narcissists. I can relate as I have a few in my family as well. I do have a few siblings that are not though and I am extremely thankful for them. You truly are helping thousands of people and are a blessing to many. THANK YOU!!!
1. May God continue to reveal the mechanisms of healing from trauma to you, so that you can continue to help more people. 2. May your new relationships be healthy and keep you from being what you hate. 3. imo-narcs get to keep being awful and rotten until God says, I gave you all the chances to repent and you kept choosing evil-now you get the fruit of your choices. 😢and it's never pretty-nor anything that someone with an iota of compassion would wish another person (even a bad one) to experience. and just like another commenter stated, sometimes bad angels win-that's only because someone lets them (usually the bad choice person). I've talked to some of these people. They really have faith that evil is more powerful-so it is-over them. What you feed, grows stronger. But God's goodnesses are not so weak nor powerless. A pastor preached on this once and it made sense-the doors we exercise opening create a dominion of easier openings around us. What will you open? -Blessings!
I'm blessed to see ALL the narcissists who abused me get the highest form of righteous judgment from the universe. One lost her entire family and kids. One dropped dead at work. She abused and used me (and others) terribly. Upper management knew but did nothing. God did. A roommate threatened to kill me. I left. A year later he had a stroke (from coke) and was in a wheelchair 15 years before death. Most others have met similar fates. Did I wish it on them specifically? No. My prayer was always that that "may the universe visit those who have hurt me and others be judged by the highest form of righteous judgment as the universe sees fit. That way as he said here God makes the decision what is right and just. Because there may be extenuating circumstances that I can't see. So I wouldn't want to wish specific ill on someone who's bad behavior was caused by something I couldn't see. Great video.
Your talk was very enlightening. I saw this happen with a narcissist mother-in-law who made our lives hell with her arrogance and self importance and how her life ended. Her son is still carrying on her legacy with his wife and children and sees her as an angel he must follow. Your name is accurate. Aap ek danishmand insaan hai
You have helped me so much. I could not voice my traumas to anyone because they would not understand. I was a victim of a narcissist. I finally divorced him when I was 31 and am now 76. I still live with the trauma. My husband is very friendly and everyone loves him. Many in my family have told me to just do what he wants and all will be OK. I could not defend myself, no one would understand. I have distanced myself from most of my family.
Thank you so much Danish, I needed to hear this today…I too have a father that is a narcissist & I experienced physical & emotional abuse, my entire childhood. Then I married my husband, who is a narcissist too. For a long time, I cried & would ask myself what did I ever do in life to deserve this?? Now I know the truth, God has opened my eyes, & I’m getting ready to file for divorce. I hope to live the rest of my years in peace…
My partner of 34 years comes from a family of narcissists. I never even knew what that was, as I grew up with low self esteem and thought they were so above me. It has taken. Me many years to realize how unhealthy they are, emotionally shallow and empty. I would happily go… no contact. It’s just not that simple. 🙏🏻
The truth is, they are far below us. They are a lesser species. We are made in God's image and God is loving and kind. They are made in their father's image, the Serpent who is a liar and a manipulator.
Hi danish.।।। I have suffered from narcissism since childhood.।।। Every single person of my family has some of it.।।।। Your videos helped me a lot.।। Before you I didn't know about narcissism.।।। Although I am in contact with them but it's very rare. I am peaceful now and I really don't care anymore.
My mother has always been explaining this point. I know that my soon to be ex husband and his family( narcissistic bunch) are not at peace. However this torments that society still thinks he is doing good and I am the one who should have adjusted for mere breadcrumbs. I am lucky to have supportive parents and managed to restart my career. Only regret my daughter stayed back with my ex, she might be a narcissist too.
Unsatisfied and untrustworthy are the only two that apply to narcs. The rest applies to their targets of abuse (empaths) who are indeed waiting for their JUSTICE from God.
I told my friend the same thing and she called me I m exaggerating it but I'm not actually she literally called me that. But I knew that I'm right and these feelings are validation. So that's it I'm healing doing great and I'm happy thank you Danish love you so much for all your work
I love that you include spirituality. During the worst of the abuse I turned to Buddhism. It brought me so much peace. When I settled for a year I went to a Christian church. I felt like I was in another narc relationship at that church. The constant need to worship and please the unpleasable. I was to worship a being that caused men to kill their own sons and have horrible things done to their daughters. I have had a great deal of problems with that. I believe that there is Karma. With every seed they take from someone, it will never grow. When they change the direction of the stream for their garden depriving another person the water for their own garden, the earth will swallow the water. They have no fertilizer to grow a garden because the animals will not go near for they see the true nature of that narcissist. The garden will never prosper. While future generations of the good people thrive from the beautiful garden there will be nothing but dried and dead earth. Nothing can grow from nothing. Even trying to break nature to make it will not work. I can’t forgive my ex. I can accept it. I can move on. I hope someday a person may come and enjoy the small garden that I left for them. That garden will mean that I once walked the earth. That I must have been good to have a small garden. When people walk past the scorched earth they will think nothing. Isn’t that what a narcissist is though, nothing.
It IS divine intervention when when you are gifted the gift of clarity and discernment regarding these people. The programming and guilt and shame is usually so thorough that most are never awaken to malignant narcissists. It is a tough reality to come to and God delivers the clarity when and only when you are able to process, learn and accept what was done to you. It is a very harsh reality to learn. But I assure you, when it does come it brings peace and in time it delivers you from the guilt and shame and trauma bonding that they weaponized against you for a lifetime. It is freedom.
It is so easy for us to just want to take revenge on other people, but the Lord God Almighty, never slumbers. So far, what we need to do is take care of ourselves. Recognize the dysfunction and the pray that the Lord Almighty God will open the eyes of those who are DECEIVED. We need get health ourselves you no matter what…we do be a part of what the devil wants and that is chaos and confusion and division and circular crazy dysfunctional patterns. The Lord will for sure WILL deal with the situation. Thank you Danish ALWAYS For your dear heart and your videos, and we absolutely love you here. God bless you. From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA
Reincarnation is a demonic deception that seems real and fools those without Biblical knowledge. The way it works is the familiar spirit of a french knight from 1741 enters a newborn baby from 2020 that does not speak french (or enters it in the womb). When the baby is a few years old it starts speaking french and telling things that happened back in 1741. The demon gives it a false memory of something that really happened but not to them. No reincarnation. Just another lie from the father of lies.
I believe in The Bible., and what is in the end for Christians- who love Jesus; and what's in the end for non-Christians those who hate Him. They will suffer unless they repent from their sins and come back to Him.
'In the mirror of thee I see me' Your description of your ecperience is almost exactly my own, but my inheritence is from the maternal side rather than the paternal. Love my mother, but have said that my father deserves a medal for sticking with her to the end. God bless him.
One may even be tempted to reply a conversation with a narcissist where you've went no contact to see how they're doing but you already know the answer. But the chances of replying are close to zero as the reason you went no contact was because of the lack of responsibility, accountability and zero remorse. They would reach out again as if it's a brand new day and all the harm they caused you never happened. I'm glad I educated myself fully to not fall into their games and tactics. I trust in higher power and God to do the balancing while I focus on my peace and evolution. Therefore, I stand firm with no contact despite all these new messages from new addresses. The narc is already on the 3rd email account in a span of 1 year no contact. I never replied once. Block and delete.
Exactly they just try to change ur mind with fake hopes, blame-game, being a victim, apologies. Also trying to triangulate with others and flyingbmonkey enablers. Just don't entertain them whatsoever, they're devils!!
Don't respond. They despise that as they're entitled (filled with pride) with the belief that you're supposed to allow them to objectify you as their property to abuse. The only interest is in winning.
My mother is narcissistic I had suffered a lot I had lost hope and I think that my pain never end but what you told all things are real, so I feel relief and all that thing you told in this video are real and I had experience it and you give me a life to leave and potential. Thankyou very much.
Danish.. ur the only person who validate my anger sufferings nd confusion not even my mom or my sister or my whole family .. it fuels me a lot as a survivor. Thank you brother ❤ May god bless u❤ Reach out to more ppl...❤
It is believed in Hinduism and Buddhism that after death the soul finds new body and takes rebirth according to their previous life karma,all good and bad karma come back to the person in the form of happiness and sorrow and in this way justice is done
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@@pkarthikkumar5934
they just want attention- no matter what they have to do to get it… they will use ANYONE just to occupy their time
it’s nothing u did/it’s not ur fault💜
i hope this helps🤗
appreciate your work, and respect what youve been through and that you decided to help others! I wanted to ask you if you are muslim ?
@narcabusecoach
god does it to all our narcissm then...noone can deny his narcside
They are Here to play the negative part of God's Plan , this is testing time , who do you follow? theres a spiritual war happening now, between Truth vrs Deception. Who do you follow ? Don't be Deceived, Christ Foretold us All Things and how not t be Deceived.
"Have Yee Not Read?"
What do narcissists deserve?
To be surrounded by people exactly like themselves, who treat them like they treat others.
The mirror might help them repent before it is too late to do so.
Bingo
No.god.please.narcs attract narcs.and they are happy as hell with themselves and seeing in other narcs their self inflated ego gets even more inflated
My mother was nars. and she lost her mind at the end and died pretty much alone. Everyone she depended on, left her.
@@AysenGuler369-zs1om that’s what’s happening to my father in law, he’s did a lot for him but you have your breaking point. I feel bad that we’ve left him to his own devices but when a person wants to be served and refuses to help themselves and just uses you…?
" For what shall a man profit, if he gains the whole world, but loses his soul?" Mark :8:36
I don't think you could lose something that you do not possess or do not have narcissists do not have a soul they are demons in the flesh they are demons on Earth.
Very powerful words, full of wisdom. Don´t fear the first death, but the second one.
@@damianlopez7630They don’t have a soul, because they have already lost it. We need to pray to God that this doesn’t let this happen to us.
The one thing the devil is after is your soul. But he can’t have it.
He can only have someone’s soul if they give it to him. Then he buys it.
Sadly, many narcissists have sold their soul to the devil.
What's your point?
Yeah..very heavy words..😊..
The Bible says that you will reap what you sow.
😊true 👍 🙌 👏 👌 well said.
May be we are reaping...god send them to teach us lessons and our karma ..
Danish many people suffer in the end even empath...what is difference atleast marcissist enjoys whole.life
@naveengulati7745 Sometimes, we are tested to see how we will be. It is no fault of a child if they are born into horrific circumstances or have bad guardians. The ones that can overcome these things will be blessed.
Whennnnnnn..... after they see our smoke
It's not about you. It's about the narcissist and who they are.
Cruel and evil, so they abuse others, to feel good about themselves, but they still remain miserable because they can not change.
No, they will not change.
The amount and kind of abuse they dump on others is a perfect reflection of how much they suffer inside. It's an attempt to offset their internal pain.
@@ktkt1825I applaud you for your comment. You are right!
@@lisaborsella5412 Thank you- when we first met, I saw but did not understand her internal issues and thought they would pass. Little did I know how she would turn them on me.
And lies they lie to everyone about us trying to look like a hero a savior because they want honor and respect and to be a hero that they don’t deserve to be. They want the title of hero but yet they are the villain
God is not mocked; whatever a man sows that also shall he reap.
Galatians 6:7-9
That's right. The one I dated and the one my cousin dated both attended church and professed to be Christians.
They think they can fool God but He will not be mocked.
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In Hebrews 10:30..the Lord says "vengeance is mine; I will repay."
He does.
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Also Roman's chapter 12.
Amen
Amen
They hate your independence.
They do not give up trying to take your independence away from you
Quite to the contrary the narcissist hates people trying to keep them from being independent. This prompts the codependent to become hypervigilant with their so-called independence which is usually some kind of triangulation scheme.
And happiness.
And authenticity
And ability to Love.
i don’t wish revenge on a narcissist. there's no need - my survival and success without them validates that they failed to destroy me, and proves they were the bottleneck in my progress all along.
narcs already have to live with themselves everyday, and that's quite a punishment on its own. they hate themselves so much that they have to present a false image of themselves to the world.
BUT what i do WISH for, is that eventually the narc will be forced to self-reflect, and confront all the times they did other people wrong. that would be painful.
they would need a seismograph to measure the impact of the narcissist collapse as a result.
cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
I totally agree with you, however, from my own observations: Self reflection will never happen for a narcissist. And even if it did, they will never ever feel remorse. Glad we all got out.🎉
I've been listening to NDE testimonies. Many speak of a life review where all of a sudden you're the other person feeling what it felt like when you spoke harshly, whatever. That review is likely to be 10-fold for Narcs. My prayer for the elderly N in my life is that he makes peace with God, and that he experience peace, happiness, contentment and joy while still here. He's never experienced that. His whole life was fraught with traumas, stress, anxiety and anger. He doesn't know real Love. His whole miserable life has been a punishment. He's mad at God and jealous of people who "have it easy".
I think only God in heaven can change a narsisist.
@@zvw444x3zefa
Exactly right.. theiy are a meatsuit...
Nothing more...
Get-away, Stay the F Away!!! ❤🙏
I want to know one thing..what about their sexual thoughts(female narcissist)..they want only attention or they want to use a boy physically ????
Healers need healing too. The way your pain surfaces in these videos is evident. May God Heal you and all of us. Hats off! Keep going.
God really does have the best sense of humor while He dispenses poetic justice
All we have to do is nothing
1 John 3:16, "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us." There is room for redemption.
Amen
@@nunyabizness3890only if they want it
Amen 🙏🙏
@@nunyabizness3890 Maybe that's why God allows most narcs to live into their 80s and above.
Ex narc became seriously sick and diagnosed with diabetes and stage III kidney failure months after I left him. He was diagnosed with colorectal cancer a few months after that. He wasted away and died withing 5 years of my leaving. While we were together he was strong and healthy and I was sick with autoimmune hypothyroidism (Hashimoto's), I had chronic migraines, painful uterine fibroids, chronic fatigue, imflammation, etc... went into remission almost immediately when I moved out. When I left, I got better and he got sick and died. I take no pleasure in this, but I'm not upset.
I can understand why you're not upset. It's perfectly fine.
Like Sonya said above, it's perfectly okay that you're not upset.
How are you currently doing if you don't mind me asking?
They really are vampires or parasites.
Ex narc… hahaha!❤
@@lisaborsella5412😂
They never change!
Its the nature of the beast
Right. Whoever digs a pit falls into it. Whoever rolls a stone, it will roll back on him, or her.
From your lips to our gracious Lord!
You are so right about their bitterness. They're jealous, and in ways that no normal human gets jealous. Theirs is a seething hatred. They're jealous of us just being us. In whatever capacity our relationship with them is, they're jealous. They hate us with no reason except that they don't have what we're born with. We aren't narcissists - the opposite, in fact. And they can't take it from us, berate it out of us, or make us give it up.
Right !
It's not normal jealousy. I'm very confused by it. This is what I keep asking myself. It keeps me stuck. I've always been a problem solver, and this is what keeps me stuck. God grant me Grace to just close it❤
Well said ! Seething is right.
It's true
@@livelife5890 And they will behave towards you in a manner that enables them to project that seething anger into you so that you begin to feel and act out in anger towards them (whether you hide it inside or not). And keeping it inside as I have done is starting to cause immune system problems, enabling pathogens to attack me. I believe these things are all connected to the narc. They are toxic. Even the Bible tells us that. In the parable of the wheat (normal human empaths) and the tares (toxic imposters who appear human on the outside). Wheat is a good and wholesome plant. Tares are poisonous weeds that take over the wheat crop and look just like wheat until maturity (of the wheat). Then the tare becomes visible.
You are so right! They do rely on everyone else but themselves while most of us had no choice but to be on our own for the most part.
I only want to thrive, be healthy, have inner peace, be free and successful
---AND add compassion and caring. Yeah. The genuine stuff. YOU will be the greatest benefactor!
May one almighty God, give you all that
I was 16, and the narcissist who groomed me was 21. We were together for almost 10 years and have 2 kids together. When I look back, it makes me feel sick about everything that occurred. I had no one to protect me, I was just a kid.
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You effed up too! Take the responsibility!
@@seminolewind158 .....that remark is giving real predator vibes.
Same girl he's was was 21 and me 16 but luckily I broke up with him after 2 years , I'm so sorry for u but atleast u took a step back andu r free now💝
You were really young, girl! You were really young and I understand there was no one to guide you, parents aren't aware of everything that's going on in their child's life and we feel helpless when we are stuck in a situation later. I really think Indian parents should have a healthy and open conversation w. Their child about his/her relationship. But they don't. We rather hide everything. I just want to say one thing, as much as your partner may try, have supportive friends, good company, people you can depend on, not just for an emergency of some sort, but for your personal growth in life. Take care. 🩷
I'm very Saturnian, karma often works quickly on those who have wronged me. I have learned to discard my desire for revenge with a simple statement "I hope they get all the karma they deserve"
Recently, my narcissist MIL died. She died the same way. I felt nothing when she died. No one did. She absolutely had no regret for what she has done.
No disrespect but you're lucky.
My Mil is still hell on earth 😒 Absolutely awful human being.
If you don't mind me asking does your partner have any narcissistic traits? Did he realise how evil she was or did he defend her?
Their anxiety thru the roof and the chronic dissatisfaction is the best revenge & how you make peace with the fact you’re in peace now… and they never will be. Mentally spiritually and physically, they are falling apart
True, for those narcissists outside of your family however for those closer to you such as mother, father, uncles, aunties and cousins... You don't want your mother/father to feel that even if they made you feel like crap for 30+yrs
@@fathersunglasses6085 well once you resolve the trauma you won’t feel bonded no more
They’re not a punishment but a lesson. A hard lesson. Never again is the first lesson. Then from here you realize a lot of things about yourself, about them, and a lot more things about life itself.
My lesson was to give less of myself away to those who don't deserve it, and take better care of myself- always.
No, it only taught us to be more callus and distrustful of others. It’s a tragedy not a lesson
Well said 👍👏
@@nocomments5029 If you allow the experience to alter 'who you really are' then the narc has won. Do not let them win.
@@nocomments5029So true👏!!!!
Yes it’s important to understand that narcissists automatically destroy theirself. But as Dr Ramani said « sometimes bad angels win in this worlds and good angels lose ». The most important is the Time. Dont lose your time with bad angels.
Yes the old life isn't fair... I prefer writing cut your losses count your blessings, getting away is key as is looking forward but also back enough as not to be caught in their snares 🕸, narcs take your energy being in their prisons, they've no life of their own thus after ours, many of their critiques are actually none of their business!😊
There are no bad angels only devils and the jins
Don't believe that bad angels win..they lose but you just don't hear bout it..they keep it as secret as possible
I broke up with a narcissistic man who nearly broke me. I was love bombed, and gaslighting occurred, along with future faking. It was clearly a trauma bond. When I broke free he followed me to another state and began stalking me. I was able to get a protection order thank goodness, but it has been really hard to move on. I have been in therapy three times. Today's video is so helpful to me. I am so grateful for you sharing your experience and advice. The entire ordeal for me shook my faith and self confidence to the core. Thank you for your videos. This message has struck a chord and I needed to hear it. I am deeply sorry you went through it in your family dynamics.
Same here
... And now I have trust issues.
The will suck the life that you didn't even know you had out of you! God bless in your new life 🙏 you have a story ✌️
@kathrynyates4446: I had trouble breaking my trauma bond with a narcissistic boyfriend. I listened to subliminal videos on You Tube which really worked, especially one entitled Midnight Elixir//Instant Detachment + Positive Energy by Enchanted Workshop which was 1:56 sec.
The other one I liked was Detach from a Specific Person, about 20 min., both were fantastic for detaching. If you need further help to break the trauma bond, key in subliminals to Break the Trauma Bond. There are some subliminal videos designed just for this. Some repetition daily will go deep into the subconscious mind to help you heal quickly. You are a rock, stronger than you know!!!!!!
You reap what you sow.
Thank you for this. I know that I can live with myself. The narcissist is forced to live with themselves.
I don't mind being by myself but narcissists need constant attention and can't stand being alone.
I love your little cat Danish , he looks so content. He won’t cause you any trouble. He will just love you unconditionally
Lol now I see the little cat ....😊
You reap what you sow. How you make your bed, you lay on it. Karma deals with them everyday. They dont sleep and forever miserable and stuck there
Very true. 💯% correct.
My father died suddenly at age 39. I believe that God took him to protect us.
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Your lucky, i wish mine is dead now cuz he destroy my childhood
You are a cursed child ,you are happy for departing a soul who was ment to love n protect you
@@royaltiara He did neither. He tried to unalive me three times. I should have been a headline in the newspaper. It’s only by the grace of God that I’m still here.It’s not happiness, just relief that it’s over.
@@cindymccafferty8346you were indeed protected. You're special. The enemy of our souls uses ppl to try to get to us. Glad you are free now. I am not. Please pray for me. Sending you love and healing vibes. May your recovery be swift.
You are such a genuine person. Thank you for all of your efforts. ❤
💯 Yes, so true. That’s exactly what happened to me after surviving a narcissist. I prayed to God asking why this punishment happened to me & the narc lives their life to the fullest & I have to suffer the aftermath of it. When was justice going to be served? It was that traumatizing for me. And I think it was more traumatizing because it came from a person that didn’t seem like the type of person to do this. But there were red flags 🚩 that I did not piece together, until after I realized that I was dealing with a monster disguised as an angel.
It’s especially hard when they never take any responsibility after putting you through so much hell- they get away with terroristic acts and try to kill your spirit . But the fact that they so nonchalantly act as if they never harmed you and could really care less can get your blood boiling . The only thing you can do is give it to God and pray for healing.❤
I want to know one thing..Do they target kind hearted people??
@@pkarthikkumar5934 Yes
@@pkarthikkumar5934 Yes, empaths.
@@pkarthikkumar5934Yes.
Let them keep their hatred. Going no contact+ forgiving them is freedom. Thank you for sharing your insight, Danish.
I agree. This is the best healing.
forgive SATAN 🤨 pfft
go no contact sure. forgive SATAN 🤨 fk no
Danish so sorry you had to suffer with family, i am glad you broke free and gained knowledge to deal with this problem, thank you for helping others to see the light..🙂
The hardest thing is to give the revenge to God. That is how you know that you have forgiven them.
@AnnaBurns. Beautifully and brilliantly put. I love it. You've just explained God's brilliancy of commanding mankind to let go of self-vindicating to Him. Indirectly, one is demonstrating forgiveness without much effort.
Some things are unforgivable. Beyond the pale. My Narcissist destroyed my entire life just because I wanted a divorce. He didn’t. He took my career, portrayed me so often as a homicidal-maniac people began to believe it. 30 years later. I’m not dead and nor is my daughter. But I am ruined.
@@erinpeterson9489 release that pain to God. Choose to forgive because God Almighty said so. Let God deal with him and heal you simultaneously for He's able. You're His property and the apple of His eyes. He cares for you. He wants to deal with him but awaits you to start the journey of forgiving him. Healing is going to take time but help yourself by forgiving. You're allowing yourself to let go and heal as well. You matter a lot to God . Please, choose to matter to self and to your daughter too. Only God can mend your shuttered soul. Allow Him, please.
Wow.. yesterday I actually did that! I prayed for God to take it❤ I never realized what that meant- you made me see. Thank you 🙏 😢
@@erinpeterson9489you are still the real winner, and please don’t you forget that. We can replace things we’ve lost, and jobs, and money, friends, … but there’s only one you. And you survived ❤
Your comparison to a ghost was right. Narcissists are hungry ghosts. They devour everything, can't absorb any of it because there's nothing to them, so they're always hungry.
I got physically attacked by younger angry lil bro. He started the day saying he was hungry I ended the conversation talking about ghosts who were never there in the first place and will soon disappear. No contact confirmed from now on
You have been such a big help for me and I want to help you in return. I see the burden of pain you still carry, but it's time to let the pain go my friend. The worst thing you can do to someone is ignore them just act like they never existed. You are a survivor and you helped me and many people. You are loved unconditionally beyond measure and you are thriving. Just imagine how much the narcissist that we faced would hate to see us shine. So I say to you shine bright my friend, find peace and happiness and know that your success and joy brings the narcissist you faced, great unhappiness. They are broken and I don't hate my narcissistic mother anymore. She died alone and she traumatized me but she is who I feel sorry for because I refuse to feel sorry for myself anymore. You empowered me and I want to empower you. I see your sadness and I want to tell you you are beautiful and worthy of many great things. Thank you for being our champion and God bless you.
True! We are really proud of you! You saved us alot by educating us! May GOD heal you more and More!
I am pleased to hear this was not a 'God will strike them dead' kind of chat. Thank you for a clear presentation of this topic. For those who have indeed suffered horribly, some might desire some smiting if not some justice, but your answer is an answer that gives peace no matter what the outcome. God does as He is, it is no accident I heard this today.
Was it Hemmingway who said, "Never argue with a fool, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"? None of us is God, He has the last say. Protect yourself and do what you must to survive, but allow God to sort them out. That is not our burden to carry, it is theirs and theirs alone. They can deal with God about their own character in the same manner each of us has to be in a place of peace with this. The Lord says "Vengeance is Mine", we best leave that to Him lest we get caught up in the smiting ourselves. He is not an evil narcissist, He always disciplines towards correction. It will take more grace than any of us can afford and remain alive, He can handle them just fine without our help. Don't force 'your will', stroll into His.
Narcissists are severely wounded people carrying loads of trauma baggage, more like wounded cornered animals than human beings. And this i believe is what makes them highly dangerous.
Danish, I have no words to thank you 😊
I have watch so many videos about justice, about God, about narcissism, about things that happen, not just with narcissism, but things that happen so unfairly. But you reflect everything you say as if God has put it in you, in your mouth, may God bless you, Danish. ✝️🙏
I am so proud of you. You could have been a dirty, vengeful person and could have been so dark, but you shine with God. You shine with love. You shine with healing others. I am so moved. I just feel like I needed this right now for myself, but I know that many in the world are treated unfairly. Not just unfairly, but many by poverty, many by lost children, lost loved ones. So much injustice happens in the world. Watching these videos you make. I could write ten hundred pages about how talented you are, how good you are.
Thank you so much for existing. Thank you so much that God has healed you. Thank you for the path you have walked. You are a role model. May God bless you and may His peace be upon you for life. I am so proud of you and to know you. Thank you, thank you so much. ❤
BEAUTIFULLY SAID SARA !
In all honesty I was just about to say very much the same as you have said. But you did it perfectly ... better than I ever could have. I have watched Danish a long time too & have grown to respect him more & more ! He is a good man with a BEAUTIFUL soul, who has helped countless people and given them advice, hope & comfort.
Thank you Danish, we love you 💕
I know, right?! He could have just as easily turned to the dark side…..as we all could have. How is it that we chose the light, instead of choosing the dark, like the narcissists, in order to cope in life? THIS is what I have been wondering……what does it take in an individual to choose right over wrong, when they have been maliciously abused? The narcissist, I have read, is abused too…..but, they choose to become an abuser, instead of choosing to be kind. Why? What is it in each of us that makes this difference? Is it something from birth?
Danish you are divine soul.who is helping countless sufferer by aNarcin different roles..as spouse, parents n siblings etc...this type of rotten person is a sinner whose torture is beyond tolerance for a gentle person like us...but divine justice is here on this earth... according you they will get punishment in different ways... they will die all alone..
@@sudhashukla8149…..Maybe it’s just my soft side, but I wouldn’t wish dying alone on anyone. Dying alone even happens to what people term ‘good people’. Dying alone, I wouldn’t think, is good for anyone.
I am proud of you❤️
Perfect timing for this video!!! Yesterday, I found out, from reliable person, that ex narc has had a stroke. And moving to a nursing home. I've never wished harm , or wanted revenge to the narc. God works in mysterious ways!!!! I'm kinda tripping on this news/!!!
Ha ha, my ex boyfriend went onto incredibly slandering me, hung out with mom's cult family/my siblings, married my old bf which was sick as they were both desperate and on the rebound, onto her having a miscarriage (she blamed it on my bro and his wife who'd given them pre-born baby stuff this jinxing them but hasn't he stolen from me too I discovered later on...) And then divorcing after 2 kids... I knew they didn't make a good couple but getting to slander me was well worth whatever to them I'm sure... Seeing him yrs later at a restaurant and his girlfriend unbearably ugly,.no really...
You're so lucky! I do not wish harm on mine, either, but karmicly something has to happen eventually. God please bless me and take my pain away 🙏
My ex narcissist is on life support. I prayed to God to protect my kids because I can't anymore. I left him and I forever felt selfish for leaving him because his contact with our kids would be with court not me which I fought for a year but the court was going in his favour which was going to put my kids at risk. I continued to pray. God took control, God sees everything. Stay strong, humble and realistic with your boundaries. Sending love
@@kimberlylamantia7794yes I pray them 🙏
@@lovelifexx726So happy for you!!!🙏justice
I guess our lesson is to learn how to give without giving ourselves away. Tough lesson to learn when you are a giver. Our value system is different than others.
Wow ,well said...thank you!
Value systems - yes, I would say so.
Grateful to have heard this today, thank you, Danish. 🙏☮️
They become more and more isolated. THE WALLS CLOSE IN CLOSER AND CLOSER AND CLOSER...
The victims are also isolated.
@@SunnyDays70s Yes, this sounds' more like the plight of the victim, not the narc. I think there are somes narcs hiding in this comment section and sowing confusion.
@@reesedaniel5835 Yes.
@@reesedaniel5835 Narcs become as the Grinch, lonely with maybe one flying monkey left, like Max, Grinch's poor dog.
@@SunnyDays70s But victims can/will escape with awareness of the narc, the narc cannot escape their own web. A victim can.
With a narcissist for 37 years (13 months free.)
Saw him 2 weeks ago & he was a shell of what he was when he left me & looked so much older.He was definitely suffering!
I didn’t think I’d see him alive again, so I gave him a hug & wished him all the best.
Pity is all I have for him.
37 years of tolerance!!! I guess he never knew you would quit.
@@sonijacklineotekat7232 He’s the one who quit. He was drunk, & said “I want a separation.” Next day left to work 1,500km away where his gf was.
My mum has been suffering for 38 yrs with my narcissistic dad. And I successfully somehow managed to get her to leave him temporarily move out to her parents house . She wants to go back but is scared. I know that he will torture her for the rest of her life which would be very short if she goes back…. We belong to this South Indian community who stupidly think it’s not right to divorce after at this age.. 🤯 I want to save her from this marriage .. but she won’t let me 😟
My mother, my ex husband, and my middle child have all ripped my heart out with their cruel comments and gaslighting. Now that I know better I can do better! Thanks sincerely
My father sisters and my older daughter . All inherited the narc gene and destroyed me . Yet they turn around and bash me and call me crazy
@@stevec3892they project their evil onto you. Ignore them. I know that it hurts though. But be the bigger better person BC they will suffer in the end. They're just to blind to see it.
@@stevec3892They tried to destroy you but they failed to.Fill yourself with peace love and gratitude for surviving these demons that these ppl have.Congrats for making it through the pain. They will reap what they sow. Misery and anguish.
True they get their share,my narcisstic dad had long lonely life in the end and he realised how demonic he had been
You Make us Know we Re Not crazy and that our pain is justified. I suffered so mucha Nd was even asking myself why I had to suffer yet himself he lives a life of affluent the life we created .at times I used to feel like going to take back my properties and claim my share but realized I don't need ..one day I shall overcome the struggle .for now I am happy and content in my small cube
My cruel narcissist mother drew me in the arms of God the Father. The Lord was my Father and my Mother. Yes He adopted me. Thank you for your channel. May you be blessed.
My narcissist is lonely, no matter how many people are surrounding her. Her hunger can't ever be quelched. I tried.
And at some point I understood, I don't need to suffer with her.
The lord has set me free after showing me the truth. ^^
Well said.
That's nice of you to help a horrible person.
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She can't be helped. She's stuck in a trauma loop. Can't process.
She's basically emotionally disabled to get out of the pain.
Hence nothing anyone ever does helps. The only one qualified to break her out of this is God.
The narcissist and the codependent both suffer from extreme abandonment and rejection issues. I think the codependent which is the partner of the narcissist is probably worse off than the narcissist himself. The narcissist never feels alone until the very end.. the codependent has felt alone from the first day he was abandoned.
@@davidjoshua1075that’s so true.
Law of Karma is very strict. Cause & Effect system works accordingly without any doubt.
If You are peaceful within, then Your life state is soo high that nothing can disturb You.
That's the only way one can deal with these disturbing situations.
This video brings immense positivity & hope.
Gratitude 🙏
I know that my narcissistic ex wife could never sit still and once she lost control over me, her anxiety went through the roof and she started having major heart palpitations to the point where she had to go on medication. The more distance that came between us, the better I felt and the worse she felt. I know that wishing bad things on others isn't a good thing, but it was glorious to watch her literally make herself sick and destroy herself. It isn't vengeance, it is returning the favor.
This comment is very disturbing. There are always two in these equations The narcissist and the codependent. The codependent is probably just as bad as the narcissist. Both of these parties suffer immensely when they separate as they were in a codependent relationship. Both suffer anxiety and sickness due to their very sick give and take. They are magnetically bound to one another. Remember finding pleasure in someone else's misery will come back. Also remember that the narcissist as well as the codependent were both very badly abused as small children This is why they ended up in this magnetic relationship to begin with. There is never just a narcissist and a victim there's a narcissist and a codependent who both service each other. The narcissist destroys others before they destroy themselves and the codependent destroys themselves before they destroy others. They are equally sick.
You are an absolute treasure and wealth of knowledge.
THANK YOU for showing us we can heal. We can love. We can have peace. We can grow.
Blessing be unto you.
Thank you so much Danish. You have no idea how much strength you have given me. Wishing you and every other survivor all the happiness.
You are right. The only way to break the cycle is to disconnect completely from your narc family. They will destroy your life.
Danish, it sounds like you have been chosen by a higher power to be the cycle breaker for your family. Going no contact takes a lot of courage and I respect you for being able to do that.
Take the wind from their sails and give them no floor to stand on. They will rage and starve out. Silence is the route. Without our attention, they cannot survive.
That only works if you aren't married to them, working with or for them, or living in same house with them.
This scapegoat just wishes that my family would recognize I'm not the bad guy but it helps them to feel better about themselves to paint me as a villain. It was validating to hear my therapist say I'm lucky to have survived my childhood. I do wish ill will towards the abusive narc i dated and after I broke it off he married my bf so he could use her to buy a house. He is living his best life ensnaring single mom after single mom with his disgusting wicked ways. I pray justice comes for him.
This really resonates with me, and it is soo sad. People forget we are here to evolve and help each other out. Thank you for this msg.
My whole family is a bunch of narcs and flying monkeys your not alone may God get revenge for all of us and expose their real face and intentions and the evil they have done to people Amen 🙏🏻
Spiritually, I feel narcissists are there to stop your spiritual progress, some souls are here trying to work on attaining Moksha from the death and rebirth cycle. The narcissist is an agent that works for the dark side, for their achievements in blocking your growth they get rewards, therefore they have get the success, money, friendship they want easily (they also are bathing in your energy that helps them take away your power & life force and they steal your destiny basically) Some narcissists, start to gain spiritual gifts that was once yours. Narcissistic survivors also pass away alone because they have been robbed, cheated and had their spirit broken by a narcissist/s that they find it hard to reach out and trust anyone again.
I also feel entry of narcissistic people in our life is to teach us a lesson spiritually.. They make us remember to stand for rightousness inside our cobsiousness
There main aim is to distract us from our path , create hurdles in our journey so that we can fight back against evil and be out as winner and more stronger than before.
@@shivangisikka9109 It's not so easy to fight when you are so drained of energy and tired right down to a soul level, that your thoughts are not clear even to yourself
These Narcissistic People Give Themselves Over To The Devil
Todays talk is really soothing danish bhai
Thank you so much, Danish. My childhood haunts me, and your videos help me to put it into perspective. This talk is especially on point, as my narcissistic mother's life is ending in an utterly bitter way. I am completely amazed when she asks me for help, as she was incredibly abusive to me my whole life. I'm finally able to find some peace and am now reconnecting with family members who had to keep their distance due to her berating comments and behavior. Thank you for guiding us through; you are a beautiful human being, helpful to all of us. 🙏❤️
Thank you. This was a random click for me. I was going to continue with my day but I had to stop and listen. I believe God will tell you things through others when it’s needed. And I feel I needed this. Thank you.
Abba Father bless you dear brother.
Thank you for shining God's light in a growing darker by the day World.
Thank you!
My husband and I both have wounds from his narc mother and family. I’m hoping and praying that we can heal; and that maybe we can see the good that comes from that pain?
Thank you for helping Danish
These challenges help us to become more discerning and wise. I think we use our suffering to become more wise, kind, patient, tolerant, and mature. You are very strong and wise if You can break that cycle.
I am slowly regaining my confidence after being in this toxic relationship for years. Looking for a job so that I can set myself free. I wish all of us could set ourselves free.
Danish, I'm so sorry to hear that a lot of your family members are narcissists. I can relate as I have a few in my family as well. I do have a few siblings that are not though and I am extremely thankful for them. You truly are helping thousands of people and are a blessing to many. THANK YOU!!!
I was raised by family of narcs. maybe worse than one. The things they did still torture me/
Danish you da man! You make a difference. Your vids are confirmation for US that have been through it.
Danish, cheers to you for breaking the cycle. You made the choice to be strong. Cant imagine spending one's whole childhood surrounded by such people.
1. May God continue to reveal the mechanisms of healing from trauma to you, so that you can continue to help more people.
2. May your new relationships be healthy and keep you from being what you hate.
3. imo-narcs get to keep being awful and rotten until God says, I gave you all the chances to repent and you kept choosing evil-now you get the fruit of your choices.
😢and it's never pretty-nor anything that someone with an iota of compassion would wish another person (even a bad one) to experience.
and just like another commenter stated, sometimes bad angels win-that's only because someone lets them (usually the bad choice person). I've talked to some of these people. They really have faith that evil is more powerful-so it is-over them. What you feed, grows stronger. But God's goodnesses are not so weak nor powerless. A pastor preached on this once and it made sense-the doors we exercise opening create a dominion of easier openings around us. What will you open?
-Blessings!
❤I'm glad you broke the cycle of your narc family Danish!
I learned a valuable lesson dealing with the two narcissist that were in my life I’m in school to become a therapist now 😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
May God heal all of us. I don’t know what I did to deserve this punishment but I sincerely hope and pray that God heals us all.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm blessed to see ALL the narcissists who abused me get the highest form of righteous judgment from the universe.
One lost her entire family and kids. One dropped dead at work. She abused and used me (and others) terribly. Upper management knew but did nothing. God did.
A roommate threatened to kill me. I left.
A year later he had a stroke (from coke) and was in a wheelchair 15 years before death.
Most others have met similar fates.
Did I wish it on them specifically? No.
My prayer was always that that "may the universe visit those who have hurt me and others be judged by the highest form of righteous judgment as the universe sees fit.
That way as he said here God makes the decision what is right and just.
Because there may be extenuating circumstances that I can't see. So I wouldn't want to wish specific ill on someone who's bad behavior was caused by something I couldn't see.
Great video.
Your talk was very enlightening. I saw this happen with a narcissist mother-in-law who made our lives hell with her arrogance and self importance and how her life ended. Her son is still carrying on her legacy with his wife and children and sees her as an angel he must follow. Your name is accurate. Aap ek danishmand insaan hai
If you break the cycle for generations to come that's very powerful 😊
Let’s pray for our healing and leave the justice to God 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I would LOVE to help others who have been through Narcissistic ABUSE .
You have helped me so much. I could not voice my traumas to anyone because they would not understand. I was a victim of a narcissist. I finally divorced him when I was 31 and am now 76. I still live with the trauma. My husband is very friendly and everyone loves him. Many in my family have told me to just do what he wants and all will be OK. I could not defend myself, no one would understand. I have distanced myself from most of my family.
Thankyou very much Danish. Your advice helps me to heal and grow into a much better version of myself which I'm loving.
Thank you so much Danish, I needed to hear this today…I too have a father that is a narcissist & I experienced physical & emotional abuse, my entire childhood.
Then I married my husband, who is a narcissist too. For a long time, I cried & would ask myself what did I ever do in life to deserve this??
Now I know the truth, God has opened my eyes, & I’m getting ready to file for divorce. I hope to live the rest of my years in peace…
Everything you said is just like that, Danish you are my brother, respect from Croatia
My partner of 34 years comes from a family of narcissists. I never even knew what that was, as I grew up with low self esteem and thought they were so above me. It has taken. Me many years to realize how unhealthy they are, emotionally shallow and empty. I would happily go… no contact. It’s just not that simple. 🙏🏻
The truth is, they are far below us. They are a lesser species. We are made in God's image and God is loving and kind. They are made in their father's image, the Serpent who is a liar and a manipulator.
Same I’m trying to do self concept work
Hi danish.।।। I have suffered from narcissism since childhood.।।। Every single person of my family has some of it.।।।। Your videos helped me a lot.।। Before you I didn't know about narcissism.।।। Although I am in contact with them but it's very rare. I am peaceful now and I really don't care anymore.
My mother has always been explaining this point. I know that my soon to be ex husband and his family( narcissistic bunch) are not at peace. However this torments that society still thinks he is doing good and I am the one who should have adjusted for mere breadcrumbs. I am lucky to have supportive parents and managed to restart my career. Only regret my daughter stayed back with my ex, she might be a narcissist too.
Bring out your daughter from those demons and get her therapy done.
Get back your daughter
They are always alone, unloved, unsatisfied, untrustworthy this is enough for their justice from God 🙏
Unsatisfied and untrustworthy are the only two that apply to narcs. The rest applies to their targets of abuse (empaths) who are indeed waiting for their JUSTICE from God.
I told my friend the same thing and she called me I m exaggerating it but I'm not actually she literally called me that. But I knew that I'm right and these feelings are validation. So that's it I'm healing doing great and I'm happy thank you Danish love you so much for all your work
GOD BLESS YOU DANISH! Helping so many people!!!🎉
I dont think so narcissistic realize their mistake
I love that you include spirituality. During the worst of the abuse I turned to Buddhism. It brought me so much peace. When I settled for a year I went to a Christian church. I felt like I was in another narc relationship at that church. The constant need to worship and please the unpleasable. I was to worship a being that caused men to kill their own sons and have horrible things done to their daughters. I have had a great deal of problems with that. I believe that there is Karma. With every seed they take from someone, it will never grow. When they change the direction of the stream for their garden depriving another person the water for their own garden, the earth will swallow the water. They have no fertilizer to grow a garden because the animals will not go near for they see the true nature of that narcissist. The garden will never prosper. While future generations of the good people thrive from the beautiful garden there will be nothing but dried and dead earth. Nothing can grow from nothing. Even trying to break nature to make it will not work. I can’t forgive my ex. I can accept it. I can move on. I hope someday a person may come and enjoy the small garden that I left for them. That garden will mean that I once walked the earth. That I must have been good to have a small garden. When people walk past the scorched earth they will think nothing. Isn’t that what a narcissist is though, nothing.
It IS divine intervention when when you are gifted the gift of clarity and discernment regarding these people. The programming and guilt and shame is usually so thorough that most are never awaken to malignant narcissists. It is a tough reality to come to and God delivers the clarity when and only when you are able to process, learn and accept what was done to you. It is a very harsh reality to learn. But I assure you, when it does come it brings peace and in time it delivers you from the guilt and shame and trauma bonding that they weaponized against you for a lifetime. It is freedom.
It is so easy for us to just want to take revenge on other people, but the Lord God Almighty, never slumbers. So far, what we need to do is take care of ourselves. Recognize the dysfunction and the pray that the Lord Almighty God will open the eyes of those who are DECEIVED. We need get health ourselves you no matter what…we do be a part of what the devil wants and that is chaos and confusion and division and circular crazy dysfunctional patterns. The Lord will for sure WILL deal with the situation.
Thank you Danish ALWAYS For your dear heart and your videos, and we absolutely love you here. God bless you.
From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA
Well said my brother! I often fight with GOD over this very topic, but you have put me at ease!
I don’t believe in reincarnation, I believe in the resurrection of the body & eternal life in heaven. This has to be new age.
Reincarnation is a demonic deception that seems real and fools those without Biblical knowledge. The way it works is the familiar spirit of a french knight from 1741 enters a newborn baby from 2020 that does not speak french (or enters it in the womb). When the baby is a few years old it starts speaking french and telling things that happened back in 1741. The demon gives it a false memory of something that really happened but not to them. No reincarnation. Just another lie from the father of lies.
I believe in The Bible., and what is in the end for Christians- who love Jesus; and what's in the end for non-Christians those who hate Him. They will suffer unless they repent from their sins and come back to Him.
'In the mirror of thee I see me' Your description of your ecperience is almost exactly my own, but my inheritence is from the maternal side rather than the paternal. Love my mother, but have said that my father deserves a medal for sticking with her to the end. God bless him.
One may even be tempted to reply a conversation with a narcissist where you've went no contact to see how they're doing but you already know the answer. But the chances of replying are close to zero as the reason you went no contact was because of the lack of responsibility, accountability and zero remorse.
They would reach out again as if it's a brand new day and all the harm they caused you never happened. I'm glad I educated myself fully to not fall into their games and tactics. I trust in higher power and God to do the balancing while I focus on my peace and evolution.
Therefore, I stand firm with no contact despite all these new messages from new addresses. The narc is already on the 3rd email account in a span of 1 year no contact. I never replied once. Block and delete.
Good for you! Wise decisions!
Exactly they just try to change ur mind with fake hopes, blame-game, being a victim, apologies. Also trying to triangulate with others and flyingbmonkey enablers. Just don't entertain them whatsoever, they're devils!!
Don't respond. They despise that as they're entitled (filled with pride) with the belief that you're supposed to allow them to objectify you as their property to abuse. The only interest is in winning.
My mother is narcissistic I had suffered a lot I had lost hope and I think that my pain never end but what you told all things are real, so I feel relief and all that thing you told in this video are real and I had experience it and you give me a life to leave and potential. Thankyou very much.
Thank-you for this topic and so true.
Danish.. ur the only person who validate my anger sufferings nd confusion not even my mom or my sister or my whole family .. it fuels me a lot as a survivor.
Thank you brother ❤
May god bless u❤
Reach out to more ppl...❤
It is believed in Hinduism and Buddhism that after death the soul finds new body and takes rebirth according to their previous life karma,all good and bad karma come back to the person in the form of happiness and sorrow and in this way justice is done